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Subject: "You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it."

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SimplyHannah
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Mon Sep-21-15 01:02 PM

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"You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it."

Or even dating for that matter, ass need to be focused on something else.

Tis all.

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Subject	Author	Message Date	ID
:(	c71	Sep 21st 2015	1
You shouldn't be dating if you're not procreating.	MEAT	Sep 21st 2015	2
LOL	boyd	Sep 21st 2015	10
^ broke.	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	12
Married with no kids.	MEAT	Sep 21st 2015	20
What exactly does this mean?	Hamsterline	Sep 21st 2015	3
Priorities	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	11
dog, it's a 'date'. they're not opening joint accounts.	Kwesi	Sep 21st 2015	34
.	FLUIDJ	Sep 21st 2015	4
When I was at my brokest, I wasn't trying to date	John Forte	Sep 21st 2015	5
pretty much	illEskoBar221	Sep 21st 2015	9
And I think that's fine as long as you're honest.	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	32
good conversation usually reveals a lot in dudes	Lach	Sep 21st 2015	40
How much money does dating cost?	makaveli	Sep 21st 2015	6
I mean if you have to ask then........	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	8
then........what?	makaveli	Sep 21st 2015	54
Lol	blkprinceMD05	Sep 21st 2015	64
smh	KiloMcG	Sep 21st 2015	7
White women don't care	Paps_Smear	Sep 21st 2015	13
They really don't have to worry because usually white men hold their own	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	15
No, I'm talking about the black loving white women	Paps_Smear	Sep 21st 2015	17
oh the lower hanging fruit...	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	29
Those women don't expect anything other than dick	caramelapplebttms	Sep 21st 2015	55
SOME women don't care	Boogie Stimuli	Sep 22nd 2015	102
Where is that? The ones that don't care are usually the ones that only	micMajestic	Sep 22nd 2015	119
This advice is just for men though, right? #WARZ	PimpTrickGangstaClik	Sep 21st 2015	14
lol....	WarriorPoet415	Sep 21st 2015	16
If they can't afford to atleast pay for their half	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	22
damn, a nigga can't even take a broke broad out on the town?	Kwesi	Sep 21st 2015	24
basically, what's half of zero.	Cenario	Sep 21st 2015	28
I mean if that's what you took from that fine..	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	35
this is far from advice.	Kwesi	Sep 21st 2015	23
im tired of dating broke niggas, too.	Kwesi	Sep 21st 2015	18
Eddie taught me	Paps_Smear	Sep 21st 2015	19
broke people got needs too	Cenario	Sep 21st 2015	21
yeah-- money.	Atillah Moor	Sep 22nd 2015	126
dates could be free, but if you're unemployed or in deep debt	southphillyman	Sep 21st 2015	25
^ gets it	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	30
you expect people to apply for jobs their every waking moment?	Kwesi	Sep 21st 2015	33
no. there should be time allotted to cook healthy meals and exercise	southphillyman	Sep 21st 2015	37
I agree	Lach	Sep 21st 2015	42
I agree, but it goes both ways	BabyYoda	Sep 21st 2015	26
we oughta think, before we throw good love away. (c) marvin gaye	Mike Jackson	Sep 21st 2015	27
worked for thurgood jenkins	wluv	Sep 21st 2015	31
who?	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	39
half baked	wluv	Sep 21st 2015	44
i know that im aging out of this convo but this is dumb.	bonamie	Sep 21st 2015	36
i couldnt date a women unless she made 6 figures	tomjohn29	Sep 21st 2015
Hannah banana, I'm kinda on page with you on this one.	double negative	Sep 21st 2015	38
This question might illustrate how I've been single way too long but...	Moonlit_Force	Sep 21st 2015	41
Agreed. Gotta pay to play.	Atillah Moor	Sep 21st 2015	43
disagree, date someone on your level...	ndibs	Sep 21st 2015	45
pretty much...2 broke people should have the same expectations	Cenario	Sep 21st 2015	46
there's a huge population fucking and making babies	ndibs	Sep 21st 2015	48
I agree. M.O.B.	flipnile	Sep 21st 2015	47
YOU really shouldn't be advising anyone on this issue.	SoWhat	Sep 21st 2015	49
It's a valid point. Now give me my props and call it a day.	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	50
It's completely invalid. And foolish.	SoWhat	Sep 21st 2015	53
^ too liberal to see the light of day	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	57
^ too foolish to see beyond her navel.	SoWhat	Sep 21st 2015	59
yes because God forbid you try and get your shit together	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	62
Good for you!	SoWhat	Sep 21st 2015	66
Morals are good sometimes.	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	67
I wouldn't know as I clearly don't have any.	SoWhat	Sep 21st 2015	83
yes, precisely.	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	85
sure. i am who you say i am.	SoWhat	Sep 21st 2015	86
Morals huh?	placee_22	Sep 22nd 2015	128
I'm a believer that broke people should not be dating	Regina Rose	Sep 21st 2015	51
you backwards.	Kwesi	Sep 21st 2015	52
how so?	Regina Rose	Sep 21st 2015	61
Thru history it's mostly rich men that have lied with painted whores	J_Stew	Sep 21st 2015	56
Sounds like #winning to me.	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	60
#morals	makaveli	Sep 21st 2015	69
lol	cgonz00cc	Sep 22nd 2015	121
lmao	MiracleRic	Oct 02nd 2015	216
"You can lose money chasing women..."	caramelapplebttms	Sep 21st 2015	58
how much?	Mynoriti	Sep 21st 2015	63
agree	decaturpsalm	Sep 21st 2015	65
meanwhile, my wife and I had our first date the day I quit my job	Cold Truth	Sep 21st 2015	68
http://tiny.cc/n2wo3x	-DJ R-Tistic-	Sep 21st 2015	70
why in the hell is this so funny? i wasn't ready	Kwesi	Sep 21st 2015	71
i'm weakened, bruh	astralblak	Sep 21st 2015	95
lolz	Cenario	Sep 22nd 2015	111
RE: http://tiny.cc/n2wo3x	double 0	Sep 22nd 2015	148
You're not yourself, have a snickers.	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	77
I'm very much myself, and I like you as a person, but you're ridiculou...	Cold Truth	Sep 21st 2015	79
Im here to upset the establishment.	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	81
weird response to a great story	eclipsedInI	Sep 23rd 2015	153
jeez	Cenario	Sep 22nd 2015	113
Your staying employed was as good as having a stable job	Atillah Moor	Sep 22nd 2015	130
Oh for sure, but that gets into the meat of my point.	Cold Truth	Sep 23rd 2015	189
Wow man, motivational speaking might could be in your future.	Atillah Moor	Sep 24th 2015	191
bird mentality	Madvillain 626	Sep 21st 2015	72
" Bird " is so 1996	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	78
^^^^^^has a mean MMMMFLAKALACKA	Cold Truth	Sep 21st 2015	80
It's actually a responsible mentality	Boogie Stimuli	Sep 22nd 2015	101
you really shouldn't be eating if you can't afford it.	Kwesi	Sep 21st 2015	73
you really shouldn't be having fun if you can't afford it.	Kwesi	Sep 21st 2015	74
you really shouldn't sleep if you can't afford it.	Kwesi	Sep 21st 2015	75
you really shouldn't be living if you can't afford it.	Kwesi	Sep 21st 2015	76
Lol damn fam	Cenario	Sep 21st 2015	82
Smh.	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	87
nah it really is	astralblak	Sep 21st 2015	96
It really isn't	Boogie Stimuli	Sep 22nd 2015	105
RE: It really isn't	BrawtaLives	Sep 22nd 2015	118
You need food, water and oxygen to live	Boogie Stimuli	Sep 22nd 2015	104
NIGGA throws penalty flag for excessive everything	Kira	Sep 21st 2015	88
i shouldn't have to type it - but that wasn't directed at her, directly.	Kwesi	Sep 21st 2015	90
can she cook though?	J_Stew	Sep 22nd 2015	103
bwaahahaa	Cenario	Sep 22nd 2015	114
Man.....y'all. LMAO	-DJ R-Tistic-	Sep 22nd 2015	144
Funniest thing I've read all day.	Case_One	Sep 21st 2015	97
what an idiotic thing to say	Ill Jux	Sep 21st 2015	84
you right, priorities are for idiots.	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	91
lol @ not dating (or dating) being a priority	Ill Jux	Sep 21st 2015	93
We can apply this logic to a lot of stuff.	Kira	Sep 21st 2015	89
All that stuff is logical to me to be quite honest.	SimplyHannah	Sep 21st 2015	92
Not to get too deep but Maslow's hierarchy of needs covers everything	Kira	Sep 21st 2015	94
I can dig it	SimplyHannah	Sep 22nd 2015	109
This post went post for all the wrong reasons... ROTFL	Case_One	Sep 21st 2015	98
the whole point of this thread was to show off her teedees	legsdiamond	Sep 22nd 2015	99
See post 81	SimplyHannah	Sep 22nd 2015	108
Avi went from Toni Braxton to tiDDay jackson...	legsdiamond	Sep 22nd 2015	122
You may be upsetting your lower back even more.	Atillah Moor	Sep 22nd 2015	142
lmao damn	Cenario	Sep 22nd 2015	115
rolling on the floor lemon!	double negative	Sep 22nd 2015	110
lol	SimplyHannah	Sep 22nd 2015	134
.	SimplyHannah	Sep 22nd 2015	135
I don't disagree at all.	Boogie Stimuli	Sep 22nd 2015	100
ppl still want sex and sexual relationships	ndibs	Sep 22nd 2015	129
True. People want a lot of things that are bad ideas to pursue.	Boogie Stimuli	Sep 23rd 2015	151
0% of men are staying celibate until they're in the 30s	ndibs	Sep 23rd 2015	166
If you say they can make it on minimum wage, then they can afford	Boogie Stimuli	Sep 23rd 2015	190
This is possibly the most unromantic post I've seen. lol	denny	Sep 22nd 2015	106
lol i'm sayin	Madvillain 626	Sep 22nd 2015	107
I"m such a square for this love shit.	denny	Sep 22nd 2015	127
Romance was manufactured on Madison Avenue in the 40's/50's	Atillah Moor	Sep 22nd 2015	131
no it wasn't. the diamond engagement ring industry was tho.	ndibs	Sep 22nd 2015	133
so if my job is to support the financial health of our dating	esb225	Sep 22nd 2015	112
RE: You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it.	BrawtaLives	Sep 22nd 2015	116
This post isnt gender specific	SimplyHannah	Sep 22nd 2015	132
if waited until we were "ready" or "able" to do something	teefiveten	Sep 22nd 2015	117
RE: if waited until we were "ready" or "able" to do something	double 0	Sep 22nd 2015	149
I disagree, but we have 100x posts shaming women, so...	micMajestic	Sep 22nd 2015	120
Grade-A trolling, would read post again.	Mongo	Sep 22nd 2015	123
she not trolling. she legitimately tired of fucking with broke boys.	Kwesi	Sep 22nd 2015	124
You know nothing about me.	SimplyHannah	Sep 22nd 2015	136
watch me not care.	Kwesi	Sep 22nd 2015	137
You tried to size her up based on her posts, you obviously care	micMajestic	Sep 22nd 2015	138
almost, i dont care about being right or wrong re: 'knowing her'.	Kwesi	Sep 22nd 2015	139
I guess. Beyond trying to feel smart, what do you get out of all that?	micMajestic	Sep 22nd 2015	141
dude, just tell me to get lost.	Kwesi	Sep 22nd 2015	143
He just wants some attention.	SimplyHannah	Sep 22nd 2015	147
SILENTOO!	Atillah Moor	Sep 22nd 2015	140
You're pressed as fuck.	SimplyHannah	Sep 22nd 2015	146
respectfully, I disagree.	illegal	Sep 22nd 2015	125
I thought this post was made because of the responses in the "$7.50"	ShinobiShaw	Sep 22nd 2015	145
women should also stop giving them casual sex	MizClayton	Sep 22nd 2015	150
^^^^DONT LISTEN TO THIS WOMAN	wluv	Sep 23rd 2015	152
OOP	eclipsedInI	Sep 23rd 2015	154
OOP	eclipsedInI	Sep 23rd 2015	155
I kinda agree. But ...	SimplyHannah	Sep 23rd 2015	156
or bc they like hard dick.	Cenario	Sep 23rd 2015	157
Sure	SimplyHannah	Sep 23rd 2015	159
'some' chicks cry over this. 'some' chicks cry over that.	Kwesi	Sep 23rd 2015	163
I broke a nail earlier today	SimplyHannah	Sep 23rd 2015	165
gel or acrylic?	Kwesi	Sep 23rd 2015	167
Dont ask unless youre paying for it to get fixed	SimplyHannah	Sep 23rd 2015	169
*unsubscribe	Kwesi	Sep 23rd 2015	170
LoL	eclipsedInI	Sep 23rd 2015	175
LOL	Dstl1	Sep 23rd 2015	182
so they would be crying whether or not they had sex bc they	Cenario	Sep 23rd 2015	164
who still talks about women 'giving sex' in 2015?	SoWhat	Sep 23rd 2015	158
this post keeps on giving. not sex. but something else	teefiveten	Sep 23rd 2015	160
lol	Cenario	Sep 23rd 2015	161
women SHOULD have sex because they want to have sex.	Kwesi	Sep 23rd 2015	168
lol you are no better.	teefiveten	Sep 23rd 2015	171
what'll really blow your mind is that's the same thing MizClayton typed.	Kwesi	Sep 23rd 2015	173
lol true	MiracleRic	Oct 02nd 2015	217
Hello	SoWhat	Sep 23rd 2015	184
oh stop, you know what she meant.....don't lawyer the poast	eclipsedInI	Sep 23rd 2015	176
And don't nanny me.	SoWhat	Sep 23rd 2015	183
foh PC policing my shit	MizClayton	Oct 01st 2015	193
^^^^^ lawd GEEZUS, please preach that good gospel	Boogie Stimuli	Oct 01st 2015	194
FOH using outdated bullshit language	SoWhat	Oct 02nd 2015	220
I dont agree totally but you should have a plan and be creative.	godleeluv	Sep 23rd 2015	162
^^^ yup. some things you should be/do whether you have $ or not	teefiveten	Sep 23rd 2015	172
pretty much..even if you are in relationship or married	Cenario	Sep 23rd 2015	174
$$ doesnt mean ready. CLEARLY.	teefiveten	Sep 23rd 2015	178
Yall are veering off into the dysfunctional to make the point tho...	Boogie Stimuli	Oct 02nd 2015	213
everyone should just do them & make love	eclipsedInI	Sep 23rd 2015	177
on the real i think this adds to the degeneracy of blacks.	Kwesi	Sep 23rd 2015	179
Nigga said getting your shit together is degeneracy lol	Boogie Stimuli	Oct 01st 2015	197
RE: You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it.	Tiggerific	Sep 23rd 2015	180
Her titties ain't shrink after making this post	DJPoke	Sep 23rd 2015	188
RE: Her titties ain't shrink after making this post	Tiggerific	Sep 28th 2015	192
Lol man it wont stop till everything is commidified and priced, huh?	Brotha Sun	Sep 23rd 2015	181
sheeit, alotta women need money to play da game too	_explain555	Sep 23rd 2015	185
I agree.	SimplyHannah	Sep 23rd 2015	186
SimplyHannah swopes in and singlehandly lands the biggest blow in	Buddy_Gilapagos	Sep 23rd 2015	187
i feel some kind of way about this	lfresh	Oct 02nd 2015	218
I don't see how anyone can be mad at this	Big Kuntry	Oct 01st 2015	195
I'm sayin	Boogie Stimuli	Oct 02nd 2015	199
This post is a Dating Advice Nightmare.	Case_One	Oct 01st 2015	196
damn near every OKP post about this subject is	Garhart Poppwell	Oct 02nd 2015	198
This post is so depressing.	TheAlbionist	Oct 02nd 2015	200
There's love in many more places than dating	Boogie Stimuli	Oct 02nd 2015	201
Yeah, but physical intimacy is more than just fucking.	Lardlad95	Oct 02nd 2015	202
Of course it is. Point still stands.	Boogie Stimuli	Oct 02nd 2015	204
It is or it should be? I disagree with both, but I want to be clear	Lardlad95	Oct 02nd 2015	205
It is for me. I leave "shoulds" for the parties engaging...	Boogie Stimuli	Oct 02nd 2015	208
' It is for me. ' Is the sentiment the OP should have ended on.	Lardlad95	Oct 02nd 2015	210
There are many types of love, sure.	TheAlbionist	Oct 02nd 2015	203
Oh jesus christ, cut the crap, lol	Boogie Stimuli	Oct 02nd 2015	206
So physical love < familial love? Got it.	Lardlad95	Oct 02nd 2015	207
I feel like you're being purposely obtuse here...	Boogie Stimuli	Oct 02nd 2015	209
Why would I purposely be obtuse? I just disagree with your entire	Lardlad95	Oct 02nd 2015	211
Ok now we're getting somewhere...	Boogie Stimuli	Oct 02nd 2015	212
Romantic love can be asexual just as much as sexual.	TheAlbionist	Oct 02nd 2015	214
As a dude....i wholeheartedly agree	ambient1	Oct 02nd 2015	215
have a friend	lfresh	Oct 02nd 2015	219
I took 'afford' to be more metaphorical	Dr Claw	Oct 02nd 2015	221
The only time I dated "broke" was in college	DVS	Oct 02nd 2015	222
obama shouldn't have a NCAA bracket..but he does every year	MiracleRic	Oct 02nd 2015	223

c71
Member since Jan 15th 2008
14288 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:03 PM

1. ":("
In response to Reply # 0

nah,......u rite.....

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MEAT
Member since Feb 08th 2008
22309 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:04 PM

2. "You shouldn't be dating if you're not procreating. "
In response to Reply # 0

Or some other loud and wrong opinion

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“There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.” -Albert Camus

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boyd
Member since May 15th 2006
7654 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:14 PM

10. "LOL"
In response to Reply # 2

people need to stop expecting high price dates at all cost.

sometimes something from a food truck and a GREAT
conversation can be all one need to hit the skins, or
build on something more.

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:15 PM

12. "^ broke."
In response to Reply # 2

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MEAT
Member since Feb 08th 2008
22309 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:22 PM

20. "Married with no kids. "
In response to Reply # 12

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“There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.” -Albert Camus

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Hamsterline
Charter member
4004 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:04 PM

3. "What exactly does this mean?"
In response to Reply # 0

_________________________
"no manure, no magic"

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:15 PM

11. "Priorities"
In response to Reply # 3

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:43 PM

34. "dog, it's a 'date'. they're not opening joint accounts."
In response to Reply # 11

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FLUIDJ
Member since Sep 18th 2002
44736 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:04 PM

4. "."
In response to Reply # 0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSgp-IIgr4I

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John Forte
Member since Feb 22nd 2013
15361 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:05 PM

5. "When I was at my brokest, I wasn't trying to date"
In response to Reply # 0

If I couldn't even afford to go dutch, I wasn't going to be "dating" nobody. You could still come thru and get the pipe, tho.

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illEskoBar221
Member since Oct 18th 2004
8453 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:14 PM

9. "pretty much"
In response to Reply # 5

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:42 PM

32. "And I think that's fine as long as you're honest."
In response to Reply # 5

>If I couldn't even afford to go dutch, I wasn't going to be
>"dating" nobody. You could still come thru and get the pipe,
>tho.

Niggas need an " All I have for you is conversation and a hard dick " disclaimer stamped on their foreheads.

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Lach
Charter member
44405 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:56 PM

40. "good conversation usually reveals a lot in dudes"
In response to Reply # 32
Mon Sep-21-15 01:56 PM by Lach

>Niggas need an " All I have for you is conversation and a hard
>dick " disclaimer stamped on their foreheads.

But for some reason even the nicest, smartest women sometimes get blinded hoping the shiny new porsche they're looking at can get the oil leak fixed. My sisters drove me crazy bringing home these leaky things they thought were porsches back in the day. I'm like c'mon now.

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makaveli
Charter member
16503 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:06 PM

6. "How much money does dating cost?"
In response to Reply # 0

Just so I know.

“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:11 PM

8. "I mean if you have to ask then........"
In response to Reply # 6

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makaveli
Charter member
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Mon Sep-21-15 05:05 PM

54. "then........what?"
In response to Reply # 8

“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

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blkprinceMD05
Member since Nov 29th 2004
41323 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 05:47 PM

64. "Lol"
In response to Reply # 8

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

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KiloMcG
Member since Jan 01st 2008
27561 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:10 PM

7. "smh"
In response to Reply # 0

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Paps_Smear
Member since Feb 02nd 2009
4254 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:18 PM

13. "White women don't care"
In response to Reply # 0

*Runs out of post screaming "POOOOAAASST"*

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Official Okay-Super Villain™

I only play the games that I win at -
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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:21 PM

15. "They really don't have to worry because usually white men hold their own"
In response to Reply # 13

It's like a standard with them. They already know what time it is.

Black men not so much.

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Paps_Smear
Member since Feb 02nd 2009
4254 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:22 PM

17. "No, I'm talking about the black loving white women"
In response to Reply # 15

=================
Official Okay-Super Villain™

I only play the games that I win at -
Gamertag: Innovator
PSN: DurtyGambino
Steam: Durty Gambino
Twitch.tv/durtygambino

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:37 PM

29. "oh the lower hanging fruit..."
In response to Reply # 17

I don't know anything about that, playboy.

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caramelapplebttms
Member since Mar 09th 2004
3152 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 05:11 PM

55. "Those women don't expect anything other than dick"
In response to Reply # 15

They're making a conscious choice.

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 01:07 AM

102. "SOME women don't care"
In response to Reply # 13

Those women come in both black and white.

That's still no reason for a man to have low standards for himself.

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Days like this I miss Sha Mecca

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micMajestic
Charter member
22938 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 09:11 AM

119. "Where is that? The ones that don't care are usually the ones that only "
In response to Reply # 13

>*Runs out of post screaming "POOOOAAASST"*

Black men are willing to be seen with.

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PimpTrickGangstaClik
Member since Oct 06th 2005
15969 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:20 PM

14. "This advice is just for men though, right? #WARZ"
In response to Reply # 0

Broke women are okay to be dating?

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WarriorPoet415
Member since Sep 30th 2003
17898 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:22 PM

16. "lol...."
In response to Reply # 14

______________________________________________________________________________

cscpov.blogspot.com

"There's a fine line between persistence and foolishness..."
-unknown

"To Each His Reach"

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:23 PM

22. "If they can't afford to atleast pay for their half "
In response to Reply # 14

Or be prepared to just incase, then they shouldn't be either.

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:26 PM

24. "damn, a nigga can't even take a broke broad out on the town?"
In response to Reply # 22

you mad as shit right now.

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Cenario
Member since Aug 24th 2005
59258 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:33 PM

28. "basically, what's half of zero."
In response to Reply # 24

Good times can be had lol

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:48 PM

35. "I mean if that's what you took from that fine.."
In response to Reply # 24

Lol

And 2 seconds later niggas will be crying about chicks never offering to pay or open their purses on dates. :shrugs:

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:23 PM

23. "this is far from advice."
In response to Reply # 14

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
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Mon Sep-21-15 01:22 PM

18. "im tired of dating broke niggas, too."
In response to Reply # 0

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Paps_Smear
Member since Feb 02nd 2009
4254 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:22 PM

19. "Eddie taught me"
In response to Reply # 0

https://youtu.be/-7o-ziHVTkw

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Cenario
Member since Aug 24th 2005
59258 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:23 PM

21. "broke people got needs too"
In response to Reply # 0

>Or even dating for that matter, ass need to be focused on something else.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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Atillah Moor
Member since Sep 05th 2013
13825 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 10:01 AM

126. "yeah-- money. "
In response to Reply # 21

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southphillyman
Member since Oct 22nd 2003
90059 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:30 PM

25. "dates could be free, but if you're unemployed or in deep debt"
In response to Reply # 0

i tend to agree
you need to focus on rectifying your situation before investing time/energy into romantic prospects

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:39 PM

30. "^ gets it "
In response to Reply # 25

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:42 PM

33. "you expect people to apply for jobs their every waking moment?"
In response to Reply # 25

companionship is life force.

yall aint never met no bums who were in love?

like lieteral homeless people, loved-up.

the shit's beautiful.

this sentiment seems drenched in a 'rat race' mentality.

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southphillyman
Member since Oct 22nd 2003
90059 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:51 PM

37. "no. there should be time allotted to cook healthy meals and exercise"
In response to Reply # 33

wouldn't be bad if they took some MOOC courses as well.
but yes the vast majority of your time should be mock interviewing and studying (if your field calls for it)

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Lach
Charter member
44405 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:58 PM

42. "I agree"
In response to Reply # 25

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BabyYoda
Member since Feb 15th 2012
3176 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:30 PM

26. "I agree, but it goes both ways"
In response to Reply # 0

Dating can be fun and inexpensive. Just need to find people who understands this shit.

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Mike Jackson
Member since Dec 11th 2008
1093 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:32 PM

27. "we oughta think, before we throw good love away. (c) marvin gaye"
In response to Reply # 0

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wluv
Member since Jan 27th 2003
4362 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:39 PM

31. "worked for thurgood jenkins"
In response to Reply # 0

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:55 PM

39. "who?"
In response to Reply # 31

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wluv
Member since Jan 27th 2003
4362 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 02:31 PM

44. "half baked"
In response to Reply # 39

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bonamie
Charter member
60263 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:49 PM

36. "i know that im aging out of this convo but this is dumb."
In response to Reply # 0

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tomjohn29
Member since Oct 18th 2004
16819 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:53 PM

"i couldnt date a women unless she made 6 figures"
Mon Sep-21-15 01:53 PM by tomjohn29

i got kind of used to being with a women who has money
we got back from vacation
we didnt renew nfl sunday ticket
wife asked did i want it
said up to her
i pay the bill mind you
she logged on and paid cash for the subscription with the quickness
love it

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Navem nu, cuando sol
Tutu nu, vondo nos nu
Vita em, no continous non
Nos nu ekta nos sepe ta, amen

When the sun shades the ship
We sweat and life is not safe
To swim or to touch not
When we unite we hedge amen

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double negative
Member since Dec 14th 2007
22151 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:53 PM

38. "Hannah banana, I'm kinda on page with you on this one. "
In response to Reply # 0

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Moonlit_Force
Member since Oct 10th 2005
8643 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 01:56 PM

41. "This question might illustrate how I've been single way too long but..."
In response to Reply # 0

... what's the average monetary value of a relationship?

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Atillah Moor
Member since Sep 05th 2013
13825 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 02:10 PM

43. "Agreed. Gotta pay to play. "
In response to Reply # 0

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ndibs
Member since Aug 06th 2012
12715 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 03:13 PM

45. "disagree, date someone on your level..."
In response to Reply # 0

it's not that complicated.

the problem is people suffer from low self esteem about being poor and don't want to be with someone else like themselves.

and if you're female, it really doesn't matter.

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Cenario
Member since Aug 24th 2005
59258 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 03:17 PM

46. "pretty much...2 broke people should have the same expectations"
In response to Reply # 45

Whether or not they dating they 'should' be spending their friday nights in the same inexpensive ways. It might actually be cost effective to date since they can split the cost of stuff...like a $2.99 rental.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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ndibs
Member since Aug 06th 2012
12715 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 03:29 PM

48. "there's a huge population fucking and making babies"
In response to Reply # 46

with women who they're not dating and they think too good to date and they won't stay with after they impregnante them....

because they think they can do better ONCE x, y, z happens usually they get their money straight and it's sad for the children.

and the behavior is often delusional because once youre paying child support, getting your money together is often not possible.

ppl need to learn it's not shameful to be poor and they can love and be loved while poor.

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flipnile
Member since Nov 05th 2003
13762 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 03:20 PM

47. "I agree. M.O.B."
In response to Reply # 0

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SoWhat
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154163 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 03:29 PM

49. "YOU really shouldn't be advising anyone on this issue."
In response to Reply # 0
Mon Sep-21-15 03:30 PM by SoWhat

anyone who listens to this or agrees is a fool.

Tis all.

fuck you.

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 03:52 PM

50. "It's a valid point. Now give me my props and call it a day."
In response to Reply # 49

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SoWhat
Charter member
154163 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 04:46 PM

53. "It's completely invalid. And foolish."
In response to Reply # 50

Good day.

fuck you.

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 05:15 PM

57. "^ too liberal to see the light of day "
In response to Reply # 53

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SoWhat
Charter member
154163 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 05:20 PM

59. "^ too foolish to see beyond her navel."
In response to Reply # 57

fuck you.

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 05:31 PM

62. "yes because God forbid you try and get your shit together "
In response to Reply # 59

Before bringing someone else into it or worry about getting your genitals wet. You always advocating in favor of someone's carefree and poor choices, I cannot get jiggy with that shit.

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SoWhat
Charter member
154163 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 05:54 PM

66. "Good for you!"
In response to Reply # 62

fuck you.

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 06:01 PM

67. "Morals are good sometimes."
In response to Reply # 66

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SoWhat
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154163 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 09:15 PM

83. "I wouldn't know as I clearly don't have any."
In response to Reply # 67

Bc if I were a moral person I'd agree with you, of course.

fuck you.

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 09:54 PM

85. "yes, precisely."
In response to Reply # 83

But no on a serious note, you know how you do. You're very much the live and let live type and I get it, I really do. But it's like whatever the opposite of judgemental is, you operate on the extreme, extreme, extreme end of that spectrum for lack of better of better words. Some of the things I've seen you cape for, I know for a fact you wouldn't have advised or made those types decisions yourself. You gotta come to middle of the spectrum sometimes broham.

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SoWhat
Charter member
154163 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 10:02 PM

86. "sure. i am who you say i am."
In response to Reply # 85

and you've read every single one of my posts and recall them correctly and in proper context. so i have to agree w/you.

fuck you.

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placee_22
Member since Sep 30th 2002
12956 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 10:27 AM

128. "Morals huh?"
In response to Reply # 67

lmao

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Regina Rose
Member since Jul 01st 2008
7349 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 03:53 PM

51. "I'm a believer that broke people should not be dating "
In response to Reply # 0

Relationship is something else..

But casually dating? Nope! Chill get yourself in a better spot financially

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 04:34 PM

52. "you backwards."
In response to Reply # 51

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Regina Rose
Member since Jul 01st 2008
7349 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 05:30 PM

61. "how so?"
In response to Reply # 52

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J_Stew
Member since Jul 06th 2002
22363 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 05:13 PM

56. "Thru history it's mostly rich men that have lied with painted whores"
In response to Reply # 0

if we're going to take it to that level

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 05:20 PM

60. "Sounds like #winning to me."
In response to Reply # 56

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makaveli
Charter member
16503 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:11 PM

69. "#morals"
In response to Reply # 60

“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

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cgonz00cc
Member since Aug 01st 2002
36243 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 09:14 AM

121. "lol"
In response to Reply # 69

WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE

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MiracleRic
Member since Oct 21st 2002
45200 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 11:31 AM

216. "lmao"
In response to Reply # 69

Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

Building repetoires (c) spm since 1983

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caramelapplebttms
Member since Mar 09th 2004
3152 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 05:18 PM

58. ""You can lose money chasing women...""
In response to Reply # 0

"...but you'll never lose women chasing money."

This is an old player saying.

Who can argue that building wealth, or at least security is a better focus than dating?

As for love and companionship, that tends to happen when your priorities are straight, regardless of income.

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Mynoriti
Charter member
39310 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 05:32 PM

63. "how much?"
In response to Reply # 0

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decaturpsalm
Member since Apr 24th 2005
19268 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 05:54 PM

65. "agree"
In response to Reply # 0

nothing worse than being broke with a gf

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Cold Truth
Member since Jan 28th 2004
45197 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:03 PM

68. "meanwhile, my wife and I had our first date the day I quit my job"
In response to Reply # 0
Mon Sep-21-15 07:10 PM by Cold Truth

I was broke as duck while she was topping out at her job.

It took a year of being broke and bouncing around bullshit jobs before I had a real 40 hour paycheck with benefits and whatnot. I've had that job ever since and she's only slightly ahead of me income wise until I work overtime, at which point I'm the primary earner.

In 6 years we got married, had two kids, and are a couple of days away from closing escrow on the sale of our first home and moving into our second home, which is a significant upgrade.

Basically, taking your advice would have erased 6 years of increasing prosperity and a complete 180 shift in pretty much every facet of my life.

Conversely, after six more years of your philosophy on dating and relationships, you'll still be a single gold digger doling out the same terrible advice while you continue to convince yourself that your inability to find real love and intimacy is somehow due to glaring flaws in everyone but you.....all the while, everyone but you will know ow better.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

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-DJ R-Tistic-
Member since Nov 06th 2008
51987 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:22 PM

70. "http://tiny.cc/n2wo3x"
In response to Reply # 68

http://tiny.cc/n2wo3x

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:25 PM

71. "why in the hell is this so funny? i wasn't ready"
In response to Reply # 70

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astralblak
Member since Apr 05th 2007
20029 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 10:43 PM

95. "i'm weakened, bruh"
In response to Reply # 71

CT's post and RT's pic... shit

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Cenario
Member since Aug 24th 2005
59258 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 08:07 AM

111. "lolz"
In response to Reply # 95

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double 0
Member since Nov 17th 2004
7024 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 01:18 PM

148. "RE: http://tiny.cc/n2wo3x"
In response to Reply # 70

http://tinyurl.com/pe284z2

Double 0
DJ/Producer/Artist
Producer in Kidz In The Hall
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IG: @godouble0
www.thinklikearapper.com

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:43 PM

77. "You're not yourself, have a snickers."
In response to Reply # 68

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Cold Truth
Member since Jan 28th 2004
45197 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:55 PM

79. "I'm very much myself, and I like you as a person, but you're ridiculou..."
In response to Reply # 77

As far as this subject goes

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 08:01 PM

81. "Im here to upset the establishment."
In response to Reply # 79

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eclipsedInI
Member since Jul 29th 2002
92867 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 07:02 AM

153. "weird response to a great story"
In response to Reply # 79

_____________________
puttin' the roota in the toota since 98'

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Cenario
Member since Aug 24th 2005
59258 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 08:10 AM

113. "jeez"
In response to Reply # 68

http://31.media.tumblr.com/16e5f7275f0df36885ab6fec8efc1614/tumblr_inline_nbq54rTcxt1s7qoat.gif

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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Atillah Moor
Member since Sep 05th 2013
13825 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 10:52 AM

130. "Your staying employed was as good as having a stable job"
In response to Reply # 68

If you weren't working as hard at finding a stable gig you'd likely have a different story I'd wager.

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Cold Truth
Member since Jan 28th 2004
45197 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 10:16 PM

189. "Oh for sure, but that gets into the meat of my point. "
In response to Reply # 130

Because I really couldn't afford a girlfriend, not even a proverbial 'cheap date' like my wife was. Shit I broke out coupons on an early outing. I had NO business even trying to hold a relationship with her because she had her shit together while I was truly a polar opposite of her stability.

The conventionally wise choice at the time, for both of us, was for me to remain single until I figured things out. We actually came pretty close to not working out at all before things finally turned around for me.

You know what sold her on me though? The fact that I was willing to go hold a sign on a corner for 8 hours a weekend, something I had done before and absolutely hated. The first stint had me in tears the first two weekends because at that point I truly believed that that was the sort of life I was destined for. That first stint preceded her, but she knew about it and saw that I was willing to do it again because, well, fuck it, it's SOMETHING in a vast sea of nothing.

The other thing that sold her was my insistence on paying for everything I possibly could, even when it hurt

And that's the heart of my point; Hannah is looking at circumstances, not people.

True story: A close friend of mine, very much a little sister type, called me about a year into my relationship with my wife. She didn't date through high school and in college found herself with two very different guys. She explained both guys and asked for my advice. I picked the guy that appeared to be less of a catch on the surface due to some subtle character elements that stood out in her descriptions of both guys.

Again, true story, they got married a couple years later. On the 5th of this month, my daughter and I attended the 2nd birthday of their daughter, which doubled as a pregnancy announcement and gender reveal party. She gets to be a stay at home mom, which was something she wanted.

Any story can be different if you change certain variables, but any time you view people strictly through the lense of surface circumstances while discarding the intangibles, you do so at the expense of potentially good options.

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

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Atillah Moor
Member since Sep 05th 2013
13825 posts

Thu Sep-24-15 08:07 AM

191. "Wow man, motivational speaking might could be in your future. "
In response to Reply # 189

Thanks for sharing that background story.

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Madvillain 626
Member since Apr 25th 2006
10018 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:25 PM

72. "bird mentality "
In response to Reply # 0

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:54 PM

78. "" Bird " is so 1996"
In response to Reply # 72

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Cold Truth
Member since Jan 28th 2004
45197 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:58 PM

80. "^^^^^^has a mean MMMMFLAKALACKA "
In response to Reply # 78

-Sig-

“Why didn’t you do this in your own god damn country?"

-All Stah's view on undocumented immigrants wanting to be treated like human beings.

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 01:00 AM

101. "It's actually a responsible mentality"
In response to Reply # 72

Something families with generational success follow

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:28 PM

73. "you really shouldn't be eating if you can't afford it."
In response to Reply # 0

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:28 PM

74. "you really shouldn't be having fun if you can't afford it."
In response to Reply # 0

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:29 PM

75. "you really shouldn't sleep if you can't afford it."
In response to Reply # 0

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 07:34 PM

76. "you really shouldn't be living if you can't afford it."
In response to Reply # 0

do the world a favor.

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Cenario
Member since Aug 24th 2005
59258 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 08:36 PM

82. "Lol damn fam"
In response to Reply # 76

But that is basically whats being said.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 10:03 PM

87. "Smh."
In response to Reply # 82

It really ain't.

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astralblak
Member since Apr 05th 2007
20029 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 10:46 PM

96. "nah it really is"
In response to Reply # 87

it stinks of bourgeois sensibility and feeds the idea material wealth are what makes people valuable.

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 01:36 AM

105. "It really isn't"
In response to Reply # 96

What was said is very plain in the OP.
Yall done turned it into something else entirely just so you can feel slighted

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BrawtaLives
Member since Mar 07th 2008
398 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 09:06 AM

118. "RE: It really isn't"
In response to Reply # 105

No. It really is.

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 01:27 AM

104. "You need food, water and oxygen to live"
In response to Reply # 82

Dating ain't on the list, fam

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Kira
Member since Nov 14th 2004
28967 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 10:06 PM

88. "NIGGA *throws penalty flag for excessive everything*"
In response to Reply # 76

>do the world a favor.

Can't we get all get along and let SImplyHannah cook?

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 10:11 PM

90. "i shouldn't have to type it - but that wasn't directed at her, directly."
In response to Reply # 88

they call it sensationalism.

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J_Stew
Member since Jul 06th 2002
22363 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 01:21 AM

103. "can she cook though?"
In response to Reply # 88

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Cenario
Member since Aug 24th 2005
59258 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 08:11 AM

114. "bwaahahaa"
In response to Reply # 103

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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-DJ R-Tistic-
Member since Nov 06th 2008
51987 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 12:29 PM

144. "Man.....y'all. LMAO"
In response to Reply # 103

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Case_One
Charter member
54687 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 10:50 PM

97. "Funniest thing I've read all day. "
In response to Reply # 76

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"Love your haters until they can love themselves and then love them further." ~ J. Case

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Ill Jux
Member since Jan 19th 2007
14705 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 09:40 PM

84. "what an idiotic thing to say"
In response to Reply # 0

but whatever

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in the memory of NYC upt JUX�

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 10:13 PM

91. "you right, priorities are for idiots."
In response to Reply # 84

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Ill Jux
Member since Jan 19th 2007
14705 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 10:20 PM

93. "lol @ not dating (or dating) being a priority"
In response to Reply # 91

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Kira
Member since Nov 14th 2004
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Mon Sep-21-15 10:11 PM

89. "We can apply this logic to a lot of stuff."
In response to Reply # 0

You shouldn't take out student loans and major in a non business, non computer, non engineering, non whatever field that does not allow you to pay back the student loan.

You shouldn't get off work and have a celebratory dinner because that's money you need to save.

'The fuck you in the club for? You blowing money hanging out with friends having a good time for nothing.

TL;DR life is short so live it. Stop worrying about what you should and should not be doing and enjoy life. This is a phase you will grow out of at some point no shots.

No empathy for white misery (c) BDot

"root for everybody black haters say that's crazy, wow..."

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
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Mon Sep-21-15 10:16 PM

92. "All that stuff is logical to me to be quite honest."
In response to Reply # 89
Mon Sep-21-15 10:18 PM by SimplyHannah

And a very reasonable thought process.

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Kira
Member since Nov 14th 2004
28967 posts

Mon Sep-21-15 10:25 PM

94. "Not to get too deep but Maslow's hierarchy of needs covers everything"
In response to Reply # 92

>And a very reasonable thought process.

As human beings, as long as our needs are taken care of no matter how much we make, we're going to celebrate. Everyone in this post knows or knew someone younger that was broke and dating. Remember high school? EVERYBODY BROKE but they getting it in.

Human beings need to date and exist within each other's presence in intimate settings no matter the social status. Don't think I wasn't scheming on people at the hospital because clearly I ain't shit. She hurt and I'm hurt so let's heal together.

Live a little bit. I remember when I was, no shots, like this. Those were the days...

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
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Tue Sep-22-15 07:18 AM

109. "I can dig it "
In response to Reply # 94

And that makes sense and I guess a lot things in thinking about in retrospect instead of in the actual moment.

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Case_One
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Mon Sep-21-15 10:52 PM

98. "This post went post for all the wrong reasons... ROTFL"
In response to Reply # 0

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"Love your haters until they can love themselves and then love them further." ~ J. Case

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legsdiamond
Member since May 05th 2011
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Tue Sep-22-15 12:27 AM

99. "the whole point of this thread was to show off her teedees "
In response to Reply # 98

in a new avi....

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
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Tue Sep-22-15 07:16 AM

108. "See post 81"
In response to Reply # 99

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legsdiamond
Member since May 05th 2011
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Tue Sep-22-15 09:26 AM

122. "Avi went from Toni Braxton to tiDDay jackson..."
In response to Reply # 108

#WOKE

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Atillah Moor
Member since Sep 05th 2013
13825 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 12:25 PM

142. "You may be upsetting your lower back even more."
In response to Reply # 108

If that's what this is about.

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Cenario
Member since Aug 24th 2005
59258 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 08:12 AM

115. "lmao damn"
In response to Reply # 99

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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double negative
Member since Dec 14th 2007
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Tue Sep-22-15 07:59 AM

110. "rolling on the floor lemon!"
In response to Reply # 98

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
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Tue Sep-22-15 10:59 AM

134. "lol"
In response to Reply # 110

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SimplyHannah
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Tue Sep-22-15 10:59 AM

135. "."
In response to Reply # 110
Tue Sep-22-15 11:00 AM by SimplyHannah

double post

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
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Tue Sep-22-15 12:56 AM

100. "I don't disagree at all."
In response to Reply # 0
Tue Sep-22-15 12:58 AM by Boogie Stimuli

I find it pretty interesting that this post is even so controversial.

I mean, I don't even really WANT to date if I'm broke.
I just like to make sure my paper is stacking first.
If I ain't got money, I'm too busy trying to figure out how to get it to be worried about
dating, honestly.

Not that I'm a religious cat, but when I was, I heard a preacher talking about the creation
of Adam.
He said God gave him work first. A job, THEN a woman.
He said that, for a man, seeking a partner before work is putting the carriage before the horse.
Now that I'm typing that out, I remember that was Myles Monroe *RIP*
(hope I didn't screw up the message, but that's the jist)

Anyway, that's something that always make 100% sense to me. Establish YOU before
you go trying to build a family. That's the responsible way to do it.
If you find someone who's willing to be with you while you're broke, ok cool.
But I don't really understand SEEKING that... not for me anyway.

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ndibs
Member since Aug 06th 2012
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Tue Sep-22-15 10:45 AM

129. "ppl still want sex and sexual relationships"
In response to Reply # 100
Tue Sep-22-15 10:47 AM by ndibs

and they still have them.

this is like preaching abstinence to christian teenager, but not giving comprehensive birth control education.

everyone in the pews is still going to be fucking outside of marriage, so they may as well find someone they can respect and love.

any preacher preacher anything different is full of it, especially to the black community where 75% of children are being born out of wedlock.

it's not like we have an overabundance of black people in respectul loving romantic relationships.

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
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Wed Sep-23-15 12:27 AM

151. "True. People want a lot of things that are bad ideas to pursue."
In response to Reply # 129

I agree that you'll have people who'll still do it.
But there are those who respond to good advice,
so they shouldn't have to be deprived of it simply because others won't adhere to it.
(in response to the preacher comparison)

As far as us not having many examples, I still don't think that's a reason for
us to not start a conversation about more responsible living... especially as
it pertains to bringing more people into our society... I actually think that all
the more reason we need to be having this conversation.
I understand why we're fucking up, and I sympathize, but I yeah we can do better.

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ndibs
Member since Aug 06th 2012
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:16 AM

166. "0% of men are staying celibate until they're in the 30s"
In response to Reply # 151

the age when most can "afford" children and a relationship. so nobody is being deprived of anything if preachers start preaching to only lay with someone who you would create a family with or to love the one you're laying with. two people making minimum wage CAN actually survive.

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
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Wed Sep-23-15 11:59 PM

190. "If you say they can make it on minimum wage, then they can afford"
In response to Reply # 166

it, right?

I don't think there's a set amount you have to make to not be broke (or a certain age
you have to be).
Living responsibly reduces the amount of money needed to do anything.
I'm not necessarily talking about the amount of money
We might have two different views of what it means to be "broke" but if you can't
take care of you, save, and have money left, I think the search for a relationship
should be halted. That's what I would do at least.

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denny
Member since Apr 11th 2008
11281 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 05:30 AM

106. "This is possibly the most unromantic post I've seen. lol"
In response to Reply # 0

So how much does a relationship cost in your opinion?

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Madvillain 626
Member since Apr 25th 2006
10018 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 05:44 AM

107. "lol i'm sayin"
In response to Reply # 106

there's levels to this shit

casual dating (i can't have fb's if i'm broke?) or dating dating.

plus different chicks got different standards and expectations and make different concessions for different dudes. some will date a dude without a car. some won't. some won't date a dude without a luxury car. some won't date a dude who don't got a jet. etc etc

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denny
Member since Apr 11th 2008
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Tue Sep-22-15 10:04 AM

127. "I"m such a square for this love shit."
In response to Reply # 107

I used to love trying to woo those materialist types. A Let me Give You a Differnet Type of Thing Tonight steez. I could work it pretty good too....The guy she doesn't tell her friends about lol. I think half of the effectiveness depended on the initial shock that I'd even try. 'From way back.........'

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Atillah Moor
Member since Sep 05th 2013
13825 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 10:53 AM

131. "Romance was manufactured on Madison Avenue in the 40's/50's"
In response to Reply # 106
Tue Sep-22-15 10:54 AM by Atillah Moor

Reality however has always existed.

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ndibs
Member since Aug 06th 2012
12715 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 10:59 AM

133. "no it wasn't. the diamond engagement ring industry was tho."
In response to Reply # 131

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esb225
Member since Nov 12th 2003
41417 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 08:10 AM

112. "so if my job is to support the financial health of our dating "
In response to Reply # 0

what's your job?
i mean if it's just to screw me keep that
i can get hookers to do that and I don't have to talk about my feelings once I nut

I got a good life man

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BrawtaLives
Member since Mar 07th 2008
398 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 08:31 AM

116. "RE: You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it."
In response to Reply # 0
Tue Sep-22-15 08:40 AM by BrawtaLives

Men who pay for sex usually can afford it. That's what we really are talking about here, right?

Otherwise equating dating with income and not realizing its another way of saying sex for pay is just a lie you're telling to yourself.

Why can't you pay if you like him so much and he brings other qualities to the table. It's call complementing each other.

Capitalism has done a number on us. I love you only if you make six figures and have a 401K.

Sad post.

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
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Tue Sep-22-15 10:59 AM

132. "This post isnt gender specific"
In response to Reply # 116

And the fact that you jumped straight to the conclusion that I was referring to men paying for dates ect... says more about you than it does me.

What you talking bout Willis?

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teefiveten
Member since Oct 02nd 2008
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Tue Sep-22-15 08:46 AM

117. "if waited until we were "ready" or "able" to do something"
In response to Reply # 0

we'd be wasting our lives

money is fleeting

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double 0
Member since Nov 17th 2004
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Tue Sep-22-15 01:25 PM

149. "RE: if waited until we were "ready" or "able" to do something"
In response to Reply # 117

^^ real spit right here

Double 0
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micMajestic
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Tue Sep-22-15 09:13 AM

120. "I disagree, but we have 100x posts shaming women, so..."
In response to Reply # 0

>Or even dating for that matter, ass need to be focused on
>something else.
>
>
>Tis all.

I'mma just lol

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Mongo
Member since Oct 26th 2005
45670 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 09:32 AM

123. "Grade-A trolling, would read post again. "
In response to Reply # 0

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 09:52 AM

124. "she not trolling. she legitimately tired of fucking with broke boys. "
In response to Reply # 123

they keep going smack at her, she stay falling for it.

she keeps wondering why she got all (un)dressed up, only to end up and Sala Thai, with instructions from her date to only order ONE drink and they gotta split the appetizer.

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
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Tue Sep-22-15 11:02 AM

136. "You know nothing about me."
In response to Reply # 124

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
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Tue Sep-22-15 11:17 AM

137. "watch me not care. "
In response to Reply # 136

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micMajestic
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Tue Sep-22-15 12:02 PM

138. "You tried to size her up based on her posts, you obviously care"
In response to Reply # 137

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 12:13 PM

139. "almost, i dont care about being right or wrong re: 'knowing her'."
In response to Reply # 138

but im SO into this post tho. so i definitely care there.

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micMajestic
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Tue Sep-22-15 12:17 PM

141. "I guess. Beyond trying to feel smart, what do you get out of all that?"
In response to Reply # 139

>but im SO into this post tho. so i definitely care there.

Let my love slide in and never slip out

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 12:27 PM

143. "dude, just tell me to get lost."
In response to Reply # 141

but what do i get out of it all?

honestly, it still freaks me out, this whole technology thing.

it's like you're my pen pal.

i type something. think about it. delete it. type it again.

move it.

press post. and then i wait.

and then you do the same.

you could even be a fucking robot!

love it.

... i got-ta get you to keep typing!

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
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Tue Sep-22-15 12:54 PM

147. "He just wants some attention."
In response to Reply # 141

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Atillah Moor
Member since Sep 05th 2013
13825 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 12:17 PM

140. "SILENTOO!"
In response to Reply # 137

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Tue Sep-22-15 12:52 PM

146. "You're pressed as fuck."
In response to Reply # 137

But keep demonstrating how much you "don't care" by continuing to post all up and through this shit.

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illegal
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Tue Sep-22-15 09:59 AM

125. "respectfully, I disagree."
In response to Reply # 0

***
when I come around, they frown
then wanna dap me down
but when I leave?

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ShinobiShaw
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Tue Sep-22-15 12:44 PM

145. "I thought this post was made because of the responses in the "$7.50""
In response to Reply # 0

post. Cause you know we are assholes and hurt people hurt people and all that but umm nevermind.

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MizClayton
Member since Feb 22nd 2003
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Tue Sep-22-15 09:13 PM

150. "women should also stop giving them casual sex "
In response to Reply # 0

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wluv
Member since Jan 27th 2003
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Wed Sep-23-15 06:52 AM

152. "^^^^DONT LISTEN TO THIS WOMAN"
In response to Reply # 150

She's delusional and hasn't taken her pills today

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eclipsedInI
Member since Jul 29th 2002
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Wed Sep-23-15 07:04 AM

154. "OOP"
In response to Reply # 150

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eclipsedInI
Member since Jul 29th 2002
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Wed Sep-23-15 07:04 AM

155. "OOP"
In response to Reply # 150

_____________________
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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 07:16 AM

156. "I kinda agree. But ..."
In response to Reply # 150

Most chicks won't see this as a viable option because they think they need to have sex to interest men or need it to validate their desirability.

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Cenario
Member since Aug 24th 2005
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Wed Sep-23-15 08:09 AM

157. "or bc they like hard dick."
In response to Reply # 156
Wed Sep-23-15 08:09 AM by Cenario

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 08:29 AM

159. "Sure"
In response to Reply # 157

But some of those same chicks be crying because they end up wanting more than that. :shrugs:

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 09:07 AM

163. "'some' chicks cry over this. 'some' chicks cry over that."
In response to Reply # 159

yesterday, you were crying over the brokeness of others.

what will you cry about today?

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:09 AM

165. "I broke a nail earlier today"
In response to Reply # 163

Not particularly happy about messing up a 40 dollar manicure, you feel me? And I'm sleepy too.

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:20 AM

167. "gel or acrylic?"
In response to Reply # 165

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:24 AM

169. "Dont ask unless youre paying for it to get fixed"
In response to Reply # 167

And then for lunch afterward.

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Kwesi
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:27 AM

170. "*unsubscribe"
In response to Reply # 169

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eclipsedInI
Member since Jul 29th 2002
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:35 AM

175. "LoL"
In response to Reply # 170

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Dstl1
Charter member
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Wed Sep-23-15 03:19 PM

182. "LOL"
In response to Reply # 170

...I'm from the era when A.I. was the answer, now they think ai is the answer - Marlon Craft

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Cenario
Member since Aug 24th 2005
59258 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 09:09 AM

164. "so they would be crying whether or not they had sex bc they"
In response to Reply # 159
Wed Sep-23-15 09:09 AM by Cenario

aren't getting everything that they want either way

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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SoWhat
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154163 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 08:11 AM

158. "who still talks about women 'giving sex' in 2015?"
In response to Reply # 150

what is this? 1915?

women have sex b/c THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX.

wake the fuck up.

fuck you.

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teefiveten
Member since Oct 02nd 2008
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Wed Sep-23-15 08:46 AM

160. "this post keeps on giving. not sex. but something else"
In response to Reply # 158

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Cenario
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Wed Sep-23-15 08:47 AM

161. "lol"
In response to Reply # 160

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
7370 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 09:23 AM

168. "women SHOULD have sex because they want to have sex."
In response to Reply # 158

but that's not always the case.

what kind of lala land are you typing about?

on behalf of women, even.

bad show.

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teefiveten
Member since Oct 02nd 2008
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:30 AM

171. "lol you are no better."
In response to Reply # 168

yes, some women don't do that.
and those women need to get their life.

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Kwesi
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:31 AM

173. "what'll really blow your mind is that's the same thing MizClayton typed."
In response to Reply # 171

what just happened?!

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MiracleRic
Member since Oct 21st 2002
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Fri Oct-02-15 11:37 AM

217. "lol true"
In response to Reply # 173

Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

Building repetoires (c) spm since 1983

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SoWhat
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Wed Sep-23-15 03:55 PM

184. "Hello"
In response to Reply # 171

fuck you.

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eclipsedInI
Member since Jul 29th 2002
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:36 AM

176. "oh stop, you know what she meant.....don't lawyer the poast"
In response to Reply # 158

let it go poast

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SoWhat
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Wed Sep-23-15 03:55 PM

183. "And don't nanny me."
In response to Reply # 176

I don't need it.

fuck you.

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MizClayton
Member since Feb 22nd 2003
33309 posts

Thu Oct-01-15 08:59 PM

193. "foh PC policing my shit"
In response to Reply # 158

men give dick
women give pussy

it's language to describe fuckin, damn

women can fuck broke niggas if they want to, yes, but so much GOOD can come from us refraining from sexing niggas who can't afford kids (and who lack motivation)

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Thu Oct-01-15 11:14 PM

194. "^^^^^ lawd GEEZUS, please preach that good gospel"
In response to Reply # 193

>women can fuck broke niggas if they want to, yes, but so much
>GOOD can come from us refraining from sexing niggas who can't
>afford kids (and who lack motivation)
>

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SoWhat
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Fri Oct-02-15 11:50 AM

220. "FOH using outdated bullshit language"
In response to Reply # 193

that speaks volumes about your attitudes about sex and relationships.

get right, sis.

ppl have sex b/c they want to. or at least they should. those who are out there 'giving' sex to get something are hustling backwards in most cases. if they end up fucked up that's fucked up. but regardless...i push back against the notion that all or even most women 'give' men sex - women have sex (or should) B/C THEY LIKE SEX. not b/c they're giving a man something of value in exchange for ___. that's a pretty cynical way to operate and i'm glad to know most ppl ain't caught up in that bullshit. if you are i weep for you.

fuck you.

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godleeluv
Member since Jun 11th 2013
5862 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 09:02 AM

162. "I dont agree totally but you should have a plan and be creative."
In response to Reply # 0

The brokest guy i ever dated found a way to give me gifts very often. He was creative and had a plan and was just very sweet. He brought me my favorite pair of earrings. They were beautiful. And it was a great surprise when he gave them to me.
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teefiveten
Member since Oct 02nd 2008
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:31 AM

172. "^^^ yup. some things you should be/do whether you have $ or not"
In response to Reply # 162

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Cenario
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:33 AM

174. "pretty much..even if you are in relationship or married"
In response to Reply # 172

just bc ya'll come across hard times doesn't mean the dating should stop. That's a recipe for disaster.

lol imagine breaking up with someone and being like "I am too broke to stay with you" da fuq?

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

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teefiveten
Member since Oct 02nd 2008
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:39 AM

178. "$$ doesnt mean ready. CLEARLY. "
In response to Reply # 174

lots of folks have the $ and the means and don't want the relationship

and most of us, even those who are well off, always feel they could be better off with more. it never ends. no one would ever do anything waiting for a bigger paycheck.

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 08:02 AM

213. "Yall are veering off into the dysfunctional to make the point tho..."
In response to Reply # 178

Assuming healthy parties are involved... the $ is part of being ready
just like ability to commit, mental stability, emotional maturity, etc

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eclipsedInI
Member since Jul 29th 2002
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:37 AM

177. "everyone should just do them & make love"
In response to Reply # 0

not warz

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Kwesi
Member since Jan 11th 2004
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Wed Sep-23-15 09:42 AM

179. "on the real i think this adds to the degeneracy of blacks."
In response to Reply # 0

'i can do bad all by myself' is some stinkin thinkin only petitioned by our queens.

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Thu Oct-01-15 11:32 PM

197. "Nigga said getting your shit together is degeneracy lol"
In response to Reply # 179

Yall some special kinds on here

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Tiggerific
Member since May 24th 2007
13451 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 11:56 AM

180. "RE: You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it."
In response to Reply # 0

Wow. So you are saying that to build a relationship. To fall in love with someone...it cost.

Hmmm. No offense, and I'm really not judging, but if you had any male admirers on this site, they might be questioning it now.

Honestly, I get what you are saying. But, if you are both broke and you are trying to build something together, then I commend them. I mean my now hubby and I were broke ass college students, and the truth is we spent what little money we had on each other because we were building something together. But, we also weren't eating at 4 star restaurants every time we saw each other either. Sometimes a date was a trip to see one or the other at their school, and a Pancheros burrito and a Coke. And that was good enough for us. Sometimes we hit up a 3 star restaurant and lived it up on special occasions. The point is that it isn't the money, its the time, and the moments you spend together that makes that relationship.

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DJPoke
Member since May 14th 2008
1285 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 08:02 PM

188. "Her titties ain't shrink after making this post"
In response to Reply # 180

>Hmmm. No offense, and I'm really not judging, but if you had
>any male admirers on this site, they might be questioning it
>now.

We good.

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Tiggerific
Member since May 24th 2007
13451 posts

Mon Sep-28-15 06:24 PM

192. "RE: Her titties ain't shrink after making this post"
In response to Reply # 188

LOL!!! Wow! SMH.

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Brotha Sun
Member since Dec 31st 2009
6791 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 03:14 PM

181. "Lol man it wont stop till everything is commidified and priced, huh?"
In response to Reply # 0

"They used to call me Baby Luke....but now? The whole damn 2 Liiiive Crew."

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_explain555
Member since Oct 15th 2009
1412 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 06:41 PM

185. "sheeit, alotta women need money to play da game too "
In response to Reply # 0
Wed Sep-23-15 06:41 PM by _explain555

tralala niggas gon front like they wifin up da broke crusty broads who cant afford keepin they hair or nails or clothes in check or eat healthy now n then

lol k

mfuckas is shallow

shits bout more than pickin up da check

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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts

Wed Sep-23-15 06:49 PM

186. "I agree."
In response to Reply # 185

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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Wed Sep-23-15 07:53 PM

187. "SimplyHannah swopes in and singlehandly lands the biggest blow in "
In response to Reply # 0

genderwarz in weeks.

Well played.

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lfresh
Member since Jun 18th 2002
92696 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 11:46 AM

218. "i feel some kind of way about this"
In response to Reply # 187

enemy in the camp type shit
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Big Kuntry
Member since May 09th 2010
14866 posts

Thu Oct-01-15 11:22 PM

195. "I don't see how anyone can be mad at this"
In response to Reply # 0

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 06:31 AM

199. "I'm sayin"
In response to Reply # 195

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Case_One
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Thu Oct-01-15 11:24 PM

196. "This post is a Dating Advice Nightmare. "
In response to Reply # 0

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Garhart Poppwell
Member since Nov 28th 2008
18155 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 06:17 AM

198. "damn near every OKP post about this subject is"
In response to Reply # 196

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TheAlbionist
Member since Jul 04th 2011
3306 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 06:39 AM

200. "This post is so depressing."
In response to Reply # 0

You know what the best free thing in the world is available to all people in all societies, on all budgets?

Love.

Find love before anything else.

It might even give your life enough meaning that you don't need to seek personal value through money, clothing and trinkets for the rest of your vacuous fucking life.

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 06:51 AM

201. "There's love in many more places than dating"
In response to Reply # 200
Fri Oct-02-15 06:52 AM by Boogie Stimuli

There's also family and friends

This mentality that we have to be fucking to have love is extremely detrimental
... hell the fact that some of us have to go that route to feel anything close to love is even more detrimental

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Lardlad95
Member since Jul 31st 2002
66340 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 06:57 AM

202. "Yeah, but physical intimacy is more than just fucking."
In response to Reply # 201

I mean fucking is a big part of it, but you can intimate with a lover in ways that you can't with family or friends.

I mean just think about walking around naked and the only other person in the house is your SO? You aren't fucking at the moment, but the level of comfort that you feel with that person says something about the nature of your relationship.

"All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts..." -The Bard

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 07:04 AM

204. "Of course it is. Point still stands."
In response to Reply # 202

Might yearn for that, but love in other forms is sufficient til you get your shit together.

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Lardlad95
Member since Jul 31st 2002
66340 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 07:07 AM

205. "It is or it should be? I disagree with both, but I want to be clear"
In response to Reply # 204

as to what you mean.

"All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts..." -The Bard

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 07:16 AM

208. "It is for me. I leave "shoulds" for the parties engaging..."
In response to Reply # 205

but that is the distinction between love of any other kind and being "intimate"
with someone is sexual relation. Therefore, one can hold off until they established...
as a matter of fact, having genuine love in one's life makes is MUCH easier to hold
off. That lack is why we see kids out here having kids at 14 and shit. Ain't no love
at home.

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Lardlad95
Member since Jul 31st 2002
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Fri Oct-02-15 07:25 AM

210. "' It is for me. ' Is the sentiment the OP should have ended on."
In response to Reply # 208
Fri Oct-02-15 07:25 AM by Lardlad95

Who are you tell anyone else that there is an objective measure by which they can figure out which forms of companionship are right for them?

Unless that objective measure is purely economic, in which case why get married or form friendships? We should all just be engaged in business negotiations. We need what we need from other people when we need it, sometimes its for the best, sometimes it isn't, but none of our needs are exactly the same.

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And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts..." -The Bard

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TheAlbionist
Member since Jul 04th 2011
3306 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 06:59 AM

203. "There are many types of love, sure."
In response to Reply # 201
Fri Oct-02-15 07:02 AM by TheAlbionist

And all are more important than money.

Romantic love can come with or without fucking - they're separate things. You can fuck anyone without requiring love. But the unconditional love between romantic partners is one of the most liberating things a human can experience. Calling it fucking makes me wonder if you really appreciate what romantic love is?!

Family love should be given and received by default - that's a necessity. Unfortunately it's not so for many people, but that should be a baseline for human existence. Parents, children and siblings should always form a unit stronger than all the individuals.

But Romantic love (importantly the prospect of being able to *create* that good familial love through it) is one of the experiences that can send the human experience into orbit. It makes life better every single day, even if there's no food on the table. It can be achieved elsewhere, but good romantic love can reduce money, status and styling to mere trifles.

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 07:09 AM

206. "Oh jesus christ, cut the crap, lol"
In response to Reply # 203

I said fucking because that's being discussed in the post, and when you think about it,
what's different about other forms of love and the love you experience with a partner?
Every difference centers around fucking them.

If love is so important and beautiful, then why is the love from your family and friends
not enough? Because you're not fucking them.

Case in point...

>But Romantic love (importantly the prospect of being able to
>*create* that good familial love through it) is one of the
>experiences that can send the human experience into orbit.

All that other stuff you said is just flowery stuff on top it. Intimacy, fucking, sexual relations...
you really mean the same thing.

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Lardlad95
Member since Jul 31st 2002
66340 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 07:15 AM

207. "So physical love < familial love? Got it. "
In response to Reply # 206

You do realize that it's possible to denigrate and abuse familial love too right? Just because we're more aware of how people abuse sexual love that means that it's on a lesser tier than the other ones? It's less important in making a person feel fulfilled?

"All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts..." -The Bard

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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 07:22 AM

209. "I feel like you're being purposely obtuse here..."
In response to Reply # 207

I kinda don't even know where to begin with this response...
1, because you're sticking with familial and ignoring that I also said friendship
2, because you're assuming I didn't mean healthy familial bonds
3, how did we get on abuse?

Trust me, I very familiar with abuse of familial bonds, but what does that have to
do with anything? We're not talking about abusing intimacy. We're talking about
the need for it ahead of establishment... at least I am.

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Lardlad95
Member since Jul 31st 2002
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Fri Oct-02-15 07:38 AM

211. "Why would I purposely be obtuse? I just disagree with your entire"
In response to Reply # 209
Fri Oct-02-15 07:40 AM by Lardlad95

framework. I think you're working with a faulty premise, which is why I'm breaking the discussion down to values. Basically, do you value familial or friendship bonds over romantic ones? You seem to, and I'm pushing against that because so far I haven't seen you provide any explanation for why one would be valued over the other.

>I kinda don't even know where to begin with this response...
>1, because you're sticking with familial and ignoring that I
>also said friendship

So add it back in, it doesn't really change the heart of what I'm saying about you valuing those types of love over another type of love. I just said familial because we're doing a lot of typing and I want to save time. If it's that important to you I'll say both.

>2, because you're assuming I didn't mean healthy familial
>bonds

No, I'm not assuming that. Good or bad examples aside, I don't understand why you value those as being paramount when compared to romantic love?

>Trust me, I very familiar with abuse of familial bonds, but
>what does that have to
>do with anything? We're not talking about abusing intimacy.
>We're talking about
>the need for it ahead of establishment... at least I am.

You are, and to close I'll reiterate my point that I'm questioning why you seem to either value romantic love less than other forms of love.

I could easily say that you shouldn't be a friend unless you can afford it, based of a history with needy, demanding, or just outright trifling friends or on the positive side, friends who were in bad spots and genuinely needed my time, money, energy. To which most people would retort, well you can be a friend without spending money or giving people things. I'd say the same applies to romantic love, so I don't understand why people need to meet a financial threshold to engage in later but not the former?

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And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
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Boogie Stimuli
Member since Sep 24th 2010
14274 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 07:58 AM

212. "Ok now we're getting somewhere..."
In response to Reply # 211

I'm not saying I value one over the other. I'm saying love is love, and fucking is fucking.
People act like love is supernatural when there's fucking involved, but it's just love with fucking involved lol.

But anyway, on to your point (which I actually think has alotta merit)...

>I could easily say that you shouldn't be a friend unless you
>can afford it, based of a history with needy, demanding, or
>just outright trifling friends. To which most people would
>retort, well you can be a friend without spending money or
>giving people things. I'd say the same applies to romantic
>love, so I don't understand why people need to meet a
>financial threshold to engage in later but not the former?

I can't be mad at this point, but the major flaw with this point is that my saying that
it's a good idea to get your money before your relationship is based on a history
of "needy, demanding, or just outright trifling" women. It's just based on the reality
of dating.

I think I've stated elsewhere in this post that if one just so happens to find a
relationship free of any financial obligation, then that's an awesome thing, but I
wouldn't be *looking* for a relationship if I wasn't getting $. Of course people can
do what they want, but it's not practical to me. Reasons...
Earlier in this conversation, you (or maybe the other guy) was talking about how
there's more to an intimate relationship than other kinds of love. Well, to be frank
money is usually (MUCH more often than not) part of that... yall wanna go out,
wanna do something special for each other, yall have a child, you need gas to
get to her house, all kinds of stuff. Some of that overlaps with friendship, and some
of it doesn't... but you can guarantee that friends + relationship is more expensive
that just friends and a relationship is more expensive than friends.
And I know, folks wanna trip "YOU'RE REDUCING RELATIONSHIPS TO MONEY!",
nah I'm just factoring it in, because it's reality... we need to do more planning as a people.

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TheAlbionist
Member since Jul 04th 2011
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Fri Oct-02-15 08:02 AM

214. "Romantic love can be asexual just as much as sexual."
In response to Reply # 206
Fri Oct-02-15 08:04 AM by TheAlbionist

Among other things it w/could still need to be:

- Monogamous/Exclusive - family and/or platonic love doesn't need to be. You can have as many brothers, sisters and friends as you like and love them all equally. You can even love your fellow Man on principle. You don't put any of them on the pedestal you put a romantic lover that you're dedicated to exclusively.

- A platform to *create* a family: through sex, adoption, surrogacy, fostering, whatever.

- A partnership of true transparency: Most people, however much they love their mother and father, do not share every detail of their life with them or even share every value. Romantic love can achieve this.

Sex is a factor in 99% of romantic relationships, sure... it's not the definition of it and it's rather sad to think it is.

Romantic, platonic and familial love are all different faces of similar, but not identical coins. Either way, my reason for the thread being depressing was the OP... love (whether through friendship, dating or family) is more important than money. Love exists. Money doesn't.

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ambient1
Member since May 23rd 2007
41077 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 11:17 AM

215. "As a dude....i wholeheartedly agree"
In response to Reply # 0

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lfresh
Member since Jun 18th 2002
92696 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 11:47 AM

219. "have a friend"
In response to Reply # 0

didn't realize he stays a virgin so long was this same approach

i talked him out of it
he's now married and broke

LOL

i get it but...eh

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Dr Claw
Member since Jun 25th 2003
132314 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 11:50 AM

221. "I took 'afford' to be more metaphorical"
In response to Reply # 0

rather than to literally be about having enough money to have a relationship

relationships cost more than money
they cost your time
they cost your attention
they cost your emotions
they cost your ... you get the idea

if you can't really deal with all that "cost" being with someone, yeah... maybe you should sit this one out

(of course, this is me giving Hannah the benefit of the doubt. if this was literal, a rather softball "FOH" delivered to this post)

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DVS
Member since Sep 13th 2002
19730 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 11:51 AM

222. "The only time I dated "broke" was in college"
In response to Reply # 0

and that's because pretty much everyone in my dating pool was broke.

So...in that much...I agree. You should be bringing more than hard dick and bubble gum to the table.

However....what's broke?

My mans has never held a 9 to 5...but he's a poet that makes jewelry, knows how to hustle and has knowledge of self. To me...that's RICH....waay richer than someone with extra commas in the checking account.

Anyway. To each their own.

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MiracleRic
Member since Oct 21st 2002
45200 posts

Fri Oct-02-15 11:53 AM

223. "obama shouldn't have a NCAA bracket..but he does every year"
In response to Reply # 0

people can multi-task...some people are practical enough to know their limitations and still put forth the proper effort towards the areas they need to...

and even if they aren't...it's still a lid for every pot...i wouldn't advise it but single-income relationships work for some people *shrugs*

sometimes the right date/relationship can be that spark to get shit together to

and not everyone can be "together"

the world isn't built that way and there's nothing that is going to stop them from pursuing love, sex, intimacy

those things are on par with those other priorities even if we don't want to admit it...some of us are able to operate just fine without it but many can't

when i was broke and going nowhere...i wasn't able to maintain a relationship but i was able to date/smash while keeping my focus on getting my shit somewhat together...not doing that would not have sped up that process...probably would've slowed it down

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