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SimplyHannah
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"You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it."


  

          

Or even dating for that matter, ass need to be focused on something else.


Tis all.


  

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Sep 21st 2015
1
You shouldn't be dating if you're not procreating.
Sep 21st 2015
2
LOL
Sep 21st 2015
10
^ broke.
Sep 21st 2015
12
      Married with no kids.
Sep 21st 2015
20
What exactly does this mean?
Sep 21st 2015
3
Priorities
Sep 21st 2015
11
      dog, it's a 'date'. they're not opening joint accounts.
Sep 21st 2015
34
.
Sep 21st 2015
4
When I was at my brokest, I wasn't trying to date
Sep 21st 2015
5
pretty much
Sep 21st 2015
9
And I think that's fine as long as you're honest.
Sep 21st 2015
32
      good conversation usually reveals a lot in dudes
Sep 21st 2015
40
How much money does dating cost?
Sep 21st 2015
6
I mean if you have to ask then........
Sep 21st 2015
8
      then........what?
Sep 21st 2015
54
      Lol
Sep 21st 2015
64
smh
Sep 21st 2015
7
White women don't care
Sep 21st 2015
13
They really don't have to worry because usually white men hold their own
Sep 21st 2015
15
No, I'm talking about the black loving white women
Sep 21st 2015
17
oh the lower hanging fruit...
Sep 21st 2015
29
Those women don't expect anything other than dick
Sep 21st 2015
55
SOME women don't care
Sep 22nd 2015
102
Where is that? The ones that don't care are usually the ones that only
Sep 22nd 2015
119
This advice is just for men though, right? #WARZ
Sep 21st 2015
14
lol....
Sep 21st 2015
16
If they can't afford to atleast pay for their half
Sep 21st 2015
22
damn, a nigga can't even take a broke broad out on the town?
Sep 21st 2015
24
      basically, what's half of zero.
Sep 21st 2015
28
      I mean if that's what you took from that fine..
Sep 21st 2015
35
this is far from advice.
Sep 21st 2015
23
im tired of dating broke niggas, too.
Sep 21st 2015
18
Eddie taught me
Sep 21st 2015
19
broke people got needs too
Sep 21st 2015
21
yeah-- money.
Sep 22nd 2015
126
dates could be free, but if you're unemployed or in deep debt
Sep 21st 2015
25
^ gets it
Sep 21st 2015
30
you expect people to apply for jobs their every waking moment?
Sep 21st 2015
33
no. there should be time allotted to cook healthy meals and exercise
Sep 21st 2015
37
I agree
Sep 21st 2015
42
I agree, but it goes both ways
Sep 21st 2015
26
we oughta think, before we throw good love away. (c) marvin gaye
Sep 21st 2015
27
worked for thurgood jenkins
Sep 21st 2015
31
who?
Sep 21st 2015
39
      half baked
Sep 21st 2015
44
i know that im aging out of this convo but this is dumb.
Sep 21st 2015
36
i couldnt date a women unless she made 6 figures
Sep 21st 2015
Hannah banana, I'm kinda on page with you on this one.
Sep 21st 2015
38
This question might illustrate how I've been single way too long but...
Sep 21st 2015
41
Agreed. Gotta pay to play.
Sep 21st 2015
43
disagree, date someone on your level...
Sep 21st 2015
45
pretty much...2 broke people should have the same expectations
Sep 21st 2015
46
      there's a huge population fucking and making babies
Sep 21st 2015
48
I agree. M.O.B.
Sep 21st 2015
47
YOU really shouldn't be advising anyone on this issue.
Sep 21st 2015
49
It's a valid point. Now give me my props and call it a day.
Sep 21st 2015
50
      It's completely invalid. And foolish.
Sep 21st 2015
53
           ^ too liberal to see the light of day
Sep 21st 2015
57
                ^ too foolish to see beyond her navel.
Sep 21st 2015
59
                     yes because God forbid you try and get your shit together
Sep 21st 2015
62
                          Good for you!
Sep 21st 2015
66
                               Morals are good sometimes.
Sep 21st 2015
67
                                    I wouldn't know as I clearly don't have any.
Sep 21st 2015
83
                                    yes, precisely.
Sep 21st 2015
85
                                         sure. i am who you say i am.
Sep 21st 2015
86
                                    Morals huh?
Sep 22nd 2015
128
I'm a believer that broke people should not be dating
Sep 21st 2015
51
you backwards.
Sep 21st 2015
52
      how so?
Sep 21st 2015
61
Thru history it's mostly rich men that have lied with painted whores
Sep 21st 2015
56
Sounds like #winning to me.
Sep 21st 2015
60
      #morals
Sep 21st 2015
69
           lol
Sep 22nd 2015
121
           lmao
Oct 02nd 2015
216
"You can lose money chasing women..."
Sep 21st 2015
58
how much?
Sep 21st 2015
63
agree
Sep 21st 2015
65
meanwhile, my wife and I had our first date the day I quit my job
Sep 21st 2015
68
http://tiny.cc/n2wo3x
Sep 21st 2015
70
why in the hell is this so funny? i wasn't ready
Sep 21st 2015
71
i'm weakened, bruh
Sep 21st 2015
95
      lolz
Sep 22nd 2015
111
RE: http://tiny.cc/n2wo3x
Sep 22nd 2015
148
You're not yourself, have a snickers.
Sep 21st 2015
77
I'm very much myself, and I like you as a person, but you're ridiculou...
Sep 21st 2015
79
      Im here to upset the establishment.
Sep 21st 2015
81
      weird response to a great story
Sep 23rd 2015
153
jeez
Sep 22nd 2015
113
Your staying employed was as good as having a stable job
Sep 22nd 2015
130
      Oh for sure, but that gets into the meat of my point.
Sep 23rd 2015
189
           Wow man, motivational speaking might could be in your future.
Sep 24th 2015
191
bird mentality
Sep 21st 2015
72
" Bird " is so 1996
Sep 21st 2015
78
^^^^^^has a mean MMMMFLAKALACKA
Sep 21st 2015
80
It's actually a responsible mentality
Sep 22nd 2015
101
you really shouldn't be eating if you can't afford it.
Sep 21st 2015
73
you really shouldn't be having fun if you can't afford it.
Sep 21st 2015
74
you really shouldn't sleep if you can't afford it.
Sep 21st 2015
75
you really shouldn't be living if you can't afford it.
Sep 21st 2015
76
Lol damn fam
Sep 21st 2015
82
Smh.
Sep 21st 2015
87
nah it really is
Sep 21st 2015
96
      It really isn't
Sep 22nd 2015
105
           RE: It really isn't
Sep 22nd 2015
118
You need food, water and oxygen to live
Sep 22nd 2015
104
NIGGA *throws penalty flag for excessive everything*
Sep 21st 2015
88
i shouldn't have to type it - but that wasn't directed at her, directly.
Sep 21st 2015
90
can she cook though?
Sep 22nd 2015
103
      bwaahahaa
Sep 22nd 2015
114
      Man.....y'all. LMAO
Sep 22nd 2015
144
Funniest thing I've read all day.
Sep 21st 2015
97
what an idiotic thing to say
Sep 21st 2015
84
you right, priorities are for idiots.
Sep 21st 2015
91
      lol @ not dating (or dating) being a priority
Sep 21st 2015
93
We can apply this logic to a lot of stuff.
Sep 21st 2015
89
All that stuff is logical to me to be quite honest.
Sep 21st 2015
92
      Not to get too deep but Maslow's hierarchy of needs covers everything
Sep 21st 2015
94
           I can dig it
Sep 22nd 2015
109
This post went post for all the wrong reasons... ROTFL
Sep 21st 2015
98
the whole point of this thread was to show off her teedees
Sep 22nd 2015
99
See post 81
Sep 22nd 2015
108
Avi went from Toni Braxton to tiDDay jackson...
Sep 22nd 2015
122
You may be upsetting your lower back even more.
Sep 22nd 2015
142
lmao damn
Sep 22nd 2015
115
rolling on the floor lemon!
Sep 22nd 2015
110
      lol
Sep 22nd 2015
134
      .
Sep 22nd 2015
135
I don't disagree at all.
Sep 22nd 2015
100
ppl still want sex and sexual relationships
Sep 22nd 2015
129
      True. People want a lot of things that are bad ideas to pursue.
Sep 23rd 2015
151
           0% of men are staying celibate until they're in the 30s
Sep 23rd 2015
166
                If you say they can make it on minimum wage, then they can afford
Sep 23rd 2015
190
This is possibly the most unromantic post I've seen. lol
Sep 22nd 2015
106
lol i'm sayin
Sep 22nd 2015
107
I"m such a square for this love shit.
Sep 22nd 2015
127
Romance was manufactured on Madison Avenue in the 40's/50's
Sep 22nd 2015
131
      no it wasn't. the diamond engagement ring industry was tho.
Sep 22nd 2015
133
so if my job is to support the financial health of our dating
Sep 22nd 2015
112
RE: You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it.
Sep 22nd 2015
116
This post isnt gender specific
Sep 22nd 2015
132
if waited until we were "ready" or "able" to do something
Sep 22nd 2015
117
RE: if waited until we were "ready" or "able" to do something
Sep 22nd 2015
149
I disagree, but we have 100x posts shaming women, so...
Sep 22nd 2015
120
Grade-A trolling, would read post again.
Sep 22nd 2015
123
she not trolling. she legitimately tired of fucking with broke boys.
Sep 22nd 2015
124
      You know nothing about me.
Sep 22nd 2015
136
           watch me not care.
Sep 22nd 2015
137
                You tried to size her up based on her posts, you obviously care
Sep 22nd 2015
138
                almost, i dont care about being right or wrong re: 'knowing her'.
Sep 22nd 2015
139
                     I guess. Beyond trying to feel smart, what do you get out of all that?
Sep 22nd 2015
141
                          dude, just tell me to get lost.
Sep 22nd 2015
143
                          He just wants some attention.
Sep 22nd 2015
147
                SILENTOO!
Sep 22nd 2015
140
                You're pressed as fuck.
Sep 22nd 2015
146
respectfully, I disagree.
Sep 22nd 2015
125
I thought this post was made because of the responses in the "$7.50"
Sep 22nd 2015
145
women should also stop giving them casual sex
Sep 22nd 2015
150
^^^^DONT LISTEN TO THIS WOMAN
Sep 23rd 2015
152
OOP
Sep 23rd 2015
154
OOP
Sep 23rd 2015
155
I kinda agree. But ...
Sep 23rd 2015
156
or bc they like hard dick.
Sep 23rd 2015
157
      Sure
Sep 23rd 2015
159
           'some' chicks cry over this. 'some' chicks cry over that.
Sep 23rd 2015
163
           I broke a nail earlier today
Sep 23rd 2015
165
                gel or acrylic?
Sep 23rd 2015
167
                     Dont ask unless youre paying for it to get fixed
Sep 23rd 2015
169
                          *unsubscribe
Sep 23rd 2015
170
                               LoL
Sep 23rd 2015
175
                               LOL
Sep 23rd 2015
182
           so they would be crying whether or not they had sex bc they
Sep 23rd 2015
164
who still talks about women 'giving sex' in 2015?
Sep 23rd 2015
158
      this post keeps on giving. not sex. but something else
Sep 23rd 2015
160
      lol
Sep 23rd 2015
161
      women SHOULD have sex because they want to have sex.
Sep 23rd 2015
168
      lol you are no better.
Sep 23rd 2015
171
           what'll really blow your mind is that's the same thing MizClayton typed.
Sep 23rd 2015
173
           lol true
Oct 02nd 2015
217
           Hello
Sep 23rd 2015
184
      oh stop, you know what she meant.....don't lawyer the poast
Sep 23rd 2015
176
      And don't nanny me.
Sep 23rd 2015
183
      foh PC policing my shit
Oct 01st 2015
193
           ^^^^^ lawd GEEZUS, please preach that good gospel
Oct 01st 2015
194
           FOH using outdated bullshit language
Oct 02nd 2015
220
I dont agree totally but you should have a plan and be creative.
Sep 23rd 2015
162
^^^ yup. some things you should be/do whether you have $ or not
Sep 23rd 2015
172
      pretty much..even if you are in relationship or married
Sep 23rd 2015
174
           $$ doesnt mean ready. CLEARLY.
Sep 23rd 2015
178
                Yall are veering off into the dysfunctional to make the point tho...
Oct 02nd 2015
213
everyone should just do them & make love
Sep 23rd 2015
177
on the real i think this adds to the degeneracy of blacks.
Sep 23rd 2015
179
Nigga said getting your shit together is degeneracy lol
Oct 01st 2015
197
RE: You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it.
Sep 23rd 2015
180
Her titties ain't shrink after making this post
Sep 23rd 2015
188
      RE: Her titties ain't shrink after making this post
Sep 28th 2015
192
Lol man it wont stop till everything is commidified and priced, huh?
Sep 23rd 2015
181
sheeit, alotta women need money to play da game too
Sep 23rd 2015
185
I agree.
Sep 23rd 2015
186
SimplyHannah swopes in and singlehandly lands the biggest blow in
Sep 23rd 2015
187
i feel some kind of way about this
Oct 02nd 2015
218
I don't see how anyone can be mad at this
Oct 01st 2015
195
I'm sayin
Oct 02nd 2015
199
This post is a Dating Advice Nightmare.
Oct 01st 2015
196
damn near every OKP post about this subject is
Oct 02nd 2015
198
This post is so depressing.
Oct 02nd 2015
200
There's love in many more places than dating
Oct 02nd 2015
201
      Yeah, but physical intimacy is more than just fucking.
Oct 02nd 2015
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      Of course it is. Point still stands.
Oct 02nd 2015
204
           It is or it should be? I disagree with both, but I want to be clear
Oct 02nd 2015
205
                It is for me. I leave "shoulds" for the parties engaging...
Oct 02nd 2015
208
                     ' It is for me. ' Is the sentiment the OP should have ended on.
Oct 02nd 2015
210
      There are many types of love, sure.
Oct 02nd 2015
203
           Oh jesus christ, cut the crap, lol
Oct 02nd 2015
206
                So physical love < familial love? Got it.
Oct 02nd 2015
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                I feel like you're being purposely obtuse here...
Oct 02nd 2015
209
                     Why would I purposely be obtuse? I just disagree with your entire
Oct 02nd 2015
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                          Ok now we're getting somewhere...
Oct 02nd 2015
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                Romantic love can be asexual just as much as sexual.
Oct 02nd 2015
214
As a dude....i wholeheartedly agree
Oct 02nd 2015
215
have a friend
Oct 02nd 2015
219
I took 'afford' to be more metaphorical
Oct 02nd 2015
221
The only time I dated "broke" was in college
Oct 02nd 2015
222
obama shouldn't have a NCAA bracket..but he does every year
Oct 02nd 2015
223

c71
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1. ":("
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nah,......u rite.....

  

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2. "You shouldn't be dating if you're not procreating. "
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Or some other loud and wrong opinion

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10. "LOL"
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people need to stop expecting high price dates at all cost.

sometimes something from a food truck and a GREAT
conversation can be all one need to hit the skins, or
build on something more.

  

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12. "^ broke."
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20. "Married with no kids. "
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3. "What exactly does this mean?"
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11. "Priorities"
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34. "dog, it's a 'date'. they're not opening joint accounts."
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4. "."
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSgp-IIgr4I

  

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5. "When I was at my brokest, I wasn't trying to date"
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If I couldn't even afford to go dutch, I wasn't going to be "dating" nobody. You could still come thru and get the pipe, tho.

  

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9. "pretty much"
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32. "And I think that's fine as long as you're honest."
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>If I couldn't even afford to go dutch, I wasn't going to be
>"dating" nobody. You could still come thru and get the pipe,
>tho.

Niggas need an " All I have for you is conversation and a hard dick " disclaimer stamped on their foreheads.

  

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40. "good conversation usually reveals a lot in dudes"
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>Niggas need an " All I have for you is conversation and a hard
>dick " disclaimer stamped on their foreheads.

But for some reason even the nicest, smartest women sometimes get blinded hoping the shiny new porsche they're looking at can get the oil leak fixed. My sisters drove me crazy bringing home these leaky things they thought were porsches back in the day. I'm like c'mon now.

  

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6. "How much money does dating cost?"
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Just so I know.

“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

  

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8. "I mean if you have to ask then........"
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54. "then........what?"
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“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

  

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64. "Lol"
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prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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7. "smh"
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13. "White women don't care"
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*Runs out of post screaming "POOOOAAASST"*

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15. "They really don't have to worry because usually white men hold their own"
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It's like a standard with them. They already know what time it is.

Black men not so much.

  

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17. "No, I'm talking about the black loving white women"
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29. "oh the lower hanging fruit..."
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I don't know anything about that, playboy.

  

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55. "Those women don't expect anything other than dick"
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They're making a conscious choice.

  

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102. "SOME women don't care"
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Those women come in both black and white.

That's still no reason for a man to have low standards for himself.


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119. "Where is that? The ones that don't care are usually the ones that only "
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>*Runs out of post screaming "POOOOAAASST"*

Black men are willing to be seen with.

  

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14. "This advice is just for men though, right? #WARZ"
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Broke women are okay to be dating?

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16. "lol...."
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22. "If they can't afford to atleast pay for their half "
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Or be prepared to just incase, then they shouldn't be either.

  

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24. "damn, a nigga can't even take a broke broad out on the town?"
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you mad as shit right now.

  

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28. "basically, what's half of zero."
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Good times can be had lol

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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35. "I mean if that's what you took from that fine.."
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Lol

And 2 seconds later niggas will be crying about chicks never offering to pay or open their purses on dates. :shrugs:

  

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23. "this is far from advice."
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18. "im tired of dating broke niggas, too."
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19. "Eddie taught me"
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21. "broke people got needs too"
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>Or even dating for that matter, ass need to be focused on something else.

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126. "yeah-- money. "
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25. "dates could be free, but if you're unemployed or in deep debt"
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i tend to agree
you need to focus on rectifying your situation before investing time/energy into romantic prospects

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30. "^ gets it "
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33. "you expect people to apply for jobs their every waking moment?"
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companionship is life force.

yall aint never met no bums who were in love?

like lieteral homeless people, loved-up.

the shit's beautiful.

this sentiment seems drenched in a 'rat race' mentality.

  

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37. "no. there should be time allotted to cook healthy meals and exercise"
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wouldn't be bad if they took some MOOC courses as well.
but yes the vast majority of your time should be mock interviewing and studying (if your field calls for it)

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42. "I agree"
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26. "I agree, but it goes both ways"
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Dating can be fun and inexpensive. Just need to find people who understands this shit.

  

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27. "we oughta think, before we throw good love away. (c) marvin gaye"
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31. "worked for thurgood jenkins"
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39. "who?"
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44. "half baked"
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36. "i know that im aging out of this convo but this is dumb."
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"i couldnt date a women unless she made 6 figures"
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i got kind of used to being with a women who has money
we got back from vacation
we didnt renew nfl sunday ticket
wife asked did i want it
said up to her
i pay the bill mind you
she logged on and paid cash for the subscription with the quickness
love it

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Tutu nu, vondo nos nu
Vita em, no continous non
Nos nu ekta nos sepe ta, amen

When the sun shades the ship
We sweat and life is not safe
To swim or to touch not
When we unite we hedge amen

  

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38. "Hannah banana, I'm kinda on page with you on this one. "
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41. "This question might illustrate how I've been single way too long but..."
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... what's the average monetary value of a relationship?

  

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43. "Agreed. Gotta pay to play. "
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45. "disagree, date someone on your level..."
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it's not that complicated.

the problem is people suffer from low self esteem about being poor and don't want to be with someone else like themselves.

and if you're female, it really doesn't matter.

  

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46. "pretty much...2 broke people should have the same expectations"
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Whether or not they dating they 'should' be spending their friday nights in the same inexpensive ways. It might actually be cost effective to date since they can split the cost of stuff...like a $2.99 rental.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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48. "there's a huge population fucking and making babies"
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with women who they're not dating and they think too good to date and they won't stay with after they impregnante them....

because they think they can do better ONCE x, y, z happens usually they get their money straight and it's sad for the children.

and the behavior is often delusional because once youre paying child support, getting your money together is often not possible.

ppl need to learn it's not shameful to be poor and they can love and be loved while poor.

  

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47. "I agree. M.O.B."
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49. "YOU really shouldn't be advising anyone on this issue."
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anyone who listens to this or agrees is a fool.

Tis all.

fuck you.

  

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50. "It's a valid point. Now give me my props and call it a day."
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53. "It's completely invalid. And foolish."
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Good day.

fuck you.

  

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57. "^ too liberal to see the light of day "
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59. "^ too foolish to see beyond her navel."
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fuck you.

  

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62. "yes because God forbid you try and get your shit together "
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Before bringing someone else into it or worry about getting your genitals wet. You always advocating in favor of someone's carefree and poor choices, I cannot get jiggy with that shit.

  

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66. "Good for you!"
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fuck you.

  

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67. "Morals are good sometimes."
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83. "I wouldn't know as I clearly don't have any."
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Bc if I were a moral person I'd agree with you, of course.

fuck you.

  

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85. "yes, precisely."
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But no on a serious note, you know how you do. You're very much the live and let live type and I get it, I really do. But it's like whatever the opposite of judgemental is, you operate on the extreme, extreme, extreme end of that spectrum for lack of better of better words. Some of the things I've seen you cape for, I know for a fact you wouldn't have advised or made those types decisions yourself. You gotta come to middle of the spectrum sometimes broham.

  

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86. "sure. i am who you say i am."
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and you've read every single one of my posts and recall them correctly and in proper context. so i have to agree w/you.

fuck you.

  

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128. "Morals huh?"
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lmao

  

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51. "I'm a believer that broke people should not be dating "
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Relationship is something else..

But casually dating? Nope! Chill get yourself in a better spot financially

  

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52. "you backwards."
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61. "how so?"
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56. "Thru history it's mostly rich men that have lied with painted whores"
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if we're going to take it to that level

  

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60. "Sounds like #winning to me."
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69. "#morals"
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“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

  

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121. "lol"
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WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE

  

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216. "lmao"
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Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

Building repetoires (c) spm since 1983

  

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58. ""You can lose money chasing women...""
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"...but you'll never lose women chasing money."

This is an old player saying.

Who can argue that building wealth, or at least security is a better focus than dating?

As for love and companionship, that tends to happen when your priorities are straight, regardless of income.

  

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63. "how much?"
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65. "agree"
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nothing worse than being broke with a gf

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68. "meanwhile, my wife and I had our first date the day I quit my job"
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I was broke as duck while she was topping out at her job.

It took a year of being broke and bouncing around bullshit jobs before I had a real 40 hour paycheck with benefits and whatnot. I've had that job ever since and she's only slightly ahead of me income wise until I work overtime, at which point I'm the primary earner.

In 6 years we got married, had two kids, and are a couple of days away from closing escrow on the sale of our first home and moving into our second home, which is a significant upgrade.

Basically, taking your advice would have erased 6 years of increasing prosperity and a complete 180 shift in pretty much every facet of my life.

Conversely, after six more years of your philosophy on dating and relationships, you'll still be a single gold digger doling out the same terrible advice while you continue to convince yourself that your inability to find real love and intimacy is somehow due to glaring flaws in everyone but you.....all the while, everyone but you will know ow better.

  

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70. "http://tiny.cc/n2wo3x"
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http://tiny.cc/n2wo3x

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71. "why in the hell is this so funny? i wasn't ready"
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95. "i'm weakened, bruh"
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CT's post and RT's pic... shit

  

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111. "lolz"
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148. "RE: http://tiny.cc/n2wo3x"
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http://tinyurl.com/pe284z2

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77. "You're not yourself, have a snickers."
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79. "I'm very much myself, and I like you as a person, but you're ridiculou..."
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As far as this subject goes

  

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81. "Im here to upset the establishment."
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153. "weird response to a great story"
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113. "jeez"
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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130. "Your staying employed was as good as having a stable job"
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If you weren't working as hard at finding a stable gig you'd likely have a different story I'd wager.

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189. "Oh for sure, but that gets into the meat of my point. "
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Because I really couldn't afford a girlfriend, not even a proverbial 'cheap date' like my wife was. Shit I broke out coupons on an early outing. I had NO business even trying to hold a relationship with her because she had her shit together while I was truly a polar opposite of her stability.

The conventionally wise choice at the time, for both of us, was for me to remain single until I figured things out. We actually came pretty close to not working out at all before things finally turned around for me.

You know what sold her on me though? The fact that I was willing to go hold a sign on a corner for 8 hours a weekend, something I had done before and absolutely hated. The first stint had me in tears the first two weekends because at that point I truly believed that that was the sort of life I was destined for. That first stint preceded her, but she knew about it and saw that I was willing to do it again because, well, fuck it, it's SOMETHING in a vast sea of nothing.

The other thing that sold her was my insistence on paying for everything I possibly could, even when it hurt

And that's the heart of my point; Hannah is looking at circumstances, not people.

True story: A close friend of mine, very much a little sister type, called me about a year into my relationship with my wife. She didn't date through high school and in college found herself with two very different guys. She explained both guys and asked for my advice. I picked the guy that appeared to be less of a catch on the surface due to some subtle character elements that stood out in her descriptions of both guys.

Again, true story, they got married a couple years later. On the 5th of this month, my daughter and I attended the 2nd birthday of their daughter, which doubled as a pregnancy announcement and gender reveal party. She gets to be a stay at home mom, which was something she wanted.

Any story can be different if you change certain variables, but any time you view people strictly through the lense of surface circumstances while discarding the intangibles, you do so at the expense of potentially good options.

  

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191. "Wow man, motivational speaking might could be in your future. "
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Thanks for sharing that background story.

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72. "bird mentality "
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78. "" Bird " is so 1996"
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80. "^^^^^^has a mean MMMMFLAKALACKA "
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101. "It's actually a responsible mentality"
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Something families with generational success follow

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73. "you really shouldn't be eating if you can't afford it."
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74. "you really shouldn't be having fun if you can't afford it."
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75. "you really shouldn't sleep if you can't afford it."
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76. "you really shouldn't be living if you can't afford it."
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do the world a favor.

  

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82. "Lol damn fam"
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But that is basically whats being said.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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87. "Smh."
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It really ain't.

  

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96. "nah it really is"
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it stinks of bourgeois sensibility and feeds the idea material wealth are what makes people valuable.

  

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105. "It really isn't"
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What was said is very plain in the OP.
Yall done turned it into something else entirely just so you can feel slighted


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118. "RE: It really isn't"
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No. It really is.

  

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104. "You need food, water and oxygen to live"
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Dating ain't on the list, fam

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88. "NIGGA *throws penalty flag for excessive everything*"
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>do the world a favor.

Can't we get all get along and let SImplyHannah cook?

  

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90. "i shouldn't have to type it - but that wasn't directed at her, directly."
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they call it sensationalism.

  

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103. "can she cook though?"
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114. "bwaahahaa"
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144. "Man.....y'all. LMAO"
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97. "Funniest thing I've read all day. "
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84. "what an idiotic thing to say"
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but whatever

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91. "you right, priorities are for idiots."
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93. "lol @ not dating (or dating) being a priority"
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89. "We can apply this logic to a lot of stuff."
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You shouldn't take out student loans and major in a non business, non computer, non engineering, non whatever field that does not allow you to pay back the student loan.

You shouldn't get off work and have a celebratory dinner because that's money you need to save.

'The fuck you in the club for? You blowing money hanging out with friends having a good time for nothing.

TL;DR life is short so live it. Stop worrying about what you should and should not be doing and enjoy life. This is a phase you will grow out of at some point no shots.

No empathy for white misery (c) BDot

"root for everybody black haters say that's crazy, wow..."

  

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92. "All that stuff is logical to me to be quite honest."
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And a very reasonable thought process.

  

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94. "Not to get too deep but Maslow's hierarchy of needs covers everything"
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>And a very reasonable thought process.

As human beings, as long as our needs are taken care of no matter how much we make, we're going to celebrate. Everyone in this post knows or knew someone younger that was broke and dating. Remember high school? EVERYBODY BROKE but they getting it in.

Human beings need to date and exist within each other's presence in intimate settings no matter the social status. Don't think I wasn't scheming on people at the hospital because clearly I ain't shit. She hurt and I'm hurt so let's heal together.

Live a little bit. I remember when I was, no shots, like this. Those were the days...

  

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109. "I can dig it "
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And that makes sense and I guess a lot things in thinking about in retrospect instead of in the actual moment.

  

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98. "This post went post for all the wrong reasons... ROTFL"
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99. "the whole point of this thread was to show off her teedees "
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in a new avi....

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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108. "See post 81"
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122. "Avi went from Toni Braxton to tiDDay jackson..."
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#WOKE

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142. "You may be upsetting your lower back even more."
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If that's what this is about.

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115. "lmao damn"
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110. "rolling on the floor lemon!"
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134. "lol"
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135. "."
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double post

  

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100. "I don't disagree at all."
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I find it pretty interesting that this post is even so controversial.

I mean, I don't even really WANT to date if I'm broke.
I just like to make sure my paper is stacking first.
If I ain't got money, I'm too busy trying to figure out how to get it to be worried about
dating, honestly.

Not that I'm a religious cat, but when I was, I heard a preacher talking about the creation
of Adam.
He said God gave him work first. A job, THEN a woman.
He said that, for a man, seeking a partner before work is putting the carriage before the horse.
Now that I'm typing that out, I remember that was Myles Monroe *RIP*
(hope I didn't screw up the message, but that's the jist)

Anyway, that's something that always make 100% sense to me. Establish YOU before
you go trying to build a family. That's the responsible way to do it.
If you find someone who's willing to be with you while you're broke, ok cool.
But I don't really understand SEEKING that... not for me anyway.

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129. "ppl still want sex and sexual relationships"
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and they still have them.

this is like preaching abstinence to christian teenager, but not giving comprehensive birth control education.

everyone in the pews is still going to be fucking outside of marriage, so they may as well find someone they can respect and love.

any preacher preacher anything different is full of it, especially to the black community where 75% of children are being born out of wedlock.

it's not like we have an overabundance of black people in respectul loving romantic relationships.

  

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151. "True. People want a lot of things that are bad ideas to pursue."
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I agree that you'll have people who'll still do it.
But there are those who respond to good advice,
so they shouldn't have to be deprived of it simply because others won't adhere to it.
(in response to the preacher comparison)

As far as us not having many examples, I still don't think that's a reason for
us to not start a conversation about more responsible living... especially as
it pertains to bringing more people into our society... I actually think that all
the more reason we need to be having this conversation.
I understand why we're fucking up, and I sympathize, but I yeah we can do better.

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166. "0% of men are staying celibate until they're in the 30s"
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the age when most can "afford" children and a relationship. so nobody is being deprived of anything if preachers start preaching to only lay with someone who you would create a family with or to love the one you're laying with. two people making minimum wage CAN actually survive.

  

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190. "If you say they can make it on minimum wage, then they can afford"
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it, right?

I don't think there's a set amount you have to make to not be broke (or a certain age
you have to be).
Living responsibly reduces the amount of money needed to do anything.
I'm not necessarily talking about the amount of money
We might have two different views of what it means to be "broke" but if you can't
take care of you, save, and have money left, I think the search for a relationship
should be halted. That's what I would do at least.

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106. "This is possibly the most unromantic post I've seen. lol"
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So how much does a relationship cost in your opinion?

  

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107. "lol i'm sayin"
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there's levels to this shit

casual dating (i can't have fb's if i'm broke?) or dating dating.

plus different chicks got different standards and expectations and make different concessions for different dudes. some will date a dude without a car. some won't. some won't date a dude without a luxury car. some won't date a dude who don't got a jet. etc etc

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127. "I"m such a square for this love shit."
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I used to love trying to woo those materialist types. A Let me Give You a Differnet Type of Thing Tonight steez. I could work it pretty good too....The guy she doesn't tell her friends about lol. I think half of the effectiveness depended on the initial shock that I'd even try. 'From way back.........'

  

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131. "Romance was manufactured on Madison Avenue in the 40's/50's"
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Reality however has always existed.

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133. "no it wasn't. the diamond engagement ring industry was tho."
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112. "so if my job is to support the financial health of our dating "
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what's your job?
i mean if it's just to screw me keep that
i can get hookers to do that and I don't have to talk about my feelings once I nut

I got a good life man

  

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116. "RE: You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it."
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Men who pay for sex usually can afford it. That's what we really are talking about here, right?

Otherwise equating dating with income and not realizing its another way of saying sex for pay is just a lie you're telling to yourself.

Why can't you pay if you like him so much and he brings other qualities to the table. It's call complementing each other.

Capitalism has done a number on us. I love you only if you make six figures and have a 401K.

Sad post.

  

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132. "This post isnt gender specific"
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And the fact that you jumped straight to the conclusion that I was referring to men paying for dates ect... says more about you than it does me.

What you talking bout Willis?

  

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117. "if waited until we were "ready" or "able" to do something"
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we'd be wasting our lives

money is fleeting

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149. "RE: if waited until we were "ready" or "able" to do something"
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^^ real spit right here


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120. "I disagree, but we have 100x posts shaming women, so..."
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>Or even dating for that matter, ass need to be focused on
>something else.
>
>
>Tis all.

I'mma just lol

  

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123. "Grade-A trolling, would read post again. "
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124. "she not trolling. she legitimately tired of fucking with broke boys. "
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they keep going smack at her, she stay falling for it.

she keeps wondering why she got all (un)dressed up, only to end up and Sala Thai, with instructions from her date to only order ONE drink and they gotta split the appetizer.

  

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136. "You know nothing about me."
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137. "watch me not care. "
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138. "You tried to size her up based on her posts, you obviously care"
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>

  

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139. "almost, i dont care about being right or wrong re: 'knowing her'."
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but im SO into this post tho. so i definitely care there.

  

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141. "I guess. Beyond trying to feel smart, what do you get out of all that?"
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>but im SO into this post tho. so i definitely care there.


Let my love slide in and never slip out

  

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143. "dude, just tell me to get lost."
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but what do i get out of it all?

honestly, it still freaks me out, this whole technology thing.

it's like you're my pen pal.

i type something. think about it. delete it. type it again.

move it.

press post. and then i wait.

and then you do the same.

you could even be a fucking robot!

love it.

... i got-ta get you to keep typing!

  

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147. "He just wants some attention."
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140. "SILENTOO!"
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______________________________________

Everything looks like Oprah kissing Harvey Weinstein these days

  

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146. "You're pressed as fuck."
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But keep demonstrating how much you "don't care" by continuing to post all up and through this shit.

  

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125. "respectfully, I disagree."
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***
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then wanna dap me down
but when I leave?

  

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145. "I thought this post was made because of the responses in the "$7.50""
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post. Cause you know we are assholes and hurt people hurt people and all that but umm nevermind.

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150. "women should also stop giving them casual sex "
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152. "^^^^DONT LISTEN TO THIS WOMAN"
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She's delusional and hasn't taken her pills today

  

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154. "OOP"
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155. "OOP"
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_____________________
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156. "I kinda agree. But ..."
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Most chicks won't see this as a viable option because they think they need to have sex to interest men or need it to validate their desirability.

  

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157. "or bc they like hard dick."
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.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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159. "Sure"
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But some of those same chicks be crying because they end up wanting more than that. :shrugs:

  

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163. "'some' chicks cry over this. 'some' chicks cry over that."
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yesterday, you were crying over the brokeness of others.

what will you cry about today?

  

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165. "I broke a nail earlier today"
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Not particularly happy about messing up a 40 dollar manicure, you feel me? And I'm sleepy too.

  

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167. "gel or acrylic?"
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169. "Dont ask unless youre paying for it to get fixed"
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And then for lunch afterward.

  

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170. "*unsubscribe"
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175. "LoL"
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182. "LOL"
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.

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it looked like Bol Bol was diving in the river - Action Bronson

  

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164. "so they would be crying whether or not they had sex bc they"
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aren't getting everything that they want either way

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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158. "who still talks about women 'giving sex' in 2015?"
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what is this? 1915?

women have sex b/c THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX.

wake the fuck up.

fuck you.

  

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160. "this post keeps on giving. not sex. but something else"
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161. "lol"
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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168. "women SHOULD have sex because they want to have sex."
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but that's not always the case.

what kind of lala land are you typing about?

on behalf of women, even.

bad show.

  

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171. "lol you are no better."
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yes, some women don't do that.
and those women need to get their life.

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173. "what'll really blow your mind is that's the same thing MizClayton typed."
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what just happened?!

  

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217. "lol true"
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Let me sport my Air Hyperbole 2010s in peace. (c) ansomble

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184. "Hello"
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fuck you.

  

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176. "oh stop, you know what she meant.....don't lawyer the poast"
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let it go poast

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183. "And don't nanny me."
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I don't need it.

fuck you.

  

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193. "foh PC policing my shit"
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men give dick
women give pussy

it's language to describe fuckin, damn

women can fuck broke niggas if they want to, yes, but so much GOOD can come from us refraining from sexing niggas who can't afford kids (and who lack motivation)

  

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194. "^^^^^ lawd GEEZUS, please preach that good gospel"
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>women can fuck broke niggas if they want to, yes, but so much
>GOOD can come from us refraining from sexing niggas who can't
>afford kids (and who lack motivation)
>

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220. "FOH using outdated bullshit language"
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that speaks volumes about your attitudes about sex and relationships.

get right, sis.

ppl have sex b/c they want to. or at least they should. those who are out there 'giving' sex to get something are hustling backwards in most cases. if they end up fucked up that's fucked up. but regardless...i push back against the notion that all or even most women 'give' men sex - women have sex (or should) B/C THEY LIKE SEX. not b/c they're giving a man something of value in exchange for ___. that's a pretty cynical way to operate and i'm glad to know most ppl ain't caught up in that bullshit. if you are i weep for you.

fuck you.

  

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162. "I dont agree totally but you should have a plan and be creative."
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The brokest guy i ever dated found a way to give me gifts very often. He was creative and had a plan and was just very sweet. He brought me my favorite pair of earrings. They were beautiful. And it was a great surprise when he gave them to me.
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172. "^^^ yup. some things you should be/do whether you have $ or not"
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174. "pretty much..even if you are in relationship or married"
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just bc ya'll come across hard times doesn't mean the dating should stop. That's a recipe for disaster.

lol imagine breaking up with someone and being like "I am too broke to stay with you" da fuq?

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178. "$$ doesnt mean ready. CLEARLY. "
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lots of folks have the $ and the means and don't want the relationship

and most of us, even those who are well off, always feel they could be better off with more. it never ends. no one would ever do anything waiting for a bigger paycheck.

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213. "Yall are veering off into the dysfunctional to make the point tho..."
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Assuming healthy parties are involved... the $ is part of being ready
just like ability to commit, mental stability, emotional maturity, etc

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177. "everyone should just do them & make love"
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not warz

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179. "on the real i think this adds to the degeneracy of blacks."
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'i can do bad all by myself' is some stinkin thinkin only petitioned by our queens.

  

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197. "Nigga said getting your shit together is degeneracy lol"
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Yall some special kinds on here

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180. "RE: You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it."
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Wow. So you are saying that to build a relationship. To fall in love with someone...it cost.

Hmmm. No offense, and I'm really not judging, but if you had any male admirers on this site, they might be questioning it now.

Honestly, I get what you are saying. But, if you are both broke and you are trying to build something together, then I commend them. I mean my now hubby and I were broke ass college students, and the truth is we spent what little money we had on each other because we were building something together. But, we also weren't eating at 4 star restaurants every time we saw each other either. Sometimes a date was a trip to see one or the other at their school, and a Pancheros burrito and a Coke. And that was good enough for us. Sometimes we hit up a 3 star restaurant and lived it up on special occasions. The point is that it isn't the money, its the time, and the moments you spend together that makes that relationship.

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188. "Her titties ain't shrink after making this post"
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>Hmmm. No offense, and I'm really not judging, but if you had
>any male admirers on this site, they might be questioning it
>now.

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192. "RE: Her titties ain't shrink after making this post"
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LOL!!! Wow! SMH.

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181. "Lol man it wont stop till everything is commidified and priced, huh?"
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"They used to call me Baby Luke....but now? The whole damn 2 Liiiive Crew."

  

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185. "sheeit, alotta women need money to play da game too "
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tralala niggas gon front like they wifin up da broke crusty broads who cant afford keepin they hair or nails or clothes in check or eat healthy now n then

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186. "I agree."
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genderwarz in weeks.



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218. "i feel some kind of way about this"
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enemy in the camp type shit
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195. "I don't see how anyone can be mad at this"
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196. "This post is a Dating Advice Nightmare. "
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200. "This post is so depressing."
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You know what the best free thing in the world is available to all people in all societies, on all budgets?

Love.

Find love before anything else.

It might even give your life enough meaning that you don't need to seek personal value through money, clothing and trinkets for the rest of your vacuous fucking life.

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201. "There's love in many more places than dating"
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There's also family and friends

This mentality that we have to be fucking to have love is extremely detrimental
... hell the fact that some of us have to go that route to feel anything close to love is even more detrimental

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202. "Yeah, but physical intimacy is more than just fucking."
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I mean fucking is a big part of it, but you can intimate with a lover in ways that you can't with family or friends.

I mean just think about walking around naked and the only other person in the house is your SO? You aren't fucking at the moment, but the level of comfort that you feel with that person says something about the nature of your relationship.




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204. "Of course it is. Point still stands."
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Might yearn for that, but love in other forms is sufficient til you get your shit together.

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205. "It is or it should be? I disagree with both, but I want to be clear"
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as to what you mean.


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They have their exits and their entrances;
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208. "It is for me. I leave "shoulds" for the parties engaging..."
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but that is the distinction between love of any other kind and being "intimate"
with someone is sexual relation. Therefore, one can hold off until they established...
as a matter of fact, having genuine love in one's life makes is MUCH easier to hold
off. That lack is why we see kids out here having kids at 14 and shit. Ain't no love
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210. "' It is for me. ' Is the sentiment the OP should have ended on."
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Who are you tell anyone else that there is an objective measure by which they can figure out which forms of companionship are right for them?

Unless that objective measure is purely economic, in which case why get married or form friendships? We should all just be engaged in business negotiations. We need what we need from other people when we need it, sometimes its for the best, sometimes it isn't, but none of our needs are exactly the same.



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203. "There are many types of love, sure."
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And all are more important than money.

Romantic love can come with or without fucking - they're separate things. You can fuck anyone without requiring love. But the unconditional love between romantic partners is one of the most liberating things a human can experience. Calling it fucking makes me wonder if you really appreciate what romantic love is?!

Family love should be given and received by default - that's a necessity. Unfortunately it's not so for many people, but that should be a baseline for human existence. Parents, children and siblings should always form a unit stronger than all the individuals.

But Romantic love (importantly the prospect of being able to *create* that good familial love through it) is one of the experiences that can send the human experience into orbit. It makes life better every single day, even if there's no food on the table. It can be achieved elsewhere, but good romantic love can reduce money, status and styling to mere trifles.

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206. "Oh jesus christ, cut the crap, lol"
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I said fucking because that's being discussed in the post, and when you think about it,
what's different about other forms of love and the love you experience with a partner?
Every difference centers around fucking them.

If love is so important and beautiful, then why is the love from your family and friends
not enough? Because you're not fucking them.

Case in point...

>But Romantic love (importantly the prospect of being able to
>*create* that good familial love through it) is one of the
>experiences that can send the human experience into orbit.

All that other stuff you said is just flowery stuff on top it. Intimacy, fucking, sexual relations...
you really mean the same thing.

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207. "So physical love < familial love? Got it. "
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You do realize that it's possible to denigrate and abuse familial love too right? Just because we're more aware of how people abuse sexual love that means that it's on a lesser tier than the other ones? It's less important in making a person feel fulfilled?


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209. "I feel like you're being purposely obtuse here..."
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I kinda don't even know where to begin with this response...
1, because you're sticking with familial and ignoring that I also said friendship
2, because you're assuming I didn't mean healthy familial bonds
3, how did we get on abuse?

Trust me, I very familiar with abuse of familial bonds, but what does that have to
do with anything? We're not talking about abusing intimacy. We're talking about
the need for it ahead of establishment... at least I am.

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211. "Why would I purposely be obtuse? I just disagree with your entire"
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framework. I think you're working with a faulty premise, which is why I'm breaking the discussion down to values. Basically, do you value familial or friendship bonds over romantic ones? You seem to, and I'm pushing against that because so far I haven't seen you provide any explanation for why one would be valued over the other.

>I kinda don't even know where to begin with this response...
>1, because you're sticking with familial and ignoring that I
>also said friendship

So add it back in, it doesn't really change the heart of what I'm saying about you valuing those types of love over another type of love. I just said familial because we're doing a lot of typing and I want to save time. If it's that important to you I'll say both.

>2, because you're assuming I didn't mean healthy familial
>bonds

No, I'm not assuming that. Good or bad examples aside, I don't understand why you value those as being paramount when compared to romantic love?

>Trust me, I very familiar with abuse of familial bonds, but
>what does that have to
>do with anything? We're not talking about abusing intimacy.
>We're talking about
>the need for it ahead of establishment... at least I am.

You are, and to close I'll reiterate my point that I'm questioning why you seem to either value romantic love less than other forms of love.

I could easily say that you shouldn't be a friend unless you can afford it, based of a history with needy, demanding, or just outright trifling friends or on the positive side, friends who were in bad spots and genuinely needed my time, money, energy. To which most people would retort, well you can be a friend without spending money or giving people things. I'd say the same applies to romantic love, so I don't understand why people need to meet a financial threshold to engage in later but not the former?


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212. "Ok now we're getting somewhere..."
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I'm not saying I value one over the other. I'm saying love is love, and fucking is fucking.
People act like love is supernatural when there's fucking involved, but it's just love with fucking involved lol.


But anyway, on to your point (which I actually think has alotta merit)...


>I could easily say that you shouldn't be a friend unless you
>can afford it, based of a history with needy, demanding, or
>just outright trifling friends. To which most people would
>retort, well you can be a friend without spending money or
>giving people things. I'd say the same applies to romantic
>love, so I don't understand why people need to meet a
>financial threshold to engage in later but not the former?


I can't be mad at this point, but the major flaw with this point is that my saying that
it's a good idea to get your money before your relationship is based on a history
of "needy, demanding, or just outright trifling" women. It's just based on the reality
of dating.


I think I've stated elsewhere in this post that if one just so happens to find a
relationship free of any financial obligation, then that's an awesome thing, but I
wouldn't be *looking* for a relationship if I wasn't getting $. Of course people can
do what they want, but it's not practical to me. Reasons...
Earlier in this conversation, you (or maybe the other guy) was talking about how
there's more to an intimate relationship than other kinds of love. Well, to be frank
money is usually (MUCH more often than not) part of that... yall wanna go out,
wanna do something special for each other, yall have a child, you need gas to
get to her house, all kinds of stuff. Some of that overlaps with friendship, and some
of it doesn't... but you can guarantee that friends + relationship is more expensive
that just friends and a relationship is more expensive than friends.
And I know, folks wanna trip "YOU'RE REDUCING RELATIONSHIPS TO MONEY!",
nah I'm just factoring it in, because it's reality... we need to do more planning as a people.

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214. "Romantic love can be asexual just as much as sexual."
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Among other things it w/could still need to be:

- Monogamous/Exclusive - family and/or platonic love doesn't need to be. You can have as many brothers, sisters and friends as you like and love them all equally. You can even love your fellow Man on principle. You don't put any of them on the pedestal you put a romantic lover that you're dedicated to exclusively.

- A platform to *create* a family: through sex, adoption, surrogacy, fostering, whatever.

- A partnership of true transparency: Most people, however much they love their mother and father, do not share every detail of their life with them or even share every value. Romantic love can achieve this.

Sex is a factor in 99% of romantic relationships, sure... it's not the definition of it and it's rather sad to think it is.


Romantic, platonic and familial love are all different faces of similar, but not identical coins. Either way, my reason for the thread being depressing was the OP... love (whether through friendship, dating or family) is more important than money. Love exists. Money doesn't.

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215. "As a dude....i wholeheartedly agree"
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219. "have a friend"
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didn't realize he stays a virgin so long was this same approach


i talked him out of it
he's now married and broke

LOL


i get it but...eh

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221. "I took 'afford' to be more metaphorical"
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rather than to literally be about having enough money to have a relationship

relationships cost more than money
they cost your time
they cost your attention
they cost your emotions
they cost your ... you get the idea

if you can't really deal with all that "cost" being with someone, yeah... maybe you should sit this one out

(of course, this is me giving Hannah the benefit of the doubt. if this was literal, a rather softball "FOH" delivered to this post)

  

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222. "The only time I dated "broke" was in college"
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and that's because pretty much everyone in my dating pool was broke.

So...in that much...I agree. You should be bringing more than hard dick and bubble gum to the table.

However....what's broke?

My mans has never held a 9 to 5...but he's a poet that makes jewelry, knows how to hustle and has knowledge of self. To me...that's RICH....waay richer than someone with extra commas in the checking account.

Anyway. To each their own.

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223. "obama shouldn't have a NCAA bracket..but he does every year"
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people can multi-task...some people are practical enough to know their limitations and still put forth the proper effort towards the areas they need to...

and even if they aren't...it's still a lid for every pot...i wouldn't advise it but single-income relationships work for some people *shrugs*

sometimes the right date/relationship can be that spark to get shit together to

and not everyone can be "together"

the world isn't built that way and there's nothing that is going to stop them from pursuing love, sex, intimacy

those things are on par with those other priorities even if we don't want to admit it...some of us are able to operate just fine without it but many can't

when i was broke and going nowhere...i wasn't able to maintain a relationship but i was able to date/smash while keeping my focus on getting my shit somewhat together...not doing that would not have sped up that process...probably would've slowed it down

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