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Kwesi
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"Poll question: when's the last time you had a white person in your home?"


          

am i the only person here who grew up with a 'no-whites allowed' household & school?

right now, i dont have any white friends to invite to my home. but if i did, i still don't think i'd invite them.

white person in my home? *shudders*

Poll result (46 votes)
i live with one. so they're always here. (9 votes)Vote
i got plenty white friends. all the time. (20 votes)Vote
i had one over a couple years ago. i smashed. (5 votes)Vote
no white person has ever visited me. unless they're a contractor. (12 votes)Vote

  

  

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Subject Author Message Date ID
Over the weekend, plumber.
Nov 03rd 2015
1
Friends, about a month ago
Nov 03rd 2015
2
Blue, a couple weeks ago
Nov 03rd 2015
3
such bottomless assholery.
Nov 03rd 2015
4
RE: such bottomless assholery.
Nov 03rd 2015
7
lol
Nov 03rd 2015
11
      sounds like a happy hour drink special at a gay bar
Nov 03rd 2015
27
okp eats it up though
Nov 03rd 2015
12
do they, though?
Nov 03rd 2015
14
      good point. I really can't tell.
Nov 03rd 2015
34
      his threads do numbers
Nov 03rd 2015
37
           thank you dope fiends, for your support (c)
Nov 03rd 2015
42
                lol
Nov 03rd 2015
45
gotdamn. you hit this post over the head with a hammer.
Nov 03rd 2015
15
Pun(s) intended?
Nov 03rd 2015
40
#reparations
Nov 04th 2015
113
YESTERDAY
Nov 03rd 2015
5
recently the maintenance dude....b4 him...a guy sellin cable
Nov 03rd 2015
6
What people are the WORST
Nov 03rd 2015
8
my son's little homeboy spent the night Friday...
Nov 03rd 2015
9
Very much green.
Nov 03rd 2015
10
I smashed a 5th grade teacher over summer
Nov 03rd 2015
13
you are a reprehensible human.
Nov 03rd 2015
16
why do you think this? are you trolling me.
Nov 03rd 2015
36
      k.
Nov 03rd 2015
38
           feel better?
Nov 03rd 2015
39
a month ago before that prolly 10+ yrs...
Nov 03rd 2015
17
I remember this little white boy asked to stay at my house.
Nov 03rd 2015
18
do people really hang in closed circles like this?
Nov 03rd 2015
19
I can speak for me....i don't live in the hood...never had a white
Nov 03rd 2015
22
in 2015 nobody in your family is white?
Nov 03rd 2015
25
      uhhhh no....my grandmother was mixed but no
Nov 03rd 2015
30
Every hood in the west coast has white folks
Nov 03rd 2015
24
I work and socialize with mostly Black ppl. I don't go out of my way
Nov 03rd 2015
31
pretty much...there's a yt boy behind me as i type this
Nov 03rd 2015
33
Basically
Nov 03rd 2015
43
RE: I work and socialize with mostly Black ppl. I don't go out of my way...
Nov 04th 2015
120
      Why do Black people have to extend the olive branch?? n/m
Nov 04th 2015
127
      we don't have to...but why wouldn't you?
Nov 04th 2015
128
           Liberals hate conservatives more than they hate black people
Nov 04th 2015
130
      i've always worked in very black environments...
Nov 04th 2015
136
      Huh? U sound stupid. Lol at looks weird. A group of Black ppl
Nov 04th 2015
137
           yes ppl segregating themselves at work would look weird to me
Nov 29th 2015
140
                happy holidaaays!
Nov 29th 2015
141
                except none of what u wrote has anything to do with what I wrote
Nov 29th 2015
145
yeah. i live in the hood. we look like this:
Nov 03rd 2015
53
Why you typing perplexed
Nov 04th 2015
100
i mean most ppl don't make friends as adults
Nov 04th 2015
119
      Welp
Nov 04th 2015
123
y'all northeast cats gotta travel more
Nov 04th 2015
122
      nyc,philly, and boston all come up on the most segregated city list
Nov 04th 2015
124
      yeah, but those places don't have non-hood black communities
Nov 04th 2015
125
      yeah sounds like he has a pretty low opinion of Black ppl
Nov 04th 2015
138
Once but they smelled like wet dog
Nov 03rd 2015
20
wow
Nov 03rd 2015
21
Never heard of the no whites rule. My house was no crack head
Nov 03rd 2015
23
I honestly think the last time was 2006. And I moved from that place
Nov 03rd 2015
26
Blue
Nov 03rd 2015
28
LMAO! Well I have had barbecues/day parties where it was 120
Nov 03rd 2015
29
How many of you who don't have white people in your houses
Nov 03rd 2015
32
I've visited some white homes. always an older coworker.
Nov 03rd 2015
41
reply 31...Works both ways
Nov 03rd 2015
48
A whole lot as a kid, and vice versa. I might go 1-2 times a year now, b...
Nov 03rd 2015
51
i had never been a white person's house in nyc until i was 20
Nov 03rd 2015
69
September... my wifes best friend from college is white
Nov 03rd 2015
35
My homie brought his white girl over a couple weeks ago.
Nov 03rd 2015
44
Lmao
Nov 03rd 2015
49
A month or two ago
Nov 03rd 2015
46
my home? october 2nd. i also went to a white guys home oct 17th
Nov 03rd 2015
47
nothing really matters ...
Nov 03rd 2015
50
white people are not the enemy. we are the enemy.
Nov 03rd 2015
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      we the enemy?? why you typing like that?
Nov 03rd 2015
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           lol. we doesnt mean black people. it means the enemy is in each of us
Nov 03rd 2015
60
U got another baby on the way? Lil boy or lil girl?
Nov 03rd 2015
52
josiah...he will be here in 7 weeks, thats what they say.
Nov 03rd 2015
55
      Congrats
Nov 03rd 2015
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           thanks.
Nov 03rd 2015
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                nice.
Nov 03rd 2015
72
Wait wait wait, the kid's name is Oddly?
Nov 03rd 2015
57
      yep. thats some white people shit
Nov 03rd 2015
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           RE: yep. thats some white people shit <<<<<indeed
Nov 03rd 2015
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                nope. i never asked...but i will.
Nov 03rd 2015
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                     Yeah, there has to be
Nov 03rd 2015
67
I understand that white folks being in the home could be uncommon...
Nov 03rd 2015
58
they're considered untrustworthy.
Nov 04th 2015
79
oh
Nov 04th 2015
80
Plenty of whites have and do as well so it's not so odd.
Nov 04th 2015
104
you all have to stop rewarding this coon with attention
Nov 03rd 2015
62
new low
Nov 03rd 2015
64
      aint it though?
Nov 03rd 2015
70
Yet two of my post got deleted this week.. SMH
Nov 03rd 2015
68
damn. you mad, too? ABOUT WHAT?
Nov 03rd 2015
71
Yellow. The only white ppl who come in my home are delivery men
Nov 04th 2015
73
Not sure why this post is getting so much hate. It's a real thing....
Nov 04th 2015
74
Because the OP is blatantly racist
Nov 04th 2015
75
Ahh...ok I see that
Nov 04th 2015
77
      see what, exactly?
Nov 04th 2015
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           Why do you "shudder" at the thought?
Nov 04th 2015
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                as a group, we're suffering from PTSD.
Nov 04th 2015
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                     you lost me here, not following the angle you're laying out
Nov 04th 2015
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                          shuddering is typically a result of fear or revulsion
Nov 04th 2015
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                               How do you function daily if this is your reaction to white people?
Nov 04th 2015
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                                    i do damn good - i know they aint about to put me in the trick bag.
Nov 04th 2015
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                                         haha, so you're really just a huge dickhead. got it.
Nov 04th 2015
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                                         OR, im not about to get caught slippin.
Nov 04th 2015
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                                         what exactly are you afraid of? i'm genuinely asking.
Nov 04th 2015
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                                              the fuck? my black ass shouldn't even be on this continent right now!
Nov 04th 2015
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                                                   oh
Nov 04th 2015
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                                                        LOL
Nov 04th 2015
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                                         75% of whites don't associate with non-whites outside of work
Nov 04th 2015
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                                         haha, that dont' make their attitudes/behaviors right or non-dickish.
Nov 04th 2015
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                                              I did say 'sadly' in reference to that -- the game is the game though
Nov 04th 2015
                                         ...
Nov 04th 2015
110
                                         lol...what's this "trick bag"?
Nov 04th 2015
109
because okp has become the empathy / left winger olympics
Nov 04th 2015
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      thank goodness!
Nov 04th 2015
81
Not counting the landlord/maintenance or other workers, I don't know
Nov 04th 2015
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Sidebar: I'd love to have some white friends though...
Nov 04th 2015
85
my theory is that the discomfort is healthy.
Nov 04th 2015
86
Same here:
Nov 30th 2015
148
Am I trippin but didn't u have a white girlfriend u used to post about?
Nov 04th 2015
87
you're good. i hardly remembered that.
Nov 04th 2015
88
All these ppl saying hell no, but there are 12 blue votes lol
Nov 04th 2015
89
... you know niggas don't vote.
Nov 04th 2015
90
you seem like the type that would hang with them. Kinda surprised by
Nov 04th 2015
95
i may interact with them at bars. randomly.
Nov 04th 2015
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      you seem more Dave Chappelle than Mike Epps is all I'm saying.
Nov 04th 2015
101
      lmao @ the white girl group hug
Nov 04th 2015
106
      most hyper "militant" black folks have a deep affection for white folks
Nov 04th 2015
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           agreed. there was a fascination. it's gone.
Nov 04th 2015
115
           most hyper "racist" white folks have a deep affection for black folks
Nov 04th 2015
132
                stay woke
Nov 04th 2015
133
                     Not militant just pro truth* if my seeming as such is the implication
Nov 04th 2015
135
Blue.
Nov 04th 2015
105
Halloween.
Nov 04th 2015
111
you married his fucking daughter. show some respect.
Nov 04th 2015
112
lol. the *handclaps* changed the whole way I read that
Nov 04th 2015
117
yeah. he nailed that shit.
Nov 04th 2015
118
Are we clapping to the syllables on MUTHAFUKKA ?
Nov 04th 2015
129
i was born in the deep south in the 70s
Nov 04th 2015
121
a few years ago when the guy came to replace my fridge
Nov 04th 2015
126
there were 2 black families in my neighborhood growing up
Nov 04th 2015
131
only white friend who came over to the house was Jon Jon
Nov 04th 2015
134
HELL FUCKING NO... *smfh* n/m
Nov 17th 2015
139
so last night i went to a house dinner with about 20-25 white ppl there
Nov 29th 2015
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how long did you spend there? 1.5 hours? closer to 4?
Nov 29th 2015
143
maybe 2-3
Nov 29th 2015
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Nvm
Nov 29th 2015
146
father-in-law
Nov 30th 2015
147
cringe? Is he racist?
Nov 30th 2015
149
      yes. and yes.
Nov 30th 2015
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everyday.
Nov 30th 2015
150

Cenario
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1. "Over the weekend, plumber."
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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2. "Friends, about a month ago"
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3. "Blue, a couple weeks ago"
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and smashed

  

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4. "such bottomless assholery."
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your infinite assholery would be impressive if it weren't so vile.

and oh...i boned a white guy on my couch 2 weeks ago.

fuck you.

  

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7. "RE: such bottomless assholery."
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^^^lmao.... too easy. too fucking easy. ^^^

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11. "lol"
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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27. "sounds like a happy hour drink special at a gay bar"
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or a gay churches description of heaven

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12. "okp eats it up though"
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>your infinite assholery would be impressive if it weren't so
>vile.
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>and oh...i boned a white guy on my couch 2 weeks ago.

  

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14. "do they, though?"
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34. "good point. I really can't tell. "
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37. "his threads do numbers"
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42. "thank you dope fiends, for your support (c)"
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45. "lol"
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15. "gotdamn. you hit this post over the head with a hammer. "
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40. "Pun(s) intended? "
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One fine day Mr.Kettle arrived home to find a letter in the mailbox from his neighbor Mr.Pot. Upon opening the envelope and reading the letter within he felt somewhat confused as it simply stated "You black as shit!!"

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113. "#reparations"
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5. "YESTERDAY"
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My son's good friends happen to be white.

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6. "recently the maintenance dude....b4 him...a guy sellin cable"
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@ 5 years ago
before him...the police

other than that 0

I don't have white friends

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8. "What people are the WORST"
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Don't let them in!!

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9. "my son's little homeboy spent the night Friday..."
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then his moms came and scooped him up Saturday afternoon.

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10. "Very much green."
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13. "I smashed a 5th grade teacher over summer "
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Demon girl


No dudes tho. I don't have white friends like that

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16. "you are a reprehensible human."
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i had a white dude in my house last week.

  

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36. "why do you think this? are you trolling me. "
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38. "k."
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39. "feel better?"
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17. "a month ago before that prolly 10+ yrs..."
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& he brought his dog wit him smh

  

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18. "I remember this little white boy asked to stay at my house. "
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Classmate friend but his momma called my momma and asked for a sleepover. It was a first. It was cool. Except at some point my dad went on a "these white people" rant and didn't know the little boy was in the house.

I think I even stayed over his house. Blew my mind they had milk with their dinner.

That's about it until I got to college.


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19. "do people really hang in closed circles like this?"
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i'm sure i'm the token in some circles but statistically that makes sense for my area and industry
the other way around though? how is that possible unless you still live in the HOOD hood and only congregate with ppl there
cause now even the 'hoods' in most major cities are some what integrated
and what about coworkers and old classmates
no friends or family members married into those circles?

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22. "I can speak for me....i don't live in the hood...never had a white"
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friend in my adult life....cept this one girl who grew up round my way but she pretty much lite skint at this pt

I interact with white folks when I go bar hopping and they be my friend for the night but after that? nah

at work...I've noticed yt folks only tend to kick it with those soft or nerdy types...or they are 'at work cool'

funny but I don't know how ya'll find em lol

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25. "in 2015 nobody in your family is white?"
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30. "uhhhh no....my grandmother was mixed but no"
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24. "Every hood in the west coast has white folks "
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we keep it moving,

  

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31. "I work and socialize with mostly Black ppl. I don't go out of my way "
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To avoid them but It just doesn't happen where I get that close to White people. The white people i interact with at work I would never hang with outside of work or work related functions

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33. "pretty much...there's a yt boy behind me as i type this"
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we ok...but we live in 2 different worlds

we ok but would never be friends...he a snake

and I aint goin out my way

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43. "Basically "
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120. "RE: I work and socialize with mostly Black ppl. I don't go out of my way..."
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i'm usually the only blk person on my team so i have no choice i guess
it probably look weird when yall in yall lil cliche going out to get lunch and everybody black
it's bad enough our cities and neighborhoods are segregated but dang yall segregating yallselves at work
voluntarily?
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what yall afraid of, they don't bite
and socializing with others enables them to learn why certain stuff ain't funny/kosher

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127. "Why do Black people have to extend the olive branch?? n/m"
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128. "we don't have to...but why wouldn't you?"
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every time a Ferguson/Bmore riot type event happens
i come to work and listen to coworkers* talk about why it's messed up etc
and if someone kind of goes off path a lil bit i steer them back to the right direction
if i wasn't cool with ppl they wouldn't even talk about that stuff around me much less be receptive to my explanations/opinions
i don't see how it can hurt


*admittedly i work with a demographic that stereotypically has above average intelligence, is non religious, and is liberal
that's not always true but mostly in my experience. if you work with conservative meatheads i can see how this would be difficult

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130. "Liberals hate conservatives more than they hate black people "
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that's the only difference between the two.

As far as olive branches go there is no branch for blacks to extend nor is it really for us to extend one IMO. This doesn't mean "hate white folks" it does however mean we should tread lightly in establishing relationships with the vast majority.

There is much we can do as a group to better and improve ourselves and overall condition, but there is much, much, more that has been done to put us into such a position where that's needed. Until that's truly addressed and taught there can be no 'group' outreach.

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136. "i've always worked in very black environments..."
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the yt folks I do encounter or have worked with don't live IN the city but the burbs


we live in 2 different worlds ...


oh...and I work for a VERY large diverse gvt contractor
mostly white then indian and black are tied then asian

In our actual office, I don't even go to because like i said earlier they only kick it with the soft or nerd niggas...they don't speak...they move out the way when I walk thru...avoid eye contact..etc

I just go to the actual gvt agency where WE pretty much any and everywhere in the hierarchy and people(including the white folks) act somewhat normal...not too many yt dudes in my age bracket besides my boss

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137. "Huh? U sound stupid. Lol at looks weird. A group of Black ppl "
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Together looks weird to you? I don't know what to tell ya, sounds like u got some issues to work out

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140. "yes ppl segregating themselves at work would look weird to me"
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and yea you're an anti social nigga who only speaks to ppl who look like you
ain't really expecting you to be able to tell me anything

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141. "happy holidaaays!"
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145. "except none of what u wrote has anything to do with what I wrote "
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So yeah either dumb or bored could be the only explanations for what u wrote. Either way fuckya

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53. "yeah. i live in the hood. we look like this:"
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dXIuPlmVBp8

  

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100. "Why you typing perplexed "
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I mean do you go out of your way to befriend white people? Do you find the white people you know go out of their way to befriend you?


Nope white folks are not moving in the for real hood

>and what about coworkers and old classmates

I just looked at my HS grad photo. There are 10 non Black people (3 of them are Latinx) and Nope. I went to a PWI and still Nope LOL

>no friends or family members married into those circles? NOPE


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119. "i mean most ppl don't make friends as adults"
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unless you meeting ppl on message boards or whatever
but i mean just off family + work yall gotta be meeting them i would assume
i get not being best buddies with ppl you work with but you don't invite them over the crib for cookouts or nothing?
i don't have to know you for 15 yrs for you to come thru with a case and chill with the small talk etc

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123. "Welp"
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I haven't worked with a Caucasian contingent for the long term ever.

And even if I did, they wouldn't hang out in Detroit for along time
too scary too crime ridden etc etc
Then as a Black person crossing 8 mile is wrought with drama so why bother

Detroit is the most segregated city in United States with a black-white dissimilarity score of 79.6. Detroit is almost all Black, beside a little Latinx community in the southwest. Whites mostly stick to the suburbs like Grosse Pointe, Dearborn, and Ferndale.

  

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122. "y'all northeast cats gotta travel more"
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most communities in america are still pretty segregated

and not all majority black communities are south philly/marcy projects.

  

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124. "nyc,philly, and boston all come up on the most segregated city list"
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i don't think that has anything to do with it really
assuming you work in corporate america you are still coming into constant contact with ppl of other races

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125. "yeah, but those places don't have non-hood black communities"
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i dunno, maybe i'm wrong, but in a lot of major northern cities, black is very dichotomous.

You either hood in a black community, or middle class in a private/catholic school, trying your best to fit into some fucked up awkward social environments

  

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138. "yeah sounds like he has a pretty low opinion of Black ppl"
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And pretty warped views

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20. "Once but they smelled like wet dog"
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so I gave them the boot.

“So back we go to these questions — friendship, character… ethics.”

  

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21. "wow"
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I'm tryna be better off, not better than...

  

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23. "Never heard of the no whites rule. My house was no crack head"
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My parents told me on some "who cares about skin color, no druggies or alcoholics. That includes family"

we keep it moving,

  

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26. "I honestly think the last time was 2006. And I moved from that place "
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In early 2007. So it's basically been a decade

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28. "Blue"
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29. "LMAO! Well I have had barbecues/day parties where it was 120"
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people there, so normally, its like 1-2 Whites and 12-15 half white light skint folks there.

I don't know if you count Terminex or Vivint, but they been in there before.

I've never smashed a White chick, so they've never been there.

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32. "How many of you who don't have white people in your houses"
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Have been in their houses?

  

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41. "I've visited some white homes. always an older coworker. "
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or Craigslist buyer.

and never for long.

  

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48. "reply 31...Works both ways "
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51. "A whole lot as a kid, and vice versa. I might go 1-2 times a year now, b..."
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it's ALWAYS music related

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69. "i had never been a white person's house in nyc until i was 20"
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or maybe older.

  

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35. "September... my wifes best friend from college is white"
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she is from Newport News tho...

my brother in law is white too.

but growing up? they could only go on the porch.I was messing with a white girl in HS and she was shocked when I told her I wasn't going to take get to the prom cause she was white. She really had no idea black people could be racist.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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44. "My homie brought his white girl over a couple weeks ago."
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Before that it's been a minute. What's crazy is she was over for only like an hour and im still getting random loose strands of hair on me. I don't kno how niggas do it.

  

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49. "Lmao"
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. What's crazy is she was over
>for only like an hour and im still getting random loose
>strands of hair on me. I don't kno how niggas do it.

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46. "A month or two ago"
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Had one sell me a soft water treatment tank and alkaline faucet. Then again, I only been in my hone since May. I have a small amount of non- Black friends and I would say that only one of them would probably come through. The rest only if I threw a function of some sort.

I may be different than many people, but I kind of don't like having too many people over my house. Color/race, etc. makes no difference.

  

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47. "my home? october 2nd. i also went to a white guys home oct 17th"
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October 2nd was my baby shower and i have all kinds of friends but this lady who ive known since i was 16 came and helped me decorate and moderated games for me. Her husband also catered the food, but he is black.

I visited a guy in my bands home who is white, his wife and kids are all white...he had clothes he was giving away since his twin boys Holden and Oddly had grown out of them. He also wanted me to record a hook on a song he is working on.

Not sure why any of this is important, but u asked and im bored waiting on my fast food to cook so, i bit.

  

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50. "nothing really matters ..."
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but im always fascinated by how open-to-whites some of you blacks are.

don't you all know white people are the enemy?

that should be an SOP.

  

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54. "white people are not the enemy. we are the enemy."
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Its about how we respond, and if we feed off hate or grow from it. But thats just how i feel. Like u said, nothing matters.

  

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56. "we the enemy?? why you typing like that?"
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keep it up and i'll have cyren BAN YOUR MONKEY ASS!

  

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60. "lol. we doesnt mean black people. it means the enemy is in each of us"
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Everyone has good and bad in them. We all choose who wins and when.

  

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52. "U got another baby on the way? Lil boy or lil girl? "
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But I don't kno where u at with that right assuming ur still involved with the same guy

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55. "josiah...he will be here in 7 weeks, thats what they say."
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He looks just like his brother. And me and their father are good. Devoted parents...thats what really matters.

  

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63. "Congrats "
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66. "thanks."
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*does a kegel*

  

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72. "nice."
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57. "Wait wait wait, the kid's name is Oddly? "
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59. "yep. thats some white people shit"
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But it grew on me, and he is an awesome kid.

  

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61. "RE: yep. thats some white people shit <<<<<indeed "
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That one takes the cake. Do you know the story behind it?

  

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65. "nope. i never asked...but i will."
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Im sure there has to be a story.

  

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67. "Yeah, there has to be "
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58. "I understand that white folks being in the home could be uncommon... "
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But yall had a policy?

Interesting

  

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79. "they're considered untrustworthy."
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why would they visit unless they 'had' to?

  

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80. "oh"
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104. "Plenty of whites have and do as well so it's not so odd. "
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62. "you all have to stop rewarding this coon with attention"
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64. "new low"
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70. "aint it though?"
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68. "Yet two of my post got deleted this week.. SMH"
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71. "damn. you mad, too? ABOUT WHAT?"
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73. "Yellow. The only white ppl who come in my home are delivery men"
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or trades men. It's like the Method Man episode of MTV diary, where he said his son is not used to having white ppl in the house, that's how I grew up. I don't really interact with white people outside of work.

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74. "Not sure why this post is getting so much hate. It's a real thing...."
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Not necessarily something I condone or advocate...but it's a pretty common thing....even in 2015.

Surprisingly, outside of vendors & business related stuff, I can count on one hand the number of times I've had a white guest inside our home over the past 10 years.

Not on some "YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED" .... just on some we don't really have white people in our circle like that.


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75. "Because the OP is blatantly racist"
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Your social circle is fine, but that's not what the OP says.

  

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77. "Ahh...ok I see that"
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78. "see what, exactly?"
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83. "Why do you "shudder" at the thought? "
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I mean, that's kind of fkd up my dude...

  

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84. "as a group, we're suffering from PTSD."
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whether you realize/acknowledge it, or not.

  

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91. "you lost me here, not following the angle you're laying out"
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92. "shuddering is typically a result of fear or revulsion"
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the PTSP that blacks experience has a direct link to the way we've been treated during our stay here.

me typing out *shudders* when it comes to a white person in my home is an honest and rational reaction to the environment.

a traumatic environment

something like this:

http://atlantablackstar.com/2015/07/03/ptsd-and-mental-health-disorders-in-black-people-linked-to-trauma-from-racism-and-violence/

  

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93. "How do you function daily if this is your reaction to white people?"
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>the PTSP that blacks experience has a direct link to the way
>we've been treated during our stay here.
>
>me typing out *shudders* when it comes to a white person in my
>home is an honest and rational reaction to the environment.
>
>a traumatic environment
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>something like this:
>
>http://atlantablackstar.com/2015/07/03/ptsd-and-mental-health-disorders-in-black-people-linked-to-trauma-from-racism-and-violence/

Do you think the fact that you dwell so heavily on the bad things about the Black existence has anything to do with deepening your PTSD?


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94. "i do damn good - i know they aint about to put me in the trick bag."
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i make sure of that.

it's less of a dwell, and more of a code of conduct or an understanding that - 'these people are not your friends'.

i don't want you to think that i'm socially awkward around whites, either.

they eat me up.

i don't think they realize how little i actually care about them, and the stories they share about themselves and their families.

i do a good job of acting interested and all that jazz.

i mean, a white women got me meeting her 22 year old daughter cause her daughter kinda wants to be a designer and just graduated, but don't know what to do with herself or how to start. so the old lady think it's a good idea to start with me.

on a level like that, i play along. it's stupid, but i play along.

  

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96. "haha, so you're really just a huge dickhead. got it."
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98. "OR, im not about to get caught slippin."
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103. "what exactly are you afraid of? i'm genuinely asking. "
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i completely understand not having friends/associates from outside your race. it happens. the part i'm questioning, i suppose, is why the hard line stance of "i'm not going to be friends with you because you're white, no matter what."

  

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107. "the fuck? my black ass shouldn't even be on this continent right now!"
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especially under these circumstances.

i've been tasked with making sure my peoples don't fall for the okie-doke again.

it's a tall task but we gotta start.

in fact, let's not think of what im afraid of, i'd rather think of the greatness that will come when my peoples finally realize their collective and individual worth.

blacks that hang around whites be having some funny ass self esteem.

that aint right.

  

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108. "oh"
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116. "LOL"
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it looked like Bol Bol was diving in the river - Action Bronson

  

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99. "75% of whites don't associate with non-whites outside of work"
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somehow an equal amount don't even come into contact with non-whites. So the OP and anyone of a similar stance is sadly just playing the game the same way the majority of the country happens to be.

No harm no foul as they say.

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102. "haha, that dont' make their attitudes/behaviors right or non-dickish."
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"I did say 'sadly' in reference to that -- the game is the game though"
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some folks play it by the rules i.e. the OP while others don't.

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110. "..."
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http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=12921326&mesg_id=12921326&page=#12921334

fuck you.

  

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109. "lol...what's this "trick bag"? "
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I mean...I get the whole not trusting thing...hell...I literally only fully trust TWO people on this entire planet 100%...and that's my wife & my child lol.... But if the white homey wants to kick it with a brother....a brother gonna kick it with the white homey.

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76. "because okp has become the empathy / left winger olympics"
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81. "thank goodness! "
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we worked hard to make it so.

fuck you.

  

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82. "Not counting the landlord/maintenance or other workers, I don't know"
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If I exclude people that came by for their job, I can't remember a time. Not intentionally, it just doesn't happen.

  

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85. "Sidebar: I'd love to have some white friends though..."
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One thing that killed me about bein the majority all of my life is I still feel a little uncomfortable around white folks.

  

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86. "my theory is that the discomfort is healthy. "
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you REALLY trying to put your whole guard around some white jokers?

  

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148. "Same here:"
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>One thing that killed me about bein the majority all of my
>life is I still feel a little uncomfortable around white
>folks.

I was just talking to someone over the weekend about how I don't understand "white american culture." I just don't get it. I think it's (what I interpret as) passive-aggressiveness. That shit just doesn't fly in the "black community," so when I see folks giving me the fake smile, pretending not to see me or making some comment that I'm not sure is "coded" or not I automatically say "fuck it" and stop trying to interact.

  

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87. "Am I trippin but didn't u have a white girlfriend u used to post about? "
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I remember some random post u made a long time ago about feeling you were shucking when she kept asking you to do something funny and u obliged. I could be thinking about someone else tho. I remember because I had this white coworker that kept wanting me to do this flava flave impression I used to do. I did it like 3 times and one day after she asked me I realized I was cooning like shit.

  

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88. "you're good. i hardly remembered that."
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she wasn't a girlfriend, she was a flirty co worker.

the sentiment was something like:

white people love having niggas perform.

i remember doing a dance or joke, or something physical - and her response to it struck me as peculiar.

she kinda looked at me as if she was in an audience. (like the end of that senorita video)

normally, i joke or dance around, and the person or (any black lady/woman) kinda joins in. we both act silly, together.

but that time, the white woman looked slam at me with a half smile and was kinda like 'do it again! do it again!' like i was a spectacle, or something.

i aint like that shit.

  

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89. "All these ppl saying hell no, but there are 12 blue votes lol"
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Something don't add up here

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90. "... you know niggas don't vote."
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95. "you seem like the type that would hang with them. Kinda surprised by"
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this.

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97. "i may interact with them at bars. randomly."
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they're either borrowing a lighter, or telling me how cool my hat is.

ONE TIME i got drunk and caught-up and ended the night with a white-girl group hug.

still don't know how that happened. but it happened.

im almost offended that you assume that.

what do you think gave you that impression?

  

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101. "you seem more Dave Chappelle than Mike Epps is all I'm saying. "
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http://www.frocast.com
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106. "lmao @ the white girl group hug"
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****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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114. "most hyper "militant" black folks have a deep affection for white folks"
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in my experience...

note the " " ....


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115. "agreed. there was a fascination. it's gone."
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132. "most hyper "racist" white folks have a deep affection for black folks"
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the more you hate something the closer you are to loving it.

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133. "stay woke"
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them beckys find ways bruh...

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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135. "Not militant just pro truth* if my seeming as such is the implication"
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I could easily be misunderstanding you though as the whole "stay woke" meme I always see used jokingly around here.

*admittedly I do use a lot of hyperbole to point towards what I think are truths though.

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105. "Blue. "
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111. "Halloween. "
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he's my father-in-law

and I CAN.*NOT.*STAND.*THAT.*MUTHAFUCKA.* (*those are handclaps)

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112. "you married his fucking daughter. show some respect."
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117. "lol. the *handclaps* changed the whole way I read that"
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>he's my father-in-law
>
>and I CAN.*NOT.*STAND.*THAT.*MUTHAFUCKA.* (*those are
>handclaps)

  

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118. "yeah. he nailed that shit."
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129. "Are we clapping to the syllables on MUTHAFUKKA ? "
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121. "i was born in the deep south in the 70s"
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126. "a few years ago when the guy came to replace my fridge"
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...in all honesty, it's rare I let ANYONE in my house...

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131. "there were 2 black families in my neighborhood growing up"
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and we never had any white people over. haven't had any white people in my house ever but i did live with three white guys for a year in atlanta

  

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134. "only white friend who came over to the house was Jon Jon"
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and Jon Jon's mom remarried a Black man. Shit was like the Brady Brunch but the wife had 3 white kids and the Dad had 3 black kids.

I was only 6 or 7 when they moved across the street from me. My you mg ass thought a Black and white couple produced all black and all white kids... thought they alternated and shit.

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139. "HELL FUCKING NO... *smfh* n/m"
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142. "so last night i went to a house dinner with about 20-25 white ppl there"
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me and my S.O were the only non whites there......

admittedly most of the white people i know are either "okayplayery" or developers/engineers who ime tend to be okayplayery minus the music taste

these were my S.O friends and the experience was a little bit different
party was basically divided between hipsters and ivy league alum/management consultants
and i mean LITERALLY divided
like we were in a different area of the house basically cliqued up with the white people who knew my S.O and all their friends who work in the same industry
i see that kind of thing often at black events but have never seen it so dramatically presented in a white setting
probably cause all the white ppl i know fit a standard archetype
just was an interesting observation
the small talk was honestly boring as shit
i learn some things about atlanta and why all the consultant firms are on peach street and why they began building on peach street (laying foundations in limestone)
and other "white shit" i didn't care about
had one dude ask me where I was from .....i think i may have been speaking too proper for him but that may just be my own insecurities searching for racist shit whilst surrounded by whites

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143. "how long did you spend there? 1.5 hours? closer to 4?"
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144. "maybe 2-3"
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like i said the small talk was ass so i was pressed to bounce
i just thought about this thread alot while i was there
probably because i didn't feel that comfortable around white ppl that i didn't have that much in common with
so to an extent i better understand what the ppl above were alluding to
still don't agree with segregating myself but i can now envision scenarios where that may be the easiest solution

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146. "Nvm"
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stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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147. "father-in-law"
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and I cringe every.fu-king.time.


Why, just yesterday I was in the backyard, and as I looked thru the patio window out to the street, I saw a grey Jeep whizz by.

"Is that your grandfather?! WHY IS HE HERE?!"

He was bringing one of the kids home.

:-/

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149. "cringe? Is he racist? "
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did you wife up one of those women who went against her fathers wishes?

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151. "yes. and yes."
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It's my wife's stepfather.

He one of those 'I-married-a-black-woman-so-I-understand-the-struggle'

muhfuggas.


no, you don't.

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150. "everyday."
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