Now that I'm firmly in my 30s realize how picky I have become when it comes to dating.

at this point I instantly deduct points for the following offenses

-back of the neck tattoos
-hand tattoos (yet I have strangely dated several heavily tattooed women, like both arms and legs done, I just cant get down with neck or hand work)
-any hint of being a future fatty
-being a burner (heavy into burning man, its a bay area phenom)



I have plenty more, but, what are your deal breakers when you first meet somebody?



let me add this before this goes poast: This is not a thread about shitting on women, this is a thread to discuss your own private neurosis when it comes to mate selection.

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who actually gives a shit about, like, their character?

here for dis.

where upon I go further and judge ones own family relationship.

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can we admit that some of us WILL get fat easier or quicker than other people?


by fat I dont mean a few pounds, or pregnancy weight, I am talking about big.

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God forbid a chick is on her cheat day or is ravenous because she skipped lunch

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"if the children are not initiated into the village they will burn it down just to feel its warmth." - african proverb

>God forbid a chick is on her cheat day or is ravenous because
>she skipped lunch
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"I hate water" or "I hate vegetables" that is a clue
But damn
And those statements shouldn't be deal breakers because of fatness
They're just stupid comments/opinions

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>"I hate water" or "I hate vegetables" that is a clue
>But damn
>And those statements shouldn't be deal breakers because of
>fatness
>They're just stupid comments/opinions

part of it is just observing them as a person overall

and

part of it does have to do with what she says

I've met women that have said point blankly "i cant wait to have kids so I can get fat"

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When I drop weight it just improves on my sexiness.

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My mother, usually 136, made it up to 170-180 at 5'7 and she got diabetes. She's back skinny. My paternal grandmother had it too and went blind. Fat isn't even an option for me.

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if u 25 and got a turkey neck...
vs if you 35 and got 20% body fat

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like a pigeon on a lamp post
it says to me she doesnt know what kind of hair she needs
to blend with her own shes a
bad decision maker and also tacky

one of my coworkers now does this
and she got the super duper bad eyelashes too
which i can often see the glue glistening on them

i be wantin to give her some game so bad
but thats rude

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and made arrangements for a subsequent date, no?

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edit: i want an answer, damn it!

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shouldnt be on the table at all actually

if i come up with the first date idea or u come up with just dinner and movie, slighlty less interested already

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and the internet in general

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Or mention you don't eat vegetables (I don't care if you like them or not)then I'll have a hard time considering you an adult lol

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I have a cousin that doesn't eat many vegetables and I want to shake him. We too old for that shit now Joe.

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nor when a guy brings up sex

im not a fan of product in hair or tatoos on forearm or earrings, but i probably wouldnt go out on date 1 if a guy has any of these things.

and you don't find out about the forearm tattoo till later?

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the more i like him, the more i will forgive.

but if i dont like him, that will be the thing that helps me say nope, not you.

that might be my one legitimate dealbreaker as far as first dates.
i've gone on dates with all kinds of personalities/physical features,
smoking cigarettes is always a constant deal breaker.
weed is cool though

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their own food and drink)

this may be more a same sex issue but yeah

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then i replied no i asked u out i got it

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>their own food and drink)


i mean im paying anyway if i like the person, but it goes a long way if they suggest splitting it or reach for the check before i can..

10000% agreement on this and placing the phone on the table

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he wore flip flops...ugh!

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put my big girl panties on and said to myself we'd get thru the next few days despite the infraction.

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for u then lol

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for the whole squeezing of the toes between the thong of a flip flop thing...gonna see my therapist about it.

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A lot of texting other people while we're talking.
Bad looking nails
Colored contacts
Aunt Peggy arms

the last first date i had i knew as soon the guy walked in the joint that i didn't want to have sex with him. so there was no saving the date. if i was not sure if i wanted to have sex with him then he could've done or said things that would've saved it. but since it was "no" off the bat that was the end. i continued the date b/c i was hungry and we were at one of my favorite restaurants. we split the bill.

fuck you.

she ain't like Outkast like that *blink* she almost got put out the car like a CD Cleo ain't like on Set It Off

Being an Atheist, pulling out a cigarette, saying dumb shit like "You don't look like you date black girls" but I'm here on a date w/your black ass, as we're talking and you reveal you're not passionate about anything, convo sucks, taking yourself too seriously

Also, no confidence is ugh! I can deal w/cocky chicks b/c a time will come when they will get humbled but the opposite I can't do

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i honestly wanted to kick her out at that moment
we could never be

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i don't really like sharing my food, but i realize its a part of the game and i do it. its not even begrudgingly either, i've come to expect and accept that women are gonna want to taste your food. i'll even offer beforehand, you wanna taste....go head and get a taste. but we're not sharing the plate. get in, and get out. sometimes you'll find people who wanna keep on eating and trying, and oh....this is SO gooding, and really....that doesn't work for me. you're not entitled to half of my plate. you know why i ordered what i ordered, cause i knew it would be fucking delicious. its what i have my mouth set on, and its what i wanna eat. so please let me eat it. or...annoy me, so i'll never wanna see you again.

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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

I'm notorious for eating off a dudes plate...

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wide eyed.

ask first. go ahead and get your bites in the beginning. but if you're acting like you ordered 2 meals...then i'mma want to bite your fingers off.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

It you're skinny or my dad tho... Yeah your plate is game.

they're big for a reason, and its not that they need it, but they want it. the specific point in order was to eat it. you can ask, but tread lightly.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

i might "go to the bathroom" and never come back if they tried to eat off my plate without consent. i don't want any of your food either, if i would have wanted that i would have ordered it.

>i don't want any of
>your food either, if i would have wanted that i would have
>ordered it.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

like you shouldn't have to ask me what you should get to eat or drink. you're an adult...drink what you want. i understand if its something fancy going on and the drink menu is different, but you've got your own tastebuds. i guarantee they're not like mine. cause i'll tell you to get some scotch and be shocked if you don't enjoy it.

people at the bar do this all the time.

them: can i get a grilled cheese?

me: what kind of cheese do you want?

them: oh i don't know...what kind should i get.

me: ????? its your fucking sandwich. get what kind of cheese YOU want.
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not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

that's the worst

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ive been privy to this before

how do niggas find the time

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i went out w/a guy who kept going on about his negative opinion of ppl who use __, __, __, etc. i was over him b/c even if i don't use __ my friends do and i know they're not bad ppl and that i couldn't introduce him to them knowing how he feels about that shit.

fuck you.