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She's missing it. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 1
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Right |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 2
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exactly |
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Jul 01st 2014 | 187
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party over |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 3
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I was feeling like this |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 6
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LMAO! |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 119
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Glad someone got it |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 120
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hahhahahah |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 170
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I also feel like these a prompts parents should make known before |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 4
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^ |
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Jul 01st 2014 | 189
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she named her first born son Onassis tho |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 5
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I wanna say it was her ex-husband's name or he chose it or somn |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 7
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something is wrong with her and she shoulda told u that up front |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 8
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She invited me to the rec center w/the kids at a later date |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 10
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yeah and another elephant in the is if she dont feel comfy |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 12
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She felt comfortable w/me telling them what to do, giving prompts |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 15
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hmm...i wouldn't think that someone who is meeting my kids for |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 9
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context here tho...he didnt just randomly start holding their hands |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 11
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that's basically what it turned into after the convo |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 13
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how long were you holding her hand? |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 17
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long enough to get them caught up to the group, she little legs |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 20
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i get his reasoning...doesn't change her discomfort...so, hopefully |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 16
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yeah i hope so too, she coulda avoided discomfort for everyone |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 38
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at the Zoo? |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 14
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yeah, it annoys me when people walk ahead and leave their kids |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 18
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THIS! |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 21
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but, was she speed walking? how is she so far ahead of her kids |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 26
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We would be together but then they would see something and stop |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 28
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But you know what else is odd about this...this sounds like a family |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 33
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^^^yeah she shoulda invited her sister or someone closer |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 40
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Her sister, is also a good friend of mine |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 43
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sounds like she was treatin him like uncle laz |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 44
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exactly. It was mixed-messagey as hell. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 51
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RE: I don't want you holding my daughters' hand |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 19
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Iono, if it has Muslim roots or just her own reasoning |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 23
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exactly and it is sad, the bad apples have tainted everything |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 42
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next time tap them kids with your foot |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 22
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lol. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 24
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Naw, if after we talk about this she still wants me to kick it w/the kid... |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 25
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oh gosh. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 27
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She got mad when her eldest daughter would want to play w/me |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 30
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I get where she's coming from, and you DO have to be careful to make |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 29
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I dig things can murky |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 32
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you are absolutely right. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 35
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Nah, I'm with her on this, and what she said seems really rational, not |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 31
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She's a divorcee |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 34
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Maybe she is anticipating that you're not going to be playing any |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 36
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Not with it but |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 113
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If you feel like that it's cool, as a parent that's your right, but why.... |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 37
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I'm guessing being a single mother of 4 & me being a good friend |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 39
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No shade but if she got stairstep kids and no husband then she's... |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 45
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She got divorced either while the 3 y/o was born or pregnant w/her |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 49
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yes. Lol. At first I was like, well...she has a point, but the more he d... |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 41
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all I got from this is that its sad ppl dont protect their sons |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 46
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^^^didnt want to be the one to say it but ALL of this |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 47
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True. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 48
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this was one of the points i was going to bring up when i talk to her |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 50
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yip |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 52
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ALSO |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 56
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She ain't make it general, she made it specific w/the girls |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 57
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Just caught on to that point as well |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 114
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mwasi with that GOOD TRUTH SWOOP DOWN... |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 115
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The world doesn't care what happens to a boy/man |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 129
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^ |
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Jul 01st 2014 | 190
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same thing i was thinking. |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 144
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Thank you |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 152
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your friend's a fucking moron |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 53
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thats what I got from the story |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 63
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^^^^^^ |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 122
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I get it. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 54
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Yeah, she's Muslim, not me |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 55
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Platonic friends of the opposite sex is controversial |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 58
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is this ur first and only log in name on okp? |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 59
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I have a secret document I think you need to see |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 65
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We've been friends for 13 years |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 60
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Islam would drive me mad. Lol |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 61
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God bless you for putting up w/ 4 kids that ain't even yours |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 62
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Mayne! |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 64
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So she doesn't have pedophiles in her family then |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 66
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right, but clearly logic ain't one of ole girls strong suits. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 67
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Really?? |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 71
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She's free to be protective of her kids ..I applaud that |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 72
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She encouraged the relationship, she set a limit at touching |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 78
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This woman invited a MAN out for a day with HER KIDS. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 94
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If I invite you out for a day with my kids there will be limits |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 104
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This has all been covered earlier, so I'll just say this and I'm done... |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 107
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basically yes... |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 146
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Iono where the father is, I know it's just her & kids at home |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 68
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ehhh im 100% sure no chomos in mine |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 69
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What's a chomo? Child homo? |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 127
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Bobby Womack said it best... |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 70
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Definitely! I feel the parameters of our interactions should be discusse... |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 73
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perhaps, something happened in her childhood... |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 97
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Perhaps, maybe she will divulge that info when we discuss it |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 99
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The pendulum is swinging back. It's actually a good sign. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 74
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She does have a negative view of black men but always makes me the excep... |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 79
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i think she's doing the best she can. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 91
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but it was cool for the sons to jump into your arms or whatever? |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 75
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Yeah, they would jump off platforms & have me catch them |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 80
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so she aint worried bout her sons getting caught up with pedos? |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 101
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I guess not AS concerned, iono |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 102
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#TeamMom |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 76
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Tryna wrangle 4 kids all under the age of 8 is a task |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 83
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Double post |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 84
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I woulda left the gotdamn Zoo |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 77
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Lol! |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 81
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lol |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 85
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Stories like this are why I'm real standoffish around other people's kid... |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 82
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It's like Bizarro world for me b/c my friends in Alabama don't have kids |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 86
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She need to have a good conversation about being a parent. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 87
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Yeah, that realistic boundary part is the crux |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 89
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Trust no nigga around yo child!!! |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 88
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I forgot to mention |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 90
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she must be fine as shit, Laz, cuz this is crazy. Lol |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 92
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I was bout to say, she must be fine as BeBe's friend was |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 93
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ctfu! |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 95
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She's fly, well, I only seen her hair once when her hijab fell off in 12... |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 96
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RE: I forgot to mention |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 98
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I will & yeah, I'm confused by grouping me as some random guy |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 100
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good post. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 103
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*head nod* |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 111
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Just out of curiosity what race/ethnicity/country of origin is she? |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 105
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Black w/some Puerto Rican from Connecticut |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 108
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Divorced with 4 young kids? |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 106
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I'm saying! |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 109
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Its against the rules if she's Muslim. |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 110
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Duly noted. This & what Louie offered has been eye opening |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 112
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That's the thing, she should have made you privy to her boundaries |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 116
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she said it was because of creepy pedophiles |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 124
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STOP POSTING. About Islam at least, thanks. |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 176
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absolutely ridiculous |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 117
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Nope! No mention of religion at all |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 121
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she got you out there playing daddy daycare with FOUR kids |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 125
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Lol @ daddy day care |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 126
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eveyone's team mom until someone gets snatched |
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Jun 28th 2014 | 118
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yeah, the environment should've come into play & then told me later |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 123
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Here's the thing....you've never met her daughters before. |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 128
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What makes me different from the random guy w/candy is that |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 132
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then meet without the daughters |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 136
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You ain't wrong... |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 138
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Children are like land mines. I stay far away from them. |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 130
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This is great! LOL! Similar to what KCPlayer mentioned |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 131
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I didn't expect to read this kind of dumb until Monday |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 133
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She's irresponsible for letting her 3 yr old walk behind her |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 134
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Ion't like picking kids up that can actually use their legs, lol |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 140
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Rule in my click is: If you don't got kids, you can't watch my kid(s) |
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Jun 29th 2014 | 135
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I dig it and with that, I would expect the actions to follow suit |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 141
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I need to apologize to every female friend I ever called crazy.... |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 137
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crazy as this may sound, there's something even crazier |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 143
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regarding THIS story? |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 145
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Naw! LOL! I mean just out in the world |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 148
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WPOTG is a Muslim woman hanging out with a male?? |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 139
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Her sister ain't wanna come from Baltimore |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 142
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husband tried to pick up the daughter and she kicked him out? |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 147
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*spit take* |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 149
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yeah sounds like she's kinda on the fence with the whole muslim thing |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 156
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that's all i've ever known her to be |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 157
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her "friendship" with you suggests otherwise, like others have said... |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 159
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She and her sister are the only Muslim friends that I have |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 161
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yeah, cause uncles ain't never molested nobody, EVER! |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 150
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nah mean |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 154
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A shit ton of molestation cases involve relatives |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 151
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i hear about those more than strangers |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 153
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Goal post moving. |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 158
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The fuck are you talking about? |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 164
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you literally moved the whole gotdamn field... |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 172
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but what you have to realize is... |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 168
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^^^what I was tryna say^^^ |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 169
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I feel sorry for her boys. |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 182
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What's the Ramadan rules? Do I have to wait until sundown to call? |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 155
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based on how she get down, you probably good...lol |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 160
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smh! damn mayne! lol! |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 162
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at the end of the day tho... |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 163
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I respect her position, just confused by the execution |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 165
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you know, let her know... |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 166
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naw, iont want her to apologize, just more understanding |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 167
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if you are comfy enough to invite me out to the zoo with 4 kids... |
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Jul 01st 2014 | 188
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Gotta Respect It, But I Wouldn't Go Out With Her Kids Anymore. |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 171
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being that she's a single mother of those 4 |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 173
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then she ought not be dating right now... |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 174
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ion't think she dating, i think they have some system they use |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 177
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Ok Laz what's your game plan? |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 175
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yeah, that, and expounding on her Muslim customs |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 178
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are you dating her? |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 179
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Naw, this is a longtime friend |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 180
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How do you feel about interacting with the boys and not the girls? |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 183
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I'm coo, if she wanna hang we can, she just gotta watch her girls |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 184
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don't seem that crazy to me. At least she's taking some preventative |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 181
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yeah, that IS uncomfortable |
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Jun 30th 2014 | 185
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She's nutty, fuck her |
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Jul 01st 2014 | 186
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Why didn't she tell you BEFORE? |
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Jul 01st 2014 | 191
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