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"do black men have to worry about getting married?"
Thu Apr-26-12 08:38 AM by Noodity

          

Or men period
Is there likea woe is me?
Ima be single forever?
Or is that generally just a woman thing?

  

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short ones probably.
Apr 26th 2012
1
ey. fuck you. short niggas rule
Apr 26th 2012
3
http://i28.tinypic.com/2urs4dc.jpg
Apr 26th 2012
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Naw, black man can get married when he wants to...
Apr 26th 2012
2
hitting WAAAY over his weight class.
Apr 26th 2012
4
i dont believe that
Apr 26th 2012
5
I work in Child support. That shit is REAL.
Dec 21st 2012
341
money is money
Apr 26th 2012
7
i have really seen this a bunch of times.
Apr 26th 2012
9
o yeah i believe that part
Apr 26th 2012
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      other part is true too tho.
Apr 26th 2012
50
           kinda a reverse NOI test for martial fitness IMO
Apr 26th 2012
53
RE: hitting WAAAY over his weight class.
Apr 26th 2012
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      Right! Owning a business cleaning office buildings is very lucrative
Dec 20th 2012
      Right! Owning a business cleaning office buildings is very lucrative
Dec 20th 2012
331
RE: Naw, black man can get married when he wants to...
Apr 26th 2012
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Everything is "fair" when it comes to love.
Apr 26th 2012
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Men period n/m
Apr 26th 2012
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white and asiasn guys making sub 30k a year get no love.
Apr 26th 2012
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      RE: white and asiasn guys making sub 30k a year get no love.
Apr 26th 2012
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      Could it be that since Black women are "strong and independent" now
Dec 20th 2012
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      oh you dont know broke white ppl?
Apr 26th 2012
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           yeah but they barely get married.
Apr 26th 2012
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                u need to come to az
Apr 26th 2012
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                     Yeah, im like, that's 70% of America outside the big cities
Apr 26th 2012
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                          i live there and i can tell you white men without money are at the botto...
Apr 26th 2012
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the really picky ones.
Apr 26th 2012
10
i dont ask for light skinned
Apr 26th 2012
12
RE: the really picky ones.
Apr 26th 2012
15
Other than the atheist part, that description just turned me on.
Apr 26th 2012
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right? that description sounds like a wet dream....lol
Apr 26th 2012
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yeah i know i was thinking of you and this guy
Apr 26th 2012
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Lol
Apr 26th 2012
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That entire description is a trap.
Apr 26th 2012
226
lol... man, that woman sounds way too sophisticated for me
Apr 26th 2012
35
damn i'm hitting like 70%
Apr 26th 2012
37
i got an ugly ass dude who lives in tampa and wants your number
Apr 26th 2012
42
How that inbox looking?
Apr 26th 2012
219
hmm...i'm missing the phd, but apart from that...
Apr 26th 2012
79
wait...
Apr 26th 2012
80
i don't think black men care if you're fit/look fit.
Apr 26th 2012
124
      Correct answer. Edit.
Apr 26th 2012
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      the fuck outta here!
Apr 26th 2012
169
      this one does.
Apr 26th 2012
317
...and she gotta be able to cook and she gotta be 'virginal'
Apr 26th 2012
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and she gotta be willing to wait seven years for a ring.
Apr 26th 2012
      Ok, youre just having fun with me now.
Apr 26th 2012
170
:)~
Apr 26th 2012
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I KNOW this guy
Apr 26th 2012
200
yes, those girls are looking for the perfect man or at least not him
Apr 26th 2012
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Are you the one?
Apr 26th 2012
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no
Apr 26th 2012
11
you act like every man has women on deck
Apr 26th 2012
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      RE: you act like every man has women on deck
Apr 26th 2012
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      black women dont want every black man
Apr 26th 2012
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      RE: black women dont want every black man
Apr 26th 2012
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           i was speakin on men too
Apr 26th 2012
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      There is no man shortage.
Apr 26th 2012
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      RE: There is no man shortage.
Apr 26th 2012
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           Marriage is a declining institution across the indstrialized
Apr 26th 2012
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                with the lower classes.
Apr 26th 2012
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                     and of course you'll provide the stats--
Apr 26th 2012
46
                          no. b/c you'll still believe what you want to believe.
Apr 26th 2012
48
                               ^^^david blaine like levels of skill right here. MAGIC!
Apr 26th 2012
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      lol
Apr 26th 2012
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      lol nm
Apr 26th 2012
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           ey nigga
Apr 26th 2012
45
Nope.
Apr 26th 2012
27
i think we worry more about kids than getting married.
Apr 26th 2012
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i want marriage
Apr 26th 2012
33
yeah, the institution needs a lot of work--
Apr 26th 2012
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i ain't even about the institution.
Apr 26th 2012
131
yuuup
Dec 21st 2012
336
bingo!
Dec 21st 2012
342
RE: do black men have to worry about getting married?
Apr 26th 2012
39
black people too complicated
Apr 26th 2012
40
white women are less fertile? lol
Apr 26th 2012
41
RE: white women are less fertile? lol
Apr 26th 2012
51
      it's true why? b/c you say so?
Apr 26th 2012
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           RE: it's true why? b/c you say so?
Apr 26th 2012
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                aka, no, you can't provide proof.
Apr 26th 2012
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                     RE: aka, no, you can't provide proof.
Apr 26th 2012
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                          oh you didn't say you read it in a textbook--
Apr 26th 2012
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                          i read about slavery in a textbook too...seemed pretty cool.
Apr 26th 2012
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                          RE: aka, no, you can't provide proof.
Dec 20th 2012
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                          I'm not as nice as these guys, you a dumb ass bitch
Dec 21st 2012
337
                               shut yo popeyes eatin' chicken ass up
Dec 21st 2012
340
do you ACCEPT....
Apr 26th 2012
43
lol--
Apr 26th 2012
47
single, nvr married men in their mid 30+ are just way damaged
Apr 26th 2012
52
single, nvr married men in their mid 30+ are--
Apr 26th 2012
55
RE: single, nvr married men in their mid 30+ are--
Apr 26th 2012
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you cant what?--
Apr 26th 2012
75
no , theyre really not but u looking from the window so.....
Apr 26th 2012
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^
Apr 26th 2012
154
yea fucking right, LOL
Apr 26th 2012
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damn why they gotta be that?
Apr 26th 2012
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i know plenty of men over 30 that never had kids or been married
Apr 26th 2012
57
^^^^^^^^
Apr 26th 2012
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My ex told me he gets jealous when he see's fathers n sons
Apr 26th 2012
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      i called one of my best male friends, my 1st love actually
Apr 26th 2012
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RE: single, nvr married men in their mid 30+ are just way damaged
Apr 26th 2012
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the single married before ones aint too wholesome either.
Apr 26th 2012
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no doubt. i was trying to be nice.
Apr 26th 2012
85
ex-gfs > ex wives (in terms of baggage)
Apr 26th 2012
62
not necessarily
Apr 26th 2012
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      the hint being, those women weren't right for him
Apr 26th 2012
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           and it may take him a decade to figure out you're not right either.
Apr 26th 2012
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                RE: and it may take him a decade to figure out you're not right either.
Apr 26th 2012
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                and thats wrong why?
Apr 26th 2012
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                     it's not wrong or right. it just is. and you should expect it
Apr 26th 2012
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lol nigga got married and bought the wingsuit, tho.
Apr 26th 2012
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oh, come the fuck on.
Apr 26th 2012
74
lol right?
Apr 26th 2012
77
the longer u go past 35, the more this is true.
Apr 26th 2012
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but its not though--
Apr 26th 2012
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      oh so ur peers tell u what to do now? aint nobody that dumb. i hope.
Apr 26th 2012
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           aint nobody tellin me what to do negress--
Apr 26th 2012
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                we're done here.
Apr 26th 2012
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aww yall doth protest too much
Apr 26th 2012
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      because its not true--
Apr 26th 2012
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      ....
Apr 26th 2012
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      .......yes?
Apr 26th 2012
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      it's not true for us either though
Apr 26th 2012
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           whats not true?--
Apr 26th 2012
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                this isnt true either
Apr 26th 2012
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                     yes it is
Apr 26th 2012
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                          lol
Apr 26th 2012
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                          then its true for you as well DAD
Apr 26th 2012
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      Bonamie tried to use our own cointel pro against us.
Apr 26th 2012
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      we have that oprah connect though
Apr 26th 2012
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           Oprah's a double agent, lol.
Apr 26th 2012
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                *weight struggle face*
Apr 26th 2012
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      Oh, I know, trust.
Apr 26th 2012
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most women i've met that think this way........
Apr 26th 2012
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30+ y.o. men w/no kids = NOT MEN (aka gay or sterile).
Apr 26th 2012
112
*sips international coffee*
Apr 26th 2012
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unmarried or nvr married men with kids r hopeless cases.
Apr 26th 2012
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men w/more than 1 babymama = shiftless & trifling & untrustworthy.
Apr 26th 2012
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change "men" to "wo/men"
Apr 26th 2012
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      women w/more than 1 babydaddy are just doing Darwin's work.
Apr 26th 2012
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           this is where i get off the train. LOL.
Apr 26th 2012
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                i've been on the LOL train the whole time.
Apr 26th 2012
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                     im aware but u didnt go way left enuf until then.
Apr 26th 2012
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                          *bows*
Apr 26th 2012
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She is trolling if you guys didnt realize it by now
Dec 21st 2012
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lol
Apr 26th 2012
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*sips tea then spills it*
Apr 26th 2012
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should i just pencil you in for Friday?
Apr 26th 2012
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after work is best for me.
Apr 26th 2012
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      I guess it's for the best
Apr 26th 2012
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           it's only rape if you cry.
Apr 26th 2012
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                I'm thinking a ball gag and a blindfold will be needed
Apr 26th 2012
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                     and a cattle prod to wake you up just before i bust off.
Apr 26th 2012
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                          no I'm gonna need a really strong barbituate to knock me out
Apr 26th 2012
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                               no can do.
Apr 26th 2012
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                                    I never once said I was intending to remember it...
Apr 26th 2012
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                                         forget it then.
Apr 26th 2012
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                                              you're like the rest...this was all about you...
Apr 26th 2012
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30+ year old black men without kids don't exist, period.
Apr 26th 2012
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      HI, HELLO. no kids here.
Apr 26th 2012
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      ure taking it too far, boo.
Apr 26th 2012
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      She's sicing and that was a joke. She's devoted half her
Apr 26th 2012
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           that you know of...
Apr 26th 2012
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      oh we exist. and we're damaged. like everyone else.
Apr 26th 2012
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      lol. You're describing like half of OKP.
Apr 26th 2012
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      nobodydoesitdumber.
Apr 26th 2012
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      RE: nobodydoesitdumber.
Apr 26th 2012
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      Um. HI!
Dec 20th 2012
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thanks. I'll just kill myself now since there CLEARLY is no hope
Apr 26th 2012
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brother, if you don't ignore that bullshit....
Apr 26th 2012
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      im sorry but LOL.
Apr 26th 2012
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           WHO RUN THE WORLD?
Apr 26th 2012
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                who is "us"?
Apr 26th 2012
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                     so-called 'damaged goods'.
Apr 26th 2012
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                          ah....I guess getting gasier as I age would be damage
Apr 26th 2012
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                               that's your soul slowly leaking from your body.
Apr 26th 2012
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                                    either I've got a big soul or I'm close to being a devil
Apr 26th 2012
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                                         there's an app for that.
Apr 26th 2012
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                                              I was at Belmont/Clark yesterday...is it called Manhunt?
Apr 26th 2012
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                                                   GasBuddy.
Apr 26th 2012
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                                                        from the same people that brought you FurBud?
Apr 26th 2012
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not true on the whole. at that age, we're invincible.
Apr 26th 2012
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BTW: Barack was 30+, nvr married & childless when he married Michelle.
Apr 26th 2012
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LOL at *THIS* being ur cause today
Apr 26th 2012
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      i won't allow my brothers to be bullied by bitters.
Apr 26th 2012
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           do u have a bullhorn or r u on a soap box? i love this btw!
Apr 26th 2012
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                i'm on a street corner behind a pulpit.
Apr 26th 2012
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                     *updates database*
Apr 26th 2012
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                          lol
Apr 26th 2012
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                          nah, he's recruiting
Apr 26th 2012
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                               heh. update your database.
Apr 26th 2012
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Weird response, congrats.
Apr 26th 2012
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Sounds like some dude my cousin married & he was 40+ when they wed
Dec 20th 2012
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Nobody has to 'worry' about being married
Apr 26th 2012
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ambient
Apr 26th 2012
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      lol
Apr 26th 2012
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bwahahahahahaha!..
Apr 26th 2012
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http://goo.gl/2JSkU
Apr 26th 2012
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If they really want kids most men would liek to be married
Apr 26th 2012
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or women these days
Apr 26th 2012
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      RE: or women these days
Apr 26th 2012
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      me too. I much rather be a mother than a wife
Apr 26th 2012
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i don't think so.
Apr 26th 2012
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those that care do
Apr 26th 2012
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yes
Apr 26th 2012
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NobodyGetsItWronger
Apr 26th 2012
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lol
Apr 26th 2012
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what did she say that was wrong?
Apr 26th 2012
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haha I wld never make fun of you
Apr 26th 2012
120
      awww see!! thanks!!!
Apr 26th 2012
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I love her. no flirto.
Apr 26th 2012
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RE: do black men have to worry about getting married?
Apr 26th 2012
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black men, by far, have the most and best options for marriage
Apr 26th 2012
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Hrm. I hate when this gets thrown around as fact
Apr 26th 2012
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yea....chrue
Apr 26th 2012
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right
Apr 26th 2012
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it seems black men marry outside their race more than men of other races
Apr 26th 2012
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dammnit we are making a myth here
Apr 26th 2012
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It's still a small number of us
Apr 26th 2012
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halle berry tipped that scale
Apr 26th 2012
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lol
Apr 26th 2012
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latinos maybe...but asian dudes? nah.
Apr 26th 2012
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      >...but asian dudes? nah.
Apr 26th 2012
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      Don't you play numbers with me Nika! Imma hurt you :P
Apr 26th 2012
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white dudes w/asian wives would like a word with you
Apr 26th 2012
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i'm saying.
Apr 26th 2012
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that's what they want u to believe.
Apr 26th 2012
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we are THE BOMB.
Apr 26th 2012
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in bed
Apr 26th 2012
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      *points to the White House*
Apr 26th 2012
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why does it piss yall off that we're winning for once?
Apr 26th 2012
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WOE IS THE BLACK MAN?
Apr 26th 2012
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they get more education, make more money, living longer
Apr 26th 2012
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but do they got more hoes than us??
Apr 26th 2012
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and then the marriageability is because we get less options
Apr 26th 2012
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^this nigga said
Apr 26th 2012
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its not a competition.
Apr 26th 2012
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Quality non-black women need the payoff for dating a black guy
Apr 26th 2012
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      please if you wanted to find a woman
Apr 26th 2012
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           Well Amerie got married last year, so its probably down to
Apr 26th 2012
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yes. end result can be therapy....
Apr 26th 2012
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this thread sucks
Apr 26th 2012
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RE: this thread sucks
Apr 26th 2012
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No. There are new women turning 21 everyday B!
Apr 26th 2012
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yeah man. shit gets rough out there
Apr 26th 2012
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ha!
Apr 26th 2012
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I will be super real on OKP for one second.....
Apr 26th 2012
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this is a popular piece i hear from blk men and i dont get it
Apr 26th 2012
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its a rare woman who is honestly abt that life tho.
Apr 26th 2012
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maybe they're all puffery w/that talk about wanting a man
Apr 26th 2012
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at what age?
Apr 26th 2012
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so then, what do you if you are a late bloomer? nm
Apr 26th 2012
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      find another late bloomer
Apr 26th 2012
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           real talk.
Apr 26th 2012
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           .
Apr 26th 2012
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That's white women
Apr 26th 2012
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i disagree. black women are some of the most "well...he has POTENTIAL"
Apr 26th 2012
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lol
Apr 26th 2012
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we covered that in the thread starting with reply #2
Apr 26th 2012
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      Black women aren't better than Black men
Apr 26th 2012
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           what do you mean by "better"?
Apr 26th 2012
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                Better human beings
Apr 26th 2012
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please tell me more abt what blk women will & wont accept
Apr 26th 2012
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      my point stands.
Apr 26th 2012
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      ambition + plan - actual activity is not really activity
Apr 26th 2012
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           then we agree.
Apr 26th 2012
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      yeah i guess i dont know any blk women
Apr 26th 2012
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thats cause niggas aint asking black women to marry em at 23-25
Apr 26th 2012
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"niggas aint shit"
Apr 26th 2012
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      oh child please that's rhetoric
Apr 26th 2012
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           hmm
Apr 26th 2012
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bons and sowhat are speaking truth to you
Apr 26th 2012
220
word for word...co sign
Apr 26th 2012
307
Amen to that!
Dec 20th 2012
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your father
Apr 26th 2012
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he turned me off of the idea of making more people really
Apr 26th 2012
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It's a weird place to be!
Apr 26th 2012
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oh...
Apr 26th 2012
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RE: financially stable an addendum
Apr 26th 2012
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      thats not going away anytime soon though...
Apr 26th 2012
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           its a hard call
Apr 26th 2012
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                ok this is what teefive is talking about
Apr 26th 2012
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                its no so cut and dry.
Apr 26th 2012
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                     RE: its no so cut and dry.
Apr 26th 2012
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                          .
Apr 26th 2012
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                          i mean really
Apr 26th 2012
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                               yes you do!
Apr 26th 2012
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                                    i know someone who just got engaged
Apr 26th 2012
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                                         exactly
Apr 26th 2012
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                Then don't buy a home.
Apr 26th 2012
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nope.
Apr 26th 2012
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the issue w/ the wait til you get it together stance is that
Apr 26th 2012
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i think they figure we're a hindrance
Apr 26th 2012
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i wouldnt say that though
Apr 26th 2012
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i'm talking more about guys who avoid LTRs altogether
Apr 26th 2012
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      hrm
Apr 26th 2012
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and thats just it
Apr 26th 2012
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but at the end of the day its all for YOU
Apr 26th 2012
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but i'm an adult too
Apr 26th 2012
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      YOU may not--
Apr 26th 2012
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           i'm not the only one
Apr 26th 2012
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a hindrance--
Apr 26th 2012
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A grip of young women are pains in the ass, tho
Apr 26th 2012
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      RE: A grip of young women are pains in the ass, tho
Apr 26th 2012
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this is why i don't worry bout havin a woman family right now....
Apr 26th 2012
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      part of being "a man" is having someone to share life with
Apr 26th 2012
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Only if we actually want to get married
Apr 26th 2012
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also (no judgement) but it seems like a lot of ya'll live comparison liv...
Apr 26th 2012
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RE: also (no judgement) but it seems like a lot of ya'll live comparison...
Apr 26th 2012
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Baby, we're a star.
Apr 26th 2012
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I like this so much, I'm droppin' Dat Hassan all over this reply
Apr 26th 2012
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i don't even get the joke, but it sounds funny as shit.
Apr 26th 2012
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because I forgot the freakin' link! LMAO!
Apr 26th 2012
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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Apr 26th 2012
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i wish i could feel this way
Apr 26th 2012
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do you have the power to change those variables
Apr 26th 2012
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      some yes, some no.
Apr 26th 2012
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Preach
Apr 26th 2012
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damn.
Apr 26th 2012
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that should be the weeding/selection process...good stuff
Apr 26th 2012
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thats so true and my issue
Apr 26th 2012
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Am I the only one that wants Bloocollar and Nobodydoesit
Apr 26th 2012
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Seriously tho, there's some overthinking in this post
Apr 26th 2012
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Only thing I worry about is meeting someone I REAAALLY connect
Apr 26th 2012
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dont let nobody fool u....that shit aint easy
Apr 26th 2012
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EXAACTLY. It's like nah, I'm not really panicking on some "I'm gettin
Apr 26th 2012
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tell me about it
Apr 26th 2012
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this is it.
Apr 26th 2012
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      Yep. And on surface, I'm sure it makes us all seem picky but fuck that
Apr 26th 2012
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           truer words....
Apr 26th 2012
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this is a damn shame
Apr 26th 2012
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lol... succinct & to the point as always n/m
Apr 26th 2012
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The weirdos really came out for this one n/m.
Apr 26th 2012
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Lol
Dec 20th 2012
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You folks need more to do.
Apr 26th 2012
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Nope, that why I give these jawns a fake name once I pregnate em
Apr 26th 2012
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Good post
Apr 26th 2012
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I love how this post turned into women answering on behalf of men
Dec 20th 2012
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Indeed. It goes to show who's really worried about getting married.
Dec 20th 2012
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No. At least the ones that didn't drink the Kool-Aid or
Dec 20th 2012
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Just Listening!
Dec 20th 2012
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niggas be bumpin my old shit
Dec 20th 2012
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yall got me replying to this post like it was made today
Dec 21st 2012
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FLUIDJ
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1. "short ones probably."
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can a brotha get your vote?
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Noodity
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3. "ey. fuck you. short niggas rule"
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2. "Naw, black man can get married when he wants to..."
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and probably land a chick that is "better" than him. It's not fair, but it just seems to be the case.



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4. "hitting WAAAY over his weight class."
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brothers w/ a business cleaning office bldgs fucking w/ phd's these days

got they new woman paying they old woman their child support

its real out here

  

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5. "i dont believe that"
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Nooooooope

  

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341. "I work in Child support. That shit is REAL."
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********************************

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7. "money is money"
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- u already know

  

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9. "i have really seen this a bunch of times."
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>got they new woman paying they old woman their child support

but if they happy i'm happy.

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@kokupuff

  

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16. "o yeah i believe that part"
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50. "other part is true too tho."
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i don't know that i've seen such extremes
as a doctor dating a cashier at kfc, but
i definitely know successful, driven women
who date men w/'jobs' rather than careers,
if that makes sense.

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@kokupuff

  

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53. "kinda a reverse NOI test for martial fitness IMO"
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like if you muzzi you supposed to find a woman half your age + 7 i think

if youre a successful Black woman you need to find you a man making @ least half your salary + say 10%

ie if you @ 100k...he needs to be somewhere between 50-60.

more then that & he'll start getting uppity looking for a white gal

less then that & you cant bring him to the office functions & whatnot

its a slippery slope

  

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311. "RE: hitting WAAAY over his weight class."
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>brothers w/ a business cleaning office bldgs fucking w/ phd's
>these days

is this REALLY "way over" to you?

"yes, sometimes my rhymes are sexist, but you lovely bitches and hos should know i'm tryin to correct it"- hiphopopotamus

  

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"Right! Owning a business cleaning office buildings is very lucrative"


  

          

That's wealth status right there

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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331. "Right! Owning a business cleaning office buildings is very lucrative"
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That's wealth status right there

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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8. "RE: Naw, black man can get married when he wants to..."
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Yeah they can get black women who don't like dating non-black men. An attractive woman has options.

Mrs. Fassbender

  

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90. "Everything is "fair" when it comes to love."
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If she loves him, it's fair. End of story. No logic is needed.

I learned that when I finally got over my "omg why is she with him, he's just a dumb asshole!!!!!11111" phase

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6. "Men period n/m"
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13. "white and asiasn guys making sub 30k a year get no love."
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If they;re in their 20s it's okay. After that, they're screwed. Most white guys settle down in the 20s though and most asian guys aren't broke.

  

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20. "RE: white and asiasn guys making sub 30k a year get no love."
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From my experience, white dudes are ready to settle down earlier, atleast by early 30 s. Black men on the other hand...idk why, but they don't seem as pressured for some reason.

Mrs. Fassbender

  

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335. "Could it be that since Black women are "strong and independent" now"
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Black men are free to pursue their own interests without feeling the need for female approval?

Rest In Peace, Bad News Brown

  

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26. "oh you dont know broke white ppl?"
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34. "yeah but they barely get married."
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the white chick that wants the fairy tale wedding and the house in the burbs is not going for that guy making sub 30k a year and she has plenty of guys to choose from. the on again off again meth addict chick with the 3 kids in tow, might. but that guy isn't trying to get married either. marriage rates are falling like crazy for poor white folks.

  

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36. "u need to come to az"
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Take a look around

  

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94. "Yeah, im like, that's 70% of America outside the big cities"
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126. "i live there and i can tell you white men without money are at the botto..."
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of the dating totem pole.

  

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10. "the really picky ones."
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yeah. she has to be an atheist with a phd, progressive politics, speak 2 or 3 languages, light skinned with curly hair, from a good family, well-traveled, outgoing, involved in her community, no cats, not wear expensive shoes, but always be stylish...... rah rah rah... those guys yeah. they don't think so though.



  

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12. "i dont ask for light skinned"
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She just gotta be attractive to me
I do be reachin women all outta my weight class
I just gotta bulk up
I like model club chicks
I can't help it

  

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15. "RE: the really picky ones."
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Yeah and theyre single at 40, but don't care.

Mrs. Fassbender

  

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19. "Other than the atheist part, that description just turned me on."
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Lol.

  

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22. "right? that description sounds like a wet dream....lol "
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http://twitter.com/malael

  

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23. "yeah i know i was thinking of you and this guy"
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who contacted me on eharmony who wrote this.

i was like uhhh... yeah i don't have a phd and solamente hablo un poco espanol. adios. buen suerte mi amigo.

  

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28. "Lol"
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226. "That entire description is a trap."
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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35. "lol... man, that woman sounds way too sophisticated for me"
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>yeah. she has to be an atheist with a phd, progressive
>politics, speak 2 or 3 languages, light skinned with curly
>hair, from a good family, well-traveled, outgoing, involved in
>her community, no cats, not wear expensive shoes, but always
>be stylish...... rah rah rah... those guys yeah. they don't
>think so though.

she ain't square enough to ride

  

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37. "damn i'm hitting like 70%"
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>yeah. she has to be an atheist with a phd, progressive
>politics, speak 2 or 3 languages, light skinned with curly
>hair, from a good family, well-traveled, outgoing, involved in
>her community, no cats, not wear expensive shoes, but always
>be stylish...... rah rah rah... those guys yeah. they don't
>think so though.

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42. "i got an ugly ass dude who lives in tampa and wants your number"
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*sike*

almost doesn't count.

  

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219. "How that inbox looking?"
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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79. "hmm...i'm missing the phd, but apart from that..."
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>yeah. she has to be an atheist with a phd, progressive
>politics, speak 2 or 3 languages, light skinned with curly
>hair, from a good family, well-traveled, outgoing, involved in
>her community, no cats, not wear expensive shoes, but always
>be stylish...... rah rah rah... those guys yeah. they don't
>think so though.
>
>
>
>

  

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80. "wait..."
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>yeah. she has to be an atheist with a phd, progressive
>politics, speak 2 or 3 languages, light skinned with curly
>hair, from a good family, well-traveled, outgoing, involved in
>her community, no cats, not wear expensive shoes, but always
>be stylish...... rah rah rah... those guys yeah. they don't
>think so though.



you forgot in 'shape"

i'm hitting a good 3/4's of that list
=\
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124. "i don't think black men care if you're fit/look fit."
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165. "Correct answer. Edit."
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Just read it more closely.

I thought you were saying we don't care if you are fit, just that you look fit. That's what I would agree with.

  

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169. "the fuck outta here! "
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no cheese for this man.

  

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317. "this one does."
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http://i54.tinypic.com/2j51hj4.jpg

  

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125. "...and she gotta be able to cook and she gotta be 'virginal'"
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aka she gotta be able to convince him she's almost never had sex w/anyone else but she can't be a prude either.

fuck you.

  

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"and she gotta be willing to wait seven years for a ring."


  

          

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170. "Ok, youre just having fun with me now."
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163. ":)~"
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200. "I KNOW this guy"
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ugh he is miserably lonely. Those girls widely don't exist, it's like he's pusing himself to desire the mst unattainable attributes...

I do however know a few of those girls, and those girls rarely want him.

_____________________________________
WITH CUZ (STACEY) GONE, I'LL NEVER REALLY BE HERE AGAIN

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299. "yes, those girls are looking for the perfect man or at least not him"
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218. "Are you the one?"
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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11. "no"
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yall choose when you wanna get married for the most part

but the older you get the less hot the women you will be able to snag without spending a lot of money

  

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14. "you act like every man has women on deck"
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Damn!

  

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17. "RE: you act like every man has women on deck"
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Black men do have more options because of the man shortage.

Mrs. Fassbender

  

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18. "black women dont want every black man"
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And shit that's why I hate the black people marriage thing
People only complain about the people they want not wanting them
But the ppl they don't like who like them don't factor in

  

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25. "RE: black women dont want every black man"
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Smart, attractive black women who know they have options and want to be married will be ok.

Mrs. Fassbender

  

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29. "i was speakin on men too"
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As in the girls that I liked wasn't feelin me this year

  

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21. "There is no man shortage."
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30. "RE: There is no man shortage."
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Orly? I guess theres just a shortage of black men who want to get married then. My bad

Mrs. Fassbender

  

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32. "Marriage is a declining institution across the indstrialized"
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world, not just with us.

There's women in damn China talking that man shortage stuff (I'm too lazy to find the article right now, but I read it just yesterday.)

  

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38. "with the lower classes."
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upper class white liberals ironically are living like it's 1950. marrying, living traditional lives, sending kids to college, saving, homeownership, and hardly divorcing. the closer you are to upper class, white and liberal, the more likely your life is to look like that.

  

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46. "and of course you'll provide the stats--"
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to back up your assertions, right?

  

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48. "no. b/c you'll still believe what you want to believe."
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174. "^^^david blaine like levels of skill right here. MAGIC!"
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24. "lol"
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44. "lol nm"
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do or die

  

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45. "ey nigga"
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Lemme cook -ansomble
Get my woe on

  

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27. "Nope."
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Not at all. I'm single dad and It's not really a goal. So many people are getting divorced over little stuff and HUGE TYLER PERRY EPICS like the mess my brother went through.

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31. "i think we worry more about kids than getting married."
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because i wanna child.
but that marriage bullshit?
nah b.

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33. "i want marriage"
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A house
Tv
A/c

  

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49. "yeah, the institution needs a lot of work--"
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a lot of modernizing

  

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131. "i ain't even about the institution."
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marriage itself, outside of the legal benefits, doesn't seem so necessary to me.

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336. "yuuup"
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kids yes... but women with they
expectations annoys the fuck outta me.

like go'head with that..



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342. "bingo!"
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39. "RE: do black men have to worry about getting married?"
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Bottom line, I think it boils down to cultural priority differences. For SOME black people, marriage isn't a priority. 28 y.o. Katie knows she probably Only has a few more years of youthful beauty left, so she is looking to settle down sooner. Also white women are less fertile than black women.

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40. "black people too complicated"
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*scratches head

  

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41. "white women are less fertile? lol"
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51. "RE: white women are less fertile? lol"
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Its true, especially as they age, compared with black and hispanic women.

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54. "it's true why? b/c you say so?"
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can you show your work? (c) Goldmind

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64. "RE: it's true why? b/c you say so?"
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If you wanna know so badly, try google.

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67. "aka, no, you can't provide proof."
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76. "RE: aka, no, you can't provide proof."
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I read this in a textbook some time ago. You seem pressed. Moving right along.

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110. "oh you didn't say you read it in a textbook--"
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now i believe you completely

  

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129. "i read about slavery in a textbook too...seemed pretty cool."
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i'm out.
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325. "RE: aka, no, you can't provide proof."
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>I read this in a textbook some time ago. You seem pressed.
>Moving right along.


but teefiveten asked you for stats/facts and you had none. BOO, YOU FAIL.

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337. "I'm not as nice as these guys, you a dumb ass bitch"
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340. "shut yo popeyes eatin' chicken ass up"
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say 'YEAH'!!!!!

  

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43. "do you ACCEPT...."
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47. "lol--"
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less fertile?

LOL

  

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52. "single, nvr married men in their mid 30+ are just way damaged"
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LOL at this whole entire post
and i weep for the state of black america
they got us convinced to live like true animals
*smh*

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55. "single, nvr married men in their mid 30+ are--"
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having the times of their lives

wealth, women, wisdom, and in demand

not sure how you see them as damaged

  

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68. "RE: single, nvr married men in their mid 30+ are--"
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Didn't you just have a baby? I can't.

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75. "you cant what?--"
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because i had a baby i'm supposed to think all single black men in their 30's are damaged?

  

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86. "no , theyre really not but u looking from the window so....."
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154. "^"
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104. "yea fucking right, LOL"
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>having the times of their lives
>
>wealth, women, wisdom, and in demand
>
>not sure how you see them as damaged

1% of them maybe


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56. "damn why they gotta be that?"
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I would neversay that about a woman

  

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57. "i know plenty of men over 30 that never had kids or been married"
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i can hear a lil twinge of sadness in their voice and they say they will one day, just hasnt happened yet
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97. "^^^^^^^^ "
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279. "My ex told me he gets jealous when he see's fathers n sons"
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He wants a baby...I felt bad for him. I told him, ur a man u have time just look for younger women.

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323. "i called one of my best male friends, my 1st love actually"
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keep in mind i fell in love with him at the age of 9.

lol...and told him about my baby....he was sad a lil. didnt say it, but i know him well enough to know. not cause he wanted me to have his baby, but because it symbolized another person his age who has taken that step.

i know he will get there one day tho.
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58. "RE: single, nvr married men in their mid 30+ are just way damaged"
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Seriously

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59. "the single married before ones aint too wholesome either."
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take my word for that

  

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85. "no doubt. i was trying to be nice."
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62. "ex-gfs > ex wives (in terms of baggage) "
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66. "not necessarily"
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it can be a sign of a lack of willingness to commit or desire to be married.

if a guy tells you he was with one woman for 7 years, then another for 3, then another for 5.... but never married....

you should take a hint...

if you don't have 5-10 years to wait around for a ring that will probably never come.

  

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72. "the hint being, those women weren't right for him"
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73. "and it may take him a decade to figure out you're not right either."
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83. "RE: and it may take him a decade to figure out you're not right either."
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And its the womans fault for sticking with a man like that, if they are looking for marriage material.

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84. "and thats wrong why?"
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103. "it's not wrong or right. it just is. and you should expect it"
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if you see that pattern. and unless you're 25, that guy is probably a bad idea if you want marriage before kids.

  

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69. "lol nigga got married and bought the wingsuit, tho."
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74. "oh, come the fuck on."
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Not all married men are the old nigga with a satin shirt in the club, talkin bout "hollahollahollahollahollahollaholla"

Maybe he was gettin his career established, and now he isn't working 100 hour weeks and has the time and energy to give to a wife/kids.

Maybe he was a late bloomer, and wants to settle at 35 instead of 27 because he got it in later than others.

Maybe he's the black George Clooney.

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77. "lol right? "
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when I think of baggage i think divorcee with kids

not single in their mid 30s lol these ppl are fuckin crazy

  

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81. "the longer u go past 35, the more this is true."
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91. "but its not though--"
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kids sure, we want our names to live on

but by the time we're older than 35 we've seen and heard such horror stories from our peers that we're like "hell naw"

as an institution marriage needs modernizing

  

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96. "oh so ur peers tell u what to do now? aint nobody that dumb. i hope."
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im not debating common sense with u
so u enjoy trying to live vicariously through others...
via some keystrokes.

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106. "aint nobody tellin me what to do negress--"
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im talking about what i've seen them go through

i fault them for allowing certain things, sure

but the sh*t is scary......and theres no easy way to get out

they describe their women before and after marriage.....and its like night and day

im just trying to give yall some insight as to why marriage is hard for us

  

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113. "we're done here."
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>i fault them for allowing certain things, sure

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82. "aww yall doth protest too much"
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men make similar general statements about 30+ women

not to say either is good but it's funny to see you guys get irked by it

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88. "because its not true--"
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Thu Apr-26-12 10:07 AM by bloocollar

          

i wanted to be married when i was younger

when i got older and saw what my peers were going through, i was like "fuuuuuuuuc* that!"

I'm taking the plunge but I'm realistic

As an institution, I don't care for marriage

I wish the fiancee and I could be engaged forever

I'm praying hard that she doesnt do the Jekyl/Hyde thing that women do when they become wives

but I love her more than anything and I'm willing to take that chance

  

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89. "...."
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>but I love her more than anything and I'm willing to take that
>chance

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92. ".......yes?"
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93. "it's not true for us either though"
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doesn't stop yall from saying it

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101. "whats not true?--"
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that you all are damaged after 30?

I dont think that you are, its just that after 30 you all get in an ovary panic.

  

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102. "this isnt true either"
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>I dont think that you are, its just that after 30 you all get
>in an ovary panic.

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107. "yes it is"
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109. "lol"
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111. "then its true for you as well DAD"
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98. "Bonamie tried to use our own cointel pro against us."
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>men make similar general statements about 30+ women
>
>not to say either is good but it's funny to see you guys get
>irked by it

I will have to contact our agents in Cosmopolitan to up the propaganda next issue to respond in kind.

  

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108. "we have that oprah connect though"
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she'd be happy to shit on black men and esp hiphop
at any time
then she'll throw tyler perry up as a shining example of manhood!
*see the room wince*
its good to have a ringer
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123. "Oprah's a double agent, lol."
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>she'd be happy to shit on black men and esp hiphop
>at any time
>then she'll throw tyler perry up as a shining example of
>manhood!
>*see the room wince*
>its good to have a ringer

She's part of the 'Weight Issues' initiative; for keeping her weight struggles public as possible she was eventually rewarded with her own television station to mismanage.

  

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144. "*weight struggle face*"
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122. "Oh, I know, trust."
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Unmarried, childless men are either:

old nigga in the club
socially retarded
gay
got r.kellyz greatest hits and rocks a "Free Sandusky" tee
broker den a mothafucka like got DAMN cut up hotdogs and katsup for dinner

Unmarried, childless women are either:

Past whores
Cat ladies
Current Whores (Prolly ugly)
Drug addicts
Uglier than a prison stint in Pakistan
Crazy (good sex tho)
Prude/hyper religious

And in some, hell probably up to 60% of the time, it's true. I still say we should analyze it on a case by case basis.

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100. "most women i've met that think this way........"
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and voiced it that way had their own set of issues.
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112. "30+ y.o. men w/no kids = NOT MEN (aka gay or sterile)."
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fuck you.

  

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115. "*sips international coffee*"
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116. "unmarried or nvr married men with kids r hopeless cases."
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an aside: more pple shld *NOT* have kids
but this aint that post.

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119. "men w/more than 1 babymama = shiftless & trifling & untrustworthy."
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fuck you.

  

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127. "change "men" to "wo/men""
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130. "women w/more than 1 babydaddy are just doing Darwin's work."
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natural selection and all that jazz. totally different.

fuck you.

  

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133. "this is where i get off the train. LOL."
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137. "i've been on the LOL train the whole time."
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i wasn't serious about anything in this reply thread.

fuck you.

  

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143. "im aware but u didnt go way left enuf until then."
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145. "*bows*"
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fuck you.

  

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338. "She is trolling if you guys didnt realize it by now"
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117. "lol "
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128. "*sips tea then spills it*"
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i'm out.
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150. "should i just pencil you in for Friday?"
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but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
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152. "after work is best for me."
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fuck you.

  

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209. "I guess it's for the best"
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i mean it's been THIS long with nothin but fuckin up...what I want be damned...it's all in the execution.

is it rape if I don't like it from jump?

but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
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212. "it's only rape if you cry."
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i'll have tissues available, btw.

fuck you.

  

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230. "I'm thinking a ball gag and a blindfold will be needed"
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and something to knock me out.

but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
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245. "and a cattle prod to wake you up just before i bust off."
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fuck you.

  

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250. "no I'm gonna need a really strong barbituate to knock me out"
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you can leave evidence all you want....but I want no actual memory of events.

but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
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267. "no can do. "
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it ain't no fun if you don't remember none.

fuck you.

  

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296. "I never once said I was intending to remember it..."
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these are the stipulations for the team trade.

but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
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300. "forget it then. "
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i'm not @ all pressed.

fuck you.

  

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308. "you're like the rest...this was all about you..."
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boo boo nanny poo poo waaaaaaaaah

but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
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167. "30+ year old black men without kids don't exist, period."
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177. "HI, HELLO. no kids here. "
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182. "ure taking it too far, boo."
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214. "She's sicing and that was a joke. She's devoted half her"
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responses to me, and she knows I ain't got nary a child.

  

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222. "that you know of..."
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there are movie genres and the lifetime channel dedicated to this
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185. "oh we exist. and we're damaged. like everyone else."
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who out here ain't damaged in some way?

life is damaging.

we deal.

and right now WE RUNNING THIS SHIT.

fuck you.

  

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227. "lol. You're describing like half of OKP. "
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
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233. "nobodydoesitdumber."
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i'm out.
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310. "RE: nobodydoesitdumber."
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aka she on her "hurt racial concubine pedastal today"

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324. "Um. HI!"
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Rest In Peace, Bad News Brown

  

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149. "thanks. I'll just kill myself now since there CLEARLY is no hope"
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but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
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151. "brother, if you don't ignore that bullshit...."
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see it for what it is:

bull
shit.

hopefully you playin.

we the bomb. fuck what they're on up in here.

WE have to believe we're worthy. b/c nobody is going to give that to us. we have to create the sentiment and own it.

fuck you.

  

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172. "im sorry but LOL."
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173. "WHO RUN THE WORLD?"
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us.

fuck you.

  

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211. "who is "us"?"
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I just want to self-identify correctly.

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Binlahab is a bitch.
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213. "so-called 'damaged goods'."
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fuck you.

  

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231. "ah....I guess getting gasier as I age would be damage"
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but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
I wouldn't trust okp, some of them don't even get any anymore since the Re's stopped - Anonymous OKP

  

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246. "that's your soul slowly leaking from your body."
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fuck you.

  

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252. "either I've got a big soul or I'm close to being a devil"
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i've been REALLY gassy of late.

but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
I wouldn't trust okp, some of them don't even get any anymore since the Re's stopped - Anonymous OKP

  

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268. "there's an app for that."
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fuck you.

  

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298. "I was at Belmont/Clark yesterday...is it called Manhunt?"
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but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
I wouldn't trust okp, some of them don't even get any anymore since the Re's stopped - Anonymous OKP

  

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301. "GasBuddy."
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fuck you.

  

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309. "from the same people that brought you FurBud?"
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but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
I wouldn't trust okp, some of them don't even get any anymore since the Re's stopped - Anonymous OKP

  

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166. "not true on the whole. at that age, we're invincible."
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and we're just becoming into our emotional selves
which may lead to some roller coaster type should-i-settle-down type shit

but at 30 a man should have mastered his approach to women and be working that shit.

  

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171. "BTW: Barack was 30+, nvr married & childless when he married Michelle."
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HOLLA AT US, FOLKS.

WHO RUN THE WORLD? US.

fuck you.

  

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183. "LOL at *THIS* being ur cause today"
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anyway...i said MID 30s
he got married in his early 30s
like 31, if that.

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187. "i won't allow my brothers to be bullied by bitters."
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and like i just said...i agree that dudes in their mid 30s are damaged. but so what? everybody in their mid 30s is damaged. life damages us all. we all have baggage. except maybe the demented.

we work that damage. we stride w/that baggage. high-stepping, even.

fuck you.

  

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188. "do u have a bullhorn or r u on a soap box? i love this btw!"
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195. "i'm on a street corner behind a pulpit."
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WE BEEN HOODWINKED.

fuck you.

  

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204. "*updates database*"
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206. "lol"
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fuck you.

  

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277. "nah, he's recruiting"
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he already has his #1 draft pick too
LOL

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282. "heh. update your database."
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if i had to draft from OKP, #1 ain't even in this post.

well, not yet.

fuck you.

  

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318. "Weird response, congrats."
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I'm not even mid 30's and I see that it's strange. Keep warring tho.

http://i54.tinypic.com/2j51hj4.jpg

  

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330. "Sounds like some dude my cousin married & he was 40+ when they wed"
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...he's also a nicely paid lawyer who gave her two beautiful daughters & they got their oldest speaking spanish for the times they vacation in South America & she pretty much is still geeked out over being with dude.

..just saying

  

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60. "Nobody has to 'worry' about being married"
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if u want to u want to

if u don't u don't

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Coolin...

  

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63. "ambient "
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U know I pay attention to you like the older nigga wit sense

But why you always gotta shit on my shit?!?!?!?
Know your audience
And respond appropriately
No one has to do anything
But we do

I ain't gotta go to work today
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71. "lol"
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u got me bruh


i try to simplify shit

makes it easier to process

but yeah

for me personally

i would like to be married
i dont wanna be old n lonely

but if it comes out that way i aint gonna cry, whine, woe is me abt it

but erybody places value in different shit...

some niggas strive for being a player all up in the nursin homes
some don't

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61. "bwahahahahahaha!.."
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*blink blink blink*
















..BWAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAAAAAA!


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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224. "http://goo.gl/2JSkU"
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http://goo.gl/2JSkU
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65. "If they really want kids most men would liek to be married"
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if not. Marriage reallys erves no purpose for men.

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105. "or women these days"
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the only reason I want marriage is because I want kids


http://www.youforie.com

  

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121. "RE: or women these days"
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>the only reason I want marriage is because I want kids
>
>


I bet that is true in some cases.
But most woman want relationships and committment.
Marriage is the ultimate committment.

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159. "me too. I much rather be a mother than a wife"
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but I also don't think I'd want to be a single mom.
So...


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70. "i don't think so."
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but i'm still considered desireable by a select corner of the market.
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nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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78. "those that care do"
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87. "yes"
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they are in denial


my dad was the classic example of the family bachelor
dudes used to rever him
those dudes? got married

he ended up getting married in his 50s
why?
cause he asked me is it time?
i was like um you're in denial but you've been lonely for decades
its time because frankly i'm not taking care of you

thing is he isn't the only one
mad dudes in denial about their loneliness
others not so much

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95. "NobodyGetsItWronger "
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114. "lol"
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

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118. "what did she say that was wrong?"
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she sounds pretty on point to me.

but go head and make fun of me too, lol.

  

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120. "haha I wld never make fun of you "
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I enjoy your 405 blog too much

  

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217. "awww see!! thanks!!!"
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180. "I love her. no flirto."
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I know that reverses several years of precedent.
but that's the best branding/mission change on OKP.

  

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99. "RE: do black men have to worry about getting married?"
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Men period!

I want to get married BUT! the women I deal with & encounter on a daily basis really turn me off on the idea of marriage.

no matter what race the man is, marriage is still a 2 way street. I've been really close but if the con's outweigh the pro's...then it isn't worth it in the end.

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132. "black men, by far, have the most and best options for marriage"
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because they are sought after by all types of women, not just black

while i dont think there is an extreme male shortage, i do think black women are generally bringing more to the table than black men. so its easy for an unmarried man to meet a woman and be like GREAT! BUT I CAN DO BETTER! and a lot of unmarried women that look at a man and be like HES NOT ON MY LEVEL! I CAN DO BETTER! there seems to be a lot of this "competitiveness"? among the more educated masses of black singles.

i got more to say on the topic, but i gotta get to work, lol.

  

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134. "Hrm. I hate when this gets thrown around as fact"
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>because they are sought after by all types of women, not just
>black

We might be exoticised, but that doesn't mean marriage or even relationships; we are seen as great light dating/fuck buddy material but not much else.

  

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136. "yea....chrue"
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we are seen as great light dating/fuck buddy
>material but not much else.


http://www.youforie.com

  

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138. "right"
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>we are seen as great light dating/fuck buddy
>material but not much else.

we all saw Guess Who's Coming to Dinner.
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nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

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148. "it seems black men marry outside their race more than men of other races"
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please correct me if im wrong. not sure if its a statistic, but youd have to be blind not to see it.

and we all know black men marry outside of their race times over than black women do.

  

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153. "dammnit we are making a myth here"
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stop ruining it
we need to bring the brand down


Black men are only wanted by their sexual prowess by women of other races.




no wait...
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157. "It's still a small number of us"
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Hispanics and Asians are killing us in the game. Id also argue that you guys don't help with the cause with your being dead last as far as interracial marriage is concerned so of course it would look skewed on your end.

  

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160. "halle berry tipped that scale"
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we even have a song now...


white men LOVE us!
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161. "lol"
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http://www.youforie.com

  

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191. "latinos maybe...but asian dudes? nah."
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according to wikipedia, 22% of black male newlyweds were married to nonblack women in 2008. thats significant.

but lemme stop there cuz i dont want it to look like i care that much, lol. that wasnt even my main point.

  

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216. ">...but asian dudes? nah."
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shawnmeslanted, deluge, anfernee and part of the mexiasiandude (dang forgot his name) exist to prove you wrong

yep thats the only reason they are here
to go *ahem* in this part of the argument
*waits*
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258. "Don't you play numbers with me Nika! Imma hurt you :P"
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>according to wikipedia, 22% of black male newlyweds were
>married to nonblack women in 2008. thats significant.


It's not significant compared to other races which is my point. So lets say its just Asian women & black men jumping ship so frequently that they are skewering the numbers. Latinos are at 25%; both males and females are equally lusted after and have similar rates. Id argue

1)The higher number is the norm, you guys are the one that's really not stepping up to the plate as far as options are concerned.

2)Black men aren't necessarily SUPER lusted over, Latino men are actually beating us at the same game.



>
>but lemme stop there cuz i dont want it to look like i care
>that much, lol. that wasnt even my main point.

  

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248. " white dudes w/asian wives would like a word with you"
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156. "i'm saying."
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i'm out.
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135. "that's what they want u to believe."
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139. "we are THE BOMB. "
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errbody know it.

fuck you.

  

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140. "in bed "
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http://www.youforie.com

  

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141. "*points to the White House*"
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not only are we THE BOMB, we control THE BOMB. like, millions of them. around the world.

can't nobody fuck w/us!

fuck you.

  

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142. "why does it piss yall off that we're winning for once?"
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women be like ARGH! Everybody wants Black men! *anger* *rage*

uh...we have to go thru HELL to get to this point! & HELLA dudes dont get here, millions of us in the system, saddled w/ hateful ass baby mamas who tapping us for 1/3rd of our checks, no degree ie loading UPS trucks for a living etc

for the few of us who can make it out to that 25+ stage where it gets good...seems like yall would be like YOU GO BOY! do you

but instead...yall hate

dont do that nika. congratulate

  

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147. "WOE IS THE BLACK MAN?"
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pssssh. fuck that.

we the best!

fuck you.

  

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162. "they get more education, make more money, living longer"
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Pretty much every category you can think of outside of marriageability and obesity, black women win.

one
k. orr

  

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168. "but do they got more hoes than us??"
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and we got Usain Bolt. they got...who? Flo Jo?

we out-run them.

we win.

fuck you.

  

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249. "and then the marriageability is because we get less options"
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economically than just about ANYBODY else, lol

shit's bizarre

  

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322. "^this nigga said "
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Y'all some smart, rich, immortal, lonely, fat, black bitches

Like amazons without the sexy

  

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193. "its not a competition."
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Teknontheou
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158. "Quality non-black women need the payoff for dating a black guy"
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to be really high. Because they're inclined to not fuck with black dudes in the first place.

If they're going to go there, the dude needs to be the bomb.

In my experience, and based on some OK Cupid studies, women of other races are generally not checking for black dudes like that. That goes for Latinas too, even Afro Latinas. I basically don't bother witt women of other races on those sites because the output doesn't merit the effort with them, the way it does with non-Latin black women.

  

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176. "please if you wanted to find a woman"
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any woman of any color, you could do it. you have this ideal that makes up 0.1% of the population and you're going to look for it until you find it.

  

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181. "Well Amerie got married last year, so its probably down to"
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0.005% of the population at this point.

  

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146. "yes. end result can be therapy...."
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doens't fix shit though.

but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
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155. "this thread sucks"
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Y'all some shitty arguin ass niggas

  

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164. "RE: this thread sucks"
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completely

  

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175. "No. There are new women turning 21 everyday B!"
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Plus 46 years old divided by 2 plus 7 equals 30.

Allah gives us until the age of 46 before we have to start worrying about dating women in their 30s. By then we'll all have diabetes and/or high blood pressure and will be dead within the next 10 years.

So basically, YOLO.

mind
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178. "yeah man. shit gets rough out there"
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sometimes i cut out wedding gowns from bridal magazines
and carry the cuttouts to the club
then hold them up and try to line up a bidges head with the rest of the outfit
so i can imagine one of these hoes being wife material, if only for a few seconds.

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236. "ha!"
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179. "I will be super real on OKP for one second....."
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i want to do the wife and kids thing the right way.
my mother did it the dumb way and I had to pay for it.
my father was a fuck up and I dont want to do it his way.
my bloodline cannot afford any mistakes at this point.
my family is rife with substance abuse problems and poverty.
i am trying to create change.


so

to a point there is a some woe-is-me

because I am so far off from being financially stable
because I am so far off from being in a place where the foundation to build strong structures is in place
because after dating every race under the sun I am really ready to build with a black woman

  

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184. "this is a popular piece i hear from blk men and i dont get it"
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>because I am so far off from being financially stable
>because I am so far off from being in a place where the
>foundation to build strong structures is in place

u got other pple building TOGETHER
and we just cant wrap our heads around that

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186. "its a rare woman who is honestly abt that life tho."
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please keep it 100 in the post bones

you know full well your sisters aint really trying to build off some potential earnings

she wants him to come to the table w/ his shit together, as she should

the sad fact is a LOT of us...arent. soooo

  

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190. "maybe they're all puffery w/that talk about wanting a man "
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who's got his ducks all lined up or whatever.

like men puff about wanting 10s and all that but we look around and see plenty of us out here wifing up and knocking up low-digit women.

maybe it's all talk.

fuck you.

  

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192. "at what age?"
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>she wants him to come to the table w/ his shit together, as
>she should
>
>the sad fact is a LOT of us...arent. soooo

maybe that's moreso the case when the mid 30s r reached
but before that?
not buying it.

honestly, it's rare that two pple who work well together will find each other PERIOD. all the numbers pple throw out really mean nothing. the thing is more and more we r just convinced ourselves out of something that wld be good for us individually and GREAT for us as a community.

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197. "so then, what do you if you are a late bloomer? nm"
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202. "find another late bloomer"
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*applies lip gloss*
*slicks down baby hairs with spittle*

nah but for real. if youre in your 30s and find someone who wants to build WITH YOU, to me thats the best case scenario. cuz by that time you know what you want, and you know better what kind of partner that could help you achieve it.

  

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203. "real talk. "
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glad i got honest on okp

  

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273. "."
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we aint the two and i aint the one- lyte

  

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194. "That's white women"
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and other race of women are better

  

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199. "i disagree. black women are some of the most "well...he has POTENTIAL""
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ass mofos in the game.

but ok.

  

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201. "lol"
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riiiiiiight

  

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205. "we covered that in the thread starting with reply #2"
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207. "Black women aren't better than Black men"
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on a whole. It's why y'all languish in lonely-ville or
of course choose the wrong men to give your alls to

  

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208. "what do you mean by "better"?"
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nobody is better than anyone else.

  

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210. "Better human beings"
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Better at making chooses
Black women are fundamentally flawed since their 1st cycle
She could have this and that going for her but she's missing
something. What she's missing is common sense for the most part.

  

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215. "please tell me more abt what blk women will & wont accept"
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i assure you ive dated, holla'd @ & been involved w/ WAY. WAAAAY more

& my pov is both valid & legit

women will say they will work w/ the guy w/ potential but for real when the rubber meets the road & suddenly they start really understanding what that means ie oh we BOTH gotta sacrifice for your dreams?!

most of the time a woman OR a man would bail out

it just so happens that most women got their ish together fresh outta undergrad whereas most dudes dont get it together til after theyve been working in their 1st real job for a few yrs

  

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223. "my point stands. "
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most women, not just black women, will fall in love with potential.

ive done it many a time...and got burnt by it as well. thats life.

most black women will stick with a guy with some ambition and a plan. you said so yourself in another post. and you were right. why you tryna act brand new now?

  

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228. "ambition + plan - actual activity is not really activity"
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if he's not actually executing the plan then its meaningless in which case most women will sadly chunk him the deuce, always wondering what could have been but not willing to wait & waste their most fertile yrs on dreams

again...as they should

  

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234. "then we agree."
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274. "yeah i guess i dont know any blk women"
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anyway...

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229. "thats cause niggas aint asking black women to marry em at 23-25"
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189. ""niggas aint shit""
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you hear that a lot from black men because we are working against the whole "niggas aint shit" /"broke niggas" stigma.

I'm down to build together, but like Bin said, its hard to bring POTENTIAL to the table, its hard to look at yourself in the morning and know that you have a lot more to go

>>because I am so far off from being financially stable
>>because I am so far off from being in a place where the
>>foundation to build strong structures is in place
>
>u got other pple building TOGETHER
>and we just cant wrap our heads around that
>

  

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196. "oh child please that's rhetoric"
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>you hear that a lot from black men because we are working
>against the whole "niggas aint shit" /"broke niggas" stigma.

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198. "hmm "
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220. "bons and sowhat are speaking truth to you"
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honestly im not all there either
neither was my ex
i didnt want to get married RIGHT NOW
i knew he wasn't where he wanted to be
and i was willing to work with it/him
but he was too unhappy

i dont ask for anything i dont have myself
and i want nothing more than to work on those things WITH someone

im not looking for someone w/ everything figured out
i dont have shit figured out

but if you have an idea and you're working on it
and you possess other qualities i hold dear
then you're perfect

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307. "word for word...co sign"
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328. "Amen to that!"
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Stayls aka Peaches Cochran (THE REAL STAYLS)

Yes Natty!™

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221. "your father"
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would have been a fuck up whether he was financially stable, had a home, etc. or not
i think you are making excuses as to why you choose to wait instead of just saying you are scared to fuck it up like he did
good parents are good parents despite money, homes, marriage
you already are the core person you will be regardless of any of that.

there are too many families that succeed despite obstacles that prove this theory

just my opinion

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241. "he turned me off of the idea of making more people really"
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>would have been a fuck up whether he was financially stable,
>had a home, etc. or not
>i think you are making excuses as to why you choose to wait
>instead of just saying you are scared to fuck it up like he
>did
>good parents are good parents despite money, homes, marriage
>you already are the core person you will be regardless of any
>of that.
>
>there are too many families that succeed despite obstacles
>that prove this theory
>
>just my opinion

i hear what you are saying but dude really fucked up, like 5 kids with 5 different women and none of the kids know each other

and I am scared to fuck up like he did, i have his blood

  

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232. "It's a weird place to be! "
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Especially if you already love a black woman and want the family thing but are living in a FLUX career situation where nothing makes fucking sense.

What do you do?

"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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237. "oh..."
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>because I am so far off from being financially stable
>because I am so far off from being in a place where the
>foundation to build strong structures is in place
>because after dating every race under the sun I am really
>ready to build with a black woman
>

welp it will require a search still
but its not absolutely impossible
with clear and realistic goals which sounds simpler than it is because people get easily distracted
this is absolutely doable

and yeah i realy dont think you are the only one
nothing but a bunch of lost souls out there trying to find each other
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243. "RE: financially stable an addendum"
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when i say financially stable I dont mean being rich

i mean not so deeplyfuckingburiedunderthisscaryasssixfigurecollegedebt debt

six gotdamned figures.

  

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247. "thats not going away anytime soon though..."
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are you really going to wait for that?
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251. "its a hard call"
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because i am damn near obsessed with the numbers


i think about any advancements in life in terms of additional debt

want to get a house some day? more debt

want to have a kid some day? more damn debt


call me a puss but its almost easier just not even thinking about adding more debt to the pile

  

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254. "ok this is what teefive is talking about"
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>because i am damn near obsessed with the numbers
>
>
>i think about any advancements in life in terms of additional
>debt
>
>want to get a house some day? more debt
>
>want to have a kid some day? more damn debt
>
>
>call me a puss but its almost easier just not even thinking
>about adding more debt to the pile

you view relationships and women as burdens
jeez
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260. "its no so cut and dry. "
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it just.......pure frustration because on one hand there is the expectation of being a man and a provider but on the other hand there just doesnt seem to be some way to work it out. there is no way to get ahead. i am afraid of always being poor like i am now.




>>because i am damn near obsessed with the numbers
>>
>>
>>i think about any advancements in life in terms of
>additional
>>debt
>>
>>want to get a house some day? more debt
>>
>>want to have a kid some day? more damn debt
>>
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>>call me a puss but its almost easier just not even thinking
>>about adding more debt to the pile
>
>you view relationships and women as burdens
>jeez
>~~~~
>When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so
>that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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>You cannot hate people for their own good.

  

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266. "RE: its no so cut and dry. "
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>it just.......pure frustration because on one hand there is
>the expectation of being a man and a provider but on the other
>hand there just doesnt seem to be some way to work it out.
>there is no way to get ahead. i am afraid of always being poor
>like i am now.
>


completely understandable fear
and while there are alot of women who do view the man as the provider
there are women who view relationships and partners as a partnership
and no not just on paper lol
your goal then is to find a woman who is your financial equal
AND has similar financial goals

trust me they are out there

i'm one of those women who refuses to be anyones burden
so i feel you on that 100%
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280. "."
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>there are women who view relationships and partners as a
>partnership
>and no not just on paper lol
>your goal then is to find a woman who is your financial equal
>AND has similar financial goals
>
>trust me they are out there
>

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281. "i mean really"
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im poor
lol
breaking up and living on my own again has made me BROKE
brokety broke broke
i havent been this poor ever
95% of my clothes are bought second hand (but i must say im dressing more fly than i did)
i shop @ the coop b/c of prices and keep my meals simple
i try and be frugal as shit but i do have $ to go out and i am saving
at this rate, i'll not get very far financially
im not upset about it
b/c i am enjoying life
and i know im working for things to change

i dont want to be anyone's burden
i hope i can find someone w/ similar goals/plans so we can work together
split bills/rent
figure out who may be able to reach their goals first and maybe push that person. make some temporary sacrifices, whatever. come up with a plan TOGETHER

im poor but i have earning potential! i got degrees and skills damnit! lol

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285. "yes you do!"
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i laughed but
i dont think you are what he means
i think many many women have very poor spending habits
(*ahem* me)
and see men as their rescuer
(not us)
and as a step up to that next class
and he like mad dudes see themselves that way as well


i'm with you though
my dad has 8 brothers a sisters
they ALL have homes
all are middle class at this point 6 have been married for decades
no one was or is rich
our generation was the first to go to college

in them and their marriages i saw partnerships

like i know what hes taking about
i heard it in comments from friends in my 20s
cant wait to get married and stay home
or get a dude to pay my bills...

we've BOTH been in posts like
0_o at dudes who pay for mani/pedi's...!
wheretheydothatat?!

i think there is a certain type of women which are high maintenance
and right about now admittedly this is turning into a "nice girl" convo
in which dudes are looking to high maintenance women as having it together
over looking the frugal, school going ,degree having got most of their shit together regular women

although we tend to be absent...cause we are going to school working and generally getting our shit together


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286. "i know someone who just got engaged"
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and all she's wanted was to be a housewife
not work
she got her a dude who works for a hedge fund
quit her job and moved to be with him

she's an AWESOME chick and she will totally keep that house clean and cook and all that
her clothes tastes are a bit pricey so that may be a worry (she worked in fashion)
but he's pretty easy going/low maintenance all around

but yeah
some of the guys we know are totally side-eying her situation
im not
she got what she wanted

that's not what i want so im not hating one bit

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289. "exactly"
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and her husband got what he wanted

i really dont know many women who expect not to work
or expect to stop working once they get married
or dont know many anymore lol

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261. "Then don't buy a home. "
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I feel you on the debt. I'm not adding anymore.

Period.

It'd have to be an emergency.

Do what you've gotta. But you're going to have to plan.

It aint easy. Nothing worth a damn ever is.

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225. "nope."
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235. "the issue w/ the wait til you get it together stance is that"
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some of yall will never actually get there

there will always be something that you're aspiring to that will determine success so marriage gets put off again and again

it's like, oh, ill look for a wife when i have a decent job
*gets decent job*
oh, i'll find her/marry ol girl once i can get a house
*gets house and maybe even cohabs*
oh, but i want to start my own business

i want a s class

i want to see taj mahal

i want to learn to speak swahili

and then you 30-40 and your options are wack

meanwhile you could have done all that with someone splitting the rent and rubbing your back

it's weird

  

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238. "i think they figure we're a hindrance"
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we're going to get pregnant
we're going to get demanding

i want to live life too. shit.

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239. "i wouldnt say that though"
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i think this is their 'wedding'


like women have their picture of the perfect relatinship and then wedding
zero on filling in the blanks


i think dudes have the same about the relationship they want and their position in it
and they only way they see themselves in it is when a., b., c. is checked off

its just another myth/fantasy they work off of similar to women
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242. "i'm talking more about guys who avoid LTRs altogether"
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but i can really see it both ways
less people in your life
less complication
more opportunity/time

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253. "hrm"
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>but i can really see it both ways
>less people in your life
>less complication
>more opportunity/time

while i see that
i think dudes have an unrealistic view of relationships
and too many options

oh wait maybe i do agree lol
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240. "and thats just it"
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>i want to live life too. shit.


it's like niggas never heard of family planning

you CAN have a baby on purpose lol

  

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255. "but at the end of the day its all for YOU"
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the last thing I want to be (im speaking for myself here)
is a big dissapointment. i'm trying to be the man and provide

  

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259. "but i'm an adult too"
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for better & for worse
you may not always be able to provide
or provide in the way you want
doesn't mean that's how it will be forever
and i have no problem stepping it up or going lean b/c times are hard

things can get done when you have support
and if you have someone WILLINGLY supporting you and understanding the circumstances, potential risks, etc, and still want to go down that path

then you need to get over that shit. lol.


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262. "YOU may not--"
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but alot of women do

and the whole dynamic of the relationship changes at that point

its an uncomfortable place for any man to be

add to that the statistic that says alot of divorces are because of money

  

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270. "i'm not the only one"
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there's no guaranteed formula to the shit
and i can't speak on people's divorcing over money. i don't think it's so simple as he was supposed to provide and he didn't therefore it's over
lots of couples struggle. shit's been like that since forever.
i mean really now
but you struggle together and you can make it through
many of our parents did not marry when they were 'all set'
quite the contrary

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257. "a hindrance--"
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Thu Apr-26-12 01:32 PM by bloocollar

          

right here....the truth

it was my girl getting on my team and supporting my aspirations that put her over the top for me

other chicks are: "why you working all the time! Why don't you want to go out?! Spend time!"

Women take up alot of a man's time

and alot don't understand the level of effort it takes to become a success in any chosen field

Add kids to that mix......it seems like kiss all your dreams goodbye, work that 9 to 5 til you die

  

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276. "A grip of young women are pains in the ass, tho"
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From the moment a girl has her first crush, she thinks she's ready to be a wife, and that shit is a farce. A surprising amount of women do not want a man to have something that excites him more than she does, and will shit on anything that does.

Hell, nobody in their 20s is really ready to be married these days, though.



  

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283. "RE: A grip of young women are pains in the ass, tho"
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>From the moment a girl has her first crush, she thinks she's
>ready to be a wife, and that shit is a farce. A surprising
>amount of women do not want a man to have something that
>excites him more than she does, and will shit on anything that
>does.

TRUTH 100%

They get jealous of anything that doesn't involve them, even if its for everyone's betterment

Hell thats why einstein couldn't stay married

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313. "this is why i don't worry bout havin a woman family right now...."
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i feel like i need to bring certain things to the table in a serious relationship that i don't have right now and may NEVER have, cause it's always SOMETHING.....i feel like it's cool to have a boo that has your back but once you get to a certain age it's harder to find, and that's ok...if i gotta be single the rest of my life that's fine....i'd like to be married, but i'm not gonna lose it if i don't...i want kids, but honestly, i look at my godkids like they're mine so if i never have kids i'm good there....what i'm saying is that i'll probably NEVER feel like i have my shit fully together cause in my mind i'm always gonna be a work in progress, but these days, many women aren't into dudes like me and i've learned to accept that and make make relationships fairly short term....

now, even after saying all that, there are still women out there who would and do want to be with me, but i feel like if i'm not bringing to the table what i feel is acceptable as a man then i can't be in that relationship...plus, if she ain't bringing what i need then there's a problem too

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321. "part of being "a man" is having someone to share life with"
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we're made for companionship so i don't know how someone can put all of this energy into superficial shit that they feel defines them as a man (or woman) when they're overlooking the key ingredient, which is being partner to someone

find a lady who can help you get to where you want to be

  

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244. "Only if we actually want to get married"
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If so, then yeah, it's a worry to find a good, supportive woman that actually is marriage material.

Also depends on if we already have a kid/kids yet or not.

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256. "also (no judgement) but it seems like a lot of ya'll live comparison liv..."
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i'm seeing a lot of i can't do *right now* and i'm not *there yet* but really...you're where you're supposed to be.

where you are and what you have, but based on what??? what everyone else has or what you want for yourselves? and you gotta live like you're going to get what you want for yourself even if you don't have it now.

i may not be where i eventually want to be right now, but...i'm going to get there. thats not an option. that's not up for debate. i'm going to make it.

there are a few women who i've laid the whole presentation out for. like, yo...this is me...this is where i am....you'd be a fool not to take this. they still declined. whomp whomp. maybe i'm not everything they'd need me to be right now or whatever. personally...i can't be that far off, but its their option, and they can feel free to say no.

but when i do make it. cause really...they whole point of this thing fellas is, you ARE going to make it. when i do make it, its gonna be very hard for past flames to make ammends. not saying that they're going to or would even want to (actually i am, but i'm not really expecting that to happen, but it will). my motto always has been you walk with me now...you ride with me later. if you were too good for the Lincoln with the fucked up front grill, then you're not gonna be in the drop top Jag.

yes i may be hurt. (not even) yes i may have a chip on my shoulder, but maybe more people need chips on their shoulder. cause if you know you're going to make it then you embrace someone willing to take that journey with you.
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

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263. "RE: also (no judgement) but it seems like a lot of ya'll live comparison..."
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>i'm seeing a lot of i can't do *right now* and i'm not *there
>yet* but really...you're where you're supposed to be.

it's hard for people to grasp this

and those who really question where they are at in life are probably the ones who are more likely to make it b/c they are aware and should feel compelled to push harder/faster if they aren't content

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264. "Baby, we're a star."
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ya might not know it now. baby but we are we're a
star.

...i agree.

fuck you.

  

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269. "i don't even get the joke, but it sounds funny as shit."
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nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

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284. "because I forgot the freakin' link! LMAO!"
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i'm out.
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271. "i wish i could feel this way"
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but maybe cuz my birthday is around the corner, i dont at all.

i agree with the premise, but i think there are a lot of variables that can distort the truth of it.

  

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275. "do you have the power to change those variables"
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and you're not?

then yeah, you probably aren't where you're supposed to be

b/c you're not putting in the work

but if you ARE
then it's just a matter of time
or you can give up and try something else
either way, inertia is your enemy

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288. "some yes, some no."
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im definitely working hard trying to make changes, but im struggling with coming to terms with the things i cant change. i need to get my serenity prayer on, lol.

  

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272. "Preach"
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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291. "damn."
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ambient1
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294. "that should be the weeding/selection process...good stuff"
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Coolin...

  

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319. "thats so true and my issue"
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with these arguments is that how does you not having exactly what you want in some kind of finality mean a woman is not supposed to be by your side?

and i do think its in a way specific to black men because the majority of my white friends from college are married by now. they get married to build their lives together. they dont build their life then add somebody to it.

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278. "Am I the only one that wants Bloocollar and Nobodydoesit"
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to just hug it out and maybe make lil angry babies?

Angry babies.

"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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Chanson
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287. "Seriously tho, there's some overthinking in this post"
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Just do it like Nike do © Redman

Date, get to know people, open yourself up and stop waiting.

You'll never be ready 100% and you're not perfect.

No one is and you don't have to be either.

Stop worrying about the outcome and pay attention to the process.

mind
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292. "Only thing I worry about is meeting someone I REAAALLY connect"
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with that also connects with me.

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295. "dont let nobody fool u....that shit aint easy"
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that's why a bunch of people are where they are
and do what they do

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297. "EXAACTLY. It's like nah, I'm not really panicking on some "I'm gettin"
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older, I need to settle down" shit at all, but because of the fact that I've never had a serious relationship, it does scare me, like "so is this shit just gonna magically happen in 3-8 years?"

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303. "tell me about it"
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http://www.youforie.com

  

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304. "this is it."
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honestly, thats the #1 thing im looking for. i dont really care about much else. but that shit seems impossible.

  

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306. "Yep. And on surface, I'm sure it makes us all seem picky but fuck that"
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If we end something with someone because we don't connect, folks call us selective or say we don't know what we want, etc etc...but if we end up with somebody that we don't connect with and it fails, they say "well you ignored the red flags" and "you should have never made it official if you knew you didn't connect with em." So yep, just listen to yourself and no one else

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314. "truer words...."
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when i think about "settling," i can just imagine feeling like a dumbass after the breakup. its almost like, "i didnt try but i still failed." whereas if i cant make it work with someone im head over heels in love with, well hey. i can own that knowing i tried.

  

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293. "this is a damn shame"
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All types of hurt and bitter and crazy plastered on these here OKP walls

  

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305. "lol... succinct & to the point as always n/m"
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320. "The weirdos really came out for this one n/m."
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332. "Lol"
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Stayls aka Peaches Cochran (THE REAL STAYLS)

Yes Natty!™

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312. "You folks need more to do."
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Both during the workday and in life in general.

  

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315. "Nope, that why I give these jawns a fake name once I pregnate em"
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Give em my real gov't and they'll be talking about marriage & if I say no then they talkin about "take care of yo responsibility". Like bitch, fuckalladat.. I'm tryna get this new Samsung smartphone. Have em be like "WILLY WONKABEE!! WHY WON'T U MARRY MEEEEEE N HELP ME RAISE TY'ZEE?!"

  

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316. "Good post"
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I'm one of those mid 30s Black men btw

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326. "I love how this post turned into women answering on behalf of men"
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I see what y'all did there lol

carry on

peace

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333. "Indeed. It goes to show who's really worried about getting married."
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LOL

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327. "No. At least the ones that didn't drink the Kool-Aid or"
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got to see modern relationships for what they really are. And by the way, men hardly have rights in marriage. So what good is it?

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329. "Just Listening!"
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Stayls aka Peaches Cochran (THE REAL STAYLS)

Yes Natty!™

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334. "niggas be bumpin my old shit"
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Like they tryna Fuck my old bitch

*poof*

  

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339. "yall got me replying to this post like it was made today"
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I just looked at all the dates
*slaps forehead*

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