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"So babymomma's husband is hating on the clothes I buy my son"


  

          

She got married to dude this past summer. I know I haven't really been keeping ya'll updated lately.

Well anyway this spongbob square ass nigga been lowkey sending shots via my son and I'm really trying to keep from going upside dudes head next time I see him so I need ya'lls help on the situation.

It all really started this school year. I buy all my son's clothes and shoes. Its been that way since...forever. He might buy my son an outfit or 2 every blue moon but my son primarily only wears clothes I buy for him.

About 3 weeks ago I took him shopping for his bday. He spent the whole week with me basically. I copped him an matching outfit and we did the 'mini-me' thing for a day. copped him the all black lebron 8s lows, camo shorts, and this black lebron nike shirt(he loves bron).

So we do our thing that week. I'm taking him to school and picking him up. The following week he back on his normal schedule at his mommas crib where his momma drop him off and I pick him up. He get in the car one day after school with a salty ass look on his face. I'm thinking he got in trouble are something so I'm interrogating him n wutnot. He aint want to tell me at 1st but he eventually says that my babymommas husband sent him back in his room to change this morning because he said he looked like he was homeless and wasn't no kid of his going to be going to school looking like that. I'm still calm at this point because I know how kids is. I'm thinking he had on a flannel shirt and basketball shorts or something. He tells me he had on 'our' outfit. the camo shorts, black shirt and brons.

Now lookuh'hear okp.. tell me this nigga aint sending shots at me via my kid. Yea Its his household..his rules.. but this MY son.. he violating point blank. I know he feeling some kind of way about the relationship I have with my son and if him and my babymomma had it their way I would be out the picture completely. BUT DONT FUCKING PLAY WITH MY SON.

I'm getting sidetracked but thats the gist of the latest bullshit. How should I handle this? I can't let this slide.. I just can't.

  

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Fam, handle that. He is out of pocket. He knew why your son picked
Nov 17th 2011
1
u soft nigga
Nov 17th 2011
2
Wow. That was pretty mean. But you are correct.
Nov 17th 2011
14
lol @ this act first, think later dumb ass mentality.
Nov 17th 2011
279
get custody.
Nov 17th 2011
3
Whoa, whoa ain't nobody talking about doing all that!!!
Nov 17th 2011
12
      lol
Nov 17th 2011
35
      lol
Nov 19th 2011
405
get full joint custody
Nov 17th 2011
4
Why u sending a lil mans out in camo shorts?
Nov 17th 2011
5
I personally don't understand people who put kids in camo but I'm weird
Nov 17th 2011
25
      colorful camo *barf*
Nov 17th 2011
70
      eww @ pink camo. keep it regular colored camo
Nov 17th 2011
129
Real Talk, It's your right to clothe your son in the best bamma threads.
Nov 17th 2011
6
lmao
Nov 17th 2011
9
oop
Nov 17th 2011
17
LULZ
Nov 18th 2011
368
a chronicle like this
Nov 17th 2011
7
I need to see exactly what this fit looked like first, because he...
Nov 17th 2011
8
^^^^wilde sandusky
Nov 17th 2011
11
yo, I ain't wanna say nothin' but.....
Nov 17th 2011
18
      whoaa whoaa... camo shorts and nikes = future gangster now??
Nov 17th 2011
21
      Yes. I'm sorry to break this to you, but yt looks @ us different.
Nov 17th 2011
27
           ^^ yep. .
Nov 17th 2011
32
           so basically you're projecting.. gotcha
Nov 17th 2011
59
           lol, stop making this about me or YOU for that matter.
Nov 17th 2011
71
                I'm not going to teach my kid to change who he is to accomodate
Nov 17th 2011
103
                     *shrug*
Nov 17th 2011
118
                     he's a 10yr old kid.. he's going to have all of adulthood to foot shuffl...
Nov 17th 2011
198
                     RE: I'm not going to teach my kid to change who he is to accomodate
Nov 21st 2011
431
           this is crazy lol
Nov 17th 2011
86
           not really, it's pretty common - and real talk, btw.
Nov 17th 2011
98
           this is some bull.
Nov 17th 2011
126
           It really ain't man. I see this shit ALL THE TIME.
Nov 17th 2011
153
                me too. that's why I know its some bullshit.
Nov 17th 2011
163
                     lol, well we can agree that it's BS, that don't mean it don't happen.
Nov 17th 2011
168
           And what message is that exactly?
Nov 18th 2011
365
           that's mighty old fashion posting there
Nov 18th 2011
380
           unfortunately... yeah
Nov 18th 2011
397
      speaking as somebody that rocks that shit, its not that deep
Nov 17th 2011
122
just let it slide.
Nov 17th 2011
10
shouldve copped him jean shorts my nygga
Nov 17th 2011
13
exactly. they prefer the double strap velcro shoes instead of the Brons
Nov 17th 2011
132
u best have the sternest of talkin too's with the mom's first
Nov 17th 2011
15
^^^BUT, *maybe* look @ what kind of message your sending
Nov 17th 2011
19
at the very least he needs to sit'em both down at the same time
Nov 17th 2011
20
Oh, let's not get it twisted, dude's outta pocket, BY FAR.
Nov 17th 2011
22
yeah, as a man/adult if he has a problem with the way
Nov 17th 2011
26
      *daps* we right here, man ><
Nov 17th 2011
30
      where was all this "man" shit when you walked away from the mother...
Nov 17th 2011
176
           Yoo...shut the front door...Who hurt you yo?
Nov 17th 2011
197
           The man in me ain't never left. I have full legal custody of my
Nov 17th 2011
203
                lol!
Nov 18th 2011
402
                RE: The man in me ain't never left. I have full legal custody of my
Nov 19th 2011
415
^^^^THE grown man approach.
Nov 18th 2011
319
end thread
Oct 30th 2012
448
cats are hating, but you are preaching gospel
Nov 18th 2011
398
talkin to moms is out of the question
Nov 17th 2011
23
      Dude she pose to take his side...she his wife. Even if you
Nov 17th 2011
29
           LMAOOOOOO - I mean, REALLY that's her role.
Nov 17th 2011
34
           i agree to a degree...my thing is ...he aint the boy's father..period
Nov 17th 2011
58
           ok
Nov 17th 2011
60
           preaching to the choir but thanks for the lecture
Nov 17th 2011
65
                Can you talk to him?
Nov 17th 2011
72
                     not without her being involved.
Nov 17th 2011
166
                          fuck. Iono what to tell you.
Nov 17th 2011
178
yeah, he dissin' you homie. I'm sure it goes beyond just
Nov 17th 2011
16
i can't even reply cuz this thread is hilarious.
Nov 17th 2011
24
talk to baby mama 1st.
Nov 17th 2011
28
^^^This right here^^^
Nov 18th 2011
353
I can't get past wanting to dress your kid up like yourself for no reaso...
Nov 17th 2011
31
let me find out the lil' dude is 15 yrs old or some shit and I'm
Nov 17th 2011
37
      right? that made sense until the kid got picked up from school
Nov 17th 2011
      Lmao like Larenz Tate's brother and Shawn Wayans
Nov 17th 2011
64
LOL this has classic poast written all over it
Nov 17th 2011
33
:/
Nov 17th 2011
38
por que? dude calls no shots in the other mans house. none
Nov 17th 2011
40
      porque THAT's his son REGARDLESS of where he lays his head.
Nov 17th 2011
49
^ cool brother approach
Nov 17th 2011
41
The fucked up reasoning in this post is WHY...
Nov 17th 2011
36
man this response just made me scooby doo sound outloud @
Nov 17th 2011
39
yeah, I'm totally lost. I need some author's notes or something.
Nov 17th 2011
42
      This is what I see when I read this post:
Nov 17th 2011
55
           ok - I got no beef w/that.
Nov 17th 2011
61
           hey now, you ain't say all that originally...LOL but I see what you're
Nov 17th 2011
199
                It maybe it's house but it's not his kid.
Nov 17th 2011
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                     SMH, OKP is a bubble all unto itself.
Nov 17th 2011
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                          That's a blatant cop out because you can't refute my point.
Nov 17th 2011
258
                               nigga, your point is basically &quot;use your condom and take
Nov 17th 2011
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                                    Dude, you been here long enough to know OKP is Bizarro World.....
Nov 17th 2011
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                                    I'm saying, you would think that people on a message board would READ
Nov 18th 2011
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                                    That's not what I did, at all.
Nov 18th 2011
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da fuck nm
Nov 17th 2011
43
......................
Nov 17th 2011
48
: - l
Nov 17th 2011
56
^^example of a nigga being right, but out of line^^^
Nov 17th 2011
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I don't agree but I see what you did there. lol
Nov 17th 2011
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I have to say I agree with this nm
Nov 18th 2011
341
Maybe he just didn't think that was an appropriate outfit for school.
Nov 17th 2011
44
Get custody or sit the fuck down, because if all you doing is...
Nov 17th 2011
45
this is likely not an option. C'mon, let's keep it 100 here.
Nov 17th 2011
51
LOL i am dying. If i posted this i'm lookin up yalls ip
Nov 17th 2011
53
oooh wee thats opinionated.
Nov 17th 2011
54
lol
Nov 17th 2011
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i gotta go
Nov 17th 2011
92
THIS JUST GOT REAL
Nov 17th 2011
255
^ i want my reply back
Nov 21st 2011
434
The fuck kinda Larry Elder bitch nigga shit?
Nov 18th 2011
331
damn. that was unnecessary
Nov 18th 2011
358
Maybe you should educate yourself on how custody works
Nov 18th 2011
378
lol sideline daddies
Oct 29th 2012
444
Approaching it from a confrontational stance won't help anything..
Nov 17th 2011
46
^^^^^ this is the Grown folks way to handle it.
Nov 18th 2011
326
^^^ Only grown folk response in post
Nov 18th 2011
332
Tell your ex if she wanna be a widow, to let that nigga keep running.......
Nov 17th 2011
47
lol, this would be my 1st instinct......
Nov 17th 2011
52
#TEAMCAMO
Nov 17th 2011
50
lol
Nov 17th 2011
63
#TEAMSTEPDAD - dude probably a Laker/Kobe fan, ain't no Lebron...
Nov 17th 2011
68
      nigga is definitely soundin like a Laker/Kobe/Pacquio fan fam!
Nov 17th 2011
99
lol@ the sponsgebob reference. And lol@ asking US what ta do!
Nov 17th 2011
57
Niggas talkin abt get custody and shit...come the fuck on yo
Nov 17th 2011
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that 'keep that main thing...the main thing' thing?
Nov 17th 2011
66
what is so outrageous about a man having custody of his son tho?
Nov 17th 2011
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in whose courtroom is he gonna get anybody's custody?? lol
Nov 17th 2011
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      i wasnt assuming he would have to fight for custody
Nov 17th 2011
80
           let's say the daddy wanted the lil boy to have a mohawk and he
Nov 17th 2011
85
           lol @ you changing the detail and presenting it as if its a different st...
Nov 17th 2011
108
                it's the same story....only thing switched is an outfit for a hairstyle
Nov 17th 2011
112
           lol are u serious?
Nov 17th 2011
104
I'm sayin' can we just keep it real?
Nov 17th 2011
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That "mommies friend" shit is real.
Nov 18th 2011
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      Oh no doubt...but i SERIOUSLY doubt mommie's friend will
Nov 18th 2011
393
custody is the only solution for this issue imo
Nov 17th 2011
67
real talk...:
Nov 17th 2011
69
Y'all keep saying this, but is it practical?
Nov 17th 2011
74
      its worth preparing for and pursuing imo.
Nov 17th 2011
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      girl, all them degrees you got, I know you know you bullshittin
Nov 17th 2011
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           i didnt mean pursuing with the courts
Nov 17th 2011
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                that ain't happenin'
Nov 17th 2011
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                     like i said, I'D give up custody
Nov 17th 2011
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                          counting on MOST women to give up custody is foolish
Nov 17th 2011
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      The idea of "practical" was thrown out the window when the OP...
Nov 17th 2011
84
           lol, real talk
Nov 17th 2011
97
           c'mon ock, you doing 4 much in here. shit happens man
Nov 17th 2011
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lol@all these part-time daddies in this post sticking they chest out...
Nov 17th 2011
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pretty much
Nov 17th 2011
79
What about compromise? Working together for the best of the BOY?
Nov 17th 2011
81
what's point of raising hell about a damn OUTFIT?
Nov 17th 2011
88
Uh... you must not have read my reply.
Nov 17th 2011
Well you're assuming that Step pops is doing this outta concern
Nov 17th 2011
124
Part time daddies kickin out that full time support every two weeks
Nov 17th 2011
82
that check ain't raising your kid
Nov 17th 2011
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      LOL @ u tellin me who or what is raisin my kid
Nov 17th 2011
93
      umm...in post #82 YOU were the one admitting to being a PT daddy
Nov 17th 2011
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           LOL @ u tellin me who or what is raisin my kid
Nov 17th 2011
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                okayplayer.
Nov 17th 2011
148
      If this situation is typical, neither is step-pops.
Nov 17th 2011
131
           ALL the way 100 lol
Nov 17th 2011
137
           Man, we spend WAY 2 much time 2gether to be lyin' 2 each other.
Nov 17th 2011
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           lmao, are you serious?
Nov 17th 2011
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                hell the fuck yeah. Where you from that they ain't?
Nov 17th 2011
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                     I know a gang of stepfathers that are very active in their stepchildren'...
Nov 17th 2011
174
                          Now how active are the FATHERS in that scenario?
Nov 17th 2011
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                               of course we know all OKPDads is are 100% Father of the Year...
Nov 17th 2011
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                                    Neither one of those things are true.
Nov 17th 2011
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I see my kid everyday of the week
Nov 17th 2011
83
we've had this convo on okp
Nov 17th 2011
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      not really trying to make it that kind of post
Nov 17th 2011
177
i'd pay good money to watch you tell an active father to STFU
Nov 17th 2011
87
u know...i'm over this bidge bouncin up n down n shit like no this
Nov 17th 2011
91
yeah man thats the kinda stuff you *gotta* be careful about
Nov 17th 2011
105
mf's need to think about all this shit before they go skeeting...
Nov 17th 2011
94
word!! you should tell that nigga that shit too!
Nov 17th 2011
96
yo...LMAO
Nov 18th 2011
347
U wear glasses and levi's dockers wit your shirt tucked in dont u?
Nov 17th 2011
100
u skeetin in his leftovers tho
Nov 17th 2011
111
I'm cryin'. Y'all niggas done clowned in this here poast
Nov 17th 2011
217
Man, STFU! Stop actin like this shit is Wesley Snipes and Mick Jagger
Nov 17th 2011
140
*likes*
Nov 17th 2011
133
you are absolutely ridiculous
Nov 17th 2011
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its a DAMN OUTFIT!
Nov 17th 2011
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but its not simply abt an outfit
Nov 17th 2011
138
sounds like they already share custody
Nov 17th 2011
144
Thank you.... eventhough i'm still on that i wish a nigga would
Nov 17th 2011
152
      ayo.....YOU another one of us Black folk on here too!!!!!
Nov 18th 2011
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           C'mon now....I'm from Baltimore...our yt folx are Black...lol
Nov 18th 2011
360
                LMAO!!!!
Nov 18th 2011
369
lol, you think there might be a reason for this?
Nov 17th 2011
171
i agree with this
Nov 17th 2011
145
YOUR child trumps HIS church all day.
Nov 17th 2011
121
Damn he popped your little mini-me outfit balloon.
Nov 17th 2011
78
If he's taking shots at you, what do you think
Nov 17th 2011
90
Buy your son this t-shirt
Nov 17th 2011
101
LMAO - THAT'LL get them to talk to you.....
Nov 17th 2011
110
lmao @ niggas saying his outfit is too "gangster" for school
Nov 17th 2011
109
yao ming? shit i'm a pretty "professional" cat and I FUX W/ CAMO.
Nov 17th 2011
113
Shut the hell up Andre you know you aint wearin no camo to yo job
Nov 17th 2011
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right? c'mon
Nov 17th 2011
142
      school aint no job though
Nov 17th 2011
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           the hell it ain't!
Nov 17th 2011
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                smh. niggas is wearing anime/pokemon shirts at the job??
Nov 17th 2011
182
                     really?
Nov 17th 2011
190
its a great outfit for lil boys
Nov 17th 2011
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      i just got my nephew some. im very confused.
Nov 17th 2011
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      spades sending his 6 year old to school in a 3 piece suit
Nov 17th 2011
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           LMAO!!
Nov 18th 2011
350
depending on what school he goes to it might be
Nov 17th 2011
115
unless there is a uniform he should be wearing ain't shit wrong
Nov 17th 2011
128
right? that shit is fucking ridiculous.
Nov 17th 2011
141
      my only beef is that its damn near winter time...lol...other than that
Nov 17th 2011
155
           maybe they live where its warm in the winter.
Nov 17th 2011
165
whoa @ the people in here saying its not school appropriate
Nov 17th 2011
119
nahmean?? niggas is on some if you wanna work for the white man oneday
Nov 17th 2011
123
meanwhile u have your entire adulthood to be boring
Nov 17th 2011
134
lol @ you thinkin' this is only fitewolx
Nov 17th 2011
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      no YOU need to wake up and realize school aint a hiring
Nov 17th 2011
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      It ain't got SHIT to do w/hiring.
Nov 17th 2011
164
           i'm sad. all these years and i ain't realize you was a tom.
Nov 17th 2011
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                word? Ok
Nov 17th 2011
181
                ok now THAT was funny...
Nov 17th 2011
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      you're hiring elementary aged children? wtf are you talking abiut
Nov 17th 2011
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           damn, y'all really that clueless?
Nov 17th 2011
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           you sound crazy. i can show you school pics of my friend
Nov 17th 2011
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           yeah, and we're all gonna be doctors, right?
Nov 17th 2011
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                wat. again i'm not concerned with my kids hoping and praying
Nov 17th 2011
185
                     and you have a 'rosy' idea of reality.
Nov 17th 2011
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                          not even. i just know that slavery isn't the only way to go
Nov 17th 2011
                               aight, good luck w/your worldview then.
Nov 17th 2011
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                                    it's been working for my family so far and we're not
Nov 17th 2011
250
           no. i'm just living proof that you can be successful
Nov 17th 2011
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                Good for you - are the rule or the exception?
Nov 17th 2011
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                i'd be the rule if we quit grooming our kids to be wack.
Nov 17th 2011
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                     conditional statement
Nov 17th 2011
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                          you don't like it so you perpetuate it?
Nov 17th 2011
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                               Perpetuate? No. Anticipate? yes.
Nov 17th 2011
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                i don't even know why we're arguing with dude
Nov 17th 2011
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           AAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Nov 18th 2011
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^
Nov 17th 2011
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Seriously has he done anything ELSE to your kid other than say something...
Nov 17th 2011
125
*cackles*
Nov 17th 2011
139
fuuuuck this nigga is trying to go in.
Nov 17th 2011
150
let me take a wild guess... you're a stepdad and you're using this post
Nov 17th 2011
211
nope, I leave bitches alone because of ignorant mf's like you...
Nov 17th 2011
216
I read this reply in Mr. Wilson's (Dennis the Menace) voice.
Nov 17th 2011
266
maybe it wasnt a cute outfit tho.
Nov 17th 2011
127
he setting lil dude up to get bullied, camo went out with Master P...
Nov 17th 2011
146
      i must really be in bizarro land.
Nov 17th 2011
158
      LOL....this is...this most certainly is..
Nov 17th 2011
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      cats in NY still wearing camo?
Nov 17th 2011
183
           yo THEE summer fit is camo shorts, polo & jordans.
Nov 17th 2011
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                for what age group? I can't see anybody over 25 wearing that without...
Nov 17th 2011
205
                wow. i just. wow.
Nov 17th 2011
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                b dont pay any attention to her--
Nov 17th 2011
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                     im not a hipster. at all.
Nov 18th 2011
323
                no it aint
Nov 17th 2011
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                     you'd know. you be checkin for niggas.
Nov 17th 2011
214
                          nigga dont get salty cause you wrong--
Nov 17th 2011
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      where do y'all n*ggas live???
Nov 17th 2011
248
is it too early to call for an ARCHIVE
Nov 17th 2011
167
nah, I think we can all see where this is going.
Nov 17th 2011
169
please. cause this is so dumb its great.
Nov 17th 2011
170
beat me to it
Nov 17th 2011
189
I second
Nov 17th 2011
221
wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow wow
Nov 17th 2011
208
I swear I'm glad I don't know some of ya'll niggas in real life
Nov 17th 2011
212
LOL, Tha Truth showed his ass in this poast.
Nov 17th 2011
215
(not directed to the OP) but who raised y'all niggas??...
Nov 17th 2011
219
whew! I'm glad I didnt let my ex knock me up like he wanted to, lol
Nov 17th 2011
223
AS a babymama..lol..
Nov 17th 2011
224
btw did we ever establish how old this kid is?
Nov 17th 2011
225
I thought he said 10 somewhere up there
Nov 17th 2011
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u should show up in the same exact outfit and say something
Nov 17th 2011
226
lol..PLEASE do this..and then tell us all how it goes....lol
Nov 17th 2011
229
he should also get his son to steal him an outfit
Nov 17th 2011
230
      lol....u r just foolish...but that would be epic ...lol
Nov 17th 2011
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      I would totally be the best baby father ever
Nov 17th 2011
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           i didnt want to type that ...but i thought it in my head...u r clearly
Nov 17th 2011
235
      RE: he should also get his son to steal him an outfit
Nov 18th 2011
387
OMG YES!!! do this. lol
Nov 17th 2011
231
^^^^we got a winner
Nov 17th 2011
233
wait, you think you have good taste--
Nov 17th 2011
238
what are camo shorts?
Nov 17th 2011
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RE: what are camo shorts?
Nov 17th 2011
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      ahhh ok. i could see a kid possibly putting those on wrong, or
Nov 17th 2011
246
smh. it all depends what u are wearing it with
Nov 17th 2011
275
LOL
Nov 17th 2011
256
can you just talk to him and ask what about it looked homeless?
Nov 17th 2011
228
very good point
Nov 18th 2011
336
I love this place. I really do... *warm n'fuzzy feelings*
Nov 17th 2011
241
prajna and abby are the only ones talking sense
Nov 17th 2011
242
thatruth in here like his wife kicked him out and moved her babydaddy
Nov 17th 2011
244
      Naw but that's the baby daddy dream scenario, always trying to get back....
Nov 17th 2011
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      lol SEE... you in here tellin on yourself.. aint nothing in this post
Nov 17th 2011
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           lol, dumbass you just brought that bullshit up...
Nov 17th 2011
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           shyt was obvious a joke but u answered it like it was ThaTruth
Nov 17th 2011
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                Naw it really ain't about a outfit it's about his son playing him like a...
Nov 17th 2011
253
                     lol and yet another dumbass assumption made
Nov 17th 2011
254
                          If anybody in here is posting with hurt feelings it's you.
Nov 17th 2011
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           lol you see it too
Nov 17th 2011
280
      he got a bump on his head
Nov 17th 2011
247
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y150/Firewire16/Fixed-Scandalous.gif
Nov 17th 2011
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lulz
Nov 17th 2011
260
So if this was a daughter instead of a son.....
Nov 17th 2011
262
How seductive is the daughter though?
Nov 17th 2011
263
girls r extra sensitive....im a need step dad to run his thoughts
Nov 17th 2011
264
Also, there's an inherent safety issue.
Nov 17th 2011
267
u just have to take extra care and consideration w.a child that
Nov 17th 2011
274
      You and I... are eye to eye
Nov 17th 2011
276
lmao@"please"
Nov 17th 2011
271
      cause i know ill Spaz out on a kid....if u buttter em up just right
Nov 17th 2011
277
Are you saying the boy was dressed suggestively?
Nov 17th 2011
265
suggestively<<< seductively
Nov 17th 2011
269
base...
Nov 17th 2011
272
Nah, I'm simply trying to draw a parallel.....
Nov 17th 2011
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      nah the parallel would be a girl dressed in dishevaled clothes.
Nov 19th 2011
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He bett' not! He ain't her daddy! He can't say nothing, he just has to.....
Nov 17th 2011
268
      If his rationale has NOTHING to do with the daughters safety...
Nov 17th 2011
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I think the more important question about the camo shorts is:
Nov 17th 2011
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real talk...
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He said up there somewhere that the kid is a straight A
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That's what's up--while his parents are wildin, at least the son knows
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Yeah, sounds like the OP has a bigger issue than the outfit....
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always the wrong people commenting on folks family and kids
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somebody getting aborted....
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Part of being an adult is learning to pick your battles, at the end of.....
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      If the #1 priority should be the child...
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      okayplayer.
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      wow, you're a cock sucker
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           so is your mom
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                But you're CLAIM to be a heterosexual male.
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                     RE: But you're CLAIM to be a heterosexual male.
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      Exaaactly
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      RE: Part of being an adult is learning to pick your battles
Nov 21st 2011
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Any other stepparents besides myself in this post?
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*crickets*
Nov 18th 2011
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inbocks
Nov 18th 2011
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baby mother, custody issues are so low class
Nov 17th 2011
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**Throws up hands** This nigga! lol
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LOL
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lmao
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^ Fam.. IBOL
Nov 21st 2011
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going to leave it at this and ya'll can run with it however ya'll choose
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DJ B. E. T. A. on the 1's and 2's
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I can respect that.....
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thats whats up
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      Yeah, he has to ease into that.....
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All this focus on clothing and appearance is interesting to me
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Values? That just a bs loaded term.
Nov 18th 2011
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Real talk...
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no.. im not
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RE: no.. im not
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lol. smh
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perfect answer. these hating ass niggas ain't shit in here.
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LOL perfect
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gnr
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Right? FOH.
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im sayin yo
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Also getting dressed is a form of personal expression...
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Do you ever think about what you post before you finalize it?
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WTF?
Nov 18th 2011
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Dry cleaning chemicals are toxic.
Nov 18th 2011
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Sounds like your projecting quite a bit, the fact they she hooked up...
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      http://memegenerator.net/cache/instances/400x/10/11256/11527131.jpg
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           gotdamn
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I bet u didnt think this was going 3x platinum...lol
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i was hoping to hit at least 5X but things are slowing down
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Are you even paying child support or do you just buy clothes
Nov 18th 2011
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I pray that you, like many other okp women, never have kids.
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      RE: I pray that you, like many other okp women, never have kids.
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Honestly I think this is part of a bigger issue in a American society...
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u are missing the entire point
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remember we're only hearing one side of this, this whole thing...
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      he has posted about dude before
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Pac in your avy confuses me. They ran out of kem avys?
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LOL
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LOL
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lol
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I hate when people use tired cliches as the basis for their life BUT...
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      The stepdad and I aren't the ones that are insecure here.
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thats wrong
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nigga what?
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      i bet he wouldnt say anything about the kid
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           you ever seen a father/son dressed alike and not giggle?
Nov 18th 2011
           you ever seen a father/son dressed alike and not giggle?
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                lol
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you ever leave work on a post with 20+ replies, but know its about to go
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i pray this isnt a microcosm of society
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lol, you mf's making it sound like he's abusing the kid or something...
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      lol
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           you sound like one of those broads that let their sons wear dresses...
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                *smh*
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                     No I'm laughing at you babymamas and babydaddies living in a fantasy...
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ya'll niggas in here aint' shit. ARCHIVE
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^^^
Nov 18th 2011
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it's messy as hell in here, like a tornado came through
Nov 18th 2011
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lol@ this shit doing the same kinda numbers as abortionwatch2011.
Nov 18th 2011
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what the fuck is wrong with you people?
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I need a niggardry level reading STAT!!!
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http://oi53.tinypic.com/nxj69l.jpg
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thatruth will set you free!
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They can't HANDLE thatruth!(c)Jack Nicholson
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      forreal....my ego will not allow me to date a babydaddy or
Nov 18th 2011
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           from what i've read from you, that's the oddest place to draw the line.
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                random shit like this^^^^ i why I love OKP
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I just wanna say I love this post
Nov 18th 2011
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the stepfather did not have to shame the little boy though
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not just men, women too.
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true
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      imagine humans did not have reason which separates us
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           how many times when a kid is beat to death on the news
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           yes ma'am, you right. that kid(s) is a reminder of that other
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                These cats don't wanna admit it, but yall spat alotta truth in this
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           my thing is have a heart, don't be mean to a kid
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pretty much. nm
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"shame him"? really? first of all we're all going off of 2nd and 3rd...
Nov 18th 2011
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so saying he looks homeless is a compliment?
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      did your parents always compliment you when they set you straight?
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           my parents never felt the need to insult me to make a point
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                Right?
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yeah he coulda told him to change in a more tactful and considerate way
Nov 19th 2011
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If this hits 400... I swear dagawd I can't no mo! n/m
Nov 18th 2011
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i still think u should do what i suggested.
Nov 18th 2011
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Damn i cant believe the responses in here
Nov 18th 2011
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he should send a bunch of homeless people
Nov 18th 2011
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WTF is wrong with you LOL
Nov 18th 2011
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no its not about clothes, its about a bruised ego
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      No, it's about Stepdad's reaction to his own jealousy, first of all.
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           Stepdad is WINNING, he's probably not even thinking about dude...
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                so you're fine with mistreating children?
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                That part was a joke, honestly I think djpoke's whole thing about...
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                Thanks for letting me know you're not worth debating on this issue
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I was entertained (c) Nopayne
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school uniforms ftw.
Nov 18th 2011
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yes. lol
Nov 19th 2011
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Dude probably said it wrong.....
Nov 18th 2011
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"asked the mom"? I wonder what kind of blended families have...
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why you gonna ask moms like u guys are in the schoolyard
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so what did you end up doing?
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nothing.
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kinda anticlimatic/weird conclusion
Nov 21st 2011
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      i like this concludion
Nov 21st 2011
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      Hahahahahahahaha....
Nov 21st 2011
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      now see, THIS is some shit worth having a come to jesus over:
Nov 21st 2011
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this post almost stopped me from going raw.
Nov 19th 2011
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Definition of bitchmade, damn.
Nov 19th 2011
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if nothing else you definitely do numbers
Oct 29th 2012
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whoooo i had forgotten about this LOL
Oct 29th 2012
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Great post.
Oct 29th 2012
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He is your son......but
Oct 29th 2012
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Ya'll are some seriously horrible people
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.
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      ^^^Does that mean "youclickeditdoe"???^^^
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do not understand why people bring real problems to these monkey asses
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maybe his first outfit was wrinkled, u think of that?
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Mr Church Hill
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1. "Fam, handle that. He is out of pocket. He knew why your son picked"
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that outfit. Dude needs to grow up.


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2. "u soft nigga"
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u posting on here rather than going to see that man and let him know that shit is unacceptable u a pussy and u probably dress like a bum and dude and ur babymom probably don't want homie to be like u.

Wanna hit it from the back, she agreed that im looney,but proceed to moon me, IM GETTIN MONEY NIGGA (c) King Jaffe Joffer

  

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14. "Wow. That was pretty mean. But you are correct."
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If dude was going to do something, he would have done it already.

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279. "lol @ this act first, think later dumb ass mentality."
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u soft. in the brain.

  

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3. "get custody."
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12. "Whoa, whoa ain't nobody talking about doing all that!!!"
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35. "lol"
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405. "lol"
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4. "get full joint custody"
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with you one week, with her the next
you pick his clothes when hes with you
they pick his clothes when hes with them

i mean i give a fck but i don't give that much of a fck

  

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5. "Why u sending a lil mans out in camo shorts?"
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Sike take it up with babymoms first. If she dont handle it u might have to become Live.

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25. "I personally don't understand people who put kids in camo but I'm weird "
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like, I HATE that shit.

My sis tried to buy my daughter some pink camo and I lost it trying to explain to her why I don't want my kids in that shit.

  

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70. "colorful camo *barf*"
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129. "eww @ pink camo. keep it regular colored camo"
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6. "Real Talk, It's your right to clothe your son in the best bamma threads."
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9. "lmao"
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17. "oop"
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368. "LULZ"
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Get Out the Room
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7. "a chronicle like this"
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could never appear in my life story... *smh*


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8. "I need to see exactly what this fit looked like first, because he..."
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can look like a lil gangbanger when he staying with you but stepping up out of MY crib he better come correct.

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11. "^^^^wilde sandusky"
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i keeeed



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18. "yo, I ain't wanna say nothin' but....."
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He do sound like he dressing his kid like he setting his kid up for line-up.

and I ain't talkin' bout the barber shop.....

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21. "whoaa whoaa... camo shorts and nikes = future gangster now??"
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where do ya'll people come from lol

  

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27. "Yes. I'm sorry to break this to you, but yt looks @ us different."
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If you don't know this by now....

And before you say that he's only x years old. That shit matters! It changes the way his school mates see him. It changes the way his teachers view him (believe that homie) and it changes the way administration (Principal & vice) sees him.

Know that I'm telling you this shit from personal experience (I'm the last dude to come at you w/some bs)

I know this is personal/painful - but really THINK about the message your sending. If your kid is a KID, send that lil negro to school in a t-shirt w/an anime/cartoon/comic book character on the front and some jeans. Camo shirts and a BBall jersey, like it or not, send a VERY specific message to the folks that are running your kids school.

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32. "^^ yep. ."
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59. "so basically you're projecting.. gotcha"
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if you're tucking your chain in and crossing the street when kids like this come your way...
http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_liudmdQ3nO1qixy25o1_500.jpg

this screams more about how out of touch you are more than anything else. but thanks for the lesson black man lol






  

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71. "lol, stop making this about me or YOU for that matter."
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*I* have NO problem w/ANY of this. *I* ain't at your kid's school tho.

THINK abut all those bitch assed Principals/Vice Principles/Supervisors/Cops/RA's/Coaches/Teachers/AUTHORITY figures, in general, YOU faced.

Would THEY have looked at that outfit the way YOU do?
Would their CURRENT INCARNATIONS look at it the way YOU do?

If the answer is yes, then ok, forget it, ignore everything I've posted.
Now if the answer is NO, put your pride aside and prepare your seed for the world. NOT the world you WANT, but the world we HAVE.

Know that all this shit I'm telling you, is coming from a place of love (c) MJ

I WANT your kid to do well
I WANT him to be appreciated for the kid he is and not what her 'represents'

but again, this ain't about 'me'.....

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103. "I'm not going to teach my kid to change who he is to accomodate"
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others who wouldn't like him REGARDLESS of what he's wearing. i get what you are saying believe me. But my kid going to school in a polo everyday (which he happens to do since thats all i buy him) aint going to change how racist teachers are faculty view him.

I tell him to act like he was raised with some sense and do his school work. The rest will take care of itself. But to somewhat answer your question all his teachers love him. He's a straight A student and outside of getting in trouble for talking in class his behavior is on point.

  

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118. "*shrug* "
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Aight, you get what I'm saying, and I'll leave it alone AFTER I say, that dude, changing who you are to accomodate others is a VALUABLE life lesson

Code-switching
Business attire
Professionalism
Game

These are all things we need to succeed, for the most part, and they all involved changing or modulating ourselves, to a certain extent, to suite the needs/tastes/desires of others.

That's just life, playboy.

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198. "he's a 10yr old kid.. he's going to have all of adulthood to foot shuffl..."
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and deal with 'the man'.

right now i'll fight those battles for him if i feel hes being mistreated and believe me i have already. i teach him respect for adults and authority figures and how to carry himself in public. but i refuse to have him thinking he has to act and dress a certain way to appease people who aint comfortable with who he is because of his skin color.

  

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TheAlbionist
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431. "RE: I'm not going to teach my kid to change who he is to accomodate"
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>others who wouldn't like him REGARDLESS of what he's wearing.

But you will change who he is so he can dress exactly the same as you?

Double-standard much?

Sounds like you're pretty insecure about people not being able to tell he's your kid...

  

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86. "this is crazy lol "
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>If you don't know this by now....
>
>And before you say that he's only x years old. That shit
>matters! It changes the way his school mates see him. It
>changes the way his teachers view him (believe that homie) and
>it changes the way administration (Principal & vice) sees
>him.
>
>Know that I'm telling you this shit from personal experience
>(I'm the last dude to come at you w/some bs)
>
>I know this is personal/painful - but really THINK about the
>message your sending. If your kid is a KID, send that lil
>negro to school in a t-shirt w/an anime/cartoon/comic book
>character on the front and some jeans. Camo shirts and a BBall
>jersey, like it or not, send a VERY specific message to the
>folks that are running your kids school.

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98. "not really, it's pretty common - and real talk, btw."
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126. "this is some bull. "
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153. "It really ain't man. I see this shit ALL THE TIME."
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163. "me too. that's why I know its some bullshit. "
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168. "lol, well we can agree that it's BS, that don't mean it don't happen."
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the best way to 'overcome' a problem is to avoid that mfer in the 1st place.

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365. "And what message is that exactly?"
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380. "that's mighty old fashion posting there"
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-

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Truths run marathons.

  

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397. "unfortunately... yeah"
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122. "speaking as somebody that rocks that shit, its not that deep"
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its a very non threatening look. you aint gotta worry about us fucking your shit up. we trying to keep our outfit clean.

i get no less respect in the classroom from professors or peers by dressing like that either.

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10. "just let it slide."
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alias?

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13. "shouldve copped him jean shorts my nygga"
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naw

i dont kno what to tell ya

i think u kno wha u need to do

dont kno y u askin these nyggas for

muhfuggas goin to be dissin u for not having ya kid in loafers, wool slacks with some colorful bright ass socks
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132. "exactly. they prefer the double strap velcro shoes instead of the Brons"
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15. "u best have the sternest of talkin too's with the mom's first"
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and if it happens one more gin

u BEST proach that nigga

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19. "^^^BUT, *maybe* look @ what kind of message your sending"
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w/the kind of clothes you have your kids in.

No disrespect, but ESPECIALLY as black men, we need to be conscious of our appearance at all times. That applies to:

Clothes
Carriage
Voice/Word choice/etc
Manners.

I wish we were all living in the kumbaya/bennington/post-racial paradise of the future, but we ain't and until we are - you need to arm yourself and your kin with the tools to survive in the reality that we CURRENTLY exist in.

From what you described, I'm not sure that you're doing that.

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20. "at the very least he needs to sit'em both down at the same time"
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and they all discuss what is/isn't appropriate wear and attire.


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22. "Oh, let's not get it twisted, dude's outta pocket, BY FAR."
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But that don't meant that he ain't right.

Sometimes mfers be right for the wrong reasons....

It's a hard pill to swallow, but it beez like that sometimes..... *shrug*

You def right tho, he needs to sit his baby moms down AND the 'step-dad' down and discuss what is and what is NOT proper criticism when it comes to his son AND the proper channels that criticism needs to be funneled through ANNDDD! The proper method that criticism needs to follow.

From what he described, it sounds like dude has a point, BUT he went about it the 125% wrong way.

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26. "yeah, as a man/adult if he has a problem with the way"
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the child is dressed then he takes that up with the father.

don't send (subliminal) msgs thru the child.

You gotta problem with me, we go out on the "porch" and handle it like men. Away from the women and kids.

we talk it out, come to a resolution and shake on it. Any animosity or hostility that continues should be kept down to a minimum.

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30. "*daps* we right here, man ><"
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176. "where was all this "man" shit when you walked away from the mother..."
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of your child?

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197. "Yoo...shut the front door...Who hurt you yo?"
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203. "The man in me ain't never left. I have full legal custody of my "
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son. So all that yappidy yappin' bitch shit you tough typin' ain't even pressin' a hurt button over here.

So please exit stage left.

  

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402. "lol!"
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415. "RE: The man in me ain't never left. I have full legal custody of my "
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>son. So all that yappidy yappin' bitch shit you tough typin'
>ain't even pressin' a hurt button over here.
>
>So please exit stage left.

lol, you're the one "tough typin'" and it sounds like I DID press a hurt button

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319. "^^^^THE grown man approach."
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398. "cats are hating, but you are preaching gospel"
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23. "talkin to moms is out of the question"
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she going to take that his side regardless. plus they are still in that newlywed stage too... naw.

  

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29. "Dude she pose to take his side...she his wife. Even if you "
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right, you gonna be wrong in this instance.

That muhphucka buying steak & eggs and keepin' the lights on---you buyin' camou shorts and lebron sneaks.

she gotta go to sleep and wake up to that muhphucka. Any problem with him she gotta deal w/'em 24/7/365. Any problem with you she'll handle on the weekend or by givin' you the dial tone.

so don't expect her to EVER come to your defense as long as she got on his ring and their share mortgage/rent payments.


All she's concerned about is if your son is taken care of..she ain't gonna trip about the trivial shit concerning paco/jnco/thugwear.

if her husband has a problem with the camou shorts and shit, then by default she does too and she ain't gonna say otherwise. (atleast she betnot or she'll be alone and askin' you for more childsupport.




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34. "LMAOOOOOO - I mean, REALLY that's her role."
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>right, you gonna be wrong in this instance.
>
>That muhphucka buying steak & eggs and keepin' the lights
>on---you buyin' camou shorts and lebron sneaks.
>

Maybe you should cut her out of the equation and step to him man to man. Not on no threatening shit, but take the negro out for a beer and try to explain to him why what he did is out of pocket and ask him to respect the boundaries OR take his concerns/criticisms to you.

I mean, at the end of the day, as long as that negro's married to your baby-moms y'all are essentially co-fathering so, for the good of your son, you need to be on the same page.

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58. "i agree to a degree...my thing is ...he aint the boy's father..period"
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if his father got him something for him then that actually means something to both the father and the boy

Stepdaddy as a man can feel however the hell he wanna 'feel' about it
but there's a line u don't cross

by stepdaddy sayin 'no son of mine will....' is where he overstepped his boundaries

i will say that being a stepdad is THE hardest job in the world but u gotta know when to fold em


if dude above aint causing any potential harm or breakin any laws, stepdad has no footing...he can have an opinion...but no footing

which is why i say he needs to talk to the moms

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60. "ok"
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>if his father got him something for him then that actually
>means something to both the father and the boy
>
>Stepdaddy as a man can feel however the hell he wanna 'feel'
>about it
>but there's a line u don't cross

right

>by stepdaddy sayin 'no son of mine will....' is where he
>overstepped his boundaries

right
>i will say that being a stepdad is THE hardest job in the
>world but u gotta know when to fold them
>
right

>if dude above aint causing any potential harm or breakin any
>laws, stepdad has no footing...he can have an opinion...but no
>footing
>
>which is why i say he needs to talk to the moms

you need to look at your own sig, man. She ain't crossing her man, or at least she SHOULDN'T. In a perfect world everything you just said would be 100 and would apply. Sadly this ain't that world. Also, as much as it sucks, I think dude MAY want to consider whether or not dude's unwarranted and unsolicited criticism cary water. If they do, regardless of the fact that step pops is acting uncouth, for the good of his son, he MIGHT wanna look into it.

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65. "preaching to the choir but thanks for the lecture "
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I been dealing with this ish for the past 4 years. which is why i said i'm not going to talk to her about it because dont anything but more drama comes from it.

  

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72. "Can you talk to him?"
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166. "not without her being involved."
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dude pussy and shes a control freak.

  

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178. "fuck. Iono what to tell you."
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It ain't gonna work unless you can step to him 1x1, and it looks like she ain't gonna let that happen.

sorry dude....

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16. "yeah, he dissin' you homie. I'm sure it goes beyond just "
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the clothes thing to..he's probably a little harsher on your son just because he can. On some yo daddy ain't gonna do sh*t, this my house. Ya baby momma can't ride for you, that's her husband.

You either gonna have to handle it like gentleman or get in some gangster sh*t. (C) Snoop Dogg

He essentially doesn't want your son to do anything that reminds him of you. It's bad enough, he wifed up what is akin to your jumpoff, but he also has record of it when he sees your son. So yeah, he's trying to peacock and sneak shots at'cha whenever he can.

As a father, I know first hand that muhphuckas will ultimately try you simply because they know as a general rule you're not going to do anything when your child is around. And because of that alone, that's the only time they see you, so they get their shots in hopin' y'all don't cross paths alone and you can retaliate.

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24. "i can't even reply cuz this thread is hilarious. "
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i'm literally crying.

but nah. he could have sd something else to the child about the outfit if he felt is was inappropriate for school. i make no judgment about it. that was YALLS thing to do, and he hated on that. I'd say something to the baby moms.

  

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28. "talk to baby mama 1st."
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353. "^^^This right here^^^"
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37. "let me find out the lil' dude is 15 yrs old or some shit and I'm "
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editing every response i ever made in this bitch.

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"right? that made sense until the kid got picked up from school"


          

and was able to express perfectly what had made him upset some 8 hours ago. That is not the behavior of a toddler. If the kid was anywhere up to 4 years old, that might be something, but if the kids is north of that then this sounds like some My Brother and Me corn shit.

  

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64. "Lmao like Larenz Tate's brother and Shawn Wayans"
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In Don't Be A Menace

  

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33. "LOL this has classic poast written all over it"
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on topic..his house, his rules. you & your kid gonna have to learn how to get along w/ that

if you really got heart burn approach dude like a man (ie respectfully) & express yourself

otherwise tell your kid thats ok lil dude, your clothes are dope if he dont know or cant see that its his problem not yours


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38. ":/"
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>on topic..his house, his rules. you & your kid gonna have to
>learn how to get along w/ that

Allowances need to be made for his kid. The Dad is in the picture and actively (at least from the picture this post paints) involved.

>if you really got heart burn approach dude like a man (ie
>respectfully) & express yourself

Agree
>otherwise tell your kid thats ok lil dude, your clothes are
>dope if he dont know or cant see that its his problem not
>yours

^^^this should be done regardless^^^^^

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40. "por que? dude calls no shots in the other mans house. none"
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if hes not trying to get custody...thats a l


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49. "porque THAT's his son REGARDLESS of where he lays his head."
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It would be one thing if dude was a deadbeat/uninvolved, but that ain't the case. Out of respect these concerns should have been brought to HIS attention 1st, before being said to the kid.

Also, you know good and god-damned well ain't NO court in America granting a single-father custody over a mother that ain't cracked up, fucked up, locked up, ESPECIALLY a MARRIED mother.

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41. "^ cool brother approach"
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>otherwise tell your kid thats ok lil dude, your clothes are
>dope if he dont know or cant see that its his problem not
>yours


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36. "The fucked up reasoning in this post is WHY..."
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You shouldn't be in this situation. Marrying people with kids is
stupid. Having kids with people you can't be with is stupid.
It's severely impractical and this post is a working example of my
point. You discussing it on OKP is stupid and makes you look weak
but what can you do when YOU made these decisions?

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39. "man this response just made me scooby doo sound outloud @"
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my desk.

i got white folks lookin' at me like i need to be committed.

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42. "yeah, I'm totally lost. I need some author's notes or something."
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I can't see the angle here....

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55. "This is what I see when I read this post:"
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OP has a baby with BM. BM is married to CSH. It is OP's and BM's
right and responsibility to take care and make decisions for their
child. CSH cuts in and infringes on the OP's rights. When dealing
with the Nuclear family, the father and mother work as a team and
SHOULD be a united front. In this circumstance the father is NOT part
of "the family". CSH is overstepping his boundaries BUT when you
enter into these situations that will happen. It's completely
impractical and what makes it worse is that CSH is right about
how he views the clothes but is WRONG in how he handled it.

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61. "ok - I got no beef w/that."
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199. "hey now, you ain't say all that originally...LOL but I see what you're"
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saying but seldom do muhphuckas have kids and not intend on being with the mother/father. Life is full of obstacles and sadly staying in love isn't one of those things you can easily jump over.

They had a child, their relationship didn't work out and for all intents and purposes they are seemingly cordial for the sake of the child. Mom remarries, starts a new family unit per se. Step Dad set a few standards for how HIS home and everyone in it is gonna act/dress yada yadda. I don't have a problem w/that AT All.

The message that the stepdad conveyed is cool, it's his approach/manner of how he got it across is more or less the issue.

Hell it would probably be cool if both men sat down and the step dad said during the school week Mon-Thursday, " i want DJ Poke,Jr. to wear this that and what not, and on the fridays that you pick him I'll let him wear the lil' Lebron gear or whatever have you.

Don't for a second discredit the step dads role or authority in this. You may be buying clothes and man-man's weekend getaways but that stepdad is providing a home and at the end of the day, his house rules have to be respected and followed.

  

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236. "It maybe it's house but it's not his kid."
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That viewpoint is problematic. It maybe his house but a step-parent
has no business making those types of decision if Dad is in the
picture. I understand certain aspects of behavior in HIS HOUSE but
what the child wears(like many other things) is outside his call.
The step-dad has no right to dictate how the child is raised.
Like I said, certain aspects of behavior he may have a call on but
anything else is inappropriate. This is one reason why this setup is
impractical.


>saying but seldom do muhphuckas have kids and not intend on
>being with the mother/father. Life is full of obstacles and
>sadly staying in love isn't one of those things you can easily
>jump over.

Don't have kids in that situation UNLESS you want to post about it
on OKP and look stupid...For MY enjoyment.

>They had a child, their relationship didn't work out and for
>all intents and purposes they are seemingly cordial for the
>sake of the child. Mom remarries, starts a new family unit per
>se. Step Dad set a few standards for how HIS home and everyone
>in it is gonna act/dress yada yadda. I don't have a problem
>w/that AT All.

There's a serious problem with that because this isn't something he
should be able to control. This is frankly a failure on the mother's
end. If you want that control have your own kids. If you aren't
going to have your own kids do what's best for the kid and let the
Parents handle their duties. If the natural parents aren't handling
their duties THEN you'd be well within your rights to raise the kid.

>The message that the stepdad conveyed is cool, it's his
>approach/manner of how he got it across is more or less the
>issue.

I agree with that. That lil boy was dressed like a f'n bamma.

>Hell it would probably be cool if both men sat down and the
>step dad said during the school week Mon-Thursday, " i want DJ
>Poke,Jr. to wear this that and what not, and on the fridays
>that you pick him I'll let him wear the lil' Lebron gear or
>whatever have you.

That doesn't mesh with what the OP said his arrangement is.
According to the OP he see his child everyday and on the weekends.

>Don't for a second discredit the step dads role or authority
>in this. You may be buying clothes and man-man's weekend
>getaways but that stepdad is providing a home and at the end
>of the day, his house rules have to be respected and followed.

What you wear isn't a function of a "house rule" but even if you could
make a solid case for that it still wouldn't matter. This issue boils
down to how the boy is being raised and no one other than the natural
parents should have a say. It's a failure on the OP's end for not
thinking all this through before getting his BM pregnant. This is the
BM's failure for not realizing the effects of her getting (re)married,
not respecting the father and not working with the OP to establish
ground rules. This is a failure on the CSH's for not being a man and
realizing that this isn't his child so he needs to not take the
insecure route and try to control shit that he SHOULDN'T be
involved in.

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243. "SMH, OKP is a bubble all unto itself. "
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258. "That's a blatant cop out because you can't refute my point. "
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Your only argument would be that "Well, That's the way it is".
There's no justification for the mindset you outlined.
It's unhealthy and it puts the child second.

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282. "nigga, your point is basically &quot;use your condom and take "
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sips of the brew (C) C.L Smooths uncle

you're talkin' about the foresight thoughts that couldve avoided this situation in it's entirety and not attacking the situation at hand.

The child is here. the problems are before us. Try offering a solution to bring this thing to an end instead of basically tellin' ol' boy "you shouldnt have fucked the broad and had a kid outta wedlock.

And it's foolish to think that the step father won't have ANY input in the upbringing of a child in his own home, if that so be the case be prepared for even more issues because that's essentially giving the child free reign to disrespect the stepfather totally on some " you ain't my daddy type shit"

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289. "Dude, you been here long enough to know OKP is Bizarro World....."
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294. "I'm saying, you would think that people on a message board would READ"
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the message on the board.

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292. "That's not what I did, at all."
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>sips of the brew (C) C.L Smooths uncle

I made a very specific point. The Step Dad needs to leave that
controlling shit alone. He isn't doing this for the kids best
interest. He's concerned about how HE, the step dad, looks.
It's impractical because the BM shouldn't have married a man
that can't put her child's best interest ahead of his need to
control. The OP needs to handle that.


>you're talkin' about the foresight thoughts that couldve
>avoided this situation in it's entirety and not attacking the
>situation at hand.

I'm talking about that AND the problem that currently exist.
The step-dad should have ZERO to say about the child is being raised
unless there's a blatant safety issue.

>The child is here. the problems are before us. Try offering a
>solution to bring this thing to an end instead of basically
>tellin' ol' boy "you shouldnt have fucked the broad and had a
>kid outta wedlock.

There is NO WAY to correct the problem. The OP isn't going to kill
the BM or CSH. The OP won't even tell the CSH to stay in his lane.
I never said anything about wedlock.


>And it's foolish to think that the step father won't have ANY
>input in the upbringing of a child in his own home, if that so
>be the case be prepared for even more issues because that's
>essentially giving the child free reign to disrespect the
>stepfather totally on some " you ain't my daddy type shit"


I never said I think "...the step father won't have ANY input..."
I said it's NOT HIS PLACE. I also addressed that there are certain
situations in which he has some say on the child but it would be
things that don't have bearing on how the child is raised. The child
would only have free reign to disrespect the step father if the
mother and father weren't doing their jobs. The child disrespecting
the step-dad has NOTHING to do with if the step-dad has a say in how
the child is raised. I'll use this as an example, The father and
mother establish a bedtime. The kid hasn't gone to bed by the bed
time. At that point the step-dad is well within his rights to say
something because it's with in the rules set by the parents. If the
step-dad tried to impose his own bed time, that would by out of
bounds. This isn't the first time I've heard the argument you made
but it's still as bad.


You aren't really addressing what I said but you are addressing what
you WANT to address. You should look at what I said more critically
and consider the difference between what I actually said and you
perception of what I said.

>and i stand by my OKP is a world all unto itself statement
>because the things y'all envision going on here seldom reflect
>or cross over into the real world.

That statement makes ZERO sense. Again, You want to address what I
said the way you WANT it to read. I made the point that the
step-father is out of bounds in regard to his control issues.
I said that the Step-dad needs to do what best for the kid and
sit the fuck down somewhere. With that said, when did I say
something that isn't happening? Your statement doesn't apply
because I'm saying what the step-dad is ACTUALLY doing is wrong.

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43. "da fuck nm"
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48. "......................"
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>You shouldn't be in this situation. Marrying people with
>kids is
>stupid. Having kids with people you can't be with is stupid.
>It's severely impractical and this post is a working example
>of my
>point. You discussing it on OKP is stupid and makes you look
>weak
>but what can you do when YOU made these decisions?


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56. ": - l"
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Jordan!

  

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222. "^^example of a nigga being right, but out of line^^^"
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just like da BM's husband

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237. "I don't agree but I see what you did there. lol"
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44. "Maybe he just didn't think that was an appropriate outfit for school."
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which might be correct. Now what he said was a little incendiary, but I don't think it's anything to start a pissing contest over.

  

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45. "Get custody or sit the fuck down, because if all you doing is..."
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buying bamma ass outfits and talking shit and your lil niglet is living under MY roof, eating up MY food, wiping his black ass with MY toilet paper then he is going to abide my MY rules.

Reason #1 why I try to avoid broads with kids. Damn sideline daddies always wanna act like they calling shots.

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51. "this is likely not an option. C'mon, let's keep it 100 here."
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53. "LOL i am dying. If i posted this i'm lookin up yalls ip"
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@geahuwine

  

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54. "oooh wee thats opinionated."
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261. "lol"
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
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Yall niggas are crazy

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255. "THIS JUST GOT REAL"
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
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434. "^ i want my reply back"
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cuz you stole it


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331. "The fuck kinda Larry Elder bitch nigga shit?"
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358. "damn. that was unnecessary"
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378. "Maybe you should educate yourself on how custody works"
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first.....

That's the problem with this shit hole

Lies run sprints.
Truths run marathons.

  

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444. "lol sideline daddies "
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46. "Approaching it from a confrontational stance won't help anything.."
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ask to meet with BOTH of em.. just lay it out respectfully. (doesn't matter if u think he was disrespectful.. always come correct yourself)

just lay it out.. listen my son and i have a bond, we got these matching outfits.. i dont feel its inappropriate, but lets talk. what kind of common ground can we come to about these kind of situations? i respect that you care for my son part of the time, and if the situation was reversed i definitely wouldnt want to be at odds with you regarding YOUR son.

just hear em out.

IF u get what a lot of okps here said, which is that fit may be considered by some as hoodish or whatever.. either deal with it, or agree to let him wear whatever when he is with you and when he's not at school.

like it or not, the man IS caring for him part of the time, u know?

i think coming at it respectfully with the intent of coming to an agreement or compromise will bode well for the future of this shared relationship reality. (and a good lesson for your boy about working together even if you dont agree about everything)

but this is just how i roll.

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326. "^^^^^ this is the Grown folks way to handle it."
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My Wife, my Ex and I did this.

  

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332. "^^^ Only grown folk response in post "
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far as i can tell...

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47. "Tell your ex if she wanna be a widow, to let that nigga keep running......."
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off at the mouth.

But for reals, you need to talk to your ex and let it be known that it's not his place to be doing that. If there's an issue with the clothes being inappropriate, then they need to get at you about that instead of talking all that shit.

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52. "lol, this would be my 1st instinct......"
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50. "#TEAMCAMO"
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63. "lol"
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Jordan!

  

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68. "#TEAMSTEPDAD - dude probably a Laker/Kobe fan, ain't no Lebron..."
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gear getting worn up in my crib!

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99. "nigga is definitely soundin like a Laker/Kobe/Pacquio fan fam!"
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***
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57. "lol@ the sponsgebob reference. And lol@ asking US what ta do!"
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Well, if hubby aint paying for your sons' clothes, he doesn't need to be commenting. He sounds a little haterrific, but hey, at least you know.

Wasn't like he called you up, like hey pussy, you know I hate Lebron right? Little spongebob-ish...but keep it cool.


So, keep your sons' clothes at your house. The only thing he should be bringing when he spends time with you is himself.

"hey if this all ends with Thor throwing tornados around New Mexico, let's keep going" (c) nodima

  

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62. "Niggas talkin abt get custody and shit...come the fuck on yo"
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i been on both sides of this

certain shit u sign up for being a stepdaddy or mommies friend

certain shit u gotta live with and deal with with your child livin with another man

it aint easy on either end

and lil shit like clothes, hair style choices, shit even toys turns into big shit later on like.....i dunno....religion

I can rock wit fishgrease's reply by basically sayin rap to dude man to man

but the rest of this nonsense is way too far

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66. "that 'keep that main thing...the main thing' thing?"
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VERY close to home. EXTREMELY close to home yo.
I wonder if he copywrote that shit...

"hey if this all ends with Thor throwing tornados around New Mexico, let's keep going" (c) nodima

  

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NikaMandela
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73. "what is so outrageous about a man having custody of his son tho?"
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like, why is that not an option?

  

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77. "in whose courtroom is he gonna get anybody's custody?? lol"
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he already has partial custody from the sound of it


but his child is living with his mother an husband...
the kid aint being abused or no shit like that

c'mon now


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NikaMandela
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80. "i wasnt assuming he would have to fight for custody"
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i mean thats another post topic altogether anyway.

my point is that this issue is not likely to be resolved unless the OP gets custody.

  

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85. "let's say the daddy wanted the lil boy to have a mohawk and he"
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takes lil man to the barbershop to get a haircut during his custody time


he sends son home during his mom's n em 'custody' time

step dad says 'no son of mine will have a mohawk'

son frowns

back to daddy custody time

he goes to take son to the barbershop and son tells him
el stepdaddyo said i cant get a mohawk

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please tell me how that can be resolved..........with custody


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NikaMandela
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108. "lol @ you changing the detail and presenting it as if its a different st..."
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honestly i dont really see a solution for that.

cant he just wear the clothes his father bought for him when hes with his father?

in any case, the father should talk to the son. explain that he and stepdad arent always going to see eye to eye and hes the one who is responsible for raising him into a man.

in other words, i dont fucking know.

  

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112. "it's the same story....only thing switched is an outfit for a hairstyle"
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same characters

and all

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104. "lol are u serious? "
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We talkin about an outfit. It happens

>i mean thats another post topic altogether anyway.
>
>my point is that this issue is not likely to be resolved
>unless the OP gets custody.

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102. "I'm sayin' can we just keep it real?"
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what country are these cats livin' in?

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372. "That "mommies friend" shit is real."
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You are going to get dragged into shit whether you want to or not. If you're in the house, breaking bread and whatnot, you're going throw your two cents in. Birth daddy or not.

Mommies friend. That shit is the worst.


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393. "Oh no doubt...but i SERIOUSLY doubt mommie's friend will"
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cross the line and say her kid looks homeless or 'no son of mines will____'


Mommy will have that nicca shit on the porch with the quickness

her son??

shiiiiiiiid

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67. "custody is the only solution for this issue imo"
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cuz its only gonna get worse.

and not that you care, but i kinda think its better for boys to live with their fathers anyway when they get a certain age.

  

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69. "real talk...:"
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>and not that you care, but i kinda think its better for boys
>to live with their fathers anyway when they get a certain
>age.

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74. "Y'all keep saying this, but is it practical?"
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How likely is it that he gets contested (I see nothing here that suggests his wife will cede custody) custody?

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76. "its worth preparing for and pursuing imo."
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106. "girl, all them degrees you got, I know you know you bullshittin"
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worth pursuing..... *rolls eyes*

Ok...

You know good and god-damned well this negro ain't getting custody. C'mon daughter....

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116. "i didnt mean pursuing with the courts"
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i meant pursuing with the babymama.

like i said, i think its best for sons to live with their fathers at a certain age. if i were babymama, i'd want my son to live with his father.

  

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120. "that ain't happenin'"
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If she's worth HALF her salt, she ain't giving up custody

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196. "like i said, I'D give up custody"
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because i think its better for a boy to live with his father.

i dont think a woman who would give up custody is a bad mother.

  

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201. "counting on MOST women to give up custody is foolish"
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but applaud you on your open-mindedness. I can see your point of view. Frankly I agree and think, the inverse is probably true re: mothers and daughters.

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84. "The idea of "practical" was thrown out the window when the OP..."
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knocked up his bm.

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97. "lol, real talk"
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107. "c'mon ock, you doing 4 much in here. shit happens man"
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75. "lol@all these part-time daddies in this post sticking they chest out..."
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you can't tell another man what do in HIS house.

Get custody or STFU.

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79. "pretty much"
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i mean i give a fck but i don't give that much of a fck

  

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81. "What about compromise? Working together for the best of the BOY?"
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everything doesn't have to be black or white.. a big issue.

no u can't tell another man what to do in HIS house.. (see my reply above) but you CAN work together.

ego is what causes all these fucked up situations and then you are only teaching the children that exes are SUPPOSE to hate each other and battle..

thats not to say you can guarantee anyone else being reasonable.. but you can be reasonable yourself.

>you can't tell another man what do in HIS house.
>
>Get custody or STFU.


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88. "what's point of raising hell about a damn OUTFIT?"
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"Uh... you must not have read my reply."


  

          


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124. "Well you're assuming that Step pops is doing this outta concern"
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for the kid.

Which he prolly isn't. This is likely a power struggle.

None-the-less, I do believe you have the right approach/attitude. You gotta give folks the benefit of the doubt until they prove you otherwise.

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82. "Part time daddies kickin out that full time support every two weeks"
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got damn right they/we/ME gonna stick my/our chest out


i wish my son would come to me tellin me some dumb shit like dude goin thru

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89. "that check ain't raising your kid"
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93. "LOL @ u tellin me who or what is raisin my kid"
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130. "umm...in post #82 YOU were the one admitting to being a PT daddy"
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135. "LOL @ u tellin me who or what is raisin my kid"
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148. "okayplayer."
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131. "If this situation is typical, neither is step-pops."
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Most women are VERY protective of their children. She prolly ain't even letting dude TALK to the kid.

I mean, AGAIN, let's keep it 100, shall we?

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137. "ALL the way 100 lol "
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143. "Man, we spend WAY 2 much time 2gether to be lyin' 2 each other."
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ain't no reason NOT to keep it real. Y'all negros will be back tomorrow EITHER WAY.

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ThaTruth
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154. "lmao, are you serious?"
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>Most women are VERY protective of their children. She prolly
>ain't even letting dude TALK to the kid.

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172. "hell the fuck yeah. Where you from that they ain't?"
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174. "I know a gang of stepfathers that are very active in their stepchildren'..."
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lives and even though it can be rough starting out often a lot of kids end up closer to their stepfather than their biological.

That whole "you can't say nuthin to MY kid" shit is what has a lot of females out here single raising kids alone while they BD is somewhere else knocking another broad up

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191. "Now how active are the FATHERS in that scenario?"
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202. "of course we know all OKPDads is are 100% Father of the Year..."
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candidates and do everything perfect and have the checks on time but in the REAL WORLD we all know that's not always the case

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206. "Neither one of those things are true. "
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but I'm dealing w/the facts of the matter - I can't make any other assumptions for the purpose of this post.

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83. "I see my kid everyday of the week"
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you can chill with that part-time daddy bullshit. he's with me everyday after school and at my house weekends.

i know this is okp and talking out the side of ya neck is the norm on here which is why i'm mostly laughing at the replies in here.

i wont even entertain the get full custody replies. those who know just know.

  

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95. "we've had this convo on okp"
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and it gets my blood pressure up because i was raised in a full joint custody situation and i cant imagine not having been able to be w my dad every other week for the ENTIRE week
i just dont get why more fathers dont do one week on/one week off
tho i understand thats not always available it IS more often than folks say
dude my mom was dating had no place telling my brother anything abt ANYTHING because my dad wld have nipped that in the bud
so i think you do need to talk to the step dad
but that your words would be taken more serious if he was with you more than he was with the stepdad

>you can chill with that part-time daddy bullshit. he's with
>me everyday after school and at my house weekends.
>
>i know this is okp and talking out the side of ya neck is the
>norm on here which is why i'm mostly laughing at the replies
>in here.
>
>i wont even entertain the get full custody replies. those who
>know just know.

i mean i give a fck but i don't give that much of a fck

  

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177. "not really trying to make it that kind of post "
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but yes iv tried for joint. didnt get it. caused alot of upheaval. left both of us scarred up. still dealing with alot of bullshit from that whole process.

i get to see my son everyday and i honestly think its a more stable situation the way it is now than him trading beds and households every other week.

this shit aint perfect. far from it but i've learned to pick my battles and the custody shit is not one i want to entertain at all right now. especially over something as petty as this.

  

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87. "i'd pay good money to watch you tell an active father to STFU"
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when it comes to his kid
his SON! lol sheeeit

iont even wanna board argue about it i'd just love to see that happen

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91. "u know...i'm over this bidge bouncin up n down n shit like no this"
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nigga is NOT

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105. "yeah man thats the kinda stuff you *gotta* be careful about"
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i seen your post earlier about seeing both sides

and poppin off like ^^^that aint gonna help things run in the long term not at ALL

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94. "mf's need to think about all this shit before they go skeeting..."
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up in broads all willy nilly

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96. "word!! you should tell that nigga that shit too!"
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347. "yo...LMAO"
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100. "U wear glasses and levi's dockers wit your shirt tucked in dont u?"
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just a question

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111. "u skeetin in his leftovers tho"
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217. "I'm cryin'. Y'all niggas done clowned in this here poast"
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140. "Man, STFU! Stop actin like this shit is Wesley Snipes and Mick Jagger"
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shit happens, families break up, plans don't work out.

c'mon, son...

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133. "*likes*"
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yeah, I'll take the under on that action.

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114. "you are absolutely ridiculous "
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A MAN should NEVER step on another dudes toes like that point blank. You assuming all kinds of shit. It's really no deeper than that.

In order for situations like this to work there has to be respect shown on both ends. If dude had a problem he should've discussed it with him NOT his son. That was totally out of line for a number of reasons. Shit like this happens often. Situations like this take time to work out. I don't see where u get off acting like somebody isn't a good father. U got a lot of nerve up in here.

Like do yall even understand how custody works??? Not to mention what good would it do the son to remove him from his home like that....over a outfit???

U can't just get custody over simple shit like that. If that were the case kids would be switching homes all the time. Like come on now


>you can't tell another man what do in HIS house.
>
>Get custody or STFU.
.

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136. "its a DAMN OUTFIT!"
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138. "but its not simply abt an outfit"
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OP said "I know he feeling some kind of way about the relationship I have with my son and if him and my babymomma had it their way I would be out the picture completely."

which to me says he shld try to get joint custody
maybe hes already done that who knows
but if thats the way THEY want it to be, its worth it to try and circumvent that happening if he wants to maintain a relationship w his son without this stepdad stepping all on his toes


>In order for situations like this to work there has to be
>respect shown on both ends. If dude had a problem he should've
>discussed it with him NOT his son.

of course he shld have
but we see he doesnt move like that and to me its indicative of whats to come down the line if he doesnt nip it in the bud now
one of the ways to do so is to make sure he has joint custody and bears a completely equal responsibility for that child as the mom does


i mean i give a fck but i don't give that much of a fck

  

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144. "sounds like they already share custody "
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Nobody in their right.mind would start a custody battle over this bullshit. It's a total waste of time and will only make shit worse.

Assuming they already went to court what exactly is he gonna say to convince a judge to change their ruling?

In this case its not worth a try at all. Not over this. This kind of shit is normal. It just takes time for everyone to find comfort in their roles. .

>OP said "I know he feeling some kind of way about the
>relationship I have with my son and if him and my babymomma
>had it their way I would be out the picture completely."
>
>which to me says he shld try to get joint custody
>maybe hes already done that who knows
>but if thats the way THEY want it to be, its worth it to try
>and circumvent that happening if he wants to maintain a
>relationship w his son without this stepdad stepping all on
>his toes
>
>
>>In order for situations like this to work there has to be
>>respect shown on both ends. If dude had a problem he
>should've
>>discussed it with him NOT his son.
>
>of course he shld have
>but we see he doesnt move like that and to me its indicative
>of whats to come down the line if he doesnt nip it in the bud
>now
>one of the ways to do so is to make sure he has joint custody
>and bears a completely equal responsibility for that child as
>the mom does
>
>
>

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152. "Thank you.... eventhough i'm still on that i wish a nigga would"
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status

i'm bout to call my son right now to see if that nigga had something to say about his tennis or uniform...lol


this post got me hot!

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355. "ayo.....YOU another one of us Black folk on here too!!!!!"
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*puts grease and water on hair to lay it down until u can get a perm black
* eatin chicken while driving throwin the bones out the car Black
* payin the PAST DUE amount before 5pm on disconnection day (instead of the whole balance) Black
* Keepin an inactive cell phone just to tell the time Black
* Insteada saying "I love this song"...u say "shiiiiiit! Das my JAM" Black....

u BLACK, A1.....and I'm lovin it!

  

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360. "C'mon now....I'm from Baltimore...our yt folx are Black...lol"
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369. "LMAO!!!!"
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u right

  

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171. "lol, you think there might be a reason for this?"
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>OP said "I know he feeling some kind of way about the
>relationship I have with my son and if him and my babymomma
>had it their way I would be out the picture completely."

don't forget we're only hearing one side of this story

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145. "i agree with this"
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>In order for situations like this to work there has to be
>respect shown on both ends. If dude had a problem he should've
>discussed it with him NOT his son. That was totally out of
>line for a number of reasons. Shit like this happens often.
>Situations like this take time to work out.

but we all know this aint about no oufit. and custody IS the best solution. whether or not its an option is another issue altogether.

  

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121. "YOUR child trumps HIS church all day."
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BIG joke, LIL' Joker....

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78. "Damn he popped your little mini-me outfit balloon."
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It probably won't be the last time that happens either. Good luck.
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90. "If he's taking shots at you, what do you think"
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he hopes your reaction will be?

If they want you out of the picture, getting you to go upside his head might be all that they need.

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101. "Buy your son this t-shirt"
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http://bit.ly/t1KUIN

mind
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110. "LMAO - THAT'LL get them to talk to you....."
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109. "lmao @ niggas saying his outfit is too "gangster" for school"
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I hate this place sometimes

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113. "yao ming? shit i'm a pretty "professional" cat and I FUX W/ CAMO."
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117. "Shut the hell up Andre you know you aint wearin no camo to yo job"
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Prolly not a PTA meeting either

  

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142. "right? c'mon"
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nah, camo ain't thuggish, but at school?
with white teachers who live 30 - 60 miles away?

negro please!

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151. "school aint no job though"
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teachers are paid to give our children an education

if it's an issue for the teachers it sounds like the OP is involved enough to talk to them about their issues

but i went to school with white kids who wore camo on some fucking columbine killer shit and nobody said anything

i feel what you're saying about not giving them a reason but if a cracker is racist, they really dont even need one

  

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159. "the hell it ain't!"
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182. "smh. niggas is wearing anime/pokemon shirts at the job??"
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wtf is the difference between that and a shirt with an nba player on it?

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190. "really?"
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Ok, we can pretend that there is not subtext.
that people for their own prejudices see things differently than they really are.

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149. "its a great outfit for lil boys "
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>
I used to buy my nephews that exact outfit every summer lol

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157. "i just got my nephew some. im very confused."
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he loves his camos and flannels and jordans.

he aint nobody thug, either. kid loves reading and skateboarding.

  

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192. "spades sending his 6 year old to school in a 3 piece suit"
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and wingtips and shit.

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350. "LMAO!!"
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115. "depending on what school he goes to it might be"
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128. "unless there is a uniform he should be wearing ain't shit wrong"
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with that outfit
are we forgettig that American army soldiers wear camo??
foh with labeling that shit "thug"

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141. "right? that shit is fucking ridiculous."
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<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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155. "my only beef is that its damn near winter time...lol...other than that"
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aint shit wrong wit camo shorts

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165. "maybe they live where its warm in the winter."
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<--- Big Baller World Order

  

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119. "whoa @ the people in here saying its not school appropriate"
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white kids be wearing whatever thee fuck they want

fuck that

your kid shouldnt be conditioned to think he cant be successful and wear ____

thats a bad (and hella tommish) message to be sending

regarding your scenerio i'd need to know how old the kid is to have any suggestion

my main one would be that he should be able to wear what he wants

  

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123. "nahmean?? niggas is on some if you wanna work for the white man oneday"
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you gotsta follow massa's dress code
*shuffles*

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134. "meanwhile u have your entire adulthood to be boring "
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goodness gracious

let kids be kids

thats like, the one time in your life you can look however the fuck you want

as long as his grades on point who gives a fuck

  

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147. "lol @ you thinkin' this is only fitewolx"
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*I* ain't hiring NOBODY that comes for an interview in anything less than khakis AT THE WAIST, a button down TUCKED in, and a tie.

*rolls eyes*

Y'all lil' negros really need to wake the fuck up outta this hipster paradise you be dreaming about.....

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156. "no YOU need to wake up and realize school aint a hiring "
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process. what the fuck are you talking about?

so because the lil dude wearing camos he a thug now?

i have a professional ass job but last year when i was still in school i took the opportunity to express myself because i didnt have any other opportunity to BECAUSE of my job

at work im in blazers and heels so school was like tats out, tits out, living my life

why? because my intelligence was the point

i graduated with honors and nobody gave two shits about my outfit

smart people know what to wear for interviews and to work

what you wear to school is your business. its the one place that shit shouldnt be a priority.

having on a belt doesn't improve your SAT scores.

  

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164. "It ain't got SHIT to do w/hiring."
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>process. what the fuck are you talking about?
>
>so because the lil dude wearing camos he a thug now?

Nope. but will THEY perceive him that way.....?

>i have a professional ass job but last year when i was still
>in school i took the opportunity to express myself because i
>didnt have any other opportunity to BECAUSE of my job

Negro it's 9% unemployment nationwide. YOU might have that kind of freedom in your job, but MOST companies are cracking the whip right now. That kinduva shit ain't flyin in most places

AND

you're a cute female, he has a boy - the rules are different.

>at work im in blazers and heels so school was like tats out,
>tits out, living my life

You talking about college, that's a different ball game. When the lil' negro gets to college he should get a tat, sag his pants, get some cornrows and alladat, but in primary/middle school/ HS?

Nah....
>
>why? because my intelligence was the point
>
>i graduated with honors and nobody gave two shits about my
>outfit

again you talkin about college, the rules are different.
>smart people know what to wear for interviews and to work
>
>what you wear to school is your business. its the one place
>that shit shouldnt be a priority.
>
>having on a belt doesn't improve your SAT scores.

lol having a belt might get you to the point where you can TAKE the SAT.

Tracking is REAL
Favoritism is REAL

Almost every kid gets a 2nd chance, and most need them, not all kids get 3rd and 4th chances. Shit like how you dress, how you look, how your parents act, how you talk, how your parents talk - determines how many chances you get. School ain't populated by perfect educational automatons. It's populated by people with people's imperfections and people's prejudices.

You can pretend like this is the United States of Bennington if you want, but I'ma be over here in the real world.

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173. "i'm sad. all these years and i ain't realize you was a tom."
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181. "word? Ok"
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210. "ok now THAT was funny..."
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161. "you're hiring elementary aged children? wtf are you talking abiut"
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get a grip my g
your kids go to school in business suits?

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175. "damn, y'all really that clueless?"
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WTF do you think compulsory education is for?

Yeah, they learning how to count, spell, etc. But they can learn (most) that at home. It's about SOCIALIZATION.

Do you know what that means?

Teaching them how to act/react talk/respond amongst their peers and superiors. This is preparation for live as an adult.

You have VERY little time to form your child's personality before they are 'set' - and that ain't me, most child psychologists agree, in some cases they're talking about as little as 5 years. By they time your kid is out of Elementary, the person they are is the person they are going to be. So yeah, this shit matters.

Theses lessons matter. Seriously, SOMEONE is going to work in the office. They're not all going to be self-made, self-employed. YES, you need to teach/prepare them to deal with and within the system. This shit ain't that complicated.

smh

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179. "you sound crazy. i can show you school pics of my friend"
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who is a doctor now and you'd think he was a 'thug' according to your narrow ass view.

a fuckin lebron tshirt and camo shorts is going to keep this lil boy from learning???

ugh. shit like this is why i'm home schooling my kids anyway.
fucking slave thinking.

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184. "yeah, and we're all gonna be doctors, right?"
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I can show you PAGES of exceptions. What if his kid ain't the exception; what then?

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185. "wat. again i'm not concerned with my kids hoping and praying"
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they can get a job with the man. you have a narrow ass view of 'success' my dude.

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187. "and you have a 'rosy' idea of reality."
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bro. if a black child can't even wear children's clothes (you know the clothes they sell in the children's section that the child is obviously wearing) the problem isn't with the clothes
it's with the assholes judging him. and again i will definitely teach my children better than that.

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193. "aight, good luck w/your worldview then."
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250. "it's been working for my family so far and we're not"
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thugs.

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180. "no. i'm just living proof that you can be successful"
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without looking like carlton banks.

carry on though.

  

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186. "Good for you - are the rule or the exception?"
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cuz I've been dealin' w/you long enough to know you ain't typical in anyone's book, but whatever, I'm just a Tom - you can ignore me.

*kanye shrug*

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194. "i'd be the rule if we quit grooming our kids to be wack."
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200. "conditional statement"
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you might not like the way things are.

Newsflash, neither do I, but I'm not gonna sit here and pretend like shit is anything other than what it is.

If that makes me a Tom, then so be it. *shrug* none-the-less, I take parenting too seriously to do anything other than prepare my child, as best I can, for success. And, unfortunately, selective conformity is part of that.

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204. "you don't like it so you perpetuate it?"
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normally i wouldn't even carry on this much but this doesn't even seem like you. in every other way you seem liberal, sensible and non-conformist. so really, i'm just kind of shocked.

i understand where you're coming from but that doesn't make it hurt any less.

we shouldn't be living our lives according to THEM. especially when like i said, white people be looking however they want.

  

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209. "Perpetuate? No. Anticipate? yes."
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>normally i wouldn't even carry on this much but this doesn't
>even seem like you. in every other way you seem liberal,
>sensible and non-conformist. so really, i'm just kind of
>shocked.

You're absolutely right - but I'm also a realist, because I've been in the situation when I've been blindsided by shit that was written on the wall, I don't wanna set my kid up like that. Am I over-correcting, perhaps and I'm ok with that. They'll have PLENTY of time to express their individuality in their early adulthood once they understand the abstract concept of moderation and conditional/situational conformity. Until then.....

>i understand where you're coming from but that doesn't make it
>hurt any less.

Yeah, I understand.

>we shouldn't be living our lives according to THEM. especially
>when like i said, white people be looking however they want.
>
>
I agree - and I don't think this has anything to do with how we live our lives. But what picture do we present to them? Not everything is for them and therefore I believe we need to keep somethings just for us/close to the vest.

Different - sure, but I've SEEN the way they label kids based off of HAIR. Seriously, HAIR. You'd be shocked if you saw the shit I see...

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188. "i don't even know why we're arguing with dude"
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337. "AAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA"
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whole reply got me CTFU!

  

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125. "Seriously has he done anything ELSE to your kid other than say something..."
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about a damn outfit?

Because if not you coming off kinda bitchmade making a big deal out of nothing. You call dude a "spongbob square ass nigga" so he must be a professional cat that wears a tie everyday and you still dressing like you're 16 running around in camo shorts and sneakers that's probably why BM chose him over you.

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CherNic
Member since Aug 18th 2005
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Thu Nov-17-11 06:13 PM

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139. "*cackles*"
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You are giving an A+ performance sir

  

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BrooklynWHAT
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Thu Nov-17-11 06:20 PM

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150. "fuuuuck this nigga is trying to go in."
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