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"Fellas: We Telling The Game Too"


  

          

Yes, im done working right now.

Ladies, chime in with ur answers.
Fellas, u looking for answers, good presents to buy ur boo, outfits? Holla!

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we aint the two and i aint the one- lyte

  

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Let the games begin
Jan 13th 2011
1
eh, why not.
Jan 13th 2011
2
yup...lol
Jan 13th 2011
3
they threw a fit last time we did this. i still have no idea why
Jan 13th 2011
5
or the No Ma'am Crew will be up in here trying discredit us
Jan 13th 2011
6
I got an hour to kill. let's do it.
Jan 13th 2011
4
When y'all say 'Talk to me'......
Jan 13th 2011
7
baby talk
Jan 13th 2011
9
she wants to connect with you
Jan 13th 2011
13
she wants to connect on an emotional level
Jan 13th 2011
15
make up some shit to talk about then, like yo' feelings.
Jan 13th 2011
20
it depends. most women have "antennas" so we can
Jan 13th 2011
28
i like this answer.
Jan 13th 2011
98
two things...
Jan 13th 2011
35
be real and just talk abt what's on ur mind
Jan 13th 2011
53
OMG, I wish I had that problem
Jan 13th 2011
entertain me with stories of your youth or some kind of convo, that jus ...
Jan 13th 2011
172
start singing "Come and Talk to Me" and then tickle her. she laughs
Jan 13th 2011
398
men dont care...
Jan 13th 2011
8
END POAST
Jan 13th 2011
10
^^^^^best answer
Jan 13th 2011
11
maybe?
Jan 13th 2011
12
right
Jan 13th 2011
17
I do.
Jan 13th 2011
16
aaaaaaaawwwwwww
Jan 13th 2011
19
:)
Jan 13th 2011
148
that's dope.
Jan 14th 2011
452
if only that was true they wld stay off my phone with questions,
Jan 13th 2011
18
i've had equal parts both
Jan 13th 2011
22
      most.
Jan 13th 2011
31
           its like punishment has whipped cream and cherries on it. nm
Jan 13th 2011
34
                no thanks.
Jan 13th 2011
56
Right. Plus the women tried this before
Jan 13th 2011
27
9 outta 10 times we don't. that 1 time is usually a fiasco tho. lol
Jan 13th 2011
42
Addendum: It's not that we don't care, we just care differently....
Jan 13th 2011
144
We know that an "average" of the answers...
Jan 13th 2011
157
really don't.
Jan 13th 2011
347
^but yet....here ya'll r...O-KAY.^
Jan 13th 2011
368
      lol
Jan 13th 2011
385
Base.
Jan 13th 2011
425
What Valentines gift do you get for the GF who hates the holiday
Jan 13th 2011
14
whatever u get, don't get the "usual" vday stuff
Jan 13th 2011
21
especially this...
Jan 13th 2011
29
dinner and a movie...
Jan 13th 2011
23
pay very close attn to anything she mentions that she likes or wants to ...
Jan 13th 2011
25
take her to a show/concert
Jan 13th 2011
26
nothing lovey dovey
Jan 13th 2011
30
haha nice...something practical she needs
Jan 13th 2011
41
      wait. not TOO practical tho!
Jan 13th 2011
48
           RE: wait. not TOO practical tho!
Jan 13th 2011
63
           she hates valentines day tho
Jan 13th 2011
66
                iono, i still don't believe people can HATE vday
Jan 13th 2011
74
                     some people just don't like shit like that
Jan 13th 2011
82
                     she probably don't...
Jan 13th 2011
97
                          lol u kno!?!?
Jan 13th 2011
102
get her something anyway...
Jan 13th 2011
43
same answer as #28. it depends whether or not she REALLY
Jan 13th 2011
46
she really hates it, as in she's anti-commercial
Jan 13th 2011
80
Cook her a helluva meal (like major), with dessert, then pop on her
Jan 13th 2011
146
GUUUUD DICK ANYWAY
Jan 13th 2011
151
quality time
Jan 13th 2011
178
ladies, may i pose this question to the panel?
Jan 13th 2011
24
get over it and enjoy life. nm
Jan 13th 2011
32
and she's wondering when you'll chill the fuck out.
Jan 13th 2011
36
i got em out the trash
Jan 13th 2011
39
nothin.
Jan 13th 2011
37
she aint changing. now what?
Jan 13th 2011
38
lol@
Jan 13th 2011
62
its your issue not hers
Jan 13th 2011
99
lol, you sound like my ex. he was NUTS abt cleanliness and I'm
Jan 13th 2011
173
oh...i'd give him a heart attack
Jan 13th 2011
342
      exactly. there is no way you can get it ALL up
Jan 13th 2011
348
It's your issue. Get a plastic bin or a large basket
Jan 13th 2011
365
imma have to disagree with most of the women up there
Jan 13th 2011
393
another ?
Jan 13th 2011
33
never.
Jan 13th 2011
40
15% of the time it may be true
Jan 13th 2011
45
RE: 15% of the time it may be true
Jan 13th 2011
55
      i think 3 is a good number
Jan 13th 2011
76
she's just not that into you
Jan 13th 2011
proceed with caution...
Jan 13th 2011
57
it aint a good time because there is someone else she likes more
Jan 13th 2011
103
for me, it is that I am just not interested in you
Jan 13th 2011
it usually means she's not interested in you like that. HOWEVER
Jan 13th 2011
218
I'm in a bad time mode myself
Jan 13th 2011
409
Why are ya'll so picky in regards to food yet want us to choose
Jan 13th 2011
44
we like to let a man be a man but where aint all used to it
Jan 13th 2011
49
Yo, this right here drives me up a wall...
Jan 13th 2011
101
      i been there bruh.....i still dont get it....lol
Jan 13th 2011
116
      how bout this: "okay, babe, first though tell me what ure NOT in the moo...
Jan 13th 2011
131
           LMAO! When I say that, she just ends up choosing!
Jan 13th 2011
143
                well, that's a win for u then right? big picture, marbles!
Jan 13th 2011
209
                     Damn...good point.
Jan 13th 2011
253
      u shld KNOW she doesnt like chicken.
Jan 13th 2011
129
i make decisions at work all day
Jan 13th 2011
50
i'm the annomaly here. i always wanna choose :(
Jan 13th 2011
52
Cause i dont want your ass giving the side eye...lol
Jan 13th 2011
67
as a virgo, just make the decision and tell her ass next time
Jan 13th 2011
105
because yall paying :P
Jan 13th 2011
230
Why do ya'll(generally) have such a fear of non-commitment?
Jan 13th 2011
47
cuz a dude will use u until u aint got no more nectar left
Jan 13th 2011
51
so true
Jan 13th 2011
60
amen
Jan 13th 2011
85
cuz i want security
Jan 13th 2011
58
I don't understand the question.
Jan 13th 2011
68
it saves hurt feelings
Jan 14th 2011
449
best way to get off into some non regular sex shit.
Jan 13th 2011
54
many weeks of dancing around the subject to gauge interest
Jan 13th 2011
59
u gonna have to initiate a convo abt fantasies
Jan 13th 2011
65
suggest it after she's already 'finished'
Jan 13th 2011
70
start off by askin to fuck in allat JUNK yawl got layin around..then
Jan 13th 2011
158
lol @t his question coming from you. . .
Jan 14th 2011
443
why ya'll do sneeky shit, talk to your girls about it..
Jan 13th 2011
61
if men cld accept women more as sexual beings, this wldnt be a problem.
Jan 13th 2011
69
huhn?
Jan 13th 2011
81
personally, I don't do this:
Jan 13th 2011
84
      iontneetha...
Jan 13th 2011
166
Why ya'll hate just telling a nigga you like em n shit?
Jan 13th 2011
64
because sometimes dudes take advantage of that
Jan 13th 2011
71
cuz u supposed to tell us first.
Jan 13th 2011
72
cuz that's what ur supposed to do. we're waiting for it
Jan 13th 2011
77
hahahaaaaa this is so me
Jan 13th 2011
78
That bullshit...lol...okay here's an example of the shit I deal with
Jan 13th 2011
134
      haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Jan 13th 2011
264
           lmao @ this
Jan 13th 2011
379
cause niggas like a chase
Jan 13th 2011
86
wrong place
Jan 13th 2011
94
.
Jan 13th 2011
108
i was bout to say!
Jan 13th 2011
110
i think niggas who like to chase everything like a chase
Jan 13th 2011
135
Yeah I dont get the whole ''chase theor'' if you ain't meeting me half
Jan 13th 2011
139
we'll meet half way
Jan 13th 2011
271
      No doubt! That's what a man suppose to do...
Jan 13th 2011
395
so if u see an attractive lady
Jan 13th 2011
140
      i'm not sure what you mean by that
Jan 13th 2011
160
           lmao @ i'd be shocked and impressed with the wildness of the night
Jan 13th 2011
167
                you wake up some mornings and all you can do is laugh
Jan 13th 2011
206
am I odd for hating a chase?
Jan 13th 2011
162
not all niggaz lol
Jan 14th 2011
457
think of it this way:
Jan 13th 2011
107
cuz yawl take that shit..RUN with it..and fuck it ALL up to pieces
Jan 13th 2011
186
Because then they won't pursue us and think theyre 'sposed to get
Jan 13th 2011
249
because you aren't what they had in mind
Jan 13th 2011
346
Okay, My ?
Jan 13th 2011
73
it's hard to straight up reject someone sometimes
Jan 13th 2011
83
cuz she a punk btch
Jan 13th 2011
87
you're prolly a backup. there's someone else
Jan 13th 2011
89
because she may just be busy
Jan 13th 2011
95
if she got a man...
Jan 13th 2011
111
      lol why do men who are in relationships accept #'s and offer dates??
Jan 13th 2011
149
           Smh
Jan 13th 2011
156
           lol what??
Jan 13th 2011
180
           Yeah, that was a no brainer lol...
Jan 14th 2011
484
i hate hurting folks feelings :(
Jan 13th 2011
114
is it true women tell their friends EVERYTHING?
Jan 13th 2011
75
i know i dont.
Jan 13th 2011
88
i don't
Jan 13th 2011
90
while i tell a lot, i keep the real sensitive stuff to myself
Jan 13th 2011
92
Not true for me
Jan 13th 2011
96
let's just say that if our friends' brains could connect them
Jan 13th 2011
100
Well said. nm
Jan 13th 2011
121
      Thx. I was worried that I didn't make sense again. :-)
Jan 13th 2011
130
some do some don't
Jan 13th 2011
106
only time i did was when i was on the outs with dude
Jan 13th 2011
118
some do...
Jan 13th 2011
120
I.dont.tell.nobody.shyt.
Jan 13th 2011
123
NO!
Jan 13th 2011
165
Jan 13th 2011
190
not until we break up. then all your secrets are out
Jan 13th 2011
254
not everything...
Jan 13th 2011
260
those who answered no to this question, a rose to you.
Jan 14th 2011
428
Ehh, there's a lot I don't tell my girls, especially when it comes
Jan 15th 2011
495
The phrase, "Well, it makes sense to me."
Jan 13th 2011
79
we mean it.
Jan 13th 2011
91
dont be like that, marbles. lol though.
Jan 13th 2011
93
it means that it'd make sense to you too, but we ain't 'bout to
Jan 13th 2011
104
^^^
Jan 13th 2011
112
LOL...I mean it when i say it
Jan 13th 2011
113
if you've ever been interested in a man sexually
Jan 13th 2011
109
thats a good question
Jan 13th 2011
115
i think this just happened to me :-(
Jan 14th 2011
445
      am I the only person looking at that picture like "C'mon titty"?
Jan 14th 2011
481
           nope!
Jan 14th 2011
486
eww. I can't answer this one.
Jan 13th 2011
117
u gotta put it on a pedestal
Jan 13th 2011
119
lol @on the glass
Jan 13th 2011
122
      lol i kno i read it wrong i'm so disappointed
Jan 13th 2011
125
           lmao
Jan 13th 2011
133
shut up. dont say anything stupid. and pay attn to my cue.
Jan 13th 2011
126
pay attention
Jan 13th 2011
137
play a game of out-flirting
Jan 13th 2011
145
i was direct, but i aint going into detail...
Jan 13th 2011
397
this nigga tried to get them to crack the davinci code and shit
Jan 14th 2011
427
      lol it was worth a shot!
Jan 14th 2011
429
Why every time we pour a glass of juice/water/soda/whatever
Jan 13th 2011
124
we don't want yall to see us drinking because we might
Jan 13th 2011
127
pour two cups, bamma.
Jan 13th 2011
128
'cuz yours tastes better n*gga
Jan 13th 2011
132
Yo, I think women really bellieve this too!!!
Jan 13th 2011
152
      it's true
Jan 13th 2011
163
           i swear that peanut headed girl be sayin the same dumb isht
Jan 13th 2011
170
                she luhh you. be noice, and use a bigger glass next time.
Jan 13th 2011
176
lol cuz we didnt know we wanted it until we saw it
Jan 13th 2011
136
We are eeeeeeaaaaasy.....
Jan 13th 2011
341
      so yeah...
Jan 13th 2011
390
WHY LAWD! why do they do this shit?!
Jan 13th 2011
142
cuz u just reminded me i'm thirsty!
Jan 13th 2011
147
Shoulda asked her if she wanted something to drink too
Jan 13th 2011
179
cuz it's REATTTTY to drank....
Jan 13th 2011
205
Second ?
Jan 13th 2011
138
lol. I have to agree with you there.
Jan 13th 2011
141
i do have trouble remembering people's names
Jan 14th 2011
482
hmmmmmmmmmm yeah its not endearment if
Jan 13th 2011
153
i use the terms with everyone ... but the SO doesnt get
Jan 13th 2011
161
it depends
Jan 13th 2011
168
some pple just use it like "dude"
Jan 13th 2011
320
If I ask you what's wrong, then dammit I don't know whatchu mad about
Jan 13th 2011
150
*teeheehee* cuz u should just know.
Jan 13th 2011
154
U forgot to put a 'DAMMIT' at the end of that, sis
Jan 13th 2011
211
WHY the fuck would niggas "just know?" wtf? I have
Jan 14th 2011
479
because you SHOULD know
Jan 13th 2011
155
I don't know bc ya'll be mad over some simple shit that we wouldn't
Jan 13th 2011
191
      it's not about the trash
Jan 13th 2011
275
PREACH!
Jan 13th 2011
164
You da'one that made me mad in the 1st place. You should know.
Jan 13th 2011
171
Cause experience has taught her that
Jan 13th 2011
174
basically
Jan 13th 2011
184
That's just plain ol dumb (not calling you dumb)...
Jan 13th 2011
328
      Not really i KNOW men who
Jan 13th 2011
335
           Lol but you do know most times we don't know why the hell yall mad
Jan 13th 2011
376
why don't u know tho? cuz u prolly JUST fucked up
Jan 13th 2011
175
#191
Jan 13th 2011
198
pay better attn or get better memory.
Jan 13th 2011
316
Because you latch onto the wrong part of the explanation.
Jan 13th 2011
      right
Jan 13th 2011
      right
Jan 13th 2011
400
Third ?
Jan 13th 2011
159
none of that matters if there's no chemistry
Jan 13th 2011
183
that shit right there for ME
Jan 13th 2011
187
this answer varies, also. one of my male friends told me that
Jan 13th 2011
193
not much
Jan 13th 2011
194
^^^great answer^^^
Jan 13th 2011
215
thanks I wasn't sure if I got that out clearly.
Jan 13th 2011
242
agreed.
Jan 13th 2011
315
well....
Jan 13th 2011
200
100%
Jan 13th 2011
202
its the qualities in the man that earn those things...
Jan 13th 2011
401
man I want to ask so much...
Jan 13th 2011
169
hey, we r n here holdn yall down.
Jan 13th 2011
185
I think I'm gonna inbox the questions because
Jan 13th 2011
307
just go on and ask, silly.
Jan 13th 2011
314
RE: Fellas: We Telling The Game Too
Jan 13th 2011
177
she must be young...
Jan 13th 2011
181
she has a boyfriend. let it go
Jan 13th 2011
if u fall all the way back, she'll look for u
Jan 13th 2011
207
she has a boyfriend and is afraid of getting caught. youre only
Jan 13th 2011
267
      good answer.
Jan 13th 2011
357
Fourth ?
Jan 13th 2011
182
*I* believe dudes get over me
Jan 13th 2011
195
no one gets over me. i'm the bomb
Jan 13th 2011
199
so you're basically artificially propping up your ego?
Jan 13th 2011
208
      yes... and i'm ashamed. nm
Jan 13th 2011
284
mmm, I don't do this either:
Jan 13th 2011
203
not really lol. i think men and women are the same 'bout this tho
Jan 13th 2011
210
lol...damn i dont that shit
Jan 13th 2011
214
RE: lol...damn i dont that shit
Jan 13th 2011
238
yes, if that's what he's told me...
Jan 13th 2011
220
ego? truth. LOL. nah, that's not gender-specific.
Jan 13th 2011
278
has a man ever worn you down?
Jan 13th 2011
188
YES..they do
Jan 13th 2011
196
yes but it doesnt last.
Jan 13th 2011
225
lol no
Jan 13th 2011
227
you know this is a yes right?
Jan 13th 2011
241
      yes... wear down is def not what happened
Jan 13th 2011
248
yes.
Jan 13th 2011
233
yes
Jan 13th 2011
234
No.
Jan 13th 2011
236
yeah but never to red hot levels.
Jan 13th 2011
244
yes. like, I can not like the guy but his persistance makes me pay
Jan 13th 2011
245
yes... *deep sigh*
Jan 13th 2011
266
Only once.
Jan 13th 2011
272
NO
Jan 13th 2011
349
What's the best way to tell your lady you want/need more sex?
Jan 13th 2011
189
do u initiate sex with her? and shes always turning you down?
Jan 13th 2011
201
RE: do u initiate sex with her? and shes always turning you down?
Jan 13th 2011
213
if it was me. id tell her ass to get with the program
Jan 13th 2011
222
      Yeah, probably not a good fit for my situation...n/m
Jan 13th 2011
270
           Then my responsible answer would be to advise her
Jan 13th 2011
273
                LOL!!!! sounds like a bank transaction
Jan 13th 2011
351
^^^ THREESOME!!!!
Jan 13th 2011
350
make her want it. make her feel sexy
Jan 13th 2011
219
be more sexy. and u know what's sexy?
Jan 13th 2011
223
All that gets is a pat on the back...and a shutdown next time I try...
Jan 13th 2011
263
two part strategy:
Jan 13th 2011
224
communication...thats the only way
Jan 13th 2011
235
thats a big jump
Jan 13th 2011
243
Initiate.
Jan 13th 2011
246
      Don't know. It's pretty much settled there.
Jan 13th 2011
261
           nm
Jan 13th 2011
423
           in your particular situation, there's sometheing else going on
Jan 14th 2011
485
why wont y'all throw that busted up moo moo you sleep in away?
Jan 13th 2011
192
Niggas wear the same holey/faded drawls
Jan 13th 2011
204
do you wanna see what EYE sleep in?
Jan 13th 2011
221
      no need...EYE already know
Jan 13th 2011
229
      yes please sir.
Jan 13th 2011
239
it's comfy. buy something else then or hush.
Jan 13th 2011
216
the isth I bought her that SHE PICKED OUT is in the drawer
Jan 13th 2011
231
is it warm?
Jan 13th 2011
292
agreed! the best way to say good bye to the old clothes is
Jan 13th 2011
240
cuz it's comfortable.
Jan 13th 2011
226
cus sometimes our womenhood is ON and we don't wanna be
Jan 13th 2011
228
hahahahaaa i made it a point
Jan 13th 2011
237
ROFL!!!!!!!
Jan 13th 2011
353
I'm Aint! It aint sexy in the least but my mama gave it to me....
Jan 13th 2011
403
damn this blew up!
Jan 13th 2011
197
niggas is confused!
Jan 13th 2011
212
yeah...in YOUR face...LOL.
Jan 13th 2011
217
yall just want answers
Jan 13th 2011
232
im glad im not like some of yall women in here.
Jan 13th 2011
247
unecessary.....
Jan 13th 2011
250
lol right....
Jan 13th 2011
256
lol yea
Jan 13th 2011
258
oop!
Jan 13th 2011
268
its unnecessary
Jan 13th 2011
277
b u then, girl, b u!
Jan 13th 2011
252
oh, i am im just saying
Jan 13th 2011
285
      nobody's taking offense it just wasn't necessary
Jan 13th 2011
293
           no where did i put anyone down.
Jan 13th 2011
300
           lol yea right
Jan 13th 2011
317
                *rolls eyes*
Jan 13th 2011
323
                     i hear what youre saying
Jan 13th 2011
336
           and callin people HEFFAS at that
Jan 13th 2011
333
                right
Jan 13th 2011
354
                     co sign @
Jan 13th 2011
360
i love these post cause you realize....everyone is different
Jan 13th 2011
269
exactly!
Jan 13th 2011
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yay?
Jan 13th 2011
286
yes yay
Jan 13th 2011
296
      this actually seemed nasty or at the very least not relevant or useful.
Jan 13th 2011
309
           nevermind, im not even gonna say anything
Jan 13th 2011
318
                that is way too dramatic.
Jan 13th 2011
322
                     my bad i mean to mean MY opinion wasnt useful
Jan 13th 2011
327
                     well said
Jan 13th 2011
330
i'm glad i'm not like yooooouuuu
Jan 13th 2011
287
me too! :)
Jan 13th 2011
306
      hehee
Jan 13th 2011
321
if i was moderator, i'd delete this whole string of replies. let's stop...
Jan 13th 2011
369
Can you stop trying to make me be friends w/your girl's man?
Jan 13th 2011
251
it would be just so perfect if y'all became homies!
Jan 13th 2011
255
lol!!! Imma be straight up....
Jan 13th 2011
259
a man can get along with another man and still not like dude.....
Jan 13th 2011
364
see i dont do this...lol
Jan 13th 2011
262
Nigga.....LMAO
Jan 13th 2011
265
if you would just ALLOW your girl to have a girls night out...
Jan 13th 2011
276
girl's night out? I'm all for that, cuz then I can go out
Jan 13th 2011
367
      lol. well its more b/c guys want us to hang out with them & their
Jan 13th 2011
408
but but but we wanna go on double dates! fine, make me look bad.
Jan 13th 2011
282
i dont trust
Jan 13th 2011
294
HE LIKES BASEBALL TOO!
Jan 13th 2011
326
but you ain't GOT no dang friends
Jan 13th 2011
356
LMAO.....homerun my nigg
Jan 13th 2011
388
in case they haven't said it already..bc they want him to rub off on u
Jan 13th 2011
413
I understand
Jan 14th 2011
450
That shit is the worst. I don't want to know that nigga.
Jan 14th 2011
480
do ya'll really want honesty outside of relationships?
Jan 13th 2011
257
ungh. honesty, i guess. but only cuz it'll come out eventually
Jan 13th 2011
274
of course.
Jan 13th 2011
279
i enjoy it and prefer it. even if most dont, they need it.
Jan 13th 2011
280
i don't understand. do we want yall to be honest w/ us?
Jan 13th 2011
290
honesty, please
Jan 13th 2011
295
yes but it doesn't mean be an asshole though
Jan 13th 2011
370
I can only speak for me
Jan 15th 2011
496
and why don't half of ya'll wanna get married anymore?
Jan 13th 2011
281
they lying.
Jan 13th 2011
288
^^^
Jan 13th 2011
371
i want to
Jan 13th 2011
297
well do you?
Jan 13th 2011
298
i do. i know what i wanna name my kids and all that.
Jan 13th 2011
308
      did you really like her?
Jan 13th 2011
319
           not really
Jan 13th 2011
345
                so it was more about the argumentativeness
Jan 13th 2011
380
                     i wouldn't even say the argumentativeness
Jan 13th 2011
384
                          i feel you. i got family members like that.
Jan 13th 2011
391
because most have found out not everyone understands
Jan 13th 2011
301
because things fall apart...
Jan 13th 2011
303
thats so sad
Jan 13th 2011
311
      for the most part, yes...
Jan 13th 2011
332
           at a certain point i could agree with this
Jan 13th 2011
352
                yeah, it's not for everyone...
Jan 13th 2011
366
a lot of women still want to get married. but I think that its
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those are lies
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because yall stuck in the 50s! lol, marriage benefits men more than
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Addendum: the only thing women want is a WEDDING and the status
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i wonder if being a husband is that much more glamorous
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for men of a certain age, yes it is.
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      it'll never be 50/50.
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speak for yourself. thats not the case for a host of women
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      oh, okay. I should've said a LOT of women. my reasons for wanting
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           i know a lot of those same kinda women
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                RE: i know a lot of those same kinda women
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                     and i didn't wanna say that but i agree
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                          I'm not even really talking abt just the bridezillas
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thank you
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ya'll gotta stop fucking with selfish Negros
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everybody aint grown like you, boo.
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      some are just old fashioned
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           yeah, they think once they put a ring on it they can just come home
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Scout....i luh u like a cheesesteak w/erything and hots but yoh
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      i'm just speaking the truth how i see it, lol. how many men do u know
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because half of them got in they head they wont marry
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They don't know how to be married w/o losing themselves.
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my query is a bit trivial, but important nonetheless
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i needed a 57th.
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accept
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i wouldn't share brushes.
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couple of reasons: because your brush is good for making pony tails
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Because yall brushes feel swell
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from reading this.... women love us more than we love ourselves
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^^^^gets it. finally someone gets it.
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yes @
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we do...
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broken in brush syndrome...
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How can you not see that he wants to sleep with you?
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oh, we know.
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i was honestly surprised. until i wasnt.
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it's not about not seeing it
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exactly. men will fuck anything with a vagina.
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So it's friend or lover from the get-go and no in-between?
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      yea for the most part.
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      truth.com
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      yessir!
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      exactly
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      well, for me I prefer to be friends first, if I really like a guy.
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perfect summation. and to add on, it might be gross to even think
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I don't always see it but just because he wants to
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Or Lord they know...please trust they know
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depends
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i didnt for the longest. its depressing to think someone you value
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i realize that i think more like a man...
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Have you ever regretted NOT hollering back at a guy who was...
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just thought this today
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That's what it seems like with men vs women
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      yeah pretty much... my thing is
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Never. Although in some instances, I wish I had been a little more
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if women are SO hard to get along with that *most of ur friends are men*
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Mmm. I think that men have a more difficult time feeling comfortable
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actually i meant....if women have such a hard time in a friendship...
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Got damn if I haven't said that before
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so hard for you to get
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      it's not hard for ME...i'm referring to women's friendships w/women.
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why cant you be wrong?
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cause you like crazy
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it was metaphorical
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i can
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Lol. I don't do this one. I can be wrong.
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huh? I admit I'm wrong all the time. I don't have any shame
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How come ya'll niggas never flush? Seriously.
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I don't think I understand ur question. All of the women I know flush.
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How come ya'll so shy about farting and shitting?
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hold up, this question & the one above it don't even correlate.
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      there's always PEE in the toilet. Always!
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Why do ya'll footrace with your homegirls don't don't even like..
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Sorry, I don't do this one either. I can only speculate that
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Why in fuck do ya'll take such HOT ASS BATHS/SHOWERS?
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the steam loosens the natural curls in my hair
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Omg!!! THIS question resonates with me! I love, love, love hot baths
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a HOTHOTHOT shower w/ great water pressure is pure heaven
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its relaxing
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Tell us the proper way to complement your boobs
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do i know u?
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so taking your hand gently & saying "GOD IS GOOD" is not the move?
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      if don't in the right spirit...
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:-)
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Lol. Never do that.
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You don't. Unless said sweater is lying on the floor by
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'
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Now for a serious question. Why such the objection to ejaculate?
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no objections here. my pleasure, in fact.
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Do you mean such an objection to you ejaculating?
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Recommendation more than a question
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does she notice...
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She does
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can u clarify this a little bit more?
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O_o yeah
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Clarification for the ladies
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if she's willin...
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She is
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      awwww, c'mere...
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           TRADE
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                lol
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                naw naw brother...
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no. get her a sitter. go out to dinner.
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tough call...
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Ohhhhh. Well, if you have a cousin who is in college, maybe you can
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what?
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spa?
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She went last week
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take a weekend off. ALL of yall. pack up the wife and baby and
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take Saturdays
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Keeping silent for the most part, just reading. Thank you all,
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GENDER WA....... Meetingz?! well allright.
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why dont women just want to be friends anymore?
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you ain't trying to make new friends.
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were u already friends with both people
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OMG, I feel like an idiot. I just replied all up in the post not
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wild wild wild wild wild hunnids
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bestflava1
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1. "Let the games begin"
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!!!!!!

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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2. "eh, why not. "
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they'll forget what we said 10 minutes
after we've said it anyway.

rocknrolla.

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Yall. when a mod deletes ur nice pretty reply from a post in which the OP has replied,
what do u think that means?

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3. "yup...lol"
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.

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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5. "they threw a fit last time we did this. i still have no idea why"
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but it was hilarious

here's hoping for a round 2

  

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6. "or the No Ma'am Crew will be up in here trying discredit us"
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But who cares?...let's get it!

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4. "I got an hour to kill. let's do it."
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7. "When y'all say 'Talk to me'...... "
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What da heck does that mean?????????

We usually have nothing to talk about...... why don't a lot of y'all understand that?



  

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9. "baby talk"
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nm

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nayaa
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13. "she wants to connect with you"
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we're not looking for some deep, long discussion

just talk to her about your day. or better yet, ask her about hers. give her your full, undivided attention for 10 minutes and she'll be happy.

  

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15. "she wants to connect on an emotional level"
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she wants you to tell her about thoughts you are having lately
so dig deep, my brotha... i am sure you can find your feelings somewhere down n that gut

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20. "make up some shit to talk about then, like yo' feelings."
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28. "it depends. most women have "antennas" so we can "
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sense that something is bothering you. often times, we can
sense this even when you are not aware that something is bother
you (perhaps you are suppressing the emotion).

maybe your brow is frowed. maybe you are not smiling as much
as you usually. maybe you seem distracted.

it's best just to thoughtfully ask her, "why do you think that there is something that I'm not talking about?"

if she is just being playful and you have nothing to talk about, I suggest you just recite her favorite poem to her. this way, she can feel like you are talking to her, spending quality time AND she'll be tickled pink.



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Yall. when a mod deletes ur nice pretty reply from a post in which the OP has replied,
what do u think that means?

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98. "i like this answer."
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35. "two things..."
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either we can sense something is wrong

or we want your attention...

  

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53. "be real and just talk abt what's on ur mind"
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please dont say "nothing." cuz that's a lie, boy.

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"OMG, I wish I had that problem"


  

          


cuz this nigga won't shut up...


  

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172. "entertain me with stories of your youth or some kind of convo, that jus ..."
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http://flic.kr/p/95sHZD
^^^^Me!

Knowledge of the self is the mother of all knowledge. So it is incumbent on me to know my self, to know it completely, to know its minutiae, its characteristics, its subtleties, and its very atoms ~ Kahlil Gibran

  

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398. "start singing "Come and Talk to Me" and then tickle her. she laughs"
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and if you can actually sing it might get you some.
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8. "men dont care..."
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*smh* lol

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10. "END POAST"
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11. "^^^^^best answer "
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12. "maybe?"
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maybe its me care about what men want to care about, not everything the world wants us to care about.
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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sunshine_dawkins
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17. "right"
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i reckon we will have ten times as many inquiries as yall will
we r just analyzers like that

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Dr Claw
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16. "I do."
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if there's a path that doesn't involve "the bullshit"
I'd like to be able to parse it w/minimal trial and error.

  

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19. "aaaaaaaawwwwwww"
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thats sweet and rare lol

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148. ":)"
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_____________________

hello, lover.

  

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452. "that's dope."
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gives me hope.

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18. "if only that was true they wld stay off my phone with questions,"
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Thu Jan-13-11 03:33 PM by bonamie

  

          

and stories i done heard before with the names/dates changed, blah blah blah
but let me suspend reality cuz we on okp?
nah.
men care.
they prolly care more than we do.

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22. "i've had equal parts both"
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some men r just like "listen, feed me, fuck me, let me watch the game in peace and we will stay married forever happily."

but yeah, some men r more in touch with other parts of themselves than society lets on...

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bonamie
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31. "most."
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>but yeah, some men r more in touch with other parts of
>themselves than society lets on...

and those that dont r suppressing it
and crazy anyway
but some of us r gluttons for punishment for some reason
glwt

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34. "its like punishment has whipped cream and cherries on it. nm"
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bonamie
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56. "no thanks."
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27. "Right. Plus the women tried this before"
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And all of their answers were batshit crazy.

☺☻

"i'm doing good, can i put my face in your buttcrack?" (c) P.Inf

"frankly, I think it's foolish to have a cat or a baby, but whatever" (c) veritas

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42. "9 outta 10 times we don't. that 1 time is usually a fiasco tho. lol"
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144. "Addendum: It's not that we don't care, we just care differently...."
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I think women are more interested process-wise. The whereto's and whyfor's.

Men are just more goal oriented. All that female game stuff is whatever, at the end of the day, we are just interested in the end result: either you fucks with us or you don't. Either we're dating or not. Either you're going to sleep with us or not.

How we get there isn't as of much importance to most dudes, as long as we get to where we wanna go.
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157. "We know that an "average" of the answers..."
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...of a bunch of random women hold no real value.

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FLASH!!

  

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347. "really don't."
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http://youtu.be/5o37GORoKUQ

#htpw

  

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368. "^but yet....here ya'll r...O-KAY.^"
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385. "lol"
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425. "Base."
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Wonderl33t
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14. "What Valentines gift do you get for the GF who hates the holiday"
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I know it's a while off, just wondering

I'll be damned if I don't get her a gift, even though I despise the holiday, too.

<--- suck it

  

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nayaa
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21. "whatever u get, don't get the "usual" vday stuff"
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like red roses, candy and those ugly ass white teddy bears with the heart.

i'd get her something thoughtful. is there something small she's recently pointed out? a necklace?

  

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29. "especially this..."
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those ugly ass white teddy bears
>with the heart.


just don't do teddy bear period

now go runtelldat, ho.

  

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23. "dinner and a movie..."
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why give her a gift for a holiday she hates. unless she hates it because all of her boyfriends have been wack.

if that's the case, you have to show out.

Dinner at a NICE place, flowers, a card, a small token of your appreciation...like a necklace or a gift card to her fav store. don't buy a ring.

  

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25. "pay very close attn to anything she mentions that she likes or wants to ..."
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i mean very close attn
she'll tell u
she might hate the holiday becuz all others before u were not as thoughtful and caring as u seem to be
so relish in not being like the rest of ur buster ass peers
and go on and make her holiday nice
just dont do any cliche crappety crap like roses and teddy bears...i mean unless she likes that stuff

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26. "take her to a show/concert"
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that way u both hav fun

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30. "nothing lovey dovey"
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get her some random shit that she really wants or is too lazy to get for herself

like a laptop case or some shit lol (if she REALLY needs one she'll appreciate it because it'll show that you pay attention all while not getting too involved with the holiday)

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41. "haha nice...something practical she needs"
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that isn't necessarily V-Day related.

that's a good call.

<--- suck it

  

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nayaa
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48. "wait. not TOO practical tho!"
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like don't hook her up with a microwave or something

i think it still needs to be special

imo

  

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63. "RE: wait. not TOO practical tho!"
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haha that's true. And actually the first thing that came to mind (because I think of twisted things like this for comedy purposes) would be like deodorant or an exercise trampoline, and how horrible that would be.

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66. "she hates valentines day tho"
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people talkin about dinner and whatnot lol

she doesn't want to be in a place surrounded by people who LOVE valentines day lol

i think the kind of woman that hates THAT day would appreciate a practical gift...

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74. "iono, i still don't believe people can HATE vday"
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they just haven't had a good one

anyone's mind can be blown with a dope ass gift

  

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82. "some people just don't like shit like that"
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u can do nice stuff for them year round but if somebody dislikes V DAY i wouldn't pick that day to show out because ure just gonna end up being annoyed. Shit i get annoyed goin out on vday and i like the "holiday" lol

like i wouldn't take that risk do something extra nice the next weekend.

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97. "she probably don't..."
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like really, who's turning down gifts, lol

I hate christmas but still take the christmas bonus

  

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102. "lol u kno!?!?"
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i wouldn't even take my chances with that one

if she do i bet u her ass won't pretend like she doesn't like it next year!!

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43. "get her something anyway..."
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46. "same answer as #28. it depends whether or not she REALLY"
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does hate the holiday or if she is just saying
she hates the holiday.

to be on the safe side, just memorize her favorite
poem and recite it during a delicious meal that you
have cooked yourself. also, at the end of the night,
give her a framed copy of the poem signed by the author (if possible)

************The Sig************

Yall. when a mod deletes ur nice pretty reply from a post in which the OP has replied,
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80. "she really hates it, as in she's anti-commercial"
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she's a socialist who hates it because it is a made-up holiday. Kind of like how I hate the commercialization of Christmas (I'm not a socialist, though).

And she would love your poem idea, but I'm not sure how she would react because she knows me too well, lol.

>does hate the holiday or if she is just saying
>she hates the holiday.
>
>to be on the safe side, just memorize her favorite
>poem and recite it during a delicious meal that you
>have cooked yourself. also, at the end of the night,
>give her a framed copy of the poem signed by the author (if
>possible)


<--- suck it

  

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146. "Cook her a helluva meal (like major), with dessert, then pop on her"
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favorite chick flick, or whatever and watch it w/ her while you rub her feet. Offer unrequited head, if that's her thing, too.

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151. "GUUUUD DICK ANYWAY"
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that 'anyway' dick is the 'whassuppppp act of the millenium' cuhhh

OH...and a balloon..rose... or something

  

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178. "quality time"
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http://flic.kr/p/95sHZD
^^^^Me!

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24. "ladies, may i pose this question to the panel?"
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im a bit of a stickler for order & cleanliness. it drives me absolutely CRAZY to live in a junky non clean not good smelling crib.

normally hbic is on board w/ this, as logn as she doesnt have to participate in the reindeer games ie clean up.

which *I* would be cool w/ if she DIDNT FUCK SHIT UP

she comes in, kicks her shoes off. drops her coat. fucks the kitchen up after ive cleaned it. etc

ive done everything from hinting, begging, cajoling to putting her shoes in the trash (yeah i did that)

im @ a loss

i spoke w/ her sisters shes been like this. i swear i didnt notice this shit when we were dating

what can i do to alleviate this shit?

  

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32. "get over it and enjoy life. nm"
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36. "and she's wondering when you'll chill the fuck out."
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i.e. aint no end in sight

you're trying to change someone who's been this way for life

sorry

get used to it (like u aint already)


foh @ throwing her shoes out tho.

  

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39. "i got em out the trash"
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boy howdy that was a helluva an argument


i will work harder


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37. "nothin."
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38. "she aint changing. now what?"
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maybe get a bin for her to throw her shoes in and a rack for her coat
or learn to wait til Hurricane Wife comes in before u tidy up
LOL at the shoes in the trash
i NEVER thought i'd hear of anyone else doing that to someone
hahahahahaha

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62. "lol@"
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> to putting
>her shoes in the trash (yeah i did that)

mmhmm. yet, u was talkin smack when I put a dude's
dinner in the trash. *buzzer* u wrong.

>i swear i didnt
>notice this shit when we were dating

I'd say it's a bit late to change this behavior.

unless you can provide her some sort of incentive or
swap, I don't see this behavior changing.

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99. "its your issue not hers"
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so its something YOU gonna have to work on.

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173. "lol, you sound like my ex. he was NUTS abt cleanliness and I'm "
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not a dirty person by any stretch of the imagination.
for instance, one time our son flushed the toilet and flooded the bathroom. his daddy goes in there w/ bleach AND pinesol AND all sorts of other shit that could very well kill us all w/ the smell, THREW the rugs away, and was completely bugging out over perceived germs.
now, i was thankful that he was neat and liked to clean.
the problem was he was absolutely anal about it! i have a lot of hair. it's going to shed sometimes. He would pick up hair from the carpet in our bedroom bathroom and put in my sink (we had his and hers). stupid shit like that. and wanted to lock the house down every saturday for marathon cleaning sessions. i clean on friday nights, i aint spending all day saturday cleaning up.

anyway, enough about me, lol. However, if your wife is anything like me, you can't expect her to clean on YOUR time. and if she has come to expect you to do it...give up. she'll never do it, now. she's been pampered and conditioned. I didn't start mopping until we broke up and moved apart. that's more than 10 years never having mopped.

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342. "oh...i'd give him a heart attack"
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>He would pick up hair
>from the carpet in our bedroom bathroom and put in my sink (we
>had his and hers).


don't get me wrong i pick up what i can but i can't catch everything

also you have that problem doing laundry and your hair decides it's going to sew through your clothes?

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348. "exactly. there is no way you can get it ALL up"
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he used to have me in a panic abt hair falling on the floor. smh.

>don't get me wrong i pick up what i can but i can't catch
>everything
>
>also you have that problem doing laundry and your hair decides
>it's going to sew through your clothes?

lol, i just took some hair out of a towel i washed. it was in a huge ball hanging by a string.

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365. "It's your issue. Get a plastic bin or a large basket"
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Same time everyday/evening you and the kids pick up everything that's not where it should be and put it away. Takes about 15 minutes. Anything that belongs to her, put it in her bin.

When she wants to find her stuff, she knows where to go and you don't have to look at it cluttering up your space.

You're not going to change her anymore than she's going to change you. You're not her father so you trying to "teach" her anything is probably going to be met with resistance and resentment. You want something different, you're going to have to do it.

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393. "imma have to disagree with most of the women up there"
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i say hold firm
there must be compromise

but throwing shoes everywhere
messing up something that was just cleaned is inconsiderate

let her know she is being inconsiderate and it's hurting your feelings
maybe a new plan can be worked out

maybe there can be a mess area
and a clean area
and some kind of consideration for when work was just done and a person puts it out of order
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33. "another ?"
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When a woman cites "bad timing," "not looking for a relationship," "Going through personal stuff right now," etc. as reasons she ignores your attempts at contact, how often is there truth to that?

Meaning she is into you to some degree (even if it's barely), but for those reasons, she is not having it. My guess is approximately 0%.

This is not a current situation of mine, but it has happened to me many times in the past.

<--- suck it

  

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40. "never."
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how often is
>there truth to that?


there's never a "too busy" for someone i truly wanna be with.

  

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45. "15% of the time it may be true"
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usually though it's a nice way to say "no thanks" or "shut up and drop trough"
if she's ignoring contact though...stop calling, son...it's the former.

think abt these women u chasing
and try not to if this is a pattern

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55. "RE: 15% of the time it may be true"
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oh yeah, I don't keep calling. I can take a hint. I always stop after 2 unreturned calls/texts, 3 at the most if I am really into her.

Then they get back to me 1-2 weeks later (sometimes even later than that) to apologize and tell me why they ignored me.

Fortunately I have a long term girlfriend at the moment so these early-on dating antics are out of the question.

>usually though it's a nice way to say "no thanks" or "shut up
>and drop trough"
>if she's ignoring contact though...stop calling, son...it's
>the former.
>
>think abt these women u chasing
>and try not to if this is a pattern


<--- suck it

  

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76. "i think 3 is a good number"
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>Then they get back to me 1-2 weeks later (sometimes even later
>than that) to apologize and tell me why they ignored me.

maybe they had to get rid of Tyrone first
LOL

>
>Fortunately I have a long term girlfriend at the moment so
>these early-on dating antics are out of the question.

:0)
good luck!

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"she's just not that into you"


  

          

if its someone i'm feelin on every level, he got me open, theres nothing i wouldnt do to make it work unless i already got a man

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57. "proceed with caution..."
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103. "it aint a good time because there is someone else she likes more"
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SuiteLady
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"for me, it is that I am just not interested in you"


  

          


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Knowledge of the self is the mother of all knowledge. So it is incumbent on me to know my self, to know it completely, to know its minutiae, its characteristics, its subtleties, and its very atoms ~ Kahlil Gibran

  

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218. "it usually means she's not interested in you like that. HOWEVER"
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it could also mean that she doesn't have the time or patience to give you the attention you desire. she could be wrapped up in a grillion things - work, school, family, starting a business...
and, while she may enjoy your company from time to time, she can't be devoted or otherwise bothered with trying to make a relationship work.
and it's a lot of work.

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b00g1e
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409. "I'm in a bad time mode myself"
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I can only think of one person that i would probably say yes to right now and that AINT happening. And even with him it would take some doing because I'm still not "ready"

So I say believe her...
you don't know how deep it goes or why she's not ready...

maybe she's dealing with a chronic illness
job loss
heavy school load
heavy work load

it could totally be legit.

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ambient1
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44. "Why are ya'll so picky in regards to food yet want us to choose "
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where to eat?


u know...why do ya'll hate when we say
'i dunno...where do YOU wanna go'

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bonamie
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49. "we like to let a man be a man but where aint all used to it"
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Thu Jan-13-11 03:41 PM by bonamie

  

          

and SOME OF YALL aint used to thinking for TWO instead of one
also though it's easier to say "you choose" than "you choose but you know i dont like chinese, chicken, mexican, or greek."
:0)




>u know...why do ya'll hate when we say
> 'i dunno...where do YOU wanna go'

CUZ IF I KNEW, I WLDNT HAVE ASKED YOU TO PICK
ugh

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Marbles
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101. "Yo, this right here drives me up a wall..."
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>also though it's easier to say "you choose" than "you choose
>but you know i dont like chinese, chicken, mexican, or
>greek."

My girl has finally adjusted to the fact that this shit annoys me to no end.

  

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ambient1
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116. "i been there bruh.....i still dont get it....lol"
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bonamie
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131. "how bout this: "okay, babe, first though tell me what ure NOT in the moo..."
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see, life is better already.

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Marbles
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143. "LMAO! When I say that, she just ends up choosing!"
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"OK, no Mexican, no Chinese, no Italian, no fast food, no steaks...I know!! Let's get seafood!! Yeah, that's what I'm in the mood for!"

*smh*

  

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bonamie
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209. "well, that's a win for u then right? big picture, marbles!"
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253. "Damn...good point."
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Thu Jan-13-11 04:40 PM by Marbles

  

          


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bonamie
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129. "u shld KNOW she doesnt like chicken."
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sunshine_dawkins
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50. "i make decisions at work all day"
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make decisions with family, my child, home... its just nice to let someone else handle it for me. someone i trust.

but then again. im not a picky eater. only thing i wont eat is dirt and puss.. so...

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nayaa
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52. "i'm the annomaly here. i always wanna choose :("
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Sha
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67. "Cause i dont want your ass giving the side eye...lol"
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most dudes aint worried about trying a gastropub!

You want it one way, when it's the other (c) Marlo Stansfield

  

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105. "as a virgo, just make the decision and tell her ass next time"
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if she aint like the taco truck, she better open her mouth and speak up.

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230. "because yall paying :P"
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_____________________

hello, lover.

  

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NoDrawls McGraw
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47. "Why do ya'll(generally) have such a fear of non-commitment?"
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https://chriswind.bandcamp.com/track/massage

"You can take an African out of Africa, but you can't take Africa out of the African"
Afro-Americana/Afro-Caribbana/Afro-Latino unite. We are ALL Black!

  

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bonamie
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51. "cuz a dude will use u until u aint got no more nectar left"
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and think not a damned thing of it

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sunshine_dawkins
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60. "so true"
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its like yall r programmed to 'take advantage' in positive and negative ways

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85. "amen"
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58. "cuz i want security"
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to know you publicly claim me as your girl

i dunno- maybe it goes back to the dawn of man
its just a good feeling

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68. "I don't understand the question."
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449. "it saves hurt feelings"
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I know too many women 5,7,12 years in the game still hoping the cat they with is gonna marry them.

HELL TO THE NO.

Like Bons says a nigga will go as far as you let him and not blink.

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54. "best way to get off into some non regular sex shit."
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say i wanna choke you.

or dress up as a policeman & arrest you when u walk in the door

how to execute this w/o causing yall to fall out into maniacal laughter


i will work harder


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laters

  

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nayaa
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59. "many weeks of dancing around the subject to gauge interest"
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make it seem like it's a mutual decision

then, choke away.

  

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bonamie
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65. "u gonna have to initiate a convo abt fantasies"
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yeah, i know u dont care abt hers but let her go first and then u can get into what u really started the convo for.

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sunshine_dawkins
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70. "suggest it after she's already 'finished'"
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in a sexy way about what u want to do the next time... then remind her about it in another flirty sexual way

but the context needs to already be sexual. bringing up as u pick her up from work will not do

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158. "start off by askin to fuck in allat JUNK yawl got layin around..then"
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get something off the floor..like a belt or something and tie her up with it...

start subtle...then go HERO on her

she'll love it

  

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443. "lol @t his question coming from you. . ."
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the best way to get that popping without suspicion or laughter is to have already been a freak from the get go. hell, the scenarios you described seem, "regular", contrived and mundane as hell. sowwy, binnie.

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61. "why ya'll do sneeky shit, talk to your girls about it.."
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pretend to be innocent ( i.e. contact ex's, over spend, , go OT with saying so, etc

but get mad at your dudes for not telling you everything?

<-- exits a post like...

  

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bonamie
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69. "if men cld accept women more as sexual beings, this wldnt be a problem."
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anyway, i really dont condone it for men or women
cuz we get caught waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay less but we can get caught

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81. "huhn?"
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im confused

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84. "personally, I don't do this:"
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>do sneeky shit, talk to your girls about it..

no witnesses. no problems.
but, I'm meticulous about my dirt.
most people are sloppy.

>pretend to be innocent ( i.e. contact ex's, over spend, , go
>OT with saying so, etc
>but get mad at your dudes for not telling you everything?

everybody does this. men/women.
we're just used to not getting caught
nor being held accountable.

************The Sig************

Yall. when a mod deletes ur nice pretty reply from a post in which the OP has replied,
what do u think that means?

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166. "iontneetha..."
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nexxxt...

  

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64. "Why ya'll hate just telling a nigga you like em n shit?"
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71. "because sometimes dudes take advantage of that"
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BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

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"I’m just a dreamer,
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Born to do good so others can be believers"

  

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72. "cuz u supposed to tell us first."
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:0)
:0(

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77. "cuz that's what ur supposed to do. we're waiting for it"
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78. "hahahaaaaa this is so me"
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vulnerable states make me feel funny... thats all

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134. "That bullshit...lol...okay here's an example of the shit I deal with"
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Okay lets just say you came to visit Lil E while she was down here right. We go to the bar or watever, we chilling tripping out and me and you just start having good conversation about anything. Now lets say I leave and go to the restroom or to get more drinks, while I'm gone you tell Lil E "girl I like him, I think he cute". The type of person I am wouldn't look at that as me flirting or none of that shit, its just me being a gentleman and having good conversation. But you thought it was a flirt and so now you're a lil open. Since it wasn't a flirt to me no I don't get your number or none of that shit, we were just having a good time. You leave go back to wherever the next day Lil E calls me on some "why you aint get Sunshine's numba? she was all about you", me *dumb look on face* "why she aint say shit"


Thats been my life for the past three months.

  

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264. "haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa"
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wow. did that happen? cuz u could tell me it did and i would believe u.

because until i know the feeling is mutual, i aint sayin shit. because just like you said, you see it as just being cool and having fun. i'm not gonna play myself and be like "i like you" and risk you looking at me like i just said i'm pregnant with your twin babies.

no nope. risky business in matters of the heart.
now what i WOULD do if i could tell you liked me or if i had an idea, i'd tell you that you like me and wait for you to agree. then i'd say "i like you too"

i know. im dumb

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379. "lmao @ this"
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>now what i WOULD do if i could tell you liked me or if i had
>an idea, i'd tell you that you like me and wait for you to
>agree. then i'd say "i like you too"
>
>i know. im dumb

  

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86. "cause niggas like a chase "
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period.

You want it one way, when it's the other (c) Marlo Stansfield

  

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94. "wrong place"
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Kuntry

  

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108. "."
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Thu Jan-13-11 03:55 PM by Sha

  

          

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You want it one way, when it's the other (c) Marlo Stansfield

  

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110. "i was bout to say!"
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135. "i think niggas who like to chase everything like a chase"
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so why even feed into that.
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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Big Kuntry
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139. "Yeah I dont get the whole ''chase theor'' if you ain't meeting me half "
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way it must not be worth it

  

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271. "we'll meet half way"
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but u have to get it started

and until we KNOW its safe... u will need to continue to start

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395. "No doubt! That's what a man suppose to do..."
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But all that a man gotta love me more than I love him bullshit is for the birds.

  

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140. "so if u see an attractive lady "
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at a party....she walks over to you and ask for your number...she hits you up that night and wanna "hang"...after that....are u going after her?

You want it one way, when it's the other (c) Marlo Stansfield

  

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MrThomas43423
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160. "i'm not sure what you mean by that"
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like do you mean the next day and i'm gonna call and everything? depends on the chemistry. thats a rare thing to happen to me, so i'd be shocked and impressed with the wildness of the night. and depending on how everything went, she might have a nigga open.

but thats like a whirlwind night and those are great. that's how people end up on marathon dates....throwning caution to the wind.

if she calls me and asks me do i wanna 'hang', then she obviously already wants to 'hang'. so i'm just fufilling the other side the equation.

>at a party....she walks over to you and ask for your
>number...she hits you up that night and wanna "hang"...after
>that....are u going after her?


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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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167. "lmao @ i'd be shocked and impressed with the wildness of the night"
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MrThomas43423
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206. "you wake up some mornings and all you can do is laugh"
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like what the fuck just happened? but its great. like one of those out the movies nights.
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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Darryl_Licke
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162. "am I odd for hating a chase?"
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but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
Binlahab is a bitch.
I wouldn't trust okp, some of them don't even get any anymore since the Re's stopped - Anonymous OKP

  

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peace3
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457. "not all niggaz lol"
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"The best index to a person's character is how he treats people who can't do him any good & how he treats people who can't fight back"-Abigail Van Buren

I'm Certified

  

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107. "think of it this way:"
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say that you LOVE your job and
would do it for free.
would you tell your boss that?

nooooo, you would not.

it's the same thing in relationships.
there is normally some sort of power struggle.
more importantly, we know that men need to feel
a sense of accomplishment.

************The Sig************

Yall. when a mod deletes ur nice pretty reply from a post in which the OP has replied,
what do u think that means?

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186. "cuz yawl take that shit..RUN with it..and fuck it ALL up to pieces"
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THAS why...

  

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249. "Because then they won't pursue us and think theyre 'sposed to get"
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nekkid on the first date.
just because we like you doesn't mean we don't want to get to know you better, more intimately, BEFORE we decide we're ready to fuck you.

_____________________

hello, lover.

  

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346. "because you aren't what they had in mind"
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when they thought they'd like someone
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When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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73. "Okay, My ? "
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What's up with a woman who won't tell you the deal straight up?

Like say you ask her out, she cancels once, but says hey I'll take a raincheck.

Then the next time has to cancel a but suggests another date for getting together. Then this happens one more time.

Why not just say you're not interested?
______________________________________________________________________________

"There's a fine line between persistence and foolishness..."
-unknown

"To Each His Reach"
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83. "it's hard to straight up reject someone sometimes"
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or maybe she's flaky, lazy, or just likes the attn when she wants the attn
either way, be thankful u found out she's a bamma early on and skate out.

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87. "cuz she a punk btch"
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sike hahahaa cuz she's a punk n doesnt want to hurt your feelings

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nayaa
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89. "you're prolly a backup. there's someone else "
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she doesn't want to lose u as an option

but someone else is currently occupying their time

OR

she's kinda interested but not overwhelmingly so. so she'll see u when she has no other plans

  

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Mahogany
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95. "because she may just be busy"
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u may not have earned ure place on her "priority" list

she may have a man

etc etc etc

same thing as when men do that...it depends.

BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

"people... please refrain from gnr'ing me. im an avid lol'er and am completely fine wit the service."

"I’m just a dreamer,
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Born to do good so others can be believers"

  

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111. "if she got a man..."
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why she excepting numbers & agreeing to go on dates?

  

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Mahogany
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149. "lol why do men who are in relationships accept #'s and offer dates??"
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some people are just trife

BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

"people... please refrain from gnr'ing me. im an avid lol'er and am completely fine wit the service."

"I’m just a dreamer,
turned true to life leaner...
Born to do good so others can be believers"

  

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156. "Smh "
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Mahogany
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180. "lol what??"
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BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

"people... please refrain from gnr'ing me. im an avid lol'er and am completely fine wit the service."

"I’m just a dreamer,
turned true to life leaner...
Born to do good so others can be believers"

  

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Goldmind
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484. "Yeah, that was a no brainer lol..."
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Like, why is the sky blue?? LOL

  

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VAsBestBBW
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114. "i hate hurting folks feelings :("
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--------------

@frawgystyle
IG = @frawgychurl

  

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75. "is it true women tell their friends EVERYTHING?"
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so its a good chance her homegirls/linesisters etc remember that time i cried while butt nekkid & know how big my penis is & etc

??


i will work harder


http://tinyurl.com/23yexkq

laters

  

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88. "i know i dont. "
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we aint the two and i aint the one- lyte

  

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90. "i don't"
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some info is super sacred and i know he'd be absolutely crushed if i told. but 90% yes

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nayaa
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92. "while i tell a lot, i keep the real sensitive stuff to myself"
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96. "Not true for me "
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i try to limit the amount of stuff i tell my friends about my bew. it's never a good look if u done told ya friends all the shady shit he's done and they looking at that nigga with the side eye.

I like to tell the positive.
as well.

You want it one way, when it's the other (c) Marlo Stansfield

  

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100. "let's just say that if our friends' brains could connect them"
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into 1 friend, then that 1 friend would know everything



but certain friends get certain info



NO 1 friend gets ALL the info


bas(eggs)ket = no bueno

  

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121. "Well said. nm"
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│♬ ♫ ♪ ♬ ♪ ♫ ♬│

  

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130. "Thx. I was worried that I didn't make sense again. :-)"
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Mahogany
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106. "some do some don't"
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if anything she may have ONE good friend that knows everything...if that's the case it depends on how much that person talks...lol

smart women don't do this.

BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

"people... please refrain from gnr'ing me. im an avid lol'er and am completely fine wit the service."

"I’m just a dreamer,
turned true to life leaner...
Born to do good so others can be believers"

  

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mwasi kitoko
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118. "only time i did was when i was on the outs with dude"
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i was kinda sabotaging shit at that point 'cause i knew he'd be upset with it.
otherwise then that, nah. like i'll put my people only a scenario we're going through
if its nothing too serious to see if i was tripping or not with my reaction
but i'm not giving away niggas dirty lil secrets to my homegirl(s).

www.royallegacy.org
http://therapfest.com/up-next-artists/

  

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120. "some do..."
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personally, what goes on in my house, stays in my house...

my mother told me a woman should never talk about her man to her friends...

even if he's a cheap bastard

  

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123. "I.dont.tell.nobody.shyt."
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ever.

no witnesses. no problems.

************The Sig************

Yall. when a mod deletes ur nice pretty reply from a post in which the OP has replied,
what do u think that means?

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165. "NO!"
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.

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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190. ""
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i'ma use that shit to DEAF

  

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254. "not until we break up. then all your secrets are out"
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_____________________

hello, lover.

  

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260. "not everything... "
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Dr Claw
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428. "those who answered no to this question, a rose to you."
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(and for the record, I don't think -that- kind of shit should be talked about from men to other men... not that I think they do that, it's kinda tacky IMO)

  

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495. "Ehh, there's a lot I don't tell my girls, especially when it comes "
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to me and my man. Not on some insecurity or anything, but I just respected the relationship. You can't build with somebody with your girls giving their two cents in. I just don't allow for the opportunity.




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Maintain chill at all times.

  

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Marbles
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79. "The phrase, "Well, it makes sense to me.""
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DO you all really know that the shit doesn't make a lick of sense and you just don't want to admit to being wrong or crazy? Or do you seriously mean it when you say it?

  

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91. "we mean it."
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bonamie
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93. "dont be like that, marbles. lol though."
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> DO you all really know that the shit doesn't make a lick of
>sense and you just don't want to admit to being wrong or
>crazy? Or do you seriously mean it when you say it?

this isnt gender-specific either
some pple just CANNOT be wrong
period.

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104. "it means that it'd make sense to you too, but we ain't 'bout to"
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sit here and explain it all, 'cuz you're smart enough to put two and two together n*gga.

  

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112. "^^^"
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dudes got a way of not putting two and two together when that shit is right there in front of them...it's like they don't wanna see the shit and try to make u think ure crazy lol

BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

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113. "LOL...I mean it when i say it "
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and i can admit when im wrong and dont make sense.

You want it one way, when it's the other (c) Marlo Stansfield

  

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109. "if you've ever been interested in a man sexually"
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but not relationshipually (lol)

what did (or should) he do to jump it off?

just come over w/ DVDs, oil, and condoms?
whip it out during dinner?

if you're too much of a lady to bring it up first
and he's too much of a gentlemant to ask straight out
how does he avoid the pitfalls of DATING you
when neither of you particularly wants to "date"?

***
when I come around, they frown
then wanna dap me down
but when I leave?

  

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115. "thats a good question"
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he should give her a massage then undress her and get it poppin... all u need is that first time then from now on just call each other and commence to poppin

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445. "i think this just happened to me :-("
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and now that we went
there i can see it going
further.

shit.

lol

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481. "am I the only person looking at that picture like "C'mon titty"?"
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<================================
http://www.flickr.com/photos/20787335@N08

  

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chi_soul
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486. "nope!"
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not at all good sir

  

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117. "eww. I can't answer this one. "
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anyone I just wanted to fuck, I just told them.

being coy wastes my time.

*shrugs*

************The Sig************

Yall. when a mod deletes ur nice pretty reply from a post in which the OP has replied,
what do u think that means?

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119. "u gotta put it on a pedestal"
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Thu Jan-13-11 03:59 PM by Mahogany

  

          

not on the glass!

TA DOW!!lmfao

but for real that's what you gotta do...women that don't do relationships only feel that way because they haven't been treated right in the past. It usually doesn't take much to impress woman like that (if you're a good dude in general)

Oh i read that wrong

but imma leave it because that put it on the pedestal not the glass was great lmao

but uh yea just go over and watch movies and drink liquor...it'll work itself out from there

try to have some dirty talk on the phone before if possible...nothin extra just lil shit to let her kno u tryin to fuck

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122. "lol @on the glass"
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but he dont want to date her

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125. "lol i kno i read it wrong i'm so disappointed"
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:-(

i thought that was great advice!

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133. "lmao"
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126. "shut up. dont say anything stupid. and pay attn to my cue."
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>what did (or should) he do to jump it off?

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137. "pay attention "
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Thu Jan-13-11 04:09 PM by Sha

  

          

and listen to the chick..

initially everyone has to date/meet, to get to the sex point but after meeting and connecting...

am i laughing at yo jokes?
am i touchy feely?
am i inviting you back to my spot?
am i making flirty innuendo?

yeah?
then it can pop off

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nayaa
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145. "play a game of out-flirting"
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get more and more sexual in the stuff u say

escalate/cool off depending on her response

if she's down, she'll roll with it

  

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397. "i was direct, but i aint going into detail..."
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427. "this nigga tried to get them to crack the davinci code and shit"
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lol

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429. "lol it was worth a shot!"
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man i think this is easily the best/most useful question up in this post.

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124. "Why every time we pour a glass of juice/water/soda/whatever"
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we turn to put the container in the fridge
turn back around to find yall gulping half our isht down?


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127. "we don't want yall to see us drinking because we might"
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not look pretty while doing it.

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128. "pour two cups, bamma."
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but things always taste better when u dont make them urself.

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132. "'cuz yours tastes better n*gga"
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152. "Yo, I think women really bellieve this too!!!"
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On the real though, I don't mind when she sneaks her fork over to my plate and grabs a bite of something. Sure, she should have said, "Yeah, can you get me some so-and-so." But at the end of the day, I'll share whatever I have with her.

  

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163. "it's true"
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yours tastes better

yours is colder

yours is warmer

yours is sweeter

yours has more kick

yours is spicier

yours is milder

yours is richer

yours is better n*gga

  

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170. "i swear that peanut headed girl be sayin the same dumb isht"
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gulpin all my cran apple juice n isht

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176. "she luhh you. be noice, and use a bigger glass next time."
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136. "lol cuz we didnt know we wanted it until we saw it"
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these questions are hilarious

women: why wont he marry me already!?

men: why yall be eatin my chips!?

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341. "We are eeeeeeaaaaasy..... "
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390. "so yeah..."
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we refuse to believe the truth... so? lol

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142. "WHY LAWD! why do they do this shit?!"
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me: im hungry. imma go up to mama sans & get some sushi. do you want something?

her: naw, im good.

me: you sure?

her: yeah.

me: you SURE you sure?!

her: gatdamn go head im watching oprah

*20 min later*

me: *walks in w/ 6 pack of cali rolls ready to make it happen*
*walks right by living room & goes directly to man cave*

her: *5 min later*....lemme get 1.


i will work harder


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nayaa
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147. "cuz u just reminded me i'm thirsty!"
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179. "Shoulda asked her if she wanted something to drink too"
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.

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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205. "cuz it's REATTTTY to drank...."
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this 'we' and 'our' shit turns to an OURRRRRRS forrreal if we sharin a fridge anyway....so u might as well gon make 2 servings....

  

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138. "Second ? "
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Women who use terms of endearment with EVERYONE.

Like "sweetheart", "honey" etc. If you use that with everyone and also with your sig. other, is it really a term of endearment?

Or are you just fishing to see who reacts to it?

(DISCLAIMER: I'm rephrasing a ? from a female friend on FB who thinks men who do this are being deceitful, players, liars...)
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141. "lol. I have to agree with you there."
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momma always told me that people who use those
terms with EVERYONE can't remember people's names.
lol.

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482. "i do have trouble remembering people's names"
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but not people I'm dating
I don't cheat
I'm just forgetful

also the boo always gets a nickname so...in the end it all works out

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153. "hmmmmmmmmmm yeah its not endearment if"
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its used with everyone

my man gets one unique name to him. never used before unless its babe or baby.

i like to say "hey, you" for a boo. some guys dont like it. they think i dont remember their name *smh* but i do. so i switch it up.

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161. "i use the terms with everyone ... but the SO doesnt get"
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what everyone else gets.

like, he will get his own.

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168. "it depends"
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your term can be upgraded at anytime depending on our relay


you can start off as sweetie and move up to babe

then go from babe to boo

then go from boo to bawse...

and there's some grey areas inbetween... LOL!

  

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320. "some pple just use it like "dude""
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i dont nor do i care for my dude to do it either
nah, son.

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150. "If I ask you what's wrong, then dammit I don't know whatchu mad about"
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The fuck you think I asked for? Why ya'll do that shit then three months later in an argument you bring up what you was mad about?

  

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154. "*teeheehee* cuz u should just know."
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and, we usually feel stupid making a big deal
about it at the time or we are too mad.

but, we still remember it months later. and,
by then we are more comfortable with talking
about it.

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211. "U forgot to put a 'DAMMIT' at the end of that, sis"
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...that makes it REAL

  

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479. "WHY the fuck would niggas "just know?" wtf? I have"
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A VIVID imagination. The last thing you want me to do is try to IMAGINE what could be wrong.

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155. "because you SHOULD know"
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otherwise u are not paying attention and u r not invested n whats going on

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191. "I don't know bc ya'll be mad over some simple shit that we wouldn't"
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be mad about. Shit like I forgot to take the garbage out before I went to work, just silly ass shit like that. Ya'll get heated over some bullshit like that like you found a chick sending me nekkid pics or sumfin.


Men ain't holding no all out grudges bc you tired from work and don't feel like cooking even though you said you were.

  

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275. "it's not about the trash"
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its about u not respecting our wishes, not listening to us, not taking us seriously

9 times out of 10 if i tell that nigga to guess why i'm mad, he knows. he just dont want to say the WRONG thing for me to have another reason to be mad. "you mean cuz i was lookn at tanisha butt!?" "nigga u was lookn at tanisha butt!?!?!"

just dont get mad cuz she's mad, if she's not willing to tell u then let it go until she is, but be regular. dont add fuel to the fire.

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164. "PREACH!"
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171. "You da'one that made me mad in the 1st place. You should know."
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174. "Cause experience has taught her that "
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when she does tell u whats wrong u dont really listen

as far as bringin it up later...thats just emotion. No calm resolution will come outta that

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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184. "basically"
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BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

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"I’m just a dreamer,
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328. "That's just plain ol dumb (not calling you dumb)..."
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but that's dumb.

Why bring it up if you don't wanna talk about it?

Keep that shit to yourself

  

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335. "Not really i KNOW men who "
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have asked their girl in HOPES she's not mad about he THINKS she's mad about

He dont really care......lol

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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376. "Lol but you do know most times we don't know why the hell yall mad"
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175. "why don't u know tho? cuz u prolly JUST fucked up"
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think back!

u not knowing makes us more mad

i often say 'nothing' cuz i'm tryna sort out the rage and figure out how it's gonna come out, when it's gonna come out, what the consequences are, etc.

  

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198. "#191"
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316. "pay better attn or get better memory."
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"Because you latch onto the wrong part of the explanation."


  

          

We tell you that we're mad about one thing and it may be that we didn't like the way your action made us feel. However, you latch onto the wrong part of the explanation.
A woman may know why she's upset, but won't know how to communicate it.

Or when they do communicate it, you chastize for our feelings.

Or you want to immediately solve a problem that may not be that easy to solve.

Or they think they're upset over one thing, when it's really a deeper issue.

OR the thing that upset them seems irrational to you because you think it started with you. However it may be that something you did brings up a deeper issue of something that happened before you were around. They may not be ready to tell you what that is, because they aren't ready to deal with it.




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"right"


  

          


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400. "right"
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159. "Third ? "
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Honestly,

Exactly how much of your attracttion to a dude is based off his money, power, respect, position in life ????
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183. "none of that matters if there's no chemistry"
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that might get him n the door
but it wont keep him n the house

so initially i'd say maybe 25% all of that

then it fades

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187. "that shit right there for ME"
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is some initial attraction shit.

not no long lasting shit.

and moreso power than any of the others

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193. "this answer varies, also. one of my male friends told me that"
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he noticed that I'm attracted to men with power. I was offended that
he said that, but I thought about it later and
realized he was right.

but, it is more about a power/command of himself. sort of
a "discipline" that I am attracted to the most. but,
think that if a man has discipline, then the rest
will naturally follow.

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194. "not much "
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I'm more concerned with how comfortable he is in his own skin. Meaning he might not fully be where he wants to get to in life but he's comfy with the choices/moves he's making to get there. He actively lives.


I've had people say "oh you would never date a bus driver"...but guess what if I met that guy and he was like hey this is what I do and I've loved buses since I was a kid and xyz thats a much different guy than the the one that would say I'm just doing this by day I wanna be a rapper or what had happened wuz or I don't like being in a suit so this is what I do to get away from working for the man.....




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215. "^^^great answer^^^"
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242. "thanks I wasn't sure if I got that out clearly."
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315. "agreed."
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200. "well...."
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Thu Jan-13-11 04:29 PM by NikaMandela

          

A WHOLE FUCKIN LOT!

but it depends. it someone is successful, then that means you can learn a lot from them, and i like to learn. its also about passion. a person who is passionate about what they do is definitely going to be attractive to me. then theres discipline and focus--those are admirable traits.

that said tho, successful men are the worst to date.

  

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202. "100%"
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401. "its the qualities in the man that earn those things..."
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169. "man I want to ask so much..."
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so much.

but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
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185. "hey, we r n here holdn yall down."
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let it out!!

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307. "I think I'm gonna inbox the questions because"
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I can't let these snaggle tooth muhfuggas get any dirt.

ladies if you'd like to reply to my questions please reply below.

but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
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314. "just go on and ask, silly."
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177. "RE: Fellas: We Telling The Game Too"
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After a whole semester of this girl obviously eye-fucking me from two rows away in class, I get the number; now she's playing the CHASE ME game. We spend lots of time on gmail chat and text messaging, but have yet to go on an actual date yet (live about an hour apart).

I've offered twice now to drive up to where she lives to meet up somewhere but each time she shoots it down because of work, family, etc.

This girl is clearly into me from the way she looks at me- we all know the signals girls send, but I get the feeling she is feeling shy because she knows, that I know, she likes me.

  

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181. "she must be young..."
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*shrugs*

  

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"she has a boyfriend. let it go"


  

          

aint no way... anyway, yeah just let it go

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207. "if u fall all the way back, she'll look for u"
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u may be too interested/not enough of a challenge for her

  

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267. "she has a boyfriend and is afraid of getting caught. youre only "
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safe for eye fucking in class
which is an hour away from her bf.
ask her out after class one night
grab a bite somewhere and see if she's down.
she might want no strings attached nookie

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357. "good answer."
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182. "Fourth ? "
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Do you ever really believe that a guy has gotten over you?

What motivates you to get at a cat 3 years after you last heard from him?

Or in some cases, you might have a man, but you still wanna follow up on us from time to time to gauge where the feelings are?

But you swear to your girlfriends that we've been the ones buggin' you, even when it's not true?!?

Bravado? Ego?

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195. "*I* believe dudes get over me"
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but if you ask a friend of mine, they never do

because they AWL come back.

i am not joking at all. in 2010 any man i had a relationship with for longer than 3 months came back and tried to get back in there.

no exaggeration, no lie.

every.last.one.

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199. "no one gets over me. i'm the bomb"
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i tell myself this

>Do you ever really believe that a guy has gotten over you?

no lol

>What motivates you to get at a cat 3 years after you last
>heard from him?

i hardly rarely initiate anything

>Or in some cases, you might have a man, but you still wanna
>follow up on us from time to time to gauge where the feelings
>are?

self-esteem booster

>But you swear to your girlfriends that we've been the ones
>buggin' you, even when it's not true?!?


this has never been me. shoot i barely call the guys i like

>Bravado? Ego?


i got a big ego (c) beyonce

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208. "so you're basically artificially propping up your ego? "
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284. "yes... and i'm ashamed. nm"
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203. "mmm, I don't do this either:"
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>What motivates you to get at a cat 3 years after you last
>heard from him?

but, I can only speculate that she just misses you.

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210. "not really lol. i think men and women are the same 'bout this tho"
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aint nobody dope as me... (c)

  

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214. "lol...damn i dont that shit"
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psycho?

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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238. "RE: lol...damn i dont that shit"
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Once upon an ago, had a chick that would initiate contact with me. She just added me as a FB friend a month or two ago.

We were off and on, but the final time, it was off. At my doing. I didn't call/text/email/write.

Folks taught me that when you move on, you move on. And I do.

But she periodically would contact me. Ask how I'm doing, wanting me to be her friend and meet her new man. Usually the first question out her mouth was if I was seeing someone. And if i was, did I want to have a get together with me and my boo and her and her man.

(WTF Face)

She's been married for a while now and still tries to keep in touch.

I just don't get it.
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220. "yes, if that's what he's told me..."
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>Do you ever really believe that a guy has gotten over you?

  

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278. "ego? truth. LOL. nah, that's not gender-specific."
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imma say bravado though.

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188. "has a man ever worn you down?"
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not like stalking and shit. but do your feelings for guys ever fluctuate.
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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196. "YES..they do"
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however in most cases if he has to wear u down...then KIM

all the men that had to wear me down...I found there was a reason and that i should have just let it go

the feelings fluctuating most times is the "what if"

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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225. "yes but it doesnt last."
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227. "lol no"
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persistence gets annoying
but a guy i wasnt interested in at first continued to be cool with me but not in an "always around" kind of way and suddenly one day on my own i saw him differently and we dated, and it was great, and then i left for Howard
he still fine too

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241. "you know this is a yes right?"
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>but a guy i wasnt interested in at first continued to be cool
>with me but not in an "always around" kind of way and suddenly
>one day on my own i saw him differently and we dated, and it
>was great, and then i left for Howard
>he still fine too

if you saw him differently then something changed. maybe wear down wasn't the appropriate term.
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not compassionate....only polite.

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248. "yes... wear down is def not what happened"
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cuz he didnt DO anything
we went to the same school so isaw him anyway
one day he walked by, said wassup, kept walkn as he had two semesters before then and i was just like "hrmmmmmmmm delish"

maybe i was over an ex or maybe i was the work of GAWD

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233. "yes."
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234. "yes"
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236. "No."
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244. "yeah but never to red hot levels."
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245. "yes. like, I can not like the guy but his persistance makes me pay"
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him some attention

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^^^^Me!

Knowledge of the self is the mother of all knowledge. So it is incumbent on me to know my self, to know it completely, to know its minutiae, its characteristics, its subtleties, and its very atoms ~ Kahlil Gibran

  

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266. "yes... *deep sigh* "
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he wore me down despite there not being any initial attraction on my part...


never again will I ignore my instincts.


  

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272. "Only once."
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349. "NO"
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189. "What's the best way to tell your lady you want/need more sex?"
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She is on a once a month plan, you'd like to be more on a once a week type of plan.

  

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201. "do u initiate sex with her? and shes always turning you down?"
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hmph.

i have a plan, but i wouldnt suggest it if you married and tryna stay married.

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213. "RE: do u initiate sex with her? and shes always turning you down?"
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exactly.

  

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222. "if it was me. id tell her ass to get with the program"
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or someone else will.

but i wouldnt recommend that, if you arent willing to follow thru.

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270. "Yeah, probably not a good fit for my situation...n/m"
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273. "Then my responsible answer would be to advise her"
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that you would like to increase your monthly punani allotment to at least 4 times per month and what can be done to see that is granted.

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351. "LOL!!!! sounds like a bank transaction"
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350. "^^^ THREESOME!!!!"
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right?



  

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219. "make her want it. make her feel sexy"
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give her a steady diet of compliments

especially on her body

touch her

kiss her, etc.

  

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223. "be more sexy. and u know what's sexy?"
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coming in the house to some clean dishes, dinner, a bath, gassed up clean, car, that movie i always wanted to rent...something thoughtful. u might not get some like right that minute, but u got a coocoo coupon.

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263. "All that gets is a pat on the back...and a shutdown next time I try..."
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224. "two part strategy:"
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1) make her libido stronger. that is, be conscious of what foods make her randy and be sure to cook these foods for her often.

2) make sure she's comfortable. if a woman is stressed out or too worried, she won't want to do it. if when she comes home, things are straight and you're feeding her chocolate and have her martini ready, it's gonna be easier for her to unwind.

************The Sig************

Yall. when a mod deletes ur nice pretty reply from a post in which the OP has replied,
what do u think that means?

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235. "communication...thats the only way"
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listen to what she needs....AND DO IT

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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243. "thats a big jump"
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u want it 3 times more than what she's doingo n her own
intiate more by setting the mood and if she has a lot to do help her so she's not exhausted each day

get more affectionate, its easier to start kissin her neck if u r already rubbin her thigh while yall watch tv

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246. "Initiate."
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thats an odd situation....what led up to the once a month thing?
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261. "Don't know. It's pretty much settled there."
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We were distance for a while so that was only about as often as we saw each other. Now no more distance and it still there.

And I do initiate and get shutdown regularly.

  

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423. "nm"
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Thu Jan-13-11 11:32 PM by Ionno

  

          

nm

www.streetkidmuse.com

  

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485. "in your particular situation, there's sometheing else going on"
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b/c generally when ppl go from long distance to being right on top of each other- that's exactly what they are. they fuck like rabbits for about 6 mos-1yr.

i don't think she's cheating but i think sh might have some emotional barriers preventing her from wanting sex more often. pay attention to her cues. is she going through something else completely unrelated to the relationship?

  

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MistaGoodBar
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192. "why wont y'all throw that busted up moo moo you sleep in away?"
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the isht got gyotdayum bullet holes in it n isht from a decade of washing
you can't even see Garfield on the isht no more
Iont expect you to rock ling-er-ree to the bed or nuthin
but stop trying start the grown folk while you wearing that busted crap

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204. "Niggas wear the same holey/faded drawls"
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let her wear that faded garfield nightgown. It will only help you appreciate when she does wear that HOT SHIT to bed. Gives you something to look forward to

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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221. "do you wanna see what EYE sleep in?"
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229. "no need...EYE already know"
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but this aint bout ME and YOU.......lol

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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239. "yes please sir."
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*prays: i hope its your birthday suit!*

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216. "it's comfy. buy something else then or hush."
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and it better be comfy too?

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231. "the isth I bought her that SHE PICKED OUT is in the drawer"
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while she rocking that busted isht.

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292. "is it warm?"
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240. "agreed! the best way to say good bye to the old clothes is"
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to catch a sale on something new, soft, pretty and comfy.

there's plenty of great sleep wear out there. got lots and
she'll automatically throw out the old stuff.

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what do u think that means?

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226. "cuz it's comfortable."
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228. "cus sometimes our womenhood is ON and we don't wanna be"
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feelin yo hot'n'hairy..pointy dicked'd ass on our BACK...

u don't wanna be 'cherry kool'aided' either,I bet

  

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237. "hahahahaaa i made it a point"
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to update my pajama game every year. i give my old stuff to goodwill.
so yeah... but sometimes i buy the same thing haha

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353. "ROFL!!!!!!! "
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403. "I'm Aint! It aint sexy in the least but my mama gave it to me...."
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i dont have her anymore but i have the faded, holey, bleached out, oversized space-camp t-shirt she gave me 21 years ago when i was 16 and i aint gettin rid of it.
i dont wear it that often anymore since last time you brought it up so stop complaining....

*looks around*
oh, was that not boogiedwn talkin?
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197. "damn this blew up!"
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212. "niggas is confused!"
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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217. "yeah...in YOUR face...LOL."
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232. "yall just want answers"
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no discussion about it tho... just simple answers lol

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247. "im glad im not like some of yall women in here."
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250. "unecessary....."
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256. "lol right...."
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.

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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258. "lol yea"
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BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

"people... please refrain from gnr'ing me. im an avid lol'er and am completely fine wit the service."

"I’m just a dreamer,
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268. "oop!"
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************The Sig************

Yall. when a mod deletes ur nice pretty reply from a post in which the OP has replied,
what do u think that means?

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277. "its unnecessary"
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and of course it isnt.

this post isnt necessary.

this website isnt necessary.

but here we all are, and there my comment was.

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252. "b u then, girl, b u!"
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LOL

but we agree for the most part

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285. "oh, i am im just saying"
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women are so vastly different.

im reading some of the responses like what?

and others im in total agreement.

them other heffas wanna take offense to us all not being alike.

oh well.

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293. "nobody's taking offense it just wasn't necessary "
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ain't no reason to put other people down to lift yourself up this post wasn't about that that's all

BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

"people... please refrain from gnr'ing me. im an avid lol'er and am completely fine wit the service."

"I’m just a dreamer,
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300. "no where did i put anyone down."
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i said i was glad i wasnt like some of the women in this post.

yalls bad for taking it negative.

its an expression of being glad we are different.

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317. "lol yea right"
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>its an expression of being glad we are different.

  

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323. "*rolls eyes*"
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u know intent now?

i have no issue saying when i am being a bitch and being snarky and whatnot.

those of yall that took it negatively, thats yalls issues.

i said what my intent was, believe it or not.

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336. "i hear what youre saying"
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im just saying, "im glad im not like some of yall women in here" sounds more like, "damn. these women are crazy, foolish, delusional, goldiggery, and insecure, and im so glad im not like that" rather than "oh, yay, we're all so different."

but i take your word for it, for what its worth.

  

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333. "and callin people HEFFAS at that"
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FOH...

lmao

this post could SO THE OTHER WAY for no other reason that HER being unecessary

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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354. "right "
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I mean only she knows her intent and she says she wasn't being negative.....she could have worded that better though.

And she's on her spell check too so fyi its unnecessary. No offense LOL


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360. "co sign @"
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>she could have worded that better though.

and picture me caring about a spell check here....

anyone who pays attn to my posts KNOWS i dont care about that...lol

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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269. "i love these post cause you realize....everyone is different"
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you could have three different people and everyone will tell you something completely different. and its like dating. there are no cut and dry rules. if you can't adapt or at least tailor your game for the individual....you'll lose everytime.
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nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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291. "exactly!"
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but i guess u cant tell some folks that.

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286. "yay?"
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296. "yes yay"
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im editing this out because it was too cuss wordy

but yes, yay.

im glad we are all different and sometimes can express that without people thinking you are looking down on others.

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309. "this actually seemed nasty or at the very least not relevant or useful."
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we r all different for the most part
and there's nothing wrong with that
i just dont see the need to be like IM NOT LIKE ONE OF YALL.




>im editing this out because it was too cuss wordy
>
>but yes, yay.
>
>im glad we are all different and sometimes can express that
>without people thinking you are looking down on others.

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318. "nevermind, im not even gonna say anything"
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because i have nothing against you at all

and everything i have typed out sounded snarky, and i dont want to be.

there was no ill will in the statement, it was simply an expression that i am glad we are all different.

my apologies if my opinion isnt useful to the masses.

that was kinda snarky and im sorry, but it does kinda piss me off to be told my opinion isnt useful.

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322. "that is way too dramatic."
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and i dunno where u got that everyone's opinion wasnt useful
i said ladieS, join in.
u a lady, feel free
but we dont have to judge each other
it's not necessary.




>because i have nothing against you at all
>
>and everything i have typed out sounded snarky, and i dont
>want to be.
>
>there was no ill will in the statement, it was simply an
>expression that i am glad we are all different.
>
>my apologies if my opinion isnt useful to the masses.
>
>that was kinda snarky and im sorry, but it does kinda piss me
>off to be told my opinion isnt useful.
>
>

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327. "my bad i mean to mean MY opinion wasnt useful"
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"this actually seemed nasty or at the very least not relevant or useful."

i passed judgment on no one.

im glad i am not like some of the ladies in here ... im glad we are all different ... no judgment passed.

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330. "well said "
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cause I read her reply and scrunched my face up like why add that element to the pond?




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287. "i'm glad i'm not like yooooouuuu"
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lol

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306. "me too! :)"
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321. "hehee"
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;)

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369. "if i was moderator, i'd delete this whole string of replies. let's stop..."
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251. "Can you stop trying to make me be friends w/your girl's man?"
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He's a gin drinker, I'm on that brown
He wears k-swiss, I'm adidas
He listens to Poison Clan & Avant, I'm Dilla and Foreign Exchange
He's denium shorts, I'm cargo
He's bald fade, I'm Caesar
and constantly wants to have 2Pac>Biggie arguments
plus he mad country
every other weekend you tryna make plans w/them
F the FOH

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255. "it would be just so perfect if y'all became homies!"
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but i'd fall back if u said u didn't like him

  

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259. "lol!!! Imma be straight up...."
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yall ALL seem like yall get along.

no lie.

when men meet each other, it just seems like yall click, no problem.

************The Sig************

Yall. when a mod deletes ur nice pretty reply from a post in which the OP has replied,
what do u think that means?

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364. "a man can get along with another man and still not like dude....."
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it's like kids that fight out in the street and back playing with each other an hour later.



  

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262. "see i dont do this...lol"
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cause i know how different he is......

i just let him be him...if he connects with someone then cool...but i damn sure aint pressin thatissue

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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265. "Nigga.....LMAO"
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>He wears k-swiss, I'm adidas
>and constantly wants to have 2Pac>Biggie arguments
>

  

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276. "if you would just ALLOW your girl to have a girls night out..."
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she wouldn't have to drag her girlfriend and her boyfriend toO!

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367. "girl's night out? I'm all for that, cuz then I can go out"
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408. "lol. well its more b/c guys want us to hang out with them & their "
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friends, but not so much the other way around.

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282. "but but but we wanna go on double dates! fine, make me look bad."
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LOL.

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294. "i dont trust"
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my friends enough to be on that double date shit... they b datin each other ex boyfriends and stuff. no thanks.

u hav ur boys, i hav my girls... see u when we get home

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326. "HE LIKES BASEBALL TOO!"
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356. "but you ain't GOT no dang friends"
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*cheese*
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388. "LMAO.....homerun my nigg"
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Coolin...

  

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413. "in case they haven't said it already..bc they want him to rub off on u"
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*pause*

  

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450. "I understand "
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I pick and choose who I'm friends with

don't be trying to force me on your friends or your friends on me for that matter.. we might not be each others style.

some of niggas mad corny

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480. "That shit is the worst. I don't want to know that nigga."
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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257. "do ya'll really want honesty outside of relationships?"
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like Nayaa's friend...should he have been honest or lied?
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laugh now, cry never.
nevermind, nice guys finish fine.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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274. "ungh. honesty, i guess. but only cuz it'll come out eventually"
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so why not now

  

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279. "of course. "
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I always expect to hear the truth...however the delivery of said truth is always where the problems come up.
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280. "i enjoy it and prefer it. even if most dont, they need it."
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290. "i don't understand. do we want yall to be honest w/ us?"
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yes, in theory. but usually only so we can be sure we made the right decision to dump you, lol.
but don't tell me i look a hot mess in my favorite outfit. leave that to my girlfriends.

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295. "honesty, please"
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if u dont like me... let me hear it so i can move on
if u just dont see it go anywhere... ouch, but at least i know not to kid myself

yes, please, honesty

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370. "yes but it doesn't mean be an asshole though"
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496. "I can only speak for me"
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I do, regardless of circumstance.
But fair amount of women SAY they do, but really don't. So be wary.
Shrugs.

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281. "and why don't half of ya'll wanna get married anymore?"
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what happened to that shit?

you know how confusing it is to be more romantic than half of the women out here.
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288. "they lying."
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371. "^^^"
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297. "i want to"
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but i can see how some women get discouraged

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298. "well do you?"
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that's when i tiptoed out ur inbox (c) ricky

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308. "i do. i know what i wanna name my kids and all that."
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i know it'll be a compromise, but i've thought that far in advance about life and family.

i recently told a girl i was lightweight talking one of the hypothetical names or whatever and she said thats something that only one of the gay kids she teaches would do.

i was livid.
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not compassionate....only polite.

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319. "did you really like her?"
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>i know it'll be a compromise, but i've thought that far in
>advance about life and family.

that's awesome. i think women have this perception that men don't know what they want, and we don't really want to wait for men to figure it all out. and then there are some men (which the # of seems to be increasing) that take that whole 'independent women' shit literally and won't take the initiative romantically anymore.

>i recently told a girl i was lightweight talking one of the
>hypothetical names or whatever and she said thats something
>that only one of the gay kids she teaches would do.
>
>i was livid.

that SUCKS. I hope she wasn't "the one" but if she was, she better have been joking. cause thats just cold.

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345. "not really"
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and she had a tendency to be.....argumentative. she was cool enough, but we were both feeling each other out. it was all good, but i thought that was in poor taste.

so it wasn't anything deep. but i'm glad her views came up within the first 2 months rather than later down the line.
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380. "so it was more about the argumentativeness"
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than that she was hating on your baby names. gotcha. lemme ask you, is being too argumentative a bad thing? do you just want a girl who will just agree with you on everything?

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384. "i wouldn't even say the argumentativeness"
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it was a lot of debate. we were able to agree to disagree, but if you're agreeing to disagree all the time, then you just might not have that much in common. i don't know. she's not completely cut off but i'm tired of the back and forth.

i don't want someone who will agree with everything i say. that would be kinda boring. but i don't want to agrue about everything. i think there are sweet women and fiesty women. sweet women can be fiesty, and fiesty women can be sweet. but me....i'll take a sweet woman over a fiesty one anyday.

but i find all that arguing and shit just being difficult. and life it too short to be difficult. cause i get riled up. 0 to 60. and not even mad, but i'm if i feel a certain way then i'mma defend my stance. and some women will just pluck that nerve cause they can. they like it, and they think you do too.
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Kahlema
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391. "i feel you. i got family members like that."
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they drive me up the wall of insanity, so i gotta limit time with them.


>but i find all that arguing and shit just being difficult.
>and life it too short to be difficult. cause i get riled up.
>0 to 60. and not even mad, but i'm if i feel a certain way
>then i'mma defend my stance. and some women will just pluck
>that nerve cause they can. they like it, and they think you
>do too.

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301. "because most have found out not everyone understands "
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how to be a partner. And most folks who've been married for a while will tell you it takes effort on both sides. So a lot of folks have determined they can do bad all by themselves, why struggle with a load waiting for someone else to put that hand in to carry the foundation you both said you wanted?

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303. "because things fall apart..."
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or at least I'll live with that fear...

  

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MrThomas43423
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311. "thats so sad"
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so in order for things not to fall apart, you don't even try to create them.
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332. "for the most part, yes..."
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it might be called, "being a coward"...

don't get me wrong...

I desire a long lasting relationship just don't think I need to be married to have it...

good question tho

  

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MrThomas43423
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352. "at a certain point i could agree with this"
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>I desire a long lasting relationship just don't think I need
>to be married to have it...

i'd be mad tho. but i agree that love is love whether married or not. but personally i'd rather have a wife than a girlfriend.
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Trinity444
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366. "yeah, it's not for everyone..."
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just like marriage...

it's important to find someone who shares ur view

  

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304. "a lot of women still want to get married. but I think that its "
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important to understand HISTORICALLY what marriage
has meant for women.

HISTORICALLY, marriage was a pretty fucked deal for most women.

many women haven't quite balanced the history of marriage and the
current expectations. so, right now marriage still seems like a
raw deal to some women.

just think about it...would you want to have to cook and clean for
people for the rest of your life? well, to many women, THAT is what
marriage seems like it is. nobody wants that if they can help it.

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337. "those are lies"
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.

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

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338. "because yall stuck in the 50s! lol, marriage benefits men more than"
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it does women, USUALLY.
both of us work
yet yall expect US to do all the cooking and the cleaning when we get home. and don't add kids to the mix. that's 75% our job, too.
why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

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355. "Addendum: the only thing women want is a WEDDING and the status"
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just to say they're someones wife. after the white dress comes off and the guests go on abt their lives, the novelty starts to wear off.

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MrThomas43423
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359. "i wonder if being a husband is that much more glamorous"
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its work either way right?
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377. "for men of a certain age, yes it is. "
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marriage in general is and should be work for both parties. but it's not always 50/50 like that.

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424. "it'll never be 50/50."
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especially with kids.

you know.

we have a kid together but you birthed that being.

your natural inclination is to care for that being.

my natural inclination is to provide for you and that being.

it's not a 50/50 split but it's a fair deal.


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362. "speak for yourself. thats not the case for a host of women "
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scout
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375. "oh, okay. I should've said a LOT of women. my reasons for wanting "
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to be married are different but i do know a HOST of women who fantasize about that fairy tale wedding and marriage. then reality hits

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378. "i know a lot of those same kinda women"
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>to be married are different but i do know a HOST of women who
>fantasize about that fairy tale wedding and marriage. then
>reality hits

and once their reality hit....it was exactly what they wanted. bons is a prime example from what i can gather. so whats the difference? expectations?
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scout
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381. "RE: i know a lot of those same kinda women"
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>>to be married are different but i do know a HOST of women
>who
>>fantasize about that fairy tale wedding and marriage. then
>>reality hits
>
>and once their reality hit....it was exactly what they wanted.
> bons is a prime example from what i can gather. so whats the
>difference? expectations?

let's not speculate on bons since neither one of us lives in her household or her head. but don't forget though...bons is a newlywed lol.
the difference, from what i can tell, is that these women (not bons. iont know abt her) grew up on a heavy diet of cinderella tales and aren't in touch with reality and what being married truly entails. they get that pretty ring and a pretty dress and all the attention is on THEM for a day and some change, and they're satisfied. they've married for the wrong reasons, and sometimes don't know what they've gotten themselves into at all.

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387. "and i didn't wanna say that but i agree"
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about all newlyweds. give it 10 years and some kids if that happens. but i think the foundations are important.

and they type of Bridezilla you're talking about is just selfish. but to say they're not in touch with reality isn't fair, because there isn't a single, solitary reality. its different for everyone, and may even be different for you day by day. i think reality is supposed to change and evolve as WE change and evolve. cause i know the reality of my life 5 years ago was not what it is now.
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394. "I'm not even really talking abt just the bridezillas"
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society has us all thinking it's a crime for a woman to be single. something MUST be wrong with her if she doesn't get married. so chicks aren't always as picky as they need to be. not only do they have a biological clock ticking, they've got a matrimony one, too. they shoot first and ask important questions later. the reality i'm referring to is having a strong grasp on what it is youre signing on for. understanding more than just how someone makes you feel, but also knowing yourself and what youre willing to endure.

>about all newlyweds. give it 10 years and some kids if that
>happens. but i think the foundations are important.

and yes, foundations are incredibly important but that doesn't mean that somebody won't do a complete 180, or you'll learn something new about them that you didn't even know they were capable of...10 years later. if they make it past 7 years without any major issues, I'd bet money on them making it to their 20 year anniversary, given theyre still living.

>and they type of Bridezilla you're talking about is just
>selfish. but to say they're not in touch with reality isn't
>fair, because there isn't a single, solitary reality. its
>different for everyone, and may even be different for you day
>by day. i think reality is supposed to change and evolve as
>WE change and evolve. cause i know the reality of my life 5
>years ago was not what it is now.
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>laugh now, cry never.
>nevermind, nice guys finish fine.
>
>not compassionate....only polite.
>
>I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

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363. "thank you"
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Thu Jan-13-11 05:29 PM by lfresh

  

          

>it does women, USUALLY.
>both of us work
>yet yall expect US to do all the cooking and the cleaning when
>we get home. and don't add kids to the mix. that's 75% our
>job, too.
>why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

plus take care of them too
alot know the reality of the situation and how most men still aren't ready for 50/50
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373. "ya'll gotta stop fucking with selfish Negros"
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cause no good husband wants to see his wife struggle. maybe its me and the caliber of young guys i know, but its not even on some old your Grandma/Grandpa shit.

there are young married guys right now who are on their game. most of the couple i know are like that, but i think its cause the women weren't settling for ain't from shit ass niggas.

it doesn't count till like the 10 year mark, but i think those are very Baby Boy-ish views of marriage.
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382. "everybody aint grown like you, boo."
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they are immature and old fashioned in a bad way.

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389. "some are just old fashioned"
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and that whole 'imma just have a job' doesn't cut it any more
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402. "yeah, they think once they put a ring on it they can just come home"
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from Bob's Big Boy, kick up their feet and watch sportscenter all evening...every day...for the next 30 years. lol

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392. "Scout....i luh u like a cheesesteak w/erything and hots but yoh"
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c'mon son(-arita)

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396. "i'm just speaking the truth how i see it, lol. how many men do u know"
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that DON'T expect their wives to cook, clean, and do most of the child rearing? think about it, now. even in "good" marriages things aren't equal. google search it, you'll see the stats, lol.

oh, and i luh you like good food, too ~

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340. "because half of them got in they head they wont marry "
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or they far too picky

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386. "They don't know how to be married w/o losing themselves."
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A lot of women don't want to be married, because they are enjoying their independence. They may have had role models that didn't know how to be married and take care of themselves. Or they came from single parent homes or just messed up family situations.

Most people who don't want to be married, don't want to give up being selfish for whatever reason.

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283. "my query is a bit trivial, but important nonetheless"
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why is it that you all can have 56 brushes and combs that apparently do 56 different magical things, yet my brushes are chock full of your hair?

  

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289. "i needed a 57th."
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299. "accept"
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i like your brush
i like your side of the bed
i like your soda
i like your white tee
i like your car


cuz its yours

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305. "i wouldn't share brushes."
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peace and love

that's when i tiptoed out ur inbox (c) ricky

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334. "couple of reasons: because your brush is good for making pony tails"
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or it's in the same drawer/vicinity as our brushes and loose hair travels.

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339. "Because yall brushes feel swell"
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and yall by those brushes that brush nigga naps...so we know it can handle what we need it too..lol

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374. "from reading this.... women love us more than we love ourselves"
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it's amazing... but I think it's true.



  

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399. "^^^^gets it. finally someone gets it."
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we also often see yalls potential better than yall can, too.

I was dating this kid in college who was the cats
meow. I mean, I thought he was all kinds of wonderful,
smart, and talented; and, I told him so. I used to grin in his face all of the time. He could not figure out why I thought he was
so great. He always talked about how he was poor, and funny looking.
meanwhile, I thought he was probably insane because he had no clue as to how perfect he was. needlesstosay, we broke up.

fast forward 5 years, I ran into him somewhere and he was all hugging
me and thanking me for believing in him because somehow he finally understood what I saw in him, because he finally saw it in himself.

I dont know why some men dont realize they are/can be great.

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404. "yes @"
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>we also often see yalls potential better than yall can, too

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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405. "we do..."
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447. "broken in brush syndrome..."
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i am a sufferer

  

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302. "How can you not see that he wants to sleep with you?"
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I'm often amazed the some women do not realize that a male friend wants to be more than that. You know the situations I mean.

Are you aware or genuinely not?

  

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Kahlema
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310. "oh, we know."
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we just aren't going to take the bait.

as long as he doesn't come out and ask for anything, he's only going to be a friend.

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that's when i tiptoed out ur inbox (c) ricky

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bonamie
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312. "i was honestly surprised. until i wasnt."
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313. "it's not about not seeing it"
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it's about that not being an option

i'm sure all of my male friends would sleep with me if given the opportunity

but IIII have no desire to do so so i just act like none of that exists.

no means no

and then there are dudes that are just like family that prolly don't want you and vice versa...if they do it's = to you fuckin ure brother which just shuts all that down on both ends

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325. "exactly. men will fuck anything with a vagina."
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>i'm sure all of my male friends would sleep with me if given
>the opportunity

but most women don't do the friendship thing in hopes of one day having something romantic happen...there's gotta be sparks right off the bat or its pretty much no thank you.

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329. "So it's friend or lover from the get-go and no in-between?"
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343. "yea for the most part. "
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imo that's the only way you can have male friends. Personally i'm really strict about that...i don't care how good of a dude u are once ure a "friend" that's what your gonna be.

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358. "truth.com"
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imo that's the only way you can have male friends.

Not all women operate that way though. I prefer to have 0 gray areas.

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361. "yessir!"
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at a certain pt it's just gross to even think abt a cross over
like seriously gross

  

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383. "exactly"
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my friends r just that

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407. "well, for me I prefer to be friends first, if I really like a guy."
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this way we can get to know each other.

but, if he seems like he will be only good for fucking
or experimenting with, then that's what I'll do.

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344. "perfect summation. and to add on, it might be gross to even think"
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about a particular guy wanting to sex us, so we don't.

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324. "I don't always see it but just because he wants to "
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sleep with me doesn't mean he just gets to.

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331. "Or Lord they know...please trust they know"
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some just like playing games

or

like playin naive

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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372. "depends"
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if you take the stance that most men are on the make
then it's hard to discern the difference

or if you don't
and some men just ain't tryna fuck period
all men are not alike
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406. "i didnt for the longest. its depressing to think someone you value"
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just for themselves is only hanging around for a shot or that, even if he really likes you as a person, would gleefully toss your friendship for a chance to hit.
i lost way too many friends to find that shit at all funny.
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410. "i realize that i think more like a man..."
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than a woman

geah throws up this post
i can answer w/the best of em
we get our turn
i'm readin questions & scrollin down
& scrollin
& scrollin


don't get it twisted tho
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411. "Have you ever regretted NOT hollering back at a guy who was..."
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interested you before? Are there any that you look at and say "damn....I wish I had been in the right mind back then" in the way that most of us guys have done? Or do you feel that your non-responsiveness was always justified?

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412. "just thought this today"
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when i saw on facebook this guy i passed by is a doctor with a gorgeous wife and new baby...
but i wasnt really into him so no point in forcin it. how i supposed to know *kim z shrug*

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417. "That's what it seems like with men vs women"
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Women only "pass up" on most guys because they just weren't feeling him or attracted...so even when they see that he's successful, they usually regret it more because of what he's become than how they felt.

With guys, feels like we'll have feelings, even if it's nothing major, but we weren't trying to be locked down, or may have been focused on another girl (or girls) and didn't take her seriously enough.

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418. "yeah pretty much... my thing is"
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if it wasnt right for me then, im glad i passed rather than figure i'll deal with him to see what he becomes or to see what the future brings

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415. "Never. Although in some instances, I wish I had been a little more"
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gracious, tactful and mature.

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414. "if women are SO hard to get along with that *most of ur friends are men*"
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why do you expect it to be any easier for us?

like i mean....women love to say that Men have some deep seeded hatred toward women.....

when in actuality...........







*for the record....i've never had that problem.



  

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416. "Mmm. I think that men have a more difficult time feeling comfortable"
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with just being friends.

It's not that they CAN'T have a lot of friends who are women. I think they feel more pressure to close on the deal tho.

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421. "actually i meant....if women have such a hard time in a friendship..."
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why WOULDN"T we have THAT much harder of a time maintaining a full-fledged relationship?

sometimes you guys wanna play it off like it's so simple.......as if we weren't paying attention.

*now the funny thing is even as i attempt to contrast a m/f relationship to a f/f friendship i'm realizing how similar they are....if only for the fact that the emotional demand are similar.

So now it seems as if it's women just want a break sometimes from the(overtly) emotional dynamic of f/f friendships.


  

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419. "Got damn if I haven't said that before"
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Most women I know say that shit..."women are difficult" "women are fake" "women are catty" "women are too emotional" and that's the reason they say they have more "male friends."

So I feel like hmm...why don't y'all realize how it can be difficult for us? Maybe it's L.A., but honestly, it's hard for me to make fuckin FRIENDS with girls here! Not on some hollering shit, but I feel like you damn near gotta put in work just become a girl's friend...and a lot of the ones I've met seem to only wanna be cool with you if you have connections that'll help their (Entertainment) careers, or get them into the club free.

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430. "so hard for you to get "
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along with men or women?
im confused

and its not hard to get a long with women, as a woman. i dont think. some people are just better at dealing with people in general than others

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487. "it's not hard for ME...i'm referring to women's friendships w/women."
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and how it's frequently the case that they'd rather not be bothered.

  

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420. "why cant you be wrong?"
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we're arguing. point, counter point. you jab, I jab. you throw that wild ass haymaker, looking to knock a nigga out. I sidestep it, and I'm bringing the right cross of "I told you so" and bout to put your ass out....

when you bite a nigga
or kick him in the nuts
or set the house on fire

anything to not get caught out there being wrong.

why?

  

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422. "cause you like crazy"
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if shits going that far
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426. "it was metaphorical"
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no one around that much crazy doesn't want to be there.

What I'm saying is the emotional distractions once you're on the ropes logically about to take that L.

A woman ain't gonna be wrong for shit. Subject gets changed, you all of a sudden don't wanna talk about it, there's a phone call to make, what about what happened 3 months ago at the laundromat, all types of nonsense

You're Wrong

let's eat

it's not that deep.

  

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431. "i can"
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but a lot of times i do make sense of what im saying or thinking
so...

but all that extra dramatic shit, fires and kicking... thats just craziness

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475. "Lol. I don't do this one. I can be wrong. "
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I never am but I am open to the possibility.

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497. "huh? I admit I'm wrong all the time. I don't have any shame"
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when it comes to me taking my licks because it was on me.

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432. "How come ya'll niggas never flush? Seriously."
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Ya'll pee and leave it in there like it's porcelain marinade or something.

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461. "I don't think I understand ur question. All of the women I know flush."
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************The Sig************

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433. "How come ya'll so shy about farting and shitting?"
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436. "hold up, this question & the one above it don't even correlate."
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440. "there's always PEE in the toilet. Always!"
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434. "Why do ya'll footrace with your homegirls don't don't even like.."
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...about who finna get boo'd down or ring'd up first?

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462. "Sorry, I don't do this one either. I can only speculate that"
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because relationships and marriage are historically milestones, some women feel like the need to keep up the jones in order to be considered successful.

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435. "Why in fuck do ya'll take such HOT ASS BATHS/SHOWERS?"
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448. "the steam loosens the natural curls in my hair"
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468. "Omg!!! THIS question resonates with me! I love, love, love hot baths"
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and showers!

Ok. Ok. Have you ever soaked in a hot bath of lavender and bubbles?? If you had, you would never have to ask that question. It is wonderful. Actually, I think that more men should give it a try. If you don't like lavender oil, you can use Epsom salt. And you should turn off the lights and just have some of your favorite scented candles lite and your favorite tranquility music playing softly in the background. And maybe a mud mask for your face and cucumbers for your eyes and just sit there and deep breathe and relax and think happy thoughts. Oh man! That is the shit!

Also, we love hot showers because some of our beauty treatments require our pores to be open.

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488. "a HOTHOTHOT shower w/ great water pressure is pure heaven"
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shave your legs
lotion down
and crawl into bed naked on freshly laundered sheets...

it's one of the most divine feelings ever. it's truly one of life's perfect little joys.

  

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493. "its relaxing"
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and steams my curly hair.

especially if I'm doing a deep condition

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437. "Tell us the proper way to complement your boobs"
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I mean, you're wearing that low cut v-neck / supertight pullover for a reason

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439. "do i know u?"
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a smile sans lips-lickin will suffice

  

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442. "so taking your hand gently & saying "GOD IS GOOD" is not the move?"
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446. "if don't in the right spirit..."
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it could be

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463. " :-)"
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470. "Lol. Never do that."
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************The Sig************

Yall. when a mod deletes ur nice pretty reply from a post in which the OP has replied,
what do u think that means?

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498. "You don't. Unless said sweater is lying on the floor by"
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they bed you're having sex on.

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438. "'"
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...

  

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441. "Now for a serious question. Why such the objection to ejaculate?"
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444. "no objections here. my pleasure, in fact."
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mine and yours. but if you're trying to nut in my hair or be obviously degrading with that sh*t, like in my eye. . .foh, not cute.

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472. "Do you mean such an objection to you ejaculating? "
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************The Sig************

Yall. when a mod deletes ur nice pretty reply from a post in which the OP has replied,
what do u think that means?

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451. "Recommendation more than a question"
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Wife is exhausted these days taking care of our 4 month baby.
I do as much as I can, try and let her get some sleep but I need something special.
Any suggestions are welcome.

  

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453. "does she notice... "
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this "helping as much as you can"....

who decided it, her or you?


if it's you, is it possible for you to do more?

tough call

  

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467. "She does"
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Some things she insists on doing herself{bathing him,dressing him}I'm good for everything else{when I'm not at work}.
I could always do more of course but thought a change would be welcome.

  

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454. "can u clarify this a little bit more?"
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i'm not sure i'm followin what u're sayin

  

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455. "O_o yeah "
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it can go either way, lol




  

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456. "Clarification for the ladies"
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I was wondering what I could do ASIDE from helping out.
Like what would you appreciate in that situation?
Or should I just stick to feeding and diaper changes,cleaning up doing the dishes etc.?

  

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459. "if she's willin..."
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& alot of new mothers don't cotton to this
as crazy as it may sound
but offer to keep the baby & let her go out to lunch or dinner w/her girlfriend{s}
or get a pedicure

we sometimes feel that separation anxiety
but sometimes we just need to not be @ home
let her go someplace where she doesn't have to consider what she's goin to wear &/or how much her body has changed {or hasn't changed back}

but trust
all that u're doin is beautiful, man
u'd be amazed @ what some men {who love their women!!!} don't do

  

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465. "She is"
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lucky for us both of our mother's can't get enough of their grandson and are more than willing to babysit.
We go out to dinner every once in awhile.I hold little man when she goes out with friends and family.
Trying to figure out more ways to spoil her{our son is a handful and as much as I try to do she does 100% more}she's been a champ since Imam came,never nagged me or taken her frustration/exhaustion out on me.


  

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469. "awwww, c'mere..."
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*hugs u & whispers in ur ear "he's 3. he's potty trained. he's urs for as long as u can stand him.*

  

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471. "TRADE"
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He's 4 months enjoys titties and pissing on people,loves laughing and crying.
KEEPSIES.

  

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477. "lol"
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>He's 4 months enjoys titties and pissing on people,loves
>laughing and crying.
>KEEPSIES.
>


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478. "naw naw brother..."
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i want u have TAKESIES!!!

  

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460. "no. get her a sitter. go out to dinner."
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464. "tough call..."
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I stand by my original reply


  

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474. "Ohhhhh. Well, if you have a cousin who is in college, maybe you can"
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ask her if she will come over every Tuesday and Thursday afternoon from 3-8pm and be a "nanny" for the baby. More frequently would be ideal. They probably wouldnt charge you that much since they are a relative.

Or even better would be if you have a retired family member who wouldnt mind being a nanny a few days a week for free. One of my friends moms STILL comes over her house to nanny her kids and the oldest is 8 years now. It helps her out a lot since she and her husband work a lot.

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458. "what?"
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something special like what? a babysitter?!

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466. "spa?"
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give her the weekend off?
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473. "She went last week"
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hair,manicure pedicure.

  

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476. "take a weekend off. ALL of yall. pack up the wife and baby and "
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take a young sitter, check into a resort or nice hotel nearby (i dunno where yall live but we got casinos and resorts and such)
and just let her spend the weekend chilling by the pool, getting back and scalp massages, eating food she doesn't have to cook, etc.

if you think you'd like to do more around the house and that might make her happy, try asking her sincerely what she'd like help with. she'll appreciate the asking even if she doesn't take you up on it.

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489. "take Saturdays"
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sound's like you're working during the week. the best thing you can do for her is give her one night of full uninterrupted sleep.

take the baby to another part of the house and y'all sleep there on Saturdays. momma won't have to get up and feed or change him during the night b/c you'll be handling that. sleep is a precious commodity at this stage.

  

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483. "Keeping silent for the most part, just reading. Thank you all,"
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make sure this gets archived.

  

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490. "GENDER WA....... Meetingz?! well allright."
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491. "why dont women just want to be friends anymore?"
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I just left dinner with an old co-worker i called out of the blue today to see how she's been after not talking to her for over a year. The FIRST thing she said when she heard my voice was "omg, boy i've lost so much weight i weigh 120 lbs my waist is 23 inches my boobs are xxx I cut my hair and i think about you all the time, we should go out for drinks!" I was like... ok... thinking, i was going to ask how your family is doing but i guess we can skip all of that. Anyway dinner was great, i kept trying to keep it platonic because she kept trying to make it some xxx shit. I don't get it?

Just in case that was a bad example here's another:

Met a great girl through my sis. They've been friends for years but she was away at college. Anyway, i'm digging everything about her so after seeing her at my sisters spot a few times i ask for her number. we talk on the phone a few times and i think i've made a new friend but when i go to her place the 1st thing she tells her mom is " mom, this is ---, say a prayer for us tonight that we get married" or something to that effect. All i could think was "you dont even know my last name?!" After my "i think we're moving to fast because i usually only date people i've gotten to know and build a friendship with" speech she stopped talking to me altogether. I'm kinda bummed out by it because she's a great person and i valued our friendship. Now that friendship is no more.

This is puzzling to me because once upon a time i had no problem making new friends of the opposite sex but now no one i meet wants only friendship. What's with that?

  

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492. "you ain't trying to make new friends."
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you've known both of these women for long periods of time. the mere fact that you contacted them/are trying to kick it at all tells them you are interested... in something

logic dictates: if you were going to form a friendship, you'd have done so by now.

now if you meet a chick today, i'm pretty sure, none of this will happen so long as you keep it platonic and build towards the friendship direction.

  

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494. "were u already friends with both people"
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or associates?

the first chick is feeling like a brand new person and maybe already had a thing for you--so she's testing the waters with her new self

the second--- ionno what to say especially since i would never fix my mouth to say something like that in front of my mother---sounds real pressed---but it sounds like you've been in each other's circle for a while so perhaps she had built up expectations, plus you don't know what she been telling your sister on the low.

Also how old are you? At a certain age alot of women are looking to get married not be friends fam.

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499. "OMG, I feel like an idiot. I just replied all up in the post not "
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realizing it's already two days old.

WTF was I??

*remembers to check thread date before posting*




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500. "wild wild wild wild wild hunnids"
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