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flora
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Wed Nov-02-11 02:17 PM

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"do men know they're ugly?"


          

are you all aware of when you're ugly?

or do you just rely on womens reaction to gauge how you look?

it seems like dudes don't even be knowing when they're smacked. they will try to pull a dime, and all she can say is yes or no.

this really isn't a spin off.

i'm merely fascinated that it doesn't work that way for women at all.

  

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look around. obviously not!
Nov 02nd 2011
1
^came through with the double barrows
Nov 02nd 2011
2
LMAO
Nov 02nd 2011
14
barrels?
Nov 02nd 2011
57
      i didn't make that up. it's an age old okp meme.
Nov 02nd 2011
65
           ah
Nov 02nd 2011
119
           I hardly wonder wassup with folks who no longer post but i wonder
Nov 02nd 2011
ZACTLY!
Nov 02nd 2011
10
There are absolutely women that exist who can't be told...
Nov 02nd 2011
3
i don't know any. i don't doubt it though.
Nov 02nd 2011
6
see: every obese black woman
Nov 02nd 2011
61
you went there, i see.
Nov 02nd 2011
70
I was thinking about certain chicks from Jersey and/or L.A but...
Nov 02nd 2011
79
BBBW.
Nov 02nd 2011
84
Riigght, because we all think and respond the same...
Nov 02nd 2011
249
Damn people respond to obese?
Nov 02nd 2011
276
*cackles*
Nov 02nd 2011
279
DAMMNNNN LOL. Nigga set OFF THE CHOCOLATE BOMB!!!
Nov 02nd 2011
293
You can't tell me I don't look good.
Nov 02nd 2011
191
*Makes kissy noises in your direction*
Nov 02nd 2011
203
      *looks at your ass*
Nov 02nd 2011
221
           *shakes my ass for you*
Nov 02nd 2011
227
                *throws a dollar at your ass*
Nov 02nd 2011
230
                     A dollar?! *Shakes ass furiously*
Nov 02nd 2011
                          *tosses a twenty*
Nov 02nd 2011
242
                               this exchange was hilarious! lol
Nov 02nd 2011
290
                                    It really is.
Nov 02nd 2011
303
                                    *Cartwheels over the collection/tip hat and lands facing you & fb*
Nov 03rd 2011
322
                                         *laughs impishly and applauds* yaaaaaay!
Nov 03rd 2011
330
the know, they just pretend and overcompensate.
Nov 02nd 2011
235
      I share your suspicion...with both genders.
Nov 02nd 2011
241
i don't think it's about men knowing(lol) that they're ugly.
Nov 02nd 2011
4
okay. so they know and don't care.
Nov 02nd 2011
9
^^^^
Nov 02nd 2011
13
they still get women so whether they know or not doesnt matter
Nov 02nd 2011
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I do and don't care.
Nov 02nd 2011
5
you do what?? know you're ugly??
Nov 02nd 2011
12
Not Craig Mack ugly, but yep.
Nov 02nd 2011
      i agree.
Nov 02nd 2011
50
i agree that those things matter more.
Nov 02nd 2011
15
THERE IT IS *scratches*
Nov 02nd 2011
16
yea some men know they're fuglier
Nov 02nd 2011
7
When women ask me "You don't think you're attractive?"
Nov 02nd 2011
8
im the same way. im indifferent about how i look.
Nov 02nd 2011
52
      lol
Nov 02nd 2011
68
most of the time it doesnt matter if a dude is ugly
Nov 02nd 2011
11
i don't even think it's something you guys need to think about.
Nov 02nd 2011
26
i aint say it matter. i want to know if yall know.
Nov 02nd 2011
28
      lol
Nov 02nd 2011
      ;-)
Nov 02nd 2011
37
I thought I was, but the last couple years tell me different
Nov 02nd 2011
17
Cause charm+swagger matter more then looks for men
Nov 02nd 2011
18
ugh. the ex before my present situation
Nov 02nd 2011
27
im not asking why it doesnt matter. im asking if yall know.
Nov 02nd 2011
32
      I don't think any man thinks they look good tho
Nov 02nd 2011
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           i beg to differ.
Nov 02nd 2011
53
           now THATS interesting. really? wow.
Nov 02nd 2011
59
           i kinda agree with this
Nov 02nd 2011
66
           Well for SOME men I think your right
Nov 03rd 2011
318
women focus on the 1 man who dont want em.
Nov 02nd 2011
19
now thats a really interesting thought. damn.
Nov 02nd 2011
82
hahahaha, yes, this is on point
Nov 03rd 2011
310
this was supposed to be edited.
Nov 02nd 2011
20
smh.
Nov 02nd 2011
43
      ? @ this series of replies.
Nov 02nd 2011
55
           did something get deleted? i'm so confused.
Nov 02nd 2011
69
           lol. i had said her little ass was stupid. but in a good way today.
Nov 02nd 2011
87
           are you taking it personally that i didnt reply?
Nov 02nd 2011
92
           not at all.
Nov 02nd 2011
97
                oh.i wasnt mad at the original comment.
Nov 02nd 2011
103
                     nawl, i f*cked up. look up^. i can see how folk was confused. lol
Nov 02nd 2011
109
           what?? what did i do to you?? i'm SO confused.
Nov 02nd 2011
171
                lost in translation.
Nov 02nd 2011
185
           now i see the confusion. i called myself editing the first post
Nov 02nd 2011
106
couple things
Nov 02nd 2011
21
god, this sounds so pathetic
Nov 02nd 2011
30
i agree with both of your points. now, do you know your ugly?
Nov 02nd 2011
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      it's like they cant even fathom answering it
Nov 02nd 2011
44
      We just don't ever think about it that way
Nov 02nd 2011
56
      lol
Nov 02nd 2011
86
      thats why i made the post
Nov 02nd 2011
95
      I came to post this
Nov 02nd 2011
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      so you see it too? okay.
Nov 02nd 2011
77
           who's ugly but in denial in this post?
Nov 02nd 2011
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                lol thats not even where i'm going with that
Nov 02nd 2011
89
                     but isn't that HEALTHY?
Nov 02nd 2011
117
                     sure its healthy, but i wasn't certain that it was a non-factor
Nov 02nd 2011
136
                     oh i think it more than matters when the person is an asshole
Nov 02nd 2011
175
                          folks are gonna be assholes
Nov 02nd 2011
176
                               we know who we each deem cute or ugly within ourselves...
Nov 02nd 2011
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                                    again, seems like you find it more offensive when theyre ugly
Nov 02nd 2011
258
                     don't worry. men have enough insecurities.
Nov 02nd 2011
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                          dick size, height, am i tough enough
Nov 02nd 2011
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                               keep going. i want to know what to say back when dudes say
Nov 02nd 2011
172
                                    hey flora
Nov 02nd 2011
187
                                         wat.
Nov 02nd 2011
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      i dont believe that's the case personally
Nov 02nd 2011
58
Sometimes they forget
Nov 02nd 2011
22
ugly doesn't really matter for women. it REALLY doesn't matter for men.
Nov 02nd 2011
23
oh you mean like how y'all REALLY don't care??
Nov 02nd 2011
101
      right. women are gonna get chose
Nov 02nd 2011
114
We struggle with it, but not really
Nov 02nd 2011
24
its hard some some to realize especially when they constantly get
Nov 02nd 2011
25
hmmmmm
Nov 02nd 2011
98
a better question would be 'do men know theyre lame?'
Nov 02nd 2011
29
*live nygga shrug*
Nov 02nd 2011
31
multi-tiered lol
Nov 02nd 2011
60
^^^^^
Nov 02nd 2011
34
lol
Nov 02nd 2011
49
That's dude's main problem..
Nov 02nd 2011
99
oh this about somebody on here? im out.
Nov 02nd 2011
134
      it wasn't meant to be
Nov 02nd 2011
166
nah
Nov 02nd 2011
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answer
Nov 02nd 2011
113
      the the answer was for ugly
Nov 02nd 2011
146
Being lame and unaware is some live nigga shit tho nm.
Nov 02nd 2011
278
Men have a hard time spotting anything besides
Nov 02nd 2011
35
this is the kind of answer i was hoping for. thank you.
Nov 02nd 2011
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yes.
Nov 02nd 2011
36
Yup.
Nov 02nd 2011
45
apparently, not. but it's partially our fault.
Nov 02nd 2011
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excellent and timely question
Nov 02nd 2011
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most dudes I know are like laz unless they been told they were fine they
Nov 02nd 2011
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many do
Nov 02nd 2011
46
also, if YOU dont think you cute...who will
Nov 02nd 2011
47
it still helps to be realistic.
Nov 02nd 2011
78
we know - we be playing the dozens
Nov 02nd 2011
48
I'd assume so...'cause even as kids, people are persecuted
Nov 02nd 2011
51
exactly. we told the ugly kids they were ugly.
Nov 02nd 2011
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yes but somebody going sleep wit me
Nov 02nd 2011
54
ARCHIVE!
Nov 02nd 2011
62
what a dumb ass post
Nov 02nd 2011
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ask big drawls surrounded by her homegirls purses @ the club
Nov 02nd 2011
71
so are you saying big= automatically ugly?
Nov 02nd 2011
85
      nope!
Nov 02nd 2011
100
           wrong
Nov 02nd 2011
110
you seem really upset. have a better day.
Nov 02nd 2011
76
      look at you! *pats on head*
Nov 02nd 2011
94
           bitch you touch my head and you won't have a hand.
Nov 02nd 2011
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                you seem really upset. have a better day. (c)
Nov 02nd 2011
102
                     *jumps in between yall & starts doin the Ed Lover dance*
Nov 02nd 2011
104
                     lmao I hate you
Nov 02nd 2011
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                     lmaoooooooooo
Nov 02nd 2011
115
                     Is it weird that I hate it when they fight?
Nov 02nd 2011
304
                     not really. i just dont like having my head touched. bye :o)
Nov 02nd 2011
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if you do, and you act as such, you are dead in the water
Nov 02nd 2011
64
NO!!
Nov 02nd 2011
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Sheeeeeeeeit
Nov 02nd 2011
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not snarking this dude
Nov 02nd 2011
72
http://raptures-delight.air-nifty.com/photos/uncategorized/mc_hammer.gif
Nov 02nd 2011
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That shits all relative. Some folks who are fine don't know it and
Nov 02nd 2011
80
but sunny d ain't 100% serious
Nov 02nd 2011
93
      I agree with all that. It's kinda what I was trying to say
Nov 02nd 2011
112
      he tells me all the time i'm not attractive to him
Nov 02nd 2011
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      he' s not being serious
Nov 02nd 2011
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           ive only dated one "fine" guy and it was by accident
Nov 02nd 2011
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                so he wasn't far off in thinking you could be attracted
Nov 02nd 2011
138
                     well then let's circle back to what monkeynuts said.
Nov 02nd 2011
141
                          taking him out of the equation (sorry!)
Nov 02nd 2011
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                               thats the thing
Nov 02nd 2011
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                                    i really don't think it's an elephant in the room
Nov 02nd 2011
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                                    thats where we disagree
Nov 02nd 2011
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                                         but why is it acting out when theyre ugly?
Nov 02nd 2011
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                                              thats just an asshole
Nov 02nd 2011
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                                                   huh?
Nov 02nd 2011
                                                        know what? its the end of the day
Nov 02nd 2011
234
                                                        Lol @"SAY IT! SAY YOU'RE UGLY!"
Nov 02nd 2011
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                                                        i have a crush on this reply
Nov 02nd 2011
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                                                             #TEAMTEEFIVETEN
Nov 03rd 2011
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                                    I like the cut of your jib.
Nov 02nd 2011
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      ^^tryin to get that dj gig at sunny d's new years party
Nov 02nd 2011
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      .
Nov 02nd 2011
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      lmao
Nov 02nd 2011
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      nothing about his schtick seems serious at all.
Nov 02nd 2011
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           yeah. if you're an ass, you're an ass
Nov 02nd 2011
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                in that sense it doesn't make folks any better than him.
Nov 02nd 2011
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                oh this is all about sunnyd? im not in on the calling him out..
Nov 02nd 2011
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                actually its the audacity of
Nov 02nd 2011
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                it should be just as audacious when the dude is cute
Nov 02nd 2011
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                     funny how that doesn't happen though
Nov 02nd 2011
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                     they do it. i think we ignore b/c there is less ammo
Nov 02nd 2011
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                     i think they have a specific person in mind, and that is why this matter...
Nov 02nd 2011
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                nope i just believe in being a good person period. but if you ugly
Nov 02nd 2011
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                     so it's ok to be cute and calling folks ugly?
Nov 02nd 2011
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                          uhm, T read over my reply. not saying that at all
Nov 02nd 2011
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                          ok, forget ugly. would it make sense to you if it a fat chick
Nov 02nd 2011
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                               ^^^^ or a broke person hitting on broke people..its all the same shit
Nov 02nd 2011
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                                    those aren't quite the same
Nov 02nd 2011
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yes ..we do
Nov 02nd 2011
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i know im ugly, here is a proof.
Nov 02nd 2011
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I know niggas that know they ugly. They don't care. We called this
Nov 02nd 2011
90
LMAO....mafucka looked like a Nickelodeon character huh
Nov 02nd 2011
140
      He stayed fresh...the nigga was just ugly as shit.
Nov 02nd 2011
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it's more men don't care more than they don't know
Nov 02nd 2011
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Nope...Never been called it IRL either.
Nov 02nd 2011
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theres alot of qualifiers getting thrown around
Nov 02nd 2011
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EXACTLY. i mean wtf. mens looks are getting more relevant
Nov 02nd 2011
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      it is
Nov 02nd 2011
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           excellent points ladies.
Nov 02nd 2011
282
heartthrob, never. pale and ugly as ever, however....
Nov 02nd 2011
118
Should they give a flying fuck? lol @ this post.
Nov 02nd 2011
121
jesus christ that isnt the point of this post
Nov 02nd 2011
127
      But right, other than making themselves as presentable as possible
Nov 02nd 2011
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           this just isn't about that.
Nov 02nd 2011
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                Oh ard. I mean if we all as a people are taking cues from
Nov 02nd 2011
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Sometimes.
Nov 02nd 2011
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i've been called everything from "fine" to "ugly as hell."
Nov 02nd 2011
125
^^^ i concur with this for the ghey response in this post
Nov 02nd 2011
289
btw, i don't think that sunnyD is ugly, i just think he's not that attra...
Nov 02nd 2011
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his personality make him all the way ugly.
Nov 02nd 2011
131
I don't think hes ugly or unattractive.
Nov 02nd 2011
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      he is very kanye-ey. that's what i mean by corny with money=mark
Nov 02nd 2011
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           also i feel like if we were dating and we came to visit you
Nov 02nd 2011
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           lol. both you motherfuckers would have to be protected in zone 1.
Nov 02nd 2011
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                theyd have to kill me then. i goes on the stroll for no one.
Nov 02nd 2011
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           did you just call the man a " mark " ??
Nov 02nd 2011
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they know. but they r smart enough to know it doesnt matter...
Nov 02nd 2011
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being good looking by itself holds no value for men
Nov 02nd 2011
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      ^^^^^^
Nov 02nd 2011
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      ^^^^^ i have to agree
Nov 02nd 2011
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      yuppers.
Nov 02nd 2011
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      yep
Nov 02nd 2011
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      i cannot clap to this at all
Nov 02nd 2011
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      acknowledgment is not the same as respect tho
Nov 02nd 2011
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      i nvr like u anyway, pretty mother....
Nov 02nd 2011
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           that doesn't get any respect
Nov 02nd 2011
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                he not cute though.
Nov 02nd 2011
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                     i wouldn't know, i'm a dude
Nov 02nd 2011
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                          i dont believe u.
Nov 02nd 2011
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                               i 100% guarantee i can't tell if toure is handsome or not
Nov 02nd 2011
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      If anything, we'll judge a dude harder in a way
Nov 02nd 2011
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           base
Nov 02nd 2011
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           ive seen the total opposite.
Nov 02nd 2011
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           I'm speaking on specifics about one homie, for one
Nov 02nd 2011
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                okay im glad u agree with me :0)
Nov 02nd 2011
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                     My homie who came in town this weekend is perfect example
Nov 02nd 2011
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                          thats the thing about looks
Nov 02nd 2011
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                               YUP!
Nov 02nd 2011
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                               LOL, that's one thing opposite about men n women. We get ONE strike
Nov 02nd 2011
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                                    unfortunately for some women that aint true
Nov 02nd 2011
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                                         Hmm...I'm sure it's a generalization, but in, eh, "general", usually so
Nov 02nd 2011
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           that ish sound like yal was lowkey hating lol
Nov 02nd 2011
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                LOL nah not at all. It's funny b/c he was a helluva late bloomer
Nov 03rd 2011
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      but they respect the effect that it has
Nov 02nd 2011
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      be as it may, it means SOMETHING to the ladies.
Nov 02nd 2011
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      errum yes it does....
Nov 02nd 2011
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      i agree. or thats def what i have noticed. nm
Nov 03rd 2011
323
yes we know OUR faults....shortcomings and deficiencies...
Nov 02nd 2011
143
YES they do...ugly niggas know they ugly...ya'll really need to see
Nov 02nd 2011
144
deray ain't even cute.
Nov 02nd 2011
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      i'm talkin about his comedy special when he goes over this topic
Nov 02nd 2011
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           i'm talking about HIM talking about ugly niggas.
Nov 02nd 2011
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loads of lies in this post. mankind knows when his ass and face match
Nov 02nd 2011
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I got to break this down. Because I get what you are saying
Nov 02nd 2011
155
its not cut and dry..but you can sorta....
Nov 02nd 2011
169
you know what? YES!
Nov 02nd 2011
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      lolololololol
Nov 02nd 2011
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      Women can be just as guilty of this.
Nov 02nd 2011
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      we talking bout men, boo.
Nov 02nd 2011
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      I'm with Iwasmadeto...we ain't that much different...
Nov 02nd 2011
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           im not arguing that though...yah mean?
Nov 02nd 2011
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                MmHmm I saw you agreed with her in your subject line.
Nov 02nd 2011
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      exactly
Nov 02nd 2011
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      you're fucking up trying to rationalize this post.
Nov 02nd 2011
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      Being ugly in and of itself doesn't stop dudes from gettin chicks.
Nov 02nd 2011
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           thx.
Nov 02nd 2011
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                why was this so hard?
Nov 02nd 2011
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I figured I was in 10th grade when puberty hit hard
Nov 02nd 2011
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Men know....
Nov 02nd 2011
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i am aware--
Nov 02nd 2011
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you not ugly. you just a dick.
Nov 02nd 2011
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      lol...smh
Nov 02nd 2011
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very much so. I have shitty eyes.
Nov 02nd 2011
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yeah but it doesnt matter.
Nov 02nd 2011
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I'm a bit surprised at some of the guys claiming ugly in here...
Nov 02nd 2011
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I don't know because I was too busy counting all the female attention
Nov 02nd 2011
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oh shit this post is about somebody or did it end up that way?
Nov 02nd 2011
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it just ended up that way.
Nov 02nd 2011
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ended up that way
Nov 02nd 2011
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team sunny d.
Nov 02nd 2011
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*Picks out outfit from structure and grows dreads in this post*
Nov 02nd 2011
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I know i'm funny looking to some, but awesome to others.....
Nov 02nd 2011
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ladies, y'all are disappointing me here
Nov 02nd 2011
195
all of this is stemming from a Sunny D post
Nov 02nd 2011
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i hope not cuz i was not thinking abt him.
Nov 02nd 2011
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      it's not supposed to be about him but i think he's
Nov 02nd 2011
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not at all what im implying.
Nov 02nd 2011
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but in arguing your point, you are implying that
Nov 02nd 2011
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      RE: but in arguing your point, you are implying that
Nov 03rd 2011
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are you surprised?
Nov 02nd 2011
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i do'z
Nov 02nd 2011
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i think you know there are people who look better or worse than you
Nov 02nd 2011
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we're not too concerned because we know we have other...
Nov 02nd 2011
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I know I'm ugly, and I'm ok with it
Nov 02nd 2011
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*munches on popcorn*
Nov 02nd 2011
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I really dont think they do.
Nov 02nd 2011
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so true.
Nov 02nd 2011
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i agree, which makes them so appealing.
Nov 02nd 2011
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Sometimes I respect the busted dudes that try to holla at 10's.
Nov 02nd 2011
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huh? plus how come this was posted at 3 and already has 300+ responses
Nov 02nd 2011
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babz + (sunny d) = okp gold
Nov 02nd 2011
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we bored, we shallow, we aint doing any more work today.
Nov 02nd 2011
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almost 300 replies later, can we all just agree that I'M hampsome?
Nov 02nd 2011
257
TEAM SUNNY D
Nov 02nd 2011
269
this post needs a soundtrack
Nov 02nd 2011
280
my nose is crooked - i figured it out a few years ago
Nov 02nd 2011
281
great post btw, flora.
Nov 02nd 2011
284
The REAL point....
Nov 02nd 2011
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some know, some are delusional
Nov 02nd 2011
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#teamteefiveten
Nov 02nd 2011
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whoa, this post went flora. double flora even.
Nov 02nd 2011
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Shit. when I'm wolfin I'm pullin hoes. I'm grade A, 401K.
Nov 02nd 2011
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295!!
Nov 02nd 2011
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NYGGA
Nov 02nd 2011
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HOW
Nov 02nd 2011
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      YOU
Nov 02nd 2011
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           WANT IT?
Nov 02nd 2011
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                MY JEANS IS 300!
Nov 02nd 2011
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yea they do, but they don't care.
Nov 02nd 2011
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It's about power.
Nov 02nd 2011
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...and I'm okay w/ that.
Nov 03rd 2011
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i never knew I was good looking til like... last week.
Nov 02nd 2011
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http://i41.tinypic.com/987xvt.jpg
Nov 03rd 2011
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RE: do men know they're ugly?
Nov 03rd 2011
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On the flip, a lot of men dont know they're fine...
Nov 03rd 2011
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Hell yeah men know, and don't let them convince your otherwise lol
Nov 03rd 2011
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awesome reply.
Nov 03rd 2011
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i lub ewe
Nov 03rd 2011
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man codex
Nov 03rd 2011
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*AUDIENCE APPLAUSE AND FOOT STOMPIN
Nov 03rd 2011
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I def know dudes who judge dudes off of who's "ugly" n shit
Nov 03rd 2011
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lol this posts numbers even impressed me. wow.
Nov 03rd 2011
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my two cents
Nov 03rd 2011
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not sure why i avoided this post but...
Nov 03rd 2011
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Nah, we don't and can't "get it" in this society...
Nov 03rd 2011
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bonamie
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1. "look around. obviously not!"
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flora
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2. "^came through with the double barrows"
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bestflava1
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Wed Nov-02-11 02:22 PM

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14. "LMAO"
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Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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57. "barrels?"
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or did you actually mean she's wheeling out ugly dudes in giant wheel barrows?

  

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flora
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Wed Nov-02-11 02:38 PM

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65. "i didn't make that up. it's an age old okp meme."
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119. "ah"
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bestflava1
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"I hardly wonder wassup with folks who no longer post but i wonder "


  

          

wassup with her.....

that was soooo funny

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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bestflava1
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10. "ZACTLY!"
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Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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Moonlit_Force
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3. "There are absolutely women that exist who can't be told..."
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...that they don't look good.

  

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flora
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6. "i don't know any. i don't doubt it though."
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61. "see: every obese black woman"
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70. "you went there, i see."
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Get Out the Room
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Moonlit_Force
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79. "I was thinking about certain chicks from Jersey and/or L.A but..."
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... that example can fit too sometimes.

  

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84. "BBBW."
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fuck you.

  

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249. "Riigght, because we all think and respond the same..."
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like a group of supersized chocolate borg.

Fuck you, you smegmalith.

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276. "Damn people respond to obese?"
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279. "*cackles*"
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Tens, tens across the board, when I show up they all applaud.

  

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293. "DAMMNNNN LOL. Nigga set OFF THE CHOCOLATE BOMB!!!"
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__________________________
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"youre frustrated now? in undergrad? reading books all day?,
surrounded by more nubile unattached pussy than you will be in your life?"

  

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VAsBestBBW
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191. "You can't tell me I don't look good."
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I mean you CAN.

But why would I listen?

Since its obvious I am nice looking.

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Moonlit_Force
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203. "*Makes kissy noises in your direction*"
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lol. I'm just trying to dismantle the undercurrent of genderwarz in
here...

  

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VAsBestBBW
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221. "*looks at your ass*"
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i know, i was just tryna be a smart ass.

i already know my tastes run off the norm.

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Moonlit_Force
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227. "*shakes my ass for you*"
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VAsBestBBW
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230. "*throws a dollar at your ass*"
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Moonlit_Force
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"A dollar?! *Shakes ass furiously*"


  

          

  

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VAsBestBBW
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242. "*tosses a twenty*"
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damn.

furiously shaking.

lol.

the mental was hilarious.

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290. "this exchange was hilarious! lol"
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Hammer or anvil?

  

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303. "It really is. "
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
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322. "*Cartwheels over the collection/tip hat and lands facing you & fb*"
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330. "*laughs impishly and applauds* yaaaaaay!"
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Hammer or anvil?

  

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235. "the know, they just pretend and overcompensate."
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trust me they really know.



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241. "I share your suspicion...with both genders."
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And they both react in exactly the same manner once they internalize
that people find them ugly is all I'm saying.

  

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Koku
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4. "i don't think it's about men knowing(lol) that they're ugly."
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but <italics>knowing</italics> that it
doesn't really matter how they look b/c
they can still pull a dime if their
financials & charisma are in order.

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flora
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9. "okay. so they know and don't care."
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i'm talking more aesthetics though.

do they look in the mirror and get repulsed by the utter lack of symmetry?

  

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13. "^^^^"
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>but <italics>knowing</italics> that it
>doesn't really matter how they look b/c
>they can still pull a dime if their
>financials & charisma in order.

  

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247. "they still get women so whether they know or not doesnt matter"
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the fact that they get ass is all they need to know, and if they have money or a great personality..its a plus.

some guys are below average but because they have money and get attention they think its because they are fine.


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5. "I do and don't care. "
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Personality, finances, physique, height, etc. matters more to us than looks.

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12. "you do what?? know you're ugly??"
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>Personality, finances, physique, height, etc. matters more to
>us than looks.

but physique, height, etc. all go into
the look of things, so i'm trying to
understand your answer.

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"Not Craig Mack ugly, but yep."


  

          

Plus, ugly dudes pull mad women. Personality for men is roughly equivalent to looks for a woman.

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Koku
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50. "i agree."
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>Plus, ugly dudes pull mad women. Personality for men is
>roughly equivalent to looks for a woman.

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@kokupuff

  

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flora
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15. "i agree that those things matter more."
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i've even made that argument & people have called me all kinds of names for saying it.

weird.

  

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16. "THERE IT IS *scratches*"
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SankofaII
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7. "yea some men know they're fuglier"
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than a buffalo shot in the face with a bullet, head slayed out all over the place.

some men are "okay" with it and ramp up their other qualities...

some dudes don't know and are in denial about it, henceforth the obsessive hollers

it is what it is...

plus each woman's trash is another woman's treasure...you may think he's an ashy ass dust monkey, but another woman may find that ugly dude to be her King...its really up to personal preference, no?

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8. "When women ask me "You don't think you're attractive?""
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I respond with "I think I look like me." If you think I'm (fill in descriptor) then so be it. Whether you think I'm fine, ugly or whatever won't change my features. Some will dig me, some won't. *shrug*

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52. "im the same way. im indifferent about how i look."
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but you not ugly so u cant really answer this right.

  

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68. "lol "
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www.royallegacy.org
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11. "most of the time it doesnt matter if a dude is ugly"
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so why would we worry much about it?

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26. "i don't even think it's something you guys need to think about."
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@kokupuff

  

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28. "i aint say it matter. i want to know if yall know."
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not you though, cause you not ugly.

  

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"lol"


  

          

>not you though, cause you not ugly.

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37. ";-)"
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17. "I thought I was, but the last couple years tell me different"
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http://www.flickr.com/photos/antix818/

http://stuffography.tumblr.com/

  

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18. "Cause charm+swagger matter more then looks for men"
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same way a woman can be uncharming and not a good person, but if she's pretty she won't ever run out of hollas

  

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27. "ugh. the ex before my present situation"
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>same way a woman can be uncharming and not a good person, but
>if she's pretty she won't ever run out of hollas
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flora
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32. "im not asking why it doesnt matter. im asking if yall know."
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like, do you look in the mirror and see ugly?

i wonder if that even registers

sometimes, after a long night of drinking and titty rubbing i look in the mirror and i feel like UGH

im not ugly but i do have my moments

does this happen to men?

  

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41. "I don't think any man thinks they look good tho"
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even IF they look good. Hell, we've got millions, if not billions, worth of rap lyrics, I bet you if you took out the bars that have them commenting on their looks it would be miniscule compared to their dicks, their clothes, etc.

Nobody likes to think they are an UGLY person, but if got a feeling if you took a poll everyone would give the honest answer of 'eeh, im aaight or a 'im cute' at best even if they were super busted. Outside of general physique I don't think men in general acknowledge it at all...

*ponders*

  

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53. "i beg to differ."
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i know for a motherfucking fact im movie star handsome.

*shrug*

not bragging if its true


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59. "now THATS interesting. really? wow."
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66. "i kinda agree with this"
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bestflava1
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318. "Well for SOME men I think your right"
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but I do know men that be on some "mirror mirror on the wall" type ish

i told my man he was fine one day and he made a face like i punched him in the stomach.....I asked him what was wrong

he told me thats some gay shit...said he was raised being taught that as men we give woman compliments...men aint supposed to be sittin around talkin that fine and sexy shit...he said thats whats wrong with men today sittin around gettin black outs in they beard...created false hairlines...dying bald spots.....he said men nowadays on some woman shit all obsessed with their looks....he said his father taught him: keep a job.....pay ya bills...take care of ya woman and kids and stay fresh and clean.....eff all that other shit...lol

Bad decisions make good stories.

If u cannot see love thru action, it is not love it is something else...

Where the REAL niggas at?

Me: I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.

My Dad: Babygirl, there is no benefit in doubt.

AT THE END OF THE DAY....

  

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Binlahab
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19. "women focus on the 1 man who dont want em."
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men focus on the 1 woman who does

ie
the finest most beautiful woman on the planet gets rejected by ONE dude & shes gonna be insecure abt her looks forever

meanwhile that 1 busted dude catches a girl who thinks he's fantastic looking...& you'll NEVER convince him otherwise

men process rejection different from yall

on some real shit far as im concerned anyone who dont want me is either lying for online lulz, blind or a hater. it AINT me. its yall

*shruggles*

  

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82. "now thats a really interesting thought. damn."
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310. "hahahaha, yes, this is on point"
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nm

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

  

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20. "this was supposed to be edited. "
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i need a fricking assistant to dictate @ times. lol

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43. "smh. "
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lol.

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55. "? @ this series of replies."
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69. "did something get deleted? i'm so confused."
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87. "lol. i had said her little ass was stupid. but in a good way today. "
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lmao! thanks for revisting.

this is how a retort is done. and who it's being done by, and the irony of it all?

and yes, that burned my fingers to type. but not really.

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92. "are you taking it personally that i didnt reply?"
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i mean, why would i when you didn't really say anything?

  

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97. "not at all. "
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u misunderstanding.

i just thought what i had originally said was a little dramatic, so i edited. i was acking this post - basically.

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103. "oh.i wasnt mad at the original comment. "
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we cool!

thats hardly mean compared to what i hear on a daily basis lol

  

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109. "nawl, i f*cked up. look up^. i can see how folk was confused. lol"
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171. "what?? what did i do to you?? i'm SO confused."
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>lmao! thanks for revisting.
>
>this is how a retort is done. and who it's being done by, and
>the irony of it all?
>
>and yes, that burned my fingers to type. but not really.

yo seriously...WHO HURT YOU??

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185. "lost in translation."
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not srs.

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106. "now i see the confusion. i called myself editing the first post"
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and replied to it instead. my bad.

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21. "couple things"
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- hella unsightly women are setting it out all over facebook and twitter because they know someone will holler eventually

- Sunny D would get play around here (or less flak) if he were humble, funny and charming. Doing OKP numbers aint rocket science, he just acts like most of yall are beneath him so he gets fired on in return

  

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30. "god, this sounds so pathetic"
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>- hella unsightly women are setting it out all over facebook
>and twitter because they know someone will holler eventually
>
matter of fact all of this too:

>- Sunny D would get play around here (or less flak) if he were
>humble, funny and charming. Doing OKP numbers aint rocket
>science, he just acts like most of yall are beneath him so he
>gets fired on in return

where they do that @?

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33. "i agree with both of your points. now, do you know your ugly?"
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(just kidding but seriously nobody is answering the question)

  

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44. "it's like they cant even fathom answering it"
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>(just kidding but seriously nobody is answering the
>question)

all kinds of qualifiers coming out
and yet, the actual question still goes unanswered
so maybe they do know on some level

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56. "We just don't ever think about it that way"
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I mean, half of us barely lotion, lol.

Any dude that looks in a mirror is automatically gay btw.

  

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86. "lol"
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>Any dude that looks in a mirror is automatically gay btw.
>
>

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95. "thats why i made the post"
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lol cause i am genuinely curious !

  

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277. "I came to post this"
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>Any dude that looks in a mirror is automatically gay btw.
>
>

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77. "so you see it too? okay."
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81. "who's ugly but in denial in this post?"
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you're gonna have to stop beating around it and spell it out. b/c i don't see it.

fuck you.

  

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89. "lol thats not even where i'm going with that"
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i just see a whole lot of justifying why being ugly doesn't matter as opposed to answering my question which is specifically about aesthetic awareness

  

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117. "but isn't that HEALTHY?"
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what does acknowledging it do? if anything it just creates a space for doubt/insecurity.

i have to admire folks who don't even think about how they look in seeking out folks. folks are so quick to try and shit on you and bring you down. i love how b/c they dont mind, it don't matter

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136. "sure its healthy, but i wasn't certain that it was a non-factor"
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perhaps i'm being unclear

all i wanted to know is if men took their own personal aesthetics into consideration

i'm happy for them if they're able to not really think about it, cause i really strive to give a fuck less myself

i just wasn't sure that that was the case

  

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175. "oh i think it more than matters when the person is an asshole"
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psst!

  

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176. "folks are gonna be assholes"
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no one has a right to be
but if we treat it like they have a right to be based on their attractiveness, then that's on us

i dont want to tolerate a cute or an ugly asshole

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207. "we know who we each deem cute or ugly within ourselves..."
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when we think someone is unattractive, we (well i), instantly start to search for other redeeming qualities

but if said ugly person is an asshole, its like all sympathy/empathy goes out the door *throws up a mirror*

psst!

  

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258. "again, seems like you find it more offensive when theyre ugly"
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AND mean

what do you do when it's a cute guy being mean? what does throwing the mirror do? b/c theyre going to see a cute dude. lol.

and you can throw the mirror on an ugly dude and he'll likely see...a cute dude. lol.



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122. "don't worry. men have enough insecurities."
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this may not be 1 of them, but there are so many others.

fuck you.

  

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168. "dick size, height, am i tough enough"
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Do I have enough personality?
Do I get respect?

  

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172. "keep going. i want to know what to say back when dudes say"
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im ugly.

  

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187. "hey flora"
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You sexy as hell
Send me an inbox with yo number
Then tell me if I'm ugly.
Cool.

  

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198. "wat."
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58. "i dont believe that's the case personally"
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22. "Sometimes they forget"
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B/c some uglies are still able to pull with money or "a good personality" that they sometimes let that shit go to their head and forget they aren't good looking.

  

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23. "ugly doesn't really matter for women. it REALLY doesn't matter for men."
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101. "oh you mean like how y'all REALLY don't care??"
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cuz ain't a woman alive that can't get chose.

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114. "right. women are gonna get chose"
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and men aren't gonna let their looks stop them from choosing lol

i mean i'm hugely generalizing but yeah
on the list of things boys are told to be growing up, "handsome" isn't in the top 20.

  

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24. "We struggle with it, but not really"
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I don't consider myself anywhere near the top of the heap, but I think that early on we are taught that there really is no other alternative.

We know what we like in terms of women,

We can either: feel sorry for ourselves and go home empty-handed (pun intended)

or

we can suck it up and realize gods great blessing: all of dating is a numbers game,


Date the type of girl you like enough and you'll find one who is into you, period. there is no emotion, self worth, or anything playing into it at all.


I think I am quite handsome, I work out, and keep myself professional. If I get one woman who agrees, then thats well and good isn't it

  

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25. "its hard some some to realize especially when they constantly get"
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attention from women... not understanding that they are getting attention for reasons other than their looks.

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98. "hmmmmm"
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29. "a better question would be 'do men know theyre lame?'"
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31. "*live nygga shrug*"
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60. "multi-tiered lol"
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34. "^^^^^"
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_____________________
@etfp

  

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49. "lol"
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99. "That's dude's main problem.. "
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he's not ugly.. just has an ugly okpersonality. (i say "ok" because there's no way he acts like that in real life or all these "look at me and my fly life" posts would be non-existent.) the ok version is a total turnoff.




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134. "oh this about somebody on here? im out."
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166. "it wasn't meant to be"
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107. "nah"
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notice how dudes can't/wont' answer

this is actually an excellent question
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113. "answer"
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some men know they're lame and accept it

some are lame and talented enough to be "cool"

some men try too hard and dont know they're lame

  

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146. "the the answer was for ugly"
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the 'lame' is actually too easy
thats the fall back nice guy argument btw
hence flora question was actually more to the point
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278. "Being lame and unaware is some live nigga shit tho nm."
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35. "Men have a hard time spotting anything besides"
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soft, feminine prettiness.

So yes, a lot of cats just go by how women react.

But likewise, dudes often don't see anything that's not soft and pretty as "good looking", and that goes for evaluating other men (no-trannygate). There were guys at my school all the girls went ape shit over and I always scratched my head trying to figure out why. But now I get it - those dudes were manly handsome, not prettyboy handsome, and therefore I couldn't see it.

  

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39. "this is the kind of answer i was hoping for. thank you."
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36. "yes."
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men know they're ugly b/c the world tells them.

fuck you.

  

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45. "Yup."
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38. "apparently, not. but it's partially our fault."
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we encourage these motherfuckers by bottom-feeding.

  

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40. "excellent and timely question"
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i think some men's respond to rejection by mentally fortifying themselves to just not believe it's them.

which is actually a good thing in my book, but too much of it is just ugh

  

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42. "most dudes I know are like laz unless they been told they were fine they"
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whole life

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46. "many do"
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47. "also, if YOU dont think you cute...who will"
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shit works from the inside out

even if u hella lopsided abt the head...u got to believe in you, ultimately thats all men have is our own self confidence...women walk around & get constant positive (& not so positive) feedback on their physical

men (unless they stringer bell) could be the most cut chiseled dudes on earth...nobody is gonna stop them in the street & say gatDAMN you a good looking man lemme get your #

which is why we put so much emphasis on non verbal cues ala 'OOP! saw your bitch looking! SHE WANTS ME!' *george jefferson struts*


do or die

  

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78. "it still helps to be realistic."
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48. "we know - we be playing the dozens"
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We just don't care.

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51. "I'd assume so...'cause even as kids, people are persecuted"
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by teasing, so as a man, who was probably teased when he was young, he may know he's not physically appealing to women, but the caveat is the premise whereby his confidence is established, be it genuine or of some faux means of compensation

but yeah, sure they do. It's probably comparable to the obesed little girl, who remains obesed as she enters womanhood.

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74. "exactly. we told the ugly kids they were ugly."
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and i imagine the ugly boys who didn't make some drastic physical change when they became men still believe it.

fuck you.

  

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54. "yes but somebody going sleep wit me"
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62. "ARCHIVE!"
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63. "what a dumb ass post"
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do women know they're ugly?

I mean really...

  

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71. "ask big drawls surrounded by her homegirls purses @ the club"
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nursing her 1 lil lonely ass drink while everyone else is pantomimimng sex on the dancefloor how attractive she feels

aka hell yeah women know when they arent cute

shit sucks but its life


do or die

  

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85. "so are you saying big= automatically ugly?"
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100. "nope!"
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but i bet you wont see no skinny chick w/ a nice body on purse patrol @ club diesal on a saturday nite


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110. "wrong"
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>but i bet you wont see no skinny chick w/ a nice body on
>purse patrol @ club diesal on a saturday nite
>
>
>do or die


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76. "you seem really upset. have a better day."
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94. "look at you! *pats on head*"
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96. "bitch you touch my head and you won't have a hand."
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102. "you seem really upset. have a better day. (c)"
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104. "*jumps in between yall & starts doin the Ed Lover dance*"
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111. "lmao I hate you"
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115. "lmaoooooooooo"
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304. "Is it weird that I hate it when they fight? "
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I know it aint that serious but that shit ruins all my OKP fun for a few lines.

And I read it anyway :/

No I don't.

But I do notice it.

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105. "not really. i just dont like having my head touched. bye :o)"
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64. "if you do, and you act as such, you are dead in the water"
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67. "NO!!"
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Stay getting Flava Flavs hollering real hard.

  

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75. "Sheeeeeeeeit"
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>Stay getting Flava Flavs hollering real hard.

Flav got like 5011 kids. SOMEONE did it

  

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72. "not snarking this dude"
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but one poster has said "I know I dont look good, but (some reason he was redeemable)" multiple times

and it's always gotten the 0_o from people when they saw it

it's a fine line between maintaining a healthy self of steam and being TOO realistic to a fault about your physicalities

  

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73. "http://raptures-delight.air-nifty.com/photos/uncategorized/mc_hammer.gif"
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80. "That shits all relative. Some folks who are fine don't know it and"
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Vice versa. But somebody will fuck them and blow their head up. Even sunny d

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93. "but sunny d ain't 100% serious"
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i dunno sometimes we want to beat folks into submission on this site
he's definitely not a looker or super attractive but i can see the appeal. he's confident and he actually is very friendly in person.

but its like you ugly! your face is smacked! i mean yeah his shit ain't smooth but he's not craig mackin. and if he was, craig was getting pussy. lol.

chicks on here do to sunny what they claim dudes on here do to them, but they think it's justified b/c the overall consensus is that sunny isn't attractive @ an immediate glance

in the end he dont care and gonna do his #s anyway so oh wellz.

i definitely don't find him attractive. doesn't mean he's ugly. i'm sure i'm not attractive like that to him either. doesn't make me ugly. it's all good.

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112. "I agree with all that. It's kinda what I was trying to say"
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>i dunno sometimes we want to beat folks into submission on
>this site
>he's definitely not a looker or super attractive but i can see
>the appeal. he's confident and he actually is very friendly in
>person.
>
>but its like you ugly! your face is smacked! i mean yeah his
>shit ain't smooth but he's not craig mackin. and if he was,
>craig was getting pussy. lol.
>
>chicks on here do to sunny what they claim dudes on here do to
>them, but they think it's justified b/c the overall consensus
>is that sunny isn't attractive @ an immediate glance
>
>in the end he dont care and gonna do his #s anyway so oh
>wellz.
>
>i definitely don't find him attractive. doesn't mean he's
>ugly. i'm sure i'm not attractive like that to him either.
>doesn't make me ugly. it's all good.

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120. "he tells me all the time i'm not attractive to him"
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yet i'm hearing all day that SOMEBODY like it

i dunno why he thinks its possible for him to not be into me, but not vice versa

its weird

  

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126. "he' s not being serious"
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but even if he was, i think most of us (women) including yourself (i may be wrong) have indicated while looks are important, if a dude has other qualities that we like (sense of humor, etc), we'd probably be attracted?

he may be speaking on some long shot shit but by that logic, it is possible, right?

but his post was largely just to get a rise out of folks, just like every other post. lol

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130. "ive only dated one "fine" guy and it was by accident"
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and he had bad teeth

so yea, thats how i feel.

  

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138. "so he wasn't far off in thinking you could be attracted"
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i mean i came in and tried to crush the buildings b/c i have met him and i still dont find him attractive but like i said in the post before it was deleted, he's got charisma. i could see why ladies dig him. that shit ain't for me though.

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141. "well then let's circle back to what monkeynuts said."
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if this is gonna become about sundevil, whats repulsive about him is mostly his personality, not his looks.

he also isn't cute enough for a charisma pass cause i don't do bad skin. thats my deal breaker.

  

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147. "taking him out of the equation (sorry!)"
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it seems pretty clear guys don't care or even take the time to acknowledge

i think that's pretty awesome

and no amount of 'you ugly!' will change it for them, especially if experience shows them otherwise

and yes, while the rise of the metrosexual has shown that looks are beginning to matter more, shit is still largely status quo. only dudes who want a specific type of girl who is into that shit will change and even then, their physical looks will not preclude them b/c their style will be the attraction

i dunno i just feel we're willing this to matter to folks it doesn't matter to. i wouldn't wish this on anyone. lol

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165. "thats the thing"
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>i dunno i just feel we're willing this to matter to folks it
>doesn't matter to. i wouldn't wish this on anyone. lol

guaging from the reactions
its an elephant in the room
reminds me of while its changin a bit how latinos would be like we have no blacks
or what racism?


its obviously there
no one wants to acknowledge it although dudes are definitely affected regularly
over compensating is one reaction
defensiveness another

its not willing something that is just there
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173. "i really don't think it's an elephant in the room"
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maybe if you're constantly getting hollered at by dudes you feel are ugly dudes and you want them to stop but that's still not an elephant in the room...for everybody

my point is that we'd like it to be, but in the grand scheme of things, it really isn't.

it's like y'all want to punish dudes for being unattractive the way they oppress/punish us. like we WANT them to have that complex.i don't want that.

i also don't see what acknowledging it does. it's not like ugly dudes are being underhanded in getting ass b/c they lack looks. theyre playing up their other qualities, like theyre SUPPOSED to do. lol.

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186. "thats where we disagree"
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and i think the answers in here are the proof


>maybe if you're constantly getting hollered at by dudes you
>feel are ugly dudes and you want them to stop but that's still
>not an elephant in the room...for everybody
>
>my point is that we'd like it to be, but in the grand scheme
>of things, it really isn't.
>
>it's like y'all want to punish dudes for being unattractive
>the way they oppress/punish us. like we WANT them to have that
>complex.i don't want that.
>
>i also don't see what acknowledging it does. it's not like
>ugly dudes are being underhanded in getting ass b/c they lack
>looks. theyre playing up their other qualities, like theyre
>SUPPOSED to do. lol.

and this absolutely makes it the elephant in the room
its not acknowledged
why isn't being acknowledged is part of the question
why do it?
hrm maybe because it is the elephant in the room and it becomes a bit obvious that the person is over compensating and acting out in other ways

or when they subscribe to other than obvious reason why people react to them in a certain way


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189. "but why is it acting out when theyre ugly?"
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and it's something else when theyre not? is it not acting out when theyre good looking?

it has nothing to do with looks. you'd just rather deny them those things b/c they have 'the nerve' to be that way when theyre not universally attractive

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200. "thats just an asshole"
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>and it's something else when theyre not? is it not acting out
>when theyre good looking?



and what i see is a cause and effect acknowledged for women
but denied for men


>it has nothing to do with looks. you'd just rather deny them
>those things b/c they have 'the nerve' to be that way when
>theyre not universally attractive


disagree again
i call assholes assholes all the way around

but i wont look aside at someone for whom looks are clearly a major priority for others
but skip themselves
i look the same at poor women who focus on rich men
and a rich woman looking for rich men wouldnt be different
BUT
we like to looks at a ugly dude clearly focused on looks and ascribe the behavior elsewhere
when its pretty apparent when constant and insistent focus on looks is something that is an issue with them
why not acknowledge it at that point?

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>but i wont look aside at someone for whom looks are clearly a
>major priority for others
>but skip themselves
>i look the same at poor women who focus on rich men
>and a rich woman looking for rich men wouldnt be different

how would a poor woman looking for a rich man
be no different than a rich woman looking for a rich man?




an ugly dude looking for only dimes is really no different.
aren't they all looking for the more desired qualities?

you want folks to acknowledge some shit that really isn't as big of an issue for them if theyre managing to get what they want.

you want to be this way, but it's the other way (c) Marlo

if an ugly dude was just spending his life assless b/c no pretty girls were getting at him, then yeah he may come to that realization and take it internally and it can become a big issue for him

but i think the general point is that it isnt preventing dudes from getting what they want.

and not every ugly dude is acting like a jerk to get what he wants, even sunny d.

i dont even know how acknowlegement would even help right about now. it may assuage those offended but it wouldn't change how things are.


it's almost like y'all are like "SAY IT! SAY YOU'RE UGLY!"

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234. "know what? its the end of the day"
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my argument isn't making sense for this rebuttal


not that i agree
i just can't do that now!
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274. "Lol @"SAY IT! SAY YOU'RE UGLY!""
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306. "i have a crush on this reply"
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>how would a poor woman looking for a rich man
>be no different than a rich woman looking for a rich man?
>

>an ugly dude looking for only dimes is really no different.
>aren't they all looking for the more desired qualities?

yes. we all just want to cook. ugly men and poor women.
why would settle if we don't have to?

  

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321. "#TEAMTEEFIVETEN"
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305. "I like the cut of your jib. "
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I've shared the "Larry Love" story many times and while it's anecdotal evidence at best, nowhere near a certain truth, I think that there is a give and take there.

Nothing is lost. It's shifted.

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128. "^^tryin to get that dj gig at sunny d's new years party"
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132. "."
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:)

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135. "lmao"
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158. "nothing about his schtick seems serious at all."
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i don't even understand the ppl who don't
see it.

and i'm not really trying to defend him,
as he is going around calling women
on this site unattractive, or not up to
standard, or whatever, but i DO find it
interesting that sunny d can be like
'yall chicks ain't cute'

which is something i'd pretty much
ignore and never internalize, but the
responses to that will be so vicious
& catty.

i'm all about the lulz, but regardless
of what anybody has called me on here
(i've gotten my fair share of uglies
as well) even IF i found the person
unattractive, i'd never go IN on
those things that their mamas and daddies
forced upon them (unless we're talking
about height).

not really my style.

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199. "yeah. if you're an ass, you're an ass"
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i don't see how looks play into it

but its almost like folks are calling them out on the audacity of being mean AND ugly

like they should be cowering in fear and hoarding friends b/c theyre so hideous? i don't get it.

i'll curse a fool out but i don't see the point in going in on looks. unless it's clothes. i like to clown clothes. lol.

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214. "in that sense it doesn't make folks any better than him."
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which is fine by me---but let's not
pretend like any of it's any different
just b/c he started it.

some folks are looking for a reason
to go in, & his posts seem to make that
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226. "oh this is all about sunnyd? im not in on the calling him out.."
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i dont think he's ugly

he is sorta mean though in his posts. lol

psst!

  

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215. "actually its the audacity of "
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calling folks ugly, not cute, below par, sub standard
when you yourself are ugly
not cute, below par, sub standard

this is the key

and it happens on here all the time dude love to rate women
but really what DO you look like?
whatchumean it doesn't matter?
if it doesn't matter post that pic

but for some reason calling a dude ugly is not supposed to be a big deal...
but apparently its a bigger deal than folks think
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231. "it should be just as audacious when the dude is cute"
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but apparently it isn't
and i really think you're just mad that it's not that way

so if a really handsome, well put together guy just started posting and shitting on every chick, you'd be ok with it? of course not. so why are y'all even making this argument?

clearly anyone who is spending time to shit on your looks has issues-either yes, he acknowledges he's an ugmo or he is intimidated by you or he's broke or he talks to all women like that. i dont fucking know. yes clearly he has some issue and i think that's the real point. but that he's ugly is just 1 of many possible reasons. but at the end of the day looking at how society is, i really don't think for all ugly dudes it's b/c they identify themselves as ugly and are therefore lashing out because they can't deal with their own ugliness. lol.

but to try to verbally browbeat dudes down to this shit is not only counterproductive (again-who WANTS that???), but will largely not work.

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239. "funny how that doesn't happen though"
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which makes those comments even more
wtf


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253. "they do it. i think we ignore b/c there is less ammo"
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supposedly m-nuts is cute as shit and he stay saying there's only 1 or 2 okp chicks that are really pretty

either folks lack the ammo to respond back or they've seen his face and no one responds

but when sunny d says shit folks go straight for his face

in the end neither mnuts or sunny d care what folks respond with but b/c folks have that ammo and have 'facts' that he's not as attractive, they fight back

or maybe we think mnuts isn't being serious. but neither is sunny d

either way it's just bizarre to me. sorry.

simplifying for argument's sake that cuties don't focus on looks or are more tolerable when theyre assholes (which again may be true for many but i can't clap to this)

i really don't get how that is a more ideal belief than to think this shit really doesn't matter as much as we'd like it to

i really think it's b/c of what judging women's looks does to us. it's sad.

i don't want it to be just as bad on men. i want it to be less harsh on us. and arguing this doesn't do that.

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251. "i think they have a specific person in mind, and that is why this matter..."
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but highlighting the obvious on someone when they violate you goes across all grains

but you ugly
but you fat
but you broke


its just the way it is.

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217. "nope i just believe in being a good person period. but if you ugly"
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and throwing darts

i'll start to question the two main things that stand out

your ugly personality
and
your ugly face

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222. "so it's ok to be cute and calling folks ugly?"
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i mean y'all are not outright saying this
but you kinda are

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243. "uhm, T read over my reply. not saying that at all"
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psst!

  

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246. "ok, forget ugly. would it make sense to you if it a fat chick"
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came out of nowhere saying, yall bitches are fat!? lol.

i guess that's the part that blows me. like, do you not see yourself?

  

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254. "^^^^ or a broke person hitting on broke people..its all the same shit"
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264. "those aren't quite the same"
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but if you want to argue it, fine

again, the idea that it's ok or less offensive to pick on someone for something b/c they aren't that doesn't sit well w/ me any more than folks you feel are in the same boat clowning those like them sits with you

especially if in that person's life, it really isn't mattering/affecting them as much as you'd think it should. or as much as you'd like it to.

i could be mad @ fat dude refusing to date me b/c i'm not small enough...but no amounts of 'you fat!' will change his mind, especially if socially, he's getting slim ladies.

it's like you guys want them to feel the same shame but they don't and you're mad but the point is NO ONE should feel like that.

i'm on the other side of the idealist coin. you want fat dudes to be like 'yeah im fat' and stay in their fat ass lane but they wont and it makes you mad. i just want folks to accept that people are going to be dicks and the point isn't to try and put them in their place but to either ignore them or work on someone else who could be saved. lol. clowning them like they clown others ain't doing it.

it's really pointless to be mad at people dissing folks who are just like them. i really dont think that you berating them over it is going to open their eyes. and them admitting it isn't going to make you or the situation any better.

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83. "yes ..we do "
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88. "i know im ugly, here is a proof. "
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90. "I know niggas that know they ugly. They don't care. We called this"
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one nigga Cute Tony. He was so ugly that the nigga was "cute". NO HOMO

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152. "He stayed fresh...the nigga was just ugly as shit. "
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91. "it's more men don't care more than they don't know "
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cat can be 2 inches from round have a super model turn him down and he turns to his boys and is like how did she not want ME!!!!!!

plus men know if u got enough money u get better and better looking with each 0 in that bank account.

I got a good life man

  

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108. "Nope...Never been called it IRL either."
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"Give a woman the moon, bitch will want another moon to go with it"

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116. "theres alot of qualifiers getting thrown around"
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but money this
but pussy that

its a simple question

i think this strikes harder than men like to acknowledge
and mens looks are becoming alot more significant in society than they like to acknowledge
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123. "EXACTLY. i mean wtf. mens looks are getting more relevant"
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anyway because now we're all equalizing and shit

if they don't want to pay for things, then i have every right to not want a smacked ass nigga

right?

although this doesnt work bc i find ugly/charming endearing

  

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142. "it is"
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>anyway because now we're all equalizing and shit

like ideally it should be for the better
but instead the pendulum swinging back the other way now have men looking in the mirror way more often
i'd feel bad but meh
the pressure is still on us more

but there is absolutely no denying a generally societally deemed attractive man
then one with money
then one with power


>if they don't want to pay for things, then i have every right
>to not want a smacked ass nigga

and there it is

ugly dudes need to shell out and balance it in other ways
doesn't mean they arent still unattractive
and god forbid if they arent mentally and spiritually balanced
alot of overcompensating happens

>right?
>
>although this doesnt work bc i find ugly/charming endearing

lol! alot of women do!
sheeit beyonce isn't with J for money or power
i swear dude HAS to be a cool ass nice ass dude
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282. "excellent points ladies."
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118. "heartthrob, never. pale and ugly as ever, however...."
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121. "Should they give a flying fuck? lol @ this post."
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Like niggas is supposed to say "I'm ugly, I shouldn't speak to anyone and I don't deserve love."?

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127. "jesus christ that isnt the point of this post"
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i want to know if aesthetics occur to men when it comes to themselves

it is a curiousity question

  

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133. "But right, other than making themselves as presentable as possible"
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what else can a nigga do?

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139. "this just isn't about that. "
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why cant i ask if yall think about how you look without all this digressing?

sheesh

  

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what beauty and all that shit is from pop culture I don't see how one couldn't.

That shit all subjective anyway. You can only make yourself as attractive as what you think that attraction is.

Ay you know what, this a sneak complex question and I ain't even did shit today. Fuck this post.

*puts on Spotify and cleans this dirty ass apt.*

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124. "Sometimes."
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it takes a muscle.

  

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125. "i've been called everything from "fine" to "ugly as hell.""
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so no, lol, i don't know if i'm ugly or not. in my single days, i checked "eye of the beholder" on my online dating profile. i KNOW i'm not everyone's cup of tea, and i pretty much know the types i attract, and i'm pleased as punch. lol. i think gay dudes are much more conscious of whether they're good-looking or not b/c generally guys put much more emphasis on physical qualities (although there's a significant minority of dudes for whom looks don't matter, or for whom a great body can outweigh facial characteristics completely).

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289. "^^^ i concur with this for the ghey response in this post"
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on point

prototype

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believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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129. "btw, i don't think that sunnyD is ugly, i just think he's not that attra..."
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and his online persona (who knows what he's like in real life) makes him even less attractive.

i also think that sometimes men get confused by that whole 'if you got money you got women' theory. Yes, women do tend to look at the whole package more than just physical appearance, but if you're corny with money, you're just a mark.

  

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131. "his personality make him all the way ugly."
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he was just a lil ugly before that.

i swear this wasnt about him tho, just kinda relevant i guess.

  

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218. "I don't think hes ugly or unattractive."
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hes just not what i like.

hes too .... umm .... kanye-ey for me.

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236. "he is very kanye-ey. that's what i mean by corny with money=mark"
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ask amber rose. lol

  

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248. "also i feel like if we were dating and we came to visit you"
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in zone 1

id feel like id have to protect him and make him feel safe, rather than the other way around.



































































not really, but really.
not tryna dis tho. i dont know that man.

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256. "lol. both you motherfuckers would have to be protected in zone 1."
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he'd get robbed, and you'd get put on the stroll.

  

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259. "theyd have to kill me then. i goes on the stroll for no one."
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285. "did you just call the man a " mark " ??"
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lol *dead*

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137. "they know. but they r smart enough to know it doesnt matter..."
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n the grand scheme of things

but at the same time, i think most guys either have low self esteem or dont value their looks. they know that most other people find them attractive (the cute ones) and they play the part. my cutie jokes and says he has a face for tv. but i know him and in general he doesnt hold his looks in high regard *shrug*

then my ex isnt really cute. but he said he knew he could "bag" me cuz he has an awesome personality, a big thing and a lot of money. and he was right. *shrugs*

but i dont pretend to know much about men.

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150. "being good looking by itself holds no value for men"
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men don't respect that of each other or in themselfs




  

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153. "^^^^^^"
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Tutu nu, vondo nos nu
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Nos nu ekta nos sepe ta, amen

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154. "^^^^^ i have to agree"
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i mean i know dudes will acknowledge other men's prettiness but it really means nothing. most of the time i've seen guys do that they generally just think dude has some other quality that they like. they wouldn't be like 'oh he's handsome' to a stranger. if they knew a dude that was chill and good looking and put together well, THEN they throw props

women throw props @ bitches we don't know erryday

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157. "yuppers. "
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>men don't respect that of each other or in themselfs
>
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160. "yep"
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164. "i cannot clap to this at all"
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it's just not true
yall know
u aint gonna say it out loud though
or obviously i guess to urself

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181. "acknowledgment is not the same as respect tho"
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lots of qualities men big each other up for. self-respect, selflessness, toughness, loyalty, humor, sociability, etc. is shit that is respectable

having a cleft chin, six pack, and piercing blue eyes isn't one of them

  

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196. "i nvr like u anyway, pretty mother...."
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yeah...i dunno
the more i think abt it, the more yall r ringing false
u all know when someone out-handsomes u



>lots of qualities men big each other up for. self-respect,
>selflessness, toughness, loyalty, humor, sociability, etc. is
>shit that is respectable
>
>having a cleft chin, six pack, and piercing blue eyes isn't
>one of them
>

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204. "that doesn't get any respect"
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acknowledging if some dude is handsome vs. respecting that is two different things

if that was the case I would like Toure as a writer because of his boyish dimples and bouncy hair

  

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220. "he not cute though."
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245. "i wouldn't know, i'm a dude"
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265. "i dont believe u."
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271. "i 100% guarantee i can't tell if toure is handsome or not"
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doesn't mean i can never tell

but a lot of times men can't tell that about each other

let alone respect that about each other

  

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182. "If anything, we'll judge a dude harder in a way"
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Like I have a homie who used to get girls SOLELY off his looks in HS and college, but nowadays, he's not on point in other ways, and his game doesn't work for most good looking or educated/professional type women...so we almost look down on him because he ONLY gets hoodpoodles and oversized girls now. If a guy we know doesn't "look" like he'd be a superhoe (c) Phife, yet we know he gets shit goin, it's like "damn he knows what the hell he's doin." And there's plenty of inbetweens.

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188. "base"
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men can be ditzes too yaddadadaddamean

  

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201. "ive seen the total opposite."
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> his game doesn't work for most good looking or
>educated/professional type women..

good looks will cause alot of women to overlook many things
like disgustingly aggressive hollars for one
and i believe ive seen u acknowledge that here
so let's keep it all the way real

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213. "I'm speaking on specifics about one homie, for one"
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But eh....I almost feel like you're trying to disagree, b/c we're kiinda saying the same thing.

Because of the fact that good looks "usually" cause y'all to overlook things....we will NOT give a guy props if even his good looks can't get him any play...you know?

So yeah, I have homies who are tall as hell, some got green eyes n that R&B shit, some are ALWAYS in the gym or are trainers....and I figure they'll have what women are usually on. So when they do NOT get play, we're like "damn, this dude's personality/game must be thumbs down!"

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224. "okay im glad u agree with me :0)"
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>But eh....I almost feel like you're trying to disagree, b/c
>we're kiinda saying the same thing.
>
>Because of the fact that good looks "usually" cause y'all to
>overlook things....we will NOT give a guy props if even his
>good looks can't get him any play...you know?
>
>So yeah, I have homies who are tall as hell, some got green
>eyes n that R&B shit, some are ALWAYS in the gym or are
>trainers....and I figure they'll have what women are usually
>on. So when they do NOT get play, we're like "damn, this
>dude's personality/game must be thumbs down!"

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238. "My homie who came in town this weekend is perfect example"
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He's 6'4, clean cut, they call him "lil Dwight" in Orlando, Alpha, etc etc...and he can easily get initial attention...but it NEVER goes anywhere. So me n our homie are always clownin n say that he just doesn't have the mechanics to seal the deal, n it's something about him that must turn girls off. One girl he met last time he came in town for real left him during a date and he was stranded, LOL

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261. "thats the thing about looks"
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it just opens the door
that door slams closed real fast

lol and damn at your dude being ditched
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263. "YUP!"
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272. "LOL, that's one thing opposite about men n women. We get ONE strike"
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Fine women get like 86 and a half strikes from us. I def tolerated some stupid shit from bomb ones waaaaay more than the average ones.

We can be the bombest nigga ever to y'all...but if we say ONE thing wrong, it's a wrap

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273. "unfortunately for some women that aint true"
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>We can be the bombest nigga ever to y'all...but if we say ONE
>thing wrong, it's a wrap

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275. "Hmm...I'm sure it's a generalization, but in, eh, "general", usually so"
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Especially the BLACK Black types of women LOL, "can you believe what this dumb nigga said????"

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302. "that ish sound like yal was lowkey hating lol"
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like yal couldnt wait for him to fall off


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328. "LOL nah not at all. It's funny b/c he was a helluva late bloomer"
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Nigga didn't know he had "good hair (to women)" til he texturized it one day n got an s-curl, and that shit was the most dramatic 180 degree turn EVER at the mall. But he always had super low standards. He did have a few bomb ones in HS, but after 21-22 seems like he was intimidated by cute/educated girls n only goes after the easy targets that nobody else wants

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174. "but they respect the effect that it has"
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and try to subscribe it to other things
like game


not ude is just good looking
'game' personality money character etc is the icing on top



which makes this even more fascinating
at the acrobatics going on in here
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283. "be as it may, it means SOMETHING to the ladies."
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>men don't respect that of each other or in themselfs

amongst your peers, yeah your looks don't matter that much, that's understandable. you aren't picking friends for looks. probably would be detrimental to have more attractive friends than you. (when i say you i don't mean you specifically, im talking in general. cuz you aint ugly, t)

but WE, the ladies, taking care of yourself and appearances, we like that in a man. we want to pass on the best genes possible for our kids.
there are of course more to potential partners than looks but that's part of it.

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287. "errum yes it does...."
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o wait this aint about men* just men *shows self to exit*

prototype

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323. "i agree. or thats def what i have noticed. nm"
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143. "yes we know OUR faults....shortcomings and deficiencies..."
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we're just not conditioned to share OR care.

dwelling on them is too close to overcompensating....etc...

short dudes know they're short....

cock-eyed know they're cock-eyed...

what we're NOT is entirely sure what the universal ideal is....nor how much we're graded on a curve.....

so we just say fuck it....and work with what we got....

bc there ain't a great deal of leeway for physical enhancements.

i don't even think men PROMOTE their looks...they gauge from reaction....and inflate ego or defend themselves appropriately....

  

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144. "YES they do...ugly niggas know they ugly...ya'll really need to see"
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Deray Davis lol

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163. "deray ain't even cute. "
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he gets by on eyes, light, & an almost
good grade of hair.

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179. "i'm talkin about his comedy special when he goes over this topic"
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lol


he basically said ugly niggas been knowing all they life they ugly cuz their boys will tell them YO u an UGLY mofo

but they dont care because over the years they built up self a steam

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267. "i'm talking about HIM talking about ugly niggas."
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@kokupuff

  

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145. "loads of lies in this post. mankind knows when his ass and face match"
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and just like women, they get reminders of the shit when someone better looking gets all the attention/pulls someone they cant

lets be honest. men and women are not that much different

psst!

  

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155. "I got to break this down. Because I get what you are saying"
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BUT...its not that cut and dry, I call it the club analogy.

lots of people in the club, males and females, and no homo alot of dudes are handsome, alot of women are pretty.

You have those that stand out on both sides of course. the key difference in who gets hollered at is usually something as mundane as effort.

97% of the club leaving the club numberless..

80% of the club didn't talk to anyone of the opposite sex, unless they knew them before hand.

but people dont be getting hollered at like that.

just cause you're handsome or cute or whatever don't mean the person you like finds you attractive.

Flora thinks Yelawolf is attractive, I'm sure others do too, and some don't

now multiply that times 500..and you can see all the variables that come into play.

But I think yall are throwing around the word UGLY too strongly. lets just say Average.

"Give a woman the moon, bitch will want another moon to go with it"

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Iwasmadeto
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169. "its not cut and dry..but you can sorta...."
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gauge where you stand lookswise overtime


these responses when people to believe they are not human. ha!

psst!

  

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bonamie
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167. "you know what? YES!"
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>and just like women, they get reminders of the shit when
>someone better looking gets all the attention/pulls someone
>they cant
>
>lets be honest. men and women are not that much different

the problem is, the build up all these other postulates and theories as to why it does not matter so that it blocks their brain from fully processing and therefore admitting it.

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flora
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170. "lolololololol"
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Moonlit_Force
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197. "Women can be just as guilty of this."
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They don't use the same justifications as men of course, but it's
not like they don't have their own hypotheses as to why some men
find them unattractive. They can come up with equally transparent over
compensating qualities to paint their ugliness as a non issue...ijs

  

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bonamie
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202. "we talking bout men, boo."
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Moonlit_Force
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208. "I'm with Iwasmadeto...we ain't that much different..."
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...despite how desperate some of us would like us to be.

(not directed @ you specifically btw)

  

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bonamie
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225. "im not arguing that though...yah mean?"
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Moonlit_Force
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233. "MmHmm I saw you agreed with her in your subject line."
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I just wanted to extend that line of thinking towards "the problem"
you raised after cosigning what she said is all.

  

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lfresh
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209. "exactly"
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>They don't use the same justifications as men of course, but
>it's
>not like they don't have their own hypotheses as to why some
>men
>find them unattractive. They can come up with equally
>transparent over
>compensating qualities to paint their ugliness as a non
>issue...ijs

some of us are just as shallow as well

but yes back to women the response is
they just jealous
er...
or
isnt not that he doesn't find me attractive
hes just shy
um...ok
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Below The Mason Dixon
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210. "you're fucking up trying to rationalize this post."
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this is just a very thinly veiled gender warz thread. just gawk and stare at it and weep for woman kind.

"Give a woman the moon, bitch will want another moon to go with it"

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DJ Contact
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206. "Being ugly in and of itself doesn't stop dudes from gettin chicks."
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Cats be knowin, but in the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter that much...so what's this post about again?

Do yall want dudes to go sulk in a corner and never try to get it in because they ugly?

I'm just tryna get to the point of this whole thing.

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bonamie
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228. "thx."
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>Cats be knowin,

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244. "why was this so hard?"
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148. "I figured I was in 10th grade when puberty hit hard"
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EVERY time I took a pic, I'd be pissed off. I'd use my 8th grade pic online which was before the changes hit...I almost looked like a diff person. Hella pimples, oily face, tried to have a s-curl which was always extra dry, had a lil gap in the teeth, smile had nooooo confidence, n I was 5'1 n 110 pounds.

But even with that...it was damn 10th grade, and all of us were ugly, even the cute girls. So long as I got some play, didn't mean anything to me.

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Kira
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151. "Men know...."
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>are you all aware of when you're ugly?
>
>or do you just rely on womens reaction to gauge how you look?
>
>it seems like dudes don't even be knowing when they're
>smacked. they will try to pull a dime, and all she can say is
>yes or no.
>
>this really isn't a spin off.
>
>i'm merely fascinated that it doesn't work that way for women
>at all.
>
>

They focus on improving all the while not caring.

  

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bloocollar
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156. "i am aware--"
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thats why i've developed such a charming personality to compensate

  

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flora
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159. "you not ugly. you just a dick."
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184. "lol...smh"
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161. "very much so. I have shitty eyes."
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but there is nothing wrong with being odd. i mean you arent inkast or adwhizz odd. - VABestBBW
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162. "yeah but it doesnt matter."
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Moonlit_Force
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177. "I'm a bit surprised at some of the guys claiming ugly in here..."
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...and I've never understood the argument that appearances for men is
a non factor.The phrase "Tall, dark and handsome" didn't originate with
the term "metrosexual"; men's looks have always been discussed and
prized...just not to the extent of women's beauty.

Men who take issue with it being more of a topic of discussion recently
are imo the same fools who rant about the feminization of men.

  

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178. "I don't know because I was too busy counting all the female attention"
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to notice. And that's considering that I had next to no hollering skills at all.

Rest In Peace, Bad News Brown

  

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180. "oh shit this post is about somebody or did it end up that way?"
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_____________________
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190. "it just ended up that way."
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192. "ended up that way"
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183. "team sunny d."
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193. "*Picks out outfit from structure and grows dreads in this post*"
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"Give a woman the moon, bitch will want another moon to go with it"

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194. "I know i'm funny looking to some, but awesome to others....."
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I giveth not a fcuk though cause my wife love me and she's all that really matters....




  

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195. "ladies, y'all are disappointing me here"
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some of your responses are borderline admitting that you'd tolerate certain behavior from dudes if they weren't ugly

which may be true and isn't new but come on


ratchet ratchet ratchet!

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211. "all of this is stemming from a Sunny D post"
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We gotta deal with this misery cause they took a SunnyD post seriously.
ugh

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