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"Ask a former polygamist anything"


  

          


i use the term "polygamist" loosely.....

i think its time i share something
deeply personal on here.

yes i'm aware this could go horribly awry.

i'll answer as best as i can according
to my experience with it.

okay.

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how many others were there?
Oct 25th 2011
1
ahh, the magic number question
Oct 25th 2011
7
      there was the epic weekend we all were in the house together.
Oct 25th 2011
19
           very nice, even if this was already done by Longo
Oct 25th 2011
47
I got a bunch of questions
Oct 25th 2011
2
RE: I got a bunch of questions
Oct 25th 2011
8
      More questions:
Oct 25th 2011
18
would you do it again?
Oct 25th 2011
3
definitely with the right players
Oct 25th 2011
10
And eh, y'all judgemental muh'phuckas betta ack right
Oct 25th 2011
4
this means you ready to be husband #2?
Oct 25th 2011
16
      *Raises Hand*
Oct 25th 2011
24
      smh you stop that
Oct 25th 2011
132
      haha. For the right woman
Oct 25th 2011
214
           Okayplayer?
Oct 25th 2011
226
      If you mean, 2nd time being married, better husband, stronger
Oct 25th 2011
26
      sounds judgemental
Oct 25th 2011
85
           I reserve the right to judge my relationships.
Oct 25th 2011
99
                looks like the only person judging here is you
Oct 25th 2011
131
                     go kick rocks l-stale
Oct 25th 2011
162
                          lemme know when you get that husband #2 position castro
Oct 25th 2011
358
      yall crack me up with that bull.
Oct 25th 2011
28
what attracted you to the arrangement?
Oct 25th 2011
5
the way he marketed/presented it to me at first
Oct 25th 2011
12
      "Universal Purpose"... what does that mean?
Oct 25th 2011
34
           1 part spiritual purpose
Oct 25th 2011
48
bloocollar is somewhere out there doing the dougie
Oct 25th 2011
6
what was the intimacy arrangement like?
Oct 25th 2011
9
well, we all slept in the same room together
Oct 25th 2011
15
      *clears all appointments, cancels staff meeting, closes door*
Oct 25th 2011
21
      RE: well, we all slept in the same room together
Oct 25th 2011
25
      follow-up question
Oct 25th 2011
27
      there we 2 chicks that didnt like girls
Oct 25th 2011
50
      *raises hand* present!
Oct 25th 2011
175
      ^^^^ IMPORTANT INFORMATION ^^^^
Oct 25th 2011
207
Was it a polygamist or open relationship?
Oct 25th 2011
11
it was def polygamy, i was recruited.
Oct 25th 2011
17
      Would you be open to a family with multiple husbands and wives?
Oct 25th 2011
31
could you see it working long term?
Oct 25th 2011
13
from the family aspect:
Oct 25th 2011
20
      was it ego? (his)
Oct 25th 2011
29
           girl! ego, a self serving purpose for this construct, insecurity
Oct 25th 2011
41
           patrice o neal has it right
Oct 25th 2011
78
           RE: was it ego? (his)
Oct 25th 2011
42
*drags futon into post, falls on it, cracks stella & gets comfy*
Oct 25th 2011
14
what was the dude like?
Oct 25th 2011
22
he was very handsome
Oct 25th 2011
44
      Patently false...
Oct 25th 2011
129
      thought it was me....but the Trip *I* met was a cashew light brown
Oct 25th 2011
340
      what was his occupation?
Oct 25th 2011
130
           i already asked that....and she said that outta respect of them
Oct 25th 2011
327
how many kids?
Oct 25th 2011
23
RE: how many kids? - 2 babies
Oct 25th 2011
53
      why'd you only answer the first question?
Oct 25th 2011
96
      This is where I sense the break down aka She Hate Me
Oct 25th 2011
213
heh, makes sense
Oct 25th 2011
30
dont be mean lover
Oct 25th 2011
54
what would you tell a man entering into a polygamist relationship
Oct 25th 2011
32
Deal with any insecurities head on....
Oct 25th 2011
36
      expound, please
Oct 25th 2011
38
      In my experience, any time you have multiple women involved
Oct 25th 2011
43
           Gotcha. Yeah, I can DEFINITELY feel that.
Oct 25th 2011
49
                I was, I'm not now but I'm open to it under the right circumstances.
Oct 25th 2011
65
      sunniecri got 2 logins............?
Oct 25th 2011
40
           Nope, I'm real...just decided to share my experience :)
Oct 25th 2011
46
Poly can work if everyone is honest & openly deal with their insecuritie...
Oct 25th 2011
33
Are you still in your relationship?
Oct 25th 2011
52
      I'm not, but I'm open to it.
Oct 25th 2011
67
no.
Oct 25th 2011
35
yall should go ahead and anchor/archive this now
Oct 25th 2011
37
lemme just tell the whole story as itll answer alot of questions
Oct 25th 2011
39
AND THEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN...............
Oct 25th 2011
45
RIGHT! That was like the movie ending before the opening credits
Oct 25th 2011
55
lolol
Oct 25th 2011
56
Yo, that was some Sopranos finale shit.
Oct 25th 2011
63
LMAO
Oct 25th 2011
88
bruh
Oct 25th 2011
108
so the first time he hit, did she watch?
Oct 25th 2011
51
the first time was alone, 2nd was a 3 some
Oct 25th 2011
59
(((POASTY!!!)))
Oct 25th 2011
66
totally heard this in the MK trilogy voice for "toasty" - LOL
Oct 25th 2011
475
sorry ya'll i had to break it up! it wouldve been too long.
Oct 25th 2011
77
its getting better. keep going. nm
Oct 25th 2011
83
alpha males are competitive by nature. *edit*
Oct 25th 2011
86
Yes.
Oct 25th 2011
89
At first this sounded awesome, but now not so much
Oct 25th 2011
92
i'm a open person. so this was kinda something on my
Oct 25th 2011
94
yeah this is what people think it's supposed to be
Oct 25th 2011
110
      this is why Big Love was a great series...
Oct 25th 2011
116
           yup
Oct 25th 2011
146
                $$$ isn't really an issue...
Oct 25th 2011
164
So when did it get to the #weallfuckin level?
Oct 25th 2011
107
      WHERE IS PART III TO THIS STORY?!?!? I'm killin my F9 button
Oct 25th 2011
115
           right? i wanna know how you get a 3ski poppin in that sit
Oct 25th 2011
126
my name is MistaGoodBar, & I was present for this experience today on OK...
Oct 25th 2011
135
C'mon yo, don't bam this out.
Oct 25th 2011
61
      reply 59 fool!
Oct 25th 2011
64
           *facepalm*
Oct 25th 2011
68
im sure this is how that lil blonde girl in utah got got, BTW
Oct 25th 2011
62
you didn't get a lil freaked out when a car pulled up
Oct 25th 2011
69
this happens to me often in miami
Oct 25th 2011
102
:/ this happened to me
Oct 25th 2011
72
LOL@ flop house in hunts point man T don't do that
Oct 25th 2011
505
http://tinyurl.com/4yxqgez
Oct 25th 2011
82
so he was a "pimp" "player" "promoter"?
Oct 25th 2011
57
Maybe she did. He wanted to be the only "king" .....*shrugs*
Oct 25th 2011
74
he wasnt any of that
Oct 25th 2011
Polygamy will be common within the next 10 years or so
Oct 25th 2011
58
for u prolly, not everyone feels the same.
Oct 25th 2011
70
Half the females on OKP are in a relationship with a dude that
Oct 25th 2011
75
      Oh there's no denial I just hate when ppl think EVERYONE is doing
Oct 25th 2011
76
           LOL you funny my self esteem is intact
Oct 25th 2011
84
                Nah, I'm good. You're not that smart, you have money issues
Oct 25th 2011
109
                     Girl, you should know by now to ignore all of the foolishness he posts
Oct 25th 2011
112
                     I know I am just bored so that's why i am responding. I am entertained.
Oct 25th 2011
117
                     RE: Nah, I'm good. You're not that smart, you have money issues
Oct 25th 2011
208
You're too selfish and not honest enough for real poly
Oct 25th 2011
71
Which is why I said the other female would have to
Oct 25th 2011
73
      Your wife can pick all day but your ego would get in the way
Oct 25th 2011
79
           RE: Your wife can pick all day but your ego would get in the way
Oct 25th 2011
87
so you can have more kids you don't give a shit about?
Oct 25th 2011
91
The McRib is back, Just FYI n/m
Oct 25th 2011
97
      dont go jumping over the counter
Oct 25th 2011
123
RE: Polygamy will be common within the next 10 years ot so
Oct 25th 2011
180
      WEnt in with the premise. Still working the kinks out
Oct 25th 2011
210
what support did u gain frum it?
Oct 25th 2011
60
RE: what support did u gain frum it?
Oct 25th 2011
90
      exit interview?
Oct 25th 2011
93
      i jokingly call it myexit interview
Oct 25th 2011
98
           ah interesting
Oct 25th 2011
124
      i see that is what u gained frum it...
Oct 25th 2011
106
           RE: i see that is what u gained frum it...
Oct 25th 2011
137
RE: Ask a former polygamist anything
Oct 25th 2011
80
haaaay sunnie!
Oct 25th 2011
81
pay attn to meeeeeeee lol
Oct 25th 2011
167
i know i could never have been in a situation like that long term due to
Oct 25th 2011
95
we had one that echoed your sentiments
Oct 25th 2011
104
WILD SPOUSES
Oct 25th 2011
100
i've been thinking about venturing into that world......
Oct 25th 2011
101
oop, didn't see Crisco up there. . .lol
Oct 25th 2011
103
were you dating/fucking men while w/ them?
Oct 25th 2011
105
that's my question too
Oct 25th 2011
529
RE: were you dating/fucking men while w/ them?
Oct 25th 2011
530
http://media.scout.com/media/forums/emoticons/168/conan.gif
Oct 25th 2011
111
WOW sis! This was a very interesting read......questions
Oct 25th 2011
113
RE: WOW sis! This was a very interesting read......questions
Oct 25th 2011
122
      ahhhh...I respect this answer here
Oct 25th 2011
133
ARCHIVE
Oct 25th 2011
114
^^^^ what HE said
Oct 25th 2011
118
the courtship continues (pt 2)
Oct 25th 2011
119
Ask a former Polygamist, a GD Post, is sponsored by......
Oct 25th 2011
120
is sponsored by...... cuffin' season. get you 1, cause otha niggas got...
Oct 25th 2011
128
i got a question: was dude good in the sack?
Oct 25th 2011
127
he had a huge dick and his refractory period was
Oct 25th 2011
140
      Now I'm confused. Why was he insecure?
Oct 25th 2011
145
      wait...-> refractory period was
Oct 25th 2011
437
girrrrrrrrrrrrrrl....this oughtta be a BOOK....so wha happent next???
Oct 25th 2011
139
gurl guuuuuuurl. This better than cable.
Oct 25th 2011
142
Okay??? *poppin Blast-o-Butter bag numma 2*
Oct 25th 2011
149
FAM thanks for sharing but you got this shit like this
Oct 25th 2011
154
Did you ever talk to your own family or friends about it?
Oct 25th 2011
121
good question. some of my friends knew, not my family
Oct 25th 2011
125
      are all these red flags in hindsight or were you aware
Oct 25th 2011
136
      i was aware in it but i wont allow myself to be pushed.
Oct 25th 2011
143
           so u were cool with it? who would be pushing you other than...you?
Oct 25th 2011
158
      I could imagine this being difficult to bring up to the family...
Oct 25th 2011
182
great post.
Oct 25th 2011
134
fucking excellent post.
Oct 25th 2011
151
      ^^^
Oct 25th 2011
188
      Fuck yes.
Oct 25th 2011
357
You are cute though. :)~~~~
Oct 25th 2011
138
was this in MIAMI?????????? *spidey senses tingling*
Oct 25th 2011
141
HANH!?!?!
Oct 25th 2011
194
This is more Polyamory than Polygamy
Oct 25th 2011
144
If you ruin this, I'll never forgive you. Let that girl fuck.
Oct 25th 2011
147
lol
Oct 25th 2011
391
true
Oct 25th 2011
150
man, i just wish cats would let her finish the full story...
Oct 25th 2011
152
that's how I feel. Sunni- Ignore the questions and just post it all
Oct 25th 2011
159
agreed
Oct 25th 2011
171
i use the term polygamy loosely - she said that in the op
Oct 25th 2011
487
      I thought she said "polygamist loosely." If so, that's
Oct 25th 2011
506
gotta go to lunch yall
Oct 25th 2011
148
http://i44.tinypic.com/s4yxc2.jpg
Oct 25th 2011
156
Have a great lunch! See you later!!!
Oct 25th 2011
161
Ill be waiting!
Oct 25th 2011
169
LOL BASE
Oct 25th 2011
189
http://i51.tinypic.com/2rhqkiv.png
Oct 25th 2011
191
Note: I ain't seen, let alone read NARRY NUTHA post today
Oct 25th 2011
153
so one day you're at the bus stop minding ur business
Oct 25th 2011
155
lol stop!
Oct 25th 2011
157
YES DAMMIT YES!
Oct 25th 2011
165
      P...R.....*.....D....* <---buy some vowels nugga, lol
Oct 25th 2011
168
      *hits you over the head*
Oct 25th 2011
172
      lol i can't disagree
Oct 25th 2011
178
      lmao @ both of yall
Oct 25th 2011
204
      WE HAVE IMMIGRANT PARENTS
Oct 25th 2011
227
           mom on phone: "she did what? she got in the car? for no reason?"
Oct 25th 2011
238
           lmfao!! I'm cracking up
Oct 25th 2011
262
                and my mother was a NURSE
Oct 25th 2011
277
                     West Indian Immigrant Mom + Nurse = Oxymoron
Oct 25th 2011
288
                          convalescence through terseness and judgement
Oct 25th 2011
292
                               right? "You sick, still? You mus fi tek me fi idiot. GWAY!"
Oct 25th 2011
302
                               holy crap
Oct 25th 2011
356
      lol
Oct 25th 2011
316
In a nutshell . . . Yes. Re: curiousity
Oct 25th 2011
163
You fears are not hers. Just celebrate that she's here to tell it
Oct 25th 2011
166
damn.
Oct 25th 2011
174
the fact that we gotta celebrate she's still breathing is proof
Oct 25th 2011
177
      Oh Geezus... I could throw a rock and bounce it off the heads
Oct 25th 2011
183
           her concerns have nothing to do with polygamy
Oct 25th 2011
231
                RE: her concerns have nothing to do with polygamy
Oct 25th 2011
266
                     it's not that serious lol
Oct 25th 2011
304
                          lol!
Oct 25th 2011
480
would u sit your ass DOWN somewhere & let her tell the shit?!
Oct 25th 2011
170
No judgment zone!
Oct 25th 2011
173
i'm not! sunnie, don't listen to these mofos lol
Oct 25th 2011
179
lol yea the whole "lets meet up at a neutral location" one min
Oct 25th 2011
203
she was in control of the situation tho.
Oct 25th 2011
205
I've no questions. I applaud the maturity of folks in this post
Oct 25th 2011
160
Sunni has mastered the art of the POAST that will do #s clearly
Oct 25th 2011
176
This shit is sitcom quality
Oct 25th 2011
181
complete w/recaps and scenes from the next ep...
Oct 25th 2011
186
this post was archive quality before it hit 100 and its not even
Oct 25th 2011
187
*STARES @ YA'LL SHAMEFULLY GLEEFUL*
Oct 25th 2011
190
I don't remember who, but I do remember it was HIGHlarious
Oct 25th 2011
      aw dammit
Oct 25th 2011
463
showing these wack newbies how to poast
Oct 25th 2011
193
      ^^^^^^^ right....she ain't gone off on ANYBODY because of
Oct 25th 2011
260
is this what i missed by your facebook hollers? **damn, i'm a
Oct 25th 2011
184
Sunny D and Sunnie C are the best poasters right now
Oct 25th 2011
185
#teamsun
Oct 25th 2011
527
http://i53.tinypic.com/n6riih.gif
Oct 25th 2011
192
so the Damali stripper post and this are POTY frontrunners
Oct 25th 2011
195
Sunnie: Don't bust that nut we'll be right back
Oct 25th 2011
196
LOL! See Reply 191
Oct 25th 2011
199
yooo..i also love this "i'll tell you later why"
Oct 25th 2011
197
It's adding to the allure of the poast.
Oct 25th 2011
198
I feel like I'm watching a tv show
Oct 25th 2011
201
She know what she doing.
Oct 25th 2011
206
^^^
Oct 25th 2011
488
This is the best post in a long time. Can't wait until her lunch is over...
Oct 25th 2011
200
never before has a 5 dollar footlong been the bane of so many
Oct 25th 2011
209
      lmao
Oct 25th 2011
211
      fock!
Oct 25th 2011
485
I just want to say, that I was here.
Oct 25th 2011
202
since ya'll rushing me: the fantastic 5 & that epic weekend
Oct 25th 2011
212
*back in front of the set*
Oct 25th 2011
215
*munches popcorn*
Oct 25th 2011
216
*palances*
Oct 25th 2011
218
So what happened with the remaining folks?
Oct 25th 2011
219
i'm getting there. this is a really long story.....lol
Oct 25th 2011
223
you should wirte a book about this shit
Oct 25th 2011
220
naw that nygga need to write a book on how he got these broads
Oct 25th 2011
243
      pretty much
Oct 25th 2011
387
lawd, this is so messy i can't even read it. damn
Oct 25th 2011
222
wait, so only 2 acts of sex happened that night?
Oct 25th 2011
228
there was lots of fucking going on i just wasnt around for it all
Oct 25th 2011
233
      _________GADDAFI'd
Oct 25th 2011
240
      !!!!!! SHE LET HIM IN THAT BACK HOLE
Oct 25th 2011
242
      *tricorder needle jumps*
Oct 25th 2011
244
      AYO!
Oct 25th 2011
267
      I hate when people injure themselves during anal
Oct 25th 2011
347
      There should be an award given for excellent posts.
Oct 25th 2011
360
This is great.
Oct 25th 2011
229
RE: since ya'll rushing me: the fantastic 5 & that epic weekend
Oct 25th 2011
247
*popcorn eating gif*
Oct 25th 2011
248
RE: *popcorn eating gif*
Oct 25th 2011
283
OMG.....THIS is WYYYYYALD!!!!! I'm finna call BET
Oct 25th 2011
272
You've got peeps in here like this:
Oct 25th 2011
282
LOL
Oct 25th 2011
328
what kind of magic cock does this guy have?!
Oct 25th 2011
333
      the kind that leaves u like this....
Oct 25th 2011
345
It can't be said enough, this shit is balanced perfectly:
Oct 25th 2011
217
i'm sorry if this has been covered, but what were the women getting
Oct 25th 2011
221
right?
Oct 25th 2011
268
As the vagina turns...
Oct 25th 2011
224
Big Black Love
Oct 25th 2011
230
      hah! i like that.
Oct 25th 2011
254
good post.. i was expecting alot of ratchet
Oct 25th 2011
225
here we fucking go.
Oct 25th 2011
236
the fuk??
Oct 25th 2011
246
Crawl back under the rock
Oct 25th 2011
239
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WKHzTtr_lNk
Oct 25th 2011
270
lol@ this getting no answer tho
Oct 25th 2011
351
Were all the women involved in this black?
Oct 25th 2011
232
yes ma'am
Oct 25th 2011
237
This dude's game... unfucking believable
Oct 25th 2011
234
*dropping 120 on all-madden w/ all sliders up w/ the 3rd string qb ish*
Oct 25th 2011
538
And is everyone in this story of African descent?
Oct 25th 2011
235
yes sir. not one yt present
Oct 25th 2011
241
      ^ adds even more light
Oct 25th 2011
253
i'mma just keep it real . . .srsly, I JUST CAN'T SEE IT.
Oct 25th 2011
245
You need lsymone to reply to this for you
Oct 25th 2011
251
WHERE L little sexy ass @????
Oct 25th 2011
280
Yeah me either. There's just something about it I can't do.
Oct 25th 2011
271
lmao @ firebrand and castro bouncing in the post
Oct 25th 2011
249
we are on the precipice of poast history
Oct 25th 2011
252
i still dont kno what the fuk is wrong with my question
Oct 25th 2011
255
right, that is cracking me up
Oct 25th 2011
256
naw you were good from your first reply, Star
Oct 25th 2011
274
http://tinyurl.com/6yujt4m
Oct 25th 2011
263
      lol. How appropriate.
Oct 25th 2011
335
           I came back in here to say 'BOO' to that.....
Oct 25th 2011
534
Were you ever highly concerned about catching a STD from him?
Oct 25th 2011
250
She said they all went and got tested
Oct 25th 2011
257
okay, sorry I missed that part
Oct 25th 2011
259
YEah she said that they all got tested and everything was fine.
Oct 25th 2011
264
so after the weekend
Oct 25th 2011
265
Man, Im tuned into this shit like a Zane book.
Oct 25th 2011
258
WAS HE TRYING TO HAVE MORE KIDS????
Oct 25th 2011
261
actually yes.....that was apart of the plan later on
Oct 25th 2011
269
      If first wife was the cash cow...
Oct 25th 2011
278
           money did get tight at one point he couldnt work
Oct 25th 2011
284
                damn I'm curious to know where they work
Oct 25th 2011
298
who gave him the name "king mister"?
Oct 25th 2011
273
thats just what i'm calling him for this post
Oct 25th 2011
275
      girl, stop answering questions and finish the story! LOL
Oct 25th 2011
276
This post conflicts me like shit...
Oct 25th 2011
279
yeah but it still doesn't look that appealling
Oct 25th 2011
286
Fuck being a better man, I'd rather have one sexy headache
Oct 25th 2011
291
      i'm with you!
Oct 25th 2011
297
Yeah, Christian girl was not equipped to handle this situation
Oct 25th 2011
289
      seems like it had nothing to do with being equipped...she wasn't
Oct 25th 2011
296
           Do you think she asked? I'd wager she didn't
Oct 25th 2011
300
                prolly didn't.....which is mistake number one cuz I'ma hafta ask
Oct 25th 2011
325
                     Now if he lied, yeah, but she sound like she didn't ask
Oct 25th 2011
334
                          sometimes a half truth is deemed a lie......which is why ole girl
Oct 25th 2011
364
Did he call him self God, Allah, Five Percent, Five Percenter, etc?
Oct 25th 2011
281
nah he wasnt into any of that
Oct 25th 2011
287
I keep refreshing like I dont have other things to do smh
Oct 25th 2011
285
nigga....
Oct 25th 2011
294
how were the kids?
Oct 25th 2011
290
how long ago was this? Did he ever ask you to recruit the next?
Oct 25th 2011
293
if yall don't stop asking questions and let her finish the story...
Oct 25th 2011
295
she SAID we can ask...so we ASKIN...........you had questions...
Oct 25th 2011
299
      lol. tell em! i'm saying she can still tell the story
Oct 25th 2011
305
it didnt end well for me. the exit interview was for the wife
Oct 25th 2011
324
      >>ATTENTION FOLX<<..THERE'S 2 PARTS/STORIES LEFT!!
Oct 25th 2011
338
      You a star Sunnie, don't none of these folks tell you otherwise
Oct 25th 2011
341
i don't think its as impressive or as deep as ya'll want it to sound
Oct 25th 2011
301
Always one nigga.
Oct 25th 2011
306
Man, don't be Donnell Downer up in here...
Oct 25th 2011
308
BOY!!!! yawl 2 (Firebrand/Castro Show) are ON it!
Oct 25th 2011
310
omg y'all are fucking Grizz and Dot Com up in here
Oct 25th 2011
312
i don't know why all ya'll are as excited as you are
Oct 25th 2011
314
      Come on Seth, this is an exciting post. Will I have 5 wives next
Oct 25th 2011
317
           to me its about as exciting as 2nd grade math
Oct 25th 2011
323
                No you're arent...usually I'm right there with you.
Oct 25th 2011
331
knock it off....
Oct 25th 2011
311
I'm with you on this one bruh.
Oct 25th 2011
336
;-)
Oct 25th 2011
346
yeah...it kinda sounds like a crisco story :(
Oct 25th 2011
350
this is exposing the REAL! it's not all beachhouses and romps!
Oct 25th 2011
359
no it doesn't....i luhs Crisco...God knows I do.......but
Oct 25th 2011
362
      its a guy trying to get multiple women...
Oct 25th 2011
369
           right? and lol @ the other women having to change the sheets
Oct 25th 2011
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SMH......SMH
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lmao
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basically how i feel but didnt wanna ruin the post
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my man! (c) Frank Lucas
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ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED!?
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u kno what i misread ur reply nvm
Oct 25th 2011
514
cosign. maybe i'm getting old but this shit just seems like a pimp with
Oct 25th 2011
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I think I have found the solution to my nanny sitch
Oct 25th 2011
303
Tell her about the pancakes.
Oct 25th 2011
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Wrong way to start it out...that is a castle made of sand
Oct 25th 2011
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voted offa the island
Oct 25th 2011
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boyyyyyy if this ain't GOOOOOD...lol and i'm SO shame
Oct 25th 2011
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Girl...I can't. Was he even cute? Cause I couldn't yeah...
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The few people I knew in long term multiple partner
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      Truly agreed.
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      ^^^^ REAL SHIT.
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      *highlights important section*
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      I've got family in polygamous relationships
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           i call BS
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                hmmm, different, not more or less.
Oct 25th 2011
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                     Ok, I'll agree with that
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                          i'll agree to that as well
Oct 25th 2011
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Yo. Very Effortless' attempts to keep Sunnie on task?
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y'all are the engineers, she's the project manager
Oct 25th 2011
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      hahaha ..she's hitting us on our BB's to install a patch LOL
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      you guys need a status meeting
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           niggas got serious scope creep
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                If were weren't on it, this post would have Booscreened early.
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      Right?
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Holy shit. this is incredible A+ posting. n/m
Oct 25th 2011
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I'm gonna need a bathrobe & cup of coffee to read all this.
Oct 25th 2011
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i swear if she gets to the end and says
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**tears**
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then we would really have to archive it
Oct 25th 2011
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we bout to get LOST'ed
Oct 25th 2011
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lol
Oct 25th 2011
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Awesome Post
Oct 25th 2011
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RE: Awesome Post
Oct 25th 2011
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I don't see how the doctor woman was tolerated AT ALL
Oct 25th 2011
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http://i56.tinypic.com/1zp7ds7.jpg
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Nominates this for post of the year
Oct 25th 2011
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*changes screename to Sunni Sixteen*
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~*~*~*~* waiting for the next chapterrrrrrrrrr*~*~*~*~*~
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DA HANGING OF CLIFFS
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sorry i had to do some work: wifey & me. & him. & "the temper"...
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No shade. But are you attracted to drama like that?
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sounds like a lot of shade actually
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It's being honest no shade. Asking honest questions don't hurt.
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i understood where you were coming from. and i had similar
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      you work with special needs students?
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           nope, i have no experience with you.
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                lol...
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*looks at post title*
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      right?
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      this post = one big pussy
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           lmao im sayin
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                agreed
Oct 25th 2011
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real talk, i have the "fix the bird w/ the broken wing" syndrome
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      i'm a pisces too.
Oct 25th 2011
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      but you are single and emo though... *shrugs* n/m
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           lol. there's great irony in you thinking "being single" is an insult in
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      ok I see
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damn....dude was quite a character.......wonder why the 1st came
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that was not a polygamous relationship in traditional fashion. that
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why they gotta be brawds though?
Oct 25th 2011
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Here you go with that bullshit, abby.
Oct 25th 2011
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      lol. what nigga? it's obvious that you and castro are sprung off the
Oct 25th 2011
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           My bad, negrodamus.
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           again, wtf are you talking about?
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                Huh? Inbox her for what? What is a "traditional"
Oct 25th 2011
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                     and you said that...
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                          Exactly.
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           You are being a troglodyte. Stop it.
Oct 25th 2011
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                LOL!!
Oct 25th 2011
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this just sound like living in the projects....
Oct 25th 2011
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The details behind this shit is what niggas don't get.
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oh man i missed this
Oct 25th 2011
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.
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^ what happned.. hit the inbox!
Oct 25th 2011
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      it was a double post. cool out.
Oct 25th 2011
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           ^ i would have shared
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Oh wait, my dudes dude is also in a polygamy like set-up in Miami
Oct 25th 2011
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this seems like too much of a headache in the long run
Oct 25th 2011
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^^^obviously not a live ni**a
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less commercial breaks por favor
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if it were a woman with 5 husbands yall would
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call her a n!ggab!tch and a liar
Oct 25th 2011
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RE: call her a n!ggab!tch and a liar
Oct 25th 2011
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This post would be a mess. I'd be just as interested.
Oct 25th 2011
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im pretty sure this senario is impossible
Oct 25th 2011
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^
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In about 20 years this is going to be more and more
Oct 25th 2011
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yup. All kinds of variations of it too
Oct 25th 2011
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um...how would the job market be any better for a chick?
Oct 25th 2011
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Women are more likely to graduate colllege, to have
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real talk
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Not totally, My great aunt had this kind of set up with 2 men.
Oct 25th 2011
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Id imagine sharing one wife with 5 other dudes
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and she'd be bleeding for 5-7 days every month
Oct 25th 2011
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say FUCK THAT BITCH in Confessions Wednesday. lol
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laugh at the dudes--
Oct 25th 2011
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verbally attack the shit outta her...hell, po Damali just spoke of
Oct 25th 2011
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that situation doesn't apply here...
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      i didn't know of the specifics....i just know that
Oct 25th 2011
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the story would only be juicy if there was man on man action too
Oct 25th 2011
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why does it always have to go there?!
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fall back, don cheadle
Oct 25th 2011
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... call it a gang bang
Oct 25th 2011
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i'm so mad i had to actually work today.
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Im F5ing in between code code builds and server restarts. lol
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I ain't do nan else today at work
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^^^^^^^^ I *looked* busy as hell tho
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i'm lost in here!
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><
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lmao...we all did.
Oct 25th 2011
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thanks to bonamie now im gonna fully read this post. i have A.D.D though
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is this some Fla shit...? i had a cousin caught up in something similar
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i was asking the same question
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      oh wow you two
Oct 25th 2011
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i was entirely too busy with work today.
Oct 25th 2011
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finale: the last two contestants & my not so graceful exit
Oct 25th 2011
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so what's up with nychb doh?
Oct 25th 2011
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it might be the tall ass chick you stole from ole boy
Oct 25th 2011
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^^^Focused
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Tall, natural hair? If she looks half as good as the way
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      you understand me!
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      for a second i thought it was me
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      lol. My mom, my brothers and I got one dimple.
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      GATDAMN...I know this long dead, but gatdamn...lol
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nawl....you take a seat, shug.......THIS sunny is a storywritinfiend
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Welp. I'm happy. Cool story. You actually going to
Oct 25th 2011
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i can if they feel there's anything i missed
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two words: book deal. thanks for sharing.
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great story.
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*takes off glasses and closes the final page of book*
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* puts down carving wood rocks slowly in chair and rubs your shawl*
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*puts in dentures*
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      ^^ Wee Todd Dead
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also sounds like she did most of the work
Oct 25th 2011
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Yes this is a great story.
Oct 25th 2011
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this was a great story.....thanks for sharing
Oct 25th 2011
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okay. we need to start the post-Poast interview
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http://tiny.cc/j5hz8
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Directed by Spike Lee, Produced by Spike Lee, Effects by ILM
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What about the kids?
Oct 25th 2011
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oh no, so inappropriate for the short amount of time i was there
Oct 25th 2011
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      ben 10 is great
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oh! last note:
Oct 25th 2011
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well how boutchu keep that tea brewin and start a weekly okp series
Oct 25th 2011
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNBt4srCn84
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One more question...What constitutes cheating in a poly relationship?
Oct 25th 2011
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No Bullshit, was there ever a foursome?
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no dear.lol
Oct 25th 2011
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so after its all said and done...
Oct 25th 2011
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RE: so after its all said and done...
Oct 25th 2011
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      what were their professions? where they over six figures gross income?
Oct 25th 2011
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      wow see i wouldnt have expected that
Oct 25th 2011
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           yea...Sunnie was The Help.....forreal
Oct 25th 2011
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Big-Boned Love.
Oct 25th 2011
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this explains a few things.....
Oct 25th 2011
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This has nothing to do w/ your fake ring project
Oct 25th 2011
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      you displayed such HEARTfelt empathy for the fledgling housewrecker
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           Oh that's just a woman that doesnt wanna see another woman
Oct 25th 2011
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i know u said u and the firsty got along....did yawl have sex w/o him?
Oct 25th 2011
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good question
Oct 25th 2011
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Nah. She was still working thru her insecurities
Oct 25th 2011
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this shit is about to go cinco-plat
Oct 25th 2011
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half diamond and shit (c) some okp
Oct 25th 2011
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wuz here
Oct 25th 2011
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i haven't really read this post yet...wonder how much pages it'd
Oct 25th 2011
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This shit was Grrrrreat! (c) Tony the tiger
Oct 25th 2011
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wild hunnids..... half diamond (c)
Oct 25th 2011
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RE: wild hunnids..... half diamond (c)
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      hi buildingblock!
Oct 25th 2011
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Wild Poly-gons
Oct 25th 2011
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WOW!
Oct 25th 2011
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i was here
Oct 25th 2011
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Sooo.. given a good situation.. would you consider doing it again? :O~
Oct 25th 2011
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same sex polygamy, does it happen?
Oct 25th 2011
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^^^my thoughts
Oct 25th 2011
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Tyler!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hey hun!!!!
Oct 25th 2011
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hey boochetta!!!! what is GOODY MA?
Oct 26th 2011
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hrrrm
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      ;) :), XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Oct 26th 2011
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this sht here nga!? THIS SHT HERE NGA!?
Oct 25th 2011
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this was really good thanx for sharing
Oct 25th 2011
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oh snap. i aint log on all day today and i missed this!
Oct 25th 2011
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Pisces women I tell ya smh
Oct 25th 2011
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WHAT ABOUT PISCES WOMEN CHER! WHAT ABT EM!!!
Oct 25th 2011
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wow.
Oct 25th 2011
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This whole thing is wild.
Oct 25th 2011
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awesome post
Oct 25th 2011
540
Just wanna say you're awesome for sharing this experience.
Oct 25th 2011
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imma need a song on the soundtrack when this gets made into a movie
Oct 25th 2011
548
I vote Jack Benson Experience for the opening credits
Oct 25th 2011
549
wow http://bit.ly/v5XMeB
Oct 25th 2011
550
Yo I clipped all the stories and sent it to my friends via skype
Oct 25th 2011
551
interesting. disturbing how many women were traipsing around
Oct 26th 2011
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#dontdatehimherherherandhergurl.com
Oct 26th 2011
553
this was an interesting story
Oct 26th 2011
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Anyone know any Essence Writers?
Oct 26th 2011
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All I will Say is, "Don't noneofy'all awkward OKP Bro's try this at home...
Oct 26th 2011
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sorry, this aint polygamy....its polygaming...
Oct 26th 2011
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Was this in America, if so what state?
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      not here....
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select_from_where
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1. "how many others were there?"
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sunniecristina
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7. "ahh, the magic number question"
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i was involved with this family
for almost a year.

he (we.lol) had gone through 5.

when i was first courted there was one other,
within 30 days he had picked up two more.

there was the epic weekend where we all were in
the house together.

i was involved the longest, the others dropped off rather quickly.

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19. "there was the epic weekend we all were in the house together."
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http://www.tampabay.com/blogs/venturebiz/sites/tampabay.com.blogs.venturebiz/files/images/typepad-legacy-files/46255.6a00d83451b05569e20133f0786295970b-pi.jpg

  

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KosherSam
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Tue Oct-25-11 09:24 AM

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47. "very nice, even if this was already done by Longo"
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*Jews you*

"this is okp tho, reading is completely optional" (c) desus

Proceed with caution. I am overtly racist.

<-- In Pigpen we trust

  

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Castro
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2. "I got a bunch of questions"
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1. How long were you involved in the relationship?

2. Was it polygamist from the start?

3. What was the justification for polygamy?

4. Would you do it again?

5. What was your role (first wife, second, etc)?


  

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sunniecristina
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8. "RE: I got a bunch of questions"
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>1. How long were you involved in the relationship?
>9mos

>2. Was it polygamist from the start?
>yes

>3. What was the justification for polygamy?
>ooh his shit was a crock but i'll get into that later.lol

>4. Would you do it again?
> with a different person? yes

>5. What was your role (first wife, second, etc)?
> i would say i grew to being 2nd, the other women were jealous of his affections for me right away

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Castro
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18. "More questions:"
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>>1. How long were you involved in the relationship?
>>9mos
>
>>2. Was it polygamist from the start?
>>yes
>
>>3. What was the justification for polygamy?
>>ooh his shit was a crock but i'll get into that later.lol

Okay, please elaborate on this...I think this is where folks get shit all messed. meaning, if you simply want to fuck multiple partners on the regular, put that out there....don't make up some psuedo spiritual 'Lets build a village' shit


>>4. Would you do it again?
>> with a different person? yes

What would be the conditions under which you would consider doing it again?


>>5. What was your role (first wife, second, etc)?
>> i would say i grew to being 2nd, the other women were
>jealous of his affections for me right away

So he had a partner, then some others that were there, and then you can in and he grew more and more fond of you?

  

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clever79
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3. "would you do it again?"
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BTW, this post is going to be awesome.

  

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sunniecristina
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10. "definitely with the right players"
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Castro
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4. "And eh, y'all judgemental muh'phuckas betta ack right"
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you might learn something to help your lonely azzes...

  

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lfresh
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16. "this means you ready to be husband #2?"
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>you might learn something to help your lonely azzes...


~~~~
When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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You cannot hate people for their own good.

  

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Moonlit_Force
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Tue Oct-25-11 09:07 AM

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24. "*Raises Hand*"
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lfresh
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132. "smh you stop that"
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When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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You cannot hate people for their own good.

  

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FireBrand
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214. "haha. For the right woman"
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all kinds of ish is on the table for discussion.

"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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Moonlit_Force
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226. "Okayplayer?"
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And in my case for the right "person" I wouldn't mind being
husband number 2 at all.

Actually I should say "people" because I'd have to vibe with
husband #1 obviously but we are --->*<---

  

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Castro
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26. "If you mean, 2nd time being married, better husband, stronger"
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relationship, higher quality of life, then yes.

  

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lfresh
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85. "sounds judgemental"
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When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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You cannot hate people for their own good.

  

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Castro
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99. "I reserve the right to judge my relationships."
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and within the context of this conversation, I reserve the right to call folks out if they passing judgement on Sunnie...LET THAT GURL COOK

  

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lfresh
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131. "looks like the only person judging here is you"
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~~~~
When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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You cannot hate people for their own good.

  

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Castro
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162. "go kick rocks l-stale"
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this poast ain't about you noways

  

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lfresh
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358. "lemme know when you get that husband #2 position castro"
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=)
~~~~
When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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You cannot hate people for their own good.

  

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Bruce Belafonte
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Tue Oct-25-11 09:10 AM

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28. "yall crack me up with that bull."
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*sweeps you into the pen*

http://youtu.be/5o37GORoKUQ

#htpw

  

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Cocobrotha2
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5. "what attracted you to the arrangement?"
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<-><-><-><-><-><-><-><-><->
<-><-><-><-><-><-><-><-><->

  

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sunniecristina
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12. "the way he marketed/presented it to me at first"
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as i stuck around i saw there
was holes in his plan
and it start to look more
self serving than universal purpose.

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Cocobrotha2
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34. ""Universal Purpose"... what does that mean?"
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>
>as i stuck around i saw there
>was holes in his plan
>and it start to look more
>self serving than universal purpose.

<-><-><-><-><-><-><-><-><->
<-><-><-><-><-><-><-><-><->

  

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sunniecristina
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48. "1 part spiritual purpose"
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- 1/2 teaspoon of "blacks need to do better this is how we can save our race"

- 1 cup of "lets go back to africa and have the ultimate family"

and voila! his universal purpose.lol

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6. "bloocollar is somewhere out there doing the dougie"
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9. "what was the intimacy arrangement like?"
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sunniecristina
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15. "well, we all slept in the same room together"
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i like girls so it was no problem
the 1st wife was a bit insecure
so it was hard to get her to feel sexy
enough sometimes.

(we'll get into the root of her insecurities later)

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clever79
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21. "*clears all appointments, cancels staff meeting, closes door*"
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I get the feeilng "later" is going to be epic.

  

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25. "RE: well, we all slept in the same room together"
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http://www.tampabay.com/blogs/venturebiz/sites/tampabay.com.blogs.venturebiz/files/images/typepad-legacy-files/46255.6a00d83451b05569e20133f0786295970b-pi.jpg

  

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clever79
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27. "follow-up question"
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Tue Oct-25-11 09:10 AM by clever79

  

          

>
>i like girls so it was no problem

In general, for polygamy to work successfully, do the female participants have to "like girls"?

MY opinion: Yes. Otherwise they will feel threatened and insecure. But if they are into girls, having more around is an added bonus to the relationship.



  

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sunniecristina
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50. "there we 2 chicks that didnt like girls"
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i respected their space and need for
affection without an audience.

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175. "*raises hand* present!"
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207. "^^^^ IMPORTANT INFORMATION ^^^^"
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11. "Was it a polygamist or open relationship?"
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In either case did you and your partner(s) share partners simultaneously?

Who's idea was it initially, your's or your partner's?

  

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sunniecristina
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17. "it was def polygamy, i was recruited."
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>In either case did you and your partner(s) share partners
>simultaneously?
>
>Who's idea was it initially, your's or your partner's?


it was definitely me joining an already built family.

they started out as swingers so they were familiar with
the group love/sex construct

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31. "Would you be open to a family with multiple husbands and wives?"
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13. "could you see it working long term?"
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20. "from the family aspect:"
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multiple parents sharing household duties,
it works.

the bond you build with these women is awesome.

but it takes a really strong and grounded
man to handle a situation like this.

thats where the cracks were, with the man.

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29. "was it ego? (his)"
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41. "girl! ego, a self serving purpose for this construct, insecurity"
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mommy issues,

you name it he had it.lol

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78. "patrice o neal has it right"
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reg downloaded all these black philip episodes and i can't say i don't disagree w/ what he says (i was listening to an episode on threesomes/polygamy)

and he's actually cosigning y'all and telling dudes that THEY need to chill and theyre fucking it up for themselves. and a lot of it has to do w/ ego.

men are on this 'i am a man w/ needs' shit which is cool but they don't realize in a polygamist scenario in a situation where the women aren't on some shit b/c of religion (islam, mormons, cults, etc), they have to be a little more 'fair' and concede a lot more than they think they do. just having a dick doesn't mean you hold all the cards.

i'm not with it but i totally support the o'neal method. lol. because at least he is echoing what you ladies are saying about honesty, checking insecurities, etc. AND he's about letting the ladies fuck other dudes.

i just think this whole idea plays a little too much into men and their supposed biology and women just have to deal like we don't have needs too. god speed if you can find a scenario that works for you.

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clever79
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42. "RE: was it ego? (his)"
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I'm thinking it had to have been his ego.

  

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14. "*drags futon into post, falls on it, cracks stella & gets comfy*"
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this has no choice but to be awesome


do or die

  

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22. "what was the dude like?"
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what was the presentation?

I've recently heard a few girls express a willingness to go that route out the blue. Always chalked it up to be wild disrespectful to the women but they were like if it's all good it's all good...

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44. "he was very handsome"
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tall and dark to be exact.

in shape due to his occupation.

charismatic and mad energetic.

kinda like you

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129. "Patently false..."
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my nigga trip is neither tall or dark.

That nigga hansome though... no homo


<-------- definitive proof I never would get with a white girl...


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340. "thought it was me....but the Trip *I* met was a cashew light brown"
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he's taller than me

but handsome....yes

  

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130. "what was his occupation?"
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did the other ladies have to work as well?
~~~~
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327. "i already asked that....and she said that outta respect of them"
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she won't disclose
which i understand

  

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23. "how many kids?"
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how big was the house?

who paid the bills?

who cooked?

who cleaned house?

were there ever other men?

________
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█▆▇▅▇█▇▆▄▁▃
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53. "RE: how many kids? - 2 babies"
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>how big was the house? i thought him but found out later the 1 st wife was the cash cow
>
>who paid the bills? she handled the bills
>
>who cooked? we did (she and i)
>
>who cleaned house? (she and i)
>
>were there ever other men? (no he was very adamant abt him being the only king)
>
>________
>Big PEMFin H & z's
>█▆▇▅▇█▇▆▄▁▃
>http://concretesoundsystem.com
>Mo'Nium - http://monium.tumblr.com/
>
>RIP Nick Ashford - http://bit.ly/rfgMKh

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96. "why'd you only answer the first question?"
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So the first wife was mother to the two kids?
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213. "This is where I sense the break down aka She Hate Me"
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he not making any money, SOUNDS CONTROVERSIAL

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30. "heh, makes sense"
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______________________

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54. "dont be mean lover"
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lol

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32. "what would you tell a man entering into a polygamist relationship"
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like what is the most important thing for the man to know?

  

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36. "Deal with any insecurities head on...."
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38. "expound, please"
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43. "In my experience, any time you have multiple women involved"
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there's going to be some insecurity. Especially if any are new to the idea of a poly dynamic. Lots of times, the men involved either ignore the insecurities or they think it will just go away w/o addressing it and I don't find that to be true.

If the relationship is going to be more than sexual, all issues have to be discussed openly and addressed.

  

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49. "Gotcha. Yeah, I can DEFINITELY feel that. "
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are you currently in a poly situation? and how long have you been in it?

  

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65. "I was, I'm not now but I'm open to it under the right circumstances."
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40. "sunniecri got 2 logins............?"
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WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUWWW...........

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46. "Nope, I'm real...just decided to share my experience :)"
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33. "Poly can work if everyone is honest & openly deal with their insecuritie..."
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The problem is that most men go into it and are very selfish and the women are insecure...if people would just talk honestly about what's going on, it could work very well.

  

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52. "Are you still in your relationship?"
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67. "I'm not, but I'm open to it."
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35. "no."
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37. "yall should go ahead and anchor/archive this now"
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it's barely 10:30am.

This post has no where to go but poast

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39. "lemme just tell the whole story as itll answer alot of questions"
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- love at first sight?lol

i was sitting on a bus stop. this black family rolls up on me in a bmw
(the bus stop was at an intersection)
a lady hops out and tells me how pretty i am so i automatically
assume shes a talent scout or something. asks me a few prerequisite questions and gives me her card. they drive off.

i was curious and thought it was cool to see a successful
black entrepeneur family down here so i called.
i quickly found out he wasnt a talent/model scout.

we texted back and forth and he kept wanting to see me right away
to the point that it was creepy. so i went on to the mall and on with the rest of my day.

nightfall arrives and the texts start back up. i caved cause i was
hungry and wanted to go out to dinner.lol. i agreed to meet him in a
neutral location so we could talk. he was very complimentary the entire discussions leading up to us meeting.

he picked me up in his other luxury vehicle (i find out later he drives fancy cars to make up for other insecurities), we ride out.
i felt totally in control of the situation, i aint afraid to tuck and roll out of a niggas car should the situation call for it.

he was very attentive, hanging off of my every word. i was guarded
with my personal info but as the night wore on we got into some deeper stuff. so i started asking the hard hitting questions:

me: so thats your wife?
him: yup
me: and shes okay with you being out with me?
him: she understands, we're trying to build something her and i
me: do tell
him: tells me the story of how they met, they're universal plan
me: (intrigued) okay....
him: wanna come back to our house tonight?
me: nope, call you wife and see if its okay
him: (starts dialing puts wife on speakerphone) say hi to sunnie
(her and i small talk cause i met her first essentially)
wife: if you wanna come hang out you can but only if youre comfy.

now, dude lives like 50mi from my house, my spidey sense starts tingling as im not trying to be a one night stand lost in the middle of nowhere so to pacify him, i tell him i'll only come out there in the daytime.

he takes me home.

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45. "AND THEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN..............."
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???

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55. "RIGHT! That was like the movie ending before the opening credits"
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56. "lolol"
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~
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63. "Yo, that was some Sopranos finale shit."
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88. "LMAO"
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...
we understand you can easily come back and we're not impressed. how about getting a life first.© okpdan

  

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108. "bruh"
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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51. "so the first time he hit, did she watch?"
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*leans forward*

http://youtu.be/5o37GORoKUQ

#htpw

  

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59. "the first time was alone, 2nd was a 3 some"
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66. "(((POASTY!!!)))"
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*pops up in bottom corner of your screen*

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#htpw

  

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475. "totally heard this in the MK trilogy voice for "toasty" - LOL"
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!

"It's the return of the gangsta, thanks ta..."

-du

  

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77. "sorry ya'll i had to break it up! it wouldve been too long."
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- the courtship continues.....
so the next day comes, hes calling promptly
so he can come pick me up. its football sunday.
i except his offer to make good on his promise.
he comes and gets me with his best friend in the car, a dude.

i quickly get guarded on some ole "who is this nigga?!?"
he smoothes everything over and we roll out.
like i said previously, 50mi later we arrive at his house.
we are talking the whole way there and i pick up on
how everytime you talk abt something he has to match or one up you.
competitiveness. noted.
we get to his house and its a decent sized townhome on the beach.
3 floors, nice balcony.
i meet the wife again and the kids right away, there was another woman there which was the one before me that got kicked to the curb shortly after my arrival into the dynamic. she was standoffish right away but i thought it was from something that happened before i got to the house that day.

i met the kids that day too. they were adorable and precocious.

so we talked, both of them grilled me abt me, i answered without a flinch every question they had for me:
- where you from
- what do you do
- you think you can handle this
etc.

we ended up all watching true blood together, it got late so i ended up spending a night.

he tried to hit raw right away (first red flag)
but i was like "hell no! have you discussed this with the wife, are ya'll using condoms, does she have a say in who you sleep with"
i was very conscious of the first wife's feelings and my own safety
i slept in the basement while those three slept upstairs in the master suite

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83. "its getting better. keep going. nm"
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do or die

  

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86. "alpha males are competitive by nature. *edit*"
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i mean... i don't think any other type could conceive maintaining a polyganous household.


lol @ you have to talk to your wife before you hit it... raw.


SHIT! I just realized you said it was a 3rd woman over there that slept with them that night. What is this niggas number? HELP ME OBI-WAN!

http://youtu.be/5o37GORoKUQ

#htpw

  

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89. "Yes."
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Yes Natty!™

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92. "At first this sounded awesome, but now not so much"
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Sounds like dude just pushes himself on females and manages to get them to stay around(each other).

were you into this? he must have had you open quick.

I guess I had this view of a polygamist dude in this situation needing to be super attentive, supportive, and sensitive.

This sounds like the opposite.

  

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94. "i'm a open person. so this was kinda something on my"
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bucket list so to speak.

hes the most persuasive pussy ever.
i'll get to that.

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110. "yeah this is what people think it's supposed to be"
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>I guess I had this view of a polygamist dude in this situation
>needing to be super attentive, supportive, and sensitive.
>

which honestly, it should
but i think a lot of dudes figure they have the upper hand b/c theyre the man and they only care about their needs and not enough about the needs of the women catering to them. shit is a 2 way street. it's worse than that b/c you have to emotionally support 2+ women. i can barely support 1 other person and i'm a pretty open giving person. lol

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116. "this is why Big Love was a great series..."
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..it exposed all of that


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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146. "yup"
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but in a funny way, the potential of that succeeding seems greater b/c bill was reasonably wealthy and there was the religous aspect

i can't fathom how this can work in nyc. we all struggling struggling and sharing a man doesn't seem so appealling. lol.

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164. "$$$ isn't really an issue..."
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..bill's wealth simply allowed them to hide their status from the public

i know a polyamorous family in nyc, and they function just fine on average salaries...


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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107. "So when did it get to the #weallfuckin level?"
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115. "WHERE IS PART III TO THIS STORY?!?!? I'm killin my F9 button"
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126. "right? i wanna know how you get a 3ski poppin in that sit"
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http://youtu.be/5o37GORoKUQ

#htpw

  

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135. "my name is MistaGoodBar, & I was present for this experience today on OK..."
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Twitter/IG: mistagoodbar
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61. "C'mon yo, don't bam this out."
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At least wait until the wild hunnids

  

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64. "reply 59 fool! "
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yall can thank me for opening pandora's juicebox.

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68. "*facepalm*"
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62. "im sure this is how that lil blonde girl in utah got got, BTW"
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aka GTFOHWTBS

but im here now. entertain me


do or die

  

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69. "you didn't get a lil freaked out when a car pulled up"
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and a lady is all complimentary?

my first thought would be "oh shit, i'm bout to be kidnapped!"

and i think i'd take like 10 steps back =/

you weren't scurred?

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102. "this happens to me often in miami"
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after awhile you get a feel for the crazies
and how to weed them out.

but then again you never know.

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72. ":/ this happened to me "
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but i was pretty sure i was going to be kidnapped, shot full of H and end up in a flophouse in hunts point

i was working the door @ a club and this woman was chatting me up hard
first off she was frigging old and gross so i was going NO WHERE with her

but yeah, she was trying to get me to go 'meet people', mainly a very handsome man of hers. lol.


shit this happened again earlier this year. this time it was a dude. he was bouncing at a spot i was chilling at and when he learned i was a DJ, he wanted to take me to a club to meet some dude. at 3am. wtf.

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505. "LOL@ flop house in hunts point man T don't do that"
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the white folks is gentrifying that area you can get exposed brick brownstones for cheap now...

but LOL nonetheless

Get Out the Room
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82. "http://tinyurl.com/4yxqgez"
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http://tinyurl.com/4yxqgez

*Jews you*

"this is okp tho, reading is completely optional" (c) desus

Proceed with caution. I am overtly racist.

<-- In Pigpen we trust

  

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57. "so he was a "pimp" "player" "promoter"?"
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so u got gamed?

or were u willing until it all went to hell?

______________________

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74. "Maybe she did. He wanted to be the only "king" .....*shrugs*"
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Stayls aka Peaches Cochran (THE REAL STAYLS)

Yes Natty!™

Don't try to downplay Pac and get mad because MC Underground with his complicated flows and lyrics can't move a crowd even if he pointed a gun at them. -Clash Sic

  

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"he wasnt any of that"


  

          

just hyperintelligent and misinformed.

i was in control the entire time,
i left when i didnt wanna be apart of it anymore
at no time did i feel trapped, preyed upon.

it was an experience.

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58. "Polygamy will be common within the next 10 years or so"
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I gurantee it. THere is a man shortage ladies. Not enuff of us to go around in a monogamous setting. ANd most of us cheat anyways. Resolution is to accept that your man will have other women. Set boundaries and start to enjoy sleeping with women on occasion.

Me and my wife have this arrangement and it works for us.
It's not full on Polygamy yet but it could lead that way in time.
If we found a chick she clicks with mentally and physically I could convince her to let the chick move in with us.

This would lead to bigger things in the future.
3 incomes equals a bigger house, better financial stability.
Having the extra partner keeps me satisfied as a man who craves multiple partners. ANd having another female can give my wife companionship all women crave.

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My Sig - Nig!!
Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
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70. "for u prolly, not everyone feels the same."
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Yes Natty!™

Don't try to downplay Pac and get mad because MC Underground with his complicated flows and lyrics can't move a crowd even if he pointed a gun at them. -Clash Sic

  

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75. "Half the females on OKP are in a relationship with a dude that"
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has another chick. Yall living semi-polygamy now and dont even know it. So stop the denial and get with the program

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Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
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76. "Oh there's no denial I just hate when ppl think EVERYONE is doing "
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this... Not everyone is into it. You prolly because you have low self esteem so I understand why you do it. You're filling a void in your life. But your sadly mistaken if you think that it will be this way.

Stayls aka Peaches Cochran (THE REAL STAYLS)

Yes Natty!™

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84. "LOL you funny my self esteem is intact"
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More so I could convince your stubborn ass to be in my rotation if I wanted to...

Oh wait you already got a roster spot on someone elses team.
I may pick you up on waivers though.

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Hip Hop is a perfect verse over a dope beat!!

Just a Day in the Life, Of a Playa for Life!!
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109. "Nah, I'm good. You're not that smart, you have money issues"
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and you're surrounded by ignorant people... that's not attractive.

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112. "Girl, you should know by now to ignore all of the foolishness he posts"
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I just internally LOL at his sadness and keep it movin.

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117. "I know I am just bored so that's why i am responding. I am entertained."
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Yes Natty!™

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208. "RE: Nah, I'm good. You're not that smart, you have money issues"
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>and you're surrounded by ignorant people... that's not
>attractive.

Yet I stay knee deep in p*ssy.
Sucks to be me...

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71. "You're too selfish and not honest enough for real poly"
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73. "Which is why I said the other female would have to "
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be picked by my wife.

I would take the first chick that said yes. LOL

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79. "Your wife can pick all day but your ego would get in the way"
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I'm not throwing shade but you come across as very selfish and no matter how great the women get along that could cause problems for everyone.

It's all fun when everybody's fucking but the real work comes outside of the bedroom when real life gets in the way. You have to make sure that you can meet the emotional needs of two women and that is not always easy.

  

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87. "RE: Your wife can pick all day but your ego would get in the way"
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>I'm not throwing shade but you come across as very selfish
>and no matter how great the women get along that could cause
>problems for everyone.
>
>It's all fun when everybody's fucking but the real work comes
>outside of the bedroom when real life gets in the way. You
>have to make sure that you can meet the emotional needs of two
>women and that is not always easy.


Cant argue with no of that you said.
That would take some trial and error I supposed.
I am still figuring out my current arrangement.
Luckily my wife counters my selfishness with her selflessness.

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91. "so you can have more kids you don't give a shit about?"
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*facepalm*
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97. "The McRib is back, Just FYI n/m"
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123. "dont go jumping over the counter"
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180. "RE: Polygamy will be common within the next 10 years ot so"
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wow. So did you all go into marriage with this arrangement in place or did your relationship evolve to this point?

  

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210. "WEnt in with the premise. Still working the kinks out"
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>wow. So did you all go into marriage with this arrangement
>in place or did your relationship evolve to this point?


So far so good.

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60. "what support did u gain frum it?"
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i know u have no children

what was it that it fulfilled in u?
or were u possiblu *not* tryin to feel sumthin?

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90. "RE: what support did u gain frum it?"
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>i know u have no children
>
>what was it that it fulfilled in u?
>or were u possiblu *not* tryin to feel sumthin?

i definitely gained that sense of sisterhood,
i played my role and never tried to overthrow the 1st wife.
its like there were things i was good at that she wasnt
(she was hella forgetful it was so funny sometimes.lol)
i had an older more experienced person to get advice, wisdom from.

truthfully, and i said this when i did my exit interview
(sent a long assed email to the both of them)
that they are made for each other and really dont need this
polygamy stuff.
if he could just be satisfied with her they would be perfect

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93. "exit interview?"
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>>i know u have no children
>>
>>what was it that it fulfilled in u?
>>or were u possiblu *not* tryin to feel sumthin?
>
>i definitely gained that sense of sisterhood,
>i played my role and never tried to overthrow the 1st wife.
>its like there were things i was good at that she wasnt
>(she was hella forgetful it was so funny sometimes.lol)
>i had an older more experienced person to get advice, wisdom
>from.
>
>truthfully, and i said this when i did my exit interview
>(sent a long assed email to the both of them)
>that they are made for each other and really dont need this
>polygamy stuff.
>if he could just be satisfied with her they would be perfect


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98. "i jokingly call it myexit interview"
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i just shared some of my observations on
the relationship and what i think wouldve worked best.
i was the last one standing meaning once i left they
were left to deal with themselves one on one.

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124. "ah interesting"
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sounds like they gained more from you
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106. "i see that is what u gained frum it..."
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i can wholly appreciate that

i'm not takin the position that what u did was wrong
nor "unnatural"
as i see it
the husband picked u up
so the initial connection was made w/him
was there a physical{sexual}/emotional transition that occur'd where u wanted to be a 2nd wife
{okay i don't think u were a 2nd wife
correct me if i'm wrong}

i know for me
sometimes i do things because i'm able
not exactly due to my actually havin a desire to do those things
tho i ultimately function well w/the task @ hand

like
i'm a good girlfriend
but the # of times i was a girlfriend compared to the # of times i've actually WANTED to be
eh

i'm just doin some thinkin out loud, lovely

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137. "RE: i see that is what u gained frum it..."
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>i can wholly appreciate that
>
>i'm not takin the position that what u did was wrong
>nor "unnatural"
>as i see it
>the husband picked u up
>so the initial connection was made w/him
>was there a physical{sexual}/emotional transition that occur'd
>where u wanted to be a 2nd wife
>{okay i don't think u were a 2nd wife
>correct me if i'm wrong}

i call myself 2nd wife cause thats what they were
grooming me for.lol

i always had a sense of who i was so jealousy never came into
play, i could never replace her nor would want to.

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80. "RE: Ask a former polygamist anything"
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lol Ohhhhhh sunnie you're a freak... *inboxes you my number*
jking

  

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81. "haaaay sunnie!"
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167. "pay attn to meeeeeeee lol"
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95. "i know i could never have been in a situation like that long term due to"
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being selfish, jealous and possessive. don't want other women on my man on no willy nilly (whenever they feel like it) basis. how do or did you reconcile feelings of being dismissed or less wanted (if you ever felt that way)? how do you not feel like you deserve undivided attention? do you see it monogamy as unrealistic?

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104. "we had one that echoed your sentiments "
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i'll get to that later on in the post.

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100. "WILD SPOUSES"
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101. "i've been thinking about venturing into that world......"
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cuz i've experienced 3somes etc...

but i've been interested in having honest, open relationships again

but this time where the individiduals all interact

but it's gotta be perfect, which is unrealistic

so yeah

will prolly never happen

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103. "oop, didn't see Crisco up there. . .lol"
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105. "were you dating/fucking men while w/ them?"
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did you want to if you weren't?
was dude not having that?

did you have to like watch the kids and shit? clean?

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529. "that's my question too"
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n/m

  

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530. "RE: were you dating/fucking men while w/ them?"
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>did you want to if you weren't?
up until 30days before my departure, no to both questions
>
>did you have to like watch the kids and shit? clean?
> i'm domestic like that so it wasnt a big deal but
it wasnt a required chore either

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111. "http://media.scout.com/media/forums/emoticons/168/conan.gif"
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http://media.scout.com/media/forums/emoticons/168/conan.gif

men are so simple, and so subject to present necessities, that he who seeks to deceive will always find someone who will allow himself to be deceived. (c)Niccolò Machiavelli

  

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113. "WOW sis! This was a very interesting read......questions"
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what did he/first wife...do for a living?

Since polygamy is not legal (as far as I know)....was discretion a BIG deal? Like did anybody else know?

Was there any religious backing? Or was this him wanting a plethora of wives?

what made u leave?
was it safe?

  

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122. "RE: WOW sis! This was a very interesting read......questions"
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>what did he/first wife...do for a living?
out of respect for them i wont say but it was legit

>Since polygamy is not legal (as far as I know)....was
>discretion a BIG deal? Like did anybody else know?
>since legally nothing had transpired it was like i was the nanny/sister. me and the wife looked alike.lol

>Was there any religious backing? Or was this him wanting a
>plethora of wives?
> thinly veiled spirituality that turned into self serving

>what made u leave?
him. he had too many issues that polygamy wasnt gonna fix

>was it safe?
sexually? after all of the girls comparing notes of our courtship we
went and got tested. we were all good.

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133. "ahhhh...I respect this answer here"
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>>what made u leave?
>him. he had too many issues that polygamy wasnt gonna fix

In the docs I've seen on this....the wives NEVER separated the man from his ROLE as the king. So whatever issues he personally had and demons he was fighting, was okay with them. They kinda lose themselves to all of it. So glad u stayed true to yourself and got the fuck out as u deemed necessary. Good for Sunnie!



>>Since polygamy is not legal (as far as I know)....was
>>discretion a BIG deal? Like did anybody else know?
>>since legally nothing had transpired it was like i was the
>nanny/sister. me and the wife looked alike.lol

OHHHH so nunna yawl married......just shackin and fuckin, yes?

  

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114. "ARCHIVE"
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118. "^^^^ what HE said"
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this is better than ANY confession

  

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119. "the courtship continues (pt 2)"
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so apparently, as i learn later, i made
him wait the longest to hit.lol

after that "sleepover" we were inseperable,
he was down by me during the week and i was at the compound every weekend.

we had our first date (which i insisted on) abt 2wks in,
dressed up we really complimented each other.
at the restaurant he waxed poetically abt how i'm a divine
introduction into his life, a higher power had to bring us together,
he loved me so much (he started that love shit right away (another red flag))
how our relationship experiences mirrored each other but how he was
happy that i hadnt become bitter and still believed in love.

after dinner we went to a quiet beach and cuddled, listened to the waves. it was one of the most romantic dates i've ever had.
that night we consumated our courtship. in the guest bedroom of course, rubbers too.

i instantly picked up the support role, i adored the kids so on the weekends to give them a break i would make breakfast. came to be everyones favorite part of my visit.

they would sleep in while i would entertain the kids and flip pancakes. i over time bonded most with babygirl. at christmas dinner she called me "mommy". i'll revisit that.

one thing i noticed is that he would always take me out driving, i thought everyone got this treatment but not really. the jealousy and comparisons had already started.

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120. "Ask a former Polygamist, a GD Post, is sponsored by......"
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128. " is sponsored by...... cuffin' season. get you 1, cause otha niggas got..."
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127. "i got a question: was dude good in the sack?"
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seems like that would have been cause for aquittal off top

if on top of banging mad other females u aint even catching a nut

that'd suck


do or die

  

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140. "he had a huge dick and his refractory period was "
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nonexistent.

but that didnt stop me from bouncing.

i'll tell you why later.

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145. "Now I'm confused. Why was he insecure?"
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Money, Big dick, could fuck, kids, fucking 3 women...

I'm uber curious now.

"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
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437. "wait...-> refractory period was "
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what does this mean?

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139. "girrrrrrrrrrrrrrl....this oughtta be a BOOK....so wha happent next???"
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at christmas dinner she called me "mommy". i'll revisit that.

WHOA @ that.....

  

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142. "gurl guuuuuuurl. This better than cable."
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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149. "Okay??? *poppin Blast-o-Butter bag numma 2*"
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lesssgo...

  

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154. "FAM thanks for sharing but you got this shit like this"
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http://typophile.com/files/Romance_6699.JPG


and we need it to be more like this

http://keepingitreal.typepad.com/keepingitreal/images/2008/01/18/moneyshot.jpg

  

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121. "Did you ever talk to your own family or friends about it?"
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Was it something you felt you could or couldn't share?

If so, what was the reaction?

Was there respect and support, or did someone disagree and try to talk you out of it?

  

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125. "good question. some of my friends knew, not my family"
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>Was it something you felt you could or couldn't share?
>im the type not to alarm unless i know this is something im serious abt. i was still feeling my way thru and observing/seeing where i fit

he was mad pushy abt meeting my family on some ole
"tell your momma you met your soulmate"
(another red flag)

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136. "are all these red flags in hindsight or were you aware "
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and just wanted to see how far things would go?

*can't see floor for all red flags sunnie done threw out*

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143. "i was aware in it but i wont allow myself to be pushed."
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"cant see floor for all the red flags sunnie has thrown out"

i know girl.lol

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158. "so u were cool with it? who would be pushing you other than...you?"
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182. "I could imagine this being difficult to bring up to the family..."
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...unless they too had some familiarity with it........And especially since it didn't appear to be coming from a religious standpoint.

Was this something practiced by any of his family? Like did his parents have multiple spouses?

  

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134. "great post."
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Drokayplayer ™


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151. "fucking excellent post."
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188. "^^^"
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357. "Fuck yes."
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☺☻

"i'm doing good, can i put my face in your buttcrack?" (c) P.Inf

"frankly, I think it's foolish to have a cat or a baby, but whatever" (c) veritas

@kingofthings

  

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138. "You are cute though. :)~~~~"
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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141. "was this in MIAMI?????????? *spidey senses tingling*"
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psst!

  

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194. "HANH!?!?!"
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psst!

  

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144. "This is more Polyamory than Polygamy"
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just thought I'd mention that. #freaksoftheenglishtree

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147. "If you ruin this, I'll never forgive you. Let that girl fuck."
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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391. "lol"
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https://twitter.com/chuck4prez

  

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150. "true"
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152. "man, i just wish cats would let her finish the full story..."
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..all the questions keep delayin' the conclusion

woulda made more sense to simply post the entire story 1st

half the questions would already be addressed...


..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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159. "that's how I feel. Sunni- Ignore the questions and just post it all"
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in ONE reply. lol

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171. "agreed"
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psst!

  

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487. "i use the term polygamy loosely - she said that in the op"
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prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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506. "I thought she said "polygamist loosely." If so, that's "
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totally different. As polygamy would be referring to the situation and polygamist would be referring to her role and identification.

"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
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148. "gotta go to lunch yall"
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next up is " the fantastic 5(all the candidates and profiles)

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156. "http://i44.tinypic.com/s4yxc2.jpg"
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http://i44.tinypic.com/s4yxc2.jpg

  

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161. "Have a great lunch! See you later!!!"
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169. "Ill be waiting!"
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189. "LOL BASE"
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191. "http://i51.tinypic.com/2rhqkiv.png"
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http://i51.tinypic.com/2rhqkiv.png

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153. "Note: I ain't seen, let alone read NARRY NUTHA post today"
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in GD

THIS is enuff....!

  

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155. "so one day you're at the bus stop minding ur business"
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the next you're at his house with a bunch of strangers and kids and he's askin' to hit it raw?

no shade

but weren't there a whole SERIES of red flags goin' up along the way? did you just ignore 'em cuz curiosity got the best of you?

can you see how this 24hr period could've gone in a horrible, horrible direction?

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157. "lol stop!"
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in your head she coulda been knocked out cold being transported to havana to work in a BRAVO HOUSE

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165. "YES DAMMIT YES!"
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2nd day he pulls up with some next dude in the back?

sawry

gimme cab money and i'll meet you at the library.

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168. "P...R.....*.....D....* <---buy some vowels nugga, lol"
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and don't throw her under the bus coming back at me lol

  

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172. "*hits you over the head*"
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"welcome to Havana" (c) jay-z

  

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178. "lol i can't disagree"
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204. "lmao @ both of yall "
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BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

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227. "WE HAVE IMMIGRANT PARENTS"
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you think okayplayers are okayplayery????

sheeeiiiiiiiiiit

if this was me and i didn't have a favorable outcome (ie i ended up abducted and assaulted) you have to realize that whatever emotional and verbal reprimands i'd get from the fam for being 'stupid' would hurt more than any forced intercourse!!!!!

immigrants believe sympathy is for white people and the weak! our people come from war-torn countries they aint trying to hear this shit!

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238. "mom on phone: "she did what? she got in the car? for no reason?""
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*phone hangs up*

*cuts me out of all the family pictures*

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262. "lmfao!! I'm cracking up "
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i'm outta here!

>you think okayplayers are okayplayery????
>
>sheeeiiiiiiiiiit
>
>if this was me and i didn't have a favorable outcome (ie i
>ended up abducted and assaulted) you have to realize that
>whatever emotional and verbal reprimands i'd get from the fam
>for being 'stupid' would hurt more than any forced
>intercourse!!!!!
>
>immigrants believe sympathy is for white people and the weak!
>our people come from war-torn countries they aint trying to
>hear this shit!

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277. "and my mother was a NURSE"
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lol.
i mean i've seen more hard core west indian nurses than her but when it comes to her kids she's on that cobra kai-NO MERCY

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288. "West Indian Immigrant Mom + Nurse = Oxymoron"
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
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292. "convalescence through terseness and judgement"
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i bet you their recovery rates are better.

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302. "right? "You sick, still? You mus fi tek me fi idiot. GWAY!""
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"Slaves got options...cowards aint got shit." --PS
"Once upon a time, little need existed for making the distinction between a nigga and a black—at least not in this country, the place where niggas were invented" -- Donnell A

  

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356. "holy crap"
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i never put it together

explains my mom
and she country raised


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316. "lol"
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all the sexy girls
all across the world
working hard to get they cash
shawty this yo anthem
gone and shake yo ass!

now take dat nasty bastard

  

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163. "In a nutshell . . . Yes. Re: curiousity"
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Learned my lesson tho.lol

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166. "You fears are not hers. Just celebrate that she's here to tell it"
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174. "damn."
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*snicker*

*goes to make lunch*

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177. "the fact that we gotta celebrate she's still breathing is proof"
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that there were some serious risks taken

anyway

i'm honestly not clowing sunnie, and love that she's so open/candid bout it all.

i'm fascinated, that's all.

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183. "Oh Geezus... I could throw a rock and bounce it off the heads "
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of at least two to three polygamist/polyamourous folks in Bmore...and I mean that literally. The danger isn't in her getting snatched to go work in a hovel (and I understand that this is a reality even in this part of the world)...the danger is in her coming out of it and not being able to function in ANY kind of relationship- that is the result I have seen more often than not.

  

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231. "her concerns have nothing to do with polygamy "
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these are things that women (especially) have to consider which may be why you're not getting it.


>of at least two to three polygamist/polyamourous folks in
>Bmore...and I mean that literally. The danger isn't in her
>getting snatched to go work in a hovel (and I understand that
>this is a reality even in this part of the world)...the danger
>is in her coming out of it and not being able to function in
>ANY kind of relationship- that is the result I have seen more
>often than not.

BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

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266. "RE: her concerns have nothing to do with polygamy "
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>these are things that women (especially) have to consider
>which may be why you're not getting it.

I'm getting it. I got it. There are safety issues involved for Women as soon as you walk outside the door everyday, everywhere in the world. As a husband, son, brother, uncle, I don't take that shit for granted.

However, Sunnie said she used her own judgement before she went with him...that's not enough for y'all???? We 200 replies in, y'all know what this post is about- a Woman who navigated some crazy shit with a meglomaniacal, well endowed nigga. I say, and again this is me saying this fully aware that she could have faced dire consequences for her choices, let her tell her shit without all this tut-tut'n and pearl clutchin'.....

  

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304. "it's not that serious lol "
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If she has no issue with people asking then why do you???

not to mention I think it's somewhat important to point out how that could've gone awry. If anything we're just making sure that she "got it" now and having a lil chuckle about how crazy that shit was/happy that her ass made it out of that alive (and if i'm not mistaken she joined in as well)

nobody put her down or said anything negative

security is not needed at this time lol like relax already.

>>these are things that women (especially) have to consider
>>which may be why you're not getting it.
>
>I'm getting it. I got it. There are safety issues involved
>for Women as soon as you walk outside the door everyday,
>everywhere in the world. As a husband, son, brother, uncle, I
>don't take that shit for granted.
>
>However, Sunnie said she used her own judgement before she
>went with him...that's not enough for y'all???? We 200
>replies in, y'all know what this post is about- a Woman who
>navigated some crazy shit with a meglomaniacal, well endowed
>nigga. I say, and again this is me saying this fully aware
>that she could have faced dire consequences for her choices,
>let her tell her shit without all this tut-tut'n and pearl
>clutchin'.....

BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

"people... please refrain from gnr'ing me. im an avid lol'er and am completely fine wit the service."

"I’m just a dreamer,
turned true to life leaner...
Born to do good so others can be believers"

  

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blkprinceMD05
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480. "lol!"
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>
>security is not needed at this time lol like relax already.
>
>

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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Binlahab
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170. "would u sit your ass DOWN somewhere & let her tell the shit?!"
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damnit

suspend your common sense for a minute we got some real life big love shit popping off yall ruining it


do or die

  

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Cocobrotha2
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173. "No judgment zone!"
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.

<-><-><-><-><-><-><-><-><->
<-><-><-><-><-><-><-><-><->

  

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nayaa
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179. "i'm not! sunnie, don't listen to these mofos lol"
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~
IG: @fireysky

  

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Mahogany
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203. "lol yea the whole "lets meet up at a neutral location" one min"
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and "he picked me up in his car" next is....lolol

i mean shit happens i'm just glad she made it out ok.


>the next you're at his house with a bunch of strangers and
>kids and he's askin' to hit it raw?
>
>no shade
>
>but weren't there a whole SERIES of red flags goin' up along
>the way? did you just ignore 'em cuz curiosity got the best of
>you?
>
>can you see how this 24hr period could've gone in a horrible,
>horrible direction?

BUY SOMETHING PLEASE ---> www.estherwoovintage.com

"people... please refrain from gnr'ing me. im an avid lol'er and am completely fine wit the service."

"I’m just a dreamer,
turned true to life leaner...
Born to do good so others can be believers"

  

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kingjerm78
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Tue Oct-25-11 11:30 AM

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205. "she was in control of the situation tho."
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one half of the most dynamic tag team on the net...nappyafro's FROCAST!

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store.nappyafro.com

  

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Mash_Comp
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160. "I've no questions. I applaud the maturity of folks in this post"
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I'm glad we can see a positive experience of this lifestyle from a woman's perspective.

peace

*********************
www.dumhi.com -- We are ALL dumhi

  

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Very-Effortless
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176. "Sunni has mastered the art of the POAST that will do #s clearly"
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Provocative title
Engaging story
But tells the story in bits and pieces
Like a good HBO show
Where you are waiting with "baby's breath" (c)
For the next episode
But then takes a damn break
Just when the story was getting good.

Perfect formula for being a first page poast for the rest of the week.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
The Green Mile is a movie where the magical black man wrongly dies and the white man who let it happen lives forever.

  

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select_from_where
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181. "This shit is sitcom quality "
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CyrenYoung
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186. "complete w/recaps and scenes from the next ep..."
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..and miles to go before i sleep...

  

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Castro
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187. "this post was archive quality before it hit 100 and its not even"
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at peak POAST.

  

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d_Benjamin_m
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190. "*STARES @ YA'LL SHAMEFULLY GLEEFUL*"
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WHO SAID BABYS BREATH!!!???

______________________

http://struff.com/oaaudio/PatriceONeal-WorstOf-2006To2011/

  

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Very-Effortless
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"I don't remember who, but I do remember it was HIGHlarious"


  

          

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
The Green Mile is a movie where the magical black man wrongly dies and the white man who let it happen lives forever.

  

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lfresh
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463. "aw dammit"
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that was my question
~~~~
When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
~~~~
You cannot hate people for their own good.

  

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MistaGoodBar
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Tue Oct-25-11 11:02 AM

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193. "showing these wack newbies how to poast"
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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
http://mistagoodbar.com
Twitter/IG: mistagoodbar
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LoveJonez
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260. "^^^^^^^ right....she ain't gone off on ANYBODY because of"
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the skeptical questions YET...

newbie woulda called SOMEBODY a bitch..judgemental..cunt...*insert insult here*.. by now

  

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Fishgrease
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184. "is this what i missed by your facebook hollers? **damn, i'm a "
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fool**

are we still FB friends? Holla at me ! LOL

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blog: www.wonderfullyhorrible.blogspot.com
instagram: Fishgrease
twitter: wooly_caesar
Podcast www.soundcloud.com/circlegang

  

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Wordup
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185. "Sunny D and Sunnie C are the best poasters right now"
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poetx
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527. "#teamsun"
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peace & blessings,

x.

www.twitter.com/poetx

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** i move away from the mic to breathe in

  

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KnowOne
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192. "http://i53.tinypic.com/n6riih.gif"
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http://i53.tinypic.com/n6riih.gif

_________________________________________
"Too weird to live.... too rare to die..."

IG: KnowOne215 | PS+ ID: KnowOne215

  

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tomjohn29
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