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"'homosexuality is un-african' revisited"


  

          

First off, exactly where did this idea come from and can they in any way be considered a valid source? Well, I've heard it from

1. Despotic African leaders:
How about we just agree that the only thing Mugabe and his ilk can say which could even be remotely interesting would be their decisions to step down, pay back all the money they stole while in power and submit themselves to the International court of justice.
Besides which I have a problem with being lectured on the mass of different African cultural and religious practices by people who can barely spell their own names

2. Christian and Muslim leaders:
Um... they are pretty much un-african too? I mean, last time I checked Bethlehem, Jerusalem, Mecca, Media etc. were not cities on the African continent. They represent imported ideas too and therefore they really have no weight at all in condemning another new idea. And thats assuming they even know enough about the ideas they replaced to be able to state whether or not those ideas are new.

3. Pseudo 'African' scholars
The most amusing group of them all. People who got 'conscious' one day, grew dreads and changed their names to something vaguely 'authentic' sounding like Asante or, even worse, Hotep. Most of them haven't spent more than six weeks of their lives on the continent and got all their information about Africa from a self published pamphlet they bought on the corner across from where they live. If we're truly lucky they know who Diop is and can name an African city outside of Egypt. Again, I choose to ignore them off GP


Now, lets assume that in a brilliant stroke of cosmic chance these highly questionably informed people are exactly right. Lets assume that no gay people at all ever existed on the continent before the first of our melanin deprived euro brethren 'found' us. So? Modern African cultures look nothing like they did half a millennium ago. A lot has changed. Some of it bad, I'll agree. Some of it was also harmless or even good for us. While there is a lot about modern living I'm not thrilled to see coming over I insist on a proper informed, clear debate on what we should be accepting and what we should be throwing out rather than this repetition of half baked rhetoric that tends to come from people whose opinions on what colour the sky is are questionable at best.


Rant over.

*sidenote: yes I'm over generalizing a bit and being more than a little snarky. That is intentional

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oh god you worried me for a moment...
Dec 04th 2006
1
I need a link to that one
Dec 04th 2006
3
      RE: I need a link to that one
Dec 04th 2006
12
ngccot
Dec 04th 2006
2
Let them come
Dec 04th 2006
6
what are you getting out of pushing this tho brother?
Dec 04th 2006
4
who knows what was accepted or popular ?
Dec 04th 2006
8
      lmao @ being on time
Dec 04th 2006
10
      ok what's your point? i guess you think everything on that list
Dec 04th 2006
13
      RE: ok what's your point? i guess you think everything on that list
Dec 04th 2006
16
      timeout...your posting from N'djamena?
Dec 04th 2006
21
      lmao @ them lying
Dec 04th 2006
25
           hahahah, u went at Bongo's neck
Dec 04th 2006
30
           RE: lmao @ them lying
Dec 04th 2006
52
      my bol Sani fresh from Gabon, said he never heard
Dec 04th 2006
19
           OH ...well in that case
Dec 04th 2006
24
           LFresh,
Dec 04th 2006
36
                don't be etouching me
Dec 04th 2006
42
                     *e hug*
Dec 04th 2006
247
           my former department head
Dec 04th 2006
66
           I think they're often denying the existence of western homosexuality
Dec 04th 2006
181
           Thats funny because a gay male friend of mine spent a year in Gabon
Dec 05th 2006
329
                STFU...Okp always knows a contrary mofo. wtf goes to Gabon for a summer...
Dec 06th 2006
384
                     Is reading comprehension un-African, too?
Dec 06th 2006
387
      AFRICANS DON'T LIKE ASS AND TITTIES DOE?
Dec 04th 2006
230
imma start promoting Female Genital Mutilation
Dec 04th 2006
5
um...lol?
Dec 04th 2006
7
shit, I think we should go back to cutting off heads when a king dies
Dec 04th 2006
9
      or killing people for breaking a taboo ?
Dec 04th 2006
11
           who told you that was bad?
Dec 04th 2006
                um try it
Dec 04th 2006
31
                um try what? i live in one of the most corrupt societies on earth
Dec 04th 2006
37
                     pass judgement
Dec 04th 2006
47
                          i never pass judgement on anyone or anything
Dec 04th 2006
49
                               *ducks the bullshit*
Dec 04th 2006
54
                                    lol :D
Dec 04th 2006
79
                                         girl i'm about to piggy back
Dec 04th 2006
88
                well i'm quite glad i can eat whatever the fuck i want to without being ...
Dec 07th 2006
404
                     et tu, bongo? i thought it was just my neck of the woods.
Dec 07th 2006
411
This is where you show you bias and weakness
Dec 04th 2006
14
actually he messed up on #2...mainly because
Dec 04th 2006
17
Yup, Bethlehem, Jerusalem, Mecca, Media all had African scholars
Dec 04th 2006
18
      name one pre-islamic "black" scholar in Mecca,
Dec 04th 2006
23
           In Mecca? I dont know but in Jerusalem and Bethleham
Dec 04th 2006
29
i think he's talking about afro centrists.
Dec 04th 2006
40
Malcolm X wasn't an Egyptologist either was J.A. Rogers
Dec 04th 2006
45
      um... you mentioned those names, not me
Dec 04th 2006
67
I'm confused
Dec 04th 2006
44
      Don't worry I know you are confused hopefully you will
Dec 04th 2006
50
           yea that was the ironic part
Dec 04th 2006
57
           LMBAO n/m
Dec 04th 2006
69
           an educated african has been told he needs
Dec 04th 2006
86
                na, these aren't even pan africanists.
Dec 04th 2006
                Nobody holds Africa on a pedalstool and anyone who knows
Dec 04th 2006
109
                     went over your head.
Dec 04th 2006
123
                     RE: went over your head.
Dec 04th 2006
177
                          im trying to explain the pedestal concept.
Dec 04th 2006
182
                               RE: im trying to explain the pedestal concept.
Dec 04th 2006
189
                     *sits on "pedalstool" in post*
Dec 05th 2006
323
                RE: an educated african has been told he needs
Dec 04th 2006
100
                     the my 'best friend is african' approach
Dec 04th 2006
120
                          So I guess you didn't see the family part
Dec 04th 2006
141
                               yes yes thou art black
Dec 04th 2006
146
                                    Okay
Dec 04th 2006
150
                                    You must not have read anything he said.
Dec 07th 2006
402
do you want it to be african? if so, why?
Dec 04th 2006
15
I'll be back. some of those statements i got problems with
Dec 04th 2006
20
Internet is messing up. No IM at work for the rest of the day
Dec 04th 2006
28
I read that they were considered the gatekeepers
Dec 04th 2006
22
what culture?
Dec 04th 2006
26
^^^dat laffy taffy
Dec 04th 2006
27
Yea thats his name here is the an article
Dec 04th 2006
35
i refer u to the excellent tv show "Black Guy, Gay Guy"..
Dec 04th 2006
32
hilarious how all the non-africans in here are trying to school africans
Dec 04th 2006
33
. . .
Dec 04th 2006
38
lol...I'm laughing at Vex & SMH @ akon,
Dec 04th 2006
63
fall back, isabur aka the fake african-muslim...get on some white hoes
Dec 04th 2006
72
WoooooooooooooooooooooooooW
Dec 04th 2006
78
whitey bangs an okp/myspace sista or two, and tryna stomp
Dec 04th 2006
84
      nah, actually i've never messed w/ cyber fees..but if i wanted to...
Dec 04th 2006
101
how bout u fall back, cracka. get out OUR post,
Dec 04th 2006
81
      short, chubby cornball w/ myspace photos of ethio and natralyght
Dec 04th 2006
83
           I'm 6'3" ock, I was fat, not chubby...and I'm fly as a kite
Dec 04th 2006
90
                lol.....really? you got a private page? wow.
Dec 04th 2006
                     ^^^mad
Dec 04th 2006
107
                          lol @ 'i thought we was OKfamily tree'.... sorry to hurt your feelings
Dec 04th 2006
117
                               I'm 27 ock. I don't think u know whom I is ock.
Dec 04th 2006
124
                                    your story switches up each day, ox-mulder
Dec 04th 2006
133
                                         yo lies on 3sa switch up...u the one whose short & 30 ock.
Dec 04th 2006
220
                                              u're still talking? stfu before i make you my girlfriend oxstress
Dec 04th 2006
262
                                                   lmao
Dec 05th 2006
312
i dont need to lobby for shit bitch.
Dec 04th 2006
104
      AKON, I don't want no E-BEEF wit you ma.
Dec 04th 2006
113
           *slaps knee*
Dec 04th 2006
127
RE: . . .
Dec 04th 2006
77
don't be bringing your white culture in heah
Dec 04th 2006
51
Listen to the man...
Dec 04th 2006
73
Funny, I didn't see any Non-Africans until you posted.
Dec 04th 2006
151
      none taken.
Dec 04th 2006
154
           Differences are slight.
Dec 04th 2006
                lol...or so you'd like to believe.
Dec 04th 2006
209
                     Man, I've known continental africans all my life.
Dec 04th 2006
265
                          I certainly respect your opinion...though I don't agree
Dec 05th 2006
301
                          Brooklyn, NYC and then Roswell, GA.
Dec 06th 2006
343
                               but you have to admit even you dont have a 'continental' african experie...
Dec 06th 2006
356
                                    Nah, I understand where you are coming from.
Dec 06th 2006
376
                                         i dont know what else to say....
Dec 06th 2006
386
                                              I don't know how I missed this exchange earlier....
Dec 06th 2006
388
                                              If you can't understand the injury
Dec 06th 2006
397
                                                   show me where I said anything *remotely* close to what you suggest
Dec 07th 2006
407
                                              He's not Black. And didn't grow up Black. we can agree
Dec 06th 2006
395
                                                   you're trying to package an argument to fit your agenda....
Dec 07th 2006
406
                                                   furthermore....like yourself, i'll be damned if
Dec 07th 2006
409
                                                   okay.... this is some white angst ish.
Dec 07th 2006
408
                                                        Either you don't see my point or you are choosing to ignore it
Dec 07th 2006
414
                          Man Vex catching L's all up and down this post
Dec 05th 2006
328
                               lol...and here comes the retardo extraodinaire explidiot.
Dec 05th 2006
335
                                    wait..
Dec 06th 2006
349
                                    ok timberlake
Dec 06th 2006
359
                                         lol
Dec 06th 2006
362
                                         ^^^lusted after a pic of me on myspace then deleted her account
Dec 06th 2006
366
                                              hahaha! FOH Vex
Dec 07th 2006
415
                                         lol...this ox is up in here using my slang, referring to my music
Dec 06th 2006
368
                                              I know Im ethering you with your own slang
Dec 06th 2006
369
                                                   lol..i am upping the 'ethering'...you're famous on okp for being a loser
Dec 06th 2006
370
                                                        but you still a stiff little white boy though so. you steady loser statu...
Dec 06th 2006
374
                                                             i know i'm sexy dog, but cot damn...u've been wild e-stalking me.
Dec 06th 2006
375
                                                                  like you did in reply #336 right?
Dec 06th 2006
377
                                                                       WHOA...*newsflash*...you're half-white?! BWAHAHAHA
Dec 06th 2006
379
                                                                            RE: WHOA...*newsflash*..
Dec 06th 2006
381
funny... its non africans arguing with africans about african shit.
Dec 04th 2006
34
. . .
Dec 04th 2006
39
sorry real africans i know personally don't post on okayplayer.com
Dec 04th 2006
41
olu, bongo, you hear that? we aren't real.
Dec 04th 2006
43
even if you are "real" you're only TWO people
Dec 04th 2006
56
yeah olu
Dec 04th 2006
62
I'm apparently homosexual too
Dec 04th 2006
143
lol.. i promise you in 20+ years of living in africa i know more than 20...
Dec 04th 2006
111
yall know him personally?
Dec 04th 2006
58
Dude, I'm posting from Ghana
Dec 04th 2006
55
I don't know what circles you run in
Dec 04th 2006
65
who said anything about entertain?
Dec 04th 2006
71
who invented, cannot be logically debated...
Dec 04th 2006
85
      then can you tell your comrades in foolishness
Dec 04th 2006
92
           how can something be invented
Dec 04th 2006
                there are four kingdoms
Dec 04th 2006
132
                actually they do
Dec 04th 2006
147
                it's way too easy.
Dec 04th 2006
155
                there is a relation between 'all' things...
Dec 04th 2006
188
                sorry to butt in... but what kinda stupid shit is that?
Dec 04th 2006
165
                     ^^^^^^believes Darwin theory^^^^^^^
Dec 04th 2006
190
                          ^^^^^^should edit asap^^^^^^^
Dec 04th 2006
191
                          errrrr no... n/m
Dec 04th 2006
194
                          Do you know what DARWIN later said about HIS theory? lol
Dec 06th 2006
383
                          *dead and buried*
Dec 04th 2006
193
                          ^^^^^evolved from Apes^^^^ n/m
Dec 04th 2006
197
                               As did you, me, your mother, and everyone else you love and or
Dec 04th 2006
215
                                    ^^^^^^intelligence has spoken^^^^^^^ n/m
Dec 05th 2006
285
                          RE: ^^^^^^believes Darwin theory^^^^^^^
Dec 04th 2006
199
                          ^^can't explain genetic similarities between humans and chimps...
Dec 04th 2006
201
                               *laughs* indeed, you win n/m
Dec 04th 2006
205
                *looks at #74*
Dec 04th 2006
140
And the source of this?
Dec 04th 2006
82
      the researcher in you
Dec 04th 2006
99
           RE: the researcher in you
Dec 04th 2006
129
                *chuckles*
Dec 04th 2006
142
                     lol
Dec 04th 2006
149
                          eh bwoy... Kwasia... n/m
Dec 04th 2006
187
                               out of predictable rhetoric to spout?
Dec 04th 2006
198
                                    you are a disgrace to Akan ancestry
Dec 04th 2006
200
                                         wtf
Dec 04th 2006
202
                                         You are definitely out of your mind.
Dec 04th 2006
206
                                         I tried to tell yall he was psycho, but noooooooo....
Dec 04th 2006
224
                                         go and play with the spare Elmos... dizzy cunt n/m
Dec 05th 2006
286
                                         my reality>>>>>>>>>>>>your reality
Dec 05th 2006
288
                                         lol @ you telling me about my ancestors
Dec 04th 2006
207
                                         Angelo hath spoken
Dec 04th 2006
211
                                         I wasn't heard, but check the replies... go figure n/m
Dec 05th 2006
287
                                         *throws up a little in mouth*
Dec 04th 2006
216
                                         thankfully,
Dec 05th 2006
290
                                         wow .. you just went WAY TOO FAR man.
Dec 04th 2006
218
                                              u guys take him waaaaaaaaaaaay too seriously
Dec 04th 2006
227
                                              he takes himself waaaaaaaaaaaay too seriously
Dec 04th 2006
241
                                              No I don't
Dec 05th 2006
280
                                              oh STFU with your bitching...
Dec 05th 2006
293
                                                   I suppose this is your 'animal' talking again?
Dec 05th 2006
297
                                                        ^^^^smart dumb nigger^^^^
Dec 05th 2006
313
                                              lol n/m
Dec 05th 2006
292
                                              lol at you finding this humourous.
Dec 05th 2006
327
                                                   lol, right? don't mind her..she just likes to support anti-gay hate.
Dec 06th 2006
372
                                                   it's humourous to her, u fucking dummy
Dec 07th 2006
412
                                              my 'divine self',
Dec 05th 2006
291
what it even matter tho? or change your mind?
Dec 04th 2006
70
ya but ghetto thugs do?
Dec 05th 2006
330
      lol...hear that? that's nobody caring about you, or your words
Dec 05th 2006
336
           why are you even replying to that oxtress?
Dec 06th 2006
360
So what are non Africans?
Dec 04th 2006
48
      non-africans are the following
Dec 04th 2006
97
           Akh, you got a crush on me?
Dec 05th 2006
281
                shut yo karl malone lookin azz up
Dec 06th 2006
363
Oct 11th passed already but: I AM AN AFRICAN LESBIAN WOMAN.
Dec 04th 2006
46
*taps mic*
Dec 04th 2006
60
leave the US then
Dec 04th 2006
68
oh dont worry, fam. i plan to.
Dec 04th 2006
91
your lifestyle is unnatural to the design of evolution.....doesn't make
Dec 04th 2006
74
^^^proved he knows nothing about evolution...
Dec 04th 2006
204
      ^^^MVP of thread
Dec 04th 2006
212
      that dude is great for posting half thought out shit.
Dec 04th 2006
266
           So is SPM
Dec 05th 2006
271
           True.
Dec 05th 2006
278
           yet the 'half thought out' accusation is addressed to koan...hmmm
Dec 05th 2006
303
                man, damn. it was addressed to Koan cus noone takes
Dec 07th 2006
403
           'half thought out' because you don't agree...okps kill me w/ the elitism
Dec 05th 2006
302
           instead of addressing where Koan might be wrong
Dec 05th 2006
305
           *edited*...dammit. wrong reply... lol
Dec 05th 2006
309
           pass me with that good samaritan shit, playboi.
Dec 06th 2006
342
           would you care to enlighten me, then?
Dec 05th 2006
311
                I've discussed these things in length so many times
Dec 06th 2006
344
                I've discussed these things in length so many times
Dec 06th 2006
345
                     ...ah, just as i thought...
Dec 06th 2006
358
                          I'm on no one's side here, but he cops out like that a lot.
Dec 06th 2006
373
                          Look man. I've been on here, posting research...books
Dec 06th 2006
378
                          BWAHAHA! aiight, well here is a Koan for you, brother...
Dec 06th 2006
380
                               lol, Why are you assuming homosexuality is a "nuance
Dec 06th 2006
390
                                    I'm not sure I understand.
Dec 06th 2006
394
                                         We agree on some stuff
Dec 07th 2006
400
                                              nah, I don't know many cats that think that way.
Dec 07th 2006
401
      uh
Dec 04th 2006
246
           your point being?
Dec 05th 2006
310
lol @ you being proud of openly being a lesbian in america
Dec 04th 2006
80
      that's what making me crack up over here...
Dec 04th 2006
110
      what's funny is that you act like that couldn't happen here
Dec 04th 2006
114
      right?
Dec 04th 2006
121
      put things in perspective please...
Dec 04th 2006
125
           but what does that mean exactly?
Dec 04th 2006
131
      oh, im glad you know about me, fam.
Dec 04th 2006
148
           we ain't fam... me nah keep chi chi friend... n/m
Dec 04th 2006
186
                semantics is your best recourse? how disappointing.
Dec 04th 2006
195
      Exactly ock.
Dec 04th 2006
115
      oh so you want to say there are no lesbians/gay folks in kenya?
Dec 04th 2006
139
      lol
Dec 04th 2006
228
RE: 'homosexuality is un-african' revisited
Dec 04th 2006
53
^^
Dec 04th 2006
61
Bwhahahahahahahahahaha
Dec 04th 2006
59
Africans what is our beef with afrocentric folks?
Dec 04th 2006
64
exactly. these OKP's ain't no real Africans,
Dec 04th 2006
75
RE: exactly. these OKP's ain't no real Africans,
Dec 04th 2006
93
faggotry?????
Dec 04th 2006
170
cuz afrocentrism is a false attempt @ reclaiming a lost heritage
Dec 04th 2006
102
what's funny is the average af. american don't want SHIT to do with
Dec 04th 2006
112
most Africans in America don't want shit to do wit Africa!!!!
Dec 04th 2006
128
AND THAT IS THE TRUTH!!!
Dec 04th 2006
144
wait! mimicking our culture/beliefs is being 'nice' to us now??!!! LOL
Dec 04th 2006
152
      How do you mimic yourself?
Dec 04th 2006
162
      Hehehehehehehe
Dec 04th 2006
245
      get over yourself man
Dec 06th 2006
365
hold on, dashikis? thats some akata shit...STAY AWAY!
Dec 04th 2006
126
      again. take out the cool-jive element implied with being Af-Am
Dec 04th 2006
138
           lol...you sound exactly like a cracker
Dec 04th 2006
192
           Agreed n/m
Dec 04th 2006
237
           RE: again. take out the cool-jive element implied with being Af-Am
Dec 04th 2006
239
the beef is with dumbasses who read one book
Dec 04th 2006
108
      BINGO!
Dec 04th 2006
134
i'm just fascinated
Dec 04th 2006
76
and so early in the morning.
Dec 04th 2006
87
you dont see familiar posters here?
Dec 04th 2006
89
      umm
Dec 04th 2006
98
      hating homosexuals != homophobia
Dec 04th 2006
105
      i l l o g i c a l
Dec 04th 2006
116
           hate fear connection
Dec 04th 2006
213
      you are a usual suspect too, so STFU n/m
Dec 04th 2006
119
           this post is about me, fam. homosexual? check. african? check.
Dec 04th 2006
160
                closet case with bisexual tendencies.
Dec 04th 2006
161
                lol exactly, yet he will always be in post like these
Dec 04th 2006
225
                     there you is!
Dec 04th 2006
242
                          oh i was over these types of post in early 05
Dec 05th 2006
275
If white ppl didn't invade our continent....
Dec 04th 2006
94
Honestly, I ask myself that question a lot
Dec 04th 2006
135
huh?
Dec 04th 2006
136
RE: 'homosexuality is un-african' revisited
Dec 04th 2006
95
wow...ok i'm done with this post...lol
Dec 04th 2006
103
RE: 'homosexuality is un-african' revisited
Dec 04th 2006
157
WRONG post!!!
Dec 04th 2006
96
dude
Dec 04th 2006
106
I'm sure they'll want to touch it too
Dec 04th 2006
145
I'ma still spit on taints, so whatev yo...
Dec 04th 2006
118
lmfao
Dec 04th 2006
130
eeww. . .
Dec 04th 2006
137
my pops aint encountered homo-ness til he studied in germany
Dec 04th 2006
122
*dead*
Dec 04th 2006
156
      I learned this recently....
Dec 04th 2006
159
           which is further proof that faggotry is virtually alien to Afrikans
Dec 04th 2006
168
           RE: which is further proof that faggotry is virtually alien to Afrikans
Dec 04th 2006
174
                RE: which is further proof that faggotry is virtually alien to Afrikans
Dec 05th 2006
274
                     RE: which is further proof that faggotry is virtually alien to Afrikans
Dec 05th 2006
314
           its one of the things I find funny
Dec 04th 2006
169
           RE: its one of the things I find funny
Dec 04th 2006
172
           fam, my best friend and i used to walk
Dec 04th 2006
175
                they are not listening/learning, though.
Dec 04th 2006
179
                vex, i appreciate your input, mayne
Dec 05th 2006
325
                it would be really dope if you could make it to Bondo....
Dec 05th 2006
338
                vex, i appreciate your input, mayne
Dec 05th 2006
326
                RE: fam, my best friend and i used to walk
Dec 04th 2006
219
                you need to leave me the fuck alone.
Dec 04th 2006
251
                     ^^^M.A.D.
Dec 04th 2006
256
                          no but i do need you to leave AKON the fuck alone
Dec 04th 2006
260
                RE: fam, my best friend and i used to walk
Dec 06th 2006
352
                     konnex, ndugu, habari gani, jo? umepotea big time.
Dec 06th 2006
354
                     You went to school in Thika? That's my shaggz
Dec 06th 2006
385
                          wacha nisikie kuna wakikuyu hapa
Dec 06th 2006
389
Folk in here calling Pan-Africans not from the continent
Dec 04th 2006
153
its as much of a semantic thing as bin's definition of 'Black'
Dec 04th 2006
164
Self hate is everywhere
Dec 04th 2006
167
most of the brothas and sistas born/raised on the continent in
Dec 04th 2006
226
man, i married 1! i tried to tell you
Dec 04th 2006
232
RE: Folk in here calling Pan-Africans not from the continent
Dec 04th 2006
243
      miss me with this bullshit.
Dec 04th 2006
252
      It's bullshit? Not really....
Dec 04th 2006
254
           im pretty loquacious....... i just dont care enough
Dec 04th 2006
261
                Oh yeah, I forgot...you're 'better than me', right? (LOL)
Dec 04th 2006
267
                     no, i just dont give two shits to engage you in any kind of convo
Dec 05th 2006
324
                          Wow, I'm just *devastated* by your argument....(not)
Dec 06th 2006
339
                               you are reaching like a motherfucker.
Dec 06th 2006
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                                    RE: you are reaching like a motherfucker.
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                                         tuck in your issues bro. your insecurities are showing.
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      you took the words right outta my mouth
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           RE: you took the words right outta my mouth
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Cheikh Anta Diop
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*orders white women for everyone in post*
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^^^^^TRUE AFRICAN
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Naw this is the true African right here check avatar
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      lol @ you thinking they rock powdered wigs for fashion
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           Are you really that stupid I know why dude is rocking the wig
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                fall back fam, kenyans dont bleach their skin
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                     Oh I know all about colonization here is a little taste
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                          i said fall back with that kenyans and bleach bullshit
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                               but your wrong - kenyans do bleach
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                                    are you kenyan? been there? what part, fam?
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ahh... add a beer on top of that, and we cool
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^^^ afro-angst ^^^^
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and exactly what 'mainstream culture' do you speak of?
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lol, can i weigh in as a "real african"?
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RE: lol, can i weigh in as a "real african"?
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      really? thoughts will come later when they've been collected...lol
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wow this post went out of control. didn't expect this
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i'd actually like to hear your input.
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      same here actually
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Africa has larger worries than homosexuality.
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not if it becomesrampant & accepted...Imagine Sub-Saharan
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      Word. Last thing they need is an AIDS pandemic.
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      yea the first document case of HIV wasn't in gay men
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           same scientistists traced it to africa
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           lmao at all of these replies.
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           lol, well done
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           No it was SPMS great grandaddy fucking a monkey
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      "rampant"?
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           word, mass homosexuality would only help the AIDS crisis
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                mass homosexuality?
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                     ^^^white
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                          ^^^ correct for the first time in this thread
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this entire post needs to be archived
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You stole my post.
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I never SAW no gays when i lived in Nigeria...
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im dyin
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lol...we were naive kids mayne
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oga, i use to BEAST niggaz AND chics in '10-10' back in the day. LOL
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word...I remember reading this book...
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RE: I never SAW no gays when i lived in Nigeria...
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What a coincidence...I went on a date with a man from Eritria/Ethiopia
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^^
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      lol...
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           RE: lol...
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                lol Gay East Africans say the darndest things.
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                     but did he say "stick shift" like chick in Boyz n da Hood?
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THIS POST HAS EVERYTHING.
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*throws kitchen sink* | archive
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archive immediately!
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okp is great for staying sharp
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      ^^^^^^missed my point entirely^^^^^^
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           ^^^ not capable of intelligent discourse
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                it's okay to say, you don't understand
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                     you know jack shit
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geez, we're like what, 3% of the population?
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I was here.
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gay people + questioning people's beliefs
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A few things
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oh and to expound a bit on #3 and #4
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and there it is
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You are a breath of fresh air miss
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interesting read..thanks for taking the time to write that
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thanks.
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Interesting points. What I basically get out of it:
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it's very complicated
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      thanks for replying
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great! really appriciated your input!
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good stuff, this thread needed your input foreal...
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I AINT READ ANY OF THAT SHIT.
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PLEA COPPIN' 101
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^^^ the above 2 responses are an example
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Reason has nothing to do with their stance.
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      RE: Reason has nothing to do with their stance.
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I see you've completely missed the point of that post.
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This was dope.
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im sayin. wrapped shit up and EVERYTHING.
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uh u pretty much ignore the impact of greek and roman culture had
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it's like 43 different kinds of dumb shit in here
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this is the last time im doing this.
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You know, thats another thing
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.....the post can finally end now.
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*slow claps*
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^^^*hand fat muffles sound*
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      you not my type...im all about goldmind..log off.
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Aw, I love my people
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This was also dope.
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*applause*
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my girl...
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to be basic - seeing as Africa is the cradle and foundation of
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GREATEST. POAST. EVER. ARCHIVE.
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...can someone prepare an abstract of this dissertation please?
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This whole post is like a bar brawl n/m
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lfresh
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1. "oh god you worried me for a moment..."
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phew...
those this top ababa's dude of
black women looking like white men?
hrrrm
let's ponder
(don't kill any brain cells over it though)
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3. "I need a link to that one"
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might be interesting.


And I'm just trying to clarify the debate a little with this one

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12. "RE: I need a link to that one"
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http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=3635398&mesg_id=3635398&listing_type=search



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2. "ngccot"
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+++++
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6. "Let them come"
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I just had lunch, music is playing, my slides are coming together well....

Today is a good day for an argument

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4. "what are you getting out of pushing this tho brother?"
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like why are you trying *prove* that homosexuality was in africa?
if the majority of africa doesn't want to associate itself with homosexuality then respect that
obviously there are ALWAYS outliers in society
of course there had to be some homosexuality activity before the white man arrived
but imo and in the opinion of many africans i know it was never accepted or 'popular' until the white man arrived
nothing can be said of what is done behind closed doors and is not known

  

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8. "who knows what was accepted or popular ?"
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i can make a list of things that are or have been deemed un-african by a lot of africans:

DEMOCRACY
females who choose their husband
condoms
monogamy
miniskirts (one should wonder what their great great great mothers were wearing)
titties
asses
being on time


i mean that's everybody's excuse

when you run out of arguments, "it's un-african" is the excuse

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10. "lmao @ being on time"
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13. "ok what's your point? i guess you think everything on that list"
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is "good"
so be it
i do too, but i live in america and you live in france (i think)
so it's expected
i just respect what the africans i know honor and value
and i have no choice but to take them at their word
if 20 africans tell me they NEVER seen a homosexual until they came to america, then who am i to argue....and why would i argue in the first place?
why would i WANT africans to accept homosexuality?

  

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16. "RE: ok what's your point? i guess you think everything on that list"
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>is "good"
>so be it
>i do too, but i live in america and you live in france (i
>think)

no i dont.
i'm posting from the heart of africa actually

>so it's expected

lmao

>i just respect what the africans i know honor and value
>and i have no choice but to take them at their word
>if 20 africans tell me they NEVER seen a homosexual until they
>came to america, then who am i to argue....and why would i
>argue in the first place?

they lying
or they dont know how to spot one

i saw mofos damn near VOGUING in each of the afrucan cities i've been in

>why would i WANT africans to accept homosexuality?

of course you wouldn't.



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21. "timeout...your posting from N'djamena?"
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25. "lmao @ them lying"
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come on dawg
you don't think you're being unreasonable?
i guess my bol from botswana was lying too when he said he never seen an asian until he came to america
FOH
maybe you as an european transplant are seeing homos because you frequent the more liberal *new* areas
but i know ALOT of africans from all over and they ain't speaking the talk u talking
if anything u , as a person with an agenda to push, have more of a reason to lie etc.
cause i doubt ppl i know in reality have any reason to purposely lie about the matter
and if they are at least they ALL are consistent, cause the only time i ever heard otherwise was on okp

  

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30. "hahahah, u went at Bongo's neck"
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52. "RE: lmao @ them lying"
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>maybe you as an european transplant are seeing homos because
>you frequent the more liberal *new* areas
---> yeah, and if we're going the streotypical role, then maybe some have never seen women in a role of power

>if anything u , as a person with an agenda to push, have more
>of a reason to lie etc.
---> yeah, sexual freedom, who woulda thunk it.

>cause i doubt ppl i know in reality have any reason to
>purposely lie about the matter
>and if they are at least they ALL are consistent, cause the
>only time i ever heard otherwise was on okp

Honor the Iris's in your life!

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19. "my bol Sani fresh from Gabon, said he never heard"
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Of GAY until he came to FSU(america)...FACTOLOGY.


Although, Gabon is just oil & tree's.


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24. "OH ...well in that case"
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good lord man
how do you think through the denseness?
does the hair grow inward crowding the brain cells of your skull?
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36. "LFresh,"
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Just come out the closet boo.

But seriously, please no personal attacks, I'm not on okp for that my black sista.

*e hug*

Sani is from Gabon, so he's not lying, Gabon's a huge forrest.


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42. "don't be etouching me"
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ignorance may be catching

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247. "*e hug*"
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66. "my former department head"
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(anthro)

lived for years in china, ran track for the university in beijing. spoke fluent mandarin, so that wasn't the issue.

she asked a woman- who she happened to have seen in bed kissing another woman- about homosexuality and how it was received, and the woman looked at her like she'd grown another head.

and told her that homosexuality didn't exist in china.


just because people report something to be one way doesn't mean it's true.



-k-
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181. "I think they're often denying the existence of western homosexuality"
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Homosexuals exist everywhere, but it's primarily in the west where you actually see them stand up, organize and try to secure equality.

Most of the rest of the world is on some "don't ask don't tell" steez... few care or are even aware as long as it's kept behind closed doors.

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329. "Thats funny because a gay male friend of mine spent a year in Gabon"
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Tue Dec-05-06 07:30 PM by cocoapeach

  

          

And he said he had a very VERY nice time.

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384. "STFU...Okp always knows a contrary mofo. wtf goes to Gabon for a summer..."
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387. "Is reading comprehension un-African, too?"
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Cause aint nobody said the dude went to Gabon for the summer.
HE BEEN FUCKIN GHANAIANS FOR A WHOLE YEAR, HE A PIMP!!

lol

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230. "AFRICANS DON'T LIKE ASS AND TITTIES DOE?"
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-30-

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5. "imma start promoting Female Genital Mutilation"
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since anything that we traditionally do is good..


YAY

  

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7. "um...lol?"
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9. "shit, I think we should go back to cutting off heads when a king dies"
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and maybe reintroduce indentured servitude as well

those were all fine, upstanding traditions which the new generations are foolishly turning their backs on

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11. "or killing people for breaking a taboo ?"
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like eating an animal that your family shouldn't eat
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"who told you that was bad?"


  

          

i mean really
yall niggas reaching for shit that is supposedly inhumane
as if european traditions haven't/aren't worse

  

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31. "um try it"
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then get back to us
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37. "um try what? i live in one of the most corrupt societies on earth"
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who am i to pass judgement on someone elses tradition
thats why i think posts like these are bullshit and an example of niggers who have been assimilated for the worse
you can't get good fruit from a rotten tree
people are trying to adapt ideologies from the most wicked societies known to man and incorporate them into traditions that have already been "ruined" by the white man

  

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47. "pass judgement"
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you mean what you do best on the regular?
in the most ignorant way possible
but you want to take a pass on passing judgment now?!

though no one has explicitly asked you to pass judgement mind you.
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49. "i never pass judgement on anyone or anything"
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i DO represent the facts tho

  

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54. "*ducks the bullshit*"
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phew that was close
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79. "lol :D"
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88. "girl i'm about to piggy back"
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ya mind?
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404. "well i'm quite glad i can eat whatever the fuck i want to without being ..."
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411. "et tu, bongo? i thought it was just my neck of the woods."
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14. "This is where you show you bias and weakness"
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3. Pseudo 'African' scholars

"People who got 'conscious' one day, grew dreads and changed their names to something vaguely 'authentic' sounding like Asante or, even worse, Hotep"

Don' most people wake up a some time? Nothing wrong with Asante or Hotep many Africans were of the diaspora are of Asante and Fanti ancestry. And what is vaguely authentic since people of the diaspora are African any new name they create however crazy one thinks it is is an African name.

"Most of them haven't spent more than six weeks of their lives on the continent and got all their information about Africa from a self "published pamphlet they bought on the corner across from where they live."

So what if they didn't spend any time on the continent Malcolm X only spent a month on the continent and he talks about African history before he even visited a African country. Are you saying J.A. Rogers is a fake African scholar or Dr. Henrik Clark. Yes most people know of Egypt because it is the most disputed and earliest civilization that Humanity has gained many of their ideas customs and traditions from.

"If we're truly lucky they know who Diop is and can name an African city outside of Egypt. Again, I choose to ignore them off GP"

Whos fault is it that many people can't name cities outside of one Nation in Africa. Anyone who calls themself a scholar of African history would know much more than KMT. And if they do know who Diop is which any African claiming to be scholar of history does they know him mainly for his two cradle theory and Study of the link between KMT and modern African cultures.

Also homosexuality is seen all over I even read a book by a dude who was homosexual(bisexual) from Burkina Faso where his group believed homosexuals were the gate keepers of the spiritual world. Now I will say this in constrast to Western civilization(Greece Rome Britain all the european colonies and USA/WHITE SUPREMACY) homosexuality is not as accepted and embraced by African cultural groups(and that is many).

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17. "actually he messed up on #2...mainly because"
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He said fuck the ideals of 80% of the continent



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18. "Yup, Bethlehem, Jerusalem, Mecca, Media all had African scholars"
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And had black folks in them at the time of 2,000 years ago.

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23. "name one pre-islamic "black" scholar in Mecca,"
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And I'm not being snarky, I just wanna know. I mean, I've read about Muhammed(saws) being black, but honestly that's neither here nor there to me, and black arabs and black americans is kinda diff, but not as diff as ethiopians and blck americans.

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29. "In Mecca? I dont know but in Jerusalem and Bethleham"
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I know there wwas a significant African population there, whether you want to call them black, Ethiopians, etc.. that were in the middle east and in other parts of the roman empire. There were scholars within these African populations as well.

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40. "i think he's talking about afro centrists."
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and he has an extremely valid concern here.
extremely.valid.concern.
cause afrocentrists aint nothing but a bunch of eurocentrists trying to mask their logic in some, iloveafrica drivel.

>So what if they didn't spend any time on the continent Malcolm
>X only spent a month on the continent and he talks about
>African history before he even visited a African country. Are
>you saying J.A. Rogers is a fake African scholar or Dr. Henrik

here you go naming these egptologists.
and no... the reasons they latch on to eqypt is because they have a defined eurocentric way of looking at what aspects of a culture are valuable or not. mud huts dont cut it.

Yes most people know of Egypt because it is the most
>disputed and earliest civilization that Humanity has gained
>many of their ideas customs and traditions from.

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45. "Malcolm X wasn't an Egyptologist either was J.A. Rogers"
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or Dr. Henrik Clarke. The only egyptologist(the man who was considered the king of it) was Diop.

Also I understand the point and see the opposite side clearly just wanted to point it out.

Also everyone didn't live in mudhuts and even if they did the history of those people who are many is not ignored.

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67. "um... you mentioned those names, not me"
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And I am yet to read anything written by Diop, Malcom or Clarke which mentions sexuality in precolonial Africa hence I fail to see their relevance in this discussion

and I think calling Diop an egyptologist is a little limiting don't you?

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44. "I'm confused"
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you must have read that section, because you highlighted it. And yet your response was incoherent at best

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50. "Don't worry I know you are confused hopefully you will"
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suddenly gain conciousness one day.

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57. "yea that was the ironic part"
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lol

  

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69. "LMBAO n/m"
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86. "an educated african has been told he needs"
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black consciouness

i done seen it ALL folks
the pan africans are attempting a coup
out africaning the africans
losing badly mind you
but no one tell them
this might get better
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"na, these aren't even pan africanists."


  

          

lets not defame nkrumah's and dubois' legacy.
i have just been declared non african and shit
these some goddamn half baked, afrocentrists the 'hold africa in an ultra-rigid pedestal they know shit about, know 20 africans and all of a sudden know everything about africa, gossipy, foul mouthed, bitch made homophobes without the common sense to at least have a logical argument for their stance.


like, really.
give me a fucking break.


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109. "Nobody holds Africa on a pedalstool and anyone who knows"
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correctly knows niggas from the continent are just as screwed and mixed up as those from other colonies. Shit thats the main reason mofos come over here for a piece of this "fucked up American pie".(c) Black Ice.

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123. "went over your head."
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i *know what the opinion of africa is, currently.

what im talking about is ascribing certain 'traditional' traits, cultural modes, behaviors and fashions as, 'truly african' and others as not being 'african' and then at the same time leaving oneself the authority to determine what is and isn't *african is holding africa on some pedestal labelled tradition.

and a biased definition of tradition, no less, that does not give africans themselves any agency or voice to determine what this tradition actually is. Kinda like in this post, actually.

im yet to see anyone come up with something somewhere that says homosexuality is unafrican except on some he said she said, i know 20+ africans, my boy from gabon bullshit. and nobody is addressing the fact that you have an african in ghana, one in the congo, that are saying something different. i dont see why the refusal to admit that much as we say africans do have different cultures, etc. then there must be different views when it comes to homosexuality.
its not like africans are one person with one way of thinking and no complexity at all.

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177. "RE: went over your head."
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>i *know what the opinion of africa is, currently.
>
>what im talking about is ascribing certain 'traditional'
>traits, cultural modes, behaviors and fashions as, 'truly
>african' and others as not being 'african' and then at the
>same time leaving oneself the authority to determine what is
>and isn't *african is holding africa on some pedestal labelled
>tradition.

But I didn't do that.

>and a biased definition of tradition, no less, that does not
>give africans themselves any agency or voice to determine what
>this tradition actually is. Kinda like in this post,
>actually.

again my disagreement is not with homosexuality but the other bs blanket statement about African scholars.

>im yet to see anyone come up with something somewhere that
>says homosexuality is unafrican except on some he said she
>said, i know 20+ africans, my boy from gabon bullshit. and
>nobody is addressing the fact that you have an african in
>ghana, one in the congo, that are saying something different.
>i dont see why the refusal to admit that much as we say
>africans do have different cultures, etc. then there must be
>different views when it comes to homosexuality.
>its not like africans are one person with one way of thinking
>and no complexity at all.

You totally missed my points I actually posted an article about Malidoma Some and the culture of the Dagara people in Burkina Faso.

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182. "im trying to explain the pedestal concept."
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it's part of that 'ascribing' africanness.
i mean i *was responding to lfresh,
you cut in and said nobody holds africa on a pedalstool (sp)

im clarifying what i mean
and giving you examples.

i read the stuff you wrote about some
i *do feel like you are afrocentrist because you are sitting
here questioning people's "africanness"-
well Olu's in particular
and yet he's spent the majority of his life in africa
(so have i actually), can tell you who his people are and what they do or are about
and regardless of what he end up being or even where his education takes him
his 'essential' africanness cannot be washed out.
but because he's speaking a language you dont ascribe to an 'african'ness you want to discredit his education/ or label his mind colonised.
uh, yeah whatever

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189. "RE: im trying to explain the pedestal concept."
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>it's part of that 'ascribing' africanness.
>i mean i *was responding to lfresh,
>you cut in and said nobody holds africa on a pedalstool (sp)

Understood

>im clarifying what i mean
>and giving you examples.

Understood

>i read the stuff you wrote about some
>i *do feel like you are afrocentrist because you are sitting
>here questioning people's "africanness"-
>well Olu's in particular
>and yet he's spent the majority of his life in africa
>(so have i actually), can tell you who his people are and what
>they do or are about
> and regardless of what he end up being or even where his
>education takes him
>his 'essential' africanness cannot be washed out.
>but because he's speaking a language you dont ascribe to an
>'african'ness you want to discredit his education/ or label
>his mind colonised.
>uh, yeah whatever

I am simply placing the shoe on the other foot I never said the man was any less African my problem is with the stereotype of African centered scholars and yes I am African centered because I am African(alkebu lanian) I don't gotta be from the continent to see that. I'm am centered on myself my culture my people who happen to be Africans in America if they know it or not and that doesn't make their scholarship or academic depth any less valid than anyone from the continent.

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323. "*sits on "pedalstool" in post*"
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Lawd a mercy!

  

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100. "RE: an educated african has been told he needs"
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>black consciouness

Depends on what kind of education the person has. I know many educated fools who attended the best schools from British LONDON TO MASS CAMBRIDGE TOO.(like my rhyme).

>i done seen it ALL folks
>the pan africans are attempting a coup
>out africaning the africans
>losing badly mind you
>but no one tell them
>this might get better

I don't have to out African anyone I know who I am don't wave RBG flags been to three continents got friends and fam all over. I have met concious African men and women from All over Panama London(by way of Nigeria) Ghana, Senegal, South Africa Brazil, Trinidad etc. Yemen etc. etc. etc.

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120. "the my 'best friend is african' approach"
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does not define your challenge to Olu's black consiousness
very well

try again
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141. "So I guess you didn't see the family part"
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I got family from the continent and the carribean so these discussions of blackness being African etc. are nothing new to me. This is childs play.

I strayed from the original point which was homosexuality but just because one is from the continent and educated(whatever the hell that means) doesn't mean they are not prone to being MISINFORMED.

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146. "yes yes thou art black"
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blacker than even
blacker than the blackest

stating consciousness or lack thereof precludes a form a knowledge which
you seem to be lacking
so your blackity black black talk
off the main topic pertaining to the falsehood of
homosexuality being a western 'invention'
only mires your seeming consciousness
which is mainly a thick cloak or coat of self dilusional
homo-histrionics (new word like that folks?)
in a deep pile of doo-doo
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150. "Okay"
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player.

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402. "You must not have read anything he said."
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He never said anything like that. If you are frustrated, take it out on the correct poster.


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15. "do you want it to be african? if so, why?"
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20. "I'll be back. some of those statements i got problems with"
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and why did u log off on me like that? lmao
i gotta go
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its actually the sysadmin's fault but he has a reason.

We get internet access though

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22. "I read that they were considered the gatekeepers"
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And I used to talk with Malidoma Some and he used to say the same things. That they were considered to be special people who could traverse the realms between the physical and non-physical.


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26. "what culture?"
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yall might be talking about some isolated situation

  

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27. "^^^dat laffy taffy"
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I love you Esi, but lemme tell you something, its about a million ethnic groups in Africa, and 99.8% do not consider homosexuality anything but an abomination.


Its probably like 2 or 3 "tribe/ethnic" that accept homosexuality, I know for a fact none reside in Chad, my grandfather's (May Allah be pleased) opinion on them was not a positive one.

But for me to say all hate gays would probably be unfactual, I know one group has to be accepting, I'd research the vili people of congo.






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35. "Yea thats his name here is the an article"
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http://www.cultural-expressions.com/thesis/gay.htm

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32. "i refer u to the excellent tv show "Black Guy, Gay Guy".."
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...oh i mean "Six Feet Under".

V.

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33. "hilarious how all the non-africans in here are trying to school africans"
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lol.

great mon. morning comedy.

proceed, please.

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38. ". . ."
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_____________________
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63. "lol...I'm laughing at Vex & SMH @ akon,"
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wasn't she just lobbying to be "Black" in binlahab's post?


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72. "fall back, isabur aka the fake african-muslim...get on some white hoes"
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and stfu.

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78. "WoooooooooooooooooooooooooW"
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84. "whitey bangs an okp/myspace sista or two, and tryna stomp"
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Wit da big dawgs.


NOPE.


Imma tawk about it.


Lol @ whiteboy, tryna rap & capoeira n shit, fuckin up da techniques & culture.

Hahaha.


It must suck to wanna be a nigga, and can't not never be one.

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101. "nah, actually i've never messed w/ cyber fees..but if i wanted to..."
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I could smash all the jawns that you jack off to on myspace.

i know it sucks.

ol white boy get more holla than a tired, played-out isabur.

you lost.


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81. "how bout u fall back, cracka. get out OUR post,"
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You not african, black or any of that. Go make sum more wack music that no one will listen to.


Corny azz cracka.

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83. "short, chubby cornball w/ myspace photos of ethio and natralyght"
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on some...yo look at me! I got some attractive women next to me!

they prolly were disgusted as fuck to be in photos w/ you, ox.

no wonder you pushing for the archaic method of man/woman relations.

that's the only way u'd ever get hoes.


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90. "I'm 6'3" ock, I was fat, not chubby...and I'm fly as a kite"
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Natralyght is da Okphomey from way back, and ethio is fam. What I wanna know is, how u seen these pics, since my paage is private?


I C U ox, tryna jack sum more of da blackman's swagg, huh lil guy.


FOH

Hahahaah, u mad too!!!


Yep, MAD.


And ya raps suck.


Retire, u holdin AlSharp back ock.


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"lol.....really? you got a private page? wow."


          

you're def big-time.

but actually you're official...all that back-to-Chad talk.

You definitely know what's up.

low self-esteem + sloppy/fat ass build + no hoes = okp snark for days.

bitch-ass isa....don't retire the snark...i need the entertainment.


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107. "^^^mad"
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Damn Vex, this ain't like you.

Lol @ back to Chad, you don't move back to Chad whitebol, your people fuct that all up.


Man, I thought we was OKfamily tree, now u dissin my build...mind u I been at the gym, imma make a diss record...Vex's advocate.


ETHER.

What happened to FRE 3sa?


U let me diddown.

U gettin soft in ya old age.


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117. "lol @ 'i thought we was OKfamily tree'.... sorry to hurt your feelings"
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>Man, I thought we was OKfamily tree, now u dissin my
>build...mind u I been at the gym, imma make a diss
>record...Vex's advocate.
>
>
>ETHER.

*crowd does ANDONE basketball celebration in the bleachers*

OH SHIT SUN.

lol @ 'I been at the gym'

you're late.

>What happened to FRE 3sa?

like i said...i 'ont want you to quit the snark...i love the entertainment.

>U let me diddown.
>
>U gettin soft in ya old age.

lol..wrong...u the bitch in his 30's still hurling snark.

but keep doing it, please.


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124. "I'm 27 ock. I don't think u know whom I is ock."
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u funny as shit tho. MAD too, its all vishnu ox.


U mad tho!!!


And imma talk about it!!!


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133. "your story switches up each day, ox-mulder"
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>u funny as shit tho. MAD too, its all vishnu ox.
>
>
>U mad tho!!!
>
>
>And imma talk about it!!!

yo talk about it!!!

lol.

but you caught feelings, 3'sa. It's cool tho, i'll still be your okp friend.


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220. "yo lies on 3sa switch up...u the one whose short & 30 ock."
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262. "u're still talking? stfu before i make you my girlfriend oxstress"
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312. "lmao"
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SIG CORNER

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104. "i dont need to lobby for shit bitch."
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i know who i am where im from and where im going.
i cant say the same for you.
leave my damn name out your mouth.

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113. "AKON, I don't want no E-BEEF wit you ma."
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I'm good.

U WIN.


U DA MAN!


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127. "*slaps knee*"
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oh you so funny
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77. "RE: . . ."
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lol

  

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51. "don't be bringing your white culture in heah"
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73. "Listen to the man..."
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divide and conquer at work... *chuckles*



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151. "Funny, I didn't see any Non-Africans until you posted."
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no offense of course, but fall back.


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154. "none taken."
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Mon Dec-04-06 12:09 PM by Vex_id

          

>no offense of course, but fall back.

but i'm not gonna 'fall back' just cause Wind-Brand says so...

there's a diff. between Africans and African-Americans...a distinct difference...just as there is between Europeans and Euro-Americans.

Monolithic sorters piss me off.


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"Differences are slight."


  

          


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209. "lol...or so you'd like to believe."
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265. "Man, I've known continental africans all my life."
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The differences between 'em and my culture is so slight, that we'd both be boggled. I grew up in a community where all I knew was Ethiopians, Nigerians and other Islanders- and a few white folk.

YOU might be suprised.


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301. "I certainly respect your opinion...though I don't agree"
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in returning, i'm just asking that you respect mine.

>The differences between 'em and my culture is so slight, that
>we'd both be boggled.

be 'boggled'...meaning? Also, when you say 'em' and 'my culture'...what are you referring to?

I grew up in a community where all I
>knew was Ethiopians, Nigerians and other Islanders- and a few
>white folk.

just curious, what community was this? Also, might the fact that you grew up around Ethiopians, Nigerians, and other Islanders have contributed to your similarities with them? Your experience of growing up around non-Americans is not a common experience for American youth.




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343. "Brooklyn, NYC and then Roswell, GA."
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And u know I always respect what u say- cept when you get on that peace maker shit. I can't stand taht shit, but still...


Grew up in the SDA church- a church comprised mostly (wherever I was) of Foreign peoples, and immigrants.

Grew up in an All West Indian community, school, family setting, friends...

EXCEPT my church friends who were African, and some Latin-American folks.

All of us were black, and while we didn't "grow up" in the same community, we spent 2, 3 days out the week together and we'd always talk about our cultures and how similar they are.

Continental Africans always referred to each other as "family" and they did with "Islanders" too. Said we had "soul".

Not so much for African Americans. Wasn't until I went to College that I had my first African American friend, and then started to learn about that culture.

Before then, everything I knew about African AMericans stemmed from Hip Hop videos and Sitcoms.

so no, our cultres weren't intermingled in the sense that we grew up in similar locations- I mean I never left my block. So I never knew anything outside my community-cept when I went to church.

Same when we moved to Roswell. When we moved, we moved with 4 other families. 3 of us settled in the same subdivision. Those were the people we knew socially.



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356. "but you have to admit even you dont have a 'continental' african experie..."
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just by virtue of knowing a few african families.
i mean, vex and i made the same observation
i dont know why you are taking it as though he's saying that
you dont have a right to speak on it

he's saying (well, at least im saying, let me not speak for him)
that its ironical that you got a bunch of africans saying one thing
and other folks, who by virtue of knowing a few african families
declaring other things as though the fact that these africans
have lived in africa, they dont know what they are talking about'

i thought you'd understand that.
cause im surprised about the same thing
its like someone coming to your home to tell you about your house shit
doesn't compute
i dont get the fall back hostility
cause i coulda said the same shit to anyone that hasn't been to africa
regardless of how many africans they know
and especially because experiences are different
but i do value and respect people's input.
but i do think its unfair to have people tell you about
where you are from even though they haven't been there
and that's that, non african' comment i made.
but really, he's got as much right to speak on it as you do
so i dont know why you want to disengage his right to.

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376. "Nah, I understand where you are coming from."
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You can't tell people about the nuances on their culture or advise them on policy unless you totally understand and have been immersed in said culture.

I totally agree.

But I still think that my experience being a BLACK Man, first of all means that there are a HOST of things inheritly part of Being Black that is African, first- even if we don't recognize it.

And then certainly there are aspects of the cultures in Africa that are ALIVE and practiced in the Islands.

When Les Fluers was talking about showing sexual things outside of the home- I was nodding. My folks are very affenctionate- but never outside the home. They won't even hug. I"m the same way, I mean my wife is slowly getting me out of that, but I don't even engage in "coupling" practices that alotta AMericans do.

I don't think it's appropriate to be kissing n shit in public. Keep that in your home, and bedroom.

And then there are more examples.

Vex, to my knowledge is a European-American.

He doesn't have any culturual rememberance. He might have read books- as have I. He might have even had close relationships- as have I, but IMO ALL Black peoples are African.

Including Fijians, Tongons, ect.

We are part of the Diaspora. And certainly shit is watered down abit, but we are still AFRICAN.



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386. "i dont know what else to say...."
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you are discrediting vex even though he's been to kenya twice.
not just nairobi, this bol was in bondo... if that aint village i dont know what is.
and having spent time there, he experienced a little bit of the life there
i dont see why he cant speak on his observations.

if anything, i'd say he has more of a right since he's talking from an empirical point of view


i cant say i *quite get it
yes all black people are from africa but there are also enough deviations which is why we can sit and talk about diapora and differences in cultural expressions.
shit there are differences even within africa.

anyway.

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388. "I don't know how I missed this exchange earlier...."
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Wed Dec-06-06 09:52 PM by Vex_id

          

(addressed to akon & firebrand)

..but my main reason for being in this post is not to try and tell a certain people about themselves...let's not be silly...I think firebrand took offense htat I was even in this post, period....but what's interesting is that continental Africans never hit me w/ the 'dude, why are you here? you're not African'...rather, they will engage with me and are gracious in their willingness to further teach me about their culture...also, I have noticed a baffling trend on OKP of people who are not from the continent of Africa trying to tell those who *are* from the African continent about their history/culture....what part of the game is that?

Akon being on okp was a blessing for me because she helped to prepare me for my visits to Kenya, schooling me on what I should expect, and what I would find there...I feel a certain bond to her because I can talk w/ her about Kenya from a first-hand perspective of actually being there...but of course I'm going to refer to her when it comes to all things Kenyan...because it's *her* culture/country...how am I going to tell her about Kenya? We can share observations, but ultimately, i'm learning from her...and happily so.

Everyone is certainly entitled to their perspective/opinion, but with all the purported similarities that many are claiming exist between African-Americans and Continental Africans, this post in itself is a clear indicator that there are distinctive differences amongst them....this is not intended to critique anyone..simply an observation from someone who has visited Kenya/Uganda twice, and who has appreciated the learning experience it was to witness a world/society completely diff. from my own.

What I can't get over is why people seem to be offended when they don't know something about a particular culture other than from second-hand knowledge/observation, yet will not take the time to learn from someone first-hand on that culture-in-question...

specific to myself...how would I look as an Italian-American disagreeing constantly with native Italians about many aspects of their culture, and trying to school them on what it means to be an Italian? I'd look pretty silly...and naturally, being immersed in American culture/society for so long, I am going to have distinctive differences in thought/style/perspective/and culture from them.

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397. "If you can't understand the injury"
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sustained to persons of color in this country, and why they even in a public space would like to still have sancutuary to speak about OUR issues without being in mixed company, then I have a problem believing that you respect peoples of color.

If I'm in a Mall and a family is having a discussion, and it gets hot- Even if I'm a family friend, I'm not going to interject with my opinion. There is a time and place for that.

That is how I look at it.

Now ME personally? I don't try to tell Afrikans how to be Afrikans. That's just ridiculous.

I do however see a disconnect that not 60, 80 years ago wasn't so disconnected. There was a time when even during colonialism and slavery there was a DISCOURSE between pan-Afrikans abroad and Continental Afrikans.

Now, with all of what history has brough to bear on us...shit is gone.

ANd it PAINS me to see progressive, forward thinking people still not wanting to see this solved.

I don't just get on Africans.

I get on Bin all the time too. Ask him.



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407. "show me where I said anything *remotely* close to what you suggest"
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you are coming out w/ wrath and ruckus...but it's poorly-guided and the problem you are seeing as it relates to *me* is purely imaginative.

>sustained to persons of color in this country, and why they
>even in a public space would like to still have sancutuary to
>speak about OUR issues without being in mixed company, then I
>have a problem believing that you respect peoples of color.

I don't have a problem w/ that at all..in fact, I would encourage it....miss me w/ this stance and save it for somebody who needs to hear it....nontheless, you define a huge monolithic group as 'peoples of color'...i'd imagine it'd be difficult to get that many people, from that many diff. backgrounds/cultures together in a 'santuary' unless they were somehow culturally aligned. (which certainly *some* peoples of color are...but not all, as you purport)

>If I'm in a Mall and a family is having a discussion, and it
>gets hot- Even if I'm a family friend, I'm not going to
>interject with my opinion. There is a time and place for
>that.
>
>That is how I look at it.

I agree on that.

>Now ME personally? I don't try to tell Afrikans how to be
>Afrikans. That's just ridiculous.
>
>I do however see a disconnect that not 60, 80 years ago wasn't
>so disconnected. There was a time when even during
>colonialism and slavery there was a DISCOURSE between
>pan-Afrikans abroad and Continental Afrikans.

the disconnect is sad and unfortunate...there are still people who keep alive that connect, though...and with good reason.

>Now, with all of what history has brough to bear on us...shit
>is gone.
>
>ANd it PAINS me to see progressive, forward thinking people
>still not wanting to see this solved.

In your estimation, how can it be solved?

>I don't just get on Africans.
>
>I get on Bin all the time too. Ask him.




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395. "He's not Black. And didn't grow up Black. we can agree"
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to disagree. I don't care if he MOVES to Kenya and dies there after 60 years, I'm going to be offended by him telling me about MY experience that I've lived as if a book he's read or a neighborhood he's lived in is going to tell me what I feel in my heart.





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406. "you're trying to package an argument to fit your agenda...."
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>to disagree. I don't care if he MOVES to Kenya and dies
>there after 60 years, I'm going to be offended by him telling
>me about MY experience that I've lived as if a book he's read
>or a neighborhood he's lived in is going to tell me what I
>feel in my heart.

who is telling you about *your* experience or about the feelings in your heart?

seriously...nobody.

let's not reach.

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409. "furthermore....like yourself, i'll be damned if"
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i'm going to allow *you* to define what i feel in *my* heart.

so yes, we can agree to disagree.

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408. "okay.... this is some white angst ish."
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because making observations is not the same thing as telling someone about their experiences.
i think dude has been making observations, but you are letting your baggage weigh you down so much you cant see past 'european american'.

and i dont understand how you are claiming an experience without having been immersed in it.
i mean, you might have read about, talked to people about it, watched movies and documentaries about it etc, but you cant claim to have experienced it.

i can honestly say you could probably go to kenya tomorrow or whenever and it will still be a huge surprise and will take some getting used to.
shit, i go to nairobi and it takes me a minute to readjust.

i thought i knew a whole lot about african americans until i landed in kansas city .
yes we do share some fundamental beliefs, ways of thought, cultural leanings etc... but we also have differences.
its okay to admit that without being militant.

i believe vex can talk about what he's seen in kenya because he has been there. again: empirical observation.

.
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414. "Either you don't see my point or you are choosing to ignore it"
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In either case. I will simply agree to disagree and keep it moving. For some reason we don't see eye to eye on this AND you don't see my point or find it tenable. Fine.


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328. "Man Vex catching L's all up and down this post"
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white boy trying to talk about african americans. The irony!

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335. "lol...and here comes the retardo extraodinaire explidiot."
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asian boy trying to be street.

hilarity.


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349. "wait.."
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explizit is asian?

who knew?

  

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359. "ok timberlake"
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go take some more pics with black dudes to make yourself appear less white, that'll do it! or go record some more vanilla ice tracks! your raps suck homie. please stop. aint no on trying to hear david math!

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362. "lol"
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366. "^^^lusted after a pic of me on myspace then deleted her account"
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to cover her tracks.

i see you.

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415. "hahaha! FOH Vex"
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:)

  

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368. "lol...this ox is up in here using my slang, referring to my music"
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saying 'oxstress' and citing david math songs and shit.

wow, inbox fam.

I've got a myspace photo of me, autographed in silver for you.

I got a thing for asians...sweetstuff.

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369. "I know Im ethering you with your own slang"
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>saying 'oxstress' and citing david math songs and shit.
>
>wow, inbox fam.
>
>I've got a myspace photo of me, autographed in silver for
>you.
>
>I got a thing for asians...sweetstuff.
>


its tight you upping the ethering though david, justin, whatever the fuck your name is. I had a feeling you were a rice queen! keep it up oxtress!

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370. "lol..i am upping the 'ethering'...you're famous on okp for being a loser"
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you really should've retired a long time ago...

seriously, 'explizit'?

everyone laughs at you.

it would be great to see you in real life just to laugh at you, ox.

u can use my slang tho, to try and fit in.

ox looks like a shorter, chubbier isa...'cept he's asian.

lol.

go ahead and reply to make yourself feel better tho, boo.

my package is on its way.

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374. "but you still a stiff little white boy though so. you steady loser statu..."
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>you really should've retired a long time ago...
>
>seriously, 'explizit'?
>
>everyone laughs at you.
>
really? you the cartoon character calling other dudes oxen and shit remember? you're a fucking joke doggie. at least I can come with some substance and real shit you stay on that dumb little kid shit cause your brain too small. its ok.

>it would be great to see you in real life just to laugh at
>you, ox.
>
>u can use my slang tho, to try and fit in.
>
>ox looks like a shorter, chubbier isa...'cept he's asian.

ya I work out 5 times a week little guy, you wanna have a bench off? your tae-blow aint helping ya little man. oh wait you'll be listening to ciara with your pink headband, my bad. LMFAO!!!!
>
>lol.
>
>go ahead and reply to make yourself feel better tho, boo.


seems like youve been trying to increase what little self esteem you have by declaring an e-war! I forgot white dudes from georgetown are so hard!! !LMFAO!!!!

yo keep it up, maybe we can discuss how you discourage interracial dating yet you are involved in one!!! Wow the irony! or maybe you as a ignant white dude can tell us about homosexuality in the african culture!!! FOH timbermath.

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375. "i know i'm sexy dog, but cot damn...u've been wild e-stalking me."
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WOW.

did you want to see me?

just come to d.c., pudge-boy.


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377. "like you did in reply #336 right?"
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there was no reason for you to reply to me down there but ya did. keep of the nuts 150lbs. you skinny as fuck but I still got less body fat than you. its funny you anorexic kids be thinking strong is benching 2 plates and shit. lol! there aint nothing you can beat me in white boy Im sorry. give up the white boy arrogance already, its getting played out little guy.

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379. "WHOA...*newsflash*...you're half-white?! BWAHAHAHA"
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damn fam...you're up in here dissing me for being white..and here you are...half white/half asian.

i'm dying.

but i'm wack as hell for actually interacting w/ u this long.

like i said, you can see me in DC if u'd like...i can show you a nice program for cutting down on body fat, ma.

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381. "RE: WHOA...*newsflash*.."
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>damn fam...you're up in here dissing me for being white..and
>here you are...half white/half asian.
>
wow angela landsbury, so you're the one taking notes? shit. ok. ya you got that right but I look more asian than white and thats what racists like you treat me as so there you go homie. but lmfao at you letting okp define "popularity"!!! thats hilarious, thats a serious mark of a loner. I guess you aint got no friends so you make up this imaginary okp world of popularity to make yourself feel better! hilarious!

>i'm dying.
>
>but i'm wack as hell for actually interacting w/ u this long.

nah you just whack as hell, especially for that mf doom wannabe music you making! Lol!!!
>
>

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34. "funny... its non africans arguing with africans about african shit."
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.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
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39. ". . ."
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_____________________
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41. "sorry real africans i know personally don't post on okayplayer.com"
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but i can represent their ideas
it's too much homo love on okp for the average african anyway
if yall only wanted africans to respond u should have posted this on mumbato.com or some shit
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43. "olu, bongo, you hear that? we aren't real."
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.

.
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56. "even if you are "real" you're only TWO people"
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if i know 20+ africans in reality who i can vouch for why would i take a homosexual african with an obvious agenda to push and a biracial dude who mainly grew up in ultra liberal france opinion over ppl i know and trust?

  

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62. "yeah olu"
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you're not REALLY african
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143. "I'm apparently homosexual too"
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who knew?

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111. "lol.. i promise you in 20+ years of living in africa i know more than 20..."
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20+ africans

i think *im in a better position to talk about, 'in reality'

.
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58. "yall know him personally?"
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im just sayin

*stokes flames*

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55. "Dude, I'm posting from Ghana"
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get some of your mythical african friends to post up and I'll have this discussion with them

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65. "I don't know what circles you run in"
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but the Ghananians I know here in the UK and Ghana, don't entertain any chi chi ting...






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71. "who said anything about entertain?"
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approval levels across the board, across cultures is low over all
but to go so far as to say
"oh well it's was 'invented' by western culture"
and "didn't exist before white culture"

get real and grow up people
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85. "who invented, cannot be logically debated..."
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and is frankly a waste of time,
however who in history and presently advances homosexuality in a 'concerted' movement to be 'accepted' into mainstream society as a 'norm' surely can...

and Euros for a few centuries now, have been running with that torch, confused Africans like Olu now want to help carry the torch too.





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92. "then can you tell your comrades in foolishness"
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to quit promoting the silly?

>confused Africans like Olu now want to help carry the
>torch too.

there is nothing confused about setting the record straight about what is fact and not fact
and frankly anyone who believes homosexuality is modern cultural invention is the person who is seriously confused
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"how can something be invented"
Mon Dec-04-06 11:00 AM by cosmicgirl

  

          

Nature includes EVERYTHING.
Much to people's dismay.
Animals be having that good bareback 2.
I don't get how the same smart dumb niggas always trying to school somebody on something. It seriously makes me cringe. Ugh.

SIG CORNER

We are the miracle of force and matter making itself over into imagination and will. Incredible. The Life Force experimenting with forms. You for one. Me for another. The Universe has shouted itself alive. We are one of the shouts. - Ray Bradb

  

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132. "there are four kingdoms"
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mineral, animal, human and vegetal. Errrm, which one do you belong to????

Comparing man to animals never made sense to me. One doesn't compare plants to animals do they????




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147. "actually they do"
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the ecological balance on this planet depends on the comparison
and relation of man to planet and animal

but hey this isn't out basis for argument
talk to your brethren who state homosexually is not a naturally occuring state, not of nature, non natural
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155. "it's way too easy."
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:D

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188. "there is a relation between 'all' things..."
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but to embark on comparision is Euro folly.

and there ain't nothing 'natural' about homosexuality...




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165. "sorry to butt in... but what kinda stupid shit is that?"
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...lol. four kingdoms? what ideology you spittin' from, homes? for one, man is CONTAINED ENTIRELY WITHIN THE CATEGORY OF ANIMAL. telling ourselves otherwise is just self-defeating. we are animals. we're very ~smart~ animals. but animals nonetheless. check the dna comparison between humans and chimps and ~then~ try to tell me we're something entirely other. check the complex social structures, sentience, and intelligence of chimps, dolphins, and elephants and ~then~ try to tell me we're something entirely other.

...'kay. that myth shredded. now, this 'four kingdoms' nonsense... how exactly do you define these "kingdoms"? are they rigid definitions? what about bacteria that fit the definition of both plant ~and~ animal? where do they fall? what about energy (light, heat, plasma, etc)? is that mineral or plant? lol... who sets these rules, and how?

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190. "^^^^^^believes Darwin theory^^^^^^^"
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we can end our interaction here, thanks for contributing my yout.



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191. "^^^^^^should edit asap^^^^^^^"
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194. "errrrr no... n/m"
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383. "Do you know what DARWIN later said about HIS theory? lol"
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193. "*dead and buried*"
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I wish I could say I didn't see that coming

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197. "^^^^^evolved from Apes^^^^ n/m"
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215. "As did you, me, your mother, and everyone else you love and or"
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hate.

  

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285. "^^^^^^intelligence has spoken^^^^^^^ n/m"
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199. "RE: ^^^^^^believes Darwin theory^^^^^^^"
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>we can end our interaction here, thanks for contributing my
>yout.
>
>
>
>http://www.imagestation.com/album/pictures.html?id=2115026546
>
>
>"...a man straddling two cultures is rarely well seated..."
>
>Albert Memmi
>The Colonizer and the Colonized

  

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201. "^^can't explain genetic similarities between humans and chimps..."
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...definitely can't explain morphological similarities between humans and bonobos. likely also can't give any testable alternative theories as to the origin of mankind without relying on faith (that is: unfounded belief).

...you lose, kiddo. and tha's okay. just try not to bash the gays so much with such a shaky standing, eh?

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205. "*laughs* indeed, you win n/m"
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140. "*looks at #74*"
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>Nature includes EVERYTHING.
>Much to people's dismay.
>Animals be having that good bareback 2.
>I don't get how the same smart dumb niggas always trying to
>school somebody on something. It seriously makes me cringe.
>Ugh.

not to point fingers or nothin
ok fine i'm pointing
he said unnatural
lol
like it means something
like it was an argument
a real one
oh this just gets sadder and sadder
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82. "And the source of this?"
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did they pick it up from some deep historical ideas paseed on over hundreds of years by their forefathers? Or the churches they grew up in as kids?

How much do they know about how their people lived before colonialism anyway

You know who the biggest users of the 'that isn't African' argument in Ghana is? The Church. Whenever they aren't condemning large tracts of traditional life for being develish they are using it to support their own ideas. And all while never actually learning anything about it.

I'm sick and tired of people making claims about what my people did or didn't do when they have no idea what was going on in those days and absolutely no interest in actually finding out. If they are going to make those claims to me I expect actual proof. I want to see archaeological digs, people talking to our aged. Our traditional priests and chiefs being talked to, historical records from the muslim traders and europeans who visited unearthed and looked over critically. Until people start showing up with something concrete beyond what they are pulling out of their asses I reserve the right to question their proof, point, laugh and call them idiots.



Oh, and of course the Africans you run with would dislike gays. They run with you

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99. "the researcher in you"
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the African that has gone to Western schools, to essentially learn how to be technician (because a true scientist is a innovator/pioneer) has blinded you to your own roots.

You can't even see what's right in front of you... now all you are demanding is proof. Your left-sided thinking is tricking you.

Go back and study the Akan model Olu.



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129. "RE: the researcher in you"
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>the African that has gone to Western schools, to essentially
>learn how to be technician (because a true scientist is a
>innovator/pioneer) has blinded you to your own roots.
>
>You can't even see what's right in front of you... now all you
>are demanding is proof. Your left-sided thinking is tricking
>you.

And which schools did you go to? Whose country do you live in right now? For all your attempts to appear otherwise you are a black man who grew up, was educated and lives in the UK.Save your posturing for someone else who falls for it. From here its just amusing


>Go back and study the Akan model Olu.

You don't know me Angelo so I'll say this once. I'm Akan. I carry that blood proudly and it affects what I say and do in more ways than a poser like you will ever understand. That was an insult in the old school "I must now kill you to keep my family's honour" sense of the word. If you had said that to me in person one of us would have gotten hurt that day. I know you enjoy pushing people's buttons over the net so I'll let it slide. If you ever intend to stand in the same space with me though, don't say it again in any format

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142. "*chuckles*"
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Mon Dec-04-06 11:37 AM by Angelo

  

          

>And which schools did you go to? Whose country do you live in
>right now? For all your attempts to appear otherwise you are a
>black man who grew up, was educated and lives in the UK.Save
>your posturing for someone else who falls for it. From here
>its just amusing

No posturing over here my friend, from how you present yourself on here... i see little of the African in you.


>>Go back and study the Akan model Olu.

>You don't know me Angelo so I'll say this once. I'm Akan. I
>carry that blood proudly and it affects what I say and do in
>more ways than a poser like you will ever understand. That was
>an insult in the old school "I must now kill you to keep my
>family's honour" sense of the word. If you had said that to me
>in person one of us would have gotten hurt that day. I know
>you enjoy pushing people's buttons over the net so I'll let it
>slide. If you ever intend to stand in the same space with me
>though, don't say it again in any format

Don't let your emotions, type your replies... It would be tragic indeed if we was standing on African soil comunnicating and it transpired into a physical altercation. Trust me the attack wouldn't come from my end... but I would handle it if necessary... but for clarification I was talking more in regards to Akan cosmology...

I'm no poser my yout, I'm African to the core, my, 'our' ancestors had their say long before I could decide...






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149. "lol"
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>No posturing over here my friend, from how you present
>yourself on here... i see little of the African in you

Enlighten me then, what would you consider seeing the African in me? A kente cloth in my avy? A grass skirt maybe? What exactly is this mythical trait of 'Africanness' that you manage to posess from the UK and I missed out on?

>Don't let your emotions, type your replies... It would be
>tragic indeed if we was standing on African soil comunnicating
>and it transpired into a physical altercation. Trust me the
>attack wouldn't come from my end... but I would handle it if
>necessary...

First off, I have no intention of communicating with you. I see nothing to gain by it. Secondly, you start questioning my family again and you will have brought that altercation on yourself, however it goes.

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187. "eh bwoy... Kwasia... n/m"
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198. "out of predictable rhetoric to spout?"
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so soon?

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200. "you are a disgrace to Akan ancestry"
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the ancestors have long turned their back on you, however if and when you find your way, they'll be waiting...






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202. "wtf"
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206. "You are definitely out of your mind."
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Which is okay, because now I know not to put any more energy into taking anything you say seriously.

Happy dreams, I hope waking up to reality won't be too hard on you.


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224. "I tried to tell yall he was psycho, but noooooooo...."
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.

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286. "go and play with the spare Elmos... dizzy cunt n/m"
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288. "my reality>>>>>>>>>>>>your reality"
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just remember that cracker and everything will be copacetic...



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207. "lol @ you telling me about my ancestors"
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you are a sad, sad man Angelo

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211. "Angelo hath spoken"
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fortunately it's on deaf ears
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287. "I wasn't heard, but check the replies... go figure n/m"
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216. "*throws up a little in mouth*"
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You're a serious mental patient.

  

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290. "thankfully,"
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your fear, subservient nature and ignorance is a sickness that I'm not inflicted with...


I'm craaaaaaaaazy deranged, *laughs* believe that, if that helps you to process my comments better.




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218. "wow .. you just went WAY TOO FAR man."
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way too far
as an african searching for light you should know better

  

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227. "u guys take him waaaaaaaaaaaay too seriously"
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241. "he takes himself waaaaaaaaaaaay too seriously"
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280. "No I don't"
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I know he's a shock poster. I know he lives to needle people online then be absolutely gracious to them in person because he'd never have the balls to say any of that shit to their faces. I don't know why he does it but I guess its because he can't help himself.

Thats why I told him clearly that he had crossed the line. He then willingly crossed it again. I don't care if he did it because he was angry, or joking, or for any other reason. The line is crossed. End of story

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293. "oh STFU with your bitching..."
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fucking, Yaphet Kotto spunk dribble down your mumma's ass crack product...


>I know he's a shock poster. I know he lives to needle people
>online then be absolutely gracious to them in person because
>he'd never have the balls to say any of that shit to their
>faces. I don't know why he does it but I guess its because he
>can't help himself.

You don't know me at all. my yout...


>Thats why I told him clearly that he had crossed the line. He
>then willingly crossed it again. I don't care if he did it
>because he was angry, or joking, or for any other reason. The
>line is crossed. End of story


Boo hoo hoo, crying ass nig nog...





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297. "I suppose this is your 'animal' talking again?"
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a.k.a. "I lack the manhood necessary to stand behind the words I type so I will attribute them to some magically independent part of my personalty"

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313. "^^^^smart dumb nigger^^^^"
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Go back and study where you come from, and then we can talk...




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292. "lol n/m"
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327. "lol at you finding this humourous."
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or thinking this is some 'sense ofhumour type bullshit that nobody gets.

.
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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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372. "lol, right? don't mind her..she just likes to support anti-gay hate."
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which is why she's so cool w/ angelo.

they feel better about themselves by considering gays sub-human...and they think it's funny.

but you won't get more but catch phrase out of her...she's 'bigger' than okp...which is why she lurks on here every day.

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412. "it's humourous to her, u fucking dummy"
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becuase she knows me and you don't, and she can put shit into context.


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291. "my 'divine self',"
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does not interact on here, it is my 'animal' all the way...


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70. "what it even matter tho? or change your mind?"
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if i was able to get 100 africans to create accounts and come post in here it wouldn't change a thing
you,bongo or akon would simply say they were lying or uneducated or whatever was convenient enough to discredit them

  

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330. "ya but ghetto thugs do?"
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FOH! keep up the self-ethering buttplug.

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336. "lol...hear that? that's nobody caring about you, or your words"
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log off and kill yourself.

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360. "why are you even replying to that oxtress?"
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you sticking up for your buddy gatalsgay? wtf? I know you retarded and all but come on. stop with the nuthugging little guy.

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48. "So what are non Africans?"
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?

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97. "non-africans are the following"
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Those not born in africa, except Bongo.

Those not cool with faggotry

Those who aren't Olu & Akon & African.


Mind you, my pops is 100% african, but imma fat fake muslim from okp.


I luv okp.

I aint dissin akon no more tho, she hit me wit da ether in that rap poast.


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281. "Akh, you got a crush on me?"
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Never pass on an opportunity to type my username.

Go make salat and hop off my dick.

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363. "shut yo karl malone lookin azz up"
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46. "Oct 11th passed already but: I AM AN AFRICAN LESBIAN WOMAN."
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whoever says im unafrican needs to tell me how to wipe out my ancestral roots.
like, really.

.
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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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60. "*taps mic*"
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is this thing working?...



...
they don't hear you though
~~~~~~~~
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Hurt than maim
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Avoid than intimidate.
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68. "leave the US then"
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go back to your roots and live your life openly... *chuckles*





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91. "oh dont worry, fam. i plan to."
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.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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74. "your lifestyle is unnatural to the design of evolution.....doesn't make"
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you less human
so the fact that you are an african lesbian doesn't mean anything
you like many modern africans have the "can't beat em, join em" attitude anyway

  

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204. "^^^proved he knows nothing about evolution..."
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...assuming evolution is true, that means it produces everything. that means ~she~ is a product of evolution. that means her particular mindset is the product of a combination of evolutionarily acquired predispositions and environmental factors. and everything in the environment is a product of evolution... thus, her sexuality is a product of evolution, as well.

...furthermore, look at the animal kingdom. same-sex contact is veritably omnipresent, there. they're also products of nature... products of evolution.

...do you think at all before you post stupid shit?

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212. "^^^MVP of thread"
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Apocalypso
Olympian
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like Paul
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Better warn thee
I'm inchin' in
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Flank hard
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266. "that dude is great for posting half thought out shit."
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271. "So is SPM"
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278. "True."
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303. "yet the 'half thought out' accusation is addressed to koan...hmmm"
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interesting.

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Olympian
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Better warn thee
I'm inchin' in
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Flank hard
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403. "man, damn. it was addressed to Koan cus noone takes"
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SPM seriously. We all know where his assertions are faulty. Not so in the case of Koan as evidenced by your cosignature.

That's the only reason.

Y'all just read whatever u want into stuff.

I'd like to think I'ma reasonable poster on these boards, except in the case of SEC football.


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302. "'half thought out' because you don't agree...okps kill me w/ the elitism"
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MF's can't have a differing point of view and be respected....they have to be somehow less sophisticated, less intelligent, or 'half thought out'...

no.

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Apocalypso
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I'm inchin' in
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305. "instead of addressing where Koan might be wrong"
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folks choose to discredit him with vague assumptions.

As far as I can tell his post was 100% correct. From a rational point of view, that is.


I'm #ffffff

  

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309. "*edited*...dammit. wrong reply... lol"
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342. "pass me with that good samaritan shit, playboi."
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311. "would you care to enlighten me, then?"
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...how was my reply "half thought out"?
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344. "I've discussed these things in length so many times"
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on OKP. You are a intelligent person. I'm sure you'll find some books on the subject.

I'm not going there again.


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345. "I've discussed these things in length so many times"
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on OKP. You are a intelligent person. I'm sure you'll find some books on the subject.

I'm not going there again.


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358. "...ah, just as i thought..."
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...the ol' "i don't have to break down your argument or even explain my statement because i've talked about this so many times and proved so many people like you wrong before" tactic. classy.

...lol. dude, if you wanted to say you disagreed, you could've just done that. no need to cast aspersions as to the thoughtfulness of my argument. you say i post "half thought out shit" and then decline to explain yourself. i ain't askin' to argue, i'm just wondering what you mean. if there's flaws in my arguments, i'd like to know them so i can address them.

...but, see, i don't think you see actual flaws. i think you just want to come off like you've got some superior knowledge but don't have to share it. and that's okay. makes ya feel better, floats yer boat, finds ya lost remote... don' matter to jeezus. in fact, that's cool, 'cause it lets me know i can ignore the silly shit you say from now on.

pax.

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373. "I'm on no one's side here, but he cops out like that a lot."
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378. "Look man. I've been on here, posting research...books"
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Quoting half chapters just so that folk woud get the full context of quotes, ect.

And then...NOTHING.

I actually tried again to go back to doing that shit in an argument with Bignick on Religion not long ago, and offered to send him the books I had on the subject so we could further debate it.

He ignored it, and continued to argue about petty shit.

Housenegro has done this to me so many times- totally ignored what we've talked about and come back with the same exact questions and arguments NEVER taking into account what we have discussed.

You know how much that drains a person? I no longer have the time or patience for such things.

If you weren't here for the past convo's, and you wanna take a "know it all" stance speaking on what really boil down to subjective matters as if oyu are an all knowing- always correct entity speaking from the Objectivity that condesention affords...

Look it up your damn self.

Tired of the shit, and I'm NOT doing it ANYMORE.

Bignick was the last test after I hadnt done it in years, and he showed me it's still not worth it.

NO.





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380. "BWAHAHA! aiight, well here is a Koan for you, brother..."
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>...assuming evolution is true, that means it produces
>everything. that means ~she~ is a product of evolution. that
>means her particular mindset is the product of a combination
>of evolutionarily acquired predispositions and environmental
>factors. and everything in the environment is a product of
>evolution... thus, her sexuality is a product of evolution, as
>well.

I'm not going to argue that point. There is no way of proving that homosexuality wasn't apart of the first humans. The only way to possibly assume yes or no in this regard is with blind faith- either the religious kind or the "rational" kind.

Therefore if there is no way of knowing, you can't assume that this is part of "evolution". If this was the case, what other nuances in human social behavior is part of evolution? You can certainly make arguements about the disappearing little toe, the shape of the mouth and vocal chords, even hair distribution...but SOCIAL behavior?

Stretching, much?




>...furthermore, look at the animal kingdom. same-sex contact
>is veritably omnipresent, there.

Same sex contact in social situations meaning what, exactly? In higher mammal groups usually same sex SEXUAL contact isn't at all driven from a sexual place. It's a domination thing. Same for opposite sex "female to male" role reversal such as in the case of Hyenas. It's not there for "pleasure", but often to keep social order.

How would this be true in the Human use of it? Not at all? So I wonder, why did you attempt to draw the comparison?

I guess in one primate species there IS same sex contact and also sexual "role reversal" in groups such as the the dwarfed chimpanzee- a group where sex is used as a social lubricant.

But let's look at there cousins the greater chimp...they commit murder for the same reasons- I'm not talking bout murder of lesser monkeys or rival clans, but of those in their social groups in their species...are you saying that murder too is natural?

If so, then I would agree. Does that make it 'wrong or right' as you are suggesting? That would be a tough argument to prove.

Again- I'm not comparing Homosexuality to Murder- YOU did.





they're also products of
>nature... products of evolution.
>
>...do you think at all before you post stupid shit?
>


Do you?


>~~~~~





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390. "lol, Why are you assuming homosexuality is a "nuance"
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in social behavior?
What if its a nuance in biological chemistry?
A nuance in genetic make-up?

Also, is heterosexual behavior part of evolution?
You can play the game where homosexuality = murder, but then it would just end up as homosexuality = murder = heterosexuality.
But in reality, it's ridiculous to moralize about consensual sexual behavior that doesn't harm anyone, which only happens when people have their own personal and oppressive vendettas.

>Same sex contact in social situations meaning what, exactly?
>In higher mammal groups usually same sex SEXUAL contact isn't
>at all driven from a sexual place. It's a domination thing.
>Same for opposite sex "female to male" role reversal such as
>in the case of Hyenas. It's not there for "pleasure", but
>often to keep social order.
>
>How would this be true in the Human use of it? Not at all?
>So I wonder, why did you attempt to draw the comparison?

Hmm it sounds like homosexual sex as a tool of dominance is universal in all advanced mammals *cough prisons all over the world cough*
lol

Anyway, I don't know why you would imply that homosexuality has no function. Maybe everybody isn't meant to procreate. Maybe if every single person had the ability and desire to breed, this world would be in shambles, and nature is aware of that.

  

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394. "I'm not sure I understand."
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>in social behavior?
>What if its a nuance in biological chemistry?
>A nuance in genetic make-up?

Usually those go hand in hand. First it begins as socially necessary, then it graduates to becoming biologically desired because of the situation that brought it about which means that it Could in that case be evolution (in a sense) more like adaptation.

But MY argument is that sexuality is and has been fluid from the begning, and that social contructs for better or for worse dictates how sexuality is looked up. So, where is the evidence that Homosexuality wasn't ALWAYS part of the genetic cocktail?



>
>Also, is heterosexual behavior part of evolution?
>You can play the game where homosexuality = murder, but then
>it would just end up as homosexuality = murder =
>heterosexuality.

EXACTLY. That's my point. All those things are natural. Violence, war, sexuality, etc. So you can't use isolated acts without context to either confirm or deny it's morality. It's not that simple. I'm glad you see that. I wasn't sure if I was clear with how I put it.



>But in reality, it's ridiculous to moralize about consensual
>sexual behavior that doesn't harm anyone,

"Harm" again, depends on the context and in what the society it's in accepts, and what/where/how the stimuli effect the people living in that time and place.


which only happens
>when people have their own personal and oppressive vendettas.
>

Exactly. And that street goes both ways (HA!...both ways!).




>>Same sex contact in social situations meaning what, exactly?
>
>>In higher mammal groups usually same sex SEXUAL contact
>isn't
>>at all driven from a sexual place. It's a domination thing.
>
>>Same for opposite sex "female to male" role reversal such as
>>in the case of Hyenas. It's not there for "pleasure", but
>>often to keep social order.
>>
>>How would this be true in the Human use of it? Not at all?
>>So I wonder, why did you attempt to draw the comparison?
>
>Hmm it sounds like homosexual sex as a tool of dominance is
>universal in all advanced mammals *cough prisons all over the
>world cough*
>lol

EXACTLY. and to my lesbian friends in the past say that that isn't "homosexuality". They say that the gay lifestyle is a choice- and that such things don't apply unless there is feeling and love invovled.

But all of THAT is so complexed when you consider semantics, channel noise with all the implied assetions, and case by case situations in prisons, and rape in general, etc...


>
>Anyway, I don't know why you would imply that homosexuality
>has no function.

That's never been MY arguement. My argument is that the functionality any "qualities" that a human can possess are determined to be inheritly useful or not by the SOCIETY it finds itself in.

Shit, polegeny in certain cultures has no place, really and is necessary in others, wanted, celebrated.



> Maybe everybody isn't meant to procreate.

If it were up to me in THIS country you'd have to have a licesnse to do it. It's too many folk procreating that don't know shit about courtship and don't have much to offer a child in terms of love, discipline, etc.

But that isn't exactly practical either.


>Maybe if every single person had the ability and desire to
>breed, this world would be in shambles, and nature is aware of
>that.


Nature is VERY aware of that.


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400. "We agree on some stuff"
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>>in social behavior?
>>What if its a nuance in biological chemistry?
>>A nuance in genetic make-up?
>
>Usually those go hand in hand. First it begins as socially
>necessary, then it graduates to becoming biologically desired
>because of the situation that brought it about which means
>that it Could in that case be evolution (in a sense) more like
>adaptation.
>
>But MY argument is that sexuality is and has been fluid from
>the begning, and that social contructs for better or for worse
>dictates how sexuality is looked up. So, where is the
>evidence that Homosexuality wasn't ALWAYS part of the genetic
>cocktail?

Oh, I feel you on this. Sexuality is indeed fluid and the boundaries between gay and straight have been invented by society. My main thing is that what we know as homosexual activity has been occurring everywhere- including Africa- for a very long time. Whether it's always been in the physiological makeup or evolved into existence, it's not an "idea" that was created in the west and forced onto Africans. Homosexuality is African simply because it is human.


>>
>>Also, is heterosexual behavior part of evolution?
>>You can play the game where homosexuality = murder, but then
>>it would just end up as homosexuality = murder =
>>heterosexuality.
>
>EXACTLY. That's my point. All those things are natural.
>Violence, war, sexuality, etc. So you can't use isolated acts
>without context to either confirm or deny it's morality. It's
>not that simple. I'm glad you see that. I wasn't sure if I
>was clear with how I put it.

Oh, well I think we were trying to establish that homosexuality is natural, not that it's moral. Many of us are saying homosexuality has naturally existed in Africa without the help of the West. But clearly everything that is natural is not moral. However, some things don't make sense to be discussed in a dialogue about morality. Homosexuality just is. It's like saying walking is immoral or opening your eyes is immoral. Sure they can be twisted into something immoral- like having homo sex with a child, or opening your eyes to spy on a girl showering. But otherwise, people force the issue of morality.

>"Harm" again, depends on the context and in what the society
>it's in accepts, and what/where/how the stimuli effect the
>people living in that time and place.

I partly agree. However, I do not believe in moral relativity; certain things like genocide and the subjugation of women and homosexuals are universally harmful.

> which only happens
>>when people have their own personal and oppressive
>vendettas.
>>
>
>Exactly. And that street goes both ways (HA!...both ways!).
>

Is there a strong history of oppressive vendettas being carried out by homosexuals against straights, though? lol
Let's be clear that the main culprits of oppression in society are heterosexual males.

>EXACTLY. and to my lesbian friends in the past say that that
>isn't "homosexuality". They say that the gay lifestyle is a
>choice- and that such things don't apply unless there is
>feeling and love invovled.
>
>But all of THAT is so complexed when you consider semantics,
>channel noise with all the implied assetions, and case by case
>situations in prisons, and rape in general, etc...

Well that's all well and good what your lesbian friends said, but I wonder what percentage of society would consider two men who have prison sex with each other to be straight.
Many DL men don't feel for or love one another, so I guess they are correct in calling themselves straight too?
I'm all for seeing sexuality as more fluid, but do you know of any straight Black men who think this way? lol

  

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401. "nah, I don't know many cats that think that way."
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Me and my old roomates used to debate that shit, and until recently (like a few years ago) I didn't come to accept that argument.

I don't think you can classify prison rape as "Gay" in the sense that we are talking about here. It's homosexual activity, yes. But it's not the same.

And to the moral question- it was something I infered from Koan's argument. Could be wrong my assumption that he was making that inference.

*shrugs*

Either way, I think that discourse like this is good. Folk gotta learn to talk shit out with respect to other's expereinces and P.O.V

It just REALLY bothered me that Koan came in here with what he always does- his psuedo high ground to "son" cats with what is either halfway thought out statements or maybe he just isn't explaining his case too well.

But he does it nearly every time a social issue comes up- he and Torez. And nearly EVERY time someone comes in and cosigns that closed ended garbage they reply with.

This TOTALLY fucks up the discourse. TOTALLY. Shit pisses me off.





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246. "uh"
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homosexuality = the buck stops here
too bad they can adopt now

  

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310. "your point being?"
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...evolution doesn't necessarily always lead to "greater productivity" or more talents/abilities or more children. it just leads where it leads. it is entirely possible that there is a genetic aspect that, when combined with the proper environmental stimuli, will give a person a greater predisposition towards members of their own sex.

...even more than that... please, read a book or something, eh? sex among primates and many other mammals is NOT solely for procreation. our closest primate relatives use sexual contact as a means of cementing social relationships, as a greeting, as a means of easing tension, as a bartering chip, and as plain old recreation.

...just because it leads to no or fewer babies doesn't mean there isn't an evolutionary/genetic component. christ, man, don't talk about topics you obviously know squat about.

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80. "lol @ you being proud of openly being a lesbian in america"
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like you wouldnt be beat over the head with a broom back in kenya.

  

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110. "that's what making me crack up over here..."
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her life in Kenya would be on some clandestine shit, or one of her chi chi friends on OKP gonna be putting up a RIP post on here...




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114. "what's funny is that you act like that couldn't happen here"
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Homophobia is alive and rampant across the globe. I have many friends who are paranoid and cautious about their lives because they love someone of the same form as them.


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121. "right?"
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>Homophobia is alive and rampant across the globe. I have many
>friends who are paranoid and cautious about their lives
>because they love someone of the same form as them.

Folks acting like hate crimes cease to exist in America.

lol.

backwards.


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125. "put things in perspective please..."
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gay pride marches all over the Western world.

I have yet to hear of one in Ghana...




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131. "but what does that mean exactly?"
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So there are no gay marches and Africa. So what? What does that mean?

If you believe in All-That-Is (the most High, God, yada yada) you would know that All-That-Is is All-That-Is. Humans aren't "inventing" anything. It's all from the same source. And it's people with little minds like you that are the reasons there are wars and suffering. You really believe that with your limited human reasoning that your divisions are valid and true. Welp, they're not.

Anyway, LET LOVE PREVAIL!!

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148. "oh, im glad you know about me, fam."
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and you know so much about the cities i grew up in.

because yes i plan on being openly lesbian in kenya.
i know i can live in nairobi (come up with an article of a chi chi burning in nairobi and we can talk)
i know there are openly gay parts of mombasa and malindi.

so please, miss me with all this.

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186. "we ain't fam... me nah keep chi chi friend... n/m"
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195. "semantics is your best recourse? how disappointing."
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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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115. "Exactly ock."
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139. "oh so you want to say there are no lesbians/gay folks in kenya?"
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like, you really want to make that claim?

because i know for certain that you are wrong.

and another thing, homophobia is universal.
so i dont *quite understand what your claim is.
does it invalidate anything I said or Olu said?
and..... who's gon beat me with a broom, again?


come better than that.
i have too many african homosexual friends (some of whom are doing lbgtq work in southafrica, uganda, tanzania and trying to get it started in kenya) to claim bullshit like this.



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228. "lol"
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53. "RE: 'homosexuality is un-african' revisited"
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Indeed...

We should also keep in mind that homosexuality has at points been an abomination in Europe and America. Now of course we wouldn't use that argument to say it was un-American (even though that argument has been used).

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59. "Bwhahahahahahahahahaha"
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You should just do a 'Michael Jackson', you'll be much happier...





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64. "Africans what is our beef with afrocentric folks?"
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>3. Pseudo 'African' scholars
>The most amusing group of them all. People who got 'conscious'
>one day, grew dreads and changed their names to something
>vaguely 'authentic' sounding like Asante or, even worse,
>Hotep. Most of them haven't spent more than six weeks of their
>lives on the continent and got all their information about
>Africa from a self published pamphlet they bought on the
>corner across from where they live. If we're truly lucky they
>know who Diop is and can name an African city outside of
>Egypt. Again, I choose to ignore them off GP
>

funny story - my fam was going to move to the states in the early 90s, but pops happened to be in San Fran and saw two men kissing in public!! and decided that we needed to finish highschool in naij...lol


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75. "exactly. these OKP's ain't no real Africans,"
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What african vouches for faggotry? My pops don't, I don't, my grandparents don't.


None of my friends do!


I think Olu's tryna tell us summin!


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93. "RE: exactly. these OKP's ain't no real Africans,"
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i dunno about the "real africans" but apart from posting for replies I don't quite get what the posts point is.


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170. "faggotry?????"
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are you fucking serious???

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102. "cuz afrocentrism is a false attempt @ reclaiming a lost heritage"
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Af-Americans feel they have lost thru the slave trade or westernization. its actually disgusitng if you ask me.

boho mofos rockin dashikis in public or worse yet when they trying to skool you on YOUR OWN culture/beliefs.

  

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112. "what's funny is the average af. american don't want SHIT to do with"
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africans and try hard as shit to distance themselves from africans
yet when some of us are NICE enough to claim yall we get shitted on

  

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128. "most Africans in America don't want shit to do wit Africa!!!!"
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My dad is REPUBLICAN!!!!


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144. "AND THAT IS THE TRUTH!!!"
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152. "wait! mimicking our culture/beliefs is being 'nice' to us now??!!! LOL"
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the issue at hand is the overzealous fascination with a perceived ideal of what yall envision Afrika/ Afrikans to be.

while yall may think rockin that dashiki keeps you somehow connected to the motherland, in reality it just reeks of desperation and is actually a fetish disguised as "worldliness."

even more laughable is that the REAL Afrikans yall tryna copy dont even hold these ideals, yall desperately cling to.


>africans and try hard as shit to distance themselves from
>africans
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162. "How do you mimic yourself?"
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Whats really funny is niggas in the middle of Nigeria copying off of British with white wigs and robes and shit.

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245. "Hehehehehehehe"
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>Whats really funny is niggas in the middle of Nigeria copying
>off of British with white wigs and robes and shit.

I saw the judge in Malawi and thought 'wtf?'. White wig was on all crooked and ish.

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365. "get over yourself man"
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don't be so stupid
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126. "hold on, dashikis? thats some akata shit...STAY AWAY!"
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afros? thats us
while you @ it...i need ya'll to stop pumping tupac & walking around in Black Bart Simpson tshirts

THATS US - that old rap group


'sorry, haters...God aint done with me yet.' - alcee hastings

  

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melmag
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138. "again. take out the cool-jive element implied with being Af-Am"
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then what have you?????

sure we pump that Pac shit & rock yalls styles, but trust we aint tryna be in your situation bruh. sorry


>afros? thats us
>while you @ it...i need ya'll to stop pumping tupac & walking
>around in Black Bart Simpson tshirts
>

  

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192. "lol...you sound exactly like a cracker"
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except we LOOK exactly the same
that fascinates me...seriously
then what have us?!!???
HERE'S WHAT THEY THINK ABOUT YOU & shit
nigga, the u.s. wouldn't be an nth as appealing as it is to all immigrants
let alone black immigrants
were it not for Black ppl
the whole civil rights movement...dismantling of jim crow
fuck outta here



>then what have you?????
>
>sure we pump that Pac shit & rock yalls styles, but trust we
>aint tryna be in your situation bruh. sorry
>
>
>>afros? thats us
>>while you @ it...i need ya'll to stop pumping tupac &
>walking
>>around in Black Bart Simpson tshirts
>>
>


________________
if
maybe
probably

  

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237. "Agreed n/m"
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***************************************
<- Obama '08

www.myspace.com/janetkumah - ftw, she's that good

  

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239. "RE: again. take out the cool-jive element implied with being Af-Am"
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>sure we pump that Pac shit & rock yalls styles, but trust we aint tryna be in your situation bruh. sorry

LMAO---Yeah, you aren't influenced by AAs--I guess that's why the above sentence is *full* of African-American slang! *SMH*

Everybody wants to take our stuff, and then turn right around and crap on us....

This cat tries to distance himself, and in the same breath he's talkin about 'bruh', and 'ain't tryna be'...

GTFOH...

  

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108. "the beef is with dumbasses who read one book"
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and then start claiming to know more about my people than I do.

People who are genuinely curious and interested are a pleasure to talk to. They make me happy.

I run into too many people who picked their new name off a pamphlet somewhere, grew their hair out, still don't know shit about anything but have now magically reached 'consciousness'. They annoy me.

And then there's the group who only learn Egypt because the fact that white people want it so badly means it must have some value. They irritate me because their stance inherently devalues everything else because white people aren't running to put their faces on it

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134. "BINGO!"
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lol @ mofos pickin names outta books
again these boho mofos are at best, laughable.


>and then start claiming to know more about my people than I
>do.
>
>People who are genuinely curious and interested are a pleasure
>to talk to. They make me happy.
>
>I run into too many people who picked their new name off a
>pamphlet somewhere, grew their hair out, still don't know shit
>about anything but have now magically reached 'consciousness'.
>They annoy me.
>
>And then there's the group who only learn Egypt because the
>fact that white people want it so badly means it must have
>some value. They irritate me because their stance inherently
>devalues everything else because white people aren't running
>to put their faces on it

  

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76. "i'm just fascinated"
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by how quickly this post (and almost all posts about the gays) jumped in number so quickly...

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87. "and so early in the morning."
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89. "you dont see familiar posters here?"
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Mon Dec-04-06 10:53 AM by akon

  

          

its like regular clockwork, y'know.

folks cant hardly wait to get their homophobia on, even without having a logical contra argument.

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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98. "umm"
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>logical

^^ what does that word mean? cuz if it means what i *think* it means, i don't think there can be a contra argument that *is* "logical"...

and...oh...hey boo! how are you? been a while...

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105. "hating homosexuals != homophobia"
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sorry

  

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116. "i l l o g i c a l"
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http://www.m-w.com/dictionary/illogical

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213. "hate fear connection"
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Hate is the consequence of fear; we fear something before we hate it; a child who fears noises becomes a man who hates noise.
Cyril Connoly


ya'll need to let the anus breath a bit
not clench up so tight
to be that constipated can't be healthy
~~~~~~~~
I would rather maim than kill
Hurt than maim
Intimidate than hurt
Avoid than intimidate.
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119. "you are a usual suspect too, so STFU n/m"
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http://www.imagestation.com/album/pictures.html?id=2115026546


"...a man straddling two cultures is rarely well seated..."

Albert Memmi
The Colonizer and the Colonized

  

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160. "this post is about me, fam. homosexual? check. african? check."
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what's your stake in it, again?

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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161. "closet case with bisexual tendencies."
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SIG CORNER

We are the miracle of force and matter making itself over into imagination and will. Incredible. The Life Force experimenting with forms. You for one. Me for another. The Universe has shouted itself alive. We are one of the shouts. - Ray Bradb

  

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225. "lol exactly, yet he will always be in post like these"
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i dont get it

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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242. "there you is!"
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now lemme find goldmind
i wondered where ya'll were
~~~~~~~~
I would rather maim than kill
Hurt than maim
Intimidate than hurt
Avoid than intimidate.
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275. "oh i was over these types of post in early 05"
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ill let yall str8s debate my sexuality and its clash with my ethnic identity lol

i gives about two shits about these nutzo opinions, its just funny that its always the sameeeeeeee ppl

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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94. "If white ppl didn't invade our continent...."
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where do you think we'd be right now?

wah?!?!?!

  

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135. "Honestly, I ask myself that question a lot"
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and I wish we'd had a chance to find out.

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136. "huh?"
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"WE" probably wouldn't be anywhere, we wouldn't exist. But i think that people were living just fine before colonization and they would continue to live just fine without it.

  

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95. "RE: 'homosexuality is un-african' revisited"
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i heard this too by africans, i thought that because homosexuality is a recessive trait, that it would be found in in people that had more recessive traits, ie white people.

  

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103. "wow...ok i'm done with this post...lol"
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157. "RE: 'homosexuality is un-african' revisited"
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>i heard this too by africans, i thought that because
>homosexuality is a recessive trait, that it would be found in
>in people that had more recessive traits, ie white people.

LMAO

-------------------
Apocalypso
Olympian
.
1st Letter
like Paul
to Corinthians
.
Better warn thee
I'm inchin' in
.
Flank hard
like Pawnee
on Englishmen

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96. "WRONG post!!!"
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106. "dude"
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you clenchin anuses
you know how dudes get about this topic
shoot
they'll challenge you and your africaness
next thing they'll ask you to whip it out
and prove your a man
*waits*
~~~~~~~~
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Hurt than maim
Intimidate than hurt
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145. "I'm sure they'll want to touch it too"
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just to be certain, of course

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118. "I'ma still spit on taints, so whatev yo..."
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it takes a muscle.

  

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130. "lmfao"
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____

automatic systematic.

  

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137. "eeww. . ."
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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage ~ ANAIS NIN

  

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122. "my pops aint encountered homo-ness til he studied in germany"
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in the early seventies. he had a a white friend who would routinely go outta his way to please my dad, and just make everything comfortable for him during his stay in a student hostel.

unbeknowest to ol naive dad, dude was actually propositioninng him for a sexual relationship. pops was initially touched by the compassion dude was showing and he was starting to regret having preceonceived notions on the white man, but finally dude got so frustrated at pops cus he wasnt reciprocating the love...lololol

  

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156. "*dead*"
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He didn't go to boarding school though?

never saw two men holding hands just a tad *too* closely?

We blur gender lines a lot more than they do in Europe and the US (e.g. university students running around in dresses and padded bras at damn near any celebration)

it allows a lot of shit to exist in plain view.

Shit, when I was growing up two men could have shared a room with only one bed in it and noone would have said anything

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159. "I learned this recently...."
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>We blur gender lines a lot more than they do in Europe and the
>US (e.g. university students running around in dresses and
>padded bras at damn near any celebration)
>
>it allows a lot of shit to exist in plain view.
>
>Shit, when I was growing up two men could have shared a room
>with only one bed in it and noone would have said anything

In Kenya and Uganda, for example, it was nothing to go into a nite-club and see two heterosexual men holding hands, dancing with one another in a fashion that would rarely, if ever, be seen from two heterosexual men in the US/Europe...yet these aren't considered homosexual traits...

it was commonplace to walk down the street and see two men holding each other's arms...but nobody was running around on some 'NO HOMO!' self-conscious tip.

-------------------
Apocalypso
Olympian
.
1st Letter
like Paul
to Corinthians
.
Better warn thee
I'm inchin' in
.
Flank hard
like Pawnee
on Englishmen

(12-8-6)

  

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168. "which is further proof that faggotry is virtually alien to Afrikans"
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my first trip back to Naija, i was BEWILDERED at heterosexual men holding hands casuallyand just being overly friendly with each other. their sense of comraderie/friendship was sumthing that was completely lost to me.

thru my westernized lens, i had inadvetently learned the ways of the white men. i felt a sense of guilt in pre-judging noble men in their daily living ways.

>In Kenya and Uganda, for example, it was nothing to go into a
>nite-club and see two heterosexual men holding hands, dancing
>with one another in a fashion that would rarely, if ever, be
>seen from two heterosexual men in the US/Europe...yet these
>aren't considered homosexual traits...
>
>it was commonplace to walk down the street and see two men
>holding each other's arms...but nobody was running around on
>some 'NO HOMO!' self-conscious tip.
>

  

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174. "RE: which is further proof that faggotry is virtually alien to Afrikans"
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>my first trip back to Naija, i was BEWILDERED at heterosexual
>men holding hands casuallyand just being overly friendly with
>each other. their sense of comraderie/friendship was sumthing
>that was completely lost to me.
>
>thru my westernized lens, i had inadvetently learned the ways
>of the white men. i felt a sense of guilt in pre-judging noble
>men in their daily living ways.

..and how would your opinion of these men change if you found out some of them who were displaying their sense of comraderie/friendship actually *were* homosexual/bisexual? Would they still be noble?


-------------------
Apocalypso
Olympian
.
1st Letter
like Paul
to Corinthians
.
Better warn thee
I'm inchin' in
.
Flank hard
like Pawnee
on Englishmen

(12-8-6)

  

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274. "RE: which is further proof that faggotry is virtually alien to Afrikans"
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then apparently, my perception about them being noble was obviously wrong. but what thats gotta do with anything though?


>..and how would your opinion of these men change if you found
>out some of them who were displaying their sense of
>comraderie/friendship actually *were* homosexual/bisexual?
>Would they still be noble?
>

  

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314. "RE: which is further proof that faggotry is virtually alien to Afrikans"
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>then apparently, my perception about them being noble was
>obviously wrong. but what thats gotta do with anything
>though?

it has to do with everything....that being, that for you one's sexual orientation determines whether or not they are 'noble'...despite whatever contributions they make to their society/culture...the fact that they fall in love/have sex with people of their own gender discounts them as being a noble human being (or perhaps even human, to some of you)

archaic thinking, and not in a good way.


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gimme that wealth, yea
.
work ya whole day away
can't afford health-care
.
civilians runnin'
endangered welfare
.
District immigrant
pull out in Southeast
.
wild wizardry
spills out the mouthpiece
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169. "its one of the things I find funny"
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about the 'I've never seen a homo before' crew.

They probably had, they just had no sense of it being outside of the norm

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172. "RE: its one of the things I find funny"
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>about the 'I've never seen a homo before' crew.
>
>They probably had, they just had no sense of it being outside
>of the norm

-nods-

...but they know everything there is to know about everything, so...

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Apocalypso
Olympian
.
1st Letter
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Better warn thee
I'm inchin' in
.
Flank hard
like Pawnee
on Englishmen

(12-8-6)

  

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175. "fam, my best friend and i used to walk"
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down the streets of nairobi holding each other by the waist.
i was in high school when the modus operandi of two girls greeting each other was kissing each other full on the lips.
any clubs i went to in nairobi, i danced with females. and not on some we platonic bullshit
i can show you clubs where you will find very flaming gay boys.
i know of a gay club that's not in the city (as you'd expect),
its in the outskirts of nairobi


yet mofos here want to talk about my being beaten by a broom.
i can be more openly 'lesbian' in nairobi than i can be, here.
shit..... even in the village.
nobody's gonna bat an eyelid to see me share a bed with a female.
shit, my best friend and i always slept in the same bed,
i aint hear shit about it from her moms
i think mofos confused as shit.

and any grown man that went through a colonised education system went to boarding school and fo sure we wont even start with the homo stories that stemmed from all boys and all girls living situations.

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179. "they are not listening/learning, though."
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Mon Dec-04-06 01:08 PM by Vex_id

          

>down the streets of nairobi holding each other by the waist.
>i was in high school when the modus operandi of two girls
>greeting each other was kissing each other full on the lips.
>any clubs i went to in nairobi, i danced with females. and not
>on some we platonic bullshit
>i can show you clubs where you will find very flaming gay
>boys.
>i know of a gay club that's not in the city (as you'd expect),
>
>its in the outskirts of nairobi

^^^

>yet mofos here want to talk about my being beaten by a broom.
>i can be more openly 'lesbian' in nairobi than i can be,
>here.
>shit..... even in the village.
>nobody's gonna bat an eyelid to see me sleep with a female.
>shit, my best friend and i always slept in the same bed,
>i aint hear shit about it from her moms

you know...interestingly enough, there are a number of 'gays and lesbians' in Bondo, Kenya where my girl lives and they speak pretty openly about it w/ Devin and others in the village...in fact, when I was there during one of Devin's weekly social conferences, we spent over an hour discussing homosexuality as it exists in the West vs. homosexuality in Kenya...more on what Olu said...i think in Kenya (at least in my experiences), people will see two gay people but it's not this huge ordeal..they may not even realize they are homosexual..they may not care....it doesn't seem to be as taboo or outside of what their identity/self-definition, and rightfully so...them being gay does not alter the fact they are who they are...Kenyan nationals and East Africans.

(i'm not saying that horrendous hate crimes don't exist...they do...but there is certainly a difference in how 'gay' is projected)

>i think mofos confused as shit.

very.


>and any grown man that went through a colonised education
>system went to boarding school and fo sure we wont even start
>with the homo stories that stemmed from all boys and all girls
>living situations.

well guess what...if you don't know about a particular region..you have to learn and open your mind/ears/eyes...and you have to learn from people actually *from* that particular region to know such things...people get offended that they have to be educated from others...fucking ridiculous.

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325. "vex, i appreciate your input, mayne"
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fuck any motherfucker that wants to lay claim on their right tospeak about africans and disengage yours. especially over some black?Black shit. motherfukcers got me so pissed the fuck off i swear im about to curse someone a new asshole.

and i aint even trying to makemy online shit be about some bull. i want to engage folks that engage me on some respect shit.
anyone else can kiss my ass and my lifestyle.

but...
you are right. the lines are a bit more blurred than we like to admit.
i went to highschool in nairobi, but i know them village girls be one upping me when it comes to samesexbullandshit. cause we hear the stories. we want to turna blind eye to it or whatever, and now that we want to embrace western bullshit we might embrace the hatefulness and spite..... but i really want to know about what happens in the everydays. how do the villagers react. cause for damn sure i know they might shake theirhead but aint nobody trying to lace a mofo for what they do behind closed doors.

if devin is still in kenya when i go in august, im gonna take that boat ride to bondo. cause i want to meet her and tell her she's one lucky motherfucker to have you. and that's that respect im talking about.

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338. "it would be really dope if you could make it to Bondo...."
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She will be there until August '07, so let me know if you can make it there within that time frame...

I'd love for y'all to meet and build with each other.

...and thank you for the good words.

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326. "vex, i appreciate your input, mayne"
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fuck any motherfucker that wants to lay claim on their right tospeak about africans and disengage yours. especially over some black?Black shit. motherfukcers got me so pissed the fuck off i swear im about to curse someone a new asshole.

and i aint even trying to makemy online shit be about some bull. i want to engage folks that engage me on some respect shit.
anyone else can kiss my ass and my lifestyle.

but...
you are right. the lines are a bit more blurred than we like to admit.
i went to highschool in nairobi, but i know them village girls be one upping me when it comes to samesexbullandshit. cause we hear the stories. we want to turna blind eye to it or whatever, and now that we want to embrace western bullshit we might embrace the hatefulness and spite..... but i really want to know about what happens in the everydays. how do the villagers react. cause for damn sure i know they might shake theirhead but aint nobody trying to lace a mofo for what they do behind closed doors.

if devin is still in kenya when i go in august, im gonna take that boat ride to bondo. cause i want to meet her and tell her she's one lucky motherfucker to have you. and that's that respect im talking about.

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http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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219. "RE: fam, my best friend and i used to walk"
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you talked way different in the GayMarriage/South Africa post. but im not kenyan, you know your home...im just making an observation.

  

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251. "you need to leave me the fuck alone."
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dont watch me watch t.v or some other shit.

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256. "^^^M.A.D."
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get 20% off @ karmaloop w/ rep code JR9103

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260. "no but i do need you to leave AKON the fuck alone"
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http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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352. "RE: fam, my best friend and i used to walk"
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>and any grown man that went through a colonised education
>system went to boarding school and fo sure we wont even start
>with the homo stories that stemmed from all boys and all girls
>living situations.

You are speaking about me here. I went to boarding school in Thika. I knew a ton of guys that were gay. We all knew them. It happened, and it was normal. I find it really silly to see these armchair experts on African sexuality argue with those of us who are from the situation first hand.Achana na hawa mafala jo!

  

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354. "konnex, ndugu, habari gani, jo? umepotea big time."
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unaona hawa wafala, lakini? ni kama hawana akili.
kuma za mamazao na nyanyazao

ulienda chuo gani? nilikuwa PB (precious blood) riruta.
unajua tulikuwa na reputation, eh?

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385. "You went to school in Thika? That's my shaggz"
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389. "wacha nisikie kuna wakikuyu hapa"
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ey yo, tafadhali zungumza juu ya hizo ujinga za kubleach.


natyareu

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153. "Folk in here calling Pan-Africans not from the continent"
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non Africans is pissin me off.

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164. "its as much of a semantic thing as bin's definition of 'Black'"
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and just like he's entitled to his opinion on the use of that word, they're entitled to their opinions on the use of 'African'

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167. "Self hate is everywhere"
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niggas on the continent suffer from the same white man ice is colder mentality and small world my culture is individual and not connected to others mentality.

Niggas think small individual and petty.

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226. "most of the brothas and sistas born/raised on the continent in"
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this post are simply asserting that they have a closer proximity to that experience and that part of the diaspora than the rest of us

same could be said if some one from alaska, who had never been to the A, was trying to tell u shit about the A that was not part of ur experience as a resident

i mean look at ur "allies" in this post, what would be Angelo's reaction if i came in here and started telling him what was what about Jamaica, or even telling u that for that matter

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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232. "man, i married 1! i tried to tell you"
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akata. kaffir. whatever.

truth stings like a mugg dont it


'sorry, haters...God aint done with me yet.' - alcee hastings

  

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243. "RE: Folk in here calling Pan-Africans not from the continent"
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>non Africans is pissin me off.

But brother, don't you see that comments such as this help to show why much of Africa is fucked today (and has been for 500 years)?

They don't even acknowledge the vast majority of their diaspora...and it is to their detriment, whether they are willing to admit it or not.

You won't hear these kinds of things coming from Chinese or Jews who live in the homeland about *their* diasporas--because they understand the benefit that their worldwide diaspora brings to the homeland.

Everybody who has thought about it for a minute can see that this attitude was the key to the success of the Slave Trade itself. Cats just sold us out, and wrote us off--and it's the same old song today.

  

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252. "miss me with this bullshit."
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http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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254. "It's bullshit? Not really...."
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I see you have no response...the truth hurts (LOL)

>>But brother, don't you see that comments such as this help to show why much of Africa is fucked today (and has been for 500 years)?

They don't even acknowledge the vast majority of their diaspora...

**and it is to their detriment, whether they are willing to admit it or not.**

You won't hear these kinds of things coming from Chinese or Jews who live in the homeland about *their* diasporas--because they understand the benefit that their worldwide diaspora brings to the homeland.

Everybody who has thought about it for a minute can see that this attitude was the key to the success of the Slave Trade itself. Cats just sold us out, and wrote us off--and it's the same old song today.

  

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261. "im pretty loquacious....... i just dont care enough"
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or give a shit about your opinion to engage

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267. "Oh yeah, I forgot...you're 'better than me', right? (LOL)"
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Just proves my point

If you can't think of a response, stay away from the 'reply' button...

  

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324. "no, i just dont give two shits to engage you in any kind of convo"
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if you feel that means i'm better than you, i'll be that.

but im not gonna waste my type explicating shit to anyone who feels like they know what africans are about or whatever.

take your insecurities elsewhere.

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339. "Wow, I'm just *devastated* by your argument....(not)"
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I know that there is a *reason* why Africans are so full of negative opinions about AAs, when, no matter how you want to spin it, we are *not* to blame for all of that trouble going on over there.

To hear some of these Africans talk, you would think that *we* were over there robbing them blind and pitting them against each other, instead of the White man. Talk about confused...

I stated my belief about why this goes on, based on comparing Africans to other groups with diasporic communities who would never, *ever*, badmouth people from their group in this way.

As it happens, many of these aforementioned groups are *much* more successful than black people worldwide (AA, African, Caribbean, whatever)--and this is not a coincidence.

You made *no* effort to answer my argument--you just used some curse words, and said that you wouldn't even engage the question.

This is commonly known as a cop-out....

As far as who is 'better' than whom...well, I think the nature of your response answers that question definitively.

I don't need to curse at you, or try to come off like some internet hip-hop toughguy, because you clearly can't contend with what I said.

  

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357. "you are reaching like a motherfucker."
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nobody said shit about pan africans (whatever the fuck that word means) were not africans except you and firebrand
and it wasn't an african that brought up that B/black debate a few weeks ago

i guess you are reacting to, 'lol at non africans telling africans about africa'.
which is a valid observation to make
cause how the hell you gon tell me about my fucking neighbourhood where you aint even been? or correct me like i dont know what the fuck im talking about.

but instead your in here assuming shit about how *i or others feel about african americans. where the ckuf did you get that? tuck in your issues bro. your insecurities are showing.

how the fuck do you know what *my opinion is?
and miss me with that bullshit assumption you made about why africa is fucked up (and has been for 500 years or whatever it is you said).
who the fuck put any blame on anyone? i didn't. you are the one over here making up shit about we blame AA's (lol please).
reading is fundamental. grab a book or someshit. back pedal and read up on some of the shit that's been written in this post.

it's been african americans blatantly telling africans that they are not african or whatever. (i've been told im non african) so miss me with this woe is me self pitying nihilistic bullshit. how the fuck you know how chinese and *others treat/talk about/to each other. self hate is a bitch, bro. dont look down on your people on some half baked assumptions.

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>I stated my belief about why this goes on, based on comparing
>Africans to other groups with diasporic communities who would
>never, *ever*, badmouth people from their group in this way.
>
>As it happens, many of these aforementioned groups are *much*
>more successful than black people worldwide (AA, African,
>Caribbean, whatever)--and this is not a coincidence.
>

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396. "RE: you are reaching like a motherfucker."
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Wed Dec-06-06 11:51 PM by Wisdom9

          

If *I'm* the one that is 'reaching' why is it that *you* are the one catching feelings behind our exchange? *chuckles*

>>nobody said shit about pan africans (whatever the fuck that word means) were not africans except you and firebrand and it wasn't an african that brought up that B/black debate a few weeks ago

I never used the term 'pan-african', and I haven't read the debate from a few weeks ago that you refer to, so that has nothing to do with anything.

I responded to firebrand's post, and I was referring to the lack of the conception of diaspora that exists among African descendants worldwide.

You (and other Africans) can express contempt for the conception of worldwide cooperation amongst African descendants if you want, but *all* of the groups that are successful in the world today *are* cooperating in this manner. The groups that do not have these kinds of networks are the ones on the bottom--period.

>>i guess you are reacting to, 'lol at non africans telling africans about africa'.
which is a valid observation to make cause how the hell you gon tell me about my fucking neighbourhood where you aint even been? or correct me like i dont know what the fuck im talking about.

You need to save all of the cursing and the hip-hop tough-guy routine for somebody else. It just makes you sound inarticulate, in this context.

I was not reacting to any 'telling Africans about Africa' post. I was making a specific argument about the fact that Africans are cutting their own throats when they reject the notion of cooperating with diasporic African descendants, because this kind of cooperation could really help to turn things around in Africa, as well as in the diaspora.

There is a *lot* of money changing hands amongst African descendants worldwide, but Africa sees almost none of it--because there is no *network* of African descendants that is similar to the networks that exist amongst the Jews or Chinese, for example.

In connection with this I would recommend a book called 'Tribes' by Joel Kotkin. It deals in depth with many of the points I am discussing here.

>>but instead your in here assuming shit about how *i or others feel about african americans. where the ckuf did you get that? tuck in your issues bro. your insecurities are showing.

Nope. I am not assuming anything about you or anybody else on here. I am basing my comments on personal experiences I have had where I have encountered what I can only call straight-up hatred from Africans in the States--for no apparent reason.

I have also heard many horror stories from sincere black Americans who have tried to deal with Africans, either in the States or in Africa itself, only to be insulted, and told that they are 'not African', 'Cotton-Pickers', etc.. The AAs in question are respectful, sincere people--not rude or ignorant--and they were treated with blatant prejudice and hostility. I have heard these stories over and over, and it puzzled me.

I started to wonder: why would so many Africans (even those who have never visited America, from what I understand) be so hostile to AAs? After all, AAs haven't done anything to *them*--so why the hate? Eventually, I realized that this is probably because Africans don't have the same concept of diaspora that other groups have--otherwise they would see that this kind of extreme hateful attitude is counterproductive.

>>how the fuck do you know what *my opinion is?

I said nothing whatsoever about *your* opinion. Can you find where I used the word 'Akon' in any of my posts?

>>and miss me with that bullshit assumption you made about why africa is fucked up (and has been for 500 years or whatever it is you said).

Africa is the most troubled region of the world (which is saying something, in *this* world); this is not really subject to debate. This has been the case for at least 500 years--from the time of the Arab, and later the European Slave Trades. As you know, after that came colonialism, neo-colonialism, etc. Africa as a region has never really recovered from the damage done during that period. You're catching feelings, but my statement is based on facts.

Part of the reason why there is such severe suffering in Africa has to do with the fragmented ethnic/'tribal' nature of many African societies: people identify with their ethnic/language group *primarily*--moreso than with their nation or their region.

This is very, very different from European societies, for example, which have not had 'tribes'--each with its own separate language, religion, culture, law, philosophy, etc.--for 1500 years. European nation-states are largely unified in terms of the general culture, which allows them to work *together* much more effectively--particularly in terms of uniting against threats coming from outside sources.

It is this ethnic/'tribal' division in Africa that enabled the Europeans to get Africans to assist them in selling millions of Africans (from other tribes/ethnic groups) into slavery, and enables modern-day foreign Neo-Colonialists to pit Africans against one another (see Dem. Repub. of Congo, etc.) for the benefit of the foreigners.

History shows that if your society is heavily fragmented along ethnic/'tribal'/religious/cultural lines, you *will* be dominated by outsiders who are *not* divided amongst themselves in this way. This clearly occurred in Africa, as well as in pre-Columbian America, over the last 500 years.

>>who the fuck put any blame on anyone? i didn't. you are the one over here making up shit about we blame AA's (lol please). reading is fundamental.

If you read what I actually *wrote*, I did not make the *literal* claim that Africans blamed AAs for anything. I said that, in my experience, the hate and hostility is so thick, you would almost *think* that they blame AAs for something. The point I was making is that there is no reason I can see for Africans to have the kind of rank hostility for AAs that so many seem to have. Reading is, indeed, fundamental--you should try it sometime.

>>it's been african americans blatantly telling africans that they are not african or whatever. (i've been told im non african)

This has nothing to do with anything that I have written. You need to get your emotions in check--you're bringing up things that are irrelevant.

>>so miss me with this woe is me self pitying nihilistic bullshit.

Nobody said anything about 'woe is me' (LOL). You catch feelings when people comment on Africa, but *you* want to come across with these hostile, stereotypical comments about AAs. You can't have it both ways.

>>how the fuck you know how chinese and *others treat/talk about/to each other.

It is common knowledge, and a matter of historical fact, that Jews, Chinese, Koreans, Iranians, Indians, etc. have extensive worldwide diasporic networks that function in the areas of culture, economics, and politics. No matter where they are in the world, many of the people in these groups think of themselves as 'one people'.

These peoples/nations work together in many different ways, and above all, they do *not* sell each other out to outsiders--which has been Africa's biggest problem over the last 500 years.

>>self hate is a bitch, bro.

I don't hate myself, I don't hate you, and I don't hate Africans.

If Africans don't think that AAs have any relation to them, how can me commenting on Africa be 'self-hate'? You are contradicting yourself.

>>dont look down on your people on some half baked assumptions.

I don't 'look down' on anybody--and as far as the 'your own people' comment, the whole point of this particular discussion is that many Africans do *not* view themselves as 'one people' with other African descendants--and that this is a huge part of Africa's problem as a region.

As far as all the feelings you are catching, please remember that *you* responded to *my* post. If you want to engage me in a discussion, you are going to have to come with something better than 'F---- You!'--or you might as well stay away from the 'reply' button.

You're seriously barking up the wrong tree with all of that cursing--and then catching feelings when I don't back down. Try making an actual counter-argument next time--it would be much more effective.

  

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410. "tuck in your issues bro. your insecurities are showing."
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>You need to save all of the cursing and the hip-hop tough-guy
>routine for somebody else. It just makes you sound
>inarticulate, in this context.

Whatever. I will speak/ write however the fuck I want to.

>There is a *lot* of money changing hands amongst African
>descendants worldwide, but Africa sees almost none of
>it--because there is no *network* of African descendants that
>is similar to the networks that exist amongst the Jews or
>Chinese, for example.

What is this Chinese network you speak of?
what is this money changing hands you speak of. i need some concrete examples of this big money changing hands amongst african descendents worldwide.

>
>In connection with this I would recommend a book called
>'Tribes' by Joel Kotkin. It deals in depth with many of the
>points I am discussing here.

I’ll look it up.

>Nope. I am not assuming anything about you or anybody else on
>here. I am basing my comments on personal experiences I have
>had where I have encountered what I can only call straight-up
>hatred from Africans in the States--for no apparent reason.

You are acting like AAs be running to Africans with open arms. This is a two sided street. It happens on both sides of the fence. But it doesn’t happen with every African or every African American. It certainly does not happen with most of the okafricans in this post. None of us has questioned anybody’s right to speak. All we question is their right to question *our authenticity, under a veil, of, im black so I can tell you about your home/culture. Don’t act like African Americans don’t have choice names for Africans as well. This woe is me shit is not at all cute.

>I started to wonder: why would so many Africans (even those
>who have never visited America, from what I understand) be so
>hostile to AAs?

Clearly you haven’t been to any African country. Because that hostility doesn’t creep in until *after Africans come to the states. But go to any African country, and you see nothing but much love for African American culture and in extent African americans… I know this, i've been there..... i see it...

and I also have some idea *how the disrespect creeps in because I’ve been there and i've seen it too.

But I have not anywhere in this post mentioned any kind of hatred toward anybody except to motherfuckers trying to disrespect me.
This is why im saying *you are reaching. Show me 1 post in which I have this 'hostility' to AA's. Shit this post is talking about homos and African culture but you are bringing up something totally unrelated and don’t consider that reaching?


But you are right. We got nothing to say to each other. Keep on keeping on with your half baked assumptions.

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http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
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308. "you took the words right outta my mouth"
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>But brother, don't you see that comments such as this help to
>show why much of Africa is fucked today (and has been for 500
>years)?
>
>They don't even acknowledge the vast majority of their
>diaspora...and it is to their detriment, whether they are
>willing to admit it or not.
>
>You won't hear these kinds of things coming from Chinese or
>Jews who live in the homeland about *their* diasporas--because
>they understand the benefit that their worldwide diaspora
>brings to the homeland.
>
>Everybody who has thought about it for a minute can see that
>this attitude was the key to the success of the Slave Trade
>itself. Cats just sold us out, and wrote us off--and it's the
>same old song today.


There is nothing like going to the continent for the first time and being called akata or obruni. The shit hits you right in the chest. I learned that you can't look to continental Africans for cultural reassurance because their just as screwed up as those of us in the Diaspora.

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340. "RE: you took the words right outta my mouth"
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>>I learned that you can't look to continental Africans for cultural reassurance because their just as screwed up as those of us in the Diaspora.

....Quiet as it's kept sis, quiet as it's kept.

The only quarrel I have with US-based 'African-Centered' people is that, in their rants about the 'wicked' White man and slavery, they tend to skim over the fact that there is a *reason* why the White man went to Africa to get the majority of his slaves, and not some other part of the world.

Europeans quickly picked up on the fact that Africa had specific internal weaknesses that would allow Europeans to steal massive amounts of human beings and resources.

The self-same *internal* weaknesses in African societies that opened the door for the Slave Trade and Colonialism continue to enable the neo-colonialists to rape the continent today.

I don't understand why more black people don't realize that other groups do *not* crap on each other and sell each other out in the way that black people do.

Until blacks learn that they need to stop this behavior, they will *stay* on the bottom in the world---*period*, end of story.

  

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158. "Cheikh Anta Diop"
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They cannot even try to say his name right ....
But the reality is, it is easy to point the finger when they deem something as a "problem." They only see a vainglorious past where we are all subjects of the Kings, sissssssssssssssssssssy!!!!

Yo, I love the way I am and can’t nobody out here change me
Rearrange me, tame me, try to game me, you don’t play me
When I grab the mic then shock the party spot
Your rhymes are flip-flop, I’ll rock, hip-hop
Non-stop, me nah stop rock
You can touch

  

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163. "*orders white women for everyone in post*"
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y'all all need to decompress. Only one Akon, damn greedy ass kenyans and no melmag, you can't trade in yours for one with a bigger yansh.

  

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166. "^^^^^TRUE AFRICAN"
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*hands you kente cloth, impala skin and XXXL condoms which you will never use*

*steals extra white woman on my way out*

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171. "Naw this is the true African right here check avatar"
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<----

Soundcloud.com/aquil84

(HIP HOP)
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173. "lol @ you thinking they rock powdered wigs for fashion"
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unbeknowest to you, the 'powdered wig' is a tradition rooted in the British judicial system, which Naija and several other British colonies still implement to this day. do some research, then try again

  

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176. "Are you really that stupid I know why dude is rocking the wig"
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It bugged me out when I saw the news report a few years ago about the woman who was sentenced to be stoned to death by judges in Nigeria(and they were Muslim.)

Niggas in the middle of nigeria rocking old fashion thick british army suits hot as shit looking like Captian Crunch.

Oh and don't get me started on the skin bleaching in Kenya chicks walking around with elephant colored skin and shit.

<----

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178. "fall back fam, kenyans dont bleach their skin"
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you are looking for mainly the former french/
sometimes portuguese colonies.

i.e. read up on the forms of colonialisms and their current implications
and then get back to us on that bleach shit

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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184. "Oh I know all about colonization here is a little taste"
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I got secondary school history books from the continent about colonization from the treaties to the spheres of influence, settlers colonies(direct rule/Kenya),indirect rule(or puppet leaders who were local chieftians/NIGERIA) or companies and taxation(Congo). I know about the Mfecane(the crushing/ZULU) in Southern Africa(which also helped colonization).

The conference of Berlin on how they organized a plan of how to divide the continent and claim power without killing each other or how they tricked Africans into joining in thier armies killing of "warring tribes" enslaving them and in the process colonizing their own lands.

I know all about the Madhist revolt in Sudan and Sokoto caliphate and how it was crushed by European trained African armies. I can also go on about the Jihads in Western Africa and how they also opened the door for colonization

The Gatlin gun and its role in colonization King Leopold one of the worst rulers the world never acknowledges when it comes to genocide slavery rape and over all dehumanization.

Or we can talk about the Asante who traded with Europeans for guns and rum once shipping 20,000 Fanti off into slavery or how they constantly fought against the british declaring a draw after no side clearly could confirm victory.

And how could I forget those very borders which stand today which are almost idenitical to the borders set up by Europeans.

<----

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196. "i said fall back with that kenyans and bleach bullshit"
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because kenyans dont bleach.
holla at your former french colonies.

and i could care less about your secondary school books from the continent.
i said contemporary implications of colonialism.
that' goes further than that direct/indirect you are quoting right now.
if i cared enough maybe i'd explain, but i dont.

and if you knew something about kenyans you would know that
that's not one of our reputations.



.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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367. "but your wrong - kenyans do bleach"
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_____________________________
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382. "are you kenyan? been there? what part, fam?"
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.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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185. "ahh... add a beer on top of that, and we cool"
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Only one Akon, damn greedy ass
>kenyans

can i get one white and one kenyan female?
im trying one of those, 'its black, its white, photoshoots.

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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180. "^^^ afro-angst ^^^^"
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its wild to watch black folks
from africa deal with the same
disconnection from their mainstream
culture as folks here...

white supremacy is a mug, fa real...

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nitpicky comments about somebody else's
appearance is hereby required to post
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273. "and exactly what 'mainstream culture' do you speak of?"
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are you implying faggotry to be mainstream in Afrika? the fuck do white supremacy gotta do with it?

actually the only disconnect present in this post is the blatant but waning attempt by some un-named posters to implicate the practices of faggotry into the Afrikan fabric. ABOMINASHUN!

>its wild to watch black folks
>from africa deal with the same
>disconnection from their mainstream
>culture as folks here...
>
>white supremacy is a mug, fa real...
>

  

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183. "lol, can i weigh in as a "real african"?"
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1)I agree that people use the "it's unafrican" angle as a cop out. Even when they are actually propping up beliefs that can be traced directly to the European colonizers and the religion they brough with them.

2)On the other hand, I am equally disgusted by people with an agenda who will inversely use the "it's african" angle to justify something e.g. some of the papers that have been written on the "rich tradition" of African Homosexuality. They should've sub-titled that one "reaching".

The truth is that Homosexuality is not African. But neither is Heterosexuailty. Sexuality is not ethno-specific. The notion is laughable. People just have their inclinations. But if you want to talk about "gay culture". Then we don't have to beat around the bush cause its easier to be specific.

  

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203. "RE: lol, can i weigh in as a "real african"?"
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>1)I agree that people use the "it's unafrican" angle as a cop
>out. Even when they are actually propping up beliefs that can
>be traced directly to the European colonizers and the religion
>they brough with them.

Yup

>2)On the other hand, I am equally disgusted by people with an
>agenda who will inversely use the "it's african" angle to
>justify something e.g. some of the papers that have been
>written on the "rich tradition" of African Homosexuality. They
>should've sub-titled that one "reaching".

Thing is though, at least they *claim* to have done research. Some of thir findings I have a natural tendency to call bullshit too, but who else is looking?

>The truth is that Homosexuality is not African. But neither is
>Heterosexuailty. Sexuality is not ethno-specific. The notion
>is laughable. People just have their inclinations. But if you
>want to talk about "gay culture". Then we don't have to beat
>around the bush cause its easier to be specific.

Gay culture already exists here man. About a month ago a head of a gay advocacy group in Accra went on the radio and answered questions. They've already built up a sub culture that, like everything else here, is probably a hybrid of what was here and what we've imported.

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223. "really? thoughts will come later when they've been collected...lol"
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>Gay culture already exists here man.

  

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208. "wow this post went out of control. didn't expect this"
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and once again I missed the party lol

  

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210. "i'd actually like to hear your input."
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214. "same here actually"
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Hurt than maim
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217. "Africa has larger worries than homosexuality."
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221. "not if it becomesrampant & accepted...Imagine Sub-Saharan"
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Africa + GAY male life style...I shudder to think of the death toll.




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231. "Word. Last thing they need is an AIDS pandemic."
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OH, WAIT.

  

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248. "yea the first document case of HIV wasn't in gay men"
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o wait

  

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255. "same scientistists traced it to africa"
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but if there were no gays in africa
oh wait
~~~~~~~~
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Intimidate than hurt
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258. "lmao at all of these replies."
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276. "lol, well done"
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prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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331. "No it was SPMS great grandaddy fucking a monkey"
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thats where they traced it exactly!

http://myspace.com/bambumusic

www.individualsole.com

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235. ""rampant"?"
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Dude, can you please explain what it is about homosexuality that scares you so much.

Don't give me empty phrases like "unnatural" or "ungodly", state the actual harm it will do to society, according to you.


I'm #ffffff

  

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249. "word, mass homosexuality would only help the AIDS crisis"
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in Africa, no biggie.


FOH


Why do you want my personal opinion on faggotry? who cares what I think or why I think it?




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253. "mass homosexuality?"
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accepting homosexuality as normal will not magically increase the number of homosexuals. They might be heard for a change, but that is all. Homosexuality has become reasonably accepted in western European countries over the last decades, but "rampant" or "mass homosexuality" has not occurred. Which was to be expected since it's not contagious or something.

And equating homosexuality with having aids is like equating being African with having aids. Both Africans and gays are overrepresented in hiv/aids statistics after all.

So again: what is it about homosexuality that is so threatening to you?


I'm #ffffff

  

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257. "^^^white"
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259. "^^^ correct for the first time in this thread"
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nice copout though.


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222. "this entire post needs to be archived"
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I haven't laughed this much in ages

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229. "I never SAW no gays when i lived in Nigeria..."
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but when I was 10-11 I had friends in school
who in all actuality were probably gonna be gay...
one of them's names was Emmanuel..so we called him emmanuel-iban..
which meant "girl" emmanuel...cuz dude was EXTRA effeminate..
he walked with a switch...had a girlish figure..could play "10-10"(u gotta be Nigerian to know this) better than the girls...and had a fixation with ears..he was always pulling on his own ear and LOVED
to touch and bite on peoples ears..we as idiots who had never seen
a gay dude would just push him away..but he was still cool with us, and since we were young african straight male friends are generally close(as in its cool to be 14 and put ur arms around ur boys' shoulder), we just never thought nothing of it, we just thought he had a fixation like thumb sucking that never got checked by his parents, and we just accepted dudes femininity as being him...I do remember one time we were in class and our male teacher was sitting on a stool rocking some tight slacks..and dude tapped me and pointed at the teacher's bulge and was snickerink...some shit I didnt care to be looking at..I laughed..but now to think about it..he was growing into his homosexuality

Another thing which isnt discussed though is lesbianism..which I think happened with my pop's sister who I either think was lesbian or barren...From what i've learned
barren women in some African socieities take in another woman and have the woman bear children and live with her..but they live together..now what they do behind closed doors is not discussed and is just accepted as the woman being barren and taking in someone.


<--me and the homie...

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233. "im dyin"
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i was waiting for the part where u said 'yea my friend used to try to put his dyk in my mouth..thought nothin of it...he be playin like that'


ur just jealous cause i get to talk to hot chiks on the internet ALLLL DAAYYY

???eV???•..

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OooO im sooOO special!
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234. "lol...we were naive kids mayne"
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263. "oga, i use to BEAST niggaz AND chics in '10-10' back in the day. LOL"
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yo i was so nice with it both groups use to fight to keep me on they team when we had them interhouse field days. man them good ol days of our innocent youth!

but back to the topic. see, that was the whole beauty of our existence: innocent Afrikan kids devoid of Westernized ideals, beliefs, & practices. raised in a stringent culture ingrained in us thru generations yet still as powerful & thorough as ever, even with the breakthrough of western influences.

all that to say, even though we mightve been naive as fuck not to notice instances of vague or stark faggotry in our presence, the practice was just so foreign & alien to us, that we couldlnt even
comprehend what it was.

  

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337. "word...I remember reading this book..."
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about this African guy with this white dude tryna get him drunk and sleep with him..i had to been no more than 9 or so...and I kept thinking...hmmm...this has to be a white woman(cuz he said some shit about long blond hair)..but i kept thinking...what the fuck is going on?

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268. "RE: I never SAW no gays when i lived in Nigeria..."
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>Another thing which isnt discussed though is lesbianism..which
>I think happened with my pop's sister who I either think was
>lesbian or barren...From what i've learned
>barren women in some African socieities take in another woman
>and have the woman bear children and live with her..but they
>live together..now what they do behind closed doors is not
>discussed and is just accepted as the woman being barren and
>taking in someone.

from my understanding, these aren't "lesbian" relationships in the western sense of the word...these are relationships set up for, as you stated, women that are barren. they become mothers by proxy, so says the tradition...

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236. "What a coincidence...I went on a date with a man from Eritria/Ethiopia"
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this past weekend.
He's only been living in the West for a few years now. When I first met him 2 years ago, it was in Chapel Hill, NC, and he was still extremely uncomfortable with his homosexual feelings, due to the oppression and repression gays deal with him back in Ethiopia. His eyes were shifty, he looked at my relative peace of mind with curiousity, and even when I touched him that night in the privacy of his bedroom, he trembled in fear and discomfort.

On Saturday night, I met up with him, and he was still closeted...but you could tell that he wasn't as paralyzed by fear. He was able to look into my eyes, and even hug me, two things he was too timid to do before. It's like he's finally able to breathe; finally able to taste the existence that was meant for him- as an African(and Arabish lol) man with same-sex desires. I hope that all Africans- and African descendents of the continent- will be able to breathe comfortably in their own skin one day.

Big up to those who already are in South Africa, Nigeria, Kenya, Ghana, etc.


>First off, exactly where did this idea come from and can they
>in any way be considered a valid source? Well, I've heard it
>from
>
>1. Despotic African leaders:
>How about we just agree that the only thing Mugabe and his ilk
>can say which could even be remotely interesting would be
>their decisions to step down, pay back all the money they
>stole while in power and submit themselves to the
>International court of justice.
>Besides which I have a problem with being lectured on the mass
>of different African cultural and religious practices by
>people who can barely spell their own names
>
>2. Christian and Muslim leaders:
>Um... they are pretty much un-african too? I mean, last time I
>checked Bethlehem, Jerusalem, Mecca, Media etc. were not
>cities on the African continent. They represent imported ideas
>too and therefore they really have no weight at all in
>condemning another new idea. And thats assuming they even know
>enough about the ideas they replaced to be able to state
>whether or not those ideas are new.
>
>3. Pseudo 'African' scholars
>The most amusing group of them all. People who got 'conscious'
>one day, grew dreads and changed their names to something
>vaguely 'authentic' sounding like Asante or, even worse,
>Hotep. Most of them haven't spent more than six weeks of their
>lives on the continent and got all their information about
>Africa from a self published pamphlet they bought on the
>corner across from where they live. If we're truly lucky they
>know who Diop is and can name an African city outside of
>Egypt. Again, I choose to ignore them off GP
>
>
>Now, lets assume that in a brilliant stroke of cosmic chance
>these highly questionably informed people are exactly right.
>Lets assume that no gay people at all ever existed on the
>continent before the first of our melanin deprived euro
>brethren 'found' us. So? Modern African cultures look nothing
>like they did half a millennium ago. A lot has changed. Some
>of it bad, I'll agree. Some of it was also harmless or even
>good for us. While there is a lot about modern living I'm not
>thrilled to see coming over I insist on a proper informed,
>clear debate on what we should be accepting and what we should
>be throwing out rather than this repetition of half baked
>rhetoric that tends to come from people whose opinions on what
>colour the sky is are questionable at best.
>
>
>Rant over.
>
>*sidenote: yes I'm over generalizing a bit and being more than
>a little snarky. That is intentional

  

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244. "^^"
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isa and etc will need written
statements from family and friend of said person stating the validity
of his african-ness
also a drop of blood not for evolutionary theory
they don't believe in
but to prove his lack of nature
cause gazing pictures of his nature
might affect their homo/hetero status
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Hurt than maim
Intimidate than hurt
Avoid than intimidate.
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250. "lol..."
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>isa and etc will need written
>statements from family and friend of said person stating the
>validity
>of his african-ness
>also a drop of blood not for evolutionary theory
>they don't believe in
>but to prove his lack of nature
>cause gazing pictures of his nature
>might affect their homo/hetero status

Well Isa needs a lot of things that I'm not interested in providing lol.
But dude is as African as it gets.
He even said the phrase, "Automatics are too hard to operate, I only know how to drive a stick shift."

  

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264. "RE: lol..."
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>"Automatics are too hard to operate,
>I only know how to drive a stick shift."

when he says shit like that? you *KNOW* he a gay...lol

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272. "lol Gay East Africans say the darndest things."
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Plus they really don't know how to drive automatics :-/


>>"Automatics are too hard to operate,
>>I only know how to drive a stick shift."
>
>when he says shit like that? you *KNOW* he a gay...lol
>
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277. "but did he say "stick shift" like chick in Boyz n da Hood?"
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lmao...

and i just thought of cuba's ass in that movie...i think i can make it tonight now...lol

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238. "THIS POST HAS EVERYTHING."
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240. "*throws kitchen sink* | archive"
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Hurt than maim
Intimidate than hurt
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270. "okp is great for staying sharp"
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these dudes will throw everything and anything they can get their hands on at you.

I wonder who is going to top Angelo claiming he knows Olu's ancestors. It'll probably have to involve aliens and Kronos cutting off his dad's nads.


I'm #ffffff

  

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284. "^^^^^^missed my point entirely^^^^^^"
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*laughs*



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298. "^^^ not capable of intelligent discourse"
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I'm #ffffff

  

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315. "it's okay to say, you don't understand"
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even I, don't know everything...



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"...a man straddling two cultures is rarely well seated..."

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316. "you know jack shit"
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You have yet to come up with one solid argument for your hate against homosexuality, i.e. one that's not based upon insults, other folks' ancestors or pseudo-scientific rants about 'four kingdoms' that you seem to make up on the fly.

You know nothing but fear & hate. You're an ignorant hateful shadow of a man, and the worst thing is, you're actually proud of it.

I hope that one day your eyes will be opened to your ignorance, and I hope that it doesn't involve anyone getting hurt.


I'm #ffffff

  

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279. "geez, we're like what, 3% of the population?"
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tell these fools to do something with their lives

  

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282. "I was here."
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And why do these posts always get ugly?

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283. "gay people + questioning people's beliefs"
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plus the standard 'African' vs 'Black' tension

it was bound to go this way. I can't say I'm all that surprised man

Wait for the next post though.

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289. "A few things"
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1. I am sad to see that none of y'all really looked at what was important here..what was worth and more productive to discuss. Come on guys, we've done this homosexuality debate too many times we know it ends ugly. The problem here is "how do we know what is *authentic* African thinking/perspective". What elements should we use to define what's African and what isn't. Correct me if I'm wrong Olu. There was enough material to discuss that but y'all went for the dead horse.

But i'll discuss homosexuality anyway lol 'cause some of the responses were appalling.

2. Why is everyone assuming that homosexuality is widespread in the "occidental" world? Some of you are talking about it like it's some kind of thing you can catch once you start living in Europe or the US, so watch out!
Shall I remind you that even in the western world the topic of Homosexuality is not without controversy?? Why is everyone assuming that 100% of all westerners is pro-gay and dreams of being one?

Do y'all read the same news and read the same statistic as everyone else? I think some of you should come back to earth and look a bit closer.

I refuse to think that pro-homo ideology is deeply engrained (sp?) in every western citizen's mind, so much that they had to export it in Africa CENTURIES ago. Nevermind that gay visibility only started in the last few decades in the western world. Nevermind that anti-discrimination laws concerning gays were implemented recently too (and not without problems). As we've seen elsewhere in the world, the existence of laws isn't a good indication of a population's feelings about an issue. The state's duty is to protect its citizens and ensure that everyone has equal chances of leading a normal life. Objectively, gays aren't hurting anybody .. they don't go around shooting folks. As far as the state is concerned they're not harmful. "morality" is none of the state's business. That is for the religious and philosophers and everybody else to discuss. statesmen and lawmakers do what they have to do. Western homophobes don't like it, but they understand the process. they understand it's the base of western democracy and contemporary worldview...and for the most part they agree with it.

I was expecting a few of you (who claim to be smart asses) to at least understand that and make appropriate distinctions.

I respect and understand that everybody has views...doesn't means you should stop using your brain. seek coherence! Doesn't mean you have to agree... it's about knowledge.

3. NOBODY can truly know what our ancestors considered okay or not on the gay issue. I will say what all of you guy have decided to overlook. if there's something completely UNAFRICAN, it's DISCUSSING AND DISPLAYING SEXUAL BEHAVIOUR IN PUBLIC. Who the fuck knows or knew what was going on inside people's houses? Was anybody even trying to find out? What we know is that PUBLIC and SEX don't go well together in African customs. Our cultures teach us to create a facade that will makes us fit with the rest of society.They aren't trying to see what's behind the scenes. You could be married and have kids and fucking someone of your own sex behind the scenes.. as long as you're married and got kids they don't care about the rest. and they expect you to keep "the rest" out of public view.

Someone above mentioned the Dogon who believe homos are the gate keepers between the real world and the spiritual world. I read an article where the Malidoma was explaining everything. He also explains that NOBODY knew they were homos because these folks had wives/husbands and kids too! As I said Facade is everything. And he also said something important...that in the tradition's eyes today's homosexuality has become a perversion. Why? the importance of sex has become too important. (I'll come back to that later maybe).


anyway the people here who are dictating others how to be Africans should know these social factors very well.

In this context ask yourselves... isn't the gay issue controversial partly because talking and alluding to what's behind the scenes offends African societies at large? Try talking to old folks about pre-marital marriage, or bedroom habits and watch their reaction. Nobody ever wondered why the "vagina monologues" were so controversial in Africa? Just saying the word vagina in public already makes people uneasy. These folks didnt even want to see that word on posters for all to see. Why is aids prevention difficult is some areas? because talking about sex and showing people how to use condoms publicly makes people uneasy. It's cultural.

This is an important element that we shouldn't ignore.
People think or feel whatever they want. but in public, they're expected to agree to leave certain things behind the scenes. Disrespecting that rule makes you an outcast.

Again... We shouldn't overlook this.

4. The above leads me to say that the modern "western" way of LIVING homosexuality has been imported. Not homosexuality itself. I believe gay bashing in Africa is new. Simply because these things were hidden away from the public (as said above). Everybody did whatever behind the scenes. You can't bash or look for people to harass, for something which belongs to their private sphere. Spying on people's private life was against the rules. So as far as they were concerned of course this didn't exist.

The problem is with the way homosexuality was introduced to our societies. I don't have to describe the "mainstream" image of the gay life in Europe or the US. You may like it or not but it looks like a daily celebration of hedonism. That bugs Africans. it's looks really egoistical to 1) spend your time having sex and fun 2) looking to live with someone of your own gender - thus overlooking society's needs for 1)structure (in the form of marriage, which are also alliances) 2) more helping hands (in the form of children).


the whole thing looks irrational and it makes them think that homos are prisoners of their own passions and pulsions, and can't see beyond them. This is where Malidoma's view that homosexuality has become perversion comes in. He states that they ignore their spiritual selves.

So if you're doing something that "defies" society's needs, of course whatever you do is thought of as an import of other ideals. I don't even think the image of 2 men or women having sex came to mind (at first). I think it had more to do with "egoistical" aspect of it which honestly defies our community and solidarity "ideals". However the religions came with the "unnatural sexual act " because it is mentioned in this or that verse of their religious books. That is when people trully became alarmed imho. see the distinctions?


This is the issue: Gay Africans see their western counterparts living very liberal lives. They wonder why they should hide. So they question society's ideals. Now the thing is: should our values change? in what way? what does this all say about us? etc etc.

I think debates on homosexuality (and many other topics) make us all question the CORE of traditional values. I think homosexuality was just used as an example context here. But this could really be about many other things.

I'm tempted to say that whatever direction society chooses doesn't matter that much to me at this point. I think making society question itself is one of our most important modern challenges. As Africans we have to be honest with ourselves and admit that we don't question ourselves properly. We do it because others force us to. We don't necessarily do it in a way that benefits us the most. We don't do it for ourselves.

I may have gone off the mark. I might come back.

  

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294. "oh and to expound a bit on #3 and #4"
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I don't know if you Africans have interacted a lot of with homo folks in Africa but you'd be surprised at the things they say.

I have met people who violenly deny their gayness. Westerners come to Africa and tell them they're "confused". They don't feel confused. They follow European/American news and read what's happening... They trully feel that they are not part of this gay movement. Gay pride and all that shit? they're not in it. Like I explained above it defies core values.

Some of these folks have romantic relationships with the same sex. But they've never excluded Marrying and having kids and all that. we learn to be down to earth...efficiency matters most. social efficiency is structure and the need to procreate. For some gays nothing will get in the way of that social efficiency ideal.

and unexposed ones? they don't even know how they feel has a name with many implications in other parts of the world. they do what they do but they know what society expects of them

That is why the argument of "gayness is against perpetuating the human breed" laughable. Who said that once you become gay or lesbian your sexual organs cease to function? Like the mind sends special messages to the testicles and tells them to stop sperm production. wtf?

anyway all this leads us to: individual aspiration vs collective aspiration. In 21s century Africa, how do we balance out collective aspirations and individual aspirations?

anyway i'm off.

  

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295. "and there it is"
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thanks for coming back
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296. "You are a breath of fresh air miss"
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>The problem here is "how
>do we know what is *authentic* African thinking/perspective".
>What elements should we use to define what's African and what
>isn't. Correct me if I'm wrong Olu. There was enough material
>to discuss that but y'all went for the dead horse.

Well, that's part of the problem. I have issues with people locking down a definition of who we are allowed to be and in what ways we may grow because it suits their own purposes. I guess what I'm trying to raise is the question of historical authenticity. Who were we really? Again as defined by *us* and not other people with their own agendas.

The rest of it I need to think for a sec to reply to

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299. "interesting read..thanks for taking the time to write that"
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304. "Interesting points. What I basically get out of it:"
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The acceptance of homosexuality is largely based upon the individualization of society.

Please correct me if I'm interpreting your points wrong, or if the stuff I'm adding doesn't make sense. I am aware that I'm partly rehashing, but I'm trying to get it clear for myself as well.


From what I gather in general, homosexuality is mostly accepted in societies that experienced Enlightenment and the subsequent path towards individualism, (with an extra increase in acceptance from the sexual revolution).
Societies that didn't experience these changes are bound to hang on more to traditional values and put less value on the the individual than on the community as a whole.
So as long as folks don't openly deviate from the norms set by the community, they'll be fine.

I think this eventually leads to a lot of covering up and downright hypocrisy, making it harder to address issues that people are facing, from corruption to aids to homophobia and even racism.

I am by no means calling the western model (especially how it came to be) perfect, but I do think it's a step in the right direction for the emancipation of any vulnerable segments of society.

Any critique is welcome.


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353. "it's very complicated"
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Wed Dec-06-06 05:56 AM by les_fleurs

          

>The acceptance of homosexuality is largely based upon the
>individualization of society.

As seen in the west, yes. (i'll come back to that)

>
>From what I gather in general, homosexuality is mostly
>accepted in societies that experienced Enlightenment and the
>subsequent path towards individualism, (with an extra increase
>in acceptance from the sexual revolution).
>Societies that didn't experience these changes are bound to
>hang on more to traditional values and put less value on the
>the individual than on the community as a whole.
>So as long as folks don't openly deviate from the norms set by
>the community, they'll be fine.

I have a problem with the fact that you seem to think that Enlightment (and here I assume you're refering to it within a historical context) + the rest is/was the only path to individualism...or at least tolerant acceptance of different individual traits. individualism is not the fitting solution for everyone

In Africa for example, we don't have enough written and sound material about societal changes. Unfortunately we were lead to think that these things were irrelevant to know and that our own kingdoms and empires weren't special. As we know, different rulers had different approaches. In the Luba kingdom for example certain rulers revolutionised social life in the region during the 15th & 16th century, and in some cases for the better! We don't know about before because there's little material.

What I want to say here is: let's not sit here and pretend that traditional societies never had internal transformation or don't have potential for inner transformation. Let's move away from that perception that traditional societies are suspended in time...it's not always true. In Africa, or any other continent. Europeans look at things from the outside and write their books, they don't necessarly try to find what changed since the previous 10 generations.

The European's arrival and imports disrupted local transformations. We're left with values from last century and we think they've always been that way. When your territory and culture are being ambushed, you somehow collectively rely on what you know and don't entertain the idea of changing values which make your society stable. As said in the post above: the need for structure and collective wealth bringers. Your existence depends on that. See how people have accepted some western habits including individualistic ones. But that need for structure and wealth didn't disappear.

It's like when someone you loved passed away. You maybe forget that s/he was a total asshole when you first met them. But when they die, you remember what they were to you in the recent past. And as time passes your mind (un)consciously decide to remember only the good things. It's a similar situation here imho. Except that when you do this collectively about something you treasure and when you feel ambushed you even forget what things were like in the very beggining + the evolution. The recent past becomes sacred and you become too scared to change it. or even worse: to RETHINK IT.

That is why I'm asking if African societies are even ready to desacrilize (sp?) some of their values


So imho no, we don't necessarly need an "enlightment" phase or a sexual revolution to bring change. Even if I generalize here, you'd be surprised to find that certain tribes have very permissive customs which neighbouring people find really unacceptable. And they didn't need a western style sexual revolution or individualism to have them.

>I think this eventually leads to a lot of covering up and
>downright hypocrisy, making it harder to address issues that
>people are facing, from corruption to aids to homophobia and
>even racism.
>
>I am by no means calling the western model (especially how it
>came to be) perfect, but I do think it's a step in the right
>direction for the emancipation of any vulnerable segments of
>society.


Well the problem of hypocrisy is a big one. the traditionalists have their own biases. There's this tendency to remember some customs and ignore others...when you mix everything together there's no coherence anymore. But thankfully that is changing.

Since you cited corruption I'll give you one example.

I believe that our community solidarity ideal should NEVER be abandoned in our societies. Individualism as it is in the west will kill us. This spirit of togetherness has made it possible for people to survive... in more ways than one. This community need works where our states fail. I'm sure you know what I mean.

The same community solidarity in a political context can be disastruous. Ex: someone is given an important position in the political world. this person is full of good intentions work-wise but his family & clan aassume that since he's got a bit of power they need to benefit too. It's the customs right? If he refuses they ask him what use he is for the community. That is how an otherwise well intentioned person starts bending official rules and all of a sudden corruption is okay. As a result other people are disadvantaged.

Many other "traditional" values have this coherence problem. it's frustrating and that's what we have to discuss today. I personally think values like solidarity should be re-directed. Not abolished. re-thought in a way that fits modern needs. As for the issue of homosexuality it's even more complex. I'm aware of the dangers of being over permissive over individual choices. Maybe we need to rethink our definition of personal choice & space. I don't know where we should draw the line. But I know individualism in the western sense is not for us. There are compromises to make but I'm not sure about taking the same direction.

different things work for different people.

Anyway it's not meant to be easy LOL Complex issues have complex solutions.

  

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355. "thanks for replying"
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It wasn't my intention to propose an enlightenment phase identical to the one we had in the western world. The path can not be expected to be the same, same goes for the outcome. It's a different time, and the African nations are also a different place with different dynamics.

I don't know nearly enough of African societies to actually propose a path, but your idea of remodeling the existing social pillars to better suit the needs of today seems like a good one.



What do you think the role of Europe and the USA should be in this change? And what influence do you think the Chinese will have?

Maybe that's a whole different discussion, but if you have something at the ready I'm interested to hear it.


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307. "great! really appriciated your input!"
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320. "good stuff, this thread needed your input foreal..."
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but they wont hear you though, unfortunately

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321. "I AINT READ ANY OF THAT SHIT."
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333. "PLEA COPPIN' 101"
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334. "^^^ the above 2 responses are an example"
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of the inability of homophobes to answer reason with reason.


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346. "Reason has nothing to do with their stance."
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That could be why.

But as important as reason is to you, other tenets may be to them.

And it would be dope if we lived in a world where both sides could accept that reality and respect that.

Only shit I don't accept is psuedo science, and cherry picked morality.

THEM things is the devil.


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350. "RE: Reason has nothing to do with their stance."
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>That could be why.
>
>But as important as reason is to you, other tenets may be to
>them.

I can understand this. That is up to them.

>And it would be dope if we lived in a world where both sides
>could accept that reality and respect that.

I will not respect someone calling homosexuals fags, deeming them perverted and treating them as if they're worth less than heterosexuals. I have friends and family that are homosexual, and I will never ever budge when it comes to defending their right to equal treatment, even if it's only on a online message board.
Certainly you can respect that.

>Only shit I don't accept is psuedo science

Me neither. I'd rather base my conclusions on fact than on unfounded assumptions. So far, there are zero facts that would merit treating homosexuals differently from heterosexuals.

>and cherry picked
>morality.

>THEM things is the devil.

I'm unfamiliar with the phrase 'cherry picked' but I know that morality is for those who care about how people go about their private lives, which I do not. However, I *do* care about how they choose to interact with other people.

I appreciate your input in this thread, and you seem to approach people with respect, so I would have no trouble agreeing to disagree with you. I hope you feel the same.


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351. "I see you've completely missed the point of that post."
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which frankly wasn't about getting people to like or accept homosexuals
but was about recognizing certain factors we shouldn't ignore if we want to go forward.

1. You can't generalize in disorder and get away with it
2. there are many things we don't know about our ancestors but we know a lot which gives us indication as to what they did about certain things, and why we react like we do today.

I don't know why bringing in important factors = plea copping
so if you don't mind expound please

Are you denying that the gay rights movement didn't have its problems in the western world? Are you denying that we don't have a problem with public display of sex? That we don't expect people to keep their shit hidden?

Like I said everyone is free to think what they want
and with the reasons they want. I understand most of y'all have emotional reasons. Some have no reasons and just don't like it.
BUT It doesn't mean you should pretend not to see certain facts.

This isn't about homosexuality. This is about the sort of thinking we're coming from and where we're going.

This post was about finding out HOW all African societies might decide to balance the importance of the personal choice vs the importance of society as a whole. ie should we turn around and go back to our ancestors' view of life. Should we copy the westerners (which I admit is an awful prospect). Or do we change some of our traditions & worldviews? to what point? what stays and what leaves? and why? Do we need to even change the basis of our world view? etc etc

Like I said I'm not looking for people to choose a particular direction or another. I would just like this to become a big debate one day, and it's needed.

Homosexuality is barely used as a context/example here, so I'm not interested in changing your opinions about it. I am merely pointing out factors which lead us to look at the basis of our core values. Every society has certain rules and we expect people to abide by them on the outside and encourage people to keep some matters away from the private domain. This is where we come from. So in a globalized 21st century, what do we do? These are the real issues. She questions above still stand. So what's your opinion on that? this is what I want to know, and this is what Olu's post was partly about.

Putting some elements in their right place. Discernment is what I'm after.

  

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347. "This was dope."
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413. "uh u pretty much ignore the impact of greek and roman culture had"
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on europe
that pretty much undermines everything you typed
you need to reevaluate that shit fam

  

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306. "it's like 43 different kinds of dumb shit in here"
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funny how well that slave trade and colonialism's been working out for us black folk.

  

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317. "this is the last time im doing this."
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because i've decided im sick and tired of even trying to have decent conversation with motherfuckers whose only agenda in such posts is to espouse their burn chichi bwuoy hate like their dick size depends on it.

nobody cares. if anything i feel sorry that you would spend so much of your time attention seeking on something you seem to think is beneath you. it does not compute. you dont like the chi chi mon, you can choose to ignore. but it speaks volumes if instead you exhaust your energies on being hateful and malicious- online no less- despite the fact that you will NEVER HAVE TO INTERACT WITH ANY OF THE PEOPLE YOU APPARENTLY LOOK DOWN UPON. what does that say about what sort of petty mouthed full of bullshit asshole you are, with a neanderthal sized iq and an overinflated sense of selfworth that in actuality masks a pea sized ego.

and especially since we are online. i dont know none of you motherfuckers and im sure none of y'all know me. not now, not in the futurepresentpast. like really, if you want to be homophobic, more power to you. nobody's is trying to convince you to be otherwise. for the most part all i ask is leave me the fuck alone.
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and i dont have any kind of respect for someone who believes burning a human being is acceptable. if that's a lack of respect for human life i dont know what is.

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now that im calmer....

my africanness does not preclude my being gay. and vice versa.
i grew up in kenya, and yes, homosexuality is illegal (so is having more than one wife), and sodomy is punishable by law. but in the 20+ years i lived back home i never heard of anyone jailed for being gay, or anyone stoned or burnt or whatever- (and this in a place where i've seen mofo's tyre burn pickpockets/ suspected thieves.). that says something to me. if you ask any kenyan about the coast and homosexuality, they'll be lying if they say they dont know nothing about it. my ex was from tanzania and in dar-es-salaam she used to go to KNOWN gay bars where the men would dress in women's attire and what have you. it sounds like most of y'all have this assumption that in africa people get laced everywhere- i dont know where y'all base this from. as i said before, i can walk holding my girls hand in downtown nairobi, here i walk into walmart or into a restaurant like that and i get mofos staring. the reason for that is NOT because everyone knows we are gay, but because the idea of personal space in kenya, at least differs from here.

let me qualify that, though. that still leaves the fact that as a lesbian woman i have no laws or legal protection/ and no say. im illegal. if someone decides to persecute me for being gay, and if somehow they have incriminating evidence, then yes, my ass is going to jail. it would be very unprecedented. but it *can happen.

i have had extended conversations with friends and ex partners about the concept of coming out being so foreign/ unafrican to me because... well how do you talk about sex and sexuality when even the language for it is limited. (i dont even know the proper word for sex in swahili, i know the vulgar slang for it. i dont even know the word for vagina- except again, the vulgar slang). i recently had to 'come out' to my lil 18 yr old cousin. i didn't know how to do it. (sit down and talk?). so i just brought my girl around the whole weekend and let him figure shit out for himself. yes i do embrace the prides, the flag etc because i see its importance to this society... i have friends that feel it is also important in african societies- i dont know. i feel the approach *could be different. but i am also at the point where i get sick and tired of hearing the church spread its hate that i feel, well fuck it, you want to spread homophobia, maybe we should throw caution to the wind and just say, we are going to have to talk about sex openly fuck customs and the traditional way of doingthings

what does all this mean? the only time you'll hear an african talking about homosexuality is if its a certain politicans latest popularity gimick or if the church rears its ugly head.
the only incident in MY LIFE where i heard folks speak about beating up a dude they thought was gay was when working in kibera- which is a slum that used to have incidences of religious violence between muslims and xtians. but... what's wierd is that.. they knew about this dude from waaay before. and it hadn't bothered anyone before. i find it more interesting to delve into why the sudden hostility. because if such incidences of violence are not prevalent/common/everyday- what stokes them? and if there are no prevalent cases of homophobia, does that mean that there are no homosexuals? or there is no homophobia? or might it mean that nobody gives a fuck about shit that doesn't concern them personally/sexually?

i have a lot of faith and respect for my ancestors. a great deal of it. i know africans never threw people away- whether crazy, deranged, or barren. and even in certain situations the community always tried to find some kind of explanation as to why someone was the way they were (we've all heard about so and so who's father's brother's family did this and that and so now it affects that so and so in this certain kind of way). im for damn sure that african communities had a way of explaining homosexuality but what with over 200 years of missionary colonialism (no pun intended), its of no surprise that we adopted WESTERN homophobia and LOST our empathy and humanity when it comes to the things we dont understand. i'd hate it if we embraced the judgemental way of doing things whose only response to anything is- burn the chi chi bwuoy- instead of our seeking the spiritual/alternate understanding. '

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so... this is the LAST time im going to even attempt to explain who i am or whatever. I AM HAPPY. my life is going great. it's a difficult lifestyle..yes, and mainly because of people's judging... i always have to deal with offline and online offhand motherfuckers, yes. but at the end of the day, it's worth it TO ME. and i dont give two shits about homophobes, like really. shit, thursday im going to see sizzla live, and yes there'll probably be assholes out there, that'll be paying me and my girl extra attention, but really, they can kiss my ass cause i wish a mofo *would step up to me on some bullshit.

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318. "You know, thats another thing"
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I've never heard of a gay person getting attacked for being gay in Ghana. I'm not saying its never happened, but my people tend to me bore the "you will burn in hell" type than the "break your jaw agains a curb" type

IMO thats still mainly the province of bald headed white men. Though if this post is to believed there's a resurgence waiting to happen among the darker people of the planet

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319. ".....the post can finally end now."
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prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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364. "you not my type...im all about goldmind..log off."
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341. "Aw, I love my people"
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I give this speech a 10.


>because i've decided im sick and tired of even trying to have
>decent conversation with motherfuckers whose only agenda in
>such posts is to espouse their burn chichi bwuoy hate like
>their dick size depends on it.
>
>nobody cares. if anything i feel sorry that you would spend
>so much of your time attention seeking on something you seem
>to think is beneath you. it does not compute. you dont like
>the chi chi mon, you can choose to ignore. but it speaks
>volumes if instead you exhaust your energies on being hateful
>and malicious- online no less- despite the fact that you will
>NEVER HAVE TO INTERACT WITH ANY OF THE PEOPLE YOU APPARENTLY
>LOOK DOWN UPON. what does that say about what sort of petty
>mouthed full of bullshit asshole you are, with a neanderthal
>sized iq and an overinflated sense of selfworth that in
>actuality masks a pea sized ego.
>
>and especially since we are online. i dont know none of you
>motherfuckers and im sure none of y'all know me. not now, not
>in the futurepresentpast. like really, if you want to be
>homophobic, more power to you. nobody's is trying to convince
>you to be otherwise. for the most part all i ask is leave me
>the fuck alone.
>------
>
>
>and i dont have any kind of respect for someone who believes
>burning a human being is acceptable. if that's a lack of
>respect for human life i dont know what is.
>
>------------------
>
>now that im calmer....
>
>my africanness does not preclude my being gay. and vice
>versa.
>i grew up in kenya, and yes, homosexuality is illegal (so is
>having more than one wife), and sodomy is punishable by law.
>but in the 20+ years i lived back home i never heard of anyone
>jailed for being gay, or anyone stoned or burnt or whatever-
>(and this in a place where i've seen mofo's tyre burn
>pickpockets/ suspected thieves.). that says something to me.
>if you ask any kenyan about the coast and homosexuality,
>they'll be lying if they say they dont know nothing about it.
>my ex was from tanzania and in dar-es-salaam she used to go to
>KNOWN gay bars where the men would dress in women's attire and
>what have you. it sounds like most of y'all have this
>assumption that in africa people get laced everywhere- i dont
>know where y'all base this from. as i said before, i can walk
>holding my girls hand in downtown nairobi, here i walk into
>walmart or into a restaurant like that and i get mofos
>staring. the reason for that is NOT because everyone knows we
>are gay, but because the idea of personal space in kenya, at
>least differs from here.
>
>let me qualify that, though. that still leaves the fact that
>as a lesbian woman i have no laws or legal protection/ and no
>say. im illegal. if someone decides to persecute me for being
>gay, and if somehow they have incriminating evidence, then
>yes, my ass is going to jail. it would be very unprecedented.
>but it *can happen.
>
>i have had extended conversations with friends and ex partners
>about the concept of coming out being so foreign/ unafrican to
>me because... well how do you talk about sex and sexuality
>when even the language for it is limited. (i dont even know
>the proper word for sex in swahili, i know the vulgar slang
>for it. i dont even know the word for vagina- except again,
>the vulgar slang). i recently had to 'come out' to my lil 18
>yr old cousin. i didn't know how to do it. (sit down and
>talk?). so i just brought my girl around the whole weekend and
>let him figure shit out for himself. yes i do embrace the
>prides, the flag etc because i see its importance to this
>society... i have friends that feel it is also important in
>african societies- i dont know. i feel the approach *could be
>different. but i am also at the point where i get sick and
>tired of hearing the church spread its hate that i feel, well
>fuck it, you want to spread homophobia, maybe we should throw
>caution to the wind and just say, we are going to have to talk
>about sex openly fuck customs and the traditional way of
>doingthings
>
>what does all this mean? the only time you'll hear an african
>talking about homosexuality is if its a certain politicans
>latest popularity gimick or if the church rears its ugly head.
>
>the only incident in MY LIFE where i heard folks speak about
>beating up a dude they thought was gay was when working in
>kibera- which is a slum that used to have incidences of
>religious violence between muslims and xtians. but... what's
>wierd is that.. they knew about this dude from waaay before.
>and it hadn't bothered anyone before. i find it more
>interesting to delve into why the sudden hostility. because if
>such incidences of violence are not prevalent/common/everyday-
>what stokes them? and if there are no prevalent cases of
>homophobia, does that mean that there are no homosexuals? or
>there is no homophobia? or might it mean that nobody gives a
>fuck about shit that doesn't concern them personally/sexually?
>
>
>i have a lot of faith and respect for my ancestors. a great
>deal of it. i know africans never threw people away- whether
>crazy, deranged, or barren. and even in certain situations the
>community always tried to find some kind of explanation as to
>why someone was the way they were (we've all heard about so
>and so who's father's brother's family did this and that and
>so now it affects that so and so in this certain kind of way).
>im for damn sure that african communities had a way of
>explaining homosexuality but what with over 200 years of
>missionary colonialism (no pun intended), its of no surprise
>that we adopted WESTERN homophobia and LOST our empathy and
>humanity when it comes to the things we dont understand. i'd
>hate it if we embraced the judgemental way of doing things
>whose only response to anything is- burn the chi chi bwuoy-
>instead of our seeking the spiritual/alternate understanding.
>'
>
>---
>so... this is the LAST time im going to even attempt to
>explain who i am or whatever. I AM HAPPY. my life is going
>great. it's a difficult lifestyle..yes, and mainly because of
>people's judging... i always have to deal with offline and
>online offhand motherfuckers, yes. but at the end of the day,
>it's worth it TO ME. and i dont give two shits about
>homophobes, like really. shit, thursday im going to see
>sizzla live, and yes there'll probably be assholes out there,
>that'll be paying me and my girl extra attention, but really,
>they can kiss my ass cause i wish a mofo *would step up to me
>on some bullshit.

  

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348. "This was also dope."
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361. "*applause*"
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393. "my girl..."
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371. "to be basic - seeing as Africa is the cradle and foundation of"
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humanity almost everything can be attributed to Africa in terms of social systems and idelogy, ALMOST everything and this includes homosexuality

personally I think the question should be what role does/is homosexuality gonna play/playing in the future of the continent in terms of systems of thought, family structure's...I dunno the economy lol and other things?

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398. "GREATEST. POAST. EVER. ARCHIVE."
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399. "...can someone prepare an abstract of this dissertation please?"
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I'm trying to read it and follow, but I'm honestly lost.

  

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