i don't even want to influence him w/ my beliefs right now.

i'd only go there if/when he asked.

i was moreso talking about how hard this is to discuss, especially when there are times when i don't always feel convicted in what *I* believe.

i think you and others are right. whatever we say, i think it's best to be honest that we don't actually know what happens after, and to explain the things we do know/can explain.