31. "get all the help you can. it exists for a reason. " In response to In response to 23
my second kid was born in a hospital - the first kid was not
its a HUGE difference the level of care you get in a hospital, that shit is designed to be sure you're successful as a parent.
don't do any of this on your own. i mean, parenting IS figuring shit out as you go along, but there is no point to figuring out stuff thats either a 5 minute conversation or a 5 week lesson.