but then my wife’s grandmother died so we have to pay our respects on Friday.

My fam in PA is having a celebration for my dad in his birthday this Saturday. Finally got a headstone for him. I won’t be able to make it.

I’m a bit frustrated at my family for having a celebration for my dad during a pandemic. Everyone keeps asking if I’m coming while also telling me to stay safe because covid cases are rising in NC. The fuck you having a celebration with all our elders if that’s the case? Smh.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*