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 she has a friend she would probably fuck if you were not together? |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 1
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 Maybe. I can't call it |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 3
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| If she’s doing this while with you... |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 6
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| get yourself a new "friend" and let it be known |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 2
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| I got divorced. |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 4
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| If we ain’t married I’m canceling her ass like Nino Brown |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 5
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| Talk to your spouse!!! OPENLY |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 7
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 this is good...thank you for sharing that |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 15
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| To be clear though: the man who you decided to cheat with was NOT |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 21
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| Someone I saw frequently in a work-like setting |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 24
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| Ok, I totally hear you. |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 42
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| This is why I made the married man sex rejection post |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 51
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| "Don't ever talk to a girl... |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 8
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| Hmmm... Can I ask to what degree you can confirm the "cheating" part? |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 9
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| banking |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 27
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| I see. Were you gone on your trip for a long period? Sounds like weeks |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 43
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| TELL HER. have a conversation. say how you're feeling |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 78
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| If she leaves, she leaves |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 10
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| the difference in tone between replies from women vs replies from men |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 11
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| Haha.. right. |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 19
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| Ahh..I'll be back...but I was the "cheater" |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 12
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| As long as it doesn't cross the line into an actual relationship... |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 13
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| There absolutely is insecurity involved here, whether his partner |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 16
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| Communication about infedilty seems like it doesn't work |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 18
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 Hm. Welp. My read is there's absolutlely zero evidence of infidelity |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 39
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| You could be 100% right. |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 52
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| this happens way more during happy times. |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 54
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| I respectfully disagree |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 58
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| cool. |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 60
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| Word |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 61
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| No one wants to have a hard convo anymore |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 30
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| Exactly. |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 37
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| There will be POAST! |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 14
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| She invited me to a work happy hour tomorrow |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 17
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| So how do you know she is emotionally cheating? |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 22
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| my gut feeling is blinking red |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 28
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| When you know, you know!!! |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 38
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| dont bring it up. |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 25
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| ^ THIS 100x |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 33
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| talk to her tonight so you can enjoy the happy hour |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 26
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| Go thru her phone like Drake first. |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 29
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| I think yall should def talk about it. But AFTER the hh. Observe 1st. |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 35
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| This is my plan, however dude may not show |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 53
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| Have a few drinks and then confront the guy |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 40
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| LMAO Please don't do this! |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 50
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| https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXP4GHw8_XM |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 59
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| Classic scene. |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 73
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| *jack nicholson heafnod gif* |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 71
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| LOL! ! ! |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 75
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| i once had a work wife |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 20
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| she playin' that good ole' "I have options" game |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 23
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| TERRIBLE ADVICE!!!! |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 31
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| It's good advice, just for the wrong reasons |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 32
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| that's exactly what i meant..never said nothin about doing it for her |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 41
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| Prove to her? Prove what? The advice is for HIM! |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 34
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| You gave great advice here though |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 36
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| I can smoke a bag of that... |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 46
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| While he’s at the gym pumping iron |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 44
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| What you trying to say? Other dude's gonna be pumping something else? |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 55
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| I mean... |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 56
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| definitely confront the other guy, best to do it where they work too |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 45
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| but if you go the punch route plz bring a friend to livestream it |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 47
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| So yeah...I had an emotional affair |
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Jun 13th 2019 | 48
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| If you’re the Roy to your woman’s Pam |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 49
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| This was also an episode of Friends. OKP biting old episodes now. |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 64
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| It's probably a wrap |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 57
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| If you know you know. |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 62
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| Damn. That’s some real shit |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 63
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| I hate to see another nigga go through it man. |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 65
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| LOL. Real shit tho..... |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 66
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| This is why the early conversation doesn't work. |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 67
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| Only advice you NEED is here. |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 69
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| I'm sorry but checks >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> dick and it's not even close. |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 72
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| Call Center for $1500, Alex. |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 74
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| LO fucking L |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 76
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| Almost my whole career has been public sector corporate environments |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 77
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| Get your money sis, but this post ain't about you. |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 79
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| Exactly. |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 80
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| You're right, it's not. And you're right, the OP's girl may be more |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 82
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| Based on what? |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 83
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| Not really interested in taking this back + forth too much further, but: |
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Jun 16th 2019 | 84
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| What do men expect when they allow their wives to work lol |
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Jun 14th 2019 | 68
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| wow. |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 70
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| lol fam |
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Jun 15th 2019 | 81
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| lawdy |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 99
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| Update: spoke my piece, she spoke hers |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 85
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| the fact that hangout attempts was going on and you had no clue |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 86
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| Noted and that's what I focused on |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 92
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| lol this is just the beginning. |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 87
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| Ionno man. |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 88
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| The picnic and group plans happened when I was on a trip |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 90
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| um |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 109
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| Bring that same energy to reply 111... |
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Jun 19th 2019 | 144
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| I had a feeling someone might go here. My exact words were: |
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Jun 19th 2019 | 145
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| Exactly. |
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Jun 19th 2019 | 151
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| THIS |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 91
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| I get it. He’s out of town. She wants to do “something” |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 93
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| Ya that part sounded more like she was just having a hard time |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 101
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| good luck |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 89
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| Time to start *planning* that escape, bruh |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 94
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| Especially since he is married and HE flaked out |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 95
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| she said she would stop texting dude..the hell they texting about? Work? |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 96
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| Prolly dumb shit. |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 97
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| Always starts off work then it moves into personal |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 105
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| Yup. I had an ex |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 106
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| But this "IS" a key difference though: |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 111
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| would she even admit to being attracted if she was? |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 113
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| That's hanging in the balance for any relationship though |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 115
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| Hey kfine it's me again. This is so us |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 114
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| LOL but you have absolutely no basis on which to confirm her attraction |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 117
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| I got platonic friends |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 120
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| Well YOU didn’t hear about it when single |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 116
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| I dunno man...I hear you.. but at this point I'm starting to think workp... |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 119
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| I don’t think this has anything to do with workplace culture |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 123
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| Yall are really trying to push this "it's everywhere you just dont know" |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 139
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| ^ ^ ^Typical non-accountability-having female. |
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Jun 19th 2019 | 152
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| He sounds trifling + your girl sounds like she was vulnerable/exploitabl... |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 98
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| I hear you on everything you wrote. |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 107
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| Dude know she not alone. He just don't give a fuck |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 112
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| or he was there.. lol. |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 118
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| Dude prob rolled through on the low, peeped J and bounced.... |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 121
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| I feel like we're sorely missing a woman's POV here |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 100
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| I am a woman and I've been all up in this post lol. There's been a few |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 102
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| Good for you for speaking up. That's what relationships are all about... |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 103
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| Word to all of that. |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 108
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| i echo this. Bravo for speaking up and out. |
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Jun 17th 2019 | 110
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| You need another conversation |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 136
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| Real talk; you got trust issues fam. And they're gonna eat you up |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 122
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| True |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 124
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| That's the thing...insecurity is only a problem for the person that's in... |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 126
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| Not sure how much college counts |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 130
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| Not for nothing I followed similar advice and y'all know my story |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 125
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| if my intuition is blinking red and the vibe is off I'm speaking on it |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 127
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| Good stuff. What I said was predicated on you speaking your peace & |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 133
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| This perspective is harmful, man. It dismisss his feelings, his... |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 128
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| I don’t think anyone is wrong in this thread |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 131
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| Peep my post 133... wasn't dismissing his feelings... |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 134
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| Personally, I prefer both A & a version of B at the same time |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 140
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| One of the other problems is having people in your corner who would... |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 141
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| he had valid reasons to bring this up to her. |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 129
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| Check the S/O; not the person they are SUPPOSEDLY cheating with... |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 132
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| I hate when dudes want to fight because their girl cheated |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 135
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| lol it be the principle though |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 137
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| And then they double down & tell the lady who she can or can't speak to.... |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 138
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| The End |
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Jun 19th 2019 | 149
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| this thread makes me miss Maury, Sally Jesse, Jenny Jones, Jerry... |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 142
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| damn... |
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Jun 18th 2019 | 143
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| No |
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Jun 19th 2019 | 146
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| good.. |
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Jun 19th 2019 | 147
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| Do you put on Vaseline before you meet the other woman? |
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Jun 19th 2019 | 148
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| you read it wrong... |
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Jun 19th 2019 | 150
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| it reads like you're |
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Jun 20th 2019 | 153
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| Ok. I get it now. |
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Jun 20th 2019 | 154
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