legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79585 posts
Fri Jun-07-19 02:31 PM
4. "Umm... didn’t you move back to Texas with fam close by? " In response to In response to 0
This is all familiar for you. It sounds like it’s her fam that’s grieving and if she is big on family and has never been away from them I can see why they are going through the process.
Also, you have a young kid so that adds to it.
I know you are venting but be careful. I had a cousin who moved to NC from Pittsburgh and he just couldn’t deal. Dude was physically ill from missing his family and home. Some people can move and not skip a bit. That’s me.
But I know people who never left home and don’t want to leave. Family and familiar surroundings are more important than money to them.
Good luck.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*