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lightworks
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"Poll question: Settle an argument regarding me and my boyfriend. "


          

My boyfriend’s grandma’s birthday is this weekend in Philly and he’s going to see her to celebrate.

I mentioned one day I would like to go up with him to visit her and he said this weekend would work but his aunt and uncle are in one guest room, his 45 year old cousin in one, and her 20 year old in another, and my boyfriend is on the couch, so there’s no room for me.

My friend said if he really wanted me there he would ask the cousin and her kid to share a room and have me in one of the rooms (not sure how old school his grandma is so not sure how she feels about us in the same room so maybe he still would be on the couch).

I say all that would be imposing and I don’t blame him for not asking for that.

Who is right?

Poll result (23 votes)
I’m right. (20 votes)Vote
My friend is right. (3 votes)Vote

  

  

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Settle an argument regarding me and my boyfriend. [View all] , lightworks, Thu Dec-13-18 01:33 PM
 
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of course you’re right...
Dec 13th 2018
1
Funny you mention hotel...2 friends brought that up...
Dec 13th 2018
7
      I agree...
Dec 13th 2018
13
           lol. I do want to go. I’ve met his grandma before.
Dec 13th 2018
16
                totally how I’d feel...
Dec 13th 2018
17
                um.....
Dec 13th 2018
26
                     Lol well I’ve never been to the house but I highly doubt they do.
Dec 13th 2018
28
                          oh
Dec 13th 2018
29
                          This pretty much sums up why you don’t belong there lol...
Dec 23rd 2018
73
You are right. Just buy a top quality Air Mattress at Wal Mart -
Dec 13th 2018
2
she’s too good to sleep on an air mattress at grandma’s house...
Dec 23rd 2018
74
two things
Dec 13th 2018
3
I meant more who was more correct, myself or my friend
Dec 13th 2018
10
I was ENGAGED and I shacked up for a night at my parents house
Dec 13th 2018
4
lol. ain’t none of that up in here...
Dec 13th 2018
9
Yeah a few friends asked why we couldn’t get a hotel
Dec 13th 2018
15
      I just spent 6 days in Texas. Three of those we got a hotel.
Dec 13th 2018
23
           Ain’t no way I go home to visit fam and get a hotel
Dec 13th 2018
35
           my fam crazy
Dec 13th 2018
37
           I feel the same...
Dec 13th 2018
41
           My fam ain’t letting me hide my new SO at a hotel.
Dec 13th 2018
43
                look...
Dec 13th 2018
46
                     We might be related
Dec 14th 2018
56
           Shrug.
Dec 13th 2018
47
           Yeah but don’t y’all have a newborn?
Dec 13th 2018
39
                People love babies. And she’s a baby baby now.
Dec 14th 2018
59
Yep
Dec 13th 2018
5
I met that side at a family reunion during the summer.
Dec 13th 2018
12
He can't drop a couple dollars for a hotel or AirBnB?
Dec 13th 2018
6
He’s there Friday to Sunday night.
Dec 13th 2018
14
      True.
Dec 13th 2018
49
           I still love DC so much.
Dec 13th 2018
51
yall both are right.
Dec 13th 2018
8
its not an argument...he's telling you he dont want you there
Dec 13th 2018
11
Damn. lol
Dec 13th 2018
20
      i can read....point still stands
Dec 13th 2018
21
           I don’t get the impression he doesn’t want me there.
Dec 13th 2018
24
           thats good...
Dec 13th 2018
30
           lol
Dec 13th 2018
31
"boyfriend"...
Dec 13th 2018
18
...
Dec 22nd 2018
70
airbnb.
Dec 13th 2018
19
How you or internet strangers gonna tell dude the best way to negotiate
Dec 13th 2018
22
Lol literally any question asked online would be better served asking a ...
Dec 13th 2018
25
      Nah, sometimes you need objective opinions or expertise.
Dec 13th 2018
27
If you don't have a problem...
Dec 13th 2018
32
a good percentage of people would say that is the job of a woman's
Dec 13th 2018
33
Haha.. this is correct
Dec 13th 2018
34
lol
Dec 13th 2018
36
^^^ this part right here ^^^
Dec 13th 2018
48
^^^ THat part (c)
Dec 13th 2018
50
she said "visit" not spend the night...
Dec 13th 2018
38
Eh I feel like spending the the night was implied.
Dec 13th 2018
40
you probably right... this is an 'unusal' weekend
Dec 14th 2018
54
Are you Black?
Dec 13th 2018
45
      RE: Are you Black?
Dec 14th 2018
53
           I think you understand why you HAVE to
Dec 14th 2018
55
If he really wanted you there he would invite you
Dec 13th 2018
42
Don't let your single lonely friends talk you into their club...
Dec 13th 2018
44
yo friend just trying to start some shit
Dec 14th 2018
52
you right
Dec 14th 2018
57
Lmao
Dec 14th 2018
58
Sounds like girlfriend wanting wife privileges. No sure what race...
Dec 15th 2018
60
Lmao at “he might have another girlfriend”. No way.
Dec 15th 2018
61
      RE: Lmao at “he might have another girlfriend”. No way.
Dec 15th 2018
62
      Your friend is white? Awe shit.
Dec 15th 2018
63
unless his funds are suss, he should have suggested a hotel.
Dec 15th 2018
64
A year and yup I’ve met both sides.
Dec 15th 2018
65
      oh, well then it seems more "innocent"...
Dec 16th 2018
67
Both are wrong. Get a hotel or air bnb
Dec 16th 2018
66
or get a clue and let that dude chill with his fam for a weekend.
Dec 17th 2018
68
      Lol
Dec 17th 2018
69
people actually get hotels when fam is in the area
Dec 22nd 2018
71
Depends on what’s on the agenda for the trip. WIth 2 young kids...some...
Dec 22nd 2018
72
Sheeeit. Kids are supposed to stay up late when out of town.
Dec 23rd 2018
76
Depends on how big the family is, the house is, and how long is the...
Dec 23rd 2018
75

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