If it don't come easy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VdZqjOlrmWo

I know a man, a good friend of mine;
He spends all his time tryin' to make love work out right.
But the woman he loves, she don't feel the same, no;
I don't know much about love but at least I learned one thing:

If it don't come easy, you better let it go.
'Cause when it don't come easy, there's no natural flow.
Don't make it hard on your heart, you might be better off alone,
If it don't come easy, you better let it go, yeah.

I know a woman, she's got a heart of gold.
You know she'd do anything to make her man feel right at home.
But the man she loves, now, he's a restless kind of guy,
I wish there was a way I could make her realize.

That if it don't come easy, you better let it go.
''cause when it don't come easy, there's no natural flow.
Don't make it hard on your heart, when you might be better off alone,
If it don't come easy, you better let it go, yeah.

Let it go, though it's hard I know;
Let it loose, I tell you, it's no use.

If it don't come easy, you better let it go.
'Cause when it don't come easy, there's no natural flow.
Don't make it hard on your heart, when you might be better off alone,
If it don't come easy, you better let it,

You better let it,
You better let it go.

If it don't come easy, you better let it go.
'Cause when it don't come easy, there's no natural flow.

Songwriters: Dave Gibson / Craig Karp


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Ev'rybody say "nothin' comes too easy...."

When you got it baby nothin' comes too hard



uh...........

yeah to counter that Tanya Tucker/Prince "baby I'm a star" stuff about "coming too easy", I heard Bishop Jakes say "what is love without a fight/struggle?" (something like that). Todd Smith weighed in with:

I can't sit and wait, for my princess to arrive
I gotta struggle and fight, to keep my dream alive


but that was more about "looking for prospects" and not seemingly dealing with what's right there in front of you.


So........

Is having "game" necessary to make the "meeting stage" go "easy" or the "meeting stage" will just go easy for two people when it's "right"? But is having game masking whether or not two people "really" belong together?


(To those who are inclined to JUMP....this is about EXPLORING a topic, not something I'm desperate for a solution/answer - I found the Tanya Tucker song "interesting" when contrasted with the Prince and Bishop Jakes statement/lyric and I was interested in EXPLORING.....not desperate for an "answer/solution")