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Cocobrotha2
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10. "I'd suggest steering away from the shaming "
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Thu Oct-18-18 08:58 AM by Cocobrotha2

          

i.e. "letting him know this isn't normal for a 10 yr old".

In all likelihood, he stumbled into the porn rather than searching for it directly. People make porn out of all kinds of characters so a kid searching for their favorite cartoon might accidentally find a video of their favorite characters participating in a gangbang.

I don't have a child that age but my thinking is that now that the kid has been exposed to porn, if he wasn't already curious about sex, he likely is now. If that's the case, it's better to be a reliable, mature source of information than to shame them into finding their answers elsewhere (like on the internet or from equally ignorant friends their own age). They're still going to be curious, you just want them to go to the right people with their curiosity.

*edit* NVMD on the parents thing... it's up to you have that convo. The kid may not be down too far the rabbit hole of porn so talking about it now may not be too difficult.

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My 10yr old cousin had xvideos in his safari history on his iphone [View all] , SeV, Wed Oct-17-18 10:41 PM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
leave it alone damn
Oct 17th 2018
1
I hate to see kids going down that iphone path at such an early age.
Oct 17th 2018
2
Shyts tragic smh
Oct 18th 2018
8
FNAF porn? Why is the internet like this?
Oct 18th 2018
3
What is that? I don't want to Google haha
Oct 18th 2018
4
horror game based on Animatronics (like the band from Chuck E Cheese)
Oct 18th 2018
15
      thanks
Oct 18th 2018
16
FNAF as in Five Nights at Freddy’’s?
Oct 18th 2018
6
      I'd bet this is the case
Oct 18th 2018
7
      1st I've heard of it
Oct 18th 2018
9
      whoa, that's creepy
Oct 18th 2018
14
      okay I just went down this rabbit hole
Oct 22nd 2018
19
I've dealt with this with my daughter.
Oct 18th 2018
5
Awesome reply my man...this is how I'd handle it.
Oct 18th 2018
11
thx.
Oct 21st 2018
17
Yea i was kinda thinking that
Oct 18th 2018
13
Thanks for this
Oct 22nd 2018
18
      no problem
Oct 22nd 2018
20
sounds about right. we figured out the filter workarounds on school PCs
Oct 18th 2018
12
my approach when i found my son watching porn at 10:
Oct 23rd 2018
21

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