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atruhead
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"Single people*: What are your perceptions of marriage?"


  

          

*meaning you've never taken the leap

hanging out with a homegirl over the weekend, she was talking about how all of the guys she recently dealt with were playing games. She went on to say "Arent yall glad you dont have to deal with this?"

we had to break it to her that while dating can definitely suck, marriage has different challenges altogether

someone from here envisioned marriage as this happy non stop fuckfest and thought I was on some sort of accomplished high horse about it. none of which is the case

so Im just curious about what people think happens from the outside looking in

  

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Single people*: What are your perceptions of marriage? [View all] , atruhead, Wed Jan-04-17 12:36 PM
 
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I wish I could find the old posts where I was shat on for giving the
Jan 04th 2017
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there is no "real" deal, it's all subjective
Jan 04th 2017
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^^that's the real deal^^^ they are ALL different. And the expectation
Jan 04th 2017
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give us a quick break down please
Jan 04th 2017
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      something along the lines of: sex not being THE primary guage
Jan 04th 2017
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           was that female married?
Jan 04th 2017
13
                I don't even remember...shoot...no telling....
Jan 04th 2017
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                     bruh, you realize now any disagreement with those women
Jan 04th 2017
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seems like everybody loves it until they do it.
Jan 04th 2017
3
most dudes be frontin tho...
Jan 04th 2017
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      True...BUT,
Jan 04th 2017
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           damn... niggas can't vent to friends?
Jan 04th 2017
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                don't get me wrong. If it's some heavy shit, I'm all ears.
Jan 04th 2017
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                     a real friend would say just that...
Jan 04th 2017
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                          generally, I'm a supportive dude in these situations
Jan 04th 2017
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                               lmao... you are a good friend
Jan 04th 2017
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Sex "stops" after marriage
Jan 04th 2017
5
how much sex do yall non married dudes have a month?
Jan 04th 2017
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I'll tell the truth. Not NEARLY enough,
Jan 04th 2017
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oh it'll change.
Jan 04th 2017
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:-)
Jan 04th 2017
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      LMAO!!!
Jan 09th 2017
110
Usually anywhere from a third to half the days out of the month
Jan 04th 2017
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those are excuses bruh, those are legit REASONS.
Jan 04th 2017
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I'll NEVER understand the 'kids' angle.
Jan 04th 2017
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kids wear you down
Jan 04th 2017
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my man * daps *
Jan 04th 2017
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Is it still regular? That's always been my big concern
Jan 04th 2017
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some of those dudes in droughts ain't keeping it sexy
Jan 04th 2017
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i would say, generally, yes.
Jan 04th 2017
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the "there's always tomorrow" thing
Jan 04th 2017
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when/if you have kid/s...you get it. And hopefully you'll apologize
Jan 04th 2017
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fair enough.
Jan 04th 2017
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      prollem is you can't really
Jan 04th 2017
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Too tired from dealing with them and/or work all day...
Jan 04th 2017
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and LMAO at the notion of 12am -5am being peak smash time.....
Jan 04th 2017
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      That's when I do my best work, my G.
Jan 04th 2017
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      Yeah, those are "no-go" times. WE SLEEP.
Jan 04th 2017
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I get it when they are infants or toddlers. Especially for the mom
Jan 04th 2017
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Right?!?!?
Jan 04th 2017
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we sure its not an age (of the parents) thing at that point?
Jan 04th 2017
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yup.. its why I'm #TeamNoKids
Jan 04th 2017
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      say word.
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      ^^^^^
Jan 04th 2017
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marriage and kids two different things
Jan 04th 2017
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Between sex and sleep in marriage???
Jan 04th 2017
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same as living w/your girl......cept she got paperwork on you
Jan 04th 2017
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^^^
Jan 04th 2017
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I picture a lot of missionary sex
Jan 04th 2017
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I'm single with no kids.
Jan 04th 2017
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or real quick because grandma came over and she's down there
Jan 04th 2017
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that it means something different to men...
Jan 04th 2017
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^^^ This ^^^
Jan 04th 2017
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well, we are different
Jan 04th 2017
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what do you expect it to mean to men?
Jan 04th 2017
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that he desires it...
Jan 04th 2017
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      You should definitely want the person you marry to feel that way.
Jan 05th 2017
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           pretty sure every man who isn't thinking of divorce feels like you
Jan 09th 2017
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1. i think its a weird pop culture phenomenon
Jan 04th 2017
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**blushes**
Jan 04th 2017
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this part, though:
Jan 05th 2017
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      Marriage is an important part of getting ahead...
Jan 05th 2017
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      two people pushing for one is how i see it
Jan 05th 2017
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With the way family court is set up, who can blame them?
Jan 05th 2017
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Sacrifice and Eating Shit
Jan 04th 2017
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and that's why it doesn't sem particulary appealling to me.
Jan 05th 2017
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      if that's your perspective, then marriage definitely isn't for you.
Jan 05th 2017
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           it *isn't* mine. Thus the word , "if" in my reply ( no snark)
Jan 05th 2017
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                ah, got you
Jan 05th 2017
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Settled
Jan 04th 2017
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I'd like to hope most married people are extra in love tying the knot
Jan 04th 2017
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there's always that hope
Jan 04th 2017
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Nothing wrong with settling tho
Jan 04th 2017
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      Fo sho, I just think now that most of us are middle age range
Jan 04th 2017
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all of my friends married later in life. It seems like a damn good time....
Jan 04th 2017
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Much higher highs than being single. And potentially, much lower lows
Jan 04th 2017
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I'd say you have a pretty good perception then.
Jan 05th 2017
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'Eyes Wide Shut'
Jan 05th 2017
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Wasn't that movie about weird orgies?
Jan 05th 2017
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      oh canada
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      That too.
Jan 05th 2017
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Fun, Sharing Life, Someone to Call Home
Jan 06th 2017
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RE: Fun, Sharing Life, Someone to Call Home
Jan 06th 2017
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      What is the hold up for slow moving men?
Jan 06th 2017
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           squeaky wheel gets the oil
Jan 07th 2017
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           Probably you feel your freedom will be impeded.
Jan 09th 2017
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Something that should be great made more difficult than it should be
Jan 06th 2017
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Good answer
Jan 06th 2017
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Invented by men to benefit men
Jan 06th 2017
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Well. for some of us it's spiritual...
Jan 06th 2017
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😂😂😂😂
Jan 06th 2017
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Invented to benefit the family
Jan 06th 2017
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like Oprah? Lmao
Jan 07th 2017
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No finance, no romance (c) females
Jan 07th 2017
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Just leave out the fact that marriage doesn't make women richer or happi...
Jan 07th 2017
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      Marriage makes plenty of women happier.
Jan 07th 2017
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      MOST women ain't marry broke niggas
Jan 07th 2017
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           Hmm... back in the day my white coworker asked a rich jewish guy about w...
Jan 08th 2017
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                100K while supporting a family of 4 vs. 50K as a bachelor
Jan 08th 2017
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                     If he was making 50K he wouldnt have asked that question
Jan 08th 2017
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                          RE: If he was making 50K he wouldnt have asked that question
Jan 08th 2017
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Until recently, Oprah couldn't legally marry who she really loves....
Jan 07th 2017
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So a wealthy woman w/ a life-long friend and no desire to marry
Jan 07th 2017
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      Or you just miss obvious jokes.
Jan 07th 2017
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           I laugh when things are funny. Nm
Jan 07th 2017
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                Well say you didn't find it funny and KIM
Jan 07th 2017
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This is like 60% of why I don't plan on marrying.
Jan 07th 2017
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Work, the ultimate initiation, 2 medicore people coming together to...
Jan 06th 2017
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In short, MORMONISM.
Jan 08th 2017
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Not all marriages are the same
Jan 07th 2017
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HELL.
Jan 08th 2017
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RE: HELL x 1,000,000,000 aka KIDS!
Jan 08th 2017
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A huge risk in this day and age...
Jan 09th 2017
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