Cook them in water
Once cooked throw in splashes of bacon drippings
Salt to taste

Depending how I feel I might go creamy and do a couple splashes milk before I add my cheese

If not, like sunday, I just add a handful of cheese(s) and keep it pushin

Also, if u didn't know u can sub sour cream or heavy cream for the milk
Cream cheese too
I've done them all a time or two

I don't cook mine in milk because I find it is a waste of milk as the end result you cant tell

But I do cook cream of wheat in 100% milk
Now THAT you can tell the difference

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