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Buddy_Gilapagos
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Thu May-12-16 09:56 AM

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"I've come to the conclusion that working with women is just better"


  

          

for me. I think I would say in general as a man, it can be better working with women.

I've spent alot of my career working for older white men and that has been the pits for me (however, my wife always thrived working for older white guys, especially older jewish guys).

The boys club is real and black men aren't necessarily in that club (they can be but it's a certain type of black dude (i.e., jock-type).

It might be sexist to say but women colleagues tend to be more collaborative, less ego driven and even nurturing.

However, there is one huge exception. The childless driven careerist who had to fight her way through the boys club. That woman scares me. The same goes for the childless male boss but they are rarer (There was this one gay dude boss I know and he was brutal).

All that being said, the hardest I ever had to work for was a woman of color who lived for work and set out to get me fired when I wasn't willing to work like her.

What say you? Do you have any generalizations about who you like to work for?



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I've come to the conclusion that working with women is just better [View all] , Buddy_Gilapagos, Thu May-12-16 09:56 AM
 
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This is a huge over-generalization from me...
May 12th 2016
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As far as generalizations go, I think that's true. All the black women
May 12th 2016
2
      huh? are you suggesting they should have black mentors?
May 12th 2016
6
           A+ sicing my dude.....lol..
May 12th 2016
12
           I would think black professionals would want to mentor young black
May 12th 2016
14
                but you side eyed your brother for his HBCU and working with a black jud...
May 13th 2016
50
I don't like working anywhere without a decent balance
May 12th 2016
3
yup
May 12th 2016
8
Yeah, I agree with this. n/m
May 12th 2016
11
^ came to say this
May 12th 2016
21
I can work with anyone as long as they aren't an asshole
May 12th 2016
4
I've mostly worked directly under women
May 12th 2016
5
^^^
May 12th 2016
10
yep
May 12th 2016
16
boo
May 12th 2016
7
unmarried white gay male was the worst .....
May 12th 2016
9
something about having to specify unmarried in this description
May 12th 2016
13
the marriage thing is key...heck, maybe a relationship period would have
May 12th 2016
15
      this this this this this
May 12th 2016
18
      basically why i just changed jobs
May 12th 2016
24
He tried to work you to death?
May 12th 2016
43
i had an older black female boss once..
May 12th 2016
17
oh. i thought you were gonna say 'cause they have boobies.
May 12th 2016
19
I disagree. Man to Man relationship works at the job if you
May 12th 2016
20
RE: I disagree. Man to Man relationship works at the job if you
May 12th 2016
23
      Ive never had a male boss I couldn't approach. I've had
May 12th 2016
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           RE: Ive never had a male boss I couldn't approach. I've had
May 12th 2016
27
i agree 100%
May 12th 2016
22
I work wit all women and it's a nightmare!
May 12th 2016
25
OKMen that prefer Female Bosses yall are not players are u?
May 12th 2016
28
RE: OKMen that prefer Female Bosses yall are not players are u?
May 12th 2016
30
If you had your way you would work with a bunch of zesty young mens.
May 12th 2016
31
Nah you said Zesty I said a Zest for life meaning positive
May 12th 2016
33
Dude you fcuk fat beat white chicks that the white boys don't want nothi...
May 12th 2016
35
LOL Yes I do and then some...My roster covers the entire
May 12th 2016
40
you have got to be gay or something
May 12th 2016
38
Yeah that's it exactly.
May 12th 2016
41
      Come on, if how you post is how you feel, there's *something* off
May 13th 2016
48
you drawlin
May 12th 2016
42
      Was bored at work felt like some old school snark
May 12th 2016
44
I've always worked in departments where I'm the only
May 12th 2016
29
Yes. YOu can not tell female coworkers any of your business
May 12th 2016
32
I've always thrived under older white men, but this describes me:
May 12th 2016
34
Man as long as you are happy, stay happy
May 12th 2016
36
Naw, wrong boss can you ruin your day, month , year
May 12th 2016
37
      I'm saying if YOU like working with women - Be Happy
May 12th 2016
39
after nearly 10 years in a 90% female workplace, no
May 12th 2016
45
So you're a pussy whose wife gets around with older white men?
May 12th 2016
46
LOL
May 12th 2016
47
blows the whistle...
May 13th 2016
49
We taking shots at wives now? Tough anonymous talk.
May 13th 2016
51
Naw, fam. Let that clown be.
May 13th 2016
53
Ain't no shots...just jokes my man
May 13th 2016
55
Yo! wife's and kids are off limits. You're foul as Fowl.
May 13th 2016
52
      Come on son...he left himself wide open for that one...jokes...jokes
May 13th 2016
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