1. being able to make sure my mom is super comfortable and happy and wants for nothing for the rest of her life. 2. being an expert at what i do. like the best. unfadeable.3. having a really good sex life4. making a huge positive impact on black ppl...either through an organization i create, having foster kids, donating money to a cause, etc.5. raise some really awesome kids, including my nieces and nephews