Back in HS I dated a girl from Cali. She kept saying "I know you are going to leave me for a white girl"

well, I didn't but I got tired of her so I broke up with her and chased after a half white girl.

So she was half right.

Anyway..

10 or so years later I'm home and visit her grandmother who lives right next to my dad's house. I look over and see a wedding photo and her husband is WHITE!!!

I was like damn...

every think back and see the signs after the fact?

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*