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"So he tells me he's been going through my phone, wait what??"
Sat Apr-25-15 01:53 PM by ThisIs_ATruthThang

  

          

I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO LIVID right now...


I am SINGLE. We had* an understanding, he was very aware of this and the fact that I see other people. Now *I* chose to only be with him romantically because that's how I like to keep things. 1 at a time.

He'd previously asked me one night had I saw anyone else during a time I was mad at him. I told the truth, no I hadn't but I asked him why would he ask me that because I can see who I want. I told him THEN that I talk to other people and if I wanted to go out with anyone that I would, it has nothing to do with him! He said he understood that.


Flashback to this morning... I'm getting questioned back to back. "Are you seeing anybody else, have you ever lied to me, have you ever slept with anyone else?" Whoa whoa, where is all this coming from??

"Whose _________?" Oh so you're going through my phone??

Now look, I am a VERY honest person but if I'm just dating someone and you ask me specifically what am I doing and who I'm with? I'm not going to tell you when I'm out with another man. That's just stupid and awkward to me. So I told him I was with my friend.

So now I'm a liar and I'm sleeping with this guy I just met 3 weeks ago... RIGHT But hold up, you went through my phone?

Like I'm laughing at the idea of him accusing me of sleeping with dude because I didn't but I want to. Lol I'm not but I want to. I'm single. I have the right to change my mind too.

But he yelling back to me my text messages like he's found gold. This enrages me! That's violating my privacy and is really disrespectful. If you don't trust me? Fall back leave me alone. Don't go through my phone. Now if you're my man, then you ask to go through my phone, go ahead. Have at it.

He tells me this isn't his first time... I was contemplating on forgiving him but nah. He's crazy. I really think he is.

Now he's apologizing til he's blue in the face. Saying he was in his feelings but I don't care. I don't play that shit. I'm MAD!



**Vent over**

But lol @ him yelling, "You telling this nigga to have a good day n shit!" and "Why was he singing to you?!?"... I did start laughing




Somebody's lying...

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So he tells me he's been going through my phone, wait what?? [View all] , ThisIs_ATruthThang, Sat Apr-25-15 01:51 PM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
you may just want to cut your loses now...and walk away with
Apr 25th 2015
1
Oh it's over. Sad because I REALLY love dude.
Apr 25th 2015
2
      I'm curious to know why you two aren't together if the
Apr 27th 2015
264
           He lives a careless ass lifestyle. Smokes and drinks damn there everyday
Apr 27th 2015
276
crazy af
Apr 25th 2015
3
Yea I could have forgiven one time but he's been going thru it... nah
Apr 25th 2015
5
      i somehow glossed over the fact that he used your pw...
Apr 25th 2015
8
           Premeditated creeping...
Apr 25th 2015
11
                was password the password?
Apr 25th 2015
12
                     No and No! Lol
Apr 25th 2015
13
                          does that make him craaaaazay?
Apr 25th 2015
14
                               You tell me!
Apr 25th 2015
15
Somebody's lying...
Apr 25th 2015
4
I wish...
Apr 25th 2015
6
time to lock that phone
Apr 25th 2015
7
I got an iPhone; I use my fingerprint but I still use a pass code for ba...
Apr 25th 2015
9
could someone take a photo of you and open you phone with it?
Apr 25th 2015
16
      True, I know my brother's son can unlock his phone bc they're twins
Apr 25th 2015
26
      true facial requires an eyeblink
Apr 25th 2015
27
           never knew it required an eye blink
Apr 25th 2015
42
sucker shit
Apr 25th 2015
10
eh I'v done it
Apr 25th 2015
17
lmao
Apr 25th 2015
18
Eh, what is there to fade to black about?
Apr 25th 2015
25
True.
Apr 25th 2015
29
      You need to read the post. lol
Apr 25th 2015
31
           I know what the post said
Apr 25th 2015
41
                3 including him but one don't count. We only text.
Apr 25th 2015
55
                one doesnt count, we only text... lol, that sounds like some bullshit
Apr 25th 2015
79
                you sound like you bout to check her phone next lmao
Apr 25th 2015
78
                     Lmfao. Show up at her door like...
Apr 26th 2015
125
LOL @ the bs justification. nah nigga, thats the shit YOU be on
Apr 25th 2015
34
I feel like I haven't checked a phone since 2005 or before.
Apr 27th 2015
195
RE:damb you dumn
Apr 25th 2015
36
or maybe you just ain't never really deal with women.
Apr 25th 2015
39
      these things go better if your retorts refute opposing points
Apr 25th 2015
51
           lol
Apr 25th 2015
52
           I was just stating the obvious.
Apr 26th 2015
110
                mission accomplished, I assure you
Apr 26th 2015
113
                     you even reply like your dick been dry for years.
Apr 26th 2015
143
                          Still covering up those insecurities, eh?
Apr 26th 2015
156
How old are you?
Apr 26th 2015
162
not cool bruh
Apr 27th 2015
194
http://i.imgur.com/IM4KnS8.png
Apr 25th 2015
19
you win at the Internet
Apr 25th 2015
20
If only I could've done a drunk and cut up one.
Apr 27th 2015
196
LOL yo
Apr 25th 2015
22
Wow! Really lol I'm dying
Apr 25th 2015
23
lol
Apr 25th 2015
38
LOL
Apr 25th 2015
85
i love this place.
Apr 27th 2015
206
That was a very confusing read.
Apr 25th 2015
21
What was confusing? and that's not nice either. Do I know you?
Apr 25th 2015
24
      its not confusing to me... dude caught feelings and couldnt hide it.
Apr 25th 2015
43
           It wasn't really a fuck buddy but yea I thought I had the perfect setup
Apr 25th 2015
56
           Tell his family to come get him
Apr 25th 2015
59
           stop being sensational...
Apr 25th 2015
66
                #56 "drinking all day, talking crazy, and he hurt himself"
Apr 25th 2015
69
           you don't need this.
Apr 25th 2015
63
           Yikes. Yeah, scratch that last reply bruh this is code red.
Apr 25th 2015
65
           RE: It wasn't really a fuck buddy <---- Holup
Apr 26th 2015
128
           message.
Apr 26th 2015
130
If yall were just casually dating
Apr 25th 2015
28
i wish my old lady did tell someone to 'have a good day'
Apr 25th 2015
30
them good morning text too
Apr 25th 2015
40
haha, i knew at least one of yall thought this was a relationship.
Apr 25th 2015
32
Sun fuckin wit da wrong one,.....Ninja betta watch his denim!
Apr 25th 2015
33
yeah he's way wrong
Apr 25th 2015
35
if that's you in your avatar...
Apr 25th 2015
37
aint no such thing as casual fucking... someone always catches feelings
Apr 25th 2015
44
      Exactly lol. "Casual" is always temporary.
Apr 25th 2015
67
      I guess my 8 year booty call is the exception
Apr 25th 2015
90
           either it was trash booty, ugly chicks or horrible dick game... or all 3
Apr 26th 2015
120
                lol im in shock how proud he is about it.
Apr 26th 2015
123
                and why wouldn't i be?!
Apr 26th 2015
154
                zero feelings...
Apr 26th 2015
155
                     if they aint catching feelings, you aint fucking them right
Apr 26th 2015
166
                          You are too old to be this naive.
Apr 26th 2015
182
                               jealous^^
Apr 26th 2015
185
                                    Delusional^^
Apr 26th 2015
187
REAL crazy woulda been calling them niggas up from your phone.
Apr 25th 2015
45
EXTREMELY fragile..... and women KNOW this and still believe us
Apr 25th 2015
46
RE: all facts, lol
Apr 25th 2015
47
Well stop saying that bullshit
Apr 26th 2015
164
I don't want to be with him. Love him but he lives a crazy life
Apr 25th 2015
60
poor guy. don't mind me. i want love for everybody.
Apr 25th 2015
72
you are intimate with someone you dont want to be with?
Apr 26th 2015
132
^^^^^^me
Apr 25th 2015
61
Oh shit! Lolol Well I think he knew if he did that?
Apr 25th 2015
64
      he's not crazy...he's just in love and heart broken.
Apr 25th 2015
77
           lol
Apr 25th 2015
80
           and he's right there with the person who broke his heart
Apr 25th 2015
82
                whe he shows up at the bar in slippers while she is on a date
Apr 25th 2015
88
                     You don't know my life! n/m
Apr 26th 2015
175
                          wooohah!!
Apr 26th 2015
176
my Ex did this, he called everyone in my damn phone one night...
Apr 25th 2015
81
i think the dude just wanted to have the 'exclusive' conversation
Apr 25th 2015
48
Eh, I'm not denying lying.... And I wouldn't have had sex with dude
Apr 25th 2015
62
man I swear in my 20s dudes always made women
Apr 25th 2015
49
been there. BEEN there.
Apr 25th 2015
50
Red flags for insecurity
Apr 25th 2015
53
OMG so he shows up to my house drunk and bleeding...
Apr 25th 2015
54
yikes.
Apr 25th 2015
57
Lol are you sure?
Apr 25th 2015
70
Ummm... I think you're gonna have to move soon
Apr 25th 2015
73
*reshelves cookware* -- yeah -- that nigga throwed.
Apr 25th 2015
74
I'm taking action on whether or not
Apr 25th 2015
92
why you even go to the hospital with him?
Apr 26th 2015
109
Because he was drunk and bleeding everywhere
Apr 26th 2015
116
      he acted crazy and it worked...
Apr 26th 2015
117
      he knows how to get your attention now. be careful.
Apr 26th 2015
141
      emotional manipulation
Apr 26th 2015
146
Yall go together now. I can't even cartoon that one.
Apr 26th 2015
183
RE: So he tells me he's been going through my phone, wait what??
Apr 25th 2015
58
My girl said its his cry for help. I want to help him but...
Apr 25th 2015
75
      RE: My girl said its his cry for help. I want to help him but...
Apr 26th 2015
108
Amount of dumb shit in this entire post is sad yo...
Apr 25th 2015
68
cut him off
Apr 25th 2015
71
I don't think I have a choice anymore. He went too far
Apr 25th 2015
76
I'm just waiting on him to show up in this post and
Apr 25th 2015
83
some of you dudes in here are also crazy.
Apr 25th 2015
84
anyone who has been dickmatized or pussy whipped has acted crazy...
Apr 25th 2015
86
nah.
Apr 25th 2015
89
that what dickmitized/pussy whipped people
Apr 25th 2015
91
      Dexter Morgan had his moment too... he just didnt tell you.
Apr 25th 2015
95
           sure maybe when I was 15
Apr 25th 2015
96
                nah, alcohol and puberty are necessary for the meltdown
Apr 25th 2015
97
welp
Apr 25th 2015
106
get away from him unless you're the type who likes drama
Apr 25th 2015
87
I dont know her to say she does like drama, however
Apr 25th 2015
94
did u just mention you thought you had the perfect set up???
Apr 25th 2015
93
wonder how many of y'all dudes defending dude would be defending
Apr 25th 2015
98
80% of facebook posts are abt a woman going thru her man's phone.
Apr 25th 2015
99
LOL at default setting
Apr 25th 2015
100
you are corny.
Apr 25th 2015
103
ssshhh. dont fight the truth, girl. embrace it.
Apr 26th 2015
111
      corny.
Apr 26th 2015
112
           and unashamed.
Apr 26th 2015
114
                YA HEARD!
Apr 26th 2015
118
                     RE: lol. sig-worthy.
Apr 26th 2015
119
                          nah, they rather play cool at all times...
Apr 26th 2015
121
Ninja tossed a jewel-shuriken from outta nowhere den vanished in smoke.
Apr 25th 2015
105
      *updates database*
Apr 26th 2015
107
keyed his car is where you lost me.
Apr 25th 2015
101
k
Apr 25th 2015
104
If the roles were reversed we'd call dude out for running game and
Apr 26th 2015
124
ikr... I aint saying dude is right for going thru the phone
Apr 26th 2015
127
      MY POINT: He wouldn't have known had he not gone in my phone
Apr 26th 2015
137
           but he DID have a reason...
Apr 26th 2015
142
           RE: MY POINT: He wouldn't have known had he not gone in my phone
Apr 26th 2015
181
you see it
Apr 27th 2015
216
Have you ever has sex with him?
Apr 25th 2015
102
of course they had sex. people dont act like this unless they had sex...
Apr 26th 2015
115
      Exactly... So then she already knows what's wrong.
Apr 26th 2015
145
don't be a Cancerian about this
Apr 26th 2015
122
you see it
Apr 26th 2015
126
      well, that's not what I meant
Apr 26th 2015
135
      Wrong! I hate drama. I'm a runner not a keeper.
Apr 26th 2015
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           I hope this isnt the one you decide to give another chance...
Apr 26th 2015
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           RE: Wrong! I hate drama. I'm a runner not a keeper.
Apr 26th 2015
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                Everybody that's how I was raised
Apr 26th 2015
153
I dont get compartmentalizing guys at all
Apr 26th 2015
129
*meanwhile niggas invented this shit*
Apr 26th 2015
133
did you get a high school GED?
Apr 26th 2015
134
RE: did you get a high school GED?
Apr 26th 2015
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      if you're still debating after this, you're slow
Apr 26th 2015
158
      RE: if you're still debating after this, you're slow
Apr 26th 2015
173
      he aint saying none of that tho...
Apr 26th 2015
159
*shrugs* the players change but the game remains the same
Apr 26th 2015
136
      RE: *shrugs* the players change but the game remains the same
Apr 26th 2015
151
           I think he can relate... he is just coming from a guys perspective
Apr 26th 2015
163
                lol no doubt @ met your match.
Apr 26th 2015
174
                     we have no idea what type of glory truethang has between her legs
Apr 26th 2015
178
                          I wasnt gonna go there but
Apr 26th 2015
184
                               yezzir
Apr 26th 2015
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....
Apr 26th 2015
140
okay then dont be surprised by possessive messiness
Apr 26th 2015
144
      ikr.. people arent robots. you can lay out the rules, get them to sign a...
Apr 26th 2015
148
      lol so this has never happened to you
Apr 26th 2015
152
           Avengers comes out on May 1st nigga
Apr 26th 2015
157
           your logic: niggas cheat, why cant she be manipulative?
Apr 26th 2015
160
                She said she told him from the top she didn't want to be monogamous
Apr 26th 2015
161
                     all this is true... he wasnt built for it.
Apr 26th 2015
165
                     There are tons of poly people in nyc
Apr 26th 2015
167
                     poly people be fuckong up the rules too
Apr 26th 2015
169
                          true...
Apr 26th 2015
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                     Lol!! So wrong to laugh at this...
Apr 26th 2015
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                     *dead*
Apr 27th 2015
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                     LOL
Apr 27th 2015
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                     omg....lol!!
Apr 27th 2015
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                     she said that and her actions said otherwise
Apr 26th 2015
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                          You can love some one and not want to forsake all others
Apr 26th 2015
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                               no you can't...
Apr 27th 2015
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                                    i dont know but ppl use this stance quite a bit
Apr 27th 2015
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                                         yeah.. I used to use it all the time
Apr 27th 2015
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                                              ultimately, even as involved as he was
Apr 27th 2015
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Eh I've had successful situations like this in the past **shrugs**
Apr 27th 2015
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      you've repeatedly fuckbuddy-zoned men u LOVE?
Apr 27th 2015
265
sounds of wackness. That clown would be dead to me after that
Apr 26th 2015
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Soundrack for this post?
Apr 26th 2015
149
how do you cut your ass? this nigga good...
Apr 26th 2015
168
Monica, I blame you for ignoring all the crazy moments this nigga showed...
Apr 26th 2015
177
like knowing he would walk thru a snow storm if she needed a hug...
Apr 26th 2015
180
He cant handle that type of setting
Apr 26th 2015
179
I've been in a situation similar to yours before
Apr 26th 2015
189
u lost me w/ Black men without fathers or uncaring mothers...
Apr 27th 2015
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      I know. You can't relate. And that's ok.
Apr 27th 2015
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Sex for fun usually reeks of dysfunction is some way or another...
Apr 26th 2015
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What is wrong with you people?? lol
Apr 27th 2015
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I'd ask the same about some of yall, but the issues are pretty clear.
Apr 27th 2015
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hanh?
Apr 27th 2015
213
      I don't even know why you'd question that.
Apr 27th 2015
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did you really throw tug love into the mix?
Apr 27th 2015
201
slippery slope
Apr 27th 2015
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LOL
Apr 27th 2015
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      LMAO
Apr 27th 2015
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           it's probably more about my porn addiction (c) Case
Apr 27th 2015
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           yeah... these new age lovers are a trip
Apr 27th 2015
203
                Say what you will, but I have had friends that I chill with and have sex...
Apr 27th 2015
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                     I bet YOU didn't... lol
Apr 27th 2015
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                          Didn't what?
Apr 27th 2015
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                               didn't find it difficult
Apr 27th 2015
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He was wrong for going through your shit but youre also playing him
Apr 27th 2015
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#180
Apr 27th 2015
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lots of people only have sides
Apr 27th 2015
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If I SAY I"M SINGLE AND SEEING OTHER PEOPLE?!?!?!?
Apr 27th 2015
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      period.
Apr 27th 2015
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      it's never that simple.
Apr 27th 2015
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      Bullshit, no one got strung along and like I said I've been here and don...
Apr 27th 2015
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      there's a lack of accountability here.
Apr 27th 2015
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           I didn't know he was sprung until he went through my phone
Apr 27th 2015
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                wooooooooooooow (c) mos def
Apr 27th 2015
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                lol
Apr 27th 2015
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                but he prolly would pay your rent, give you walk around $$$
Apr 27th 2015
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      The Crisco thing is interesting
Apr 27th 2015
227
      he could have just as easily walked away if he didnt like the arrangemen...
Apr 27th 2015
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      he tripped over some glass while he was walkin away
Apr 27th 2015
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      Except he's not trying to walk away...
Apr 27th 2015
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           have a fucking heart..
Apr 27th 2015
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                blah he shoulda kept his heart if he gon' make awwll the bad decisions
Apr 27th 2015
250
                her ass wasn't calling the ambulance
Apr 27th 2015
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                yeah you gotta cut him off
Apr 27th 2015
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      basically
Apr 27th 2015
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           There are and were no contradictions. Spin it how you like
Apr 27th 2015
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           how you treated him made him feel otherwise
Apr 27th 2015
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                Man not really... but iight... I guess.
Apr 27th 2015
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           dude
Apr 27th 2015
252
      Not quite Crisco admits he SELLS THE DREAM
Apr 27th 2015
233
           THE DREAM of D a few times a month...
Apr 27th 2015
249
                Naw Crisco used boyfriend and girlfriend
Apr 27th 2015
266
                     yeah, I was trippin'
Apr 27th 2015
269
      yup
Apr 27th 2015
220
drop.that.nigga.NOW.
Apr 27th 2015
193
I honestly don't get how I played him or my fucking self for that matter
Apr 27th 2015
221
consider it 80/20 or 90/10
Apr 27th 2015
234
He wasn't any type of person but a good person prior to this.
Apr 27th 2015
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      its makes them incompatible
Apr 27th 2015
245
      ^^^listen^^^
Apr 27th 2015
246
      pretty much. she can't help that he caught em
Apr 27th 2015
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           yep and going forward
Apr 27th 2015
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      I feel like you are being a little shady with this angle
Apr 27th 2015
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charge it to the game boo
Apr 27th 2015
244
goin thru phones is called Quality Control
Apr 27th 2015
225
That's obvious however my post is about him being wrong in doing so
Apr 27th 2015
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      Oh i totally agree....but it happens...and its wrong...and u have
Apr 27th 2015
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      RE: That's obvious however my post is about him being wrong in doing so
Apr 27th 2015
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welcome to my world, 2 weeks ago.
Apr 27th 2015
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um
Apr 27th 2015
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http://38.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0ghi83q1W1qii6tmo1_500.gif
Apr 27th 2015
254
That's definitely a violation. I feel sorry for him, though.
Apr 27th 2015
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yup... he needs to know the rules of the game.
Apr 27th 2015
267
whole situation was a bundle of childishness
Apr 27th 2015
263
I love it when people lie to themselves
Apr 27th 2015
272
Umm yea... Lol Maybe I'm a different type of person
Apr 27th 2015
274
it helps to have fuck buddies that you dont really like
Apr 27th 2015
270
do they cuddle after sex? punch each other in the arm?
Apr 27th 2015
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That's why I was fucking him, because I don't want to be with him!
Apr 27th 2015
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RE: That's why I was fucking him, because I don't want to be with him!
Apr 27th 2015
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lol everything changes once you start bussin IN her and not ON her
Apr 27th 2015
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molly, you in danger, girl.
Apr 27th 2015
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I swear Fishgrease had some wise words before this even happened
Apr 27th 2015
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she said she be fuckin her male friends on occasion...
Apr 27th 2015
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Noooooo!!! Don't twist my words crazy man
Apr 27th 2015
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Most people respond badly to being bookmarks.
Apr 27th 2015
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