2. "put her to rest in your own way." In response to In response to 0
give your granny her eulogy. i didn't cry over mine a great deal either and i was her favourite and she mine. at her time of passing i harbored no regrets, no woulda/coulda. i still don't cry tho her absence is vast, so vast.
but i'd go to my granny's gravesite and send her spirit on the way she wanted.