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"Homophobia has robbed men of touch (link)"


  

          

http://www.filmsforaction.org/articles/touch-isolation-how-homophobia-has-robbed-all-men-of-touch/

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American men, in an attempt to avoid any possible hint of committing unwanted sexual touch, are foregoing gentle platonic touch in their lives. I’ll call it touch isolation. Homophobic social stigmas, the long-standing challenges of rampant sexual abuse, and a society steeped in a generations old puritanical mistrust of physical pleasure have created an isolating trap in which American men can go for days or weeks at a time without touching another human being. The implications of touch isolation for men’s health and happiness are huge.

...it's a great read.

fuck you.

  

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Homophobia has robbed men of touch (link) [View all] , SoWhat, Wed Mar-25-15 05:37 PM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
Totally agree with this
Mar 25th 2015
1
maybe it's where I grew up, but I haven't witnessed this
Mar 25th 2015
91
love this article
Mar 25th 2015
2
The hand holding among men in Ghana is great.
Mar 25th 2015
3
same thing in nairobi
Mar 25th 2015
12
word.
Mar 25th 2015
25
Oh they did it in Accra when I was there
Mar 26th 2015
250
I'll admit the idea of dudes platonically holding hands is so foreign
Mar 25th 2015
5
Read the article and/or stfu.
Mar 25th 2015
6
lol @ and/or
Mar 25th 2015
15
Why you mad?
Mar 25th 2015
51
i dont know that its a correlation
Mar 25th 2015
14
      But are there a lot of homophobic countries that don't have touch
Mar 25th 2015
55
           the article contextualizes it to this society
Mar 25th 2015
66
           *sigh*
Mar 25th 2015
67
           Is this preference specific though?
Mar 25th 2015
117
                dunno. email the author.
Mar 26th 2015
122
           what about non-homophobic countries that don't have touch
Mar 25th 2015
104
YO. That shit threw me off like a MF when I went last year!!!
Mar 26th 2015
251
If it's the peice I think, yes.
Mar 25th 2015
4
I saw it on FB too.
Mar 25th 2015
8
      It makes sense
Mar 25th 2015
18
agree, but tell that to GW Bush
Mar 25th 2015
7
Likely initiated by the Saudi. Lol
Mar 25th 2015
9
Beanie Siegel wept
Mar 25th 2015
10
I think black men are more tactile with their male friends
Mar 25th 2015
11
barely.
Mar 25th 2015
13
      i think i saw on okp that sitting next to your male friend
Mar 25th 2015
16
           Yep meanwhile
Mar 25th 2015
19
           Seeing some of those public transport photos was eye opening
Mar 25th 2015
22
                There's definitely a system to it
Mar 25th 2015
36
                     o_0 indeed
Mar 25th 2015
56
           you see it.
Mar 25th 2015
27
I had an umcomfortable incident w/ a gentleman from Ghana
Mar 25th 2015
17
damn.
Mar 25th 2015
28
I call bullshit.
Mar 25th 2015
20
Straight Korean men can hold hands without issue
Mar 25th 2015
26
YOU would.
Mar 25th 2015
29
Trying to toughen your son doesn't automatically equate to homophobia
Mar 25th 2015
35
      k.
Mar 25th 2015
38
      this i dont get: Trying to toughen your son
Mar 25th 2015
54
      have you seen worldstar videos?
Mar 25th 2015
62
      what does 'soft' mean?
Mar 25th 2015
72
      It means that you don't stand up for yourself.
Mar 25th 2015
78
           oh okay.
Mar 25th 2015
80
                I never said it was effective. My parents didn't do it.
Mar 25th 2015
83
                     cool, dude.
Mar 25th 2015
85
      these bmore kids dont get enough love or hugs
Mar 25th 2015
76
      misogyny is at the root of homophobia.
Mar 25th 2015
75
      also often guised as
Mar 25th 2015
87
      amen!
Mar 25th 2015
88
           Totally agree
Mar 25th 2015
108
           Yup
Mar 26th 2015
130
           Dykes are the meanest people on the planet
Mar 26th 2015
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           what is a dyke?
Mar 26th 2015
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           T H I S.
Mar 26th 2015
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      If this ain't an oasis in a desert full of sexist, patriarchal apologia....
Mar 27th 2015
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      thinking of it as a binary is a HUGE problem as well
Mar 26th 2015
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      you toughen your son up to be prepared for life
Mar 26th 2015
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      an aside: blue for boys, pink for girls
Mar 25th 2015
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           yeah, i had to read this a while ago for some marketing research
Mar 26th 2015
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I call bullshit on your bullshit
Mar 25th 2015
31
      have no idea what you're getting at.
Mar 25th 2015
32
      he's missing the point.
Mar 25th 2015
34
           He is
Mar 25th 2015
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           possibly b/c of the 'homophobia' thing.
Mar 25th 2015
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                agreed
Mar 25th 2015
71
                     he's confirmed it repeatedly. LOL
Mar 25th 2015
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           I'm not missing it (although I didn't get the gibberish that she just sa...
Mar 25th 2015
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           Your logic makes no sense...
Mar 25th 2015
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           Two things:
Mar 25th 2015
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                platonic touch isn't so much about physical pleasure.
Mar 25th 2015
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                And this is what I mean, though.
Mar 25th 2015
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                     LORD HAVE MERCY JESUS.
Mar 25th 2015
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                          LOL.
Mar 25th 2015
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                          Let's be very clear, fam. You don't know me. Hell, I don't even..
Mar 25th 2015
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                          i am very clear.
Mar 25th 2015
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                               well, that just about does it then.
Mar 25th 2015
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                                    i sure hope so!
Mar 25th 2015
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                          Lol to get this back on track
Mar 25th 2015
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                               i have black friends who are more touchy-feely than i am.
Mar 25th 2015
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                                    Okay it was just me that got side tracked then lol
Mar 25th 2015
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                                    RE: Okay it was just me that got side tracked then lol
Mar 25th 2015
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                                         We might be getting somewhere
Mar 25th 2015
102
                                         i see it with my lil cousins
Mar 25th 2015
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                                              :(
Mar 26th 2015
127
                                    eh, i dont know.
Mar 25th 2015
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                                         oh yeah. you're on to something there.
Mar 25th 2015
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                                              Yeah I dunno
Mar 25th 2015
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                                                   i agree.
Mar 25th 2015
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                this is sad: any physical touch= romance
Mar 25th 2015
57
                     You absolutely just made that up. It's not worth me responding.
Mar 25th 2015
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           sure, guy.
Mar 25th 2015
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                RE: sure, guy.
Mar 25th 2015
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                     k.
Mar 25th 2015
53
                     okay, maybe we should link it to it being seen as 'weak'?
Mar 25th 2015
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                          it's so sad!
Mar 25th 2015
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                          nah, not code for gay
Mar 27th 2015
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           They pierce dicks and mutilate genitals in Africa too so there's that
Mar 25th 2015
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                such a wierd tangent.
Mar 25th 2015
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I dont want no man touching me, and I'm totally ok with that
Mar 25th 2015
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i wonder how many women think this
Mar 25th 2015
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at this point it appears all of yall
Mar 25th 2015
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if yall are repulsive, why should women want you?
Mar 25th 2015
90
      whose y'all? I'm one of the most attractive human beings on earth.
Mar 25th 2015
109
Lots, right? Isn't that the prevailing wisdom?
Mar 25th 2015
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not really
Mar 25th 2015
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as a teen
Mar 25th 2015
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      i cant stand in front of a man in close quarters
Mar 25th 2015
95
LULZ! willful ignorance is so charming and funny.
Mar 25th 2015
30
      Not wanting to be touched by a man is now ignorant?
Mar 25th 2015
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           yes. like your reading of my reply.
Mar 26th 2015
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I didn't realize this until my friends (a gay male couple) enlightened m...
Mar 25th 2015
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you see it.
Mar 25th 2015
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that's unfortunate that you have to do that w/ relatives
Mar 25th 2015
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I prefer a head nod lol
Mar 25th 2015
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      lol do you hug male members of your family tho?
Mar 25th 2015
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Also as a matter of logic, how they know the dudes in the pics
Mar 25th 2015
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b/c there weren't gay ppl back then.
Mar 25th 2015
70
      Then what the heck was Oscar Wilde put on trial for?!?
Mar 26th 2015
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           For engaging in homosexual acts.
Mar 26th 2015
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I blame hip hop
Mar 25th 2015
60
what are daps/hugs?
Mar 25th 2015
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See that's that bullshit
Mar 25th 2015
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Sociologists argue it's about expressing power...
Mar 26th 2015
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why? you trynna rest your knee on the two ladies?
Mar 25th 2015
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      Lol it's platonic
Mar 25th 2015
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i mean, go and watch 'Swingers' and see how much has changed even then
Mar 25th 2015
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I remember talking to a guy in high school about it
Mar 25th 2015
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I'm surprised when my straight male friends & colleagues want to hug me
Mar 25th 2015
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aww. *hugs*
Mar 25th 2015
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RE: aww. *hugs*
Mar 25th 2015
114
      I need to come to nyc soon!
Mar 26th 2015
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=( *hugs*
Mar 26th 2015
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our conditioning has been conditioned.
Mar 26th 2015
138
:( This made me sad.
Mar 26th 2015
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me too :/
Mar 26th 2015
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Damn
Mar 26th 2015
256
wait, so if i don't want to hold my male friends' hands...
Mar 25th 2015
115
yeah... no
Mar 26th 2015
121
no, it's b/c of SATAN.
Mar 26th 2015
124
Oh well, SoWhat?
Mar 25th 2015
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try to ketchup, Heinz.
Mar 26th 2015
125
Most guy on guy contact I have is on the bball court
Mar 25th 2015
118
yo lol
Mar 26th 2015
128
lol.. frats and athletes touch all the fucking time.
Mar 26th 2015
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      it doesn't matter. b/c homophobia is a fictional concept.
Mar 26th 2015
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      sounds like you need a hug
Mar 26th 2015
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           lol, contextual and apt A+
Mar 27th 2015
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      so you pat butts and hold hands with your friends?
Mar 26th 2015
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           RE: so you pat butts and hold hands with your friends?
Mar 26th 2015
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           because you are trying to 'win'
Mar 26th 2015
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                locking arms on the sideline has no effect on the outcome
Mar 26th 2015
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                     ^^ #winning
Mar 26th 2015
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           I don't hold hands with my female friends either, most adults don't hold...
Mar 26th 2015
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                y'all stay throwing women up as a shield
Mar 26th 2015
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                     I'm just saying, adults don't normally hold hands regardless of gender.....
Mar 26th 2015
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                          great
Mar 26th 2015
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k
Mar 25th 2015
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maybe from touching other men, but we get touched more
Mar 25th 2015
120
Yes
Mar 26th 2015
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Good conversation n/m
Mar 26th 2015
129
the world can be, and is, a sad place sometimes
Mar 26th 2015
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the funny thing about it is that most people you ask can cite examples..
Mar 26th 2015
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      that's b/c there's no such thing as 'homophobia'.
Mar 26th 2015
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           let's be clear here
Mar 26th 2015
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           nah, your experience is a lie...
Mar 26th 2015
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           lol
Mar 26th 2015
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           right. i get it.
Mar 26th 2015
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                i don't think the child-rearing issue is solely due to homophobia
Mar 26th 2015
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                     awesome.
Mar 26th 2015
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           "This brings into question the "crisis" nature of the article"
Mar 26th 2015
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                right. And homophobia is a lie so the article is bunk.
Mar 26th 2015
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                     "This brings into question the "crisis" nature of the article."
Mar 26th 2015
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                          yes bc men give each other handshakes there is no crisis.
Mar 26th 2015
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                               *Pats head*
Mar 26th 2015
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                                    ^ more proof that this is bogus.
Mar 26th 2015
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*looks at 10 sweaty men grabbing all over each other at the ball court*
Mar 26th 2015
135
yeah, the author says the only touch left for men is athletic and sexual...
Mar 26th 2015
140
*looks at the same ten men can't even sit next to each other in the thea...
Mar 26th 2015
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      that's b/c it doesn't FEEL GOOD to touch a man.
Mar 26th 2015
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      nope nope nope
Mar 26th 2015
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           oh they won't kiss their homie b/c it doesn't feel good.
Mar 26th 2015
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                american male lips are sand paper
Mar 26th 2015
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      Men are competitive beings
Mar 26th 2015
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      right so you might as well not sit close to your homie in a theater.
Mar 26th 2015
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           Absolutely
Mar 26th 2015
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                you don't exist
Mar 26th 2015
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      if they don't have to why would they?
Mar 26th 2015
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      if they were my supposed friend
Mar 26th 2015
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           RE: if they were my supposed friend
Mar 26th 2015
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                i'm not the one trying to "win"
Mar 26th 2015
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                     #picsoritdidn'tfappin
Mar 26th 2015
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                          because women fap to friendship
Mar 26th 2015
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                               not all women, just you
Mar 26th 2015
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                                    all to "win", right
Mar 26th 2015
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      nah we just like our balls to breath. However those new
Mar 26th 2015
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Some of you have really nice capes!
Mar 26th 2015
142
look up in the sky, its.. SUPAMAN LOVER YEAHHHH!
Mar 26th 2015
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      lol people are WORKING in here, hahahah
Mar 26th 2015
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           https://38.media.tumblr.com/276606135cb8f6cedbedcbab1e8c75c1/tumblr_n43t...
Mar 26th 2015
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                hahahaha
Mar 26th 2015
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                damn, this shit funny
Mar 26th 2015
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Men hug and touch each other everyday with genuine affection via
Mar 26th 2015
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of course you disagree as a whole.
Mar 26th 2015
147
      Always defaulting to your real issue - again.
Mar 26th 2015
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           you see it right? people in here telling him they hug their friends
Mar 26th 2015
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           Right. He's salty because his post isn't going a planned.
Mar 26th 2015
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                my nephew and I said I love you on the phone at the same time
Mar 26th 2015
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                     Word. It's a norm for me and my boys
Mar 26th 2015
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                          you even made a "I love you, man" last month
Mar 26th 2015
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                               I'm such a Clairvoyant!
Mar 26th 2015
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           it's also proof that God is real.
Mar 26th 2015
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                You still defaulting.
Mar 26th 2015
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                     great.
Mar 26th 2015
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this is bullshit. maybe an issue for white men.
Mar 26th 2015
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white frat dudes are the most touchy feely dudes on earth
Mar 26th 2015
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      so are black dudes in trap videos.
Mar 26th 2015
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           right. A woman I know made a post on facebook a while back about how..
Mar 26th 2015
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           yes my nigga
Mar 26th 2015
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           y'all hunting those exceptions down HARD
Mar 26th 2015
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           i hug my brothers with both arms.
Mar 26th 2015
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           how dare we have examples that don't fit the narrative
Mar 26th 2015
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           oh look you touched a male just today
Mar 26th 2015
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           our affection doesn't need to meet your standard to be valid.
Mar 26th 2015
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                instagram it
Mar 26th 2015
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           with no shirts on!!!
Mar 26th 2015
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                plus hugging!
Mar 26th 2015
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                     dog, niggas cry.
Mar 26th 2015
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                          you have a camera?
Mar 26th 2015
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                               WE need to take it all the way? LOL... OH, THE IRONY
Mar 26th 2015
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                                    its an every day thing right??
Mar 26th 2015
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                                         pretty much.. every time I see my friends we dap & hug
Mar 26th 2015
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                                              because...thats how natural it is
Mar 26th 2015
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                                                   I don't a photo to believe them
Mar 26th 2015
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                                                   lmao
Mar 27th 2015
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Nah playa I have no problems dapping and hugging my peoples.
Mar 26th 2015
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E'ERYDAY I HAVE TO KISS A MAN TO PROVE MY LOVE!!!!
Mar 26th 2015
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I think men hug now more than ever, the dap hug has become mainstream...
Mar 26th 2015
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but do you sit on your coworkers lap in your cubicle?
Mar 26th 2015
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lmao
Mar 26th 2015
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show us!
Mar 26th 2015
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you need help getting off or what?
Mar 26th 2015
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RE: show us!
Mar 26th 2015
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      #showusyours
Mar 26th 2015
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           those naturally are pictures of billy ray
Mar 26th 2015
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LOFL
Mar 26th 2015
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yes we were completely wrong!
Mar 26th 2015
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      Right?
Mar 26th 2015
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           absolutely
Mar 26th 2015
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smh @ trying to discount touching during athletics
Mar 26th 2015
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pics or it didn't happen
Mar 26th 2015
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we aren't the one being dishonest in here
Mar 26th 2015
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#blackhugsmatter
Mar 26th 2015
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#filmyothughugs
Mar 26th 2015
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#ineednewfapphotos
Mar 26th 2015
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      yeah...he mad
Mar 26th 2015
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           pics or it ain't true
Mar 26th 2015
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                feel like a winner yet?
Mar 26th 2015
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                     http://blogsurface.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/stephhhh-e141124115161...
Mar 26th 2015
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Court is one of the last places men can assert their masculinity
Mar 26th 2015
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RE: Court is one of the last places men can assert their masculinity
Mar 26th 2015
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      Interesting. Tell me more about what it's like to be a man
Mar 26th 2015
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           oh no i'm fascinated
Mar 26th 2015
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           lol
Mar 26th 2015
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i never understood the ass slap in sports.
Mar 26th 2015
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this is one where I want to get it, but I don't.
Mar 26th 2015
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it's fine if you don't get it.
Mar 26th 2015
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but what does handling EMOTIONS...
Mar 26th 2015
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      Dunno. Email the author.
Mar 26th 2015
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      you don't have all the answers Swhayt?
Mar 26th 2015
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           still mad huh
Mar 26th 2015
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                nah... but when I get that hug I'll be sure to take a photo
Mar 26th 2015
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                     which will be shortly right?
Mar 26th 2015
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                          I'll even whisper your name in his ear when I hug him...
Mar 26th 2015
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                               nah whisper his name
Mar 26th 2015
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                                    nope, it's all for you so your name will be used
Mar 26th 2015
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                                         but wait i thought you hugged "all the time"
Mar 26th 2015
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      Right
Mar 26th 2015
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           Wrong.
Mar 27th 2015
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those who play the game get to make the rules
Mar 26th 2015
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It's pure irony to think this is due to homophotiba.
Mar 26th 2015
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My homegirl told me two years ago that she realized she could tell
Mar 26th 2015
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Yes. Confession: that's one of the main things that annoys me about
Mar 26th 2015
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      Ah! Yeah I do have one homeboy who doesn't do the hug
Mar 26th 2015
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Just about every man in this post has been robbed of touch
Mar 26th 2015
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LOL. SO FUNNY.
Mar 26th 2015
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RE: Just about every man in this post has been robbed of touch
Mar 26th 2015
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Replies 157 and 184
Mar 26th 2015
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      it's called sarcasm dude...
Mar 26th 2015
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           No, I covered that in the latter part of my reply
Mar 26th 2015
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                nah, there is no reason to address it since my experience
Mar 26th 2015
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                     RE: nah, there is no reason to address it since my experience
Mar 26th 2015
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                          u said we are in denial...
Mar 27th 2015
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LOL
Mar 26th 2015
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sarcasm?
Mar 26th 2015
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amazing the levels of denial
Mar 26th 2015
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      you sound soooooo jealous...
Mar 26th 2015
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      instagram dude
Mar 26th 2015
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           I'm gonna congratulate you on getting a hug cause you needed it
Mar 26th 2015
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           you need it more than me dude
Mar 26th 2015
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                I'm just glad you hugging OKP's
Mar 26th 2015
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                     aawwww now who's jealous?
Mar 26th 2015
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           now hugging a dude and trying to take a pic at the same time IS gay af
Mar 26th 2015
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                bring it in here bro (click)...
Mar 26th 2015
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                even if one of the women took the pic as the hug took place?
Mar 26th 2015
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                     women? your friend made it a rule that no women can be present
Mar 26th 2015
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                          nope i didn't
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                               I almost cant believe you are this weird
Mar 26th 2015
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                                    need a hug?
Mar 26th 2015
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      we losing intimacies
Mar 26th 2015
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           LOL
Mar 26th 2015
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           lol
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RE: Homophobia has robbed men of touch (link)
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levels
Mar 26th 2015
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      I still cross my legs and apparently it's "un-manly" in America
Mar 26th 2015
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           That isn't considered unmanly, it's viewed as something that old men do.
Mar 26th 2015
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           i have friends that do
Mar 26th 2015
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           i don't understand how a man cross his legs.
Mar 26th 2015
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                lol i don't cross them all the way
Mar 26th 2015
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                     isn't that...???
Mar 26th 2015
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                     men do that all the time. i thought you meant when you cross and then
Mar 26th 2015
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                     yeah, that's how men usually cross their legs
Mar 26th 2015
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                     my dad & all my uncles do the full cross
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                     *sigh*
Mar 26th 2015
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Fellas: When's the last time you told another man "I Love You?"
Mar 26th 2015
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Yesterday.
Mar 26th 2015
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love you for that my brother. that's what's up.
Mar 26th 2015
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      Love and respect to you too. Me and my best friend been mad emo...
Mar 26th 2015
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           man, my friends have been going through marriage, divorce
Mar 26th 2015
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                is your friend still drinking or using?
Mar 26th 2015
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last week on a 3 way phone call with my homies out west.
Mar 26th 2015
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love you for that my brother...
Mar 26th 2015
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      love you too bruh, one thing i realized is no matter how long
Mar 26th 2015
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Saturday. I told a bunch that I love them
Mar 26th 2015
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nah bro i can't go for that...j/k i love you for that.
Mar 26th 2015
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when is the last time you gave your homie a neck rub?
Mar 26th 2015
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      lol never
Mar 26th 2015
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      and that's what the article is about.
Mar 26th 2015
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           I know
Mar 26th 2015
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      I'm a prude, I only do that with my nephews
Mar 26th 2015
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      i've only done it when on
Mar 26th 2015
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      don't do that with platonic women either though
Mar 27th 2015
      don't do that with platonic women either though
Mar 27th 2015
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      don't do that with platonic women either though
Mar 27th 2015
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3 months ago.
Mar 26th 2015
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*kisses you on the mouth like my name's Isaiah Thomas*
Mar 26th 2015
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      LOL
Mar 26th 2015
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NEVER
Mar 26th 2015
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this is some YT sh*t
Mar 26th 2015
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Women, how many of yall would look suspiciously at guys being
Mar 26th 2015
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its a patriarchal society
Mar 26th 2015
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I understand that. This ain't about a gender blame game.
Mar 26th 2015
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i'm not sure you do
Mar 26th 2015
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      the author of the article mentioned it:
Mar 26th 2015
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      boogie see?
Mar 26th 2015
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           RE: boogie see?
Mar 26th 2015
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           agreed
Mar 26th 2015
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           See what? The fact that the same article you are defending quotes..
Mar 26th 2015
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                Yesyesyes
Mar 26th 2015
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      Race and Gender are different, despite their intersections.
Mar 26th 2015
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           RE: Race and Gender are different, despite their intersections.
Mar 26th 2015
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                ...
Mar 27th 2015
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Patriarchy is the answer to everything, huh?
Mar 26th 2015
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      if not racism
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      I don't think this discussion was even meant to turn into gender wars
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           we don't live or type in a vacuum
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      man, you betta let that woman tell you what your thinking
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           who you calling "that woman"!?!?
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                I thought you were a woman, mad bad bruh
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                     A woman
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This is still OKP.
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      That goes for everybody tho, lol.
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Obviously the author didn't go thru an Army Basic Training Chow Line
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the one where men lay on each other for support?
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      I Said Chow Line. WTH are you gabbin about ...
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           why did you bring up the chow line?
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                It was an exaggeration of the closeness that men experience
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                     Oh ok.
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This post is split between Hetero Men and Non-Hetero . Crazy.
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when is the last time you rubbed your homie's feet?
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      Rubbing feet ain't the only form of touch.
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      oh yes
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      Sure.
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           RE: Sure.
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                Uh huh
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      https://youtu.be/ZpXoCmwZANU?t=128
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           Lol!!
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This post is ridic but I think this video totally sums it up
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LOL!!
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heh
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as does this one:
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      omg. lol
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If you play Omarion's "Touch" while reading this post
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folks, personal anecdote is not data
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and their anecdotes don't mean shit. Lol
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An author's opinion is not data.
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yup
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People go out of their way to get on some agenda shit...
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y'all think this is some agenda shit?
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      This is perfectly in line with your agenda
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           i definitely have an agenda.
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damn
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he broke that shit down
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But the underlying question is WHY NOT
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Why should I.
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and why are you homophobic if you don't do these things?
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only you can answer that.
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      LOL
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           no, i think there is an answer.
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                I have the answer for myself, but I want to hear *her* answer since...
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                     who's the her here?
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                          This is frustrating.
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                               here's a book
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                                    So, you don't have an answer or supporting data. Thanks.
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                                         sigh. the book talks about lack of intimacy among boys.
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                                              I asked for your definition of lack of touch as well as data on..
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im down with this
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exactly. all of the defensiveness about the homophobia is
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Bravo! Man you did that sir!
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Yup.
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it's how people interpret, process, or apply "data" though
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Think they'll notice
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you ppl can't read for shit.
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they can't.
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you ppl can't read for shit.
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... and ecstasy has been giving it back to us since 1987.
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i feel homphobia is a contributing factor
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equally interesting: Escape the “Act Like a Man” Box
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Definitely interesting
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7 out of 11!!!
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I don't feel robbed of touch.
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email the author.
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TLDR: SoWhat wants me to give my homies more shoulder rubs
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no.
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I hugged one of my boys in public today. I still didn't feel robbed.
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