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Mongo
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Wed Mar-25-15 09:27 AM

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"Should I be feeling some kind of way about this?"


  

          

I don't talk to my sister-in-law.

There's no dramatic breach or anything, we just don't talk.

She has her own business, it's been struggling, and she and my brother have been busting their asses to make it work. I don't have a million dollars to invest, so I contributed the only way I could: I put together a branding package for print, web, video; etc. for Hannukah, and gave her free access, time to edit (everybody is an art director in their heart), hooked them up with printers for t-shirts; etc.

But when that was done, we went back to not talking.

She saw me this weekend at the brunch I put together for my old man, said nothing to me there either.

But is now texting me for help converting some things to Pantone colors, and is being very sort of... I don't know. The language and tone remind me of emails I get from clients. It's like a mix of passive/aggressive entitlement and superiority. Like "CAN YOU DO X, Y, Z, PICK UP MY DRY CLEANING AND DROP IT OFF AT MY SISTER'S? THANKS YOU'RE AWESOME OKAY BYE"

I dunno.

Maybe this is normal and I'm just a fucking weirdo.

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Should I be feeling some kind of way about this? [View all] , Mongo, Wed Mar-25-15 09:27 AM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
while i'm pretty certain you're a weirdo, she's bein' kinda wack.
Mar 25th 2015
1
why are your feelings hurt, exactly?
Mar 25th 2015
2
I think it's how impersonal it is maybe...? Or like I work for her...?
Mar 25th 2015
3
tell her to google that shit cuz youre busy right now
Mar 25th 2015
4
she's likely embarrassed by your kindness when she's vulnerable.
Mar 25th 2015
5
RE: she's likely embarrassed by your kindness when she's vulnerable.
Mar 25th 2015
6
      actually i kinda agree with this
Mar 25th 2015
8
      RE: she's likely embarrassed by your kindness when she's vulnerable.
Mar 25th 2015
23
      yeah. prove her dead wrong. i like sowhats response..
Mar 25th 2015
24
she might feel like this is YOUR preferred methodology
Mar 25th 2015
7
I can see this considering their preexisting pattern.
Mar 25th 2015
21
if youre working for free, its easy to be taken for granted
Mar 25th 2015
9
^ this too.
Mar 25th 2015
10
yup..
Mar 25th 2015
13
its hard to read texts for accurate communication.
Mar 25th 2015
11
nah.. people think they are slick
Mar 25th 2015
12
Yeah, the 'THANKS' at the end feels more like a 'fuck you'
Mar 25th 2015
16
it feels like CLUELESS to me
Mar 25th 2015
19
      ...that's an interesting (and valuable) perspective, actually.
Mar 25th 2015
20
lol
Mar 25th 2015
22
When people do freebies, I shower them with "thank yous" "please"
Mar 25th 2015
14
Yeah, you should. She's not acting right.
Mar 25th 2015
15
say no and keep it moving
Mar 25th 2015
17
its family
Mar 25th 2015
18
if someone can't at least pick up the phone and call...do not
Mar 25th 2015
25
I hate dealing with family for this reason
Mar 25th 2015
26

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