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Cold Truth
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Tue Mar-03-15 04:19 PM by Cold Truth

  

          

shortcomings.

In this case, the man who can’t pull other women is a desperate attempt to validate their own choice. If he can’t pull these other women, then that means he must not be all that great. If he can pull other women that validates her choice in that particular man. None of this has anything to do with the true value of that man OR his true compatibility with the woman who chose him. It’s no different than buying a house/car/appliance simply to keep up with the Joneses.

I’ve seen the same in men- guys who want the girl that all the men want, primarily because all the men want her.

That’s how the so-called ‘nice guy’ winds up pining for the hot girl who pines after the bad boys who mistreat her, because he thinks that he’s somehow the only one really knows her when he’s really too blinded by her beauty to see that she’s just plain shallow (and/or just plain doesn’t like him). That guy is oblivious to the fact that he’s really just as shallow and truly no better than the bad boy the hot girl keeps chasing. There’s also a hero complex embedded in that, but I digress.

In the end these people ultimately see their partner as a status symbol, a trophy to be won and displayed so as to validate the “winner”.

  

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Is it true that women don't want a man who can't pull other women? [View all] , MistaGoodBar, Tue Mar-03-15 11:12 AM
 
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must be..cause women never holla until youre in a relationship.
Mar 03rd 2015
1
stop making perfect sense, sir.
Mar 03rd 2015
4
Nobody wants to think 'unattractive' is the best they can do.
Mar 03rd 2015
2
10 women, 10 men in a room.
Mar 03rd 2015
3
lol, close enough i guess
Mar 03rd 2015
8
That man would be me.
Mar 03rd 2015
9
highly doubtful. nm
Mar 03rd 2015
10
      Yes, I concur.
Mar 03rd 2015
11
           Well the info we have is you are an alias on a message board
Mar 03rd 2015
37
                and he's Bartek
Mar 03rd 2015
39
good way illustrate it for sure, exaggeration but not by much.
Mar 03rd 2015
20
lol bullshit
Mar 03rd 2015
27
is the reverse also true?
Mar 03rd 2015
5
I don't care how "ugly" or whatever undesirable attribute a chick has
Mar 03rd 2015
7
correct
Mar 03rd 2015
15
only to a very limited extent. if u fine & overlooked, it wont stay like...
Mar 03rd 2015
22
maybe back in 8th grade
Mar 03rd 2015
41
I personally dont care
Mar 03rd 2015
6
i like that you're willing to date underdogs.
Mar 03rd 2015
12
women don't even want FRIES till someone else is eatin 'em
Mar 03rd 2015
13
damn.
Mar 03rd 2015
14
lls
Mar 03rd 2015
16
^^^ Kicked the truth to the young black youth
Mar 03rd 2015
17
ha!
Mar 03rd 2015
18
YES
Mar 03rd 2015
21
The ball bounced off the front iron and you just rocked that rim, son
Mar 03rd 2015
23
LOFL
Mar 03rd 2015
24
is March 3rd to early for reply of the year? ^^^^^
Mar 03rd 2015
26
gets my vote
Mar 03rd 2015
28
its never to early
Mar 04th 2015
46
Fock!
Mar 03rd 2015
30
WOW
Mar 03rd 2015
31
wow.
Mar 03rd 2015
33
. . .
Mar 03rd 2015
34
perfect
Mar 03rd 2015
35
The absolutely easiest way to get the attention of a pretty Girl....
Mar 03rd 2015
38
looooooooooool
Mar 03rd 2015
40
post of the year
Mar 03rd 2015
42
holy shit....this motherfucker just spit crinkle-cut flame
Mar 03rd 2015
43
^ neva lied, lol
Mar 04th 2015
47
nail on the damn head
Mar 04th 2015
48
lol
Mar 04th 2015
50
Rim Tap!
Mar 04th 2015
51
well done.
Mar 04th 2015
53
!!!!
Mar 04th 2015
54
*Wayne Dawson Grin*
Mar 04th 2015
55
ENDPOAST
Mar 04th 2015
56
but no *looks around* its women
Mar 03rd 2015
29
      Yeah. Men seem largely oblivious to their failures on this front.
Mar 03rd 2015
32
The Honorable Patrice O'Neal teaches us that this is true
Mar 03rd 2015
25
"Why do you still have a boat?"
Mar 03rd 2015
44
I think its a confidence thing
Mar 03rd 2015
36
hell ya.lotta lame niggas get it twisted hangin round a flock of women
Mar 03rd 2015
45
this is true for women AND men
Mar 04th 2015
49
To an extent
Mar 04th 2015
52

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