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Subject: "Some of those dudes are corns"
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SimplyHannah
Member since Aug 09th 2009
7226 posts
Mon Mar-02-15 04:19 PM
74. "Some of those dudes are corns"
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And just try entirely too hard to be stunty and it comes off really lame.
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Fellas: Do You Have A Spending Limit When It Comes To 1st Dates?
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Mon Mar-02-15 01:13 PM
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It ain't tricking if you got it...
Billy Ray Valentine
Mar 02nd 2015
1
yes. probably around $60 max
southphillyman
Mar 02nd 2015
2
Damn, I been doing it wrong then lol - last date I went on cost over
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
5
Did you get any?
8-bit
Mar 02nd 2015
6
RE: not that night
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
9
it's just not economically prudent to be on that tip
southphillyman
Mar 02nd 2015
12
RE: nah it really isn't but a few times I've ended up spending way
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
23
goddam maxwell + food, dranks , thas a lot of money
LAbeathustla
Mar 02nd 2015
30
Yeah that shit hit my pockets up...hoard that night lol...I was cool
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
34
$20. Maybe $30.
8-bit
Mar 02nd 2015
3
1st date should be a cafe, or a walk in the park
Teknontheou
Mar 02nd 2015
4
So what do you do when a lady suggests the most expensive
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
7
you cut your losses and be thankful you dodged that bullet.
Fishgrease
Mar 02nd 2015
10
right...
Billy Ray Valentine
Mar 02nd 2015
11
Basically. Although in my experience, women are loathe to suggest
Teknontheou
Mar 02nd 2015
13
most of us know exactly where we wanna go
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
22
So let me ask you as a female in this post, how do you feel abt if the
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
24
If I like him then I'll go
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
26
RE: If I like him then I'll go
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
33
Nvm
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
19
why not a walk at the zoo or something thats actually interesting
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
32
The zoo, the park, Botanical Gardens, whatever - it's all the same.
Teknontheou
Mar 02nd 2015
55
I agree w/ post #3 and 4.
Fishgrease
Mar 02nd 2015
8
yes - as a general rule, I don't spend much money on a 1st date
Vex_id
Mar 02nd 2015
14
1st date = "let's meet up for a couple of drinks"
connectpoliticditto
Mar 02nd 2015
15
I think that this is the best strategy
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
20
spending limit on the 2nd date
MrThomas43423
Mar 02nd 2015
16
i don't have a "limit", but i'm not trying to ball out either
Calico
Mar 02nd 2015
17
So when she approaching the limit or whatever, what yall do?
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
18
dates should be broken in to segments of different activities
southphillyman
Mar 02nd 2015
21
i can dig that
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
29
I start feeling like Dave Chappelle in 'Half Bake' when his date was
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
25
"i think ill just have a salad"
cgonz00cc
Mar 02nd 2015
27
throw out a goldpack, scoot your chair back slightly and begin
Fishgrease
Mar 02nd 2015
37
"You know that's the fuckin side of the menu, right?" (C)DL Hughley
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
46
when she starts ordering separate appetizers, it's time to
Fishgrease
Mar 02nd 2015
68
Never thought about it
Laz aka Black Native
Mar 02nd 2015
28
no, i don't.
SoWhat
Mar 02nd 2015
31
How many of yall have been in a situation where the chick was running up...
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
35
If she runs up the bill and the sex is wack...you really feel played.
Fishgrease
Mar 02nd 2015
38
LOL
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
39
That happened to me once...I left her there...
ChampD1012
Mar 02nd 2015
40
lol how badly had she run up the bill?
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
42
so bad that he had to call out sick for 2 days cuz he ain't have no
Fishgrease
Mar 02nd 2015
48
no compassion. he did that to himself.
Deadzombie
Mar 02nd 2015
49
ay yo, lmao
ShinobiShaw
Mar 02nd 2015
91
close to $100...and I was in college then...
ChampD1012
Mar 06th 2015
99
what's the difference between running up a bill, and ordering more?
Deadzombie
Mar 02nd 2015
45
same
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
53
once + a chick who never paid on multiple cheap dates
southphillyman
Mar 02nd 2015
58
A girl (tried) to do this to me back in the day
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
65
I *heard about* this girl doing that before...
8-bit
Mar 02nd 2015
59
>adequately phone-screened first
Deadzombie
Mar 02nd 2015
60
What gets me is the ones who order 3 and 4 drinks
Teknontheou
Mar 02nd 2015
61
RE: What gets me is the ones who order 3 and 4 drinks
southphillyman
Mar 02nd 2015
62
how many drinks did you have. was she matching your intake?
Deadzombie
Mar 02nd 2015
64
i had maybe 2-3 beers
southphillyman
Mar 02nd 2015
69
so you hit then? Lol
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
73
naw not that pressed
southphillyman
Mar 02nd 2015
82
Bruh, this is a common thing for women in Latin American countries
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
72
Yeah, the allure of "free" was something I didn't realize at first.
Teknontheou
Mar 02nd 2015
76
"Free" needs an asterisk by it and in Latin American countries the
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
78
there are some women who basically haven't been anywhere
southphillyman
Mar 02nd 2015
84
Yeah women from 3rd world country have a entirely different mentality
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
88
Yup
RexLongfellow
Mar 02nd 2015
66
That's the kinda ish that grinds my gears and I'm sure we all got one
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
80
Maan
RexLongfellow
Mar 02nd 2015
83
So basically you were expecting to sleep with her on the 2nd date?
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
85
No
RexLongfellow
Mar 06th 2015
101
Had a friend that ALWAYS would order the most expensive item on the menu
Beezo
Mar 02nd 2015
95
Spending Limit, No. Location Yes.
Case_One
Mar 02nd 2015
36
not a limit but yeah i am kind of conscientious
ConcreteCharlie
Mar 02nd 2015
41
I wasn't conscientious before now, but dudes in this post are making
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
43
i wouldn't worry about it.
SoWhat
Mar 02nd 2015
47
Nah it's not but I like the Idea of not always having to go to a high
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
56
you definitely don't have to go to a high priced restaurant
SoWhat
Mar 02nd 2015
63
I'm just so use to going to a restaurant on a 1st date rather than a
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
67
Go out for drinks. Then, make one of your conversation topics
connectpoliticditto
Mar 02nd 2015
70
you don't have to go to a restaurant on a first date.
SoWhat
Mar 02nd 2015
75
to me a movie kind of sucks as a social thing
ConcreteCharlie
Mar 02nd 2015
81
Oh it does suck for a first date but I have occasionally gone to a
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
96
absolutely
cgonz00cc
Mar 02nd 2015
50
real talk when I was single I would take ALL first dates to pf changs
esb225
Mar 02nd 2015
44
are women ever turned off by a guy spending money 'frivolously'?
Deadzombie
Mar 02nd 2015
51
RE: That's a good question lol - I'd have to say most women aren't
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
57
amen.
Yaskeelah
Mar 02nd 2015
77
RE: damn so tell us how you really feel
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
79
lol someone told me a dude took her to floor seats for date 1
southphillyman
Mar 02nd 2015
86
Cause probably cause he was lame as fuck
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
87
basically
blackrussian
Mar 02nd 2015
93
Homeboy probably got those tickets from his boss or something
8-bit
Mar 06th 2015
100
If you suggesting you paying
J_Stew
Mar 02nd 2015
52
absolutely..unless we hitting the mo mo..i'll splurge
LAbeathustla
Mar 02nd 2015
54
mentally yes. explicitly no.
BrooklynWHAT
Mar 02nd 2015
71
1st date was always a BYO, $50-60 (>12 yrs. ago, though)
lonesome_d
Mar 02nd 2015
89
Yikes, she was doing entirely too much.
SimplyHannah
Mar 02nd 2015
92
RE: I don't think I've ever invited a girl over to my house on the 1st
vee-lover
Mar 02nd 2015
94
1st date is drinks, 2nd date is a BYOB, 3rd date my crib.
isaaaa
Mar 02nd 2015
90
0 dollars...lol
legsdiamond
Mar 02nd 2015
97
*opens Yelp and sets filter to $-$$*
Ralo13
Mar 02nd 2015
98
Face palm...lolololololol
ThisIs_ATruthThang
Mar 06th 2015
102
I spent nearly a hundred bucks on a first date.
Frank Longo
Mar 06th 2015
103
RE: I'm curious to know what did you do for you to spend $100?
vee-lover
Mar 06th 2015
104
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