One of the things I've learned how to do as I've gotten older is the able to disagree with people strongly without it being an argument or a big deal.

I've notice that people hate to disagree or confront or raise issues whether professionally or socially.

Or people are the other extreme and take every disagreement to world war 3 like some people are suggesting to you already.

I think there is a middle road where you can be direct, get what you want, without being that person.


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