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"Christian wife rips up yoga pants for husband, war ensues on youtube. "
Mon Jan-26-15 01:48 PM by select_from_where

  

          

Thoughts?

Her blog post:

DISCLAIMER: Let me just start off by saying, I am in NO WAY trying to tell people what they can and cannot wear. What you wear is entirely your own choice. I am just sharing my personal story on why I chose to no longer wear yoga pants or leggings in public.

For the past several months, I have been having a conviction weighing heavy on my heart. I tried ignoring it for as long as I could until one day a conversation came up amongst myself and a few others (both men and women). The conversation was about leggings and how when women wear them it creates a stronger attraction for a man to look at a woman’s body and may cause them to think lustful thoughts. God really changed my heart in the midst of that conversation and instead of ignoring my convictions, I figured it was time I start listening to them and take action.

I went home later that day and shared the convictions I was having with my husband. Was it possible my wearing leggings could cause a man, other than my husband, to think lustfully about my body? I asked my husband his thoughts on the matter when he got home. I appreciated his honesty when he told me, “yeah, when I walk into a place and there are women wearing yoga pants everywhere, it’s hard to not look. I try not to, but it’s not easy.”

I instantly felt conviction come over me even stronger. Not that I wasn’t feeling it earlier, or else I wouldn’t have thought twice about the conversation, but after talking to Dale, it hit me a lot harder. If it is difficult for my husband who loves, honors, and respects me to keep his eyes focused ahead, then how much more difficult could it be for a man that may not have the same self-control? Sure, if a man wants to look, they are going to look, but why entice them? Is it possible that the thin, form-fitting yoga pants or leggings could make a married (or single) man look at a woman in a way he should only look at his wife?

And at that moment, I made a personal vow to myself and to my husband. I will no longer wear thin, form-fitting yoga pants or leggings in public. The only time I feel (for myself) it is acceptable to wear them, is if I am in the comfort of my own home or if I am wearing a shirt long enough to cover my rear end. I also want to set the best example of how to dress for my daughter. I want her to know, her value is not in the way her body looks or how she dresses, but in the character and personality God has given her. I have been following the vow I made to myself for the past couple of weeks now and though it may be difficult to find an outfit at times, my conscience is clear and I feel I am honoring God and my husband in the way I dress.

http://veronicapartridge.com/why-i-chose-to-no-longer-wear-leggings/#disqus_thread

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gv98lj24Ks4

  

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Christian wife rips up yoga pants for husband, war ensues on youtube. [View all] , select_from_where, Mon Jan-26-15 04:11 PM
 
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please don't stop wearing them.
Jan 26th 2015
1
^^^^^^^
Jan 28th 2015
139
freelance onion article
Jan 26th 2015
2
good for her & her husband. its abt what shes comfy with
Jan 26th 2015
3
I think the beef is because her comfort was based off of her husbands...
Jan 26th 2015
4
      nah, she felt the heat on them cheeks
Jan 26th 2015
13
      Umm.. ain't that commonly known as "compromise"?
Jan 27th 2015
90
           but on OKP that's a bad word
Jan 27th 2015
95
                lol
Jan 27th 2015
118
Veronica must be holding in the cakes department
Jan 26th 2015
5
Doesn't this feel almost surreal as a news story?
Jan 26th 2015
6
Why I chose to no longer wear trucker hats
Jan 26th 2015
8
Sounds like that man has a good wife
Jan 26th 2015
11
1. Why is this a story? 2. WGAF what her and her husband think or do?
Jan 26th 2015
7
It's a story because every white woman in America wheres them
Jan 26th 2015
12
I see more black and latina women rocking them than anything.
Jan 26th 2015
15
      more white women in yoga pants...
Jan 26th 2015
18
           Not where I'm at. At all. Straight black leggings more than anything
Jan 26th 2015
40
Answers: 1. Conservative pandering. 2. Conservative pandering.
Jan 26th 2015
14
      As a man I love them...
Jan 26th 2015
20
Women (including single women) do this everyday...
Jan 26th 2015
9
this has been a thing for a couple of years
Jan 26th 2015
10
the theology of yoga pants.
Jan 26th 2015
17
can we discuss this "Submit to your husband" thing
Jan 26th 2015
16
are you the head of your household?
Jan 26th 2015
21
My household doesn't have a head. It's run by partners
Jan 26th 2015
23
      I feel you, but I still think there comes a time when you will have
Jan 26th 2015
31
           Do you think the wife is often that head of the household?
Jan 26th 2015
35
                I would say they are gaining on us...
Jan 26th 2015
38
                     Not every man is a leader, though.
Jan 26th 2015
62
That would be Ephesians 5
Jan 26th 2015
22
I can pluck a ton of anachronistic quotes from the bible
Jan 26th 2015
24
      You said it was new to you.
Jan 26th 2015
26
           It being a THING is new to me
Jan 26th 2015
27
                How could it not be?
Jan 26th 2015
32
                It's huge and gets tied into black women being "too" independent
Jan 27th 2015
74
If u a live nygga shyt just comes naturally
Jan 26th 2015
30
i think this is true 95% of the time
Jan 26th 2015
33
lmao...pretty much...and get treated as such off the bat
Jan 27th 2015
76
The average woman has no issue "submitting" to a man that she respects,
Jan 26th 2015
36
Would you be okay with your sister or daughter submitting?
Jan 26th 2015
45
      To a man whom she respects, is confident has her best interest at heart,
Jan 26th 2015
46
      I find it hard to believe a man who respects a woman wants submission
Jan 26th 2015
47
           That's because you don't like the word submission. By definition, it is...
Jan 26th 2015
48
           all of this ^^^
Jan 26th 2015
53
           why not?
Jan 26th 2015
55
                If my daughter grows up and things she should submit to a man
Jan 27th 2015
79
                You're looking at it on the surface, which makes the discussion pointles...
Jan 27th 2015
81
                     LOFL
Jan 27th 2015
84
                          and you obviously don't have enough balls for a real..
Jan 27th 2015
86
                               questions masculinity too boot
Jan 27th 2015
91
                                    ^^overthinks basic leadership principles to appear intelligent.
Jan 27th 2015
92
                                         i'm not trying to impress any one who thinks like you
Jan 27th 2015
97
                                              that's good.
Jan 27th 2015
98
                you guys are on that Coming to America whatever you like steez
Jan 27th 2015
94
                     that's exactly what I see.
Jan 27th 2015
96
           RE: >This is her expectation as well. <-- Always been my experience
Jan 28th 2015
126
           ^
Jan 27th 2015
102
      I pray to God one day they will.. to a good man of course.
Jan 26th 2015
52
Folks only focus on that half of the deal.
Jan 26th 2015
51
yep.. but most successful marriages have a man
Jan 26th 2015
54
      i love how often u make up things as u go
Jan 27th 2015
71
           thank you... you guys are too serious on here
Jan 27th 2015
89
What yall mean when you say lead anyways
Jan 28th 2015
130
they're saying when it comes down to the come down he outranks her
Jan 28th 2015
132
It isn't a dictatorship. There's always discussion, compromise, consult...
Jan 28th 2015
137
As a Christian I hate seeing that passage misinterpreted.....
Jan 28th 2015
131
She's easy to get to cheat.
Jan 26th 2015
19
are they lusting or just looking??
Jan 26th 2015
25
Some dude is gonna come in here agreeing with her... just watch.
Jan 26th 2015
28
see: avatar
Jan 26th 2015
29
LMAO
Jan 26th 2015
37
yo, what kind of leggings did she have? them shits are expensive
Jan 26th 2015
34
they really are ridiculously expensive...bae got me a bunch of nike gear
Jan 26th 2015
41
LOL I got my girl a few for christmas and she said the exact same thing
Jan 26th 2015
58
So, you've got a few pair for yourself huh?
Jan 26th 2015
42
I know what you like bro
Jan 26th 2015
      Funny how his thoughts went there instead of reply 58
Jan 26th 2015
59
           dat unconscious preference
Jan 26th 2015
68
                I just figured you do a lot of running outside in the winter.
Jan 27th 2015
87
                     you were thinking about my booty in that spandex bro
Jan 27th 2015
99
                          LOFL
Jan 27th 2015
121
                          hahahaha
Jan 28th 2015
159
                          damn reb'n aint like that one lol
Jan 28th 2015
167
                          STUPID SEXY RJCC
Jan 28th 2015
169
                          Zing.
Jan 28th 2015
170
lol
Jan 26th 2015
49
Light skinned girls in Yoga pants....
Jan 26th 2015
39
any girls with nice bodies in yoga pants
Jan 26th 2015
50
lol.
Jan 26th 2015
43
If this post is so Playery
Jan 26th 2015
44
if she likes it i love it.
Jan 26th 2015
56
RE: if she likes it i love it.
Jan 26th 2015
60
i don't think this woman has the power to set a general rule for women.
Jan 26th 2015
63
Basically
Jan 26th 2015
66
This is where i'm at
Jan 27th 2015
73
next step: burqa
Jan 26th 2015
61
plenty women choose the burqa for themselves.
Jan 26th 2015
64
looking at chicks and having the desire to fuck is why we're
Jan 26th 2015
65
japan apparently has a childbearing demographic problem
Jan 28th 2015
162
I don't like yoga pants
Jan 26th 2015
67
"two people can't lead" LOFL.
Jan 26th 2015
69
that nigga just be making shit up
Jan 27th 2015
72
OLDSCHOOOOOOL!!!
Jan 27th 2015
88
the shit so goofy I can't discuss it
Jan 27th 2015
77
honestly, I'm glad we're losing their type of life recipes
Jan 27th 2015
83
      ^^getting marrying to his own damn self next week ^^
Jan 27th 2015
93
           really bad joke brah
Jan 27th 2015
100
it really does come down to a lack of respect for women
Jan 27th 2015
103
      so if a woman expects her husband to act as the leader within the family...
Jan 27th 2015
104
           you dont respect women
Jan 27th 2015
105
                You mean this comment?
Jan 27th 2015
106
                lol k
Jan 27th 2015
107
                     yeah exactly.
Jan 27th 2015
108
                          you put her in her place.
Jan 27th 2015
110
                               oh, so we're interacting again, I guess.
Jan 27th 2015
111
                               no. we're not.
Jan 27th 2015
112
                                    yeah. exactly.
Jan 27th 2015
113
                                         right.
Jan 27th 2015
114
                                              word.
Jan 27th 2015
115
                               :-)
Jan 27th 2015
117
                               bwhahahaha
Jan 27th 2015
119
                and many women are conditioned this way too.
Jan 27th 2015
109
                look at you reading things into this MAN's relationship
Jan 27th 2015
120
                     oh silly me..
Jan 28th 2015
123
                     I can't know what I'm talking about bc I'm not married to a woman.
Jan 28th 2015
127
                          As a rich white person who has studied poor black people....
Jan 28th 2015
133
                               Yup. It's exactly like that, homie.
Jan 28th 2015
134
                you didn't answer the question
Jan 28th 2015
124
how can you look at this and not have a religious experience?
Jan 27th 2015
70
these are the hidden gems that make me keep coming by OKP...
Jan 27th 2015
75
most under ratede reply in the whole thing
Jan 28th 2015
148
This woman needs a fucking thesaurus
Jan 27th 2015
78
I like the part where the onus is on the women
Jan 27th 2015
80
Feel conviction come over your conviction to not be convicted
Jan 27th 2015
82
You're wearing tight yoga pants with a nice ass
Jan 27th 2015
85
if she doesn't feel comfortable in leggings, she shouldn't wear them
Jan 27th 2015
101
we're talking about daily clothing and not workout wear but
Jan 27th 2015
116
trust me..nobody looking at THAT bidge
Jan 28th 2015
122
real world= men lead families....okp= you dont respect women
Jan 28th 2015
125
being a leader and having someone submit to you
Jan 28th 2015
129
yea like someone said before maybe u have a problem with the word
Jan 28th 2015
136
      Yall still havent answered me LEAD THEM TO WHAT? n/m
Jan 28th 2015
140
      stability
Jan 28th 2015
142
           Hmm I need to process this
Jan 28th 2015
145
                this is what i need answered
Jan 28th 2015
146
                It doesn't. It's preference.
Jan 28th 2015
149
                it ain't for everybody.
Jan 28th 2015
150
                     *nods*
Jan 28th 2015
153
                          yup. and then they trot out that Bible.
Jan 28th 2015
154
                          hate myself for taking this bait
Jan 28th 2015
157
                               if you wanna live by the Bible that's fine.
Jan 28th 2015
158
                          who said that?
Jan 28th 2015
155
                               Are you trying to lawyer me LOL
Jan 28th 2015
161
                                    I honestly didn't pay that any attention. I responded directly to John ...
Jan 28th 2015
164
                men and women bring two different things to the relationship right?
Jan 28th 2015
147
      But leaders shouldn't have to demand submission
Jan 28th 2015
141
           you lead by example, no one is demanding anything
Jan 28th 2015
143
           Yes some cats out here DEMANDING it
Jan 28th 2015
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           I don't see anyone "demanding" or "pointing" to anything.
Jan 28th 2015
144
                and they say EYE make shit up...lol
Jan 28th 2015
152
                Saying "That's the way it is" is an appeal to authority
Jan 28th 2015
160
                     That's the way it is in MY house, fam.
Jan 28th 2015
163
                          That's great
Jan 28th 2015
165
                               ok got it.
Jan 28th 2015
166
pretty much.
Jan 28th 2015
135
this.
Jan 28th 2015
138
exactly...
Jan 28th 2015
151
it's funny how leading families seems to correlate with
Jan 28th 2015
168
      There is both covert cism and covert xism
Jan 28th 2015
171
folks arguing about some stretch pants ? lolz
Jan 28th 2015
128

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