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keeping lots of distance between you and them.
Like if you got to smile and be nice only a couple times of year, it's worth doing.
I also try to avoid getting into intra-family beef and try to be supportive (helping her see her own fam in the best light), lest they heal up their beef and then be mad at you.
********** "Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson