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abby
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"My aunt passed away yesterday."
Fri Dec-19-14 03:59 PM by abby

  

          

we got her to hospice and ended life support on Friday night, and she passed away yesterday.

Although it was and still is very very sad, her actual death was much more peaceful than I was afraid it would be. Hospice began anxiety meds and morphine on Friday night, and she was basically in and out of consciousness until she just went to sleep and faded away.

The bureaucracy and business side of all of this has been hell. hospice almost put her out the day before she died because of some red tape bullshit. I cussed them out (which I was afraid might have made things worst but actually made things better), and then they chilled.

I also think that there needs to be a national or state registry for life ins policies. Loved ones should not have to rummage like chickens with their heads cut off to handle the $$ part while they are also grieving. Thanks for everything masacuda.

Looks like it will be a Christmas funeral...Still working out details.

My family is awesome.

We are sad...especially my dad (who actually carried his sister's body out of the hospice with the funeral home...he's been very protective of her). I haven't cried yet. I'm afraid that if I do, I won't stop. And I don't want to make my dad sadder by crying around him.

Thanks for your support, okp

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My aunt passed away yesterday. [View all] , abby, Fri Dec-19-14 03:58 PM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
Peace, sis.
Dec 19th 2014
1
My deepest condolences
Dec 19th 2014
2
condolences to you & your fam.
Dec 19th 2014
3
peace to you and your family
Dec 19th 2014
4
peace to you and the fam
Dec 19th 2014
5
RE: peace to you and the fam
Dec 20th 2014
20
damn Fam. you got my deepest sympathies...
Dec 19th 2014
6
sorry to hear that
Dec 19th 2014
7
Sorry for your loss.
Dec 19th 2014
8
Peace and Strength to you and your fam
Dec 19th 2014
9
condolences
Dec 19th 2014
10
peace to you and the family.
Dec 19th 2014
11
So sorry for your loss.
Dec 19th 2014
12
sORRY TO HEAR THAT
Dec 19th 2014
13
so sorry..my condolences to you and yours
Dec 19th 2014
14
Peace and Blessings to you and your Family.
Dec 19th 2014
15
i'm really sorry *hug*
Dec 19th 2014
16
I am deeply sorry for your loss
Dec 19th 2014
17
thank you for all of your insight.
Dec 22nd 2014
27
My prayers and condolences.
Dec 19th 2014
18
*bittersweet smile*. my prayers remain with you, your dad, your
Dec 20th 2014
19
thank you
Dec 22nd 2014
25
      To each of you, thank you. This has been surreal. It still is.
Dec 22nd 2014
26
      very beautifully put. and i hope others read your words because
Dec 22nd 2014
29
My condolences....
Dec 20th 2014
21
My sincere condolences. I'm glad that she went on peacefully
Dec 20th 2014
22
My condolences
Dec 20th 2014
23
sorry for your loss *hug*
Dec 20th 2014
24
rest in power to your aunt
Dec 22nd 2014
28
sorry for your loss...peace to you and yours at this time.
Dec 22nd 2014
30
Very sad but...
Dec 23rd 2014
31
oh sweetheart, I'm so sorry
Dec 23rd 2014
32
My prayers and condolences to you
Dec 23rd 2014
33
rip nm
Dec 23rd 2014
34
Sorry for your loss. Peace be unto you and yours.
Dec 23rd 2014
35

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