but people just want to be loved so some of them shrug and dive in. I see it all the time in Charlotte. One woman is obviously gay but the other one? She looking at dudes, got that itch and next thing you know they are fighting in the club. seems like these days if you break a woman's heart or break up with her there is a 65% chance she is going to give women a try. I know a girl who swore up and down she was gay... she is dating a guy right now.