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southphillyman
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"so crossing as a (black) greek could potentially involve rape?"
Wed Dec-17-14 02:56 PM by southphillyman

  

          

i'm basing this off multiple conversations with aka's and delta's i know over the last couple days
after a non greek told me this happens (not sure how they knew)

this is blowing my mind
i knew you could get beat up or forced to do dumb shit
but being commanded to have sex with dudes you don't know and ain't interested in is a little too far imo
sometimes it could involve gang bangs and everything i heard ("trains" as they put it)
crazy
a lot of this stuff is done in private, but is it worth looking into just banning this stuff if everything isn't transparent?
upenn banned deltas for years, and my friend wouldn't tell me why
i wouldn't be surprised if a sexual assault was involved. otherwise why wouldn't she tell me? she probably knew i was fittin to judge like shit
someone from another school told me a girl went missing while crossing and was never found and some ppl on campus suspected the line(?) may have accidentally killed her and did something with the body
that sound like some urban legend shit but they so secretive when shit goes wrong i guess you have to consider it because the members may feel compelled to keep shit on the low


other shit i learned:
u have to pay dues. if you don't you may be cut off. (i know an aka with no aka friends......because she won't pay her dues...wtf)
white greeks don't be gung ho post graduation. black friend in white frat told me this. now that i think about it i never saw a 60 yr old white lady throwing up a skeewee or whatever the hand symbols are called

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so crossing as a (black) greek could potentially involve rape? [View all] , southphillyman, Wed Dec-17-14 02:54 PM
 
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as a dyed in the wool GDI, this is 1 of the dumbest things i ever heard
Dec 17th 2014
1
you may not have to get raped
Dec 17th 2014
4
      exactly. i'm not swearing an oath to nobody.
Dec 17th 2014
5
      base. i'd prefer 3rd party anecdotes on this
Dec 17th 2014
9
      define inappropriate
Dec 17th 2014
10
           LOL
Dec 17th 2014
16
           dude people were fucking like rabbits because they wanted to
Dec 17th 2014
19
                oh well that makes it all okay then.
Dec 17th 2014
21
                     yea the rationalization fitting to be cray
Dec 17th 2014
23
                     thats what i said, right? disgusting.
Dec 17th 2014
                     right on, bro.
Dec 17th 2014
29
                     this convo is a lil scary right now
Dec 17th 2014
41
           people have DIED during the hazing process
Dec 17th 2014
27
                i wasnt online but i saw the dst & que lines process from
Dec 17th 2014
32
This just is not true, even on individual levels
Dec 17th 2014
2
RE: This just is not true, even on individual levels
Dec 17th 2014
20
how can you say this?
Dec 17th 2014
76
      for the longest, black planet had me thinking IUP was a HBCU
Dec 17th 2014
You ever been to an AKA wedding?
Dec 17th 2014
3
I fell asleep at the table while they were singing those songs...
Dec 17th 2014
14
No dis to you Greek folks but,
Dec 17th 2014
6
networking and friends
Dec 17th 2014
26
RE: No dis to you Greek folks but,
Dec 17th 2014
35
i thought about pledging a few times
Dec 17th 2014
54
Are you asking this question based on the untruths of the OP?
Dec 17th 2014
62
not to speak for him,
Dec 17th 2014
I was a legacy candidate and it made my grandmother happy
Dec 17th 2014
103
It doesn't stop after college either...
Dec 17th 2014
7
On the one hand
Dec 17th 2014
95
i aint ever heard any of that
Dec 17th 2014
8
definitely
Dec 17th 2014
11
never heard of it happening
Dec 17th 2014
12
Don't know about soros, but long suspected this about auxiliaries
Dec 17th 2014
13
what are auxilleries? Like Kappa sweathearts?
Dec 17th 2014
22
      Yeah, like the sweethearts, sigma doves, etc. One-letter types.
Dec 17th 2014
109
they'll ask you to 'define rape'.
Dec 17th 2014
15
yea not talking dark alleys here
Dec 17th 2014
28
If you define rape as including agreeing to have sex with someone inorde...
Dec 17th 2014
68
      Cool beans, dude.
Dec 17th 2014
120
oh god give me a damn break. nm
Dec 17th 2014
17
TROLLAPOLOOZA
Dec 17th 2014
18
This is guaranteed to be great
Dec 17th 2014
25
BASE
Dec 17th 2014
112
None of this is true
Dec 17th 2014
24
i'd assume the "organization" doesn't endorse any of the stuff that
Dec 17th 2014
33
'choice'...
Dec 17th 2014
34
      Yes. They are ostracized though.
Dec 17th 2014
43
           what's the frat/soror experience like for a 'paper' member?
Dec 17th 2014
44
                The dude I knew didn't participate in anything
Dec 17th 2014
53
                damn. what a 'choice'!
Dec 17th 2014
55
                In undergrad, you might have a line of new members that went through
Dec 17th 2014
64
                were the 'paper' members treated differently after they crossed?
Dec 17th 2014
79
                     yeah.. i went to an HBCU, not sure how it works on other campuses
Dec 17th 2014
83
                          wow.
Dec 17th 2014
86
                          i didnt pledge but we treated paper greeks with ridicule
Dec 17th 2014
89
                               damn.
Dec 17th 2014
98
                          I know a LOT of paper AKAs who crossed at an HBCU
Dec 17th 2014
100
                               I was paper...they wanted me for my GPA and activist clout
Dec 17th 2014
104
                                    That's good.
Dec 17th 2014
121
                i ended up cool with a couple of Kappas at college
Dec 17th 2014
96
                     that's sad.
Dec 17th 2014
99
it was widely known that Ques had to jump blindfolded off a bridge
Dec 17th 2014
30
I can't believe this at all
Dec 17th 2014
31
      LOL ok man
Dec 17th 2014
           speaking of off the books. i didn't know you had to pay to pledge
Dec 17th 2014
47
                it is more than that. like $2,000 on the books to the Natl Chapter
Dec 17th 2014
49
                     wait what?!
Dec 17th 2014
63
                          lmao that's what i said
Dec 17th 2014
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                          pretty sure they pay dues every year
Dec 17th 2014
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                          ask Case_One
Dec 17th 2014
88
                          not only is it not free that shit costs literally thousands of dollars
Dec 17th 2014
102
when Greeks disown you, they put you on blast on the internet (link)
Dec 17th 2014
36
well damn, that's embarrassing
Dec 17th 2014
40
LOL thats cold
Dec 17th 2014
59
these lists are long as hell, wtf?
Dec 17th 2014
90
      oops
Dec 17th 2014
116
      lmao this is ridiculous.
Dec 17th 2014
128
Sidenote: Y'all seen the backlash about the Sorority Girls reality show?
Dec 17th 2014
37
Whilst you bullshitting, that's my gripe w/ Married to Medicine
Dec 17th 2014
38
that show kills me.
Dec 17th 2014
124
that sparked this whole discussion actually
Dec 17th 2014
48
uh-huh...that outrage is real homie,
Dec 17th 2014
57
      I don't doubt that they are mad
Dec 17th 2014
77
           eh I think it's valid concern
Dec 17th 2014
85
           Damn. I was wrong. Advertisers are pulling ads. Black twitter is powerfu...
Dec 17th 2014
127
I've heard enough stories from enough women to believe it happens
Dec 17th 2014
39
yall really do believe everything you see on the internet.
Dec 17th 2014
42
when we see/hear stories about Black biz execs dying
Dec 17th 2014
45
Shiot was known BEFORE the web
Dec 17th 2014
56
This ^^^
Dec 17th 2014
71
anyone who went to an HBCU should know how it goes...
Dec 17th 2014
60
the first line of his post was literally "...based on conversations..."
Dec 17th 2014
125
i know TOO MANY dudes that fought the dude(s) that pledged them
Dec 17th 2014
46
one of my boys had an older brother that fucked up a few Ques
Dec 17th 2014
51
Why are people acting like frats/sorors don't cross the line into crimin...
Dec 17th 2014
50
the ones who crossed the line don't have the stories.
Dec 17th 2014
52
more clarification on this was just given to me
Dec 17th 2014
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um YES
Dec 17th 2014
61
ooh lawd they gonna get u
Dec 17th 2014
66
SPM is never gonna get on line now
Dec 17th 2014
87
http://www.picgifs.com/reaction-gifs/reaction-gifs/omg/omg148.gif
Dec 17th 2014
81
if you haven't fucked while your homie is in the room
Dec 17th 2014
82
      RE: if you haven't fucked while your homie is in the room
Dec 17th 2014
101
First off never seen no shit like that and I pledged a gang of women.
Dec 17th 2014
65
So, what are your thoughts on this Bill Cosby thing???
Dec 17th 2014
73
      lmao
Dec 17th 2014
78
      It's simple
Dec 17th 2014
84
i know a grimey ass thug ass que nigga who told me point blank
Dec 17th 2014
69
yes it's usually with dudes in the brother frat i heard
Dec 17th 2014
74
      man...i got alot of que and delta fam and this is really disheartening
Dec 17th 2014
91
Are they trying to purchase NBC?
Dec 17th 2014
72
^^the real question here
Dec 17th 2014
80
kaboom KRASH
Dec 17th 2014
113
Gamma Rays be wildin. n/m
Dec 17th 2014
75
first thing i thought of when i read the post
Dec 17th 2014
94
What about the hierarchy tho?
Dec 17th 2014
92
If you are 30+ and getting hazed, I'm emptying my joke book on you
Dec 17th 2014
97
going to college could potentially involve rape
Dec 17th 2014
93
I've never heard of this is all and most of Blk Greeks I know were made
Dec 17th 2014
105
frat/sorority shit is dumb cult/sheep shit. period.
Dec 17th 2014
106
Ppl who make blanket statements like this just show their own complete
Dec 17th 2014
107
oh really? well I guess it's all good then
Dec 17th 2014
108
Point is ppl who are still dealing in sweeping generalities about anythi...
Dec 17th 2014
111
      (insert sarcasm, derision and dismissiveness here)
Dec 17th 2014
114
none of this has anything to do with anything...
Dec 17th 2014
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Says the cool smart anonymous guy on the internet.
Dec 17th 2014
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damn @ this
Dec 17th 2014
118
Thought branding was birthed from african tribal rituals
Dec 17th 2014
119
      #Actually, that was Africa City, Greece, not Africa City, Africa.
Dec 18th 2014
132
           common mistake, you can see how it would happen
Dec 18th 2014
133
I'm sure it somewhere at some point!
Dec 17th 2014
117
back inna day i heard shit about AKAs at morgan + frozen hot
Dec 17th 2014
122
My college boyfriend is a white frat boy
Dec 17th 2014
123
Toast is in my big book of shit i should not know about.
Dec 17th 2014
129
I've heard some really BAD pledge stories over the years
Dec 18th 2014
131
Hmm Delta here. Pledged at a pwu
Dec 17th 2014
126
Hmm RIF
Dec 18th 2014
134
on the show, funny how the orgs gave a statement on #blklivesmatter
Dec 18th 2014
130
all frats/sororities have dues
Dec 18th 2014
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