It's a part of every Black person in America. (Note the use of B not b. yes, i'm on that.)It's pretty much always going to be personal.>>>when people take things personal, doesn't that throw them 'off'?It might throw off the folks that don't know how to channel their feelings properly.>>>isn't the guiding rule of balance, don't take shit personal?I think you mean the guiding rule of business...>>>>>and if you do, you're supposed to take a vow of death and murder like they do in the movies?whaa??