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9. "Earlier this year I went on several dates with this guy who was really i..."
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Wed Dec-10-14 10:52 AM by SuiteLady

  

          

in to me right away.

I liked him, but I wasn't as enthused as he was. I mean he introduced me to his grandmother, 2 uncles, an aunt, his mother, his sister and his niece and nephew on our second date.

Now, anyone who knows me in real life knows I don't talk a lot, I rarely answer my phone, and I rarely respond to text right away.

Of course this bothered him and led him to ask me if I liked him at least once a week for the last three weeks of our 'situation.' Anytime I couldn't be reached, or wasn't interested in talking or going out his feelings were hurt. We are going to call this man "Drummer Boy"

Now there is this other situation, with "old man jenkins" that has been on and off for 5 years. I don't know how I could be so annoyed with "drummer Boy" but be just like him in my situation with "old man jenkins!"

He never answers my text. I don't know why I even text him, because I know he hates text messaging. The chances of him answering my call is less than 50% and the chance of him calling me back is 10%.

Yet I spend my nights distraught with worry - "are we off again?" "did I do something wrong?" "what did I say?" "what about the plans we made, are those off now?"

I totally understand "drummer boy," but that didn't make me change for him.

I should be able to understand "old man jenkins" since I been there, but that hasn't changed much either.

I don't understand how I can be on both sides of the situations and not get anything from it. Like, I should have learned something useful on each side, right?

UGH!!!!!

♥ Inescapably Me ♥

"Love is never any better than the lover" Toni Morrison (The Bluest Eye)

  

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** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY ** [View all] , Geah, Wed Dec-10-14 08:59 AM
 
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A Dream on screech-mode.
Dec 10th 2014
1
fuck, man.
Dec 10th 2014
2
      yeah...
Dec 10th 2014
3
I'm looking forward to 2015
Dec 10th 2014
4
I've spent the last 12 hours rationalizing buying a painting
Dec 10th 2014
5
my wife's fam doesn't fuck with us AT ALL right now...
Dec 10th 2014
6
my wife's fam doesn't fuck with me AT ALL period
Dec 10th 2014
7
      your wife is white?
Dec 10th 2014
19
      Nope
Dec 10th 2014
23
           ah, gotcha
Dec 10th 2014
24
           Oh god bless fam.
Dec 10th 2014
46
           wait, are you the one with the wife who is always arguing?
Dec 10th 2014
49
                I guess that's me lol
Dec 10th 2014
51
      yeah.. it ain't that bad. LOL
Dec 10th 2014
30
      :(
Dec 10th 2014
38
      My dude... This *really* changes how I perceive some of your stories
Dec 10th 2014
39
           agreed.
Dec 10th 2014
45
           what does akata mean?
Dec 10th 2014
52
                Loosely translated, I believe it means "wild animal".
Dec 10th 2014
62
                     Cotton-Picker
Dec 11th 2014
69
I just don't understand...at all
Dec 10th 2014
8
:-(
Dec 10th 2014
11
because you're making do...
Dec 10th 2014
13
can you explain your response? I think I get the making do part, but wha...
Dec 10th 2014
14
      you are voluntarily engaged in 2 relationships...
Dec 10th 2014
22
i. want. to. hurt. you!!!!!!!!!
Dec 10th 2014
18
      She's mad at Drummer boy for doing what she doing?
Dec 10th 2014
32
           No. She's just making an observation about herself via comparisons
Dec 10th 2014
36
I haven't gone to my job's holiday party for the past three years.
Dec 10th 2014
10
Vids of people getting struck by lightning make me laugh uncontrollably
Dec 10th 2014
12
I did it.
Dec 10th 2014
15
Ugh infighting
Dec 10th 2014
27
i'm never going to be thin
Dec 10th 2014
16
i currently dont trust anything they say or do at this job
Dec 10th 2014
17
I kind of like cold ass weather.
Dec 10th 2014
20
....
Dec 10th 2014
21
i hit him up early in the morning to tell him...
Dec 10th 2014
25
with that sense of entitlement, she should be white.
Dec 10th 2014
29
i'm realizing i may not be cut out for baby daddy drama
Dec 10th 2014
26
my friend's wife asked me for critique/help with her blog
Dec 10th 2014
28
you may have helped her more than you know
Dec 10th 2014
34
      i highly doubt that
Dec 10th 2014
35
           did she even have a blog theme? like
Dec 10th 2014
41
                the average person isn't built for a professional critique
Dec 10th 2014
50
                which is why it's important for ppl to understand
Dec 10th 2014
56
                RE: did she even have a blog theme? like
Dec 10th 2014
59
.
Dec 10th 2014
Every Morning I wake up with a song in my head. True Story.
Dec 10th 2014
31
** blackballed **
Dec 10th 2014
33
well that sucks
Dec 10th 2014
37
      boss lady said she'll fight it
Dec 10th 2014
61
...
Dec 10th 2014
40
RE: ** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **
Dec 10th 2014
42
nothing is really wrong, but I want more
Dec 10th 2014
43
I should probably just go ahead and marry this girl
Dec 10th 2014
44
nepotism is wild annoying
Dec 10th 2014
47
i have lost so many friends in the past year
Dec 10th 2014
48
more and more
Dec 10th 2014
53
#RoleReversal (kinda)
Dec 10th 2014
54
why?
Dec 10th 2014
55
It IS a trap.
Dec 10th 2014
58
i stopped talking about my personal life on here but this needs to be sa...
Dec 10th 2014
57
:) good perspective
Dec 10th 2014
60
unbelievable
Dec 10th 2014
64
I wish I could find that magic lamp
Dec 10th 2014
63
jyeah
Dec 10th 2014
65
RE: ** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **
Dec 10th 2014
66
Doc told me I need to leave for health reasons...
Dec 11th 2014
67
Depends
Dec 11th 2014
68
dude i've know for a while now...since we were kids actually...
Dec 11th 2014
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