Show him some love.

I think the fact that he heard it from someone else is a bigger issue. No one joins a company and just makes us a rumor like that.

so the question is…

do you get bent at office parties?
… and was the person who told you that he said this white or Black?

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*