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Frank Longo
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18. "Did BG make explicit beforehand that he'd request reimbursement?"
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Tue Mar-07-23 02:07 PM by Frank Longo

  

          

Because if a buddy says to me, "Hey, wanna come to the game with me?", unless he says, "btw tickets at $80" or whatever," then I'm assuming it's on him.

Now, I think the friend should've said to Birthday Guy, "Cool, would love to come! How much are the tickets?" Would've cleared things up from the jump. So definite communication issues between the boys here...

... but if I get invited to a thing and they don't tell me "tickets cost X" beforehand? I assume I'm along for the ride and I'll just get my guy dinner or drinks later. So if we *had* to assign someone with making the first mistake, I'd say it's Birthday Guy for not establishing ahead of time that this was a ticket he was looking for someone to buy off him.

But I think it's subpar communication all around-- and unless the tickets were insanely expensive, if you're in a friendship where you're going to games and you're buying dinners/drinks for each other, I don't think it's worth getting angry about tbh.

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Who was in the wrong? [View all] , ConcreteCharlie, Tue Mar-07-23 12:03 AM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
Bad communication all the way around. But this is on the friend.
Mar 07th 2023
1
why does someone think they deserve a free ticket?
Mar 07th 2023
2
because they laid out money for the dinner and gift
Mar 07th 2023
22
this BBS
Mar 07th 2023
3
^
Mar 07th 2023
7
^^ yup.
Mar 07th 2023
9
everyone broke
Mar 07th 2023
4
the hilarious thing is that they are not
Mar 07th 2023
23
      The wealthiest people I know are also the cheapest.
Mar 08th 2023
30
My big sis and I are kinda in the same situation...
Mar 07th 2023
5
100
Mar 07th 2023
10
What's this sending someone a bill after the fact?!!?
Mar 07th 2023
6
Had this happen over a coffee
Mar 07th 2023
8
Haha c'mon !
Mar 07th 2023
11
I think what problem was the amalgamation
Mar 07th 2023
12
that’s some passive aggressive shit
Mar 07th 2023
16
Birthday boy's wrong... on some passive-aggressive shit
Mar 07th 2023
13
My exact sentiment...
Mar 07th 2023
15
I assumed planned loosely meant they had a convo about seats/prices
Mar 07th 2023
21
other dude requested he took care of the tix bc he didnt have time
Mar 07th 2023
26
      Since he asked the birthday guy to get the tickets, he could've at least...
Mar 07th 2023
27
Whomever got angry before talking it out
Mar 07th 2023
14
Non b-day guy just went silent for 2 months
Mar 07th 2023
28
"Hey I got the tickets, it comes out to $XXX/person"
Mar 07th 2023
17
Same.
Mar 07th 2023
19
my understanding is this
Mar 07th 2023
25
Your friend is an asshole
Mar 07th 2023
20
which one? lol. maybe both, hence the triflin option
Mar 07th 2023
24
      lol. i initially thought you were one of the people in the situation
Mar 08th 2023
29

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