and most people dont want to put the work in, they just want the romance
anyone can wine and dine you.. but that ends and the day to day is what separates the adults from the kids.
Most people can’t deal and look for that same energy and its often found in a new person.
Folks need to stop looking online and just look at the person they are with. Are they happy? If not, how can you make them happier. How can they make YOU happier. Get off your ass and make some memories.
and I don’t mean you personally; this is for the people in relationships looking for a spark who think a dude in a car talking into a phone is spittin hot fire.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*