My brother in law tells me he doesn’t have the desire to hunt anymore. He’s a huge outdoor type who hunts deer.

A few months later I’m telling my FIL how he said the meds make him no longer want to hunt or do shit outside.

My FIL starts laughing and tells me to tell her what I just told him.

Then they tell me how he got arrested and had to sell all his hunting gear to cover his lawyer cost.

Usually my bro in law tells me straight up what is going on in his life but I guess getting arrested was too embarrassing.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*