21. "Well Bro, you know that marriage is a life Journey and not a Weekend hik..." In response to In response to 9
I think you're doing the right thing, but if you want the best results for and from her you may have to endure with support and tools. Maybe both of you can get some books to share on relationship building and best practices for communicating. She sounds like she's a bit naive about how to communicate with you, so it's on you to teach her the best ways to help you understand her.
Time is the champion of love and growth. I know that I'm not you, but I understand your plight. My wife and I just got married in May, and we went through a tough spell when it came to us understanding our communication style in a marriage context. We decided to do daily marriage devotionals and talk after about what we learned that morning. We do them @ 6 AM every morning and we also do what's called a Knee-to-knee 3 times a week. This is where we literally sit without knees and hand touching and talk about real issues in a loving manner. All of this helps with trust, communication, etc.
"I cannot see how nature could have created itself. Only a supernatural force that is outside of space and time could have done that. ~ Francis Collins