but you should have more good times than bad and if you are miserable more than likely it’s not a good fit.

I’m reading a book or should I say referencing a book. It’s Christian based and has a good list of things husbands need to do in order to be the best they can be for their wives.

I peaked at it the other week and damn sure it made me slow down and just remember it’s not all about me. Even when I don’t want to do shit or think my wife is wrong I need to consider her feelings and her reasons and as long as it doesn’t put me in a shitty position... make that effort to get through the situation as smoothly as possible.

I used to get real upset when she asked me to do things that I felt were inconvenient or extra. She used to get upset when she had to as me to do things she thought were obvious.

Communication is key.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*