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there's a movement towards not doing this, |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 1
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I've come to realized a lot of traumatized f'd up ppl are walking around |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 2
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yup. |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 3
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Hardest thing to accept when being true to yourself... |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 5
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its because |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 10
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It's easy to say it's unreasonable |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 69
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its not unreasonable to take ownership |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 102
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this whole thread is about w/n spanking is to their detriment |
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Nov 16th 2018 | 180
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Yeah, nobody who says that |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 11
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Binhalab made a good point a few years back |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 4
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so did SoWhat |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 6
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Yeah, that sounds like the argument SoWhat would make. |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 25
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the 2nd part of that was beat them again. |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 8
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Looks like I missed your intent then |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 12
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Whats terrible is that the way you mis-interpreted his point is |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 28
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ill do whatever i deem necessary to raise these kids |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 7
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damn right n/m |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 13
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I got my ass whupped. Now I realize that its just lazy parenting. |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 14
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I agree with you. |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 16
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Smh at Little nights needing a 30 minute convo on why it’s wrong |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 19
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What you are describing is lecturing. I hate lecturing and think that's... |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 21
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No, I said convo.. that means there is a back and forth. |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 22
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"talking" to a child for 30 minutes about why they are wrong sounds like |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 24
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I see why it doesn’t work |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 26
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so don't lecture & don't spank |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 31
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Right? How can you possibly raise a kid without doing either? LOLOL. |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 35
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you think the Obama girls've never been slapped?! |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 51
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I am highly doubtful that the Obamas have ever slapped their children. |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 55
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Why? Because they are famous and successful? |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 63
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Don’t raise your voice either. |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 39
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You gon' learn Tre'.... |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 43
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RE: Now I realize that its just lazy parenting.-this, 100% |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 34
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oh, now you callin my mama LAZY? |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 50
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RE: oh, now you callin my mama LAZY? |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 71
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RE: oh, now you callin my mama LAZY? |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 73
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Plenty of non spanked folks who struggle with jobs and housing |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 83
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I never said non-spanking meant a great life. |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 85
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Spanking doesn't prepare your kids for shit |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 70
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sheeeeeeeiiiiiiitttttt. |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 9
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We are trying the no spanking |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 15
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I got spanked as a kid. I didn’t learn shit from it |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 17
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I didn’t but it’s because my older sisters did |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 18
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Time out can't be the only tool in the toolbox either I think |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 20
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the people who say spanking made them who they are |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 23
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Where you spanked? |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 27
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just saying what? |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 29
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the problem with spanking is |
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Nov 12th 2018 | 30
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The evidence is always, "I turned out fine". |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 36
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meh |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 32
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Define ‘defiance’ |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 33
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I tell you not to hit your baby brother and you look at me |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 42
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How you going to do posts about how much trouble you have molding |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 37
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This ain’t cool bruh |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 38
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How you trying to do the best AND be dismissive of what the AAP |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 40
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Studies don’t raise kids.. parents do |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 41
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All you got is "shit gets real in the battlefield". Ok. |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 44
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No. I typed more than that but you are doing a great job ignoring shit |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 61
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What the fuck "the struggle" have to do with beating your kids? |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 66
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all these teachable moments are on some Cosby Show tv set |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 74
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My dude, there is a difference between me saying I resort to spanking |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 91
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that's an extreme example. |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 45
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There are ways to exert your authority without spanking!!!! I have my |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 46
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Man the first time I put that scary face and voice on and saw my kids |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 54
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That's just it though...what happens after 3?? What's the driver behind ... |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 57
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Yeah you're right about everything and I really don't like getting to th... |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 90
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Felt. Wasn't coming at you BTW...just relating and the question was |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 92
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SoWhat smiled.... |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 47
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SoWhat wept |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 48
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yeah, at some of these replies. but he smiled at the study. |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 49
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Indeed, indeed... |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 60
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I didn't get spanked....I got BEAT & WHUPPED though..... |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 52
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Man my soul cries these days when I see the parents cussing at their |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 53
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Yeah the cursing too...yelling...though, i'm guilty of yelling...but I d... |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 56
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When I got to repeat the same command 5 times to get my boy with AD/HD |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 58
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RE: Man my soul cries these days when I see the parents cussing at their |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 59
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Spanking (corporal punishment)... |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 62
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Thinking of the post of the kids fighting with/punching their teachers |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 64
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Now a teacher throwing blows with a kid that squares up with you. |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 65
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right. |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 67
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Sorry what? |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 79
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Nah. They will grow up thinking spanking is ok or not ok |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 82
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I don't do it myself, with the most rare of exceptions |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 68
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I'm always reluctant to get into these convos |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 72
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Good post |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 75
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My daughters are the ones who get it faster |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 77
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yeah this is all bs. |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 76
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This is what I meant by super emotional |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 78
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where's the emotion? |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 87
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Calling someone's approach BS is emotional |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 95
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I don't think you know what emotion is. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 168
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I very well know what it is...apparently you don't |
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Nov 15th 2018 | 172
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Folks without kids have all the answers |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 93
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lollllllll |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 169
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Folks will justify their behaviors to the grave |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 84
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mans created a whole system out of nothing |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 88
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As opposed to no reason for actions? |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 96
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As opposed to, considering the costs of getting desired results |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 98
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Those 'costs' are speculative at best |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 104
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I’m not reading all that, they’re clearly quantifiable |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 105
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Bruh, how you go in and then refuse to read the response? Lmao |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 111
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Because I didn’t go in. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 113
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Right on. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 116
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People FAIRLY hyperventilate on being told how to raise their kids |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 107
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Seems you're more interested in judgement than discussion |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 110
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I don’t care what you do with your kids or your reasons why |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 115
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Yet, here you and post #84 are |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 121
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I’m judging YOU in those posts |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 124
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Alright Meat, I see you've tapped out so I'll let you rock with this; |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 130
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“Folks will justify their behaviors to their graves” (c) me |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 131
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"Judging me when you are nobody to do so" (c) you |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 137
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Guess I’ll need to be spanked to get the message |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 144
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The spanking is over already |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 151
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OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH!!!!!!! |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 158
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FATALITY!!! |
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Nov 15th 2018 | 174
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right. that's why you use this system on people who are big enough |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 171
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Lol...this is easy |
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Nov 15th 2018 | 173
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Damn bruh, you fathering these dudes up in here. |
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Nov 15th 2018 | 175
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I'm not being emotional when I ask...You take a RULER to your kids? |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 80
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Maybe you are thinking T square |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 81
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lolol |
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Nov 13th 2018 | 86
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lmao |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 94
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To tell me what's not ok in MY house is emotional |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 97
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Yeah, no I can't imagine doing that to my daughter |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 89
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And I'm not asking you to do so |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 99
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Alot of words to say you do it as a last resort. Got that the first time... |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 101
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Well said. Did you mean to say "weren't" here though? |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 103
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I did. Thanks for catching that. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 112
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RE: Alot of words to say you do it as a last resort. Got that the first ... |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 108
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Acknowledging corporal punishment has origins in slavery isn't |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 109
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I didn't want to really go there too deep because I have heard it but do... |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 118
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No, thank YOU. I'm glad you did because now I'm not the only one lol |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 143
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Let me say this |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 120
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I hear ya. Even though we differ in opinion. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 142
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One of the things I've learned in my lifetime is |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 148
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America is violent. |
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Nov 15th 2018 | 176
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Several people here, including yourself, said you Need to beat your kids... |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 117
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Buddy, I appreciate your candor on this |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 127
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Anecdotal evidence doesn't overturn this study, fwiw. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 129
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Thanks Frank, I appreciate your approach |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 134
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do what you have to do player. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 165
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I'm of the opinion corporal punishment is a product of slavery, so good... |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 100
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What's wrong with I got spanked and turned out fine? |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 106
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Define "fine" |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 119
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Discipline instilled early and consequences for actions |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 132
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What you describe is only a slither of what constitutes being "fine" |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 136
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This is limited though |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 140
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RE: This is limited though |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 146
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One problem is that there are a lot of fcuked up people talking about |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 122
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We are all fucked up in some way.. it has nothing to do with spanking |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 125
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i can confidently say that a good portion of my fckedupness is |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 128
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agreed |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 135
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Doctors and lawyers up in here blaming spanking for their terrible lives |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 123
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Those two industries have the highest rates of substance abuse by profes... |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 126
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And that has to do with spanking and not the high stress and stakes |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 141
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Do you have a wrong conclusion dart board? Jesus Christ |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 145
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Wow...let me correct this for you since you struggle with convo |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 149
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Oh we taking personal shots now? |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 152
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so you really think if you hadn't got slapped |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 133
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People really don’t get this ‘round here... |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 138
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sorta in this line...I know I needed certain beatings cuz I was |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 139
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Man don't "I needed to be Beaten" sound like some sunken place... |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 154
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cant say that it does..I'm a firm believer that not enough people |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 157
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LOL. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 163
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no doubt... I can dig it...I'm not pro beating or anti timeout |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 166
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There are no other ways to show how serious the situation is? |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 150
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The penitentiary is packed with folks who got spanked and whupped |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 167
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it's the most bizarre argument of all time |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 170
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this is one of those topics we really shouldn't even bother with here. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 147
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maybe. maybe not. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 153
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valid point |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 159
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isnt that every topic at this point in our old lives? |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 155
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eh, not necessarily. but i see your point. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 161
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i think it's worthwhile for a couple of reasons |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 156
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but people are doing that in this post right now. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 160
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feel like the balance has shifted a bit at least. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 162
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I can't front, an okp post might have started me down this path. |
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Nov 14th 2018 | 164
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I wonder if a survey was done in prisons asking how many were |
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Nov 16th 2018 | 177
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Spanking and beatings are 2 different things |
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Nov 16th 2018 | 178
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Within this link thegodcam provided: |
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Nov 16th 2018 | 179
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apparently spanking doesn't teach you how to read statistics |
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Nov 16th 2018 | 181
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Anyone out here really think this is part to f a healthy child |
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Dec 09th 2018 | 182
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cmon ..nobody does |
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Dec 09th 2018 | 183
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You really passing this off as a spanking? |
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Dec 09th 2018 | 184
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Even if you wouldn't classify that level of violence as spanking |
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Dec 09th 2018 | 185
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