legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80055 posts
Tue Jul-10-18 08:11 AM
60. "no, lets keep it real... YOU are/were more important" In response to In response to 56 Tue Jul-10-18 08:13 AM by legsdiamond
not the child's safety.
This isn't about a child, it's about your insecurities and falling for the okey doke because the "news" told you to be a "mama bear" which means you were overbearing and condescending for the first 3 years of your child's life.
This means for 3 years you chipped away at dude by claiming he wasn't trust worthy enough to watch HIS kid even though you trusted him enough to make a child with him.
Sucks for any father who wants to be responsible and present to have to deal with a mother who can't get out of her own way and is constantly swiping at him anytime he wants to spend time alone to bond with HIS child.
You made it about you.
You created a hill for your relationship to die on because your pride was stronger than your love.
You said it yourself. That is a shame
and now you are bitter
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*