kid: Excuse me Mrs. so and so, you put down pads but you weren't specific, heavy flow, low flow, pad or tampon, plastic or card board applicator because they say.. yes man, I'll shut up now"
aight fella's we good
only problem is when a woman tells her man "pads" and doesn't specify.
So many options
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*