to file "AT FAULT" because PA is an at fault state. She said, go ahead, you can't prove anything. In PA you have to prove penetration and you can't prove that." Man, I wanted to slap the shit out of her when she said that.

All this shit went down about a month after her coming out to me. She apparently took my acceptance as a pass to act like an irresponsible college kid. She went out with one girl until 3am on a school night. The following Saturday night she didn't come back until past 5am. We had it out big time and she eventually apologized and has since stopped with the bs. She does, however, have a long distance gf (of course she claims she's just a friend though) who she spends entirely too much time on the phone with. My son complained about it to me today.

To answer your Q about custody. It's going to be 50/50. At the end of the day, she's still a good mother to our kids. She's super organized, hard-working, and I have no worries that she would do anything dumb with them. I wish she would be more patient with them, but overall she's good to them.