22. "RE: Talk Me Off the Ledge: Divorce and Kids. " In response to In response to 0
My heart goes out to you. As someone who is also getting divorced after 12 years I think I can relate to where you are. It is challenging to make sense of things for yourself and you want to have it all figured out to make sure your kids are secure.
My little one was 8 and my eldest 16 when I moved out. They were both crushed and it was awkward for 5-6 months. I still remember my little one crying hysterically when I told her I was moving, but I spent a ton of time with them. We watch TV, hung out and I would text and message them how much I loved them. It sounds simple but kids will adjust and they have tendency to focus on the good and ignore the bad, and we as parents do the opposite.
I wish you peace, and you will find it. The will fade from your kids minds and they will figure it out with you. I am here if you want to talk because Lord knows how crazy this experience is.