I mean, who am I to talk I've never divorced anyone.

What I should say is FROM WHAT I UNDERSTAND you're doing the right thing - being the biggest man you can, doing everything for the kids, etc.

I am curious about one thing. Have you ever had any discussions about same sex relationships with your kids? I understand they are very young, but I'm just wondering what you two have planned assuming your ex wife ends up in a long term relationship with a woman (assuming that happens) with the potential of that other woman being in her home on a frequent or permanent basis.

Good luck man. Seems like you have the best grasp on it that you possibly can have. I'm sorry that you have to deal with this though.