I think worrying or wondering if someone is going to fuck up a big event is different than your day to day worrying or lack thereof.
When the Million Man March came up we wondered if some duck shit was going to happen. It didn’t stop us from going but it definitely crossed our minds because it’s America.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*